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Sunday, August 21, 2016

Justifying a Callous Action

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Often, relationships can be complicated and made complex by circumstances surrounding the events before and during the buildup of love. As strangers, a couple could develop their feelings into something deeper and eventually believe that they are made for each other. With this belief, they plunge into committing their lives to each one according to law and religion. However, feelings can be deceptive, especially if a couple has not really taken time to know each other deeply.

In the case of Female Discovery (FD) and Unsure Talent (UT), loving each other was witnessed by the public. As both started their careers as single individuals, matching FD and UT seemed to be a good idea to boost the ratings of and widen the interest in the show where they were both starting out. Her bubbly personality matched his demeanor. Soon, both were teased by their peers and the network played along. They were given projects together and their professional partnership was promoted. The audience loved their partnership and wanted them together forever. As time passed, they admitted they had feelings for each other and they were ready to pursue their future. At this point, kibitzers felt that everything was fast and that FD and UT may have just been pressured.

Nonetheless, to show sincerity, FD and UT committed to each other formally, which was, of course, covered by the network. Thus, privacy was nil because the couple were undoubtedly already public figures. Yet, there was a major reason that added to the pressure to get hitch, and that was their coming baby. Given the conservative image that the station would want the couple to have, both had to marry or else risk the end of their careers.

After the baby was born, both resumed their careers, but FD had more projects because the audience loved her and she was a natural in front of the camera. While UT had his projects, he did not, unfortunately, really stand out among his peers. Still, the network was kind and he was given work. With both secure in work and with their happy family, everything seemed fine.

However, everything was crumbling. Their image was turning out to be a sham. Beneath the happy family image was the alleged ugly head of jealousy. Thus, in a matter of weeks, their relationship ended and a long litany of reasoning was presented to the public. While FD expressed her wanting to fight for her right, UT seemed adamant to break apart their marriage. It was over, period. No longer did UT think of the effect of his decision on his career, as he allegedly only wanted to get out. He was tired, and sadly, he did not want to be with FD anymore. According to the grapevine, the jealousy issue was merely a form of justification for the feeling of not wanting to pursue a forever with FD anymore. Instead of being unhappy, UT opted out. Now, time will tell if FD would be able to let go.

'It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.' - e.e. cummings

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42 comments:

  1. Oh wow, this is just sad... it's M & J 😢

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  2. J and M. Super easy! Next pls.

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  3. M at J. Sure na!! Hehehe

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  4. ehh... FD =M UT= J both KaF

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  5. OA naman kasi tong si J. kayod kalabaw na nga si M eh.

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    1. Kapag ayaw na, ayaw na talaga. He just wants out. That's what happens when people marry for the wrong reasons. Marry for love, not because you got pregnant. At least nakilaghiwalay si J. Yung Ibang lalaki dyan, magcheat na Lang sa wife nila using their wife's own hard-earned money. M will find someone who will love her if she just lets go.

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  6. Kawawa naman si FD.

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  7. FD- M
    UT- J
    guess lang.

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  8. Alam na this. M and J

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  9. M J

    Hope M gets over this as she deserves better. J is a douche bag, and hopefully, he won't find anybody else again. The way J embarrassed M should serve as a warning to whoever would think J is a good catch or worth having an affair with.

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  10. FD - M
    UT - J
    Be strong M. Mas bobongga career mo!

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  11. M & J. this is sad. I hope they can still patch things up. :(

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    1. Huwag ipilit kung ayaw na ng guy, lalong kawawa lang si m kasi tatratuhin syang parang basahan ni j. Di bale m bongga naman career mo, pabayaan mo sya..loser yan!

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    2. true that @3:14
      M deserves better.

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  12. Fd - m
    Ut - j
    Be strong M. Bobongga ang career mo lalo. Totoo

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  13. Ay si J. While M was trying to fix their union, nagmamatigas si boy. Truly siguro napasubo siya at na realized niya wala pala wala talaga. Sorry, yun ang effect ng matching matching-an, napapa uto kung minsan.

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  14. M & J for sure!!! J is worthless! He doesn't deserve M.

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  15. J and M (kaf both)

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  16. FD-M UT-J from Kaf

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  17. This is J and M. Somehow I feel bad for both of them. Mahirap pag ipinipilit.

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  18. Both ka-F, FD - M, UT - J

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  19. Ok na mghiwalay if isa or both wala na talaga feelings for the other. Pero si UT should be a man to admit his true reasons.

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  20. Sad. Pag gusto may paraan pag ayaw my dahilan. Msakit tlg sa umpisa esp my anak sila pero mahirap ipilit ang sarili pag ayaw na sayo ng partner mo. One day magising ka M na ayaw mo na rin ky J.

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  21. J- d*bag. Mabilis ang karma.

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  22. i feel for the girl..ang alam ko may iba ng gusto ang boy kaya umayaw na..ang lalaki nga naman! It's ok M lalaki lang yan..kaya mong buhayin ang anak mo at marami pang grasya ang darating sa yo..be strong!

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  23. awww M...hope na maging masaya ka!

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  24. M and J. i knew it. I'd want them separated tho than have the girl trapped in an unhappy marriage. And i bet not a year after they formally separate the guy will be tied to someone else

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    1. hahaha hirit pa more. They are the last couple na naghihiwalay. Huwag mo silang igaya sa mga idols mo na parang underwear kung magpalit ng partner.

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  26. UT- J
    FD- M
    kung talagang selos dahil sa pagmamahal dapat pinaglaban ni UT si FD pero ibang selos yan inggit at insecurity talaga ang umiral kay UT at gusto lang niya makawala dahil feeling niya mas may mahahanap siyang mas maganda at sexy kay FD. sorry to judge you UT. Don't us just others....

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  27. Feel sad for the child.

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  28. Dyan magaling ang KaF, mag-build ng love teams kahit pilit na pilit.

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  29. Is FD J- na dating ka-H and M-na singer din? help me please!

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