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Sunday, April 18, 2021

Friendship and Mr. Flawless (Part 1)

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Friendship among celebrities is highly cherished, especially the one that has withstood the test of time. The friendship shared by Steadfast Woman (SW), Creative Homemaker (CH), and Balanced Assessor (BA) is admired by their fans. Despite coming from different backgrounds and beliefs, the three have managed to keep their communication lines open. The constant reaching out to one another deepened their friendship. They talk about everything, except politics. 

One time, SW opened up to CH and BA about the affair of Her Husband (HH). Allegedly, HH got a woman pregnant. BA expressed her stand that SW should save her marriage and not make a big issue out of it. SW can settle if necessary. SW took the higher road. Later on, HH did the same thing again. This time, BA posted the challenge that if SW really loves HH, then she should accept reality. As long as HH comes home to her, SW should accept that HH has his excess baggage, a part of his life she should consider. Meanwhile, CH emphasized that the family should always be saved. 

Time passed and CH shocked SW and BA. She revealed a similar problem, which made her feel degraded. SW and BA comforted CH and gave her advice. SW and CH praised BA who seemed to be living her life free from issues. They expressed admiration for the serene life BA has, as Her Man (HM) projected perfection. HM seemed like the perfect partner that SW and CH missed. Or is he truly Mr. Flawless? 

‘One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and to be understood.’ – Lucius Annaeus Seneca

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112 comments:

  1. M,T, B goodnite!!

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    1. Friends paba sila? 1:05

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    2. Wehhh lahat sila???? Grabe naman mga asawa nila.

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    3. yes db may issue both asawa ng dlawa kaya ung iss lng dp naiisu kc d nman masyado sa limelight

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    4. Tulis ng Hubby! Me binuntis pa! Kasingganda din kaya ni Wifey o baka mas sexy?????

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  2. Don't know who these women are but I don't want to get married na. Men suck.

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    1. True. Kung ganito man lang ang haharapin mong sakit ulo in the future. Men will eventually cheat.

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    2. Not all men are cheaters and many women cheat on their husbands too.

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    3. Mag-ka Jowa ka muna teh. sus

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    4. Marriage is an old fashioned concept and only truly works for a handful - and that requires a lot of sacrifice and compromise - mostly from women. It's funny how women are so happy when a man proposes, so joyful over the wedding. It's not fun and games after. Basically, you get either a grown child, a cheater or sometimes even both. That's not saying some women don't act the same way. Perhaps this is why opposites attract? They should never marry though.

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    5. Teh wag ka bitter. Wag mo idamay lahat. Sana magkajowa ka muna.

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    6. I've always been a romantic, but I've also been cheated many times by my boyfriend. It made me lose hope in finding love or having a faithful partner at the very least. After reading or knowing other women's experiences, I've just made peace with it. Love, marriage and family may not be in the cards for me. It doesn't mean that I'm not open to new relationships. It's just that I'm having second thoughts in getting married especially here in PH. Ayoko na ibigay lahat and magpakatanga. I don't think I'll be able to trust men again. I'd rather not risk my peace of mind. Siguro hanap nlng ako ng foreigner lol

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    7. Before u decide to marry,make sure mahal mo talaga yong partner mo at importante na mahal ka din nya para ano mang problem,u will work it out.

      Minsan pag nag aaway,yong partner lang ang iniisip na may mali and that is not okay.
      Mag isip at ianalyze mabuti why nangyari yong away.Saan ba nag umpisa.

      Kapag galit sa isat isa magpalamig ng init ng ulo at NEVER pumunta sa inuman or sa opposite sex,kc kapag sa iba magsasabi ng problem/galit, asahan mo one sided na payo marereceive or baka matukso pa,imbes maayos magiging magulo tuloy kc pag kinampihan ka ng pinuntahan mo,uuwi ka sa bahay na makikipagtikisan sa partner or kalaunan hiwalayan mauuwi.
      Iwasan ang paninira sa partner para lang masabi na sya ang mali.

      Patience kung mapapalagpas pasensyahan na.
      Mag usap-yun ang key to a good relationship.
      Baka nman nagbago ka na,dati kind,cool,confident,funny partner ka tapos naging syado clingy,madaldal,controlling.

      Wag icompare ang partner sa iba, minahal at tinanggap mo sya kaya dapat no comparison.may kanya kanyang kagalingan ang bawat tao.Minsan dimo alam yong pinagkukumparahan eh mas masahol pa.
      Love with no condition.Dont count what you do kc baka sa kabibilang ng ginawa mo,di na napapansin ang sakripisyo din ng partner.
      Pray for both your relationship and your partner.

      Yong iba sabi nila self love,okay nman yun basta know the difference,wag lang mauwi yong self love sa pagiging selfish/ self centered.

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  3. SW- T
    CH- M
    BA- B

    Yun na!

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    1. I think sis baliktad.
      SW-M
      CH-B
      BA-T

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    2. M & T’s husbands were linked to other ladies so may rumours na. I think SW is M, CH is T and BA is B.

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  4. Sinech itech mga classmates? Patulong naman.

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  5. Sino ito? Wlang may alam? Lol

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    1. Isipin ang artista friends na may mga asawa na. Friends even before they got married. KaF

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    2. Iba ang hula ko. Sina SS&L. Iba ibang mga edad.

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  6. Sino kaya ito?

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  7. Yung sosyalin girls ba ito. Sila lang ang alam kong married na.

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    1. Nope. Meron pa. Same age.

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    2. Not all three are sosyalin. And isa lumaki sa hirap.

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  8. SW=S
    BA=S
    CH=J
    Need to be famous to be in this circle

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    1. Same tayo ng guess, classmate. At first, parang sa Part 2 ko pa malalaman ang sagot, pero mukhang eto na.

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    2. Lahat sila sikat pero iba ibang generation.

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    3. Here, let me help:

      SW - more senior S, cringey on social; She'd be happier without HH who's famous in another field. He needs her more and he's impregnated some girl/s twice??

      CH - J whose celeb husband had philandering rumours even before their marriage. I thought he'd changed, but recent whispers suggest otherwise. She can stand on her own too!

      BA - youngest S. New to the institution, but certainly an established talent. Still in the early throes of marriage and hopefully her husband isn't like the others. He's also famous although not quite as accomplished as the wife. A good catch for her though so in a way they seem a great match.

      I don't know why they tell each other to be martyrs. Have courage. Teach your kids to have self-respect and to also value their own peace of mind. You can't properly care for others of you haven't cared for yourself first.






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    4. 10:38

      Are they friends?

      I mean younger S doesnt bond with the two

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    5. Thanks 10:38
      Pero bakit J is CH-creative homemaker. Dba may movies pa din naman sha, active pa din sa showbiz?

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    6. omg!! thank you 1038.. naconfirm hula ko dahil sayo.. at first i also thought it was MTB..

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    7. You da bomb 1038

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  9. He ain't perfect. He's just good at hiding and keeping it a secret. Discreet affair. I think BA knows and just follows her own advice of keeping the marriage and being lowkey about it.

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  10. Kasi naman when will men understand na kapag ayaw na nila, its okay to leave. Pero bago yun, sana di sila nagcommit kung hindi nila kaya. Nakakainis. Kawawa mga babae lalo mga kids :(

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    1. It's okay to leave? If the guy is already married with kids, leaving is the last option.

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    2. 5:24 based sa mga kakilala kong kids from broken families, thry prefer to see their mom single kesa yung harap harapan nagloloko yung dad. Bottomline is: most men are trash. Bihirang bihira ka makakakita nung talagang totoo sayo.

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    3. Totoo yung sabi ni 6:59.As a daughter of a serial philanderer,mas gusto ko pang naghiwalay na lang kagad sila ng mama ko kaysa paulit-ulit niyang bastusin yung nanay ko including us kids. Kahit matanda na ako,may effect talaga siya on how you think and handle relationship. Malungkot,masakit, mahirap at lumala yung insecurities/anxiety and trust issues ko.super toxic, i cant even greet my dad during fathers day. Kung tatay/asawa niya di babaero,consider yourself lucky na para na din kayong nanalo sa lotto.sorry kung mahaba yung post gusto ko lang maglabas ng sama ng loob

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    4. Yep, kids prefer happy single parents (who respect each other as co-parents) over unhappy couple just for show.

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    5. I totally agree w/ you6:59! My friends children were the ones who encouraged her to leave their dad, they told her to do whatever makes her happy!

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    6. 5:24 true. i came from a broken family and I was wishing na maghiwalay na sila bata pa lang ako. Everyday away. Sobra stress sa toxic family. Katrauma. Id rather them be friends or civil.

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    7. Mahirap ba ang annulment compared to a divorce?

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    8. Super agree.. mas gusto ko naghiwalay na Lang sila kesa everyday away and Yun father ko may kabit na source Ng away...Kaya siguro unmarried pa din ako in my mid 30s kase ayoko matulad sa mother ko...

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  11. All married celebrities... hmm ito ba yung friends since youngstars- sila Lang ang married na alam ko

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    1. No, they're from different generations and all massively accomplished stars.

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  12. B, M & T. So totoo talaga yung di mamatay matay na tsismis about B’s husband no? As to M’s husband naman, well, no surprise there at talagang known babaero naman na yun eversince.

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    1. Marami kasing easy temptations sa line of work ng mga asawa nila. Siguro naakit nung pregnant sila.

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    2. Bakit si B Wala ako mahagilap na affair husband nya?

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  13. SW - M
    CH - T
    BA - B

    Mali ba ko ng pagkakasunod sunod? Para kasing si B palang walang issue sa partner nya. Si M and T ang dami nang lumabas na chika about alleged other women.

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    1. Review ka classmate ng past BIs

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    2. Review and research muna. Ang dami na? Para namang hearsay at pinagpalit mo pa.

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    3. Hindi lang ako makapaniwala na ganyan ang advice ni B. Kung si B nga si BA. It doesn't seem like her. Matalino naman siya at woke most of the time. So parang hindi tugma yung personality niya sa binibigay na advices ni BA.

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  14. Abangers sa next part. Hirap wla masyado clues.

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  15. Bagay na bagay ang Mr Flawless sa asawa ni BA hehe.

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  16. sw:S
    ch:J
    ba:?
    hm:R

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  17. It's wrong na sabihin kay girl na "save the marriage" if siya lang magisa nag t-try iwork. Lahat ng tao deserve naman maging masaya. Kung masaya asawa niya sa pang bababae, iwan mo na girl!!!! Don't allow him to disrespect you.

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    1. Exactly. Live for your own peace of mind and teach your children to value themselves too. Does putting up with a cheating spouse elevate your status? Is that more important than your peace? Would you want your daughter/s to do the same? Suck up and bear it despite being torn up inside?

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    2. Yes! Agree sa inyo mga bakla! Ako talaga kahit masakit nanindigan ako. Iniwan ko kahit kambal anak namin. Ang gusto ko kasi matutunan ng mga anak ko, hindi okay ang cheating. Pag nangyari sayo, maging matapang ka. Wag ka magtiis at magpaka martyr. Matuto kang respeto ang sarili mo, hindi mo deserve na niloloko. Mas mabuti na iiyak ka ngayon kesa habang buhay kang walang peace of mind kakaisip kung nangangaliwa b aasawa mo kapag di mo siya kasama.

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    3. Baka nman mahal talaga ni SW ang hubby nya kaya di madesisyunan pakawalan.
      Ayun sa nakausap q,ang mga lalaki madali tablan yan sa babae kc it is in their nature, lust yun sa kanila ang problema pag nabuntis,may mahal daw sila talaga at yong pinakasalan nila.ang lalaki pag iniwan ng mrs. nya nasisira diskarte nya sa buhay.
      KAYA LANG bat di nman kc magpakatino pag sinusumpong ng L pwede nman sa mrs nya bat kelangan sa iba.

      SANA din yong ibang mga babae wag na din kc bumigay sa lalaking comitted na AT yong ibang girls wag na din kc mantukso ng guy na may asawa/live in/gf na.

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  18. 2021 na, we don't tolerate cheaters!!! walang aksidente na nag cheat.

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  19. part 1 pa lng baka s part 2 mahulaan ko na

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  20. SW - S
    CH - J
    BA - S

    Hindi sila pare-pareho ng henerasyon.

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    1. Clues pa klasmeyt please

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    2. Parang alam ko na. Thanks for the clue.

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    3. Big stars. May sari-sarili silang titulo.

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    4. Ahh got it, thanks!

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    5. Oh my asawa ni J projects this super perfect husband ohmg!

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    6. I change my answer SSJ sila
      Not same age
      Before we do the part 2
      Let’s have some juice news about the husband of J please- I heard that when they were gf/bf but not as married couple
      Creative homemaker is J
      S And S the rest
      Grabe! Hirap maging married

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    7. More clues please. Kaf or kah?

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    8. Kung si younger S si SW, grabe naman at nakabuntis na? Mga bata pa sila ng husband. Unless mali ang hula ko. Pero sila lang alam ko na big stars with those initials.

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  21. Sina B M T ba to???

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  22. Ang alam ko M T B lang. Lahat bg asawa ata nila babaero. Laging may nalilink except dun sa isa na good boy or bad boy. Hahaha..

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  23. Sana naman isipin ng mga lalake ang mga anak din nila kung gagawa sila ng kalokohan, lalo na artista sila, o kilala sila ng publiko. Mababasa nila at makikita rin nila sa media ang pinaggagawa nila paglaki ng mga anak nila.

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  24. Sino sila? Ang advice ko is iwanan mo na ang asawa mo. Mahirap na nga patawarin kapag nag taksil pero mas lalo kung may nabuntisan. Siympre deserve din ng bata kilalanin ang ama kaya sobrang hirap maging makasarili at ipaglayo mo ang ama sa bata. Umalis ka na kasi magiging mahirap ang sitwasyon mo.

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    1. Yup. And most likely, mauulit at mauulit pa.

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    2. "Maging makasarili".. I'm sorry what? Fyi, ang makasarili lang dito eh yung ama. Hindi mo pwedeng sabihing makasarili ang babae kung gusto niya maging intact ang family no matter how bad the decision is. Nalagay ang wife sa situation na hindi madaling mapag desisyunan ang next step. It's unfair to say she's being selfish if she wants them to stay together. Although tama na hiwalayan na lang niya, we're not in the position to judge.

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  25. swak na swak si J, meron pa recent BI re his husbands infidelity. idol pa naman ng mama ko huhu

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  26. Kapal ng mukha ng husband ni SW ang pangit na nga nambuntis pa ng dalawang beses. Ibig sabihin baka mahal nya kasi binalik balikan nya eh. Di na nahiya sa mga anak nya kay SW. Bakit pa kasi tinanggap ayan tuloy ginawa ulit. Nkakababa ng pgkatao yang ganyan. Tsk tsk

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    1. And he even needs her for his career. She can live without! I don't know why she's hanging on.

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    2. If SW is older S and BA is the younger S, ang weird naman na si younger ang nagbibigay ng advice? Medyo fresh pa ang marriage niya to be giving that kind of advice. & wala rin siya masyadong adult experience.

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  27. S J S , tama ba ko kapatid?

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  28. Sino? Tunaw my braincells huhuhu

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  29. Clues naman kung sino ang SSJ

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  30. Omg classmates, may part 2 yata. Kasi part 1 daw ito. Abang abang lang tayo.

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  31. kya gnyan si sw e

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  32. More clues naman kay J pls

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  33. I'm stuck between MTB or SJS

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    1. bka sa part 2 malaman natin kung alin sa 2.

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    2. SJS, may bagets na NEW daw sa institution. MTB are like married for a few years na.

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  34. So disappointed with these women. They can certainly live well without their philandering husbands. Mga enablers and doormats.

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    1. Oo nga no? Kaya naman nila kahit wala yung mga kups nilang asawa. Kainis

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    2. possible reasons for staying: fear of being called a failure, living in a Catholic nation where leaving your husband is a sign of lack of faith or going against the will of God, and the stigma of being a single mother or having a broken family. pag na legalize ang divorce sa pinas, matatapos din ang pagpapanggap ng maraming kakabaihan sa atin!

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    3. Yes, same. To think they're talented, successful women. Are they so afraid of being single and separated? I understand we're conditioned to believe in romantic love, but there has to be a line. There needs to be a sacred place inside you that doesn't get violated. Your husband and supposed life partner betraying you and defiling your union is a violation of the supposed sanctity of marriage. Make divorce legal in the Philippines. Give people the right to their own sanity and peace of mind. No one will divorce willy nilly - especially not women.

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    4. I really hoped that the current administration would be pro divorce. Sigh

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    5. ako iniintay ko lang umulit si mister haha bago pa kami magpakasal nagloko na siya... nag-bago naman (slight) pero kahit ganoon di na talaga 100% tiwala ko sa kanya... hirap pa siya makagawa ng kalokohan gawa ng pandemic at nakawork from home pero kung uulit siya... ready na ang pang annulment ko

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    6. Same lang din sila sa karaniwang babae na may asawa kahit babaero,nananakit pa asawa,hindi pa rin nakikipaghiwalay,at kahit nga wala hanapabuhay asawa eh.Love talaga nila or buong family hindi watak,ang gusto nila sa buhay.

      Yong mga nasa BI,mahal pa nila partners nila at least alam nila sa sarili nila na kaya nila tumayo sa sariling paa,kapag kc humiwalay si SW malamang tutuluyan ni mr. nya yong inanakan,sya ang lalabas na talunan.
      Ganon din si CH.
      As for BA,natapakan ang pride nyan kc yong househelp pinatulan eh at least nagawan nya ng paraan at wala nman obligation doon si partner nya.unlike SW & CH.
      Ayaw nman nila humiwalay, mayayaman nman sila,kaya masakit man,nasa kanila pa rin mr nila.

      Minsan mga babae na may asawa porke may asawa na kuntento na rin sila BAKA nagkukulang na rin sila sa lambing or sa ungot ni mr. kaya naghahanap ng iba, madalas ang babae kapag may anak na,ang sentro ng buhay nila yong mga anak na,kaya yong time nila dati sa mr eh nawawala kaya cguro yun hinahanap ng asawa.
      Most guys are man child needs kalinga all the time,para na rin silang mga anak.
      Yong mga babae pag pagod na wala na sa mood yan,kaso mamili na lang ang babae,pagbigyan si mr or sa bandang huli magsisi kc pumatol sa iba at naanakan pa.

      PERO yong ibang lalaki talagang womanizer yan.Ang masaklap yong womanizer na walang hanapbuhay,proud pa na may iba.

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  35. Need more clue sa SJS please

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  36. Clue kay B please. I figured out SJS.

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