Ang sakit ng pinagdadaanan ni heart. Yung nagtrust ka ng husto tapos sila din mag betray sayo. Alam nila lahat about u because u thought they are ur friends but in the end, yung alam nila about you ang gagamiting bala laban sayo. How cruel this world can be.
Actually baks very relatable sya dyan. Once naging estranged ka sa taong minsan naging pinakamalapit sayo, malalim ang pain nun. Let her be nalang, nakikibasa lang tayo.
10:28 hay naku the pain that comes from a betrayal ng friend na sobrang close mo, it never seems to end. Parang mas masakit pa nga kaysa traydurin ka ng kamag anak lalo na at kung mas nago-open ka ng problems mo sa friend na yun that you trusted na to the point sya lang nasasabihan mo ng lahat…..happened to me 6 yrs ago na nga yun but everytime naaalala ko parang nagri refresh ang pain. Kahit paulit ulit kong sabihin na napatawad ko na sya and i really did, pero yung pain, andito pa rin talaga. Kaya di ka makaka relate unless na experience mo.
No, hindi sya pa victim coz she's a VICTIM talaga!!! Naranasan ko narin yung ganyan kay ❤️ last year, until now nag sa-suffer ako sa ginawa nila sakin! Grabe trauma! Yung pinaka pinagkakatiwalaan mong tao may ginagawa palang masama behind your back, tapos ikaw all out ka sa lahat ng tulong na kaya mong maibigay. This is so painful. Kaya don't invalidate her feelings.
Ganun ba kadali mag move on pag trinaydor ka ng mga kaibigan mo tinuring mong pamilya? Girl literal iisang bahay nalang kasi sila nakatira. Masakit naman talaga yun
easy to say move on. ptsd is real and will last for years and years. i suffered from major childhood trauma, and even now that I am already an adult and has undergone psychiatric consultations, certain things still trigger me big time to this day.
If natrauma sya ng husto, kahit naman abutin pa yan ng 10yrs, wala naman prob. She will move on at her own pace not yours dahil sya un nasaktan at hndi ikaw.
Giving PTSD nga. You cant simply "move on" from what hurt/traumatized you just bc its been over a year. You dont get to tell them that. Its not your healing process.
you will always grieve relationships you thought would last. may it be romantic or friendship. that is part of life- feeling sad over stuff you no longer have. no one should dictate how long someone should grieve or move on. we take it all differently. be kind.
For many, the pain of betrayal is worse than physical violence, deceit, or prejudice. Remember Judas? What makes betrayal so painful is that it is not an act committed by your worst enemies, but it is an act that has been carried out by those you love and trust the most. Your world does not stop, but it takes a while for you to completely shrug it off.
You don’t get it, do you?! Someone has been trying to steal whatever she worked hard for. Just like intellectual property. And whoever that thief is, the thief enjoys the spoils of ❤️’s hardwork.
easy to say but you really cant move on that easily if you invested so much time and love to people you treat as family. Let her. Maybe its her way of moving on. You can forgive but only time can heal all wounds. Its hard to move on just like that . She's still hurting,, just let her. This too shall pass... FYI she's ot making parinig. She's expressing her thougjts and feelings thats all. I can also feel her pain.
Do not dictate people on how they process, grieve or move on from events or people that hurt them. Good for you if kaya mo to move forward immediately but that’s not true for all people. Also, we dont’t know to what extent was done for her to be traumatized this much kaya let’s be respectful and show more empathy towards people who are hurting.
Baka may moment na namimiss nya sila kaya napapaemote, naging super duper close din naman kasi talaga. Pero parang wala naman syang pinoproject na super happy sya everyday of her life, edi wala sana tayong nababasang mga ganyan nya. Pero sana nga maka move on na sya, hindi na dapat pinagaaksayahan ng panahon mga ganung klaseng tao.
kanya kanyang pacing ng pag move on depende sa sakit, damage at trauma na naidulot. di mo pwede diktahan ang kahit sinuman na mag move on at mag forgive agad agad.
People who say “move on” and pa-victim have No idea what betrayal and PTSD are. PTSD is a very sensitive issue. Its under mental health awarenes advocacy of your “relevant” beauty queen. You guys should know better.
Mahirap talaga kalaban ang konsensya noh? Tipong ayaw nyo na mapagusapan, pero nabibring up padin every now and then. Pati iyan baka kay H nyo padin isisi ha.
Come to think of it. Ang tagal mo sa showbiz, naka ilang jowa ka na, nakapag asawa ka pa ng senador, tapos you will become a victim of manipulation? Really? o baka naman kelangan palabasin na victim ka at naimpluwensyahan lang kase hindi mo mapanindigan mga desisyon at nagawa mo.
Yung mga nagsasabi dito na pavictim, di maka-move on, if someone very close to you has betrayed you, it is easier said than done. Lucky for you guys that you never have to experience the trauma. Been there myself and even if I am in a much better position now, there are times that the pain would cross your mind and wonder why such people exist and what did you do to deserve it? Please be kind.
Sa mga nagsasabi na mahilig sya magparinig. Eh ano ngayon? Ang tinamaan guilty! Eh sa ganyan yung na experience nya eh and that's her way of coping up from her trauma. Bakit bawal ba ungkatin nya ang nangyari sa kanya?
12:41 5:47 technically hindi naman kasi si P ang pinaparinggan. Hindi naman nya yun friend to begin with. Nasa-sad sya sa broken friendship. Si P lang naman nagpasok sa sarili niya via the ad! lol. papamsin kasi si P
3:45 doesn’t matter who someone’s making parinig to or who’s making parinig. That’s a general statement. Minus 100 classy points if you make parinig. You don’t get exempted din even if you wear designer from the tip of your hair to your toes. Every passive aggressive post on social media is kadiri regardless who’s saying it or who it’s pertaining to. If you have issues, talk it out with the person or keep it to yourself.
3:27 Excuse me, one of the other people with her in that commercial confirmed my input sila. Why would L'Oreal stoop that low to include such an issue when they have a plethora of people to work with? Malas nila kay P
10:39 Heller?? The other side keeps on banking on her wins by doing dirty tricks. Move on?? I hope it won’t happen to you so you’ll be able to empathise with Heart or whoever it is in the same situation.
11:31 Classy yang mali-mali ang punctuation marks at capitalization? Putol-putol din nang wala sa hulog sentences. Sana ginawa na lang nyang tula entirely.
Ayyy teh anon 1:23 ano ka punctuation police?nasaan comprehension mo?anong connection ng pagiging classy sa capitalization at punctuation na sinasabi mo?lol Hindi ka marunong mag comprehend accla.wala sa bagsak ang sinasabi mo.
She should know by now na yung mundong ginagalawan nya are full of deceitful people. Toughen up and be a big girl. Masyado kasing sheltered at mabait kaya natake-advantage at hirap sya maka move on.
Parang ang dark na ng awra nya.. not as bubbly as she was before. Let bygones be bygones.. for you to have peace in your heart. Good people attract good karma. A lot of people know you have a good heart. I wish you genuine healing.
Her aura is actually better now than before. She radiates more confidence than ever. But she’s also an artist eh. Kaya when she focuses on her art she pulls depth of her art from pain.
The pain runs deep when you have experienced betrayal by your close friends or those you consider family. It is really traumatic and really affects your self worth. I experienced the same back in 2018 and I am only starting to get over it recently. It is not easy to build yourself back. Heart need the space and time to sort through the pain. That’s a coping mechanism that she is entitled to have.
To those people here hating on Heart, as they say: People cry injustice when they get to experience it themselves. Try putting yourself in her shoes, hindi madaling magpatawad. Betrayal from people you treated family is the most painful form of betrayal.
Di ko talaga ma gets yung mga pinoy na mahilig magparinig through social media. Be an adult and talk to the people involved. I think people who do this wants to get sympathy. So pathetic.
Stop invalidating people. Iba iba tayo ng coping mechanism. Hindi lahat ng tao confrontational. Hindi lahat ng tao gusto makita lalo na makausap yung predator nila.
Girl, kung mental health awareness lang din naman magegets ko pa kung promote healthy ways to cope, like stay away from social media, magpa therapy. Hindi yung every week or month nalang may pa-pity party. It attracts negativity.
Exagg ng mga tao dito about pavictim and insecure daw. Di lang kayo sana sa mga artistic tyoe of people like heart. Nasa gallery yata sya niyan and she’s also working on something art-related. Ganyan takaga yang mga artist malalim makafeel ng pain at yan always nila pinaghuhugutan ng depth of their works.
Masakit man n u were betrayed by ur itinuturing n Close friends I think mas ok po kung magforgive n po pr mkpag move on k n rin Ms Heart. Mas madami p pong blessings kung magpatwad po tayo.. Minsan yan din kc ang nagppbigat s buhay ung may kinikimkim kang galit s puso, pro dko cnasabi n kalimutan mo n lng un of course forgive but not forget pr nextime alam mo n po lesson learned din po yan Ms Heart for you to grow and careful s mga tao s paligid mo. God bless u!
Heart. You are also hurting people and their family when you have no filter and broadcast everything online. Parang woke lang. Reklamo ng reklamo without being accountable what you have done wrong.
Remember, it takes two to tango. And there are three sides of story: her story, his story and the truth.
ang kitid parin talaga ng utak ng mga pinoy about how emotions work. Gusto nila ok ka na agad, bawal na imention ang mga bagay bagay. Forgive agad agad. Forgiving does not mean forgetting. You can forgive and still feel residual bad emotions. Like in the post, the emotions came up kasi pinaalala nung art installation. You judge her as if, she's just being angry all the time of her life.
1:21 scroll along nalang kasi. Bakit kasi pinapansin mo kung napapagod ka? Let people heal sa paraan na alam nila. Hindi tayo yung nasa situation nila.
palibhasa kasi yung mga bashers ni heart dito di ginagamit utak. heart has depth when it comes to art and fashion, now if di nyo gets yung kind of mindset and personality nya then that's not her problem. nagkataon na that exhibit kind of resonated with her about her past painful experience with people she thought she could trust. if you see the shade kahit di naman sya nag name drop then wag nyo na pakialaman,marites lang tayo.di natin pwede diktahan si heart kung ano ang dapat at di dpat nya ipost. nasan na kasi yung empathy nyo?
naawa ako dun kay heart when i watched that clip na nasunog yung hair nya while they were filming inside the car and no remorse yung 2 impaktita and kita mo yung mood ni heart dun na biglang nagbago coz she was sooo upset.
Hope heart tell everyone ano tlaga ngyari sa kniya or kung ano gnawa sa knya. Sobrang tagal na rin neto and para mahimasmasan yun mga ng judge sa knya below the belt. Grabe comparison,
Mga tao sobra mapanghusga. If you are not there firsthand wag masyado maniwala at magsalita ng hindi maganda. Remember there are always 3 sides of every story. Her side, his side and the truth. Mas masama ugali nyo kung magsasalita kayo ng kung anu ano sa ibang tao na hondi nyo naman alam lahat.
Okay clearly she is still hurting and clearly ginagatasan pa din nya yan issue na yan, ayaw naman nya ibunyag ang totoong nangyari. She is so immature. I dont know if this is her way na magpapansin kasi alam nya people will talk and she will look kawawa to them. Ni hindi nga alam kung talaga bang may betrayal na naganap kasi di naman nya sinasabi buong kwento. So di naman maka judge ang mga tao talaga kung may betrayal ba talaga na naganap. Naniniwala na lang mga tao dahil sa mga posts and parinig nya. Di pa sya naka move on kasi ayaw nya mag move on, ganon ba kaliit ang mundo nya?! i dont think so... ginagatasan na lang nya yan issue...
Heart, you need to move on. People are not your property. Situations and happenings are very dynamic. Don't get stuck in your belief that you are perfect and others have defects!
i think i have an idea.
ReplyDeleteThe who pa ba... who else. I wish them karma infinity.
DeleteSO TOTOO YUNG SINABI NI HEART NA SOMEONE TRIED TO POISON HER. BUTI DAW HINDI SIYA NADALE. MAYBE YAN YUNG TIME NA SOBRANG PAYAT NIYA.
DeleteAng sakit ng pinagdadaanan ni heart. Yung nagtrust ka ng husto tapos sila din mag betray sayo. Alam nila lahat about u because u thought they are ur friends but in the end, yung alam nila about you ang gagamiting bala laban sayo. How cruel this world can be.
DeleteSizt naman kasi! Be careful in choosing people you let to your life!
ReplyDeleteyou really never know
Deleteang asin nga mukhang asukal. when you trust and someone betrays you, yung traydor ang masama.
DeleteHeart seems a really good person pero parang hirap sya to get happiness in life. I wish her well.
DeleteAyan n nmn po sya.. The queen of parinig and pa victim
ReplyDeleteParang yung idol mo ata yun 🥴
DeleteSana tlga wag mangyari sau un mga gnwa sa knya....
DeleteTamang tama sayo ha
DeleteEffective sayo diba?
DeleteShe's not pa victim. Ayaw Nyo lang madinig na lumalaban na sya ngayon.
DeleteActually baks very relatable sya dyan. Once naging estranged ka sa taong minsan naging pinakamalapit sayo, malalim ang pain nun. Let her be nalang, nakikibasa lang tayo.
Deletefacts!
Delete10:28 HINDI SYA PA VICTIM KASI TALAGANG NAGING VICTIM SYA! KUNG IKAW TRAYDOR MGA NAKAKASAMA MO NA MINAHAL MO GANYAN FIN MARARAMDAMAN MO FOR SURE!
DeleteLol to "nakikibasa lang tayo" aminin nyo natawa din kayo best 🤣
DeleteTinamaan sa pasaring about sa 'table' ng isa.
Delete10:28 hay naku the pain that comes from a betrayal ng friend na sobrang close mo, it never seems to end. Parang mas masakit pa nga kaysa traydurin ka ng kamag anak lalo na at kung mas nago-open ka ng problems mo sa friend na yun that you trusted na to the point sya lang nasasabihan mo ng lahat…..happened to me 6 yrs ago na nga yun but everytime naaalala ko parang nagri refresh ang pain. Kahit paulit ulit kong sabihin na napatawad ko na sya and i really did, pero yung pain, andito pa rin talaga. Kaya di ka makaka relate unless na experience mo.
DeleteYung isa naman pa-bait effect. Wolf in sheep's clothing, yuck!
DeleteAs Usual
DeleteNo, hindi sya pa victim coz she's a VICTIM talaga!!! Naranasan ko narin yung ganyan kay ❤️ last year, until now nag sa-suffer ako sa ginawa nila sakin! Grabe trauma! Yung pinaka pinagkakatiwalaan mong tao may ginagawa palang masama behind your back, tapos ikaw all out ka sa lahat ng tulong na kaya mong maibigay. This is so painful. Kaya don't invalidate her feelings.
DeleteAng hirap maging sikat, iilan lang ang makakapagkatiwalaan.
ReplyDeleteParang lagi nabibiktima si Heart
ReplyDeleteNabibiktima or pa-victim
DeleteLagi? These are all about the same people so bakit lagi?
Deletetalking in general.. lagi talaga victim mga good hearted ppl with good intentions ksi they dont see wrong to others
Deletemarami talagang Suma sakay sa kasikatan at yaman kaya konting ingat sa mapagsamantala
DeleteMove on already. It’s been what over a year now. Makes me think you are unhappy inspite of what you’re trying to project. Pray and forgive.
ReplyDeleteGanun ba kadali mag move on pag trinaydor ka ng mga kaibigan mo tinuring mong pamilya? Girl literal iisang bahay nalang kasi sila nakatira. Masakit naman talaga yun
DeleteHuwebes Santos special masyado comment mo
DeleteProbably is unhappy and not at peace.
Deleteeasy to say move on. ptsd is real and will last for years and years. i suffered from major childhood trauma, and even now that I am already an adult and has undergone psychiatric consultations, certain things still trigger me big time to this day.
DeleteIf natrauma sya ng husto, kahit naman abutin pa yan ng 10yrs, wala naman prob. She will move on at her own pace not yours dahil sya un nasaktan at hndi ikaw.
DeleteGiving PTSD nga. You cant simply "move on" from what hurt/traumatized you just bc its been over a year. You dont get to tell them that. Its not your healing process.
Delete10:39 magkaiba tayo ng timeline sa pagmomove on.
Deleteyou will always grieve relationships you thought would last. may it be romantic or friendship. that is part of life- feeling sad over stuff you no longer have. no one should dictate how long someone should grieve or move on. we take it all differently. be kind.
Deletehow to forgive if they don't stop
DeleteYou can be happy and be triggered with PTSD at the same time. As if ang perfect mo!
DeleteI hope she's okay. I won't judge her because none of us really know the full extent of her ordeal.
DeleteFor many, the pain of betrayal is worse than physical violence, deceit, or prejudice. Remember Judas? What makes betrayal so painful is that it is not an act committed by your worst enemies, but it is an act that has been carried out by those you love and trust the most. Your world does not stop, but it takes a while for you to completely shrug it off.
DeleteYou don’t get it, do you?! Someone has been trying to steal whatever she worked hard for. Just like intellectual property. And whoever that thief is, the thief enjoys the spoils of ❤️’s hardwork.
Deleteeasy to say but you really cant move on that easily if you invested so much time and love to people you treat as family. Let her. Maybe its her way of moving on. You can forgive but only time can heal all wounds. Its hard to move on just like that . She's still hurting,, just let her. This too shall pass... FYI she's ot making parinig. She's expressing her thougjts and feelings thats all. I can also feel her pain.
DeleteTotoo. Halatang ayaw niya mawalan ng issue para mapag usapan
DeleteDo not dictate people on how they process, grieve or move on from events or people that hurt them. Good for you if kaya mo to move forward immediately but that’s not true for all people. Also, we dont’t know to what extent was done for her to be traumatized this much kaya let’s be respectful and show more empathy towards people who are hurting.
DeleteBaka may moment na namimiss nya sila kaya napapaemote, naging super duper close din naman kasi talaga. Pero parang wala naman syang pinoproject na super happy sya everyday of her life, edi wala sana tayong nababasang mga ganyan nya. Pero sana nga maka move on na sya, hindi na dapat pinagaaksayahan ng panahon mga ganung klaseng tao.
Deletekanya kanyang pacing ng pag move on depende sa sakit, damage at trauma na naidulot. di mo pwede diktahan ang kahit sinuman na mag move on at mag forgive agad agad.
DeletePeople who say “move on” and pa-victim have No idea what betrayal and PTSD are. PTSD is a very sensitive issue. Its under mental health awarenes advocacy of your “relevant” beauty queen. You guys should know better.
DeleteShe's not in peace with everyone and especially with herself kaya laging nagpaparinig
DeleteThe victim saga continues
ReplyDeleteMahirap talaga kalaban ang konsensya noh? Tipong ayaw nyo na mapagusapan, pero nabibring up padin every now and then. Pati iyan baka kay H nyo padin isisi ha.
DeleteHeart i love you pero matagal na ako bothered ng space mo before the punctuation mark. 😓
ReplyDeleteBetrayal in any form hurts. For a high profile individual, when vultures strike, it must feel doubly so.
ReplyDeleteSobrang trauma siguro talaga sa kanya mga nangyari
ReplyDeleteCome to think of it. Ang tagal mo sa showbiz, naka ilang jowa ka na, nakapag asawa ka pa ng senador, tapos you will become a victim of manipulation? Really? o baka naman kelangan palabasin na victim ka at naimpluwensyahan lang kase hindi mo mapanindigan mga desisyon at nagawa mo.
ReplyDeleteAnong koneksyon ng personal life nya sa ginawa sa kanya. At bakit kasalanan nya na naloko sya at mapag tiwala kahit maraming nag take advantage.
DeleteTHIS!
DeleteMatanda na siya pero she’s acting like a teenager na baguhan pa sa buhay.
Delete11:06, 6:50 Serpenti, wag kayong pa-feeling inosente ha
Delete2:12 true!
DeleteYung mga nagsasabi dito na pavictim, di maka-move on, if someone very close to you has betrayed you, it is easier said than done. Lucky for you guys that you never have to experience the trauma. Been there myself and even if I am in a much better position now, there are times that the pain would cross your mind and wonder why such people exist and what did you do to deserve it? Please be kind.
ReplyDeleteAmen to this.
Deletepero everymonth ang post nia ng mga ganito. more of need nalang tlaga din nia ng validation at kakampi.
Delete7:54 AM Pag once per quarter lang sya magpost about something traumatic she experienced, ok na ba sayo??
DeleteMasyado tong GGSS, taas din masyado tingin sa sarili.
ReplyDelete11:14 eh sa maganda naman talaga siya
DeleteMaganda Sya, hindi pilit maging foxy eye and ngiwi magsalita
DeleteSa mga nagsasabi na mahilig sya magparinig. Eh ano ngayon? Ang tinamaan guilty! Eh sa ganyan yung na experience nya eh and that's her way of coping up from her trauma. Bakit bawal ba ungkatin nya ang nangyari sa kanya?
ReplyDeleteLakas makasquammy ng mahilig magparinig
DeleteWag double standards baks, pag siya pwede magparinig pero pag iba hindi?
Delete1am may nagsabi bang si Heart lang ang pwede? 😂
Delete11:17 just shows how immature she is if her way of handling things is to make parinig on social media 😉
Delete12:41, 5:47 As opposed to someone using an ad to make parinig?
Delete2:12 Such an ignorant comment. Marketing team ng brand sisihin mo dear, sila gumagawa ng script.
Delete12:41 5:47 technically hindi naman kasi si P ang pinaparinggan. Hindi naman nya yun friend to begin with. Nasa-sad sya sa broken friendship. Si P lang naman nagpasok sa sarili niya via the ad! lol. papamsin kasi si P
Delete3:45 doesn’t matter who someone’s making parinig to or who’s making parinig. That’s a general statement. Minus 100 classy points if you make parinig. You don’t get exempted din even if you wear designer from the tip of your hair to your toes. Every passive aggressive post on social media is kadiri regardless who’s saying it or who it’s pertaining to. If you have issues, talk it out with the person or keep it to yourself.
Delete3:27 Excuse me, one of the other people with her in that commercial confirmed my input sila. Why would L'Oreal stoop that low to include such an issue when they have a plethora of people to work with? Malas nila kay P
Delete3:27 Marketing team mo mukha mo, Belle Rodolfo herself said she even wrote her own lines in the script.
Delete10:39 Heller?? The other side keeps on banking on her wins by doing dirty tricks. Move on?? I hope it won’t happen to you so you’ll be able to empathise with Heart or whoever it is in the same situation.
ReplyDeleteHow sure are you?
Delete112 uhm, nasa fp ka. Last issue eh hindi nakapunta ng Dubai yung mga beks tapos kay Heart ang sisi. Yun nman pala eh walang complete docus. 🤣
DeleteParang ginagamit nya na lang yung issues na yan para magpapansin pag medyo nawawala sya sa limelight sa Philippine showbiz
ReplyDeleteIt’s her choice to lielow from showbiz. Daming offers ng gma dyan, but she chose not to.
DeleteShe is so into herself!!!!! 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️😵💫
ReplyDeleteWhy so triggered? Nagshishare lang naman sya ng thoughts nya. Guilty ba bes?
Deletethat's her way of coping, don't judge her.. hindi ikaw ang na-traydor, you don't know her pain!
DeleteEh account niya iyan, alangan naman tungkol sa iyo ang banggitin niya sa account niya 1124?
DeleteTalagang very self centered - I, me, myself siya
DeleteLove her classy,hindi katulad ng iba magpapasaring lng naman jologs pa, walang originality.lol
ReplyDelete11:31 Classy yang mali-mali ang punctuation marks at capitalization? Putol-putol din nang wala sa hulog sentences. Sana ginawa na lang nyang tula entirely.
Delete11:31 kesa naman yung nag speech sa Loreal event na nagbabasa, parang kinder. Nagbabasa na nga di pa inayos. So bakya! Hahaha
DeleteAyyy teh anon 1:23 ano ka punctuation police?nasaan comprehension mo?anong connection ng pagiging classy sa capitalization at punctuation na sinasabi mo?lol Hindi ka marunong mag comprehend accla.wala sa bagsak ang sinasabi mo.
DeleteTruly truly... i reall really love. Nice collection... 😆
DeleteTapos na po ang fashion week. Tama na po ang pa main character. Marc Pingris napo ang main character this week. Thank you po.
ReplyDeleteI like this baks
DeleteEdi wag ka dito. Wag mo open, simple as that. Kakaloka haha
DeleteHindi pa rin ba tapos yarn?
ReplyDeleteKaya nga tinawag na POST traumatic stress disorder. Kasi nangyayari siya AFTER the trauma and you don’t know until when it will affect a person.
DeletePossibly because meron pa din sigurong new discoveries or ganaps na involve ang mga mapanamantala.
ReplyDeletePavictim kana masyado hearty.
ReplyDeleteHindi siya pavictim,
DeleteVictim talaga siya. I hope nobody calls you pavictim after experiencing something traumtic kasi nakakainsulto.
Okay lang yan ses kahit araw arawin, sya naman talaga victim.
Delete11∶46,lagi namang ganyan yan,may bago pa ba?
DeleteAyan, bago 1235. Natrigger sa art. It could be different things.
Delete@12:35 sana di ka ma betray ha! move on ka din agad dapat. agad agad!
DeletePaulit-ulit na lang yan nabe-betray eh @12∶35,yun yung laging alibi nyan.lagi na lang biktima.
DeleteNakakapagod ka heart. Ang heavy heavy mo.
ReplyDeleteE bakit ka ba kasi nandito? Haha
DeleteDi ka naman involved so move on ka nalang sa kanya.
DeleteDi pa sya tapos. This is getting tiresome tbh
ReplyDeleteIbig lang sabihin pinahalagahan nya talaga yung mga taong yun.
DeleteOh di wag na basahin 11:59? Post niya sa account niya iyan bakit tutok ka.
DeletePtsd has no timeline kung kelan matatapos.
Delete11:59 edi scroll or tap to move on teh. di naman need insights mk
DeleteShe should know by now na yung mundong ginagalawan nya are full of deceitful people. Toughen up and be a big girl. Masyado kasing sheltered at mabait kaya natake-advantage at hirap sya maka move on.
ReplyDelete@12:07 I have to agree pag masyadong sheltered sobrang vulnerable.
DeleteParang ang dark na ng awra nya.. not as bubbly as she was before. Let bygones be bygones.. for you to have peace in your heart. Good people attract good karma. A lot of people know you have a good heart. I wish you genuine healing.
ReplyDeleteNag myday lang ng ganyan, di na agad sya bubbly? Haha
DeleteHer aura is actually better now than before. She radiates more confidence than ever.
DeleteBut she’s also an artist eh. Kaya when she focuses on her art she pulls depth of her art from pain.
12:11 Have you seen her vlogs recently? Anong dark ang aura
DeleteSome people here just love to invalidate her trauma
ReplyDeletewell it is not our obligation to validate either
DeleteShe's not asking for validation nor your cruelty.
DeleteDid she ask for validation from you lols could it be she’s just venting?
Delete1230 actually nasa myday lang nman ni Heart yan at mawawala din yan after 24 hrs. Lol
Delete12:30 she’s not asking you to. She’s posting on her own account but people keeps calling her out on it.
DeleteThe pain runs deep when you have experienced betrayal by your close friends or those you consider family. It is really traumatic and really affects your self worth. I experienced the same back in 2018 and I am only starting to get over it recently. It is not easy to build yourself back. Heart need the space and time to sort through the pain. That’s a coping mechanism that she is entitled to have.
ReplyDeleteEto na naman ,never ending
ReplyDeleteAno ba meaning ng ptsd sayo?
Deleterecovery takes time. especially if you are recovering from the betrayal of those you trusted the most.
ReplyDeleteAsus dramatic actress- move on girl the spotlight also moving on hindi lagi sayo nakatapat, like it or not.
Deleteso move on agad nalang? sana pag na betray ka move on ka din agad. or kaya namatayan. maka utos teh @7:46
Delete7:46 you must be so blessed as to not have experienced this type of betrayal. madaling sabihin "move on" para sa mga kagaya mong ignorante.
DeleteAng dami kaseng nabukelya.
ReplyDeleteKaya siguro sobrang protective ng magulang ni Heart sa kanya kasi gullible na tao si Heart.
ReplyDelete12∶48,ang laki nga ng pakinabang nila sa pagiging gullible nyan e.
DeleteThe other way around - she became gullible because of her overprotective parents.
DeleteTita mong main character vibe dapat lage. Same narrative lang din naman inuulit ulit lang para lage mapagusapan.
ReplyDeletePaulit ulit ka din naman kasi nakiki chismis kay heart. Pwede mo naman kasi wag i-open kung umay ka na sakanya haha
DeleteTo those people here hating on Heart, as they say: People cry injustice when they get to experience it themselves. Try putting yourself in her shoes, hindi madaling magpatawad. Betrayal from people you treated family is the most painful form of betrayal.
ReplyDeleteHeart is definitely going through a mid life crisis. Malalampasan mo din yan Hearty.
ReplyDeleteVery insecure Heart :(
ReplyDeleteDi ko talaga ma gets yung mga pinoy na mahilig magparinig through social media. Be an adult and talk to the people involved. I think people who do this wants to get sympathy. So pathetic.
ReplyDeleteWhat if coping mechanism nila yan? Ang di ko ma gets yung mga pinoy na malaks mag invalidate ng feelings ng iba.
DeleteHolier than thou naman 'tong anon na chismosa
DeleteStop invalidating people. Iba iba tayo ng coping mechanism. Hindi lahat ng tao confrontational. Hindi lahat ng tao gusto makita lalo na makausap yung predator nila.
Delete5∶41AM,ako sanay na dyan kay gurl,kaya minsan sa nagba-backfire din sa kanya yung post nya kase matured na e feeling teenager pa.
DeleteIt just shows that Philippines isn’t ready for mental health awareness. Mga comments dito puro paurong
ReplyDeleteGirl, kung mental health awareness lang din naman magegets ko pa kung promote healthy ways to cope, like stay away from social media, magpa therapy. Hindi yung every week or month nalang may pa-pity party. It attracts negativity.
DeleteSobra. Some of them will campaign for mental health awareness pero pag si Heart bawal kasi may internal issues yang mga yan
Delete2:14 true!
Delete11:32 not everyone copes the same. you think with all that money and connections she has not gone to therapy yet? lol both things can be true
Delete3:40 if she is she would definitely advised to stay away from social media duh???
DeleteExagg ng mga tao dito about pavictim and insecure daw. Di lang kayo sana sa mga artistic tyoe of people like heart. Nasa gallery yata sya niyan and she’s also working on something art-related. Ganyan takaga yang mga artist malalim makafeel ng pain at yan always nila pinaghuhugutan ng depth of their works.
ReplyDeleteMasakit man n u were betrayed by ur itinuturing n Close friends I think mas ok po kung magforgive n po pr mkpag move on k n rin Ms Heart. Mas madami p pong blessings kung magpatwad po tayo.. Minsan yan din kc ang nagppbigat s buhay ung may kinikimkim kang galit s puso, pro dko cnasabi n kalimutan mo n lng un of course forgive but not forget pr nextime alam mo n po lesson learned din po yan Ms Heart for you to grow and careful s mga tao s paligid mo. God bless u!
ReplyDeletecryptic message na naman. puros shade na lang ginagawa nito.
ReplyDeleteanong shade jan? if may matamaan, problema na nila yun
DeleteButi na lang lumalaban ka na, mas okay yan than kunwari tahimik eme
DeletePag may ginawa lang mali, aakalain mo talaga na lahat ng sinasabi nung tao is a shade or patama sa'yo. Guilty kasi.
Deleteyes for mental health, pero di ba dapat you heal ng di puro ganto sa social media? kapagod na te!
ReplyDeleteHeart. You are also hurting people and their family when you have no filter and broadcast everything online. Parang woke lang. Reklamo ng reklamo without being accountable what you have done wrong.
DeleteRemember, it takes two to tango. And there are three sides of story: her story, his story and the truth.
1:21pm good friday po. Have some empathy. Baka mangyari sa yo nangyari ke Heart.
DeleteAnon1:21 Kung ganyan ang coping mechanism nya pabayaan mo sya. Wala kang karapatang mapagod kasi di mo naman issue yan.
Deleteang kitid parin talaga ng utak ng mga pinoy about how emotions work. Gusto nila ok ka na agad, bawal na imention ang mga bagay bagay. Forgive agad agad. Forgiving does not mean forgetting. You can forgive and still feel residual bad emotions. Like in the post, the emotions came up kasi pinaalala nung art installation. You judge her as if, she's just being angry all the time of her life.
Delete1:21 scroll along nalang kasi. Bakit kasi pinapansin mo kung napapagod ka? Let people heal sa paraan na alam nila. Hindi tayo yung nasa situation nila.
Deletehuwag mo pag laanan ng pansin para hindi ka mapagod
Deletepalibhasa kasi yung mga bashers ni heart dito di ginagamit utak. heart has depth when it comes to art and fashion, now if di nyo gets yung kind of mindset and personality nya then that's not her problem. nagkataon na that exhibit kind of resonated with her about her past painful experience with people she thought she could trust. if you see the shade kahit di naman sya nag name drop then wag nyo na pakialaman,marites lang tayo.di natin pwede diktahan si heart kung ano ang dapat at di dpat nya ipost. nasan na kasi yung empathy nyo?
ReplyDeletenaawa ako dun kay heart when i watched that clip na nasunog yung hair nya while they were filming inside the car and no remorse yung 2 impaktita and kita mo yung mood ni heart dun na biglang nagbago coz she was sooo upset.
ReplyDeleteHope heart tell everyone ano tlaga ngyari sa kniya or kung ano gnawa sa knya. Sobrang tagal na rin neto and para mahimasmasan yun mga ng judge sa knya below the belt. Grabe comparison,
ReplyDeleteYown! Wala ng bago kay heart. Will always bring this up para mapagusapan siya
ReplyDeleteMga tao sobra mapanghusga. If you are not there firsthand wag masyado maniwala at magsalita ng hindi maganda. Remember there are always 3 sides of every story. Her side, his side and the truth. Mas masama ugali nyo kung magsasalita kayo ng kung anu ano sa ibang tao na hondi nyo naman alam lahat.
ReplyDeleteShe's still not happy. Be grateful nalang sana.
ReplyDeleteOkay clearly she is still hurting and clearly ginagatasan pa din nya yan issue na yan, ayaw naman nya ibunyag ang totoong nangyari. She is so immature. I dont know if this is her way na magpapansin kasi alam nya people will talk and she will look kawawa to them. Ni hindi nga alam kung talaga bang may betrayal na naganap kasi di naman nya sinasabi buong kwento. So di naman maka judge ang mga tao talaga kung may betrayal ba talaga na naganap. Naniniwala na lang mga tao dahil sa mga posts and parinig nya. Di pa sya naka move on kasi ayaw nya mag move on, ganon ba kaliit ang mundo nya?! i dont think so... ginagatasan na lang nya yan issue...
ReplyDeleteHeart, you need to move on. People are not your property. Situations and happenings are very dynamic. Don't get stuck in your belief that you are perfect and others have defects!
ReplyDeleteYikes! Walang kasiyahan sa puso
ReplyDeletePuro parinig. Nakakanega na
ReplyDeleteHer heart is full of jealousy.. Lagi syang threatened at pa victim.
ReplyDeleteThe fact na sya ang nag- iingay, di na kayo nasanay s narrative s I Heart eversince. Pavictim sya, na sya din nag umpisa ng problema nya.
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