Monday, March 16, 2020

The Good Daughter

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What should have been a quiet and happy day turned into an epic narrative that filled every corner of mainstream and social media. However, things did not stop at that moment, as Stressed Elder (SE) was only starting out. The moment she regained composure, she made sure Defiant Daughter (DD) would learn she only had the shirt on her back.

First, SE instructed the security of their subdivision to bar DD from entering, especially if she’s with Persistent Celebrity (PC). That meant DD would no longer have access to all her clothes, shoes, bags, and few pieces of jewelry. Her wardrobe for her shows is provided by the production. Hence, what DD had at that time comprised her remaining belongings. As soon as the family of PC found out that DD had nothing to wear, they went out to shop for her so she can have a temporary wardrobe. DD eventually stayed with PC at his pad, while waiting for their family home to be done.

Second, SE commanded the rest of the family to refrain from communicating with DD. No texts and calls were allowed. One time, DD tried to contact one of her siblings to help her retrieve important things, but she could not get through. Apparently, SE had DD’s number blocked in all the mobiles of the family members. DD had to console herself with the fact that she really possessed a few things. Even in her movies, clothes were provided. Besides, SE only bought her basic clothes and DD never shopped on her own. Despite her stature, DD does not even own designer stuff. If fans see her holding on to a signature bag, that was due to her stylist who lent her the bag. With her few clothes, DD did not even have a walk-in closet, like what celebrities with similar stature flaunt in TV shows.

Third, when DD went shopping with PC, she tried to use her supplementary card. The transaction was denied, as SE had cut off DD’s access. Despite being the one who has deepened the finances, DD never had control of her money. SE had placed all of DD’s income under her name and therefore, DD was always living on what SE allocated for her. SE held on to the principal card, while DD was always with the supplementary one. Moreover, PC was shocked that he had to teach DD how to use an ATM card. However, SE even blocked the ATM card of DD to ensure DD would not have access to her money.

DD had to talk to Her Boss (HB) on how to retrieve her finances. Now, they have hired a lawyer to ensure that DD gets back what is hers. Incidentally, DD is willing to share half her cash and assets to her parents and siblings, who have all completed their study. DD said that she is confident that SE and her family will not be able to finish such huge amount, as they have businesses as well. All DD wants is to get her fair share as she devoted all her life providing for SE and everyone else.

‘Change is the only permanent thing in our lives. Sometimes things change for the immediate good; other times we ask why. Just because you don't understand today doesn't mean there isn't a lesson we must learn.’ ― Tracy Malone

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96 comments:

  1. Pag good daughter ang naririnig ko si S ang unang maiisip ko.

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  2. S of KaF
    Grabe tlga to si D.
    Naiiyak ako habang binabasa koto.
    Hopefully, pure ang intentions sa kanya ni M.
    Hindi natin alam baka may nakita din si D sa kanya kaya ayaw nya kay M.
    Sana di na masaktan ulit si S.

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  3. Kagigil to. Sarap magmura!

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    1. Sumakit bangs ko bakla. Kumalma lang ako nung sinabing may lawyer na. Grabe naman.

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    2. Bakit pinabayaan ni DD na ganunin ang perang pinaghirapan nya? Parang ako ang naii-stress sa istorya ng buhay nya.

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    3. Sa tanda ni DD, bakit pumayag syang huthutin ang lahat-lahat ng para sa kanya?

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    4. Because DD is a kind daughter who trusts her parents unconditionally. Too bad the parents abused her kindness

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    5. naging ganyan kasi simula minor si DD ginanyan na sya ni SE. to add, i firmly believed na si DD ay blackmailed by SE kaya ganyan ang sitwasyon

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    6. 1:19pm I guess emotional blackmail (guilt-trip) was employed by SE. Tapos she ensured na DD's world is limited and all those inside her world are controlled by SE.

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    7. Paanong blackmail?

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    8. akala nila habang buhay nilang macocontrol si dd

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  4. So totoo ngang pati atm card hindi siya marunong gumamit. Nakakaloka si SE feeling siya yung bread winner siya ang na ispoiled ni DD. Lol

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    1. Grabe na sa edad niyang yan, di siya nag-insist na matutong gumamit ng ATM card or acquire basic banking skills. Kaya pala the ways she acts, parang may something off. Life a child/woman. Lalo tuloy akong bumilib kay PC kasi kailangan niyang maging matiyaga talaga sa dami ng kailangan niyang ituro kay DD. It will really help din kung mag lie low muna si DD and get some education. Something na deprived talaga siya.

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    2. 6:03 parehas tayo ng observation, I always see her like a child/woman. Nakakaawa sa totoo lang.

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  5. My good Lord!!!! Nakakapanginig naman to ng laman!!!! Grabe namanyan. Nakakalungkot naman ang kalagayan mo DD akala ko sa mga movies lang may mga ganyan kagarapal na character! Meron pala talaga sa totoong buhay!!! I do hope and pray DD that you will get what is rightfully yours! Haaaaist...

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    1. Bumagsak talaga dalawang balikat ko sis. I feel for DD. Sobra naman to :(

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  6. This so sad! Pano mo to kinakaya, S? Nakakalungkot 😭

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  7. Sobrang petty ni SE. Tama yan DD get what's yours. Hatian mo sila and let them spend all of it. Sa huli gagapang yan papunta sayo para humingi ng tulong.

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  8. What a greedy and demons heart of SE

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  9. grabe, napamura ako. sobra cla!!!

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  10. How greedy. Pls lawyer up. Minsan kelangan din turuan ng lesson tong mga taong toxic sa buhay natin.
    Pls don't go down without a fight, S. You're the one who worked hard for all your wealth. Tapos ikaw pa ang ang hindi makakatamasa. And what are the rest of her family doing? This is outright abuse.

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    1. Di rin natin Alam, sa pagka tuso ni SE Baka May napirmahan authorization or any papers giving SE rights to her earnings.

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  11. it's just right for s to go to mgmt. maryosep.

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  12. Juicecolored grabe si SE! Dapat lang bawiin ni DD ang sa kanya pinaghirapan nya yon.

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  13. Grabe si SE!!! Ang sama ng ugali nya sobra. Kayod to the max si DD tapos wala man lang sariling designer bag or bonggang wardrobe. Tama yan DD, kunin mo kahit ang kalahati man lang ng earnings mo.

    In fairness sa family ni PC, pinag shopping si DD. Love it!

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  14. Ang bait ni DD para bigyan pa rin mga magulang at kapatid nya. Kung tutuusin nung time na nakagraduate na mga kapatid nya, wala na sya obligasyon sa kanila. Ung mga magulang naman, naging mabuting anak naman sya sana ung pinagtrabahuhan nya ng ilang taon ay wag na ipagkait sa kanya.

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    1. Bihira lang yung mga katulad ni DD nanghihingi pa sila ng sobrang kapalit nakakaloka diba? Very greedy hindi na normal si SE. She doesnt deserved to be respected nakakaloka siya!

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    2. Walang obligasyon ang anak sa magulang atey! Ang magulang ang may obligasyon sa anak. Hindi responsibilidad ng kahiy na sinong anak na pagaralin ang mga kapatid, dapat magulang ang kumakayod. Sorry natrigger ako.

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    3. Wala syang obligasyon period. Pay it forward sana kasi. Ang ginawa ng magulang sa anak, gagawin ng anak sa mga magiging anak naman nito. Bulok na systema ng pinoy ung ipapaako sa anak ang responsibiladad.

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    4. Di na dapat hatian ni S family nya. She's done more than enough. Parasite na yung family nya. And obvious na walang pagmamahal sa kanya.

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    5. Tama 2:13. Hindi obligasyon ni DD na pag aralin mga kapatid nya, at lalong di nya responsibilidad na buhayin ang pamilya ni SE. Yan ang pangit sa ibang mga Pinoy! Yung mentality na kaya nag anak para may katulong sa buhay. Hirap na nga nag-anak pa! Bwisit!

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    6. Agree ako sayo 2:13
      Asawa ko kase ganyn din, panganay sya at ngsumikap tlga. Dahil sya ang my maayos na buhay prang ngging obligasyon nya na paginhawain ang buhay ng mga kapatid nya.

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    7. very toxic filipino mentality. you don't rear a child to support you later on in life. a child never has a responsibility to support his parents or siblings. s/he could if s/he wants to, not because s/he needs to.

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    8. Hindi retirement plan ang anak. Dapat handa tayo sa pagtanda natin. Obligasyon natin ang anak natin, not the other way around.

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    9. 10:06 PM this!

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  15. Sama ng ugali. Parang modern day slavery.

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  16. grabe tlaga c SE. Buti un ugali ni DD hndi nya nakuha sa kanya. God bless u DD.

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  17. Grabe... Grabe lang as in!

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  18. Hope PC will support her till end be stong DD. For SE life is too short you are blessed to have DD she worked hard for it boung pilipinas alam. Sakin lng un parents nasa end of life na dna madadala yan pera sa kabilang buhay.

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  19. Ang salbahe Grabe

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  20. I feel bad for her. She doesn't deserve to be treated that way.

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  21. Maling mali talaga. This is how you treat your daughter who gave you everything. Sabi ko nga , a clear case of child abuse hanggang tumanda na lang.

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  22. Gigil ako ha. The nerve ha. Kapal

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  23. Bet ko to kumbaga sa teleserye season 2 na. Kunin mo ang nararapat sayo DD! Lumaban kna this time hahaha

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  24. The nerveeeeeee of SE!!!

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  25. Naiyak ako 😢😢

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  26. Why take half of your finances lang? Sa sobrang entiltled ng buong pamilya, she should take 100% of her finances back. Mga walang utang ng loob.

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  27. Wow. Don't even bother to share half of your earnings with them. All those years, you've worked hard for them, gave them good life and this is how they're going to treat you in return? Sadly, those people who you call FAMILY don't see and treat you as one. You are just their SLAVE. Lawyer up, chin up and move on...

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  28. haissst!!! grabe naman ang ginawa ni SE sobrang unfair sya kay DD!

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  29. Napakawalang backbone naman yung mga siblings if ever. If there's a will, there's a way to help DD. Probably scared to get cut off from allowance too. 🙄

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  30. What is gahaman. Grabe si SE sa kakapalan ng mukha.

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  31. She should NOT share half of her earnings. That’s ridiculous, especially given how they have treated her. Enough with this filipino mentality. She owes them nothing, and she should return love only where that love is shown to her.

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  32. Grabe pa din sa bait tong si DD. Kung iba lang yan, Baka kinuha ng lahat to teach SE a lesson. Juicecolored.

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  33. Dear DD don't be afraid and don't worry about having to start over. God will bless you for kindness and your good heart. In time all things will fall into place but for now focus on building a life you so deserve with PC. God bless you both.

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  34. lol di marunong mag atm

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  35. ang lala! DD worked hard for ALL that fortune. She deserves to get everything. Buti nga mabait pa si DD na hahatian niya si SE

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  36. Sya nagpakahirap sa pera ,Hindi sya ang nakinabang.Kawawa nmn.

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  37. Wag mo ipagdamot ang hindi sayo. Kaloka ka

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  38. Ang aga aga kumukulo blood ko

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  39. DD is still kind to share half of her wealth. If I were in her shoe, i'll cut them all off. So kudos to DD

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  40. we are supporting you yung mawawala sayo babalik yan triple pa.

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  41. she only has credit card and cash allowance dw

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  42. SE is the worst! Grabe!!

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  43. ang kapal!!! nakakainit ng ulo!!

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  44. Mabuti na lang maaasahan si HB na talagang parang family. Sana nga makuha ni DD ang lahat na pinaghirapan niya.

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  45. this is so saaad:(

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  46. Nakakagigil tong si SE...kakarmahin ka din.

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  47. I believed when SE was younger she was brainwashed. And because she was still minor she has no say to all her income. Growing up, maybe she was blackmailed because it became her responsibility to provide for the entire family to the point that her siblings are studying and she's not.
    This could have been realized by SE, but can't do anything yet (blackmail). Now that her siblings already graduated, SE started doing what she wants and slowly but surely follow her heart

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    1. The presence of of PC in her life made her realized that she has other options and freeing herself from that bondage made it more appealing for her.. perhaps she realized also that PC's family loves her as their own daughter.

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  48. Grabe ! Ano to pati mga kapatid nya wala na din pakielam sa kanya ? Wag na yun mga naitulong sa kanila eh . Yung fact na nag-iisa yung kapatid nila sa times na ganito hindi manlang nila naisip na alalahanin at alalayan kahit papano , wala syang kakampi s ainyo kahit isa!!! Grabe! Grabe talaga!

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    1. I'm sure they want to help.Natatakot na lang din siguro kay SE!

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  49. Alam ko na sobrang stressed na c DD pero kinakaya lang nya... Ayaw nya na maging bad image c SE sa paningin ng lahat kaya no comment lng sya...sobrang bait mo DD pero naaawa ako sayo....we love you DD��

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  50. It's about tome she gets what she deserve

    It all belongs to her anyway..from her hard work.

    Half nga lang hinihingi nya sobrang bait pa din kahit ganun ginagawa sa kanya ng family nyang parasite sa kanya

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  51. DD should take it all, it is her. The family had been well provided for by her all their life. The family have businesses, so DD should not get worried with their survival anymore.
    DD should take it all, all that she still have. It is her, rightfully her. And she can get it all back with a good lawyer and with the help of her manager and bosses. SE do not have any right.

    DD should not settle for half, the family were feasting on her hard earned money for so long. they had consumed more than half of her income since the beginning of her career. Its time for it to end. It is time for DD to take hold of what is rightfully and lawfully hers.

    SE and family should back off now! They don't have the rights to hold on something that is not theirs specially now.

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    1. Exactly! Take everything, DD. You worked hard for all of it, so it is rightfully yours.

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  52. Walang balls din yung isang elder at sobrang hina nung mga siblings. Obvious na maling mali ang nangyayari sa pamilya nila and yet they let it happen. Kungsabagay, sila yung nakikinabang kaya siguro, dedma na lang sila sa maling pamamalakad ni SE. Ang kapal niya talaga. Not worthy of any respect.

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    1. Mga tuso at ingratA

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    2. nasa dugo ata nila yung pagiging mahina. si d lang may initiative hahaha

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    3. SE controls the strings of the purse, paano na ang luxurious life pag kinalaban nila?

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  53. Ang sama talaga ni SE, grabe I cannot. Etong mga kapatid walang magawa, bow na lang ng bow, walang utang na loob!!!

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  54. Bakit naman di sya nabigyan ng financial advice ng manager nya, bago umabot sa ganito. Kawawa naman, lahat ng pinagpaguran nya, ganun nalang

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  55. Kawawa DD. Pang mmk ang buhay nya

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  56. Totoo yan, in her early years in showbiz kapag nasa abroad ang C whenever may gusto bilhin si DD kailangan nya pa mangutang sa co-C nya. One time may gustong bag si DD, nangutang pa sya kay B para makabili ng bag. So sad for DD.

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  57. Yung mga kapatid di man lang sya tulungan..anu ba yan..

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  58. I am happy that she is finally consulting a lawyer. It's sad that it has to come this way pero I guess S deserves to be happy and she deserves to get her money!

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  59. its a good beginning for S. It maybe OA for many but its ok to leave all matetial things behind to start 'Fresh'. Let go all to know if matured, capable and ready to fly. I know of a rich Chinese who left the family business he established and developed, w/o getting any share to avoid any legal and relationship issues. Kasi nga sya nag grow nito, so what will stop him to grow another one. And he did!. S is a star. No question, the talent is there but sana the heart that must be guarded. The emo pain at this point is real but it will pass. More challenges will come but let real love prevail, which only a good heart can see.

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  60. sobrang bait mo DD hindi ako nagkamaling idolohin ka

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  61. she didn’t grow up, ngayon lang. poor kid. sana ok na ngayon.

    huwag tayong magpaabuso para bawas ang abusado.

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