mga magulang din kasi nagpapalala... may sumugod sa bahay namin minsan yung nanay ng kapitbahay namin. sabi "pinakain daw ng posporo yung anak nya" ng pamangkin ko even if all the children in our neighborhood are testifying that it's not true... sabi ko, tawagin yung anak nya para marinig namin mismo sa anak nya kung pinakain ba ng posporo. pero ayaw nya naghihysterical lang sya... so tinawag ng kapatid ko yung pamangkin ko at pinag sorry "para wala nang gulo" so yung pamangkin ko na 7 years old was resistant.. "wala naman akong ginawa po dun" and all the children were saying, "wala naman talaga po" pero pinagsorry pa din ng kapatid ko ang pamangkin ko para "wala na lang gulo" kasi may magulang talaga na parang ewan hahahaha Vargas din surname guys hahahahaha
Mabuti yan nang masampulan. Gusto ko tong umabot sa supreme court nang maging landmark decision. Ang mga bullies kasi nakikita nila yan sa pamamahay. They might have witnessed abuse at home.
ang teachers na naman ang gagawing excuse. andami na ngang trabaho ng teachers. may mga rules pa na bawal pagalitan ang mga studyante. ang parents ang dapat managot dyan
Malaki siguro ang donation ng family ng bully. Imagine, hindi sila takot sa tatay ng bata na politician. Napaka squammy ng mama ng bully at ang ugali ng bully. May ganito pala sa mga pang mayaman schools. Kaloka.
Buti ngayon ganyan na, biktima ako ng bullying, mga kapitbahay namin. It started when I 14, mga tinginan na may laman but it got worse ng mag-18 ako. Hindi ako tumatambay sa labas, bahay at school lang buhay ko. College ako at highschool sila, kahit kasama ko nanay ko minumura at binabasa ako ng tubig pinaghugasan ng plato. Hindi ako pinagtatanggol ng nanay ko, palagi nyang sinasabi na kasalanan ko yon. I never interacted with those girls, hindi ko sila mga kaibigan. Dumating sa point na pinagbantaan ako ng tatay nung isang girl kasi pinabarangay ko sila. Walang support from my family walang support sa brgy kasi kaibigan at mga kamaganak nila mga parents. Hanggang magkaanak na kami nakita ko classmate ng anak nya anak ko, ayoko na ng gulo nilipat ko na lang anak ko ng school at never na akong bumalik sa compound namin.
I feel you Councilor Vargas because my 6 years old daughter was bullied by her 8 yrs old male schoolmate three times at private school in Puerto Princesa . Besides, the father of the child cursed ( minura) me during our conversation at school.The father was so arrogant during our conversation because the principal of the school is his godmother.
Aside from that, the mother of the child filed a complaint against me at the barangay and she was forcing me to withdraw my complaint against the child at Makabata Hotline.
Good thing he and his parents apologized to me and my child coz if they didn't I will file a case against them.
My daughter got bullied im HS, to think she was at the top of her batch. The bully was envious of her because she was topping in all subjects. She went out of her way to malign my daughter, and even threatened classmates that whoever talks to my daughter will earm her ire. The whole school year was really traumatic to her, but it did not stopped my daughter from finishing valedictorian
Envy kills. It disrupts goals amd friemdships
People who are bullied need not be derailed of their goals in life. And as parents we cheer them up always. But ibang usapan na pag sinaktan na physically, rambol gusto siguro niya
I hate bullies and will never ever side with them... but the way you also described parang medyo nagyabang ka na po. Baka yan din tinuro mo sa anak mo na akala nya ay tamang paraan eh, parang mapagmataas na sa iba. Ganun kasi karamihan sa mga superior intelligence eh, medyo paranoid na ungosan dahil sa parents na competitive din. Just sharing my pov cz ilang beses ko nang na witness ganitong scenario sa school.
school or work environment that emphasizes intense competition can foster bullying behavior. When the focus is on winning and acquiring limited resources, individuals may resort to aggression, toxicity, and unethical behaviors as a way to gain power and social status.
This is scary as a parent. idont want to be on either side pero I'd rather be the parent of the person being bullied than the parent of a bully because that would mean we've been huge failures at home and as parents. How can parents allow their kids to grow up like that? Only one instance alone where I find out my kid is a bully, I would question my whole identity as a parent and figure out where I went wrong. It always starts at home.
As a parent I taught my kids early on that 1. they have all the love in the world they would ever need (from us, their parents, relatives, and family friends), and 2. they should love themselves enough not to look for love and validation elsewhere. They've been bullied in school but the bullies never got the satisfaction because my kids are not afraid to "lose" friends in school. They know they have more friends among their family (cousins and young titos/titas) and others (those they met outside of school). Most of all, they know that we as thier parents love them with all out hearts even if we discipline them (we don't spoil them rotten). Tinatantanan sila ng bullies kasi they never feel that they're making my kids sad. Di gumagana gaslighting, in fact parang sila pa naga-gaslight kasi iniisip nila kung totoo bang inaasar nila mga anak ko or guni-guni lang nila yun. Lol.
There should be a law that stipulates STERN punishment primarily for the parents AND the school or any institution that tolerates or ignores bullying incidents in their premises. Para sa level pa lang nila iaddress na agad nila dahil matatakot silang ma-penalize.
I will side with the Vargas' fight against bullying. But sana walang ganung pictorial. Kahit sabihing candid pa yan pero obvious na pinag handaan tlaga.
Naniwala na din ako sa mga commenters dito about celebrities wearing white everytime they file a case, or caught on something, to gain sympathy.
Ang cringe ng all white at stage na photo op.di kelangan ng drama na ganito para makasuhan.mga pinoy talaga ang hilig sa kadramahan Kaya mga Anak either bully or nabubully kse magulang napaka arte din.sana naman natural lang na galit at Hindi mala Movie poster ang drama.
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Nice move.dapat masampulan ang mga magulang na takot disiplinahin mga Anak.
ReplyDeleteNaku maraming woke ang magagalit diyan kasi hindi daw dapat pinapagalitan at dinidisiplina ang mga bata makakasama raw sa mental health ng mga bata.
DeleteI SUPPORT THE VARGASES!
DeleteGrabe, yung pambubully sa anak nila. May sexual harassment pa!
I also fully support the Vargases. The mother of that bully should be punished. Those friends 9fvthe bully should also be punished.
Deletemga magulang din kasi nagpapalala... may sumugod sa bahay namin minsan yung nanay ng kapitbahay namin. sabi "pinakain daw ng posporo yung anak nya" ng pamangkin ko even if all the children in our neighborhood are testifying that it's not true... sabi ko, tawagin yung anak nya para marinig namin mismo sa anak nya kung pinakain ba ng posporo. pero ayaw nya naghihysterical lang sya... so tinawag ng kapatid ko yung pamangkin ko at pinag sorry "para wala nang gulo" so yung pamangkin ko na 7 years old was resistant.. "wala naman akong ginawa po dun" and all the children were saying, "wala naman talaga po" pero pinagsorry pa din ng kapatid ko ang pamangkin ko para "wala na lang gulo" kasi may magulang talaga na parang ewan hahahaha Vargas din surname guys hahahahaha
DeleteMabuti yan nang masampulan. Gusto ko tong umabot sa supreme court nang maging landmark decision. Ang mga bullies kasi nakikita nila yan sa pamamahay. They might have witnessed abuse at home.
ReplyDeleteAng cringe lang ng photo na nagyayakapan at umiiyak.
Delete1025 un din sasabihin ko. bkit parang may pa poster ng new movie hehehehe
Delete10:25 it shows how bitter you are with such a simple photo. Ew
DeleteYes kailangan naka white!
ReplyDeleteAt may post na aping api..
DeletePero dito sa distrcit nya saQC wala naman yan ginawa masyado..
That’s your take?
DeleteJusko ano ba dapat kulay? Neon pink?
DeleteYes. Strategy yan pang goody goody. Looks at maris before naka white long sleeves at naka glasses pa. 🤣 After nun hubadera na uli.
DeleteYan lang ang pinansin mo sa article na toh?? Ang kitid mo naman.
Delete9:51 gusto mo naka red or purple. Or are you a bully too?
DeleteHow about the school? Are they being made liable as well?
ReplyDelete1003, yeah, they should include the school as well, even instructor/s handling the lessons.
DeleteTHIS THIS THISSSSSSSSSSSS! standing ovation dyan teh
DeleteNot school. Swim club
DeleteSame question. What measures does the school have to prevent bullying
Deleteactivity na yan outside the school.
Deleteang teachers na naman ang gagawing excuse. andami na ngang trabaho ng teachers. may mga rules pa na bawal pagalitan ang mga studyante. ang parents ang dapat managot dyan
DeleteDapat ganyan kasi ang daming spoiled brat na bata ngayon
ReplyDeleteBlame those idiotic parents who tolerate such behavior.
DeleteSadly it's also the shows that children watch. Bullying masquerading as comedy minsan.
ReplyDeleteThis is so true! It's being normalized in children's shows.
DeleteMalaki siguro ang donation ng family ng bully. Imagine, hindi sila takot sa tatay ng bata na politician. Napaka squammy ng mama ng bully at ang ugali ng bully. May ganito pala sa mga pang mayaman schools. Kaloka.
ReplyDeleteBaka nakapangasawa lang ng mayamang Afam.. eme
DeleteNot school. It's their son's swim club
DeleteThe mother of the bully is obviously not well educated.
DeleteHope justice will be served to set an example to all bullies out there.
ReplyDeleteGood. Something must be done na talaga about bullying.
ReplyDeleteI enroll nyo din ang anal nyo sa martial arts classes para maka laban
ReplyDelete*ANAK SORRY
DeleteButi ngayon ganyan na, biktima ako ng bullying, mga kapitbahay namin. It started when I 14, mga tinginan na may laman but it got worse ng mag-18 ako. Hindi ako tumatambay sa labas, bahay at school lang buhay ko. College ako at highschool sila, kahit kasama ko nanay ko minumura at binabasa ako ng tubig pinaghugasan ng plato. Hindi ako pinagtatanggol ng nanay ko, palagi nyang sinasabi na kasalanan ko yon. I never interacted with those girls, hindi ko sila mga kaibigan. Dumating sa point na pinagbantaan ako ng tatay nung isang girl kasi pinabarangay ko sila. Walang support from my family walang support sa brgy kasi kaibigan at mga kamaganak nila mga parents. Hanggang magkaanak na kami nakita ko classmate ng anak nya anak ko, ayoko na ng gulo nilipat ko na lang anak ko ng school at never na akong bumalik sa compound namin.
ReplyDeleteI feel you Councilor Vargas because my 6 years old daughter was bullied by her 8 yrs old male schoolmate three times at private school in Puerto Princesa . Besides, the father of the child cursed ( minura) me during our conversation at school.The father was so arrogant during our conversation because the principal of the school is his godmother.
ReplyDeleteAside from that, the mother of the child filed a complaint against me at the barangay and she was forcing me to withdraw my complaint against the child at Makabata Hotline.
Good thing he and his parents apologized to me and my child coz if they didn't I will file a case against them.
Good! Hopefully this is the end of it!
ReplyDeleteDami bully sa school mga anak ng kunsintidor n magulang
ReplyDeleteMy daughter got bullied im HS, to think she was at the top of her batch. The bully was envious of her because she was topping in all subjects. She went out of her way to malign my daughter, and even threatened classmates that whoever talks to my daughter will earm her ire. The whole school year was really traumatic to her, but it did not stopped my daughter from finishing valedictorian
ReplyDeleteEnvy kills. It disrupts goals amd friemdships
People who are bullied need not be derailed of their goals in life. And as parents we cheer them up always. But ibang usapan na pag sinaktan na physically, rambol gusto siguro niya
I hate bullies and will never ever side with them... but the way you also described parang medyo nagyabang ka na po. Baka yan din tinuro mo sa anak mo na akala nya ay tamang paraan eh, parang mapagmataas na sa iba. Ganun kasi karamihan sa mga superior intelligence eh, medyo paranoid na ungosan dahil sa parents na competitive din. Just sharing my pov cz ilang beses ko nang na witness ganitong scenario sa school.
DeleteTotal bully kung lahat ng classmates gusto i-hate din yun kalaban sa klase
DeleteSABI NI AI:
Deleteschool or work environment that emphasizes intense competition can foster bullying behavior. When the focus is on winning and acquiring limited resources, individuals may resort to aggression, toxicity, and unethical behaviors as a way to gain power and social status.
Has the school or coach been informed of this? I think they should also be liable.
ReplyDeleteAnd the school.did nothing
ReplyDeleteThis is scary as a parent. idont want to be on either side pero I'd rather be the parent of the person being bullied than the parent of a bully because that would mean we've been huge failures at home and as parents. How can parents allow their kids to grow up like that? Only one instance alone where I find out my kid is a bully, I would question my whole identity as a parent and figure out where I went wrong. It always starts at home.
ReplyDeleteAs a parent I taught my kids early on that 1. they have all the love in the world they would ever need (from us, their parents, relatives, and family friends), and 2. they should love themselves enough not to look for love and validation elsewhere. They've been bullied in school but the bullies never got the satisfaction because my kids are not afraid to "lose" friends in school. They know they have more friends among their family (cousins and young titos/titas) and others (those they met outside of school). Most of all, they know that we as thier parents love them with all out hearts even if we discipline them (we don't spoil them rotten). Tinatantanan sila ng bullies kasi they never feel that they're making my kids sad. Di gumagana gaslighting, in fact parang sila pa naga-gaslight kasi iniisip nila kung totoo bang inaasar nila mga anak ko or guni-guni lang nila yun. Lol.
DeleteThere should be a law that stipulates STERN punishment primarily for the parents AND the school or any institution that tolerates or ignores bullying incidents in their premises. Para sa level pa lang nila iaddress na agad nila dahil matatakot silang ma-penalize.
ReplyDeleteThis should happen more often. Bullying should not be ignored. If legal action is what it takes para matauhan mga tao, then 100% go do it.
ReplyDeleteI got and I feel you esp for the child.. pero why naman ganyan picture nyo ang cringe parang movie pictorial 😁✌🏻
ReplyDeleteI will side with the Vargas' fight against bullying. But sana walang ganung pictorial. Kahit sabihing candid pa yan pero obvious na pinag handaan tlaga.
ReplyDeleteNaniwala na din ako sa mga commenters dito about celebrities wearing white everytime they file a case, or caught on something, to gain sympathy.
Need ba talaga parang balisang balisa sa picture?
ReplyDeleteAng cringe ng all white at stage na photo op.di kelangan ng drama na ganito para makasuhan.mga pinoy talaga ang hilig sa kadramahan Kaya mga Anak either bully or nabubully kse magulang napaka arte din.sana naman natural lang na galit at Hindi mala
ReplyDeleteMovie poster ang drama.
👍👍👍 Right advocacy for your bullied son and to the other bully victims.
ReplyDeleteTama yan. Kaya bully ang anak eh.
ReplyDelete