si 11:03 ang tipo na mahilig magvictim-blame kaya konti lang nagspeak-up e. Yes, there were red flags but that does not excuse the abuse. Pag inlove madalas color blind.
Huy 1153. Abuse is never okay. Not even to save the family nor for the kids. I grew up watching my mom getting beaten by my dad. She stayed for me but I would rather she left. My sister died because of it, me and my brother got beaten when my mum was not enough. So please. It may start as a sample, or push at may apology after. But it can escalate. Abuse is never okay. You were blessed not suffer our torment.
hala victim blaming, wala ka man lang empathy sa taong na physically abused tas cheated on pa daw, hindi naman niya siguro akalain na ganon yung lalaki to say na she brought it upon herself
Kapwa pinoy lang talaga ang nagcocorrect ng grammar ng kapw pinoy or khit ibng lahi pa. SUper high standard namern yan pinas. Mga tao sa ibang bansa basta naiintindhan ka sila pa mahihiya ituwid grammar mo. Perfectionist yorn
9:02 this is sad,the grammar is sadder as you've said kahit wala naman kami nakikitang mali sa grammar and we understood perfectly but your attitude is the saddest.. Try mo mag-reflect sa self mo or magsimba kaya instead na magpaka-grammar police na wala naman sa lugar..
7:06 Hindi grammatically wrong yung last sentence. It only means na my chance siya noon pero pinalampas niya. That was the first best time. Ngayong nagsalita na siya is the second best time.
Aside from posting on socmed, I hope she also went to the police and had a medical checkup. Lubus-lubusin at sampolan mo na girl kung marami pala kayong sinaktan. He will keep abusing women in the future kung hanggang dakdak at fishing for sympathy ka lang sa socmed.
Btw, ano update dun sa Kit Thomson guy na nambugbog dati?
Ganyan tlga pag abusive ang household. So better na u know them, b4 deciding to marry their son/daughter/one of their family member. Dhil ang ending, aabusuhin ka nilang lahat. Better to be safe than sorry.
True. Swerte mo di pa kayo kasal, di ka pa entitled ma abuso din ng buo nyang pamilya. Go girl, run free!!! Ilayo mo na ang sarili at anak mo sa suffering sa pamilya at lalaking yan!!!
11:30 lol paulit-ulit ka sa grammar, wala naman mali. Sabi nya, pagkatapos daw nya i-post photos, pinag sorry sya ni mudra kapalit ng pagtira sa kanila (i.e. hindi sya papalayasin)
Ay malay mo gurl, mas bigyan pa sya ng career afterall nasa misogynistic world tyo. Kung sino pa ang karapat dapat n parusahan ay sya pang binibigyan ng blessings ni God. Haiz
Naniniwala ako na kaya may mga taong nang aabuse, kase may mga magulang o support system na nagkukunsinte. Imagine kung ganyan magiging byenan mo. Parang yung mga movie nila sharon at vilma nung 90s na super masama ugali nung nga nanay ng napangasawa nila. Hahahaha!
Yung movie ni Vilma with Ronnie Ricketts at Cesar Montana na titled Ikaw Lang. One of the best Pinoy movies I've seen. Watch it. Yung mom ni Cesar Montano sa movie enabler na may topak 😁
She is a dentist and has her own career. She is not dependent on the Estrada family so she can easily say no to the mom. Go girl! It’s better to be alone than to be with a guy like that.
Siguro kaya siya binugbog is because na reveal na may anak and gf na si guy which should be kept like a secret sana for the sake of his career and the loveteam but since decided na si girl na makipaghiwalay kaya nya nilabas lahat ng baho ng guy.
I am not justifying what he did pero parang medyo shortsighted and insecure yung girl. Sinabi naman niya na he is essentially already involved with someone. Yung iba talagang sasabihin single without any attachments. Sayang kasi pang support din Sana sa anak nila yung kikitain niya if he makes it big. First project pa lang sira na siya.
May post partum i think c girl dont say na insecure agad agad. Dapat maturuan mga young and new daddies na tumalikod na lang wag saktan ang nanay ng anak.
Ang ibig sabihin lang ata ni 1035 dapat tanggap ni girl na kailangan niya magbigay ni guy ng showbiz na answer. Hindi lang naman sila ang ganyan. Agree din ako na baka postpartum nga
Yup, mukhang insecure si girl. Pero ang main point dito is violent at abusado yung guy. Dapat nga sa unang sampal pa lang kumalas na si girl, nagpabuntis pa talaga sya.
Iwan mo na yan gurl walang balls mama’s boy anong career ang pinuprotekhan sino sya ngayon ko lng narinig pangalan nya and kung may career d na sya sisikat nagbubogbog ng babae.
Grabe maka victim blaming ang iba dito. Siya na nga nabugbog at na trauma, siya pa ang iblame nyo? Sana wala kayong mga kapatid o anak na babae na maging ganyan din. Mag boomerang yan sa inyo oyyyy
if possible, please read the article/interview, from a clear stand point, it was publish to support the intention of publicly acknowledging both Shaila and the Baby, but unfortunately, every word is being taken out of context...making the statements sound bad and destroy family's credibility intentionally...
I believe her. She needs help
ReplyDeleteHelp saan? Sa sarili niya? She brought it upon herself. Nagpauto sa lalake. Nasimulan na niya. Tapusin na lang niya. Wag sa soc med lang
Deletesi 11:03 ang tipo na mahilig magvictim-blame kaya konti lang nagspeak-up e. Yes, there were red flags but that does not excuse the abuse. Pag inlove madalas color blind.
DeleteHuy 1153. Abuse is never okay. Not even to save the family nor for the kids. I grew up watching my mom getting beaten by my dad. She stayed for me but I would rather she left. My sister died because of it, me and my brother got beaten when my mum was not enough. So please. It may start as a sample, or push at may apology after. But it can escalate. Abuse is never okay. You were blessed not suffer our torment.
DeleteGrabe victim blaming na naman! Kaya yung mga naaabuso e nahihiyang magsabi sa mga tao dahil sa mga tulad mo!
Delete11:93 Ohhh victim blaming ka teh.
Delete11:03, gosh! You’re as disgusting as the abuser! Victim blaming pa din talaga?
Delete1103 sana hindi mo ma experience yan at napakagaling mo kasi diba?
Delete11:03 sana wag ma-experience ng family at ikaw mismo pinagdaanan nya
Delete11;03 victim blaming. Kahit na anong mangyari walang karapatan sinoman manakit ng tao
Delete“She brought it upon herself” wow sa victim blaming 11:03 PM! Kakaiba ka!!
Deletehala victim blaming, wala ka man lang empathy sa taong na physically abused tas cheated on pa daw, hindi naman niya siguro akalain na ganon yung lalaki to say na she brought it upon herself
Delete“She brought it upon helself”???? You’re sick 11:03pm
DeleteSino si Rob at bakit sila powerful?
Delete11:03 may mga katulad mo pa pala?
Delete11:03 your attitude is disgusting. Kaya maraming takot to speak up
DeleteLol.. Eto na nman ang mga netizens na mahilig mag judge based on just ONE SIDE..
DeleteHey, have you not learned your lesson sa AURA BRIGUELA incident?
1:01 so may possibility na self inflicted? I don't think so SA laki Ng MGA bruises plus Meron din ibang victims
Delete11:03 help can be legal services, DSWD, friends to give her a leg up.
DeleteCEO of Victim Blaming Judgmental Much?
This is sad but the grammar is sadder.
ReplyDeletewow nakuha mo pa maging grammar police. Seriously mas sad yung grammar kesa sa pinagdaanan nya? Shame on you.
DeleteTss. 🙄
DeleteSame with your grammar 😂😂
DeleteCan you share ano yun mali? Paki-Google po muna pano ba talaga ang grammar bago mag comment.
DeleteKaloka ka. Yun talaga napansin mo. Kailangan talaga perfect ang grammar.
Deletesorry pero ok naman ang conversational english ni ate. ano ba gusto mo? ung pang thesis paper na grammar?
DeleteBugbugan din yung english ni ate gurl eh.
Deletepaki isa isa nga yung maling grammar, im curious. maybe i can learn something from you
Delete- not shaila
ikaw ang saddest baks! san ang wrong grammar? at kung meron man, oweeno, naka apekto ba sa gist ng post niya?
DeleteBakit sad ang grammar?Madali sya i-comprehend. Anong mali???
Delete9:02 you're outting your own ignorance
DeleteTi sa true lang language lang ang english. As long as naintndhan no ung snabi nya okay un. Daming successful na tao na di ganun kagaling mag english.
Deletewala tayo sa Oxford baks
DeleteSan banda?
DeleteAre you serious? What is ungrammatical in her posts?
DeleteLOL
DeleteCge nga, 9:02 pakicorrect ang grammar. Let's see how it should have been written.
Delete9:02 pm. Why? What's wrong with it? Sige nga isa isahin mo ang mali
DeleteKapwa pinoy lang talaga ang nagcocorrect ng grammar ng kapw pinoy or khit ibng lahi pa. SUper high standard namern yan pinas. Mga tao sa ibang bansa basta naiintindhan ka sila pa mahihiya ituwid grammar mo. Perfectionist yorn
DeleteNaintindihan mo nga ibig sabihin okay naman
DeleteYung last sentence lang naman nacomprehend ko naman
Delete9:02 i read it once lang naintindihan ko agad. Walang mali sa grammar.
DeleteSaddest ka ngayon 9:02.
Delete902 Please enlighten us. I am geniunely interested to know.
DeleteReally?? You’re more concerned about the grammar rather than the content of the message ??
Delete9:02 this is sad,the grammar is sadder as you've said kahit wala naman kami nakikitang mali sa grammar and we understood perfectly but your attitude is the saddest..
DeleteTry mo mag-reflect sa self mo or magsimba kaya instead na magpaka-grammar police na wala naman sa lugar..
7:06 Hindi grammatically wrong yung last sentence. It only means na my chance siya noon pero pinalampas niya. That was the first best time. Ngayong nagsalita na siya is the second best time.
DeleteWow?? Gigil moko teh!!!
DeleteAside from posting on socmed, I hope she also went to the police and had a medical checkup. Lubus-lubusin at sampolan mo na girl kung marami pala kayong sinaktan. He will keep abusing women in the future kung hanggang dakdak at fishing for sympathy ka lang sa socmed.
ReplyDeleteBtw, ano update dun sa Kit Thomson guy na nambugbog dati?
Truth!! Gabriela, do your thing.
DeleteGood! Laban lang!
ReplyDeleteWow! Ang kapal din naman ng family ni guy!
ReplyDeleteGanyan tlga pag abusive ang household. So better na u know them, b4 deciding to marry their son/daughter/one of their family member. Dhil ang ending, aabusuhin ka nilang lahat. Better to be safe than sorry.
DeleteSi Kate Gomez pala.amg nanay nitong si Rob
DeleteEnabler si mudra. Kawawa lang kung maging in-laws ka nila.
DeleteTrue. Swerte mo di pa kayo kasal, di ka pa entitled ma abuso din ng buo nyang pamilya. Go girl, run free!!! Ilayo mo na ang sarili at anak mo sa suffering sa pamilya at lalaking yan!!!
DeleteDa hu yung Kate Gomez wala namang accomplishments
DeleteKalerks si koya at nanay nya. 🥴
ReplyDeleteKaya may mga ganyang abusadong lalaki kasi may mga nanay na hindi nagpaka nanay na turuan ang mga anak nilang lalaki.
Deleteewww the mom
ReplyDeleteMadalas ang nanay na nag sspoil ng anak ganyan kinalalabasan. Walang accountability.
DeleteKinunsinti pa ng nanay.
DeleteAy ang kapalmuks nman ni mother. Good job for leaving them and fighting for your freedom and life. Rooting for u Shaila
ReplyDeleteKapal nga palibhasa sa nanay nakatira. Nag painterview kesyo c ate girl may kasalanan kasi padalus dalus daw.
DeleteThe mom is enabler. Wow just wow
ReplyDeleteIKR!? No wonder ganyan kinalabasan ng anak.
DeleteDi talaga maganda kalalabasan pag may in law na umeepal eh. Sya pa magsosorry?
ReplyDeleteFeeling ko hindi lang naexplain masyado ni ate gurl since nakakahilo ang grammar niya. Baka yung mother ang nagsorry? Tagalugin na lang po kasi. 🤦🏻♀️
Delete11:30 comprehension mo ata ang nahilo, girl! malinaw pagka explain nya about it.
DeleteTry mo context clue baka masagot tanong mo 11:30
Delete11:30 lol paulit-ulit ka sa grammar, wala naman mali. Sabi nya, pagkatapos daw nya i-post photos, pinag sorry sya ni mudra kapalit ng pagtira sa kanila (i.e. hindi sya papalayasin)
Delete11:30 ikaw din ata si “sadder” don sa taas. Hina pala ng comprehension kaya “pinapaayos” ung grammar. Lol
Delete11:30 ikaw ata nasuntok eh kase ikaw yung nahilo. Madali naman intindihin
DeleteAno ba yan. Wala pa ngang career yung guy sira agad. Lol.
ReplyDeletedi ka sure teh, gulat ka baka ipasok pa yan sa batang quiapo bigla
DeleteAy malay mo gurl, mas bigyan pa sya ng career afterall nasa misogynistic world tyo. Kung sino pa ang karapat dapat n parusahan ay sya pang binibigyan ng blessings ni God. Haiz
DeleteGood for you! You did the right thing by leaving.
ReplyDeleteTo the enabler mom, kadiri ka!
Grabe yung mom! Sana nag appear sya sa police station, may desk duon for women, kahit documentation lang if di pa sya ready
ReplyDeleteNaniniwala ako na kaya may mga taong nang aabuse, kase may mga magulang o support system na nagkukunsinte. Imagine kung ganyan magiging byenan mo. Parang yung mga movie nila sharon at vilma nung 90s na super masama ugali nung nga nanay ng napangasawa nila. Hahahaha!
ReplyDeleteYung movie ni Vilma with Ronnie Ricketts at Cesar Montana na titled Ikaw Lang. One of the best Pinoy movies I've seen. Watch it. Yung mom ni Cesar Montano sa movie enabler na may topak 😁
DeleteTrue
DeleteAko lang ba di nagwa gwapuhan sa guy? Parang langing nakakain ng maasim ung expression nya
ReplyDeleteHahahah. Same
DeleteChinese version of gary estrada
DeleteFeeling super guapo siya.
DeleteSame
DeleteTrue. Di talaga gwapo. Ginagaya pa yung apeal ng tiyuhin nya na si Gary E.
DeleteMama's boy!
ReplyDeleteShe is a dentist and has her own career. She is not dependent on the Estrada family so she can easily say no to the mom. Go girl! It’s better to be alone than to be with a guy like that.
ReplyDeleteKaya pala abusado si guy at may nanay na nagtotolerate.
ReplyDeleteHindi na dapat binibigyan ng project itong guy. Wala naman cyang career na dapat protektahan in the first place.
ReplyDeleteNo.1 daw serye nya pero never ko pa nanood.
DeleteDi ba? Anong career? Eh wala nga. Haha
Delete9:02 Abused na nga yung tao yung grammar pa ang nakita mo. Babaw mo.
ReplyDeleteAnd to think walang mali sa grammar ni Shaila.
DeleteActually wala ngang mali sa grammar
DeleteI second the motion
DeleteGo girl, Wishing you the best.
ReplyDeleteMahirap pag kalaban mo May influence so minsan unahin mo muna sa socmed baka mahiya at hindi ka ma harm.
ReplyDeleteTama maimpluwensya mother's side mayaman naman father go girl!
DeleteSiguro kaya siya binugbog is because na reveal na may anak and gf na si guy which should be kept like a secret sana for the sake of his career and the loveteam but since decided na si girl na makipaghiwalay kaya nya nilabas lahat ng baho ng guy.
ReplyDeleteParang matagal na siyang binubugbog, before pa niya ireveal. That’s what I understood from her post but I could be wrong.
DeleteHope she heals from this.
Enabler ka din eh.
DeleteRead again. Over a year na syang abused. So it’s not because of the reveal.
Deleteone year na daw may abuse, weeks ago lang nireveal yung baby, so before the reveal may bugbog ng ganap
DeleteHindi lang ito nangyari just now, it has been going on for more than a year.
DeleteNagpainterview kasi si guy na single daw sya at may niligawan. Nahurt si girl at nagpost ng family photos the next day. The guy got mad.
DeleteGusto lang niya mapilitan yung lalake na pakasalan cya!
ReplyDeleteSeriously? Magpapabugbog ka ng ganyan? Victim blaming. Ikaw na lang pakasal kay Kuya
Deletekung anak ko yang lalaki na yan ako pa mismo maghahatid sa kanya sa presinto nung unang sinaktan pa lang niya yung girl
ReplyDeleteI am not justifying what he did pero parang medyo shortsighted and insecure yung girl. Sinabi naman niya na he is essentially already involved with someone. Yung iba talagang sasabihin single without any attachments. Sayang kasi pang support din Sana sa anak nila yung kikitain niya if he makes it big. First project pa lang sira na siya.
ReplyDeleteSo gusto bayaan na lang nya na bugbugin siya Kasi kumikita Naman pang support sa bata?
DeleteMay post partum i think c girl dont say na insecure agad agad. Dapat maturuan mga young and new daddies na tumalikod na lang wag saktan ang nanay ng anak.
Delete10:35 you shouldn't condone violence and then blame the victim. violence is violence, period.
DeleteAng ibig sabihin lang ata ni 1035 dapat tanggap ni girl na kailangan niya magbigay ni guy ng showbiz na answer. Hindi lang naman sila ang ganyan. Agree din ako na baka postpartum nga
DeleteYup, mukhang insecure si girl. Pero ang main point dito is violent at abusado yung guy. Dapat nga sa unang sampal pa lang kumalas na si girl, nagpabuntis pa talaga sya.
DeleteShe can't be insecure she's a dentist pretty beauty queen...most likely may post partum, dapat nag pasensya c mama's boy
DeleteSino ba tong guy? Rich ba ang family?
ReplyDeleteMother's side from ejercito / estrada clan while dad's side pure chinese daw.
DeleteAnak ni George Estregan ang mom nya at sister ni Gary Estrada.
Delete7:31 si kate gomez?
DeleteIwan mo na yan gurl walang balls mama’s boy anong career ang pinuprotekhan sino sya ngayon ko lng narinig pangalan nya and kung may career d na sya sisikat nagbubogbog ng babae.
ReplyDeleteMama's boy! 🚩🚩🚩🚩
ReplyDeleteGrabe maka victim blaming ang iba dito. Siya na nga nabugbog at na trauma, siya pa ang iblame nyo? Sana wala kayong mga kapatid o anak na babae na maging ganyan din. Mag boomerang yan sa inyo oyyyy
ReplyDeleteDi nman gwapo. Ipa VAWC na yan
ReplyDelete8 months pa lang ang baby? And over a year of abuse? this means sinasaktan sya while pregnant?
ReplyDeleteCurious ako sa sasabihin ng guy (at ng mom)
ReplyDeleteif possible, please read the article/interview, from a clear stand point, it was publish to support the intention of publicly acknowledging both Shaila and the Baby, but unfortunately, every word is being taken out of context...making the statements sound bad and destroy family's credibility intentionally...
Delete