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Wednesday, March 4, 2020

Tweet Scoop: Angelica Panganiban on Having Kids and Raising a Family

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115 comments:

  1. life is not a race. for me, if you really want kids you can adopt.

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    1. takot ako mapabilang sa mga babae na gusto naman talaga magka anak pero wala talagang chance :(

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    2. Ano kaya ang purpose ng buhay? Gusto ko na ngang magpakamatay dahil everything is useless! Kaso takot na takot naman ako dahil me impyerno. Haist hanggang kelan kaya itong mga struggles at alalahanin ko? Sana wag na akong magising pagnatulog kasi pag nagising need na naman kumilos for this useless existence tapos matatakot lang din if how will I die that day if I still wake up everyday.

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    3. I’m sorry to hear thst @143. You can call suicide hotline if you feel really bad. An expert will be able to talk to you.

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    4. 1:43 AM hirap ng adulting no? minsan maiisip mo what is ur purpose? why are u here? magigising ka one time na napaka sad. and u dont even know why.
      May nabasa akong article. ung mga tao dw na gnong ang feeling usually may mga gusto sa life na ndi nila makuha. may gustong tao na ndi nila pdeng makasama, pro u have to live until u die. maybe, we can just take one day at a time.

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    5. Hugs to you 1:43am. Keep going..

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    6. Ano ka ba 1:43 kaloka ka baks nung una ko mabasa comment mo akala ko akin. Same na same ng thoughts. Kung di lang talaga mortal sin ang S.....E baka matagal na ko Wala sa earth. Lol Hay ang hirap ng buhay. Nakakaguilty lalo dun sa mga may sakit o biglang namatay na may naiwang parents, anak o responsibilidad sa buhay.

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    7. You can call 700 club Asia din . May counsellors sila

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    8. @1: 43 this is our mental health hotline in the country 0917-989-8727 , please call them so you can get help. I’m sorry to hear about your struggles

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    9. 1:43, please do not give up. Ginigising ka po araw araw ni Lord kasi may purpose Siya para sa iyo. Sending hugs and love your way. Pray po ikaw parati.

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    10. hugs to all those struggling. I feel the same way minsan samahan pa ng what ifs and anxiety. but life goes on. Lets Lets fighting. huugs.

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    11. Napangiti ako ng mapait 2:23 kasi nag fall ako under dun sa may sakit na category. Ang dasal ko naman ay mabuhay ng matagal at maranasang maging matanda/Lola ng mga magiging anak ng mga anak ko. Sana talaga tuluyan na ako/ tayong gumaling. And I am living one day at a time.

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    12. 700 club asia. Sabay ka sa prayers baks. Got me through my worst days

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    13. @1:43 dumating din ako sa buhay ko na kinuwestyon ang purpose dito sa mundo or kung meron ba. i've been in a never ending cycle and was depressed. we may have different struggles and challenges that we face but keep the faith. pray and ask for it. Hoping one day you'll find your purpose and be fine na rin. Walang imposible, tiwala lang. The Lord knows what truly is in your heart.

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    14. @1:43 si God lang ang makakapagbigay ng contentment and happiness, wala ng iba. Ive been through depression and until now may episodes parin pero laban lang. Ikaw lg at si God ang makakatulong sayo. Keep yourself busy at magdasal lagi.

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    15. Hala! Andito sa thread na ito ang nakaka relate sa pinagdadaanan ko. Natin pala! Mag usap usap tayo!!!!!

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    16. i feel you 143 at super agree din ako kay 213. mawawalan ka na lang talaga ng pag-asa. hanggang dito na lang ba talaga ako?

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    17. Sending virtual hugs to 1:43 & 2:23. God loves you! Please keep going! Labaaaan lang mga mamsh! :)

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    18. @1:43
      Hi, sometimes ganyan din nafifeel ko. But, piece of advice, we dont know whats gonna happen next. malay mo tom. mkita mo ung purpose mo. For the mean time, you can call mental health hotline. Kung pwede ko lng ibigay no. ko dito para my makausap ka, I would. But, dont take your life. May purpose ka. Makikita din ntn yan. malay mo tom. artista or what. haha trying to lighten up the mood. :) take care ok? >

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    19. 1:43, dati nagtatanong din ako ng ganyan, what is the meaning of life? bakit ba tayo nagpapakahirap sa trabaho? Para saan? Pero lagi kong sinasabi, life is beautiful. Kahit di lahat. Masaya at maganda pa rin ang life. hanapin natin ang kagandahang yan. kahit maliit na bulaklak na nagtityaga sa isang crack sa semento. magandang silhouette ng mga tabi-tabing matataas na gusali sa takipsilim. magagandang alahas (na di natin kayang bilhin), magandang kulay ng bukang-liwayway. Marami tayong makikitang maganda. May isang awit akong narinig na tumatak sa akin,
      "Aanhin ang labi kundi madampian
      Ng ulan o di kaya'y mahagkan ng ilog
      Pagmasadan, pakinggan, lasapin ang mundo
      Walang ibang sadya ang ayos nito"

      Damhin, lasapin ang mundo... basta ganoon.
      maaaring di natin nakikita ang ating purpose, pero maaaring sa ibang tao, nakikita nila tayo at ang sadya ng ating buhay ay para sa ikabubuti ng iba...
      Altruistic masyado, lofty, pero it got me through..
      life is beautiful pa rin 20 years later.

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    20. ano po number ng suicide hotline

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    21. 1.43 tanong ko din yan gabi gabi kay Lord. me anak ako na special child, at galing sa akin genes kung bakit naging special child sia. there is nothing to look forward in life for me. Sabi ko nga kay Lord dami chance nung bata pa ako na kunin Niya pero hindi ngyari. I keep going bec of the things/responsibility God has given me. Daming bagay na di ko maintindihan for now, pero pg nagkita na kami ni Lord Im sure, He will make me understand.

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    22. @1:43. I’m so sorry to hear about your struggles. A lot of people will kill to have the life you have now. Things will get better. And you should be around when they do. Masarap mabuhay. Puede ka namang magmahal ng pet or mag adopt ka. Di dahil Wala kang pamilya eh dapat ka nang mamatay. That’s not the be-all and end-all of life. Magdasal ka. I will say a prayer for you, right now.

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    23. grabe ramdam na ramdam ko itong thread na 'to...

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    24. @1:43 huwag kang ganyan. Count your blessings. Have a grateful heart. Have a pet, learn something new..I experienced that too when my children decided to live on their own at ako nalang mag isa sa bahay..parang going home to an empty nest..iyak at iyak talaga ako..parang wala ng purpose ang buhay ko..nag enroll ng piano lessons, nag adopt ng pet, nag yoga at nag volunteer sa church..and boom! I found meaning in what I am doing. Don't give up on life. Keep going.

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    25. How Ironic na 143 ang oras mo. And yet daming nakarelate and nakafeel.

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    26. Takot na takot akong mamatay and yet ayoko ng mabuhay. So hindi ako suicidal.

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    27. Guys kaya natin to.Keep praying 😊

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    28. Habang binabasa ko itong thread, umiiyak ako. I feel the same way, wishing na pagtulog ko hindi na ako magising. World is unkind.

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    29. Naranasan ko yang naranasan mo na dumating ako sa Point 2015 kinukuwestiyon ko ang Panginoon, sabi ko all my life since 1999 wala akong ginawa kundi tumulong ng tumulong sa Pamilya ko dahil lumaki akong sobrang hirap namin kaya ipinamgako ko sa sarili ko na i make a change para sa younger Generation ng Pamilya namin , 2015 Dumating ako sa Point na lahat nalang ng kaibigan o Pamilya tinatanong ako kung kelan ako mag aasawa minsan naiinis na ako sa mga nagtatanong minsan nagkakasabay sabay sila , na stressed ako nagagalit na ako sa Panginoon sabi ko hindi naman ako nag ask ng maraming Jowa isa lang bakit yung iba ang dami pinagsasabay pa nga ako isa lang na gusto ko maksama habang buhay pero bakit wala hindi ko naman masasabi na masama akong tao oo inaamin ko minsan matabil ang binibigkas ng bibig ko pero mas nanaig sakin ang tumulong dahil sa naranasan kong hirap sa buhay maawain ako hindi lng sa Family kahit sa iba , nagising nalang ako na gusto ko nalang biglang mawala pero dahil ako ay mahilig makipag usap kahit nga sa strangers nag she share ako ng karanaaan ko sa pamamagitan nun kahiy papano lumuluwag ang pakiramdam ko 2017 nakilala ko ang asawa ko na ngayon , i am glad God Guide me in the right way i just need to wait for his perfect timing he planned everything even before i asked / prayed to him!

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    30. 9:44 I admire you for being so strong. I work in a school for special children and I cannot imagine how parents of these special children do it 24/7. Napakahirap kaya. Noong bata ako, I keep hearing na pag mas disabled na bata, swerte daw sa pamilya. It's not. It is very stressful, financially draning sa family and most of all, napakahirap sa bata mismo. Most special needs children are always target for bullies, they are socially inept at karamihan sa kanila hirap mag cope sa regular school so mababa yung self-esteem nila. Kaya saludo ako sa mommies ng mga bata na may special needs kasi very prone to depression sila but they still keep on going.

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    31. @143 I think you are going through midlife crisis... yan din nararanasan ko lately. I'm not so motivated in terms of my career. I dont know kung ano ba talaga gagawin ko sa buhay ko. Will I still pursue my nursing career o study and do something else. I'm so burnout and caught in the middle. Idk what to do. I'm planning to go for a life coach para magka direction buhay ko.

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    32. Virtual hugs at 143... mga kapatid we all have seasons in life. Kapit lang kay Lord kasi si Lord nagbibigay satin ng purpose sa buhay.

      Adulting is hard pero surrender mo kay Lord yan. Virtual hugs sa lahat ng may pinagdadaanan. We will survive

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    33. @1:43 i feel you...palagi din nasasagi sa isip ko mag suicide then one day di ko na talaga kaya nagawa ko maglaslas. And now heto ako patuloy na lumalaban sa hamon ng buhay.

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    34. Mga kapatid nakakalungkot mabasa yung mga comment niyo, but it’s normal.

      Nagdaan din ako sa ganyan na nakwestyon ko kung anong purpose ng buhay.

      Kwento ko lang nung 26 years old ako, nakipagbreak sakin yung jowa ko tapos yung tanong ko, “pano na?” Kasi expected ko we’ll get married tapos ako I’ll be a housewife and raise our kids. It didn’t happen so I was like, “what’s my purpose? Ano nang gagawin ko???”

      So yun, hanap ulit ng jowa, hanggang after a year, nakakuha naman and luckily, we love each other enough to get married. We now have a 2 year old.

      Now, 2 things. 1st - I’m happily married with a kid that I adooooree so much, and I’m so grateful I have them, but yung mga taong Hindi nabibiyayaan ng family, you’re not missing much. Having a family of your own will not make you feel fulfilled, Kung yun ang akala niyo. Kung di ka makahanap ng soulmate, Keri Lang. Hindi siya kawalan. If they take my family away, I’d die of heartbreak kaya mas okay na yung single ka at yung sarili mo lang alalahanin mo. 2nd - when you have a family of your own, I’m sure you’ll love them so much, but you’ll look at your former life and say, “dapat pala nung single ako, ginawa ko This and ginawa ko that...” kasi once you have a family, they’re your #1 priority.

      As for your existence and purpose, my dear, no one knows, but continue to chase things that will make you happy. Once nakuha mo na, level up and set a different goal.

      As for me, marami ako purpose; to take care of my family, to level up my career and collect hobbies and skills.

      Keep moving forward sis. Kaya natin to. :)

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  2. Mga bashers talaga ang daming style..kunwari fan, kunwari concern, kunwari curious lang pero ang totoo gusto lang talaga mang bwisit... ma karma sana kayong lahat!

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    1. Agree - mga pakialameras who need to get a real life

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  3. Love you, Angelica.

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  4. Bata pa naman si Angelica. Di kailangan magmadali.

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  5. Kaya siguro di pa sya binibigyan dahil kailangan pa nya ayusin sarili nya. Who would want a wife or a mother na konting kibot post agad sa socmed nega or positive

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    1. Wow you must have a perfect life!

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    2. she must be very blessed having a husband, kids, home and successful career because she has a perfect life. good for you girl

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    3. 1:11, how do you explain those women na drug addict, prostitute at masama ang ugali na nabubuntis?

      Personally offended ako sa sinabi mo. Para kasing ini-insinuate mo na yung mga babaeng hindi magkaanak, nega.

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    4. 2:04 ang ibig sabihin wala na gusto pumatol sakanya sa pagka nega nya

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    5. @111 kagaya mo simpleng post, pinanenega.. Anong klaseng partner or nanay ka kaya.. Maliit na issue pinapansin agad

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    6. Girl kadaming nanay na 15 years sa lansangan . Who would want a mother din na ganun?

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    7. That's your perception based na mababasa mo sa posts nya.. hindi mo alam ang totoo..Sana huwag kang mag conclude kaagad.. always give a person the benefit of the doubt.. that's being kind and charitable lalo na for Lent when we are challenged to be kind.

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    8. Dear Anon 1:11,
      Hindi ako perpektong tao. I have mood swings, I have a temper, I have other issues, pero I found a man who is willing to understand and also help me improve myself. We both went through rough past relationships and para sakin may mga ugali ako before na nadala ko dito sa bago. And I'm so thankful na ang bf ko (now fiancé) is so patient with me. Naniniwala ako na lahat tayo may nakatakdang soulmate na matatanggap tayo kahit ano pa ang mga kakulangan natin. Yes, Angelica may have issues she needs to improve or change pero hindi yun reason para hindi nya mahanap yung taong para talaga sa kanya. I believe everything happens in God's perfect time. Kaya sana wag mawalan ng faith and trust si Angelica, or kahit sino man nakakabasa nito na sawi parin. The day will come na ibibigay ni Lord ang deserve nyo (and more)! Trust me, I've been there. About to turn 30 and I feel like my life is just about to start once makasal na kami. Tiwala lang talaga. Wishing everyone positive vibes always.

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    9. 2:52 Napakasama ng ugali mo, What makes you so sure na walang gustong pumatol sa kaniya? Kasama ka niya araw-araw?

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  6. nga naman mga baks... ive also wondered kung ano mas nagpapasaya. love, na hindi ko pa naranasan buong buhay ko? o a successful career na empowered at independent ako...

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    1. Iba ang saya na naibibigay ng love iba dn ang sa career..pero kung wala ka pang career unahin mo muna asikasuhin iyon... mas importante na ma establish mo muna sarili mo para hindi ka dependent sa lalaki... love will come at the right time.. besides if you earn your own money at mas kilala mo na sarili mo d ka na madaling ma impress sa mga pagpapacute ng mga lalaki..so mas logical ka na mag isip at mas alam mo na gusto mo..hindi iyong konting pagpapakilig akala mo agad love na. LoL

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    2. Well it depends on what you want in life, is it happiness? or a real meaning/purpose of your life.

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    3. 1:11, yan ang tinatawag na “the grass is greener on the other side” kind of thinking. Focus on your life now. Kung gusto mo ma in love, choice mo yan. Make the choice and commit to it, see what happens. Or you can stay exactly where you are and enjoy the perks of having career success. Either way, you can say you chose the path to live your life and can live without regrets. Good luck.

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    4. @ 1:11 unahin mo yong career mo, parang awa mo na sa sarili mo. You see, ang mga lalaki di naman nauubos yan at may mahahanap kang seryoso sa tamang panahon. Pero yong time na pinalipas mo para i-establish ang sarili mo ay di mo na maibabalik. Atsaka kadalasan kapag educated or successful ka, mas marami ka pang option.

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    5. 1:11 listen to me, love yourself first. Before you get married make sure you have a career of your own that gives you growth and happiness. Even when you have a family already never give up your career because it’s important you have your own world where you thrive and learn - this is the way to be happy. It’s not the romance, it’s not the marriage, it’s not the kids that will make you genuinely happy, it’s when you do something meaningful for yourself.

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    6. thank you all!!!

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  7. Nega ka kasi kaya iniiwan ka ng mga lalaki.

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    1. 1:13 Sa comment mo na yan, ano ka?

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    2. Naku @1:13 lalaki ba ang makabigay na total happiness sa iyo? You exist in this life because of men? Kawawa ka naman.. that's a very demeaning outlook for a woman.. anyway, based sa comment mo, you're a pathetic individual..

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    3. Ikinakasaya niyo po ba talaga mga hirit ninyong ganyan???

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    4. @1:13 Sana for this Lent, I give up mo yung pagka nega mo.

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    5. Baka ikaw ang nega@1:33..magbago kana sa masamang ugaling iyan..not good for you if you're a decent human being.

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    6. Kaloka ka. 1:13. Masada ka talaga na kang-down ka ng ganiyan?

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    7. @1:13 baka ikaw ang NEGA..maayos na maayos ang sagot ni Angelica despite the offensive and rude comment..baka ikaw yun ang nagtanong sa kanya.. tih, huwag kang nega.. hindi iyan ikakaganda ng mukha at kaluluwa mo.

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  8. too personal question. Angelica has the right not to answer this

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  9. Napaka-intrusive naman ng ganitong tanong. Parang pinaparamdam pa na may mali sa isang tao kung wala pa siyang sariling pamilya just because most people her age are already married. I don't like Angelica sa lahat ng oras lalo na pag nag iinarte siya't panay parinig at hugot pero nakakaawa rin naman na halos ipamukha pa sa kanya na "napag iiwanan" siya.

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  10. Hirap rin talaga siguro maging celebrity when questions an ordinary person would have found intrusively annoying eh susubukan mong sagutin objectively... Imagine to be asked, "How's your love life?"

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  11. Yung tita mong nagtanong sa reunion kasi lahat ng pinsan mo may asawa’t anak na. Lol. Tita kumain ka na lang ng shanghai wag mo na ko kamustahin. Gigil ako sayo eh.

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    1. Hahaha. Relate na relate talaga. Tapos sabihin pa nila na kaya walang nagka interest na lalaki dahil napaka sungit ko daw.. nakakaloka talaga sila.

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  12. May mga 40s nga na nakakahanap ng asawa bakit parang sumuko na si angelica. Isa or dalawang anak enough na yun para maging masaya ka kaya sa age niya kayang kaya pa. Pag wala pang dumating focus muna sa sarili tutal pag in love ka na nakakalimutan mo ang sarili. Wag kang ma pressure girl dadating din yan

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    1. Auntie ko nga,nahanap ang soulmate niya nung 35 na siya. Nagpakasal at the age of 37 and pinanganak ang pinsan ko the following year. Masya ang tita ko, ang payo nga niya as much as possible wag magpakasal in our 20s.May kanyang kanya tayong timeline wag magmadali at sa pagmamadali baka pagsisihin natin.

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  13. Itong mga netizens, kailangang turo an ng manners or etiquette..nakahawak lang ng phone at my load, tanong ng tanong..mga walang modo talaga.

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    1. Oo nga eh. And yet, when celebs try to put them in their place - grabe maka kuyog...

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  14. Marami pala talagang babae ma gustong magkaasawa at lalo na baby. Sa totoo lang nakakastress minsan ang may asawa 🤣 but having a baby grabe ibang saya nabibigay. Parang napapaisip ka na akala mo wlang kapantay ang saya ang mainlove sa isang lalaki, but kung may baby ka na. Wlang wla pala yun sa love na maibibigay mo sa baby mo.

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  15. It's not a race. Just because others are doing it ma pressured ka naman to follow. I did remember her commenting na she's taking it slowly but surely..ayaw na niyang magmamadali..she learned her lessons na siguro kaya siguradohin na nya talaga..I know na mayroong siyang persistent na suitor these days.

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  16. This is a mean comment. Alam mo ung friend mong kunwari concern sa mga tanong pro deep inside gusto nyang iparamdam sau n u r not worth any good thing in life. Ung friend mong tuwang tuwa within if u are struggling. In this day and age you'll be very lucky if u have a true legit friend.

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    1. I had the same thoughts. Parang backhanded way ng pananakit ng kapwa.

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  17. Na sad ako for Angelica. Hayst. Mahahanap mo rin si Mr. Right sa tamang panahon, girl.

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    1. Remember there is always wisdom in waiting.. darating din si Mr right nya or baka nandiyan lang siya sa harap nya but ba overlook lang.

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    2. Meh, no need to wait for mr right. She can get pregnant or adopt a child if she wants to.

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  18. I had a very successful career before I got married. I had money on my own and traveled but I got lonely. Then I married a good man and had a healthy child. Now I'm a stay at home mom taking care of my son. Am I happy? In many ways, yes, but I'm not totally fulfilled. I miss my work and the satisfaction that it brings. You can't really have it all.

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    1. Importante talaga to enjoy kung anong meron ka ngayon. Kahit wala pang dumating ma realize dapat natingkung anong meron tayo. Lalo na si angge kapag dumating na ang tamang guy baka mag slow down ang career. Kaya enjoy the moment dapat

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    2. hi 2:39am all i can say is me too, me too.

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    3. True, I went back to work when my child started grade one. I really needed to work, be challenged and earn my own money for my own fulfilment. I got really bored being at home all the time.

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    4. Ako din. I missed the work and my friends at work. Pag sa bahay lang nakakatamad lang talaga. I felt useless. I don’t like house work anyway.

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    5. True. I am a Mom of 3. Stay home mama din but I want to work. Self fulfillment. Yung may kaya kang bilhin without asking your husband. Haha

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    6. Same thoughts, same sentiments 2:39am.Just keep praying na lang and idivert mo nlng ung iba mong time like sa Kdrama hahaha. 😊

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    7. You can't have it all, because you don't have to have it all. You can be happy and contented with what you have, as long as alam mo sa sarili mo na that's what you deserve.

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    8. 4:22 madaling sabihin yan 4:22. Tell that to a mom who used to be successful in her own right. Suddenly, she finds herself putting on an apron instead of an office uniform, wiping dirty butts instead of brainstorming or being in a meeting discussing ideas, dealing with your child's tantrums instead of running an office where the rules are clear cut. You will always have a longing of how things used to be. So therefore, you can never be content.

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  19. Tama naman si ate girl.I mean dont look for something that you don't have.Appreciate what you have right now.May mga bagay nga naman na hindi pa para sa iyo.Who knows?maybe in the future.

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    1. I like Angelica's comment.. she wants a family but if hindi ibigay ni Lord then okay na rin sa kanya..who knows what's in store for her in the future. At the moment enjoy your life,Angelica! God will definitely answer the desires of your heart.

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  20. Okay na maging single kesa sakit ang ulo mo sa asawa mo..binubogbog kana, tamad pa at babaero.. huwag nalang..mag enjoy kana lang sa pera mo and be a good tita sa nga anak ng friends mo

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  21. To be honest, habang nagiease in ako sa adulthood mas lalo ko narerealize na not everybody is cut out to be a parent. Just because someone has a womb, a career, good genes, a husband, and lots of money to support potential kids doesn't mean na magiging maayos na silang magulang at their kids will turn out good, emotionally/psychologically healthy adults. I feel like it takes a lot more than that--hindi ko mahanap yung precise term to describe it. Siguro, yung magulang na may self-awareness to realize na apart from the fear that their kids may screw up if left to their own devices, equally na nakakatakot din yung possibility na yung pamamaraan nila bilang magulang ang magscrew up sa mga anak nila eventually. Maraming mga magulang ngayon ang hindi iniisip yung impact ng pagraise ng anak nila based on their own fears at insecurities, at iba pang pansariling baggage, e.g. overtly na mahigpit cause they're scared na magkakamali ang anak nila.

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    1. I think si Angge fit maging isang ina. Alam ko hindi para kay Angge ang comment mo pero exclude Angge from that. Si Angge yung type na gagawin lahat sa friend and taong mahal niya. What more kung anak pa niya na most likely hindi siya tatalikuran. 200% ang ibibgay na support para sa anak. Kahit walang ama kayang ni angge yan.

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  22. Hindi pagkakaron ng anak or asawa ang makaka-kumpleto or magpapasaya Sa lahat ng tao. I always here people na nagsasabi na “mag-anak ka para May mag-alaga sau Sa pagtanda mo” pero hindi yan assurance na aalagaan ka nga ng mga anak mo khit pinalaki mo pa cla ng maayos. Minsan kapag nagka-asawa na ang mga anak, naii-pluwensyahan at nadidiktihan na cla ng asawa.

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    1. Ay totoong totoo yan. And it happened to me. Now that my children are financially independent and they have lives of their own balik kami ng asawa ko sa buhay namin na wala pa kaming anak. We have to let them go and pray that the values we teach them will guide them in their life journey. We can never impose nor demand from them kasi may kanya kanyang buhay na sila.

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    2. korek ka jan...

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  23. Don’t worry angelica..my daughter in law got married at 38 and had a baby at 39 and a year and a half later had another one! God will grant your wish st the right time..

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  24. Nakakalungkot din buhay niya. Parang may hinahanap siya na di kayang punan ng success niya sa career.

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  25. maybe she can consider adopting :) there are a lot of children out there who also wants a family like her :) they can have each other or one another if madami iadopt niya.

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  26. Mabuti kalmado sumagot si Angge. Carry on, girl! Ganyan dapat, di palageng warla or defensive.

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  27. ako din 30 na ako pero single pa rin. Dati kc sabi need muna ako magkaroon ng stable job bago ako maglovelife tapos now n ok ung career ko feeling ko nman napag-iwanan n ko.
    May nabasa kc ako na kapag masyado dw n sinanay ang sarili na mag-isa parang di ka na rin comfortable na magpapasaok ng iba. Ung masyado sinanay mkoang sarili ko na kdrama at wattpad na ang life after work ko kaya tamad n din ako makipagmeet ng ibang tao kapag weekend.

    Masyado kc inimagine n magiging katulad ng fictional character sa novels ung story kaya di masyado tumigin sa regular tapos nagyo nagtatanong n if panu ko pagtanda ko.sadlife.

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    1. I'm in the same situation though for some reason...I kinda find it liberating. Dahil sa haba ng pagaaral sa line ng profession ko mid 20s na ako nakagraduate. Ang mga kaklase ko they are coming out of school about to get married or are already having kids, yet personally I don't even wanna think about dating cause now that I can get a stable paying job I have so many things that I've been dreaming about doing na gusto ko gawin. Sometimes I contemplate if I'm gonna end up regretting it, but tbh for the most part I also don't see myself in a relationship in the near future. I wanna relax a little after all the blood, sweat, and tears from school.

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  28. happiness is be thankful of what you have

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  29. Happiness does not define what the society dictates. Keep that in mind

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    1. Thank you for this. God bless

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    2. Especially if the basis of that norm is the fact na walang options sa atin dahil mahirap tayong bansa, so ang natural step ay humanap ng katuwang sa buhay. Pwede din na dahil taboo ang fornication (lol) kaya mas maaga magpakasal ang mga tao. Hindi lang naman tayo ang tao sa mundo na marunong magmahal, but those rich countries aren't going around marrying young and having kids.

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    3. Hmmm, but it can make you miserable, diba. You don’t live in a bubble.

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  30. Sabi nga sa movie na jowabol minsan saw kasi nakafocus tayo sa eksaktong regalo na hinijingi natin k lord kung aning kulay kung anong balot at gano kalaki at kabigat..hindi natin alam binigay na pala ni lord iba nga lang ang pagkakabalot piro kung bubuksan mo ang balot makikita mo yun na pala ang matagal mo nang hinihintay

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  31. When i was younger, i fall in love easily but sadly lagi na lang nauuwi sa friendzone or sa ghosting. And its really frustrating that i have all this love but no one to give it to. Hanggang sa winish ko na lang, sige anak na lang tutal muka namang wala ng matinong lalaki sa mundo. Then i realized, baka ako ang mali. Minamahal ko ang di naman dapat. Baka kaya ako nasasaktan, dahil maling tao ang ginugusto ko. ( Alam ko na di mo naman yun masasabi during that time na nagmamahal ka pero one day bigla ko na lang naisip yun). So I prayed, sabi ko Lord ang gusto ko po sana ganito ganito ganito. And boom...dumating. Para syang hinulma sa mga dasal ko. Hindi sya perpekto, pero sakto. And now were married with 2 sons. God's plan is better than what you have for yourself so endure everything and learn from it. Baka may need ka matuklasan sa sarili mo babago nya ibigay ang dasal mo.
    Sana di kayo mawalan ng hope na may darating, tiwala lang. In God's time ibibigay nya ang nararapat para sa pagmamahal mo. Ayaw lang din Nya masayang kaya pinipili Nya ring mabuti. Kilala Ka nya at nakikita Nya ang hiling ng puso mo kaya di Nya hahayaan na masayang lang.

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  32. Darating din yan sa oras na hindi mo ini expect

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  33. It’s too weird that women think that they can only be happy if they have a man. It’s as if their lives don’t matter without him. Men never think that way.

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  34. I-quote ko lang ung sa serendipity even di to masyado exact words "when you are so busy finding for mr. right that you didnt notice mr. good enough"

    Haayy!!! masyado kc ako nagfocus sa kung ano ang gusto ko lang. Sadlife....na minsan paggising na ko sa umaga narerealizae ko ntumatanda na ko..na mag-isa.

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  35. May boyfriend ako na sobrang nagmamahal sa akin. Gusto ko ikasal and soon magkaanak with him kaya lang 31 na ako. 😭

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