kids will annoy you. its a right of passage, hence the term "terrible twos" and its normal for any woman to feel agitated when this happens. its part of life and she (bianca) expressing this over her IG is non of our business.
I feel so sorry for you 12:18am. Every child is a blessing. And you implying that it was her fault that she gave birth and that she should regret it is so bad and evil and sad
12:18 If your a girl and never experienced having kids, yan typical reaction. You'll just understand this pag nanay ka na rin. Sometimes wag insensitive kasi hindi mo ikagaganda o ikayayaman yan.
I think what 12:27 means is, Bianca is luckier than some. Imagine taking care of a toddler and a newborn plus doing all the housework yourself. I feel for Bianca though. It can be exhausting.
Oh well that's motherhood. Makukulitan ka at mpapagod ka. Tapos masisigawan mo sila. At mamaya magui-guilty ka at magsisi ka. After a while, makukulitan ka uli and the cycle continues.
Excuse me but some of us can afford to hire yayas (yes, plural) but choose not to because it is hard to find trustworthy and reliable help nowadays. I’m not a perfect mother but you also won’t see me complaining and venting out in social media.
you're not less of a mother if you can afford to hire a yaya and that doesn't mean she can afford to means she is barred from feeling helpless and have those motherhood pulses. all mothers are one and the same regardless of the circumstance.
Let's not forget that she just gave birth. It might postpartum depression. Di gawa gawa yan ng mga nanay para magpapansin or mag inarte. This is a serious matter kaya need lagi may kausap, kasama or ma busy yun mind ng kapapanganak lang. Ma busy sa ibang bagay aside sa pag aalaga ng anak. Kasi yun iba pag di naagapan kahit mali at ayaw nila gawin, napapatay nila babies nila. Morbid kung morbid pero totoo un. As a mom, naexperienced ko rin yan. D mo ma control un emotions mo. Parang there's demon inside your head kaya I asked my husband to help me. Lahat ng pwedeng ka busyhan at malibang ako kahit pano ginawa namin un and it worked. Samahan din ng prayers dapat.
Di pa ako pamilyado pero sa pagba-babysit pa lang sa mga pamangkin (4 YO below) ng isang araw stressed na stressed na ako. Inaalala ko paano pag may mga sariling anak na ako.
Pag sobrang kulit ng anak, iyong tipong umihi ka lang gumawa na ng kalat, kalokohan, nasaktan na kasi umakyat sa kung saan, tapos may infant ka pa at may dinaramdam...e buti nasigawan lang niya panganay niya. Sa iba iyan may palo na, darating asawa siya naman mapagbabalingan. Ganito noon iyong kapitbahay ko. Nakaramdam rin ako ng ganito nung may naging dalawa rin anak ko. Frustration na di mo matapos-tapos magluto o maglinis, kasi tulog manok iyong bunso, iyong panganay napakalikot na kayang umakyat at lumabas sa playpen/crib. Kung pwede lang itali, hahaha!
because it is really ppd. you're not still a mom? i think every mom or most of the moms experienced this ppd and it's really hard. you will experience different emotions.
honestly, i can relate super kulet ng daughter ko as in that I had to shout at her or minsan il slightly hit her sa hands or pwet esp. if what she's doing is not right.
Don’t believe those people who post on social media that being a mother is like a walk in the park, because it’s not. Motherhood is never easy and it will never be easy. Don’t pressure yourself to be the “best mom” based on other people’s standards because that’s what will make you go crazy. Just do what you can to provide for your kids, if you end up screaming/yelling at them at some point because it gets to much don’t feel bad, madaming dumaan sa ganyan stage. Hinga lang ng malalim dahil lilipas din yan.
Jusko, nasigawan lang yung toddler na anak na loka na. Wait till their teenagers. Kamay na bakal is what you need. Angel pa yang stage na yan Miss know it all.
"Drama" iyan ng puyat araw-araw at pagod sa pag-aalaga ng newborn at elder toddler. Tsk, be compassionate naman hija, what she's going through isn't a walk in the park.
Her toddler is probably jealous of the new baby. From being the center of the universe to being second fiddle. sometimes toddlers create drama hoping the parent ''forgets' the new baby's existence. Explain calmly the first few times. When they are already doing it on purpose SIGAWAN NA ng matauhan.
isa, dalawa o tatlo or more. mahirap maging INA. so many ups and downs. hit and miss. important is you learn from every mistake. laban lang lilipas din yan
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Deletekids will annoy you. its a right of passage, hence the term "terrible twos" and its normal for any woman to feel agitated when this happens. its part of life and she (bianca) expressing this over her IG is non of our business.
I feel so sorry for you 12:18am.
DeleteEvery child is a blessing. And you implying that it was her fault that she gave birth and that she should regret it is so bad and evil and sad
12:18 If your a girl and never experienced having kids, yan typical reaction. You'll just understand this pag nanay ka na rin. Sometimes wag insensitive kasi hindi mo ikagaganda o ikayayaman yan.
Deletemag-anak ka muna bago ka kumuda. tingnan lang natin.
DeleteThey have househelp, right? She’s still lucky someone is there to do everything in the house for her so she can focus on her babies.
ReplyDeleteEven if you have househelp, it does not mean it’s gonna be easy lalo na if you just gave birth. I think she’s just venting out her emotions.
DeleteI think what 12:27 means is, Bianca is luckier than some. Imagine taking care of a toddler and a newborn plus doing all the housework yourself. I feel for Bianca though. It can be exhausting.
DeleteOh well that's motherhood. Makukulitan ka at mpapagod ka. Tapos masisigawan mo sila. At mamaya magui-guilty ka at magsisi ka. After a while, makukulitan ka uli and the cycle continues.
ReplyDeleteYou are still lucky you can afford to have yayas. Count your blessings instead of whining your bs on social media.
ReplyDeleteI bet you are not a mother. IF YES...STFU
Deleteikaw ang life coach ni Bianca?
Deletewow...ikaw na baks.
Weeedi kayo ng mga di afford nang yaya ang perfect mother! Kayo na magaling. Kayo na dakila. Kayo lang may karapatan mapagod. Kalokang mga tao to.
DeleteExcuse me but some of us can afford to hire yayas (yes, plural) but choose not to because it is hard to find trustworthy and reliable help nowadays. I’m not a perfect mother but you also won’t see me complaining and venting out in social media.
Deleteyou're not less of a mother if you can afford to hire a yaya and that doesn't mean she can afford to means she is barred from feeling helpless and have those motherhood pulses. all mothers are one and the same regardless of the circumstance.
DeleteLet's not forget that she just gave birth. It might postpartum depression. Di gawa gawa yan ng mga nanay para magpapansin or mag inarte. This is a serious matter kaya need lagi may kausap, kasama or ma busy yun mind ng kapapanganak lang. Ma busy sa ibang bagay aside sa pag aalaga ng anak. Kasi yun iba pag di naagapan kahit mali at ayaw nila gawin, napapatay nila babies nila. Morbid kung morbid pero totoo un. As a mom, naexperienced ko rin yan. D mo ma control un emotions mo. Parang there's demon inside your head kaya I asked my husband to help me. Lahat ng pwedeng ka busyhan at malibang ako kahit pano ginawa namin un and it worked. Samahan din ng prayers dapat.
ReplyDeletePost Partum most likely ito
ReplyDeleteDi pa ako pamilyado pero sa pagba-babysit pa lang sa mga pamangkin (4 YO below) ng isang araw stressed na stressed na ako. Inaalala ko paano pag may mga sariling anak na ako.
ReplyDeleteBeen there 3x. May post partum depression lahat ng mga nanay. I know the feeling.. she needs support. Sana walang mang bash..
ReplyDeletePag sobrang kulit ng anak, iyong tipong umihi ka lang gumawa na ng kalat, kalokohan, nasaktan na kasi umakyat sa kung saan, tapos may infant ka pa at may dinaramdam...e buti nasigawan lang niya panganay niya. Sa iba iyan may palo na, darating asawa siya naman mapagbabalingan. Ganito noon iyong kapitbahay ko. Nakaramdam rin ako ng ganito nung may naging dalawa rin anak ko. Frustration na di mo matapos-tapos magluto o maglinis, kasi tulog manok iyong bunso, iyong panganay napakalikot na kayang umakyat at lumabas sa playpen/crib. Kung pwede lang itali, hahaha!
ReplyDeleteOh my, I feel you
DeletePpd is getting hyped nowadays.. pero ung masyado nasa limelight. Mommies might assume agad na ppd ung post partum anxiety.
ReplyDeleteExactly.
DeleteSo just wait till it gets worse? Bianca is clearly experiencing early signs. Pwede maagapan.
Deletebecause it is really ppd. you're not still a mom? i think every mom or most of the moms experienced this ppd and it's really hard. you will experience different emotions.
DeletePost partum blues. Poor Bianca.
ReplyDeletehonestly, i can relate super kulet ng daughter ko as in that I had to shout at her or minsan il slightly hit her sa hands or pwet esp. if what she's doing is not right.
ReplyDeleteNangangamoy post partum. Seek help pls. God bless all mothers
ReplyDeleteI feel you. Most days are heaven on earth with my kid, but there are some days when $hit just hits the fan.
ReplyDeleteDon’t believe those people who post on social media that being a mother is like a walk in the park, because it’s not. Motherhood is never easy and it will never be easy. Don’t pressure yourself to be the “best mom” based on other people’s standards because that’s what will make you go crazy. Just do what you can to provide for your kids, if you end up screaming/yelling at them at some point because it gets to much don’t feel bad, madaming dumaan sa ganyan stage. Hinga lang ng malalim dahil lilipas din yan.
ReplyDeleteAll moms naka encounter na ng ganito. Hindi reality yung palagi kayong masaya ng mga anak mo. 😂
ReplyDeleteMeh, that’s everyday thing lang naman e. Don’t make a big deal out of it.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha.......she should see my household, chaos pero masaya pa rin. If the kids cry, it’s normal.
ReplyDeleteNakakaloka ang mga nega! She’s just giving encouragement to mothers like her. It’s a bad day not a bad life.
ReplyDeleteJusko, nasigawan lang yung toddler na anak na loka na. Wait till their teenagers. Kamay na bakal is what you need. Angel pa yang stage na yan Miss know it all.
ReplyDeleteLol true!
Deleteano n naman kadramahan yan bianca dami po reklamo
ReplyDelete"Drama" iyan ng puyat araw-araw at pagod sa pag-aalaga ng newborn at elder toddler. Tsk, be compassionate naman hija, what she's going through isn't a walk in the park.
DeleteHer toddler is probably jealous of the new baby. From being the center of the universe to being second fiddle. sometimes toddlers create drama hoping the parent ''forgets' the new baby's existence. Explain calmly the first few times. When they are already doing it on purpose SIGAWAN NA ng matauhan.
ReplyDeleteisa, dalawa o tatlo or more. mahirap maging INA. so many ups and downs. hit and miss. important is you learn from every mistake. laban lang lilipas din yan
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