Toxic filipino mindset spotted na walang ibang inisip kundi yung ano sasabihin ng ibang tao. Kahit naaabuse na sa relasyon mag sstay parin dahil papanget pangalanan. Isa ka sa mga polusyon sa mundo.
laking humility nun to accept something isn’t working nor serves you. mas proudful pa nagmamatigas na ipilit ang toxic relationship because of what other people will think etc
kaloka ka! Wow ang mindset mo sobrang outdated! Labas ka din sa lungga dahil hindi dapat ikahiya ang pagiging divorcee. Matapang na babae lang ang kayang gumawa nyan napakahirap nyan lalo na isang filipina na iba ang kulturang kinalikahan. Grabe ang pinagdaanan ko mentally, physically emotionally lalo na finacially bago na grant ang divorce sa akin pero di ako sumuko dahil I’d rather be alone than be with someone and feel so alone and disrespected. I still feel sorry to a lot of women who cant leave a sad and or abusive marriage.
Why can’t she be proud of it? It’s her life and story to tell. You don’t know what she’s been through when she was in a relationship. Maybe she was in abusive relationship that’s why she’s proud to get out of it.
Good thing she's in the US where being divorced is common. Unlike sa Asia na may certain stigma pag hiwalay sa asawa ang babae kaya yung iba napilitan na lang magtiis.
642 madami ngang separated pero yung mga tita titang sinauna dami pa ring nasasabi. that’s what she meant. if you’re not around titas like that, then you must be the lucky one.
I agree with you 6:42. The absence of divorce bill does not stop ending of marriages na di na talaga nagwowork. Personally, walang stigma para sa akin. I dont care if a person is separated/divorced or not. I'm glaD it's changing lalo na sa millenials. Can't do anything about the boomers though.
For me naman, it's not something to be proud of or to be ashamed of either. Just get on with your life and let your child be a testament of what you have accomplished as a mother. Pinaka-fulfilling yung manggagaling mismo sa anak mo yung katagang, "I'm proud of my mom because she set aside her lovelife in order to raise me on her own." Ganern. Ako lang naman to. Haha
Lol! I think leave it at “I am proud of my mom because she was able to raise me on her own”. May karapatan rin naman siya magkalovelife and at the same time raise a kid. Just saying 🤷🏻♀️
That's a general statement 5:21. May ibang nanay kasi na piniling maging single instead of pursuing a man. Wala namang nag-aalis ng karapatan sa kahit na sino na hindi magka lovelife. But some people know their priorities. Just saying 🤷🏻♀️
Looks like she can take care of her child and does co-parenting too with her ex husband. Let her live her life. May pa-“it’s nothing to be proud of or to be ashamed of” at “piniling maging single than pursuing a man”. Gaslight yan?
7:35... true, my mom had some relationship while i was growing up but she choose to focus on her work to support me, she got lucky at her 50s and still manage to get married. May iba kasing single mom na mas nagfofocus s love life and ang ending, nasusundan agad yung unang anak.
7:35 being in a relationship after divorce doesn't mean di na nya alam ang priorities nya. what type of mindset is that? same thing as after motherhood, a mother will be judged if sometimes she chooses to spend time alone. nkklk mga mindset na ganyan
Sure ka 05:31? The bible was originally in Arameic, then translated to Greek, then Latin, then English. How sure are you that nothing was lost in translation and everything is truth? Also keep religion out of it. Kaya madami ayaw kumawala kahit kailangan na dahil sa mga kagaya mo.
5:31 kung happy ang marriage life mo wala ka dapat ikabahala at wala ka dapat paki alam sa mga tulad namin na hoping na sana magka divorce na, kaming mga niloko at inabuso at walang pera na di afford ang annulment, OK BA? baka naman kinakabahan ka hmmmm
Bakit nga ba takot na takot ang mga Pilipino sa divorce? Dahil ayaw magbayad ng alimony at child support? Dahil takot na iwan ng asawa at ipagpalit sa iba? Dahil from the get go alam nilang may iba ang mga asawa nila? Mga girls, payo ko lang, make sure you have your own income, para kahit iwan kayo, d kayo kasing insecure ng mga babaeng nagtatago sa likod ng bible.
Paano naman ang mga hindi nagbabasa o naniniwala sa Bible? Paano naman ang case ng mga Muslim, eh di ba allowed sa kanila ang divorce? Yung mga nasa abusive relationships, stuck sila because these holier than though lawmakers are shoving their own morality down everybody's throats?!
The government and the law should cater to ALL citizens.
Matagal n nmn alam years n ata ei may bf ka nmn na dn db na army for years n rnsame kau ng ex m kaya dna need iremind alm n nmn loud out loud i mean alam qna years na🤣🤣
Ay korek ka, same as those posting their “woke up like this” or “unflattering” pictures guising as an empowerment post. Give me a break, fishing for compliment much. Papansin
Sa mga kapwa ko babae: you should always be proud of the decisions you made when you did it because you choose to be true to yourself with the best intentions in mind. kung ikakatahiimik ng puso at isip mo na wala kang tinatapakan na tao, im so proud of you, wag kang matakot sa sasabihin ng iba or kung di ayon sa pretentious standards nila. You only live once, dont settle for anything less. I learned to be more forgiving, a better mothee amd happier human being when I decided to choose me after years of feeling trapped in a very unhappy relationship.
Napaka entertaining basahin itong mindset ng mga ibang taga Pinas. Like for real ganyan pa rin kayo mag isip? If you want to be a first world country, you better start having a first world mindset. Panahon pa ni kopong kopong yung ganyang pagiisip. Jusme!
I have nothing against those who chose to get divorced. But to be proud of it? oh my… you will never learn girl.. have some humility…
ReplyDelete@313pm I don’t agree. What if the guy is abusive? Think about it.
DeleteHUH? i hope you're not female. Getting out of relationships that do not work is better than staying in a toxic one. Di kasalanan yan.
DeleteYour sentence are contradicting!
DeleteToxic filipino mindset spotted na walang ibang inisip kundi yung ano sasabihin ng ibang tao. Kahit naaabuse na sa relasyon mag sstay parin dahil papanget pangalanan. Isa ka sa mga polusyon sa mundo.
DeleteWhen has it been an embarrassment to be divorced? You should be ashamed of yourself for being ignorant and discriminatory🤪😜😝
Deletegetting out of a bad situation is a good thing. anong klaseng thinking meron ka?
Deletetypical toxic pinoy mindset. nakulong na sa traditional beliefs and pilit iniimpose sa iba.
Deletelaking humility nun to accept something isn’t working nor serves you. mas proudful pa nagmamatigas na ipilit ang toxic relationship because
Deleteof what other
people will think etc
Your thinking is so gross. Negative, toxic Filipino
Deletekaloka ka! Wow ang mindset mo sobrang outdated! Labas ka din sa lungga dahil hindi dapat ikahiya ang pagiging divorcee. Matapang na babae lang ang kayang gumawa nyan napakahirap nyan lalo na isang filipina na iba ang kulturang kinalikahan. Grabe ang pinagdaanan ko mentally, physically emotionally lalo na finacially bago na grant ang divorce sa akin pero di ako sumuko dahil I’d rather be alone than be with someone and feel so alone and disrespected. I still feel sorry to a lot of women who cant leave a sad and or abusive marriage.
DeleteWhat’s next if you are not proud of it?
DeleteWhy can’t she be proud of it? It’s her life and story to tell. You don’t know what she’s been through when she was in a relationship. Maybe she was in abusive relationship that’s why she’s proud to get out of it.
DeleteGood thing she's in the US where being divorced is common. Unlike sa Asia na may certain stigma pag hiwalay sa asawa ang babae kaya yung iba napilitan na lang magtiis.
ReplyDeletemay stigma pa din ba? andami kong kilalang separated dito sa Pinas ok naman sila. may mga kanya kanya ng pamilya. look around you.
Delete642 madami ngang separated pero yung mga tita titang sinauna dami pa ring nasasabi. that’s what she meant. if you’re not around titas like that, then you must be the lucky one.
DeleteI agree with you 6:42. The absence of divorce bill does not stop ending of marriages na di na talaga nagwowork. Personally, walang stigma para sa akin. I dont care if a person is separated/divorced or not. I'm glaD it's changing lalo na sa millenials. Can't do anything about the boomers though.
DeleteFor me naman, it's not something to be proud of or to be ashamed of either. Just get on with your life and let your child be a testament of what you have accomplished as a mother. Pinaka-fulfilling yung manggagaling mismo sa anak mo yung katagang, "I'm proud of my mom because she set aside her lovelife in order to raise me on her own." Ganern. Ako lang naman to. Haha
ReplyDeleteI agree with you
DeleteLol! I think leave it at “I am proud of my mom because she was able to raise me on her own”. May karapatan rin naman siya magkalovelife and at the same time raise a kid. Just saying 🤷🏻♀️
DeleteThat's a general statement 5:21. May ibang nanay kasi na piniling maging single instead of pursuing a man. Wala namang nag-aalis ng karapatan sa kahit na sino na hindi magka lovelife. But some people know their priorities. Just saying 🤷🏻♀️
DeleteLooks like she can take care of her child and does co-parenting too with her ex husband. Let her live her life. May pa-“it’s nothing to be proud of or to be ashamed of” at “piniling maging single than pursuing a man”. Gaslight yan?
Delete7:35... true, my mom had some relationship while i was growing up but she choose to focus on her work to support me, she got lucky at her 50s and still manage to get married. May iba kasing single mom na mas nagfofocus s love life and ang ending, nasusundan agad yung unang anak.
Delete7:35 being in a relationship after divorce doesn't mean di na nya alam ang priorities nya. what type of mindset is that? same thing as after motherhood, a mother will be judged if sometimes she chooses to spend time alone. nkklk mga mindset na ganyan
Delete@8:42 True! Akala niya ata ang pagddate after leaving a marriage would ruin one’s priorities. 😟 Closed and traditional mindset spotted
DeleteSana may divorced na rin sa Pinas kaloka vatican at pinas na lanng ata ang wala,
ReplyDeleteLast time i checked di pa naman nagbabago nakasulat sa bible.
Delete5:31 the bible has been revised hundreds of times and not all people believe in your Bible
DeleteSure ka 05:31? The bible was originally in Arameic, then translated to Greek, then Latin, then English. How sure are you that nothing was lost in translation and everything is truth? Also keep religion out of it. Kaya madami ayaw kumawala kahit kailangan na dahil sa mga kagaya mo.
Delete5:31 kahit ba hindi unfaithful and abusive yun asawa mo titiisin mo just because of the bible?
Delete5:31 kung happy ang marriage life mo wala ka dapat ikabahala at wala ka dapat paki alam sa mga tulad namin na hoping na sana magka divorce na, kaming mga niloko at inabuso at walang pera na di afford ang annulment, OK BA? baka naman kinakabahan ka hmmmm
DeleteBakit nga ba takot na takot ang mga Pilipino sa divorce? Dahil ayaw magbayad ng alimony at child support? Dahil takot na iwan ng asawa at ipagpalit sa iba? Dahil from the get go alam nilang may iba ang mga asawa nila? Mga girls, payo ko lang, make sure you have your own income, para kahit iwan kayo, d kayo kasing insecure ng mga babaeng nagtatago sa likod ng bible.
DeletePaano naman ang mga hindi nagbabasa o naniniwala sa Bible? Paano naman ang case ng mga Muslim, eh di ba allowed sa kanila ang divorce? Yung mga nasa abusive relationships, stuck sila because these holier than though lawmakers are shoving their own morality down everybody's throats?!
DeleteThe government and the law should cater to ALL citizens.
5:31, gurl di lahat naniniwala sa bible.
DeleteMatagal n nmn alam years n ata ei may bf ka nmn na dn db na army for years n rnsame kau ng ex m kaya dna need iremind alm n nmn loud out loud i mean alam qna years na🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteHuh? Pakipaliwanag ng mabuti ang comment kaFP. Hindi maintindihan.
DeleteWhat are you saying here 4:05? Are you being charged by your service provider per character/letter?
DeleteI didn’t know that jejemom still exists. You’re so 2000.
Deletesiyempre, kwento mo yan kaya proud ka.
ReplyDeleteAba, sino ba dapat mauuna maging proud sa sarili mo kundi ikaw! She knows her worth. Kawawa ka naman kasi obviously you don’t know yours.
Deletegalit na galit @11:39? hindi ko need ng validation sa sarili ko kasi alam ko nga ang worth ko, lol.
Deletesingle and ready to mingle daw sya
ReplyDeleteKaya i-date nyo na daw sya 😂
DeleteDapat be humble pa rin.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha! Ewan ko sayo.
Deletebwahaha
DeleteAy, huli na naman ako. Wala na pala sila nung Afam na fli-nex nya sa SocMed before.
ReplyDeleteAfam? She lives in the US
DeleteEwan ko sayo michelle. Di nakakainfluence o nakakainspire. Tigil mo n yan. lol
ReplyDeleteit only shows na "date me guys,date me! i'm single na!" hahaha! kahiya naman magpost ng mga ganyang ka-ek ekan.
ReplyDeleteTumpak ganern ka jan siszt!
DeleteToo true!
Deleteagree with you sis
DeleteFishing for compliments and validation
ReplyDeleteAy korek ka, same as those posting their “woke up like this” or “unflattering” pictures guising as an empowerment post. Give me a break, fishing for compliment much. Papansin
DeleteI agree. Or pwede rin na she’s just trying to convince herself
DeleteLooks like she’s trying to convince herself. Hope she finds the one or finds peace in being single muna. Wishing her well.
Deletetmi lie low muna sa love life dzai darating din yan
ReplyDeleteProfile niya yan sa dating app. Updated lang.
ReplyDeleteIto yung mga bagay na di dapat pinagmamalaki. Move on with your life, di mo na kelangan ipagsigawan na hiwalay ka at may anak ka.
ReplyDeletesana may divorce na dito sa Pilipinas
ReplyDeleteMay pinaglalaban? Wala naman nagtanong
ReplyDeleteSa mga kapwa ko babae: you should always be proud of the decisions you made when you did it because you choose to be true to yourself with the best intentions in mind. kung ikakatahiimik ng puso at isip mo na wala kang tinatapakan na tao, im so proud of you, wag kang matakot sa sasabihin ng iba or kung di ayon sa pretentious standards nila. You only live once, dont settle for anything less. I learned to be more forgiving, a better mothee amd happier human being when I decided to choose me after years of feeling trapped in a very unhappy relationship.
ReplyDeleteI’m proud of your decision 11:33. It’s not easy to be separated especially in a conservative country but you did it.
DeleteWait wait lang tau kc May kasunod na nman na jowa yan
ReplyDeleteEh ano naman kung magkajowa ulit sya? Bawal ba?
DeleteEh ano kung meron? Dapat ba kasama ka sa desisyon nya?
DeleteNatural. Maganda sya kaya laging nakakahanap ng gwapong jowa. Kaloka.
DeleteDivorce is a difficult and painful process. Imo she can be proud of herself for surviving that.
ReplyDeleteNormal lang dito sa US to be in their 30s, divorced single parent, baka sa Pinas lang shocking yan since dami pa din judgemental na tao
ReplyDeleteYou go girl! Yung mga old timey mag isip jan go out and smell the roses naman muna. Mag 2024 na pag iisip nyo stuck padin sa 1800’s yata.
ReplyDeleteNapaka entertaining basahin itong mindset ng mga ibang taga Pinas. Like for real ganyan pa rin kayo mag isip? If you want to be a first world country, you better start having a first world mindset. Panahon pa ni kopong kopong yung ganyang pagiisip. Jusme!
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