Friday, November 9, 2018

Don’t Leave

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Since the time he was introduced to the entertainment industry, Young Actor (YA) has been surrounded with controversy. As a child, he was hardly recognized by his father and thus he grew up with his mother’s family amidst the rejection. However, his resemblance to his father was undeniable and no one could question that. Yet, the support he had expected was nowhere and he eventually had to prove himself independently.

Despite this personal setback, YA was warmly received by the industry and he was given his break. Even if his career would sometimes be spiced up by lovelife issues, YA remained strong. When bashers would not give him a break, YA stood his ground and spent time answering rude posts. Time made him mature and soon, he did not mind the bashers anymore. One advantage that YA had was that his other siblings accepted him and his mother has always been there for him.

When he was cast as one of the male leads in a major project, YA had the break that would make any other talent envious. The role was significant and it veered away from the usual cute and boy-next-door image. Despite things seemingly working out for him, news about him hounded the grapevine and shocked showbiz aficionados and caused worry for fans and friends alike. YA allegedly took matters into his own hands and tried to end it all with a slash here and there. Lucky for YA, there were people who took him to the hospital in time and to pacify him.

As to what triggered YA to attempt to end everything is still in question. Others assumed that YA might be feeling frustrated over love or even the feeling of loneliness. YA allegedly lives by himself and pressures of coming to an empty home could be getting on to him. For the meantime, YA is resting in a hospital and perhaps thinking of how quickly everything could have ended had it not been for timely intervention.   

‘There comes a time when you look into the mirror and you realize that what you see is all that you will ever be. And then you accept it. Or you kill yourself. Or you stop looking in mirrors.’ ― Tennessee Williams

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    1. I can only imagine gaano sya ka lungkot para gawin yun. :( praying for D.

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    2. I know how he feels. Mahirap talaga maging lonely.

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  2. D — grabe.. depression kills

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  3. Whaaaat? The who!!

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  4. Hope he gets help. So difficult for the mom and the others who care about him. This is D.

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  5. YA is D, kawawa naman,he needs someone to inspire him and make him strive to live.Someone,he would love and equally can reciprocate his love, a true love to cling on.

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    1. The thing is, one shouldn’t have to depend on another person to feel happy or want to live because people aren’t permanent. you should be happy and content with yourself first.

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    2. 2:33 exactly! You just be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else! I think he needs to work on himself, cuz before this he was involved in a lot of negative issues esp with his constant drinking and partying.

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    3. 2:33 easy to preach, difficult to do especially in his case. So instead of Nega comments, just pray for him.

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    4. @233 but for now that is what he needed, a strength to hold on. depression is not a mood where instantly you are happy and contented,it is a long process to be able to overcome this and in this process you need someone you can trust. in the process of healing then the start of trusting yourself and appreciating life again begins.

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    5. I always say that to myself when I get very sad kahit kami pa non ng ex ko. Iba ang feeling ng emptiness as in. I was scared na baka dumerecho sa clinical depression so I helped myself.

      I opened up to people. I went out with friends. I only thought about happy thoughts. I binge watched funny and feel good clips sa YT. Okay naman ako.

      Sana magigong okay din si D. I like him. And his ferocious way of answerimg bashers. 😊

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    6. 2:33 the thing is what you're saying is easier said than done. Depression is an illness. When you have that illness you can not just will yourself to be happy.

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    7. Everyone must learn to live and be happy with themselves. Huwang natin iasa ang happiness sa ibang tao.

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    8. exactly. he needs more than an inspiration. what he needs is a professional help first.

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  6. YA I may not know you personally but what I do know is that your mother loves you, adores you and needs you to be alive. Your career is on the upswing and you’ve improved a lot in terms of your acting skills plus you have a fit and healthy body. You have your whole life ahead of you so please don’t quit - think of your mom. If you cannot do it for yourself, please do it for her. Besides, if you quit on life, he who must not be named wins. Believe me when I say I am also fighting my demons so I know about the struggle. I am old and ill and overwhelmed with my situation but the thought of my mom stops me from doing something stupid. Fight young man!

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    1. Very well said! Clap clap!

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    2. Thank you for sharing that 1:36. Not only for YA but for each one of us who is going through the same situation.

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  7. D. Stop na din yung hate na binabato sa mga celebs. Akala nyo ok sila but they are just pretending. Minsan ang outlet nila yung pagiging walwal but deep inside they are hurting.

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    1. 1:41 tama ka. Wag na mga negative comments. Puede naman yun.

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    2. True. Ang dali lang kasi sa atin na magbato ng mga masasakit na salita kasi di natin sila kilala, at isipin na dapat di sila maging balat sibuyas kasi it’s part of the life they chose. That’s really insensitive.

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    3. This is so true. Yung ibang bashers kasi akala mo pag-aari nila ang mga artista.

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    4. ay excuse me nauna yung attitude nitong taong to bago sha ibash

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    5. 4:52 wtf? yung mga gaya mo mga walang kwentang tao. ang perfect lang ha

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  8. This young man needs prayers. His mental health is not the best. Hang in there D, you are loved.

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  9. D should talk to his family often. He should be surrounded by people who loves him para hindi na ulit mangyari to. sad naman..

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  10. D he nids someone to lean on. Kawwa nmn..

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  11. D na may anger issues. May supportive mom.

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  12. D. as much as I'm concerned about him I also hope it doesn't affect his work. this incident could affect other co-actors around him.

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  13. D. Grabe depression kills. :’(

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  14. Keeping a positive mind is the key & Never lose Faith in the future everything Will Be Ok.God Bless.

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  15. Get well soon...God loves u.

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  16. Praying for ur speedy recovery. ❤❤❤

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  17. Grabe. Kakagulat.

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  18. This young man has been rejected or made to feel a lesser being one too many times. Hang on, your problems, or issues, will also pass. You are young, you are still learning. There would be mistakes along the way, but you have the time to correct it and learn from it. Be strong, you have a parent who loves you and siblings who adore you. There are people who care for you more than you think possible. Stay for them, just as they stand for you.

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  19. Be strong D magaling kapa naman na actor <3 I love you magpagaling ka <3

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  20. prayers and love for you, D! Don’t hurt your mom ❤️

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  21. Hindi ko po ma gets. Sino po si D?

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  22. sinong d? clue naman pls.

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  23. ang sad naman nito kung totoo man. i hope he gets all the love abd support he needs.

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  24. Nagiisa pala sya. Kawawa naman. Fight YA. Find help. God bless u.

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  25. YA - D. Get well soon!

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  26. Please seek professional help. Mahirap kalaban ang depression; you definitely need intervention. :(

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  27. Praying and May God be with you and your family always.❤

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  28. He needs a good therapist, somebody who could give him the tools and skills to accept/endure difficult emotions.. a lot of times, depression is caused by cognitive distortions,unhealthy mental habits and if not enough pills could be another option with the guidance of the professionals..

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  29. hala c D..omg kawawa naman... sana gabayan ng magulang..

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  30. clueless pa rin ako

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  31. Stay Strong D. G9d bless you. Be stronger than the demons inside your head.

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  32. D.. I always watch your new show. Praying for your recovery. Talk to your mom or a close friend. You are not alone.

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  33. OMG. Pls. get professional help.

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  34. si D na lt ni K ng KaF?

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  35. Ow i know! D na ex bf ni S!

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  36. D :( na meet ko sya twice in person before. he’s really nice and a sweet person. please know that you are loved. talk to people you trust. talk to your mom. be strong.

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  37. What is Ds' problem kaya? kawawa naman..

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  38. What's troubling him kaya? He needs every support he can get. Hope he is ok na

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  39. oh no, please be strong! when you're in doubt just pray and talk to god!

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  40. D. His eyes always look haunted and sad, even when he is smiling. Don't let the pressure get to you, boy. Just focus on your work right now. I hope your friends and family reach out to you

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    1. True. Akala ko ako lang nakakapansin. He looks tired and unhappy even when he is smiling. His past posts even suggest something.it seems is tired explaining himself when he doesn't really need to. I pray he finds inner peace with the help of family and friends. It's very important to talk and express your feelings.

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  41. He needs direction and purpose. Praying for him. Hope he gets thru with depression.

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