Basta sigurado ako na ayaw niya ang bungaggera na parang machine gun ang bibig. ๐๐คฃ He has been consistent in saying it several times in different interviews
Saan ka galing? sino ang kasama? bakit ngayon ka lang? Ano oras na? bakit hindi ka nagtext back? Hindi mo na ako mahal, no? May iba ka na? Iwanan mo na? Ang sakit nga sa ulo. ๐คญ๐๐
Wag naman sana to the point na mag aasawa siya sa taong di niya mahal for the sake of may kasama lang. Yung pipilitin lang. Kawawa yung magiging partner. Silang dalawa actually
yun naman talaga solusyon sa problema nya... manligaw sya at pakasalan nya... wala akong masama ibig sabihin... hahahaha tsaka yung mga ganyang lalake they don't understand that marriage is a deliberate decision... it is not a result of daydreaming.... make it happen... the courtship, the proposal, the wedding, the married life, the parenthood... decide and make it happen... yan ang mindset ng emotionally healthy men... they take action... they don't cry on national tv needing validation... babae lang ganyan mag isip kay alden.. hahaha AR is a red flag
11:52 pang babae yang thinking mo.... mature men decide, they take action, the make things happen.... little boy pa si AR.. although i love him kasi love sya ni mama mary obviously .... men don't rely on feelings.... they are logical creatures... kusang mararamdaman ka dyan? matutulad ka sa majority of women na waiting in vain... at the mercy of their boyfriends kung kelan magpo propose...
Richards Gomez nag-propose lang bigla kay Lucy Torres. Maganda ang love story ni Richards at Lucy....as per Lucy Torres, she prayed to God to give him a responsible husband like his dad. And God answered her prayers, at binigay niya mismo si Richards kay Lucy.
Oyo Boy Sotto nag-propose bigla kay Kristine Hermosa. They were friends but not couple. They both attended a Bible study group.
8:45 am, he is not a boy. He is a responsible man who prioritize helping his family first before himself. He built a house for his family and bought a large farmland. He paid the tuition fee of his younger sister and she was able to finish college.
Now, he is building his own house. He goes back to school. And has businesses. That's being matured and responsible adult.
some take action, propose and get married, kahit wala pang stable job or walang sarili bahay. Saan naman kayo titira ng asawa mo?
minsan kasi you have everything pero palaging may kulang. Pantay talaga si Lord di pwede makuha lahat. Ang iba mahirap pero sagana sa love, ang iba naman rich pero nagiisa.. hay buhay
May mga government agencies and private institutions ang nag-offer ng scholarship, learn to ask. So that he can take this responsibility off his shoulders and will give him more time on other things
Was poor before but was able to finish college and started working immediately. Was able to help my family and sibs brought all of them abroad now I can say that they are all good. Lately na realized ko matanda na pala ako, maybe old enough to have kids kahit gustong gusto ko pang gawin parang hindi na yata dapat o tama. Feel you Alden, pero ikaw pwede kapang mag anak man lang kasi medyo bata ka pa naman. Pero xempre the decision is yours to make. Personal experience ko lang is mas ok pala mag anak kapag medyo bata ka pa. Pero xempre iba iba ang pinanggagalingan ng bawat tao. Personally kung maibabalik ko lang ang panahon, sana nung 28 o max 30 nag anak na ako.
At some point naging breadwinner rin ako ng pamilya ko. Noong nakaalis at nakapunta ako sa Amerika para magtrabaho, nagpapadala ako ng pera. Umabot ako sa time na nahihirapan ako dahil 2 ng kapatid ko at mama ko nag-ask ng money, at some of my friends ask for money for donations and I have to pay my debts, umabot sa time na overwhelmed ako. Naiitidihan ko talaga ang mga breadwinner.
and that's why bad boys are attractive noh? they make things happen... they move fast, they give you life experiences... etong mga katulad ni AR, daydreaming eh.... manligaw sya, mag propose... ganun ang solusyon dyan .. lalake sya... it's his job to make things happen... pang babae yang mindset nya hahaha
8:38 pm, that's why bad boy is exciting because they will give you a rollercoaster of head ache and heart ache of you life. Sometimes you just lucky to be single.
1256..Mataas nga comprehension kaya they are critical thinkers,they know how to read between the lines and are direct ,then simple-minded people like you call that insensitive..Bawal talaga mag sabi ng totoo sa mga taong naive.
Pakulo yan sus...guests can choose the questions beforehand..They even give strict guidelines anong bawal itanong ..In this case, this guy has a pattern of always appearing like a victim of I do not know what..imbes mag exude ng gratitude vibe parang palaging may gustong imply na drama na ka awa awa sya ..kahit ako man ang babae kung ganyan ang boring at OA, ma drama ang kasama ko, good bye..Di bale na di ganun ka gwapo o yaman o popular, masaya naman at exciting kasama at mach ang dating GO!
3:28 pm, the money that he lost before na almost 100 million. I believe he was victim. Kaya Alden, it's okay to file lawsuit. Gayahin mo si Kim Chiu. Wag sobrang mabait na naaubuso ka na. You need justice too. Even God sets boundaries.
Pa-victim pala sa iyo ang mga taong may depression? Eh, anuman sa iyo kung nag-share siya ng depression? Im clinically diagnosed with depression and anxiety at hindi siya madali. Kahit nagtra-trabaho ako sa America as caretaker ng mga Americano na may edad na, mahirap siya.
Don't reduce or minimize other people's sufferings as pa-victim Kasi hindi mo sila kilala.
Focus on yourself first and your healing. You need to become emotionally mature before you enter into a relationship and finish your studies. Darating na lang iyan.
Kung maka-emote to kala mo iniiwan ng mga babae eh sya naman paasa and mahilig sa promo. He should be authentic sa sarili niya. Kaya sya mag-isa hindi dahil sa inuuna nya yung iba, kundi di nya alam gusto nya. He’s good with words. Too good to be true. Always “marketing” himself as a good guy.
8:50 is spot on. Yan ang hirap pag good boy ang image, you have to please everyone except yourself. Sana maging totoo na lang din sya sa sarili nya. Nakaka TO yung lalaking hindi assertive at andrama sa buhay.
He has a spiritual director and adviser, a Catholic Priest. He goes to confession every month. And he also has some Catholic nuns and catholic sisters who became his friends and they pray for him.
parang si Rico Yan noon na may sariling Spiritual adviser and friend na Catholic Priest.
Nasa kanya naman yun eh. Mas mahirap nga sa part ng mga babae kasi sa kultura natin, normally maghihintay lang talaga ang babae ligawan sila. Pero ang lalaki, they make the move. Lalo sa status nya marami magkakagusto. He should try dating para makilala nya ang babae kaso di nya rin ginagawa.
Malaking disadvantage din in a way ang status nya now. di niya alam if magugustuhan lang siya ng babae because of his fame and wealth. So if he feels these things, let him be. Soon makakahanap din siya ng karapat-dapat for him.
Ilan taon ba si Alden? Bakit hanggang ngayon puro drama pa din sya sa mga interviews? Naging successful kana sa career and you have everything.. pag may pera ka kaya mo na buhayin sarili mo. Hahanap ng makakasama? Anong mahirap sa manligaw ka? O baka gusto mo ikaw ang ligawan? Imposible naman walang magkagusto sayo.
Ano ang paandar diyan eh personal na buhay nya yan? He's always true sa mga interviews niya, that's all him.. tao siya na may fears and insecurities din
I think he wants someone who is like a Maria Clara style na mahilig mag-pray, understanding, very supportive at loyal. Ang nanay at Lola niya madasalin
During early years of his career, ang tatay ni Alden ang huma-harang sa lovelife niya ๐ . Ngayon na okay na family nila financially, ang tatay naman niya ang nag push na mag asawa niya siya at anak. Siguro naghahanap ng apo ang tatay niya ๐
It is up to him naman if tatanda sya mag-isa. It's not like he is unattractive and/or "undesirable". He is a good catch actually. HOWEVER, he needs to be able to stand up to his fans if hindi nagustuhan sino man ang gusto nya. Baka iyon ang cause ng fear nya. Parang he has to please a lot of people kasi and that adds to the pressure for him to be able to find that person na "papasa" sa maraming expectations from sa lahat ng gustong sumawsaw sa relationship. I agree with some of the commenters here - kailangan niya ring magpapakatotoo sa sarili nya in terms of ano ba ang gusto nya para sa sarili nya "outside pressures" be damned. At some point he has to reconcile with himself na if he pursues someone relentlessly and succeeds pwedeng ma-sacrifice ang popularity/celebrity status nya and that is okay kasi ready na sya to have a relationship. Baka kasi ang magustuhan nya hindi makayanan ang pressure ng pagiging popular nya and bashing from people na galit sa kanya or possessive fans nya and mag-hesitate to continue or have a relationship with him. I am a spectator and even I am shocked sa level of being possessive ng mga fans pagdating sa celebrity na gusto nila.
Hugs ๐ค
ReplyDeletevirtual hugs ๐ซฃ
DeleteAno ba ang type ni alden kasi sure na sure ako maraming babae mismo lalapit kay alden, gwapo mayaman successful mabait si alden
ReplyDeleteBasta sigurado ako na ayaw niya ang bungaggera na parang machine gun ang bibig. ๐๐คฃ He has been consistent in saying it several times in different interviews
DeleteSaan ka galing? sino ang kasama? bakit ngayon ka lang? Ano oras na? bakit hindi ka nagtext back? Hindi mo na ako mahal, no? May iba ka na? Iwanan mo na? Ang sakit nga sa ulo. ๐คญ๐๐
Don't rush Alden! you might end up with a wrong person. Take your time but be on a look out.
DeleteKikilatisin muna ng fandom nya yung mga babae tapos pag di pasado sa standards nila, bash malala
Deleteeh di mag-asawa sya? manligaw sya? anong arte yan? labyu Alden! eto talaga ang mahal ni Mama Mary eh!
ReplyDeleteWag naman sana to the point na mag aasawa siya sa taong di niya mahal for the sake of may kasama lang. Yung pipilitin lang. Kawawa yung magiging partner. Silang dalawa actually
DeleteRight timing at right person. Hindi mo pwede idikta na MAG ASAWA KA etc etc.. kusa mong mararamdaman yun kapag nakatagpo ka na ng para sayo
DeleteSus. People are really wondering na kasi. Kaya may mga ganitong drama
Deleteyun naman talaga solusyon sa problema nya... manligaw sya at pakasalan nya... wala akong masama ibig sabihin... hahahaha tsaka yung mga ganyang lalake they don't understand that marriage is a deliberate decision... it is not a result of daydreaming.... make it happen... the courtship, the proposal, the wedding, the married life, the parenthood... decide and make it happen... yan ang mindset ng emotionally healthy men... they take action... they don't cry on national tv needing validation... babae lang ganyan mag isip kay alden.. hahaha AR is a red flag
Delete11:52 pang babae yang thinking mo.... mature men decide, they take action, the make things happen....
Deletelittle boy pa si AR.. although i love him kasi love sya ni mama mary obviously .... men don't rely on feelings.... they are logical creatures... kusang mararamdaman ka dyan? matutulad ka sa majority of women na waiting in vain... at the mercy of their boyfriends kung kelan magpo propose...
8:33 pm, not all men go through courtship.
DeleteRichards Gomez nag-propose lang bigla kay Lucy Torres. Maganda ang love story ni Richards at Lucy....as per Lucy Torres, she prayed to God to give him a responsible husband like his dad. And God answered her prayers, at binigay niya mismo si Richards kay Lucy.
Oyo Boy Sotto nag-propose bigla kay Kristine Hermosa. They were friends but not couple. They both attended a Bible study group.
8:45 am, he is not a boy. He is a responsible man who prioritize helping his family first before himself. He built a house for his family and bought a large farmland. He paid the tuition fee of his younger sister and she was able to finish college.
Now, he is building his own house. He goes back to school. And has businesses. That's being matured and responsible adult.
some take action, propose and get married, kahit wala pang stable job or walang sarili bahay. Saan naman kayo titira ng asawa mo?
minsan kasi you have everything pero palaging may kulang. Pantay talaga si Lord di pwede makuha lahat. Ang iba mahirap pero sagana sa love, ang iba naman rich pero nagiisa.. hay buhay
DeleteDami pala nyang pinapag aral na mga mahihirap na kabataan. Di yan lumalabas sa media. Kaya mo yan Alden.
ReplyDeleteTrue
DeleteMay mga government agencies and private institutions ang nag-offer ng scholarship, learn to ask. So that he can take this responsibility off his shoulders and will give him more time on other things
DeleteWas poor before but was able to finish college and started working immediately. Was able to help my family and sibs brought all of them abroad now I can say that they are all good. Lately na realized ko matanda na pala ako, maybe old enough to have kids kahit gustong gusto ko pang gawin parang hindi na yata dapat o tama. Feel you Alden, pero ikaw pwede kapang mag anak man lang kasi medyo bata ka pa naman. Pero xempre the decision is yours to make. Personal experience ko lang is mas ok pala mag anak kapag medyo bata ka pa. Pero xempre iba iba ang pinanggagalingan ng bawat tao. Personally kung maibabalik ko lang ang panahon, sana nung 28 o max 30 nag anak na ako.
ReplyDeleteAdoption is key.
DeleteAt some point naging breadwinner rin ako ng pamilya ko. Noong nakaalis at nakapunta ako sa Amerika para magtrabaho, nagpapadala ako ng pera. Umabot ako sa time na nahihirapan ako dahil 2 ng kapatid ko at mama ko nag-ask ng money, at some of my friends ask for money for donations and I have to pay my debts, umabot sa time na overwhelmed ako. Naiitidihan ko talaga ang mga breadwinner.
DeleteNag vo volunteer ako sa bahay Ampunan, meron isang room ang daming babies na pinapa ampon, TRY MO LANG mag visit, baka mahanap mo ang the one
DeleteAR is that guy you marry after having fun with many many many bad boys :D :D :D
ReplyDelete1156..Then a lifetime of boring days with a guy like him...Ma drama for a guy
Delete1225 Grabe ha. Ex wife ang peg ha.
DeleteHe's such a crybaby
Deleteand that's why bad boys are attractive noh? they make things happen... they move fast, they give you life experiences... etong mga katulad ni AR, daydreaming eh.... manligaw sya, mag propose... ganun ang solusyon dyan .. lalake sya... it's his job to make things happen... pang babae yang mindset nya hahaha
Delete8:38 pm, that's why bad boy is exciting because they will give you a rollercoaster of head ache and heart ache of you life. Sometimes you just lucky to be single.
DeleteAno na namang pakulo yan alden?
ReplyDeleteWalang pakulo. He was asked so he answered. Simple
DeleteAng insensitive ay kapatid ng low comprehension.
Delete1256..Mataas nga comprehension kaya they are critical thinkers,they know how to read between the lines and are direct ,then simple-minded people like you call that insensitive..Bawal talaga mag sabi ng totoo sa mga taong naive.
DeletePakulo yan sus...guests can choose the questions beforehand..They even give strict guidelines anong bawal itanong ..In this case, this guy has a pattern of always appearing like a victim of I do not know what..imbes mag exude ng gratitude vibe parang palaging may gustong imply na drama na ka awa awa sya ..kahit ako man ang babae kung ganyan ang boring at OA, ma drama ang kasama ko, good bye..Di bale na di ganun ka gwapo o yaman o popular, masaya naman at exciting kasama at mach ang dating GO!
DeleteDi na sila nasanay kay Alden. May kung anong nirereveal pag may ipopromote
Delete3:28 pm, the money that he lost before na almost 100 million. I believe he was victim. Kaya Alden, it's okay to file lawsuit. Gayahin mo si Kim Chiu. Wag sobrang mabait na naaubuso ka na. You need justice too. Even God sets boundaries.
DeletePa-victim pala sa iyo ang mga taong may depression? Eh, anuman sa iyo kung nag-share siya ng depression? Im clinically diagnosed with depression and anxiety at hindi siya madali. Kahit nagtra-trabaho ako sa America as caretaker ng mga Americano na may edad na, mahirap siya.
Don't reduce or minimize other people's sufferings as pa-victim Kasi hindi mo sila kilala.
Pagdating kay Alden, palaging may disconnect ang words at actions. Let's call it echos
ReplyDeleteI call it lazy, dated, uninspired PR tactic which no one's buying
DeleteGrabe hugot. Nabasted siguro to. Mamili ka na lang sa mga obsessed fans mo.
DeleteDon’t worry your Mama Ten will never leave you. Kahit mags-asawa ka, nsndyan si Ten. Lol
ReplyDeleteItaga mo sa bato. Alden will never find a wife in this lifetime.
ReplyDeletegalawang tsismosa lang ..haissst nakakaawa ka. LOL
DeleteIkaw na ang tumaga. Ikaw naka isip eh
DeleteLike kita Alden pero sick & tired of you being a crybaby during interviews. Be a man!
ReplyDeleteReal man cries
DeleteConsistent sya sa pagiging echosero lol
ReplyDeletesayang sila ni Julie o puwede rin si Win. Mga wrong timing lang dumating sa buhay niya
ReplyDeleteWalang wrong timing dyan kung totoo yong feeling. Tanong ko lang, nagka girlfriend na ba sya ever?
Delete@11:10 am, Opo magkaroon na siya ng girlfriend. Classmate niya bago siya mag artista
DeleteIf charot was a person. Lol
ReplyDeleteFocus on yourself first and your healing. You need to become emotionally mature before you enter into a relationship and finish your studies. Darating na lang iyan.
ReplyDeleteAndyan naman mga fan club mo, Alden. Makakasama mo sila pagtanda mo lol
ReplyDeleteKorek! Dun sya humanap ng jowa sa fans club nya. Lahat na lang yata ng ka LT nya inaway ng mga yan except yung mga may jowa na
Delete3:13 pm, kung makapag salita, akala mo naman hindi rin ginagawa ng ibang fandom or fans club.
DeleteNot because ginagawa ng ibang fandom, doesn't make your hanash ng ibang leading ladies nya any better or right.
DeleteKung maka-emote to kala mo iniiwan ng mga babae eh sya naman paasa and mahilig sa promo. He should be authentic sa sarili niya. Kaya sya mag-isa hindi dahil sa inuuna nya yung iba, kundi di nya alam gusto nya. He’s good with words. Too good to be true. Always “marketing” himself as a good guy.
ReplyDeleteNa weweirdohan ako sa kanya tbh
Delete8:50 is spot on. Yan ang hirap pag good boy ang image, you have to please everyone except yourself. Sana maging totoo na lang din sya sa sarili nya. Nakaka TO yung lalaking hindi assertive at andrama sa buhay.
DeleteHe has a spiritual director and adviser, a Catholic Priest. He goes to confession every month. And he also has some Catholic nuns and catholic sisters who became his friends and they pray for him.
Deleteparang si Rico Yan noon na may sariling Spiritual adviser and friend na Catholic Priest.
same - " Kung maka-emote to kala mo iniiwan ng mga babae eh sya naman paasa and mahilig sa promo. "
DeleteNasayo ang sagot Alden make time and find ๐ค
ReplyDeleteNasa kanya naman yun eh. Mas mahirap nga sa part ng mga babae kasi sa kultura natin, normally maghihintay lang talaga ang babae ligawan sila. Pero ang lalaki, they make the move. Lalo sa status nya marami magkakagusto. He should try dating para makilala nya ang babae kaso di nya rin ginagawa.
ReplyDeleteMalaking disadvantage din in a way ang status nya now. di niya alam if magugustuhan lang siya ng babae because of his fame and wealth. So if he feels these things, let him be. Soon makakahanap din siya ng karapat-dapat for him.
DeleteAlden, I feel you. Ilapit mo iyang fear mo kay God. Turn that into a prayer. I hope you find the right one. :)
ReplyDeleteKALOKOHAN.
ReplyDeleteagree.
DeleteIlan taon ba si Alden? Bakit hanggang ngayon puro drama pa din sya sa mga interviews? Naging successful kana sa career and you have everything.. pag may pera ka kaya mo na buhayin sarili mo. Hahanap ng makakasama? Anong mahirap sa manligaw ka? O baka gusto mo ikaw ang ligawan? Imposible naman walang magkagusto sayo.
ReplyDeleteDi pa siguro ubos tickets ng fanmeet kaya may pa promo confession na naman
ReplyDeleteIyan lang ba ang iniisip mo? The money that he will earn in fan meeting, he will use it for caravan charity for Christmas. Ibibigay niya sa mahihirap
DeleteKahit ano pa ang tulong mo sa ibang tao, some people will continue to be a troll and bashers.
So mga fans, kaya pa ba ang mga paandar ng idol nyo?? ๐ ๐
ReplyDeleteAno ang paandar diyan eh personal na buhay nya yan? He's always true sa mga interviews niya, that's all him.. tao siya na may fears and insecurities din
DeleteHindi mo maintindihan kay Alden anong plano nya. Ayaw tumandang mag isa pero ang dami dami jan ayaw naman ligawan.
ReplyDeleteI think he wants someone who is like a Maria Clara style na mahilig mag-pray, understanding, very supportive at loyal. Ang nanay at Lola niya madasalin
DeleteDuring early years of his career, ang tatay ni Alden ang huma-harang sa lovelife niya ๐ . Ngayon na okay na family nila financially, ang tatay naman niya ang nag push na mag asawa niya siya at anak. Siguro naghahanap ng apo ang tatay niya ๐
DeleteIt is up to him naman if tatanda sya mag-isa. It's not like he is unattractive and/or "undesirable". He is a good catch actually. HOWEVER, he needs to be able to stand up to his fans if hindi nagustuhan sino man ang gusto nya. Baka iyon ang cause ng fear nya. Parang he has to please a lot of people kasi and that adds to the pressure for him to be able to find that person na "papasa" sa maraming expectations from sa lahat ng gustong sumawsaw sa relationship. I agree with some of the commenters here - kailangan niya ring magpapakatotoo sa sarili nya in terms of ano ba ang gusto nya para sa sarili nya "outside pressures" be damned. At some point he has to reconcile with himself na if he pursues someone relentlessly and succeeds pwedeng ma-sacrifice ang popularity/celebrity status nya and that is okay kasi ready na sya to have a relationship. Baka kasi ang magustuhan nya hindi makayanan ang pressure ng pagiging popular nya and bashing from people na galit sa kanya or possessive fans nya and mag-hesitate to continue or have a relationship with him. I am a spectator and even I am shocked sa level of being possessive ng mga fans pagdating sa celebrity na gusto nila.
ReplyDeleteGrow up man.
ReplyDelete