Read carefully and understand what you read. She said "I have struggled with depression way back..." and "I have days...". It doesn't necessarily mean it was during the time they are mourning. It was during a time she got depressed.
If only people will try not to look for something negative to say,,just so you could say something, and try to find a little bit of space in your heart to think good thoughts about another person, even if you don't like them, then maybe we can have a happier world. :)
Way to go nitpicking something insignificant in her post. Hindi ka mean, kinain ka lang ng sestema mo na magalit sa taong walang ginagawa sayo. Typical hater.
Stop bashing Nadine.ung brother nya ayaw ng crying, kaya siguro she's trying to be brave. second attempt na ata nya mag suicide. Nanghihinayang ako sa brother nya.
ganito siguro ang ibig sabihin ng tub sa post nya.. di ba tayo pag nasa bathtub.. feeling natin relaxing.. maka-kalma ang utak natin.. yet kahit nasa situation na dapat relaxing eh maiisip pa din natin ang mga problema kasi nga depressed tayo.. i had the same tub experience kaya ganyan ang feeling ko.. kahit anong pilit mong gawin para matanggal ang aalalahanin.. depression will still eat you.
We never knew their relationship. Maybe she did all that she could pero bumigay yung brother nya. We can never judge them dahil di natin alam ang nangyari.
And now that's why she is sharing this and trying to make a difference, her brother chose that path and Nadine is trying to say to people in the same situation there is batter path which is to stay because life is beautiful!! Go Nadine
i have to agree with you on this one. but then, bakit naging patungkol sayo? namatayan ka and yet puro I and Me. please nadine wag mo namang itake advantage ang ngyari sa kapatid mo para mwala ang negavibes mo
Kasi baks nakakarelate sya. That's why she encourage people who are going trough something to just keep going. Kasi kung hindi nya napagdaanan yun at mag-aadvice sya, sasabihin ng bashers nya wala syang alam sa pakiramdam ng isang depressed. That's why mas malaki ang impact pag galing mismo sa taong dumaan sa depression yung mensahe.
Dyan naman kayo magaling, maghanap ng icriticized or mali sa tao. Hindi naman selfish post yan, nagshare lang sya ng experience nya. Sa mga taong katulad nyo na ayaw sa kanya, sympre automatic may say na agad. May tribute post kaya sya sa brother nya, nakakasad nga kasi sa video kahit nakatalikod yon brother parang yon attention nya nasa malayo.
The post is not for or about her brother. She didnt addressed it to him or even mentioned him. It was a post about how she feels and her emotional struggles.
I may not like her but this message is so heartfelt. Depression is terrible. I lost a friend just 2 months ago because suicide. Hindi mo talaga aakalain. To this day, Hindi pa din ako makapaniwala. I still of her.
It's okay to be sad. It's okay to feel pain. It's okay to be vulnerable Nadine. Stop acting like you always have to look cool and mighty. Be humble, especially at this time of mourning. Be humble and show respect to your poor brother.
12:37,1:44 how u people claim that she did not respect her brother.. on which basis? She is the breadwinner of the family. She needs to be strong for the family. Then, ya’ll judging her for being cool and mighty. It’s better seeing her fighting than broken.
12:37 it's also okay to be kind to her, and let her be, for once. If she really is trying to be cool and mighty, it's because of people like you. You guys are always judging her every move, as if waiting for her to fail.
This post makes me cry... we don't know what the person goes through everyday... but inspite of that she continues to be a sunshine to many... she's my inspiration!!
Yung kapatid nga niya na namatay e hindi man Lang niya alam na magaling pa Lang sumulat. Basahin nyo sa Medium website. Ganda ng mga sulat niya. Sayang ang kapatid niya. Pinabayaan nila dahil busy sila lahat!
12:38 wala naman akong nabasang pagbabanta, gurl. Paki bilugan nga ng ma emphasize.
Diko gets bakit yung iba dito inaassume parati kung ano nasa isip and na-ffeel nung tao? Meron ba kayong subscription sa daily updates ng utak at puso ni Nadine?
1:37, she’s encouraging other people who suffer from depression to be strong, to keep going, because she knows exactly how it feels. stop choosing to see the negative!
2;01, gusto kasi ng mga haters na yan, word for word. di magets kasi they just simply refuse to. blinded by their hatred on the person they don’t even personally know. it’s sad, really.
144 wow Alam ng Alam follower ka ni ate nadz? Haha! Pero shocks natawa ako Sa inyo! Napatingin ako Sa IG Niya Napa "Oo nga no" ayus rin si Nadine e... haha
Naman mga teng baka kelangan niya mag post ng photoshoot niya for work. Baka fir promo sa magazine. Baka nagpapaka professional lang yung tao. Mga bashers talaga lahat na lang
Seems sincere but why does she have to make it about herself? How about acknowledging your brother’s passing on social media and starting from there and relating what happened to what you went through? Oh well diff’rent strokes for diff’rent folks
Because the issue is bigger than her brother. She herself has depression and is sharing how she copes with it so maybe she can help others avoid the same fate as her brother. Pwede ba? Mema nanaman!
Yan dapat! good job teh... spread awareness & tell people everything will be okay. Use your voice and millions of fans to a greater cause (para narin sa brother mo). walang mararating pag post mo ng hate or negative stuff saying your strong etc .... its okay to mourn & cry. nawalan ka keber sa sasabhin ng iba na weak or pretentious ka. time to be yourself & love the people around you. ang career napapalitan, ang mga tao sa paligid mo hindi.
It may be too late for some, but still substantial for others. I wish you well in life, 12:54, and hope that depression won't hit you nor anyone of your loved ones.
She may not have saved her own brother, but she could save someone else's. Enough with negativity man, that doesn't get you places and that doesn't heal anything.
1:04 actually she's still so into herself with that latest post. Wala man lang thanks for the prayers/thoughts for my brother's death. Instead it's still about her.
At one point in in everyones life, we have undergonedepression as it is one phase of a process whenever we encounter problem/ sickness (espicially the incurable) and lossing someone or something. It is when someone can' t overpass this phase that it becomes a mental health.
I'm glad you addressed the elephant in the room Nadine, kudos to you. All these negative comments about her from these tragic event, for what? why criticize someone who's trying to be strong for her family and for herself? She's coming up as too strong or too crass or too aggressive, or high up in her pedestal for some people, but I see it as her protecting her family. if your family gets accused of things and get's talked about in a negative way, tell me you wouldn't do the same.
Kasi pabida siya! Tingnan mo post niya, patungkol sa kanya and sa mga tao na may depression! Tingnan mo IG niya, namatay na nga brother niya e nakuha pang mag post ng Nadine loves Metro! Asan ang pagluluksa dun? Aber?
2:00: maybe bec she needs to do her part and be responsible for her work pa din khit nagluluksa. ikaw nga namatayan na ung tao nakuha mo pa din mambash
Nice words Nadine, but sana you were also there for him when he needed somebody.. u spent most time with your friends than your family..that's why you didnt know anything about your brother. #fact
I guess it was a wake up call for here too. Like my friend tells me. Your family will always be there for you, for all seasons but friends? They are seasonal they come and go... habang andiyan pa parents and siblings make the most of it to spend time with them don't wait for the time na pag Wala na you will have regrets.
1:01 how can u prove that she is not spending enough time with her family? Are u with her 24/7? If not please stop being so judgemental.please don’t base everything on socmed. U only see 10% of those of what is really happening in her life.
2:12 same thing with you baks. how can you say with full conviction that she's strong, smart, mabait at loyal sa pamilya at friends, with just a minute or 2 of vids beinng posted on socmed? di porke't avid fan ka ay tama lahat ng expectations mo kay nadine.
Ako nga di ma-share na tao e kahit sa family ko ang alam lang nila yung nakikita nila baka nga magulat din sila pag bigla din akong nagpakamatay. Point ko is iba-iba tayo ng personality ke kapamilya mo pa yan.
I pray for young people of today to turn to God more and think about life after this world. A lot of people are empty because they only look for the things this world can offer which are only temporary.
Masarap mabuhay baks. Lagi natin tandaan Hiram Lang buhay natin lahat ng challenges dapat labanan natin Kahit Mahirap Kahit masakit pag nag survive tayo laki ng papasalamat natin dahil yun tulong ni Lord na bigyan tayo ng strength at gabay. After all the challenges may kapalit ng maganda bunga yan. Never give up tuloy parin ang buhay!
why harsh? she was blessed with good career before d ba.... kung nababash ma mostly reaction sa mag actions nya.... i don't agree that life is harsh on her.... maswerte pa rin sha..
It reads like a posthumous letter to her brother, but it's for everyone too. Just my POV, the sad thing about depression is when we're caught in it, it's very hard to think about how things will get better tomorrow, when just getting to the next minute is already a struggle. It's like being trapped in a burning building, you can choose the agony of burning slowly or just jump out the window. The people who love you are the people standing below telling you to stop, but they don't see why you need to jump, because living a tortured life is worse than a quick death. I can understand why some people just to choose to end it. It may not be the right way to your loved ones, but it's the right way for you. In your mind, you can finally be free.
I’m just confused by her actions...the day before, she said “ you will never see me down.” Ngayon naman “it’s ok to be sad, it’s ok to cry.” Nakakalito lang sya talaga...ang tindi ng mood swings!
Totoo naman yon gaano ka man ka-strong need mo pa rin i-acknowledge yung mga feelings na yon para magpatuloy sa buhay. Ang importante di ka nagpatalo sa mga di magagandang bagay na nararamdaman mo. Di weakness ang umiyak :)
Why is this about her? Where's the grief on her brother's death? I feel bad for her brother's death, but sorry I just don't get the "I was/am also depressive, feel bad for me too" vibe.
I guess ayaw na kasi niyang ipagdikdikan yung nangyari sa brother niya. Ikaw ba naman maalala mo at ipaalala lagi sa sarili mong nag suicide ang mahal mo sa buhay, I guess you would want to move on from that.
If you are depressed, you need to pray. I was depressed two years ago. Nothing made sense in my life. I had a spiritual warfare book with a lot of prayers and it helped me a lot fight with the demons that's messing mind and emotions.
could you pls share the title of the book? it can be a great help for my daughter diagnosed worth clinical depression, with other therapeutics she's on now. thank you.
Sana yung word na depression talagang naiintindihan ng nakararami, hindi yung tipong na associate lang sya sa kalungkutan or when you feel the lowest of lows. Depression is a serious medical illness. And I wonder itong mga nagsasabing na depressed sila or nadedepress knows what it really meant. When you are clinically diagnosed having depression is a different story.
Depression can be a killer disease but if you have a good support system and relationship with your family and loved ones who will be there for you, you can get through it slowly. Support system is the most important thing for depressed people.
Im sure may regrets din si Nadine sympre as an ate one of her obligations is to check if her siblings is okay. Yun nga Lang Hinde Niya nagawa yun ang masakit Kaya siguro hurt siya :( Yan ang Mahirap Kasi pag Hinde na dun nakatira Not unless may nag asawa na si Nadine.
She just shared that she went through depression and still suffering from it... Selfish na agad sainyo? Di nyo man lang ba naisip na that's how she can connect to those people who suffering from depression that will read her post?
How can people nitpick insignificant things sa post nyang puno ng good intentions? She's encouraging people to keep living even when they're at their darkest time. She's encouraging people not to end their life like her brother did. Hindi nyo makita connection ang post nya sa brother nya?
Hinde Niya Alam magaling sumulat kapatid Niya? Halos sabay sabay naman sila lumaki diba? Ako while growIng up nakikita ko Kuya ko matalino na at magaling sumulat si Nadine Hinde alam? Or Hinde Lang napapansin ?
We have to be aware that there are other mental illnesses other than depression (major depressive disorder). Meron din narcissistic personality disorder.
Sorry but I think she too needs help. "Love will guide you" I think God will guide you Nads. Hindi man lang niya nabanggit ang pagtrust sa Panginoon kundi sa sarili. Wrong advice po, sorry to say.
sino ba naman ang di madedepress sa mga sinasabi nyo namatayan n nga yung tao panay bash nyo pa din sa kanya. lahat n lang mali sa inyo. kung ayaw nyo sa kanya utang na loob lubayan nyo may pinagdadaanan sila.
Im so sorry, mean na kung mean ako pero kahit nagluluksa napaka pa sosyal ni nadine. Sa tub talaga
ReplyDeleteYou are who/what you say you are.
DeletePity you. Nkakaawa ka. 😢
Okay wait. So kung talagang sa tub siya umiiyak? ano naman sa atin dun? pakasosyal na yun?
DeleteRead carefully and understand what you read. She said "I have struggled with depression way back..." and "I have days...". It doesn't necessarily mean it was during the time they are mourning. It was during a time she got depressed.
DeleteIf only people will try not to look for something negative to say,,just so you could say something, and try to find a little bit of space in your heart to think good thoughts about another person, even if you don't like them, then maybe we can have a happier world. :)
So? May pera siya and kaya niya pagawa ng madaming tubs. You are so nega. Sa haba ng post niya, yun talaga napansin mo. Pathetic!
DeleteYeah, you're mean. Sa ganda ng message, yan yung naisip mo.
DeleteWay to go nitpicking something insignificant in her post. Hindi ka mean, kinain ka lang ng sestema mo na magalit sa taong walang ginagawa sayo.
DeleteTypical hater.
Im sorry din kung wala kang tub at hindi ka makarelate lol of all things she said yun talaga napansin mo? Halatang hater
DeleteStop bashing Nadine.ung brother nya ayaw ng crying, kaya siguro she's trying to be brave. second attempt na ata nya mag suicide. Nanghihinayang ako sa brother nya.
DeleteMay tub sila sa bahay nila ha? Kahit Hindi pa siya artista? Or sa tub ng boypren niya?
Deleteikaw na ang hater. ganda ng message but you found way to nitpick
DeleteI actually felt the sincerity in her post.
DeleteKawawa ka naman. Wala ka pambili tub. Sosyal na pala sayo ang may tub. Mahal pa nga mga celfon ngayon kesa tub. Masyado ka lang hater ni nadine.
Deleteganito siguro ang ibig sabihin ng tub sa post nya.. di ba tayo pag nasa bathtub.. feeling natin relaxing.. maka-kalma ang utak natin.. yet kahit nasa situation na dapat relaxing eh maiisip pa din natin ang mga problema kasi nga depressed tayo.. i had the same tub experience kaya ganyan ang feeling ko.. kahit anong pilit mong gawin para matanggal ang aalalahanin.. depression will still eat you.
DeleteI feel you nadz. Ang tibay ng loob mo kung ako siguro binabash araw araw bibigay na ako.
ReplyDeleteTrue. Hindi lang si Nadine but marami pang iba na wala namang ginagawang masama sa mga bashers pero grabe kung ibash nila.
DeleteCondolence to the family. May the family heal and be healed..
ReplyDeleteWhat a strong woman. Continue to inspire others, Nadz.
ReplyDeleteShe should've used her voice sa loved ones niya before especially sa brother niya #sadbuttrue
ReplyDeleteWe never knew their relationship. Maybe she did all that she could pero bumigay yung brother nya. We can never judge them dahil di natin alam ang nangyari.
DeleteMaybe she did. We can never tell.
Delete12:34 We don’t know the whole story. Stop saying “she should’ve” like you knew what was going on.
DeleteAnd now that's why she is sharing this and trying to make a difference, her brother chose that path and Nadine is trying to say to people in the same situation there is batter path which is to stay because life is beautiful!! Go Nadine
DeleteSa pamamagitan nang socmed nya cguro dinadaan ang pag handle ng grief nya
ReplyDeleteAmen to that Nadine.
ReplyDeletei have to agree with you on this one. but then, bakit naging patungkol sayo? namatayan ka and yet puro I and Me. please nadine wag mo namang itake advantage ang ngyari sa kapatid mo para mwala ang negavibes mo
DeleteKasi baks nakakarelate sya. That's why she encourage people who are going trough something to just keep going. Kasi kung hindi nya napagdaanan yun at mag-aadvice sya, sasabihin ng bashers nya wala syang alam sa pakiramdam ng isang depressed. That's why mas malaki ang impact pag galing mismo sa taong dumaan sa depression yung mensahe.
Delete1:08 same sentiments. Have to hand it to her though, brilliant way of getting people's sympathy. #sorrynotsorry
DeleteMukhang selfish ang post! Walang tribute sa brother!
Delete1:08 na gets mo ba cnansabi nya.? It’s about inspiring others to keep going based sa experience nya
Delete1:43 bakit di niya sininulang iinspire ang kapatid niya? Bakit walang tribute sa kapatid na nagsuicide? Puro me, myself and I?
Deleteoo nagets ko 1.43. ikaw naintndhan mo ba sinabi ko? wag masyadong bilib sa idol teh. read between the lines.
DeleteDyan naman kayo magaling, maghanap ng icriticized or mali sa tao. Hindi naman selfish post yan, nagshare lang sya ng experience nya. Sa mga taong katulad nyo na ayaw sa kanya, sympre automatic may say na agad. May tribute post kaya sya sa brother nya, nakakasad nga kasi sa video kahit nakatalikod yon brother parang yon attention nya nasa malayo.
DeleteThe post is not for or about her brother. She didnt addressed it to him or even mentioned him. It was a post about how she feels and her emotional struggles.
DeleteI love her and those people who puts her down won't succeed because she's strong! #keepgoing
ReplyDeletewalk the talk. keep convincing yourselves.
DeleteWell said
ReplyDeleteI may not like her but this message is so heartfelt. Depression is terrible. I lost a friend just 2 months ago because suicide. Hindi mo talaga aakalain. To this day, Hindi pa din ako makapaniwala. I still of her.
ReplyDeleteIt's okay to be sad.
ReplyDeleteIt's okay to feel pain.
It's okay to be vulnerable Nadine. Stop acting like you always have to look cool and mighty. Be humble, especially at this time of mourning. Be humble and show respect to your poor brother.
true!!!
Delete12:37,1:44 how u people claim that she did not respect her brother.. on which basis? She is the breadwinner of the family. She needs to be strong for the family. Then, ya’ll judging her for being cool and mighty. It’s better seeing her fighting than broken.
Delete12:37 it's also okay to be kind to her, and let her be, for once. If she really is trying to be cool and mighty, it's because of people like you. You guys are always judging her every move, as if waiting for her to fail.
Delete12:37 and 1:44, you guys want to see her breakig down instead of being strong? sadista kayo?
DeleteThis post makes me cry... we don't know what the person goes through everyday... but inspite of that she continues to be a sunshine to many... she's my inspiration!!
ReplyDeleteAng daming drama ng babaeng to! Di man lang magpasalamat sa mga nakiramay sa kanila. May mga banta pang post na nalalaman!
ReplyDeleteHer post is about awareness and not just 'drama'. Stop the hatred
DeleteYung kapatid nga niya na namatay e hindi man Lang niya alam na magaling pa Lang sumulat. Basahin nyo sa Medium website. Ganda ng mga sulat niya. Sayang ang kapatid niya. Pinabayaan nila dahil busy sila lahat!
DeleteOmg how low can some people go?
Deletewow, kung ako nakikiramay sa isang tao, di ko iniexpect na pasalamatan. That how sincere people sympathize with someone who are grieving.
Kung makikiramay tapos isusumbat mo sa kanya. Di nya kailangan ang pekeng pakikiramay mo.!
stop the hatred. masyado kang bitter. get a life.
Delete12:38 wala naman akong nabasang pagbabanta, gurl. Paki bilugan nga ng ma emphasize.
DeleteDiko gets bakit yung iba dito inaassume parati kung ano nasa isip and na-ffeel nung tao? Meron ba kayong subscription sa daily updates ng utak at puso ni Nadine?
sa lahat mga sinabi, nega lahat ang napansin mo.
DeleteIniexpect montlga na pasalamatan if nakiramay ka? Ang babaw mo naman.
DeleteAnd still nothing about the deceased.. tsk
ReplyDeletePatungkol lang sa kanya! At sa mga tao na may depression!
DeleteMe, myself and I!
Deletein denial ata si ate nadz...or still full of herself pa rin. kahit nga itsura ng pic feed goals pa rin
Delete1:37, she’s encouraging other people who suffer from depression to be strong, to keep going, because she knows exactly how it feels. stop choosing to see the negative!
Deleteand still you have to bash...
DeleteWow mas magaling ka pa sa kanya. May post siya about sa kapatid nya.
DeleteAno pa po demand nyo? Ano pa pong post ang gusto nyo? Baka pwede nating isulat sa viva. Depression awareness and people are still wicked af.
DeletePa-cool padin siya. My goodness!
ReplyDeleteNo, di mo lang nagets baks. Blinded ka ng hatred mo sa kanya
Deletehate lang ng hate, ikakaunlad mo yan.
DeleteWhat's wrong with you anon 12:40?
DeleteSaan ang pacool jan? Mema talaga!
Delete12:40 bakit ang pait pait mo?
DeleteNice. Spread awareness. Encourage people to open up. They need a strong support sytem. #KeepGoing
ReplyDeleteSana nag spread din siya ng awareness at words of encouragement sa loved ones niya before.
DeleteMore like #sawsawpa #parabidabida
DeleteSpread awareness Pero walang tribute sa kapatid niya!
DeleteHindi natin alam. Kaya hindi tayo dapat magconclude na hindi nya inencourage yung kapatid nya. Who are we to judge?
DeleteHer brother died because of depression. Her message is for those undergoing depression.
DeleteSo.. if brother = undergone depression and message = for undergoing depression
Therefore...
Message = for brother... Also.
Gets na?
2;01, gusto kasi ng mga haters na yan, word for word. di magets kasi they just simply refuse to. blinded by their hatred on the person they don’t even personally know. it’s sad, really.
Delete2:01. No. Walang brother sa message. Puro "me" ang nabasa ko.
Delete2:01 - thank you for explaining pra sa mga mahina sa comprehension at compassion skills
DeleteGoals padin ang feeds ni bakla kahit depression ang topic lol
ReplyDeleteE nag post pa nga nga Gucci ek ek sa lamay ng kapatid niya e.
Deletehahaha
DeleteLol true!
DeleteSorry pero natawa ako, totoo baks
DeleteWork is work.. aside from mourning she also has other responsibilities
Delete144 wow Alam ng Alam follower ka ni ate nadz? Haha! Pero shocks natawa ako Sa inyo! Napatingin ako Sa IG Niya Napa "Oo nga no" ayus rin si Nadine e... haha
DeleteNaman mga teng baka kelangan niya mag post ng photoshoot niya for work. Baka fir promo sa magazine. Baka nagpapaka professional lang yung tao. Mga bashers talaga lahat na lang
DeleteHeartfelt message. My prayer tonight goes out to those people who are struggling mental illness may they find peace, happiness and purpose.
ReplyDeleteMy condolences Nadine. You might now know me but i'll be praying for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteEnglish ha
ReplyDeleteSa haba ng msg nya yun tlga ang pinansin mo! Sad life you have!
DeleteEnglish ha
ReplyDeleteWe are never safe when on our own thoughts.
ReplyDeleteooohh tama ka
DeleteLalim ng hugot neto. Ok ka lang ba? Call a friend ❤️
Deletetotoo yan.
DeleteI still don't like her but kudos to that.this is an important matter and her message is well delivered. 👍
ReplyDeleteSeems sincere but why does she have to make it about herself? How about acknowledging your brother’s passing on social media and starting from there and relating what happened to what you went through? Oh well diff’rent strokes for diff’rent folks
ReplyDeletegusto lagi sya ang bida.
DeleteBecause the issue is bigger than her brother. She herself has depression and is sharing how she copes with it so maybe she can help others avoid the same fate as her brother. Pwede ba? Mema nanaman!
DeleteUso magcheck ng insta nya. May tribute sya doon
Delete1:59 mema ka rin eh.
DeleteYan dapat! good job teh... spread awareness & tell people everything will be okay. Use your voice and millions of fans to a greater cause (para narin sa brother mo). walang mararating pag post mo ng hate or negative stuff saying your strong etc .... its okay to mourn & cry. nawalan ka keber sa sasabhin ng iba na weak or pretentious ka. time to be yourself & love the people around you. ang career napapalitan, ang mga tao sa paligid mo hindi.
ReplyDeleteToo late
ReplyDeleteMaybe too late for them, but clearly not to late to other people whom her words could make a huge impact
DeleteSad but true
DeleteIt may be too late for some, but still substantial for others. I wish you well in life, 12:54, and hope that depression won't hit you nor anyone of your loved ones.
DeleteMaybe she was more into herself that she didn't see her brother hurting too.
DeleteShe can still raise awareness though. Look at the brighter side instead!
DeleteToo late man sa kapatid Nya,at least para to sa ibang Tao na nakakaranas nang depression.
DeleteShe may not have saved her own brother, but she could save someone else's. Enough with negativity man, that doesn't get you places and that doesn't heal anything.
Delete1:04 actually she's still so into herself with that latest post. Wala man lang thanks for the prayers/thoughts for my brother's death. Instead it's still about her.
Delete1:47 Yap, me, myself and I talaga.
Delete12:54 - Hoping it's not too late for you too!
DeleteLahat nalang naging expert sa depression..
ReplyDeleteat lahat nalang may depression
Delete12:54 it’s not about being an expert, it’s the feeling of overcoming the pain base on experience by themselves., wag muna nega please lng
DeleteActually there is a NEED to DIFFERENTIATE Sadness, Loneliness, Melancholy and Depression. Seek professional/medical help for proper diagnosis.
DeleteAt one point in in everyones life, we have undergonedepression as it is one phase of a process whenever we encounter problem/ sickness (espicially the incurable) and lossing someone or something. It is when someone can' t overpass this phase that it becomes a mental health.
DeleteI'm glad you addressed the elephant in the room Nadine, kudos to you. All these negative comments about her from these tragic event, for what? why criticize someone who's trying to be strong for her family and for herself? She's coming up as too strong or too crass or too aggressive, or high up in her pedestal for some people, but I see it as her protecting her family. if your family gets accused of things and get's talked about in a negative way, tell me you wouldn't do the same.
ReplyDeleteKasi pabida siya! Tingnan mo post niya, patungkol sa kanya and sa mga tao na may depression! Tingnan mo IG niya, namatay na nga brother niya e nakuha pang mag post ng Nadine loves Metro! Asan ang pagluluksa dun? Aber?
DeleteTumpak. Naloka din ako na may Metro post ng legs nya
DeleteNo, it’s not about just her. You just hate her @2:00 pm that’s why you didn’t see the positive side of the post. Cruel talaga ang karamihan sa tao.
DeleteYes, 0200, masyadong off lang talaga. I see more of "me" and suddenly a spokesperson of depression before even the time to grieve for her brother.
Delete2:00: maybe bec she needs to do her part and be responsible for her work pa din khit nagluluksa. ikaw nga namatayan na ung tao nakuha mo pa din mambash
DeleteNice words Nadine, but sana you were also there for him when he needed somebody.. u spent most time with your friends than your family..that's why you didnt know anything about your brother. #fact
ReplyDeleteWow. How did you know. What's the basis of these statement? Sige paki explain.
DeleteI guess it was a wake up call for here too. Like my friend tells me. Your family will always be there for you, for all seasons but friends? They are seasonal they come and go... habang andiyan pa parents and siblings make the most of it to spend time with them don't wait for the time na pag Wala na you will have regrets.
DeleteFact talaga! Di nga niya alam na sumusulat pala brother niya sa Medium website
Delete1:01 how can u prove that she is not spending enough time with her family? Are u with her 24/7? If not please stop being so judgemental.please don’t base everything on socmed. U only see 10% of those of what is really happening in her life.
Delete2:12 same thing with you baks. how can you say with full conviction that she's strong, smart, mabait at loyal sa pamilya at friends, with just a minute or 2 of vids beinng posted on socmed? di porke't avid fan ka ay tama lahat ng expectations mo kay nadine.
DeleteI know, she seems to not know her brother well.
Delete2:00, maybe her brother never told her. do you know EVERYTHING about your family members?
DeleteWow! Close pla kau ni nadine. How would you know about her relationship with her family?!? Judge ka ng judge di ka nman close sa brother nya
DeleteAko nga di ma-share na tao e kahit sa family ko ang alam lang nila yung nakikita nila baka nga magulat din sila pag bigla din akong nagpakamatay. Point ko is iba-iba tayo ng personality ke kapamilya mo pa yan.
DeleteLove you, Nadine.
ReplyDeleteSayang sana nasabi niya yan sa kapatid niya.
ReplyDeletedi nay kasama sa bahay. :(
DeleteHaaay.
ReplyDeleteMy prayers for all who go through depression. Love tayo ni Lord. Remember when in doubt Jeremiah 29:11
ReplyDeleteI pray for young people of today to turn to God more and think about life after this world. A lot of people are empty because they only look for the things this world can offer which are only temporary.
DeleteAgree with you, 1:23AM. Malaking tulong if alam mong may God kang masasandalan. Remember, God is bigger than your problems!
DeleteLife is harsh on her but still... nkikita nya pa dn ang kagandahan ng buhay at mabuhay. I admire you for that...
ReplyDeleteMasarap mabuhay baks. Lagi natin tandaan Hiram Lang buhay natin lahat ng challenges dapat labanan natin Kahit Mahirap Kahit masakit pag nag survive tayo laki ng papasalamat natin dahil yun tulong ni Lord na bigyan tayo ng strength at gabay. After all the challenges may kapalit ng maganda bunga yan. Never give up tuloy parin ang buhay!
Deletewhy harsh? she was blessed with good career before d ba.... kung nababash ma mostly reaction sa mag actions nya.... i don't agree that life is harsh on her.... maswerte pa rin sha..
DeleteYun nga ang harsh part 1:46! BEFORE! Tapos nangyari pa to..
DeleteGood career does not always equate to happy life... babaw m kc mag isip te! Un daw un cnsabi nya...😅
DeleteIt's Fear and not depression kills people...
ReplyDeleteIt reads like a posthumous letter to her brother, but it's for everyone too. Just my POV, the sad thing about depression is when we're caught in it, it's very hard to think about how things will get better tomorrow, when just getting to the next minute is already a struggle. It's like being trapped in a burning building, you can choose the agony of burning slowly or just jump out the window. The people who love you are the people standing below telling you to stop, but they don't see why you need to jump, because living a tortured life is worse than a quick death. I can understand why some people just to choose to end it. It may not be the right way to your loved ones, but it's the right way for you. In your mind, you can finally be free.
ReplyDeleteNgopen up, may hanash ka. Hindi mgsalita daming dada. Saan ba lalagay sa inyo?
ReplyDeleteKaya nga! Some people on socmed are so spiteful! Once they hate someone, for them that person can never do anything right!
DeleteMismo! Wala ng nagawang mabuti lahat na lng may puna!
Deletetrue! tapos, nag open up siya about depression (w/c I think, is hard for her), may kuda pa rin kasi wala daw tribute sa brother.
DeleteNobody said that life is easy.... you only have two options.... give up or move on
ReplyDeleteI’m just confused by her actions...the day before, she said “ you will never see me down.” Ngayon naman “it’s ok to be sad, it’s ok to cry.” Nakakalito lang sya talaga...ang tindi ng mood swings!
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Deletemalamang she's grieving!! so mas na-magnify ang "mood swings" na sinasabi mo, chura neto kala mo close kayo kung maka mood swings ka.
Deletemalamang she's grieving!! so mas na-magnify ang "mood swings" na sinasabi mo, chura neto kala mo close kayo kung maka mood swings ka.
Deletebaks simple lang. cry cry si ateng mo sa private places, maybe sa cr ng bahay nia so you wont see her cry cry.
DeleteTotoo naman yon gaano ka man ka-strong need mo pa rin i-acknowledge yung mga feelings na yon para magpatuloy sa buhay. Ang importante di ka nagpatalo sa mga di magagandang bagay na nararamdaman mo. Di weakness ang umiyak :)
DeleteMe me me. Haist.
ReplyDeleteWhy is this about her? Where's the grief on her brother's death? I feel bad for her brother's death, but sorry I just don't get the "I was/am also depressive, feel bad for me too" vibe.
ReplyDeleteYes, it doesn't make sense. Parang indifferent sya sa brother nya.
DeleteI guess ayaw na kasi niyang ipagdikdikan yung nangyari sa brother niya. Ikaw ba naman maalala mo at ipaalala lagi sa sarili mong nag suicide ang mahal mo sa buhay, I guess you would want to move on from that.
DeleteLahat nalang nakitaan nyo ng mali. Pls stop with the negativity. Judgements are a confession of character.
ReplyDeleteIf you are depressed, you need to pray. I was depressed two years ago. Nothing made sense in my life. I had a spiritual warfare book with a lot of prayers and it helped me a lot fight with the demons that's messing mind and emotions.
ReplyDeletecould you pls share the title of the book? it can be a great help for my daughter diagnosed worth clinical depression, with other therapeutics she's on now. thank you.
Deletehi! please enlightened me about spiritual warfare. my brother suffered from it, but he flee. he's been missing for 2 years now.
Deletegood to hear that from you anon 1:50am
Deleteglad you have overcomed it with the help of God
sana makahanap kayo ng spiritual warfare book anon 5:36 and 6:14am
praying for your loved ones 🙏🏻
May tagasulat to or translator. I know she's not fluent in English.
ReplyDeleteE di yung mga Reid’s yung tagasulat
Delete1:50 bes 8 y.o pa lng xia host na yan ng Disney Asia.. at English lng ang gamit doon.. tapos d xia fluent? How? Mkapag mema lng talaga eh.
DeleteShe maybe more fluent in writing rather than speaking. Hindi yan katulad ng iba na pabebe mag english
Delete@1:50 I agree. May translator siya kc di nmn sya fluent sa English
DeleteJames probably helped her to express her thoughts in English, although she could've done it in Tagalog naman, this is why most think she's "pa cool".
DeleteHay mga haters talaga oh oh!
DeleteOut of everything uplifting that was said, ito talaga ang napansin nyo? Grow up!!
Deletemay mga tao na magaling in writing pero hindi ganun kabihasa sa speaking
Delete@3:45AM yes, she could've used tagalog, but writing it in english has a wider reach
DeleteSana yung word na depression talagang naiintindihan ng nakararami, hindi yung tipong na associate lang sya sa kalungkutan or when you feel the lowest of lows. Depression is a serious medical illness. And I wonder itong mga nagsasabing na depressed sila or nadedepress knows what it really meant. When you are clinically diagnosed having depression is a different story.
ReplyDeleteTrots.
DeleteDepression can be a killer disease but if you have a good support system and relationship with your family and loved ones who will be there for you, you can get through it slowly. Support system is the most important thing for depressed people.
ReplyDeleteIm sure may regrets din si Nadine sympre as an ate one of her obligations is to check if her siblings is okay. Yun nga Lang Hinde Niya nagawa yun ang masakit Kaya siguro hurt siya :( Yan ang Mahirap Kasi pag Hinde na dun nakatira Not unless may nag asawa na si Nadine.
ReplyDeleteShe just shared that she went through depression and still suffering from it... Selfish na agad sainyo?
ReplyDeleteDi nyo man lang ba naisip na that's how she can connect to those people who suffering from depression that will read her post?
How can people nitpick insignificant things sa post nyang puno ng good intentions?
She's encouraging people to keep living even when they're at their darkest time. She's encouraging people not to end their life like her brother did.
Hindi nyo makita connection ang post nya sa brother nya?
Kulang lang kayo ng reading comprehension.
It's about her. That annoying fake persona.
DeleteBlinded by hate sila. Kakalungkot.
Deleteits not blinded by hate
Deletebat kasi di matanggap ng mga lomis na may attitude problem si nadine
Hinde Niya Alam magaling sumulat kapatid Niya? Halos sabay sabay naman sila lumaki diba? Ako while growIng up nakikita ko Kuya ko matalino na at magaling sumulat si Nadine Hinde alam? Or Hinde Lang napapansin ?
ReplyDeleteMaybe a victim of second child syndrome that wasn't given much attention to.
DeleteKasi nga wala siyang time sa kapatid kaya wala siyang idea sa ganap ng kapatid niya.
DeleteBaka ayaw ishare nung kapatid niya kasi personal thoughts yung mga yon. Accept na may mga taong ganyan masyadong malihim.
DeleteThat's good giving awareness but this just screams fake to me.
ReplyDeletesame thought...
Deletesame thought...
kaya nga. feed goals pa rin si ate nadz
DeleteWrong advice kamo. Puro na lang trust yourself. Why can't you trust God?
DeleteYes! Dahil nagsusulat siya tapos kahit hirap na hirap mag English e pinipiliit niya.
DeleteAnd thus screams HATE. You will never see good because you will always choose to see bad.
DeleteFeed goals pa more!
ReplyDeleteShowbiz is the wrong occupation for Nadine if she has mental health issues.
ReplyDeleteWe have to be aware that there are other mental illnesses other than depression (major depressive disorder). Meron din narcissistic personality disorder.
ReplyDeleteNakakalungkot how some people are full of hatred 😪
ReplyDeleteNadine leads a life of contradictions. Hope she is well as she says she is.
ReplyDeleteSorry but I think she too needs help. "Love will guide you" I think God will guide you Nads. Hindi man lang niya nabanggit ang pagtrust sa Panginoon kundi sa sarili. Wrong advice po, sorry to say.
ReplyDeletesino ba naman ang di madedepress sa mga sinasabi nyo namatayan n nga yung tao panay bash nyo pa din sa kanya. lahat n lang mali sa inyo. kung ayaw nyo sa kanya utang na loob lubayan nyo may pinagdadaanan sila.
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