Ano ba naman ang babastos na ng tao ngayon. Fake pa-woke, fake sensitive. Ang contribution lang sa mga social issues eh mang-shame ng tao sa social media
Susko, masama ba mag wish na magka baby. Ang importante naiintindihan ni Robi and sinusuportahan nya ang asawa nya. Pinakasalan nya nga kahit dumadaan na sa pagsunok asawa nya.
Hindi guarantee yang pinakasalan kahit dumadaan sa pagsubok. Only time can tell. Pag yan napagod pero mahal pa rin nya yung asawa nya, mabigyan man sya ng anak o hindi, balikan natin tong post nya na to.
Robi loves his wife despite her condition.. He knows they might not have a baby, it was just his wish if it can happen, hindi nya pressure wife nya. Lets be open minded, we all know mahal na mahal ni Robi asawa nya, he just wants to have a baby if ibibigay , kung hindi he is fine with it
Yes, this should only be a matter discussed between husband and wife. It's too egotistical for a man to express himself ahead, as if telling everyone that him having no child at his age is not his fault.
No. he is pressuring his wife. Alam nga kundisyon ng wife nya and does he know how painful it wud be for the wife marinig yan? Kung asawa ko pa yan, he won't risk my life over a baby. We were blessed with two but had a time conceiving the forst one. Sarap din kotongan nitong si robi. Padami ba ng views yan?
9:32 masyado lang kayo sensitive lahat na lang ng sasabihin ng artista may kulay para sa inyo balat sibuyas. So mas ok na mute and deaf nalang lahat kung bawal magbigay ng opinion or wish. nagpakatotoo lang yung tao di naman sinabing pilitan.
Okay na yung isang post lang maiqui. Wag masyadong umeffort sa mga mema. Aksaya lang sila sa oras at panahon. Wala naman sila ambag sa buhay nyong mag-asawa.
Cringe nung video ni Robi totoo lang and insensitive indeed. Ano ba purpose nun talaga why he posted it? Pag mga ganyan, sa kapamilya or true friends sya mag share or vent out wag sa public.
It was done in bad taste. Ang sakit marinig na gusto magka anak ng asawa mo pero hindi mo mabigyan. Sila dalawa dapat ang nagdi discuss nyan. Ano mabuti magagawa ng pag air ng sentiments mo in public? Na apoease mo sarili mo?
Akala siguro he’ll gain sympathy pero naging insensitive ang dating. Kahit anong sugarcoat gawin nya, nanaig yung impression na sad sya. Hindi na kailangan malaman ng public ang battles nyong mag asawa. Kahit i deny ng asawa nya, deep down may effect yun sa kanya kasi yung asawa nya may mga wishes pero di mapangyari dahil sa sakit nya.
wag mag judge. kinasal sila despite of and he gave the world to the wife! From engagement to wedding he made her the happiest. Simple wish but not a demanding wish, lets all be matured and open minded
1:58 I understand Robi pero I don’t think that is a simple wish, that is a lifetime wish, yan ang plano niya mula noon, ang magkaroon ng anak. Umiyak pa nga siya kasi may possibilty na hnd yun maibigay ng asawa niya. Masakit yes pero yung gnwa niya prang mas masakit pra sa part ng asawa niya
Yeah. 😔 I get nagve-vent si Robi, pero masakit pa din yun siguro marinig for Maiqui. Sana sa therapist o sa confidant nalang sinabi ni Robi, hindi sa buong mundo.
sana kasi d na nya sinqbi na yung mga wish nya ay para sa kanya tapos biglang sana magkaron na AKO ng anak sana gumaling na sya para masunod na plano KO
Ginawa ko rin yan nun Maiqui. Yung ipagtanggol ang asawa ko sa insensitivity nya towards me with the condition I have. Sadly for my part, it didn't work out. He left me for another. Ang gusto nya kasi magka-anak. Naramdaman ko minahal lang nya ako dahil dun. Beyond that, hindi asawa ang trato nya sa akin. Importante na mahal ka ng asawa mo bilang ikaw, bilang asawa at hindi sa capability mo magprovide ng anak. Bonus na lang kung magkakaanak, lalo na sa condition na binigay sa atin.
Are you sure na squammy kami? Yan idol mo akala mo deep since magaling magsalita. Pero hindi nag iisip, umiiyak sa sitwasyon nila tapos sabay post sa social media account niya.
1:59 eh di ikaw na deep. Hahahaha nababase sa social media o ano pinuput nila out there tapos dahil sa kapiranggot na info eh kilalang kilala mo na sila. Wow expert. Super talino mo. Kakabilib naman!
5:58 kayo ang assuming. Tinawag niyo na agad na squammy yun mga opposed sa ginawa niya. Kami may basis sa pagiging insensitive niya at hindi pagiisip bago mag post.
For meeee, no need to post yung vid ni Robi, sinarili na lang sana niya pero account naman niya yun and mukhang not an issue naman sa wife. So move on na po.
It took me 7 years to get pregnant. Super gusto ko talaga magka-anak. My husband also wanted a child but he would always assure me na although he wants one, it will be perfectly okay if it never happens for us.
I can just imagine how much harder it would have been for me if I had seen my husband suffer like this and wala ako magawa. And then Robi made it public pa… I agree with others na it was an insensitive post.
Of course she will defend him. Parang indirectly gusto niyo humiwalay pero ayaw niya manggaling sa kanya. Kahit yun sa wedding nila, gusto niya i postpone, pero si girl decided na ituloy.
these celebrities should really stop oversharing in their social media accounts. mas maganda talaga dati nung 80s and 90s you know nothing about their personal lives unless reported sa Inday Badiday or read in a magazine.
Nakakatakot na we are living in a world na ang puro lang gustong marinig is sugarcoated statement. Kung anong nararamdaman ni Robi is valid and yan ang totoong nararamdaman nya. Parang ang sama sama mo nang tao for showing your real emotion. Wake up people!
I don't think people are saying hindi valid ang wishes ni Robi and that it's fine feeling that way naman. What I think is medyo off is he had to express that out loud in front of millions of strangers who can definitely draw some opinions about them as a couple. Pwede namang iexpress niya yan with his wife privately, or with a close friend or a therapist.
yes valid yung feelings ni Robi, but I think medyo insensitive din ipakalat mo pa sa lahat ng tao kung ano yung pinag dadaanan nyo mag asawa..yung iba nga galit na galit kapag tanong ng tanong ang family o relatives kung kailan magkaka anak ang isang mag asawa yun pa kayang ikalat mo pa sa lahat ng tao.. yung feeling ng guilt at pressure para sa babae na ngayon alam na ng buong Pilipinas what they’re going through
His feelings are valid but how he expressed it for the whole world to see is not. Many couples experience the same and are going through fertility issues. The feeling of incapacity would be very much triggered. Something that should only be talked about privately. Hindi lahat kailangan i-reels, i-tiktokn i-announce sa madlang people. Have a sense of decency naman and be sensitive of your partner's feelings, regardless of when she/he says it's okay or not.
His feelings are valid. And so are his wife’s. She’s already battling a disease & here comes her husband crying about how he should have kids by now but he can’t cos of his wife and sharing it to the public. As if she’s not suffering enough 😒
Been with my husband for 10 years, I have PCOS and we have not yet conceived a child. Yet, he never told anyone or post in social media that he wants to become a father because I think he knows I would feel more sad. If I were his wife I would really feel bad.
He does not make me feel incomplete because of that. We have our 2 lovely dogs that make us whole. We are still hoping to become parents one day but I know it will come in God's perfect time.
Same boat, married for 8 years, may PCOS din ako. I know naman that my husband and I wish to have a child, pero these are silent prayers between us and God. If I find my husband wishing out loud in public na sana he'll be a dad someday, even if I know this already, it will still break my heart.
Saludo ako sa asawa mo kasi it's almost a given na most couples gusto magkaanak. It's up to the couple how they will protect each other from sensitive topics like this. Dapat hindi nalang tinuloy ni Robi ang kasal kung anak lang ang gusto sa asawa. Pano kung hindi mangyari and it's just him and his wife, iiwanan ba niya ang wife niya
Sa nagsasabing "its just a wish", yes so insensitive nya at nakkaapressure at nakaka sad sa part ng wife. Oo sasabihin nyang no prob yun at napaguusapan nila, pero sa totoo masakit yun na dimo pa mabigyan ng anak ang asawa mo. Yung the fault is yours kaya di kayo mahkaanak eith matching iyak pa. Alam mo na ang health problem ng asawa mo papakita mo pa yung lungkot mo na wala kayo anak .
I know the feeling. Naoperahan ako, inalis na ang uterus and d na magkakaanak also advice na atleast no contact muna. I developed post traumatic syndrome din dahil sa nag 50/50 ako.
Pero ang husband ko may mga times na gusto nya mag Do and tumatanggi ako, masakit sa part ko na aalis sya na inis o galit. Naiisip ko bakit ganun, sinabi naman ng doc yun na wag muna pero parang d nya naintindihan.
Also,,gusto pa nya magkaanak ulet maybe a boy sana since 2 daughters samin. Thru IVF since i cannot conceive na. Sabi din sknya nh doc namin na NO na sana for what ive been thru. Mahirap ang process ng IVF and not naman lagat successful. The pain and trauma ganun.
Sa lahay ng yun, masakit kasi yung condition ko di naiisip ng husband ko. Sabhin man na mag wish o ano, ung knowing na dimo kaya obogay eh iwiwish pa para kang sinasampal ng kakulangan mo.
honestly, same situation kami ng wife ni Robi regarding sa pag baby, iba lang cguro yung health condition namin but I think parehas kami hopeful na magka baby. It hurts sometimes kapag my husband says something ng katulad ng ganyan kasi yung guilt nandun..yung parang he knows na ako yung meron problem kaya hindi kami magka baby but yet he would still say something na “sana mag ka baby na kami” “kailan mo ako bibigyan ng anak” even though he knew kung ano problema. It breaks my heart. Kaya parang feeling ko kahit sabihin ng wife ni Robi na okay lang pinag uusapan namn nila deep inside masakit parin yun sa feelings tapos yung pressure pa na binibigay ng mga words na ganun..
Grabe ang lala ng ibang tao ang kasuka pa mga nagccocoment mga babae. Maysakit yung tao hindi ganon kadali pra sa knya angagbuntis khit gusto nya, sino.ba nman ang mag aasawa tpos ayaw magka anak .
Kung medyo malakas na ang asawa ni Robi baka pwede mag surrogacy nalang. 9 months to carry a baby and with autoimmune parang mahirap baka kailangan niya ng treatment for temporary relief during those 9 months pero makakasama sa baby. Wag sana nila piliin yung kagustohan magkababy at the expense of her health
When he said, my birthday wish is not for myself, it actually is… cause sabi nya, para magawa na mga plano namin, so para sa kanya pa rin yon at mukhang di masaya, sadboi sya pag di natuloy mga plano na yun. Goodluck na lang sainyo.
dami nagmamarunong mas nasaktan pa sila kesa sa asawa hehe pinakasalan ni robi yan na may sakit na alam nya at tangap nya sitwasyon nila ngayon at lahat ng nagaasawa gusto magkababy tingen nyo ayaw magkababy nung asawa ni robi hehe for sure napagkukwrntuhan nila yan
If his wife is comfortable with the idea of having a baby, I think surrogate would be a great option for them kaso nga lang sa ibang bansa lang siya pwede dahil hindi ata legal ang surrogacy sa Pinas. It would take millions though like yung kay Joel Cruz.
Nothing wrong with what Robi said but there are certain things you shouldn’t mention in public, especially when it comes to your married life. Kung ako yung asawa, mahu-hurt ka din talaga kasi parang pinalandakan ng husband mo sa buong mundo na ikaw ang may problema kaya parang may kulang sa buhay niyo as a couple. If it was the other way around and Robi has some dysfunction, I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t want that broadcasted to the world. Medyo off lang talaga pero if sabi ni misis it’s not a big deal eh nasa sa kanila na yun.
Red flag naman tong si Robi kahit noon pa. I remember birthday nya dati sa ASAP tapos may surprise for him and they’re asking him to guess kung sino. Ang sinagot ba naman si Kim Chui raw. E during that time sila na ni Gretchen Ho. Sobrang rude.
tingin ko na pressure si Robi na pakasalan wife nya kasi sigurado dudumugin sya ng basher that time and I think now nagsink in sa kanya na yung dream to build a family medjo tagilid
1:52 I think so too. From what I remember, parang gusto naman talaga ni robi na ipostpone ang wedding pero gusto ng girl na ituloy kasi parang yun nalang ang nilo-look forward niya. Honestly, at that time parang naisip ko rin na medyo selfish si girl na itali yung guy knowing malaking karamdaman ang hinaharap niya. Pero pumayag naman si guy so supposedly natanggap na niya ang kabuuan ng situation.
Pero now na nakita ko ang sinabi ni robi, na off rin ako sa kanya. Offensive in so many levels. Also, kahit walang sakit si girl, di naman guarantee yun na magkaka-anak sila according to their timeline.
Grabe mang judge mga tao dito. Kesyo red flag agad. Di nyo naman kilala yung tao. Minsan ma confuse din tayo sa pinagsasabi natin if maraming iniisip dahil sa mga personal problems. Let's leave them alone. Let's not make conclusion coz of what he said or posted just this once. Alam naman natin how he stood by his wife. Pray nlng natin sila at yung mga people that needs it.
May tinatawag na think before you click. Okay na video mo na sarili mo, ipopost mo ba knowing makakasakit ka ng hindi lang ng asawa mo pero pati mga babaeng nagdadaan din sa ganitong sitwasyon? Hindi excuse ang confusion.
Hindi daw selfish si Robi nang lagay na yan, Sabi ni Robi sa video. Eto, may ugali din talagang itinatago. Review his history, nakaaway nya si Rayver eh ambait nun. Feeling kwela kase tong si kolokoy, di naman nakakatuwa.
Kayo lang naman napepressure para sa wife nya. Wish nila yan pero Robi is aware of the challenges bago sya nagpakasal. He is entitled to say they are having difficulties. Kasi mahirap talaga sitwasyon nila. Not all will sugarcoat things. Sa replies nyo kaya mapepressure na lang tuloy sila lol
wala namn makakaalam ng situation nila kung hindi sinabi ni Robi sa buong Pilipinas kung ano pinag dadaanan nila. Alam ng mga tao na meron sakit yung asawa nya so parang we all knew that it’ll be hard for her to get pregnant because of her health condition. So sino nag pressure sa asawa nya?
Valid ang feeling ni robi. Kahit yung wife niya siguro gusto ding magka anak pero wala e may sakit siya. Pero epic fail yung video na yan para makagain ng simpatya. Ayan nagbackfire sa kanya.
To me, this is insensitivity on the part of Robi and disrespect to her wife and her situation. Why do this in social media, sila itong laging may pa- 'respect our privacy', pero sila rin nagpopost.
Eh kung baliktarin natin ang sitwasyon? Kung si Robi ang di kaya magprovide ng anak? Tapos si Maiqui nag air out ng frustration nya dahil sa condition ni Robi? Okay lang kaya? Nakakahiya di ba at hindi magugustuhan ni Robi sigurado at ng mga lalake na nagdadaan sa ganung sitwasyon. Bottomline is, yung mga ganitong bagay usapang pang mag-asawa lang. Di nilalabas.
I agree, the video was done in bad taste. The public is not overreacting nor too sensitive. His wife is battling a disease, and it's not like it was kept from him. He knows there's a possibility it would come down to this. Hindi naman siguro sya pinilit magpakasal. His wife may defend him, but I am sure she also feels the pressure, esp now na isinapubliko ng asawa nya ang kagustuhan magkaroon na ng anak pero hindi nya mabigay.
I will be super upset if I am going through a health issue and my partner posts something like this. He’s practically blaming his wife for not having a baby. Gross, selfish, and misogynistic
Ano ba naman ang babastos na ng tao ngayon. Fake pa-woke, fake sensitive. Ang contribution lang sa mga social issues eh mang-shame ng tao sa social media
ReplyDeleteTotally unfair for the wife. It’s nobody’s business to be talking about her and pregnancy in any way. So rude.
Delete12:11 Ang dami rin kasi papansin sa socmed. Nakalimutan na di lahat dapat bina balandra sa public. It’s two-way dear.
Delete12:11 EXACTLY. Nakaka lungkot
DeleteGrabe talaga mga netizens kung makajudge sa tao
ReplyDeleteSana mayroong na akong anak is so much different if he said sana mayroong na KAMING anak. Better if sana biyayaan na kami ng anak.
DeleteMas affected pa talaga kayo kesa sa asawa? Funny
DeleteForeshadowing ba to sa future kung maghiwalay cla??
ReplyDeleteParang ganun na nga. Only those na nanggaling na sa same situation will be able to really relate.
DeleteSusko, masama ba mag wish na magka baby. Ang importante naiintindihan ni Robi and sinusuportahan nya ang asawa nya. Pinakasalan nya nga kahit dumadaan na sa pagsunok asawa nya.
DeleteHindi guarantee yang pinakasalan kahit dumadaan sa pagsubok. Only time can tell. Pag yan napagod pero mahal pa rin nya yung asawa nya, mabigyan man sya ng anak o hindi, balikan natin tong post nya na to.
DeleteMedyo off nga and insensitive yung bday message ni Robi. Even if he’s only speaking out his mind, hindi parin tama na sabihin nya yun sa public.
ReplyDeleteRobi loves his wife despite her condition.. He knows they might not have a baby, it was just his wish if it can happen, hindi nya pressure wife nya. Lets be open minded, we all know mahal na mahal ni Robi asawa nya, he just wants to have a baby if ibibigay , kung hindi he is fine with it
DeleteYes, this should only be a matter discussed between husband and wife. It's too egotistical for a man to express himself ahead, as if telling everyone that him having no child at his age is not his fault.
DeleteMedyo off talaga sinabi nya. Even if wala sakit wife nya, it’s not guaranteed na may baby na sila by this time
DeleteNo. he is pressuring his wife. Alam nga kundisyon ng wife nya and does he know how painful it wud be for the wife marinig yan? Kung asawa ko pa yan, he won't risk my life over a baby. We were blessed with two but had a time conceiving the forst one. Sarap din kotongan nitong si robi. Padami ba ng views yan?
Delete9:32 masyado lang kayo sensitive lahat na lang ng sasabihin ng artista may kulay para sa inyo balat sibuyas. So mas ok na mute and deaf nalang lahat kung bawal magbigay ng opinion or wish. nagpakatotoo lang yung tao di naman sinabing pilitan.
DeleteHe knew very well before getting married na ganyan magiging situation nila so anong nginangawa nya?
ReplyDeleteit was a wish but not a pressured wish
DeleteOkay lang ngumawa, but not in public. Valid yung feelings, but something that should not be aired in public.
DeleteInsensitive.
DeleteKayo ba ang asawa?
DeleteOkay na yung isang post lang maiqui. Wag masyadong umeffort sa mga mema. Aksaya lang sila sa oras at panahon. Wala naman sila ambag sa buhay nyong mag-asawa.
ReplyDeleteAt pag napagod at nagsawa yang asawa mo Maiqui pagsisisihan mo yang ginawa mong pagtatanggol.
Delete2:15 ang nega ng buhay mo
Deletewag mo itulad si robi sa asawa mo hehe
DeleteSana nga okay si robi. Pero yung ganyan papansin sa socmed red flag na yan.
DeleteCringe nung video ni Robi totoo lang and insensitive indeed. Ano ba purpose nun talaga why he posted it? Pag mga ganyan, sa kapamilya or true friends sya mag share or vent out wag sa public.
ReplyDeletesensitive lang kayo
Delete1:57am of course di ka affected kasi you don't know the struggle. Sana lang wag mo ma experience
Delete1:57 di ka tao.
DeleteIt was done in bad taste. Ang sakit marinig na gusto magka anak ng asawa mo pero hindi mo mabigyan. Sila dalawa dapat ang nagdi discuss nyan. Ano mabuti magagawa ng pag air ng sentiments mo in public? Na apoease mo sarili mo?
DeleteAkala siguro he’ll gain sympathy pero naging insensitive ang dating. Kahit anong sugarcoat gawin nya, nanaig yung impression na sad sya. Hindi na kailangan malaman ng public ang battles nyong mag asawa. Kahit i deny ng asawa nya, deep down may effect yun sa kanya kasi yung asawa nya may mga wishes pero di mapangyari dahil sa sakit nya.
ReplyDeleteSo true! May kadaldalan naman talaga yang si Robi, minsan di iniisip ang lumalabas sa bibig
Deletewag mag judge. kinasal sila despite of and he gave the world to the wife! From engagement to wedding he made her the happiest. Simple wish but not a demanding wish, lets all be matured and open minded
Delete1:58 I understand Robi pero I don’t think that is a simple wish, that is a lifetime wish, yan ang plano niya mula noon, ang magkaroon ng anak. Umiyak pa nga siya kasi may possibilty na hnd yun maibigay ng asawa niya. Masakit yes pero yung gnwa niya prang mas masakit pra sa part ng asawa niya
DeleteMas marunong pa kayo sa mag asawa lol.
DeleteKung ako yung asawa nya, hindi makakatulong sa akin yung marinig ko mismo na malungkot ang asawa ko dahil sa akin.
ReplyDeleteYeah. 😔 I get nagve-vent si Robi, pero masakit pa din yun siguro marinig for Maiqui. Sana sa therapist o sa confidant nalang sinabi ni Robi, hindi sa buong mundo.
DeleteBaka kasi feeling nya nasa bahay pa sya ni kuya
Deletesana kasi d na nya sinqbi na yung mga wish nya ay para sa kanya tapos biglang sana magkaron na AKO ng anak sana gumaling na sya para masunod na plano KO
ReplyDeleteYeah, that was really odd.
DeleteGanun nga ang dating. So insensitive.
DeleteWhy did he even post that video in the first place. Di naman necessary.
ReplyDeleteAkala ko ako lang ang na sad for her….
ReplyDeleteGinawa ko rin yan nun Maiqui. Yung ipagtanggol ang asawa ko sa insensitivity nya towards me with the condition I have. Sadly for my part, it didn't work out. He left me for another. Ang gusto nya kasi magka-anak. Naramdaman ko minahal lang nya ako dahil dun. Beyond that, hindi asawa ang trato nya sa akin. Importante na mahal ka ng asawa mo bilang ikaw, bilang asawa at hindi sa capability mo magprovide ng anak. Bonus na lang kung magkakaanak, lalo na sa condition na binigay sa atin.
ReplyDeleteLeave them alone, people. Yung pagiging minimun wager nyo at pagiging squammy nyo ang pagtuunan nyo ng pansin. Nakaka-loka kayo.
ReplyDeleteAre you sure na squammy kami? Yan idol mo akala mo deep since magaling magsalita. Pero hindi nag iisip, umiiyak sa sitwasyon nila tapos sabay post sa social media account niya.
DeleteLeave them alone eh bt nagpost?? Hahaha patawa
DeleteYang idol mo ang mas squammy ang paguugali sa ginawa nya! Ipost ba sa buong mundo ang marakulyo nya LOL!
Delete1:59 eh di ikaw na deep. Hahahaha nababase sa social media o ano pinuput nila out there tapos dahil sa kapiranggot na info eh kilalang kilala mo na sila. Wow expert. Super talino mo. Kakabilib naman!
DeleteLuh bat nadamay pa mga minimum wage dito? Pampam ka naman masyado.
DeleteDinamay mo pa minimum wager baka naman 20k lang sahod mo lol. Taas ng tingin sa idol, kun mayaman yan bat pa nagshowbiz😆
Delete5:58 kayo ang assuming. Tinawag niyo na agad na squammy yun mga opposed sa ginawa niya. Kami may basis sa pagiging insensitive niya at hindi pagiisip bago mag post.
DeleteGirl, I doubt minimum wage earners have time for this chismis. You are barking at the wrong tree. Lol
DeleteLeave them alone after posting a very public post? E sino ba audience nya? Ang public! Squammy ka jan e andito ja din sa isang chismis site
DeleteMismatched couple
ReplyDeleteMasama na pala magwish ngayon???
ReplyDeleteYun ba tlaga ang napulot mo dun?
Delete“Wish ko magkaanak. Pero ok lang kung hnd matupad ang importante magkasama kami ng asawa ko at mahal namin isat isa” ganyan ang wish beh
DeleteFor meeee, no need to post yung vid ni Robi, sinarili na lang sana niya pero account naman niya yun and mukhang not an issue naman sa wife. So move on na po.
ReplyDeleteJust because you can make a video, doesn't mean you should share it to the public. Next time, keep it to yourself Robi.
ReplyDeleteIt took me 7 years to get pregnant. Super gusto ko talaga magka-anak. My husband also wanted a child but he would always assure me na although he wants one, it will be perfectly okay if it never happens for us.
ReplyDeleteI can just imagine how much harder it would have been for me if I had seen my husband suffer like this and wala ako magawa. And then Robi made it public pa… I agree with others na it was an insensitive post.
Of course she will defend him. Parang indirectly gusto niyo humiwalay pero ayaw niya manggaling sa kanya. Kahit yun sa wedding nila, gusto niya i postpone, pero si girl decided na ituloy.
ReplyDeleteNo one’s pressuring her pero Si Robi gusto next year na agad magkaanak sila kung ok na daw. Which is which?
ReplyDeletethese celebrities should really stop oversharing in their social media accounts. mas maganda talaga dati nung 80s and 90s you know nothing about their personal lives unless reported sa Inday Badiday or read in a magazine.
ReplyDeletePsychology graduate ako, alam ko ang feeling ni Robie at wife ya.
ReplyDeletePsychology graduate or graduate ng ibang course, alam ang feeling ng mag asawa.
DeleteAno naman kung Psych grad ka. I also know the feeling pero not grad ng course mo.
DeleteNakakatakot na we are living in a world na ang puro lang gustong marinig is sugarcoated statement. Kung anong nararamdaman ni Robi is valid and yan ang totoong nararamdaman nya. Parang ang sama sama mo nang tao for showing your real emotion. Wake up people!
ReplyDeleteI don't think people are saying hindi valid ang wishes ni Robi and that it's fine feeling that way naman. What I think is medyo off is he had to express that out loud in front of millions of strangers who can definitely draw some opinions about them as a couple. Pwede namang iexpress niya yan with his wife privately, or with a close friend or a therapist.
Deleteyes valid yung feelings ni Robi, but I think medyo insensitive din ipakalat mo pa sa lahat ng tao kung ano yung pinag dadaanan nyo mag asawa..yung iba nga galit na galit kapag tanong ng tanong ang family o relatives kung kailan magkaka anak ang isang mag asawa yun pa kayang ikalat mo pa sa lahat ng tao.. yung feeling ng guilt at pressure para sa babae na ngayon alam na ng buong Pilipinas what they’re going through
DeleteIts valid but not everything should be posted… andaldal nya for a guy.🚩
DeleteHis feelings are valid but how he expressed it for the whole world to see is not. Many couples experience the same and are going through fertility issues. The feeling of incapacity would be very much triggered. Something that should only be talked about privately. Hindi lahat kailangan i-reels, i-tiktokn i-announce sa madlang people. Have a sense of decency naman and be sensitive of your partner's feelings, regardless of when she/he says it's okay or not.
DeleteHis feelings are valid. And so are his wife’s. She’s already battling a disease & here comes her husband crying about how he should have kids by now but he can’t cos of his wife and sharing it to the public. As if she’s not suffering enough 😒
DeleteBeen with my husband for 10 years, I have PCOS and we have not yet conceived a child. Yet, he never told anyone or post in social media that he wants to become a father because I think he knows I would feel more sad. If I were his wife I would really feel bad.
ReplyDeleteHe does not make me feel incomplete because of that. We have our 2 lovely dogs that make us whole. We are still hoping to become parents one day but I know it will come in God's perfect time.
Same boat, married for 8 years, may PCOS din ako. I know naman that my husband and I wish to have a child, pero these are silent prayers between us and God. If I find my husband wishing out loud in public na sana he'll be a dad someday, even if I know this already, it will still break my heart.
DeleteSaludo ako sa asawa mo kasi it's almost a given na most couples gusto magkaanak. It's up to the couple how they will protect each other from sensitive topics like this. Dapat hindi nalang tinuloy ni Robi ang kasal kung anak lang ang gusto sa asawa. Pano kung hindi mangyari and it's just him and his wife, iiwanan ba niya ang wife niya
Delete9:43 Nangyayari to. May lalaking ang gusto lang magka-anak. Didn't really love the wife beyond the capacity to provide a child.
DeleteSa nagsasabing "its just a wish", yes so insensitive nya at nakkaapressure at nakaka sad sa part ng wife. Oo sasabihin nyang no prob yun at napaguusapan nila, pero sa totoo masakit yun na dimo pa mabigyan ng anak ang asawa mo. Yung the fault is yours kaya di kayo mahkaanak eith matching iyak pa. Alam mo na ang health problem ng asawa mo papakita mo pa yung lungkot mo na wala kayo anak .
ReplyDeleteI know the feeling. Naoperahan ako, inalis na ang uterus and d na magkakaanak also advice na atleast no contact muna. I developed post traumatic syndrome din dahil sa nag 50/50 ako.
Pero ang husband ko may mga times na gusto nya mag Do and tumatanggi ako, masakit sa part ko na aalis sya na inis o galit. Naiisip ko bakit ganun, sinabi naman ng doc yun na wag muna pero parang d nya naintindihan.
Also,,gusto pa nya magkaanak ulet maybe a boy sana since 2 daughters samin. Thru IVF since i cannot conceive na. Sabi din sknya nh doc namin na NO na sana for what ive been thru. Mahirap ang process ng IVF and not naman lagat successful. The pain and trauma ganun.
Sa lahay ng yun, masakit kasi yung condition ko di naiisip ng husband ko. Sabhin man na mag wish o ano, ung knowing na dimo kaya obogay eh iwiwish pa para kang sinasampal ng kakulangan mo.
honestly, same situation kami ng wife ni Robi regarding sa pag baby, iba lang cguro yung health condition namin but I think parehas kami hopeful na magka baby. It hurts sometimes kapag my husband says something ng katulad ng ganyan kasi yung guilt nandun..yung parang he knows na ako yung meron problem kaya hindi kami magka baby but yet he would still say something na “sana mag ka baby na kami” “kailan mo ako bibigyan ng anak” even though he knew kung ano problema. It breaks my heart. Kaya parang feeling ko kahit sabihin ng wife ni Robi na okay lang pinag uusapan namn nila deep inside masakit parin yun sa feelings tapos yung pressure pa na binibigay ng mga words na ganun..
Deletebirthday blues.... pagod lang si pareng Robi. give him a break
ReplyDeleteMaybe he should talk about this with a therapist. Just a suggestion lang naman.
ReplyDeletePwede naman using surrogacy. It is safer for his wife.
ReplyDeleteWhat if people would instead say, try kaya ni Robi na siya ang magbuntis?
ReplyDeleteOff pero sila na nagkakaintindihan ng asawa nya. May pinagdadaanan yung mga tao. Wag na tayo masyado pakialamero.
ReplyDeleteWho put a camera to his face and started crying and then posted it publicly on social media?
DeleteI used to have a crush on him before.
ReplyDeleteGrabe ang lala ng ibang tao ang kasuka pa mga nagccocoment mga babae. Maysakit yung tao hindi ganon kadali pra sa knya angagbuntis khit gusto nya, sino.ba nman ang mag aasawa tpos ayaw magka anak .
ReplyDeleteKung medyo malakas na ang asawa ni Robi baka pwede mag surrogacy nalang. 9 months to carry a baby and with autoimmune parang mahirap baka kailangan niya ng treatment for temporary relief during those 9 months pero makakasama sa baby. Wag sana nila piliin yung kagustohan magkababy at the expense of her health
ReplyDeleteBago pa lang silang magasawa. Only time will tell kung hanggang saan kakayanin ni Robi ang ganyang pagsubok sa kanila.
ReplyDeleteWhen he said, my birthday wish is not for myself, it actually is… cause sabi nya, para magawa na mga plano namin, so para sa kanya pa rin yon at mukhang di masaya, sadboi sya pag di natuloy mga plano na yun. Goodluck na lang sainyo.
ReplyDeletedami nagmamarunong mas nasaktan pa sila kesa sa asawa hehe pinakasalan ni robi yan na may sakit na alam nya at tangap nya sitwasyon nila ngayon at lahat ng nagaasawa gusto magkababy tingen nyo ayaw magkababy nung asawa ni robi hehe for sure napagkukwrntuhan nila yan
ReplyDeleteParang ang bait ng asawa niya.
ReplyDeleteI find his video selfish and cringey. Buti di ako ang wife. Kudos sa wife kung nagets mo talaga si Robi.
ReplyDeleteIf his wife is comfortable with the idea of having a baby, I think surrogate would be a great option for them kaso nga lang sa ibang bansa lang siya pwede dahil hindi ata legal ang surrogacy sa Pinas. It would take millions though like yung kay Joel Cruz.
ReplyDeleteHe was selfish there. All he ever wanted was to share what he truly feels forgetting that it is indirectly going to affect his wife.
ReplyDeleteNothing wrong with what Robi said but there are certain things you shouldn’t mention in public, especially when it comes to your married life. Kung ako yung asawa, mahu-hurt ka din talaga kasi parang pinalandakan ng husband mo sa buong mundo na ikaw ang may problema kaya parang may kulang sa buhay niyo as a couple. If it was the other way around and Robi has some dysfunction, I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t want that broadcasted to the world. Medyo off lang talaga pero if sabi ni misis it’s not a big deal eh nasa sa kanila na yun.
ReplyDeleteMedyo unfair to put this much pressure on her to have a baby.
ReplyDeleteRed flag naman tong si Robi kahit noon pa. I remember birthday nya dati sa ASAP tapos may surprise for him and they’re asking him to guess kung sino. Ang sinagot ba naman si Kim Chui raw. E during that time sila na ni Gretchen Ho. Sobrang rude.
ReplyDeletetingin ko na pressure si Robi na pakasalan wife nya kasi sigurado dudumugin sya ng basher that time and I think now nagsink in sa kanya na yung dream to build a family medjo tagilid
ReplyDeleteYes, that’s my take on that too.
Delete1:52 I think so too. From what I remember, parang gusto naman talaga ni robi na ipostpone ang wedding pero gusto ng girl na ituloy kasi parang yun nalang ang nilo-look forward niya.
DeleteHonestly, at that time parang naisip ko rin na medyo selfish si girl na itali yung guy knowing malaking karamdaman ang hinaharap niya. Pero pumayag naman si guy so supposedly natanggap na niya ang kabuuan ng situation.
Pero now na nakita ko ang sinabi ni robi, na off rin ako sa kanya. Offensive in so many levels. Also, kahit walang sakit si girl, di naman guarantee yun na magkaka-anak sila according to their timeline.
Wala pa namang divorce sa pinas
DeleteYes, ganyan nga din ang take up ko. Sad, pero ito ang reality ng situation nila.
DeleteGrabe mang judge mga tao dito. Kesyo red flag agad. Di nyo naman kilala yung tao. Minsan ma confuse din tayo sa pinagsasabi natin if maraming iniisip dahil sa mga personal problems. Let's leave them alone. Let's not make conclusion coz of what he said or posted just this once. Alam naman natin how he stood by his wife. Pray nlng natin sila at yung mga people that needs it.
ReplyDeleteMay tinatawag na think before you click. Okay na video mo na sarili mo, ipopost mo ba knowing makakasakit ka ng hindi lang ng asawa mo pero pati mga babaeng nagdadaan din sa ganitong sitwasyon? Hindi excuse ang confusion.
DeleteHindi daw selfish si Robi nang lagay na yan, Sabi ni Robi sa video. Eto, may ugali din talagang itinatago. Review his history, nakaaway nya si Rayver eh ambait nun. Feeling kwela kase tong si kolokoy, di naman nakakatuwa.
ReplyDeleteKayo lang naman napepressure para sa wife nya. Wish nila yan pero Robi is aware of the challenges bago sya nagpakasal. He is entitled to say they are having difficulties. Kasi mahirap talaga sitwasyon nila. Not all will sugarcoat things. Sa replies nyo kaya mapepressure na lang tuloy sila lol
ReplyDeletewala namn makakaalam ng situation nila kung hindi sinabi ni Robi sa buong Pilipinas kung ano pinag dadaanan nila. Alam ng mga tao na meron sakit yung asawa nya so parang we all knew that it’ll be hard for her to get pregnant because of her health condition. So sino nag pressure sa asawa nya?
DeleteJusko sa haba ng interview Dyan kayo nakapokus hahaha.
ReplyDeleteValid ang feeling ni robi. Kahit yung wife niya siguro gusto ding magka anak pero wala e may sakit siya. Pero epic fail yung video na yan para makagain ng simpatya. Ayan nagbackfire sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteDi ko bet si Robi. parang may something
ReplyDeleteTo me, this is insensitivity on the part of Robi and disrespect to her wife and her situation. Why do this in social media, sila itong laging may pa- 'respect our privacy', pero sila rin nagpopost.
ReplyDeleteEh kung baliktarin natin ang sitwasyon? Kung si Robi ang di kaya magprovide ng anak? Tapos si Maiqui nag air out ng frustration nya dahil sa condition ni Robi? Okay lang kaya? Nakakahiya di ba at hindi magugustuhan ni Robi sigurado at ng mga lalake na nagdadaan sa ganung sitwasyon. Bottomline is, yung mga ganitong bagay usapang pang mag-asawa lang. Di nilalabas.
ReplyDeleteI don’t get why they need to air about their wish to have baby. As if netizens ang maggagrant
ReplyDeleteFor them to have baby. 🙄
Dasal lang ang katapat nyan :D :D :D
ReplyDeleteI agree, the video was done in bad taste. The public is not overreacting nor too sensitive. His wife is battling a disease, and it's not like it was kept from him. He knows there's a possibility it would come down to this. Hindi naman siguro sya pinilit magpakasal. His wife may defend him, but I am sure she also feels the pressure, esp now na isinapubliko ng asawa nya ang kagustuhan magkaroon na ng anak pero hindi nya mabigay.
ReplyDeleteWhy did he do it? It was so unnecessary.
ReplyDeleteGet surrogacy para wala na ng drama
ReplyDeleteI will be super upset if I am going through a health issue and my partner posts something like this. He’s practically blaming his wife for not having a baby. Gross, selfish, and misogynistic
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