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Thursday, August 20, 2015

Misunderstanding Over a Parent's Relationship

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A common practice in the entertainment industry is the plunging of second or third generation children into acting or singing. While this phenomenon can be merely dismissed as “following in the footsteps” of parents, the younger generation has to deal with making a name for himself/herself without having to drag the name of famous parents. However, not all children have the looks or the talents that made their parents big. Sometimes, they enter showbiz because they are scions of famous celebrities. In other words, they try to establish careers because that is expected from them. Consequently, some do not last long, as they do not have the interest to pursue acting or that they could no longer stand being compared to their parents.

Having been born to talented parents, Captivating Star (CS) was destined for a career in the entertainment industry as the second generation of a showbiz clan. When CS finally made it big, his family benefitted from his earnings. Unlike other actors who forget about their family once they become successful, CS always stressed that he is doing everything to make sure he gives a better life for his family. Particularly, CS has always been close to His Mother (HM), who struggled to give him and his siblings a comfortable life prior to him getting his fame and fortune.

While all seems to be well, the grapevine says otherwise. Allegedly, CS found out the HM is supporting a boyfriend. This discovery did not sit well with CS and he confronted HM about this issue. In fairness to HM, she said that she was not using his money, as she has her own money that came from her shows and own endeavor. HM insisted that she is working hard to make sure that she does not touch the hard-earned money of CS. Despite the reasoning, CS was still unconvinced and he did not like the idea of HM supporting another man regardless of the fact that she was using her own resources. Moreover, his image might be affected simply because of HM’s alleged behavior. Although they have had typical family disagreements, this issue has caused tension and CS is still much bothered by the demeanor of HM.

“The problem is that without an understanding for their meaning and purpose, most relationships quickly become little more than vehicles for the pursuit of selfish and individual goals. Disagreements then become a battle between conflicting interests, rather than a search for a mutually satisfying resolution.” ― Matthew Kelly

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74 comments:

  1. D and si T na mother nya. Hula lang

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    1. Thats also my first guess but I dont think they are a 'showbiz clan' now.

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    2. Sinong T? K ang mother!

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    3. Dapat kay D, wag i-intrega lahat ang income nya kay madirdir. Kailangan, may sarili syang bank acct na sya ang may full access & control.

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    4. Uso naman kasi na ang mga INAkis, ginagatasan mga anak na malakii income sa showbiz, PWE!

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  2. CS- D HM-K

    Mukha nga palamunin yong bf ni HM

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  3. CS - D
    HM - C
    easy peasy!

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  4. Easy!

    CS - D
    HM - K

    Although hindi ko kinaya ito huhh na may bf si mother

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  5. DnC. Sana may sariling ipon c D para d sayang pinagpaguran nia.

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  6. Well lam na this CS is D and HM is K sure na!

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  7. Well lam na this CS is D and HM is K sure na!

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  8. Cs-D
    Hm- K
    Valedictorian!

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  9. another giveaway BI, easy pissy!

    CS - D
    HM - K

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  10. CS - D
    HM - K, gora lang you deserve happiness!

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  11. D and his mom K? Tama ba?

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  12. D and K? D and T? Maybe momma feels that she can give herself the chance now to find a good partner, since they are now stable enough with the help of the son's endeavors.

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    1. kung good partner yun sana magtrabaho rin sya at hindi umasa kay K.

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  13. D and K ito! uh oh motherrr wag ganyan!

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  14. CS- D HM- K. Oo nga naman, kahit pa nag wo work si mader, it's never good na maging young sugar mommy. Let the bf work!

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  15. Oh my gosh it's D and K.

    Not a huge fan of D but super impressed ako na tumutulong siya sa pamilya nya at di nya kinakahiya or tinago.

    There's nothing wrong with having a bf pero bakit kailangan mo sustentuhan? It's the other way around, ikaw babae ikaw dapat ginagastusan (not sustento but dates, gifts, etc).

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    1. That's so sexist

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    2. 2.05 on the contrary, it more sexist and lazy to depend on your gf when you know she has children to support.

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    3. So what if it is sexist? - not Anon

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    4. Sugar mommy! Sexist?!! Iba nman yung nagtutulungan kyo meanng parehong gumagastos or u share in expenses pero kung c mommy lang sugar mommy un! At di yun sexist

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    5. 1:17, saang period movie ka galing te? ang luma ng pag-iisip mo. pati yung idea na "ikinahiya o tinago" ang pamilya niya san galing yun? bat may naipasok kang ganung posibilidad, na tila ineexpect mo sa bata?

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    6. 2 05 true naman ang sinabi 1 17, dapat hindi masayado gatushan ng babae ang bf. Kung mas successful ang babae dapat walang freebies si lalaki lalo na at K's age may doubt talaga.

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    7. ^Agree. What's wrong with women with stable careers supporting their SOs? Gosh, it's 2015 na mga beks. Let's all move on from the patriarchal mindset.

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    8. Yes, you are partially correct 1:17 Pero 'di lang naman puro lalaki yung gagastos. Sakin mas ok 'yung pareho kayo.

      Maraming negative ang reaction dito dahil sa umaasa lang si guy kay girl. Mali talaga 'yun. Prone to abuse yun.

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  16. not sure pero ang naisip ko din is D and K ....
    me boyfriend naman ata talaga si K pero hindi ko alam kung ano ganap sa buhay nung boyfriend...saka tama naman si anak kahit pa pera mo bat ikaw bubuhay...

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  17. akala ko ba yung b ang bf ni mader? may pera yun. anyway, mas concern ang dapat na ipakita sa anak kase di maganda na parang playgirl ang nanay niya ay napakawholesome ng image niya

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  18. Lahat may karapatan magmahal, lahat!

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  19. Bet ko maglaro today ng DK or Donkey Kong country. Hakhakhakhakhakhak!

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  20. Omg!!! Is this D & K? Hopefully this isn't true if so maybe it's about time na si D na ang magmanage ng hard earned money tutal naman nasa tamang edad na xa. Kahit sariling pera pa ni K ang ginagastos nya it's not right na gastusan nya ung guy. Occassionally y not pero kung bisyo na ay di na maganda yan. Sana wag pakialaman ni K ang pera ni D. Pagod na nga sa kakayod ung bata mawawaldas lang ng dahil sa lalake and K should know better. Tsk! Tsk! Tsk!

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    1. May jeje fans pa si D kaya maawa naman si mother, hindi makagalaw ang anak niya para sa career. K ok naman mag bf pero isipin mo kung anong ginagawa mo wag waldas ang pera.

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  21. Ay naku naku!!! Hindi tama toh kung totoo man. Ms. K maghulos dili ka galing na kayo sa hirap so dapat maging wise ka na ngayon. Saka pera yan ng anak mo, tandaan mo hindi obligasyon ng anak ang sustentuhan ang magulang nila it should be the other way around. Kaya magpasalamat ka at me wastong bait ang anak mo at xa na ang sumusuporta sa buong angkan nyo sa murang edad. Wag abuso! Kahit pa sabihin mong iginapang mo ang pagpapalaki sa kanila natural lang un dahil nanay ka.

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    1. ang pinanggagastos nga daw sarili nyang pera, mdmi din nmn syang guestings

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    2. Lol. Ganon kadame anon 6:32? Ung paminsan minsan nyang pagsulpot sa isang talk show? Ung seasonal na show nila? And for sure di din naman ganon kalakihan ang tf nya. Okay lang nmang magbigay during xmas or bdays pero kung palage eh bisyo na yan. Saka kahit pera nya ginagastos hindi xa dapat nagpapaluho ng ganon sa lalake. It should be the other way around.

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  22. Si D ba ito? Kung siya nga, hindi K si HM, diba C? Mga valedictorian jan, gising! Haha

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  23. Kaya naman pala si Mader todo tanggol sa Jejefans ng anak kasi takot maubusan ng pansustento -_- NKKLK

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  24. D and K. Bat di nalang mag alaga si K ng mga junakis at tigilan na ang jowa.

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    1. Super agree. I dont know why there is a need to fall for younger guys . These women, mostly are trying to prove something . Me insecurities ba at having guys in their lives despite having kids will boost their confidence kaya?

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    2. Or kaya mag alaga na lang ng negosyo to keep it growing. Nagiinvest sana sya sa mga kumikitang pangkabuhayan hindi don sa mauubusan sila ng kabuhayan.

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  25. CS - D HM - K, bait naman ni CS, talagang maalaga sa family. Kung same age naman si mother niya and ung bf eh carry lang pero kapag bagets pa ay better think twice si mother, be careful.

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  26. Ganun naman kasi talaga ang relation - give and take - baka mas highlight lang si mother na nag bibigay kasi siya ang visible sa showbiz. Sa hirap na pinag daanan ng mag ina - imposible namang magpapa ka ta**a pa sila. Pero in-fairness naman kay ANAK , napaka family oriented niya. At di pa sya lumalabas ng bahay for gimik.

    Cute Pinoy Portal

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  27. Naku, hala, eh kung mabuntis si madir di dagdag na naman sa gastusin ni CS. Anovah, Makuntento ka na lang madir sa mga anak mo na nagmamahal sa iyo. Aba eh kung ikaw pa ang ang nag aabot dyan sa boylet mo kahit pa galing yan sa sarili mong kayod, di rin tama yun.

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  28. Wag naman sana maging matigas ang ulo ni K sana naman maging nanay muna sya sa mga anak nya bago yung bf nya.kawawa na nga anak nya kakakayod puro sila na iniisip.kahit pa sabihin nya pinagtrabahuhan nya pa binibigay nya.sana ipunin nalang nya yung pera na galing sa pinagpaguran nya para incase na magsarili na si D e meron syang mahuhugot.hindi lahat ng panahon eh sikat si D. Maawa naman sya sa anak nya.

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  29. bigla ako naawa sobra kay D . Naku get accountant kaya...safeguard your earnings ...mukhang D has bright future and will last long in showbiz ...but we never know how life will turn up...haay...grabe si K kung totoo ito....

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  30. Pero ang alam ko F ang bf ni HM...

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  31. ang alam ko din my BF si HM pero di ko alam yung tungkol sa pag "support" sa BF. Okay lang yun HM kung lahat na ng anak mo ay nasusuportahan na sarili nila. Kahit ba sabihin natin kay CS na galing mga panggastos nyo, priority mo pa din ang anak mo na sa kanila pa din dapat napupunta pinag hihirapan mo. Or kung may excess ka sa charity na lang. That is kung si HM nga ay si K.

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  32. wag tayong magmalinis mga beks, hayaan natin si mother.. basta di pera ni CS kebs un!

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  33. mukhang pera lang naman gusto ng BF ni K.. susme, Mommy ha at oldies na para patulan pa ng bagets na BF,obviously, money lang niya at money ni D habol niyan..PAK!!!!

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  34. Sino pa ba eh di ang famous son & mother.. !!! LOL

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