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Friday, May 15, 2015

Insta Scoop: Lyxen Paras Thanks Kobe and Andre Paras for Their Love and Commitment to Family


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211 comments:

  1. Wicked stepmom ever!

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    1. paanong naging wicked eh love nga sya ng mga stepsons nya?!

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    2. Eh ano naman itsura ng mga anak niya kay Benjie. Mestizo din ba?

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    3. 12.12 wake up, life is not a fairytale.

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    4. tulog ka na jackie!

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    5. Ano naman kinalaman kung mestizo o hindi anak nya kay benjie?

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    6. 1:54 Ibabash ba si Jackie kung di sya nauuna mag kalat? Pwede gamitin mo utak mo bago ka umepal dito?

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    7. Hala napaka SUCCESSFUL naman ng "WICKED STEPMOM" LOL na lang

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    8. Define wicked.. Lyxen has done nothing but love these boys... hindi sila nagkaanak agad ni benjie para matutukan nya ang pagpapalaki sa boys and make them feel what a real home is all about...

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    9. Eh kung ito nanay nila baka kahit ekstra sa tv di sila makasali. Harsh pero truth. Harsh din naman sila eh.

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    10. I don't find anything obnoxious about the message. People are reading too much into it. Lyxen just thanked and praised the boys.

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  2. I hope that this will be her last post on this matter and maintain a dignified silence.

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    1. bash kayo ng bash tas pag siya gusto nyo dignified silence.

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    2. Hindi naman para kay Jackie ang post ni Lyxen, para kay Andre at Kobe. Bakit dapat silent si Lyxen, si Jackie lang ba ang may karapatang mag post sa social media?

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    3. 1:54 am and 2:36 am Have you ever heard of the saying, silence kills or there is dignity in silence or the person who makes a lot of noise is the person who has a lot to hide. :) :) :)

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    4. 1:54 am and 2:36 am, it means that Lyxen and her family do not need to stoop down to her level.

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    5. auntie Lyxen...hello to you! napapdalas ka na dito.

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    6. 2:36 am read Lyxen 's post again , then comprehend. :)

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    7. 4:15 am oh Jackie how are you sweetie? Zzzzzzzzzziiiiiiiippppp:):):);):)

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    8. Silence is golden.:):):)

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  3. Nagpasalamat lang. Wag bigyan ng ibang ibig sabihin.

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    1. weh obvious naman may patutsada sya!

      ANG PLASTIC MO ARIKO JUTAI

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    2. Korak i dont see any malice in her post.

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  4. In my opinion, the stepmom did a great job on the Andre and Kobe. She deserves a lot of credit.

    Unconditionally loving someone who's not of your flesh and blood is admirable.

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    1. Tumpak! Siya ang nagpaka-NANAY

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    2. I don't know...if she did such a great job, the boys would have been forgiving and gracious to their biological mom.

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    3. wag nyo nmn isisi sa stepmom ang relationship ng magnanay. may isip na mga bata nung iwan ni jackie. they found a mom in lyxen. i am following jackie's ig and to be honest kawawa xa. airing her grievances in social media.

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    4. If she really did then the boys should have good relationship with their mother. She is a psychologist so she is the one who can help the boys overcome the boys hate to their mother.

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  5. i hope that someday that love is extended to the other side too. that will make it more worthwhile because no matter how abundant a tree is, no matter how many beautiful fruits it produces, a missing branch will complete its whole existence.

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    1. Can you give a concrete example on how? Alam na alam naman siguro natin kung ano si jackie based sa ig niya. Si jackie mismo ang ayaw eh kasi she pushes them away.

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    2. very well said :-) couldn't agree more 12:24

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    3. One is enough, two is too much. Having 2 moms should never be too much. In time, things will be better and if that time comes, i know that the 2 boys will be very happy to have 2 moms showering them with love and care.

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    4. Best comment. Ever. Salute.

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    5. The most sensible post. Thumbs up!

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    6. Very well said... winner

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    7. since you've used the tree metaphor...

      a tree lives even with a missing branch, and in the process grows more, stronger branches.

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  6. the more you diss us all, the more obvious that you are affected by our opinions on you and the rest of your family...psychology fails. wehehehe

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    1. Not really true

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    2. Not a fan/relative/friend etc of the Paras and Forster family, but you are one judgmental prick. Maraming commenters na nagsabi na hindi natin alam kung ano talaga ang real story behind it.

      It takes YEARS for many estranged family members to get back together. Tapos marami pang bashers at other know-it-alls na bumibigay ng unsolicited advice (on both sides, ha). This will make it even harder for them to get the peace and harmony that they deserve.

      Instead of feeling triumphant at other people's woes, try to fix your own relationship with your friend or family member. Or better yet, do your bashing/unsolicited advice on someone you know... baka effective para sa kanila.

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  7. I have no doubt mabait ang STEP MOM.

    But Iam not convinced na tama ang palakihin ang kids with hatred towards their mother. Bad for the kid's sanity yun.

    Bottom Line: Nyeta kayo! mag bati bati na kayo noh!
    Para lahat maka move on na!
    Stressful para samen mga Chismosa itey!

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    1. Wag pilitin ang hindi ready. Opposite ang effect nyan.

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    2. pano mo naman nasabi na pinalaki nilang may hate sa mother? sa pinapakita ni jackie hindi pa ba obvious kung anung ugali meron siya?

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    3. hahaha trulaley 12:41 hirap idigest ang too much negative chismis

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    4. hindi ba obvious? 2:38

      haist! kain ka ng protein for the brain.

      mabuti oa si 1:21 may sense ang sagot

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    5. may ugali silang lahat! tapos!

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    6. matalino si 1:21 ha! may point sya, eto naman si 2:38 nag shushunga shunaghan!

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    7. How do you know that they were raised to hate their mother? You said so yourself na you think na mabait ang step mom. Pwede naman siguro na neutral ang stepmom at hindi nya pinipilit yung boys na mag reconcile kung hindi pa sila ready.

      Spectators lang tayo, hindi natin alam ang buong storya. Mahirap magbigay ng advice kung hindi natin alam kung ano talaga ang nangyari. At hindi nakakatulong ang bashing (on both Jacky and Benjie's sides).

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    8. kung pinalaking may hate sa nanay yong mga bata i doubt magtatagumpay siya.

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  8. Kelangan meron pang pa side sweep na "our favorite people will start surfacing again". Wouldn't it be enough na magpasalamat sya? It kind of feel na instead na pag ayusin nya sila I can sense na isa sya sa dahilan kung bakit puno ng poot ang mga paras boys para kamuhian ang nanay nila. At some point hindi kataka takang ganyan sila umatitude sa nanay nila dahil ganyan sila pinalaki. Kahit man lang sya na sana mag initiate na mag thank you ang mga boys sa "mukhang minana nila sa nanay nila" If only even the little things that they cannot deny they got/took from their mom eh magpasalamat sila pero kung ganyan nga talaga tong madrasta nila magsalita publicly just imagine what she could have said over the years to the boys.. (only if kung totoong si lyxen nga yan)

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    1. Come to think of it, si Lyxen dumating sa buhay nila ang gulo na nina Jackie and Benjie. Could you also imagine what Jackie would have said about her through the years? Baka naman kaya ganyan din na may galit din siya kay Jackie is because marami din nasabing masama about her?

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    2. For sure madami na ring naikuda si Jackie and Lyxen and vice versa, but the fact remains.. na she accepted Benjie na may kasamang mga kids at sandamakmak na drama. Pero di ba kultura natin na bilang ikaw na madrasta o madrasto dapat ariin mo na rin na mga anak ang anak ng asawa mo at hindi tamang pati mga bata eh nakikisawsaw sa gulo nilang tatlo (J,B,L) at lalong alam natin lahat na hindi tama na ipamukha sa mga bata na walang kwenta ang nanay at tatay nila dahil and impact sa mga bata yan.. exactly what the paras boys are showing towards their mom. Hindi lang sila galit sa nanay nila kundi pwedeng through the years ni nurture yan ng mga taong nakapaligid sa kanila. For sure daming kuda ni jackie ke lyxen hehehe, but being the better person as what she was painted to be (lyxen) dapat manahimik na lang si ate! peace!

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    3. 1:14 Hindi imposible yan. Eh ang tagal tagal na pero di pa rin maka move on ang Jackie. Palagi pa pinaparinggan si Lyxen at Benjie natural tao lang naman sila at normal lang mag react. I agree with you sa ugali ni Jackie im puro tira ginawa nyan kay Lyxen.

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    4. @2:39am, di maka.move on si jackie as far as the two boys are concerned. Eh mukang inari na ni step mom. So talagang warla yan

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  9. At least she is a good step mom!!! Sa mukha pa lang niya she looks decente.

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    1. looks can be deceiving

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    2. well, not in ths case. sure na!

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  10. yun step mom gusto ko pang ipa-mukha…

    mali naman ata.

    sige edi-wow!

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    1. she may have been a good stepmother, i'll give her that. But she is fueling the fire. Imbes na sabihan yung mga bata na intindihin ang nanay nila, kinunsinte pa yung bad behavior ng mga bata, kairita!

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    2. Nauuna si Jackie ng parinig sa mga post nya noon pa kaya wala kayong dalawa karapatan sabihan yung tao she's adding fuel to the fire. Si Jackie ang gasolina at apoy. Sya ang makulit at nakakapikon sa totoo lang.

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    3. She may not be adding fuel to the fire but she definely showed her true color. Masama ang ugali.

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    4. i agree 1:21

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    5. Yah there's something about her post that turns me off. Bakit kelangan i-mention ang "favorite" person. If she appreciates the boy's greetings, thank you na lang sana wala nang parinig pa. There's something about this stepmom but kudos for loving Jackie's sons

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    6. Wow Anon 2:57... perfect ka na. Tao lamang tayo at may point sa life natin na mauubusan ng pasensya. Take note these people are high profile people. They've endured so much bashing and can sometimes be too much to handle, even for someone na may background sa psychology.

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    7. apparently, andami nang pinalampas ni ate. at dahil sa "favorite" ay nasabihan na siyang masama ang ugali. hay naku..

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  11. ay so wicked ng step mom….

    kung ako sa kanya , tatahimik nalang ako.

    it would speak volumes.

    dahil nagsalita na ang kids,

    enough na…

    pang asar ka din eh

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    1. Wicked stepmom ba ang ganyan? Mahal na mahal ng mga stepsons nya. Yung totoong ina ang wicked tingnan mo wala ni isang anak nya may gusto sa kanya. May utak na sila kobe nung nagkahiwalay sila nila jackie. Kung mabuting ina yan kahit paano di nila matitiis nanay nila kung may naalala pa silang kabutihan na nagawa ni jackie sa kanila

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    2. Not true. Madali ma brainwash ang mga bata.

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    3. Omg 2:56! Kids are smarter and more perceptive than you think!

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    4. MARAMI DIN NAMAN KASING FAULT SI JACKIE

      i-admit naman nya, pero yun brainwash na masama ang biological mother nyo forever EH MALI!

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    5. Sa asal at pinagsasabi ni Jackie ngayon eh di pa ba obvious sa inyo anong ugali meron sya?

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    6. Bata? They're over 18 FYI

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    7. korek! halatang nang asar talaga.

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    8. Anon 2:56 Don't underestimate the strengths of a child. They are sometimes better than the adults. Maraming mga matatanda na isip-bata pa rin.

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    9. nang-asar? ano ito teh, biruan lang? im sure the girl's weary of all these things from jackie.

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  12. Bat d na lang magartista to. Gusto din limelight. Its better for her to remain silent. Simpleng parinig

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  13. Kahit gaano pa sila karespectful sa lahat ng tao sa mundo kahit gaano pa nila mahalin ang stepmom nila, at ang mga ibang tao... Meaningless pa din kasi to love is to forgive. And if they can not do that to their mom, whatever the reason is, i dont think they can be able to love other people completely
    and truthfully.

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    1. Does not apply to everyone. Do not generalise.

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    2. Nagsalita ang may hinanakit sa mga taong "hindi" marunong magmahal ng totoo... LOL The irony of 1:14's post

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    3. how do you forgive someone na hindi man ng-sosorry instead lagi lng jinujustify mga mistakes nya before...kung gusto ni jackie mapalapit sa mga anak nya own up to her mistakes...apologize for whatever na nagawa nya napa traumatized sa mga anak nya...hindi yung lagi sya ng-aaway

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    4. chaka. love is to forgive, yes, but to forgive doesn't necessarily mean to love. gets mo? sana.

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  14. Then totoo nga na nilayo mo mga bata from their biological mother. With your statement: those who don't matter. This is what you and your husband have instilled in their young minds that their mother does'nt matter. Kawawang mga bata. Pinalaki yata in a narcissistic environment. Seems like the stepmom is only interested in getting praises for a job " well done" without considering the rights of these 2 children. In many custody battles, those who are experts i manipulation often win. They are so good in playing the role of the perfect parents. They are masters in crazy making. The other party looks like the one who is crazy because of frustration while the real perpetrators gain the applause of the scrurinizing public. The stepmom really knows how to play the game. Jackie should change her tactics if she wants to win back the hearts of her children or just learn to live to love them from afar. Dealing with narcissistic people is very hard. And the sad thing is that the venum is already injected into the minds and hearts of these two beautiful creatures. The statement: I've got your back, speaks volume. This is what is tragic when you get entangled with this kind of people. Jackie was one unlucky child. She might have gotten out of that miserable marriage but she will continue to suffer if she won't let go. The father and the stepmom are laughing at Jackie everytime she speaks out her frustrations, while the stepmom swipes out at Jackie "elegantly". Only a few who can really see the real picture.

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    1. Teh Jackie!!! Napadalaw ka ata!

      Point taken. But the bottomline is this Jackie F....you can never undo what has been done.

      You had it coming, and you cant blame anyone but yourself.

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    2. AnonymousMay 15, 2015 at 2:50 AM ikaw ana ang napadalaw dito lagi wicked STEP-MOM!

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    3. Ano 2:50 Teh Lyxen.. tumigil ka na na everything revolves around you and the "favorite people" is the only one to blame.

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    4. Hahaha bakit kaya pag ang comment pro Jackie, akala nyo si Jackie talaga nagkocomment. Agree with you on that point that one can never undo what has been done but the bottomline is, Benjie and his wife isolated the children from their mother. She did make poor choices which she admitted in fact publicly but that does'nt give the other party the right to sabotage her visiting rights to her children. Although Benjie was given full custody by the court, Jackie was also given visiting rights by the same court. Why only blame Jackie with what had happened. It always takes two for a marriage to succeed or to crumble. Each has its own contribution to the success or the failure of the relationship. But even if people decide to stop being husband and wife they should never stop each other from being a parent to their children. Learn from that.

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    5. Ay ang galing! Like your comment ateng! Me point ka, 100%.

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    6. The only person I know here na may utak. That's exactly the Step Mom.

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  15. The boys will forgive Jackie when they become men. Right now, they are teenagers who do that what they want to do. They have their own world. Jackie should let them be. Pag nagkapamilya na sila at naging parents that's when they will start forgiving.

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  16. This is what I'm sayin. The boys will never ever reconcile with their real with this kind of reasoning from the stepmom . I told yah! She has an agenda. Lol!

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    1. Agenda? I think she's just stating the natural reaction of a person being hit by negative people, that is to stick to those who love you and can defend you. Logical right?

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    2. Really? Logical? I-rub pa more kay Jackie? Gawain ba ng mabuting tao yan?

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    3. 2:21am did you just missed the part where a shade was thrown by the stepmom? Clearly, she was referring to the mother being the "favorite people", right?

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    4. Have you ever thought that those "favorite people" and "those who don't matter" she was referring to may include the kids' bashers in general? Natural, dahil may issue, may bashers na magsusulputan. Nagkakaroon lang ng kulay dahil sa mga tulad nyo.

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    5. KOREK si 2:55

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    6. Grabeh si STEP-MOM lahat ng negative comments about her mai reply agad sya.hindi mo kayang maitago ang ugali mo girl.AnonymousMay 15, 2015 at 2:55 AM

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    7. yes people perceive her as the good one because the boys love her and she loves them despitr not being blood-related. but based sa post nya the boys may have thr hate towards their mom and they grew up in an environment with people who hate their mom more. so in the end they love the stepmom, the stepmom and dad hate jackie hence the boys hate jackie more, probably despise her. the stepmom is cunning and manipulative. - not jackie but an fp tambay

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    8. Anon 2:59 ... "favorite people", meaning BASHERS. hehehe

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    9. 3.47, it may include them BUT! that's nothing kasi ang kalaban naman talaga nila ay si JACKIE! So, sino ang pupuntiryahin niya, eh di si JACKIE! So, stop twisting facts pls.

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    10. Oh apologies, therefore reconstructing my sentence... "referring to the mother being one of those "favorite people"... " regardless, I still feel like a shade was thrown and a dig was made to the biological mom. The stepmom's been with the boys since they were kids, if she's really that good of a mother, then why are these boys so angry? I know the real mom is crazy but stepmom should've done what every caring and loving mom would do: shield the kids from hatered. And since the uber attention seeker mom kept ranting on social media, stepmom could've at least teach the boys to give their mother a "benefit of the doubt", tell them that everything happens for a reason, that their mom might be cray but pretty sure she has her reasons...Just saying.

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  17. I dont agree with the step mom. Instead of bridging the gap sya pa yung nagpapahiwalay. Kahit hindi nyo na po gamitin amg line na di namin alam ang totoo pero kayo rin po mismo ang naglalagay sa kaisipan nang ibang tao na kapwa kayong mag asawa at yung ex ang may kanya kanyang problema. May na gain din naman anak ni benjie dahil kay jackie. anak nyo nga ni benjie sobrang layo sa naging resulta kay jackie. mas matimbang pa din ang dugo. Di man ngayon baka bukas. Di man bukas baka sa susunod. Wala man daw forever pero meron naman til next time.

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    1. isang malaking check!

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    2. Sana makinig silang lahat kay Nathaniel! Di bagay si Benjie sa show na yon.

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    3. sooo agree!! sensible teh. at least dka one sided

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  18. Parang naniniwala na mga ako na e**l nga 'tong babae na 'to. Na she brainwashes these 2 paras boys. Bakit kailangan pang may "our favorite people..". Wow ha!

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    1. yes, and that favorite is still their biological mother!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    2. Di ko alam kung nag-iisip ka ba Anon 4:07. Yung favorites ay yung mga bashers at supporters ni Jackie na comment nang commnet kila Andre sa IG na disrepectful, ingrata, etc.

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  19. congrats benjie and lyxen for raising those boys well. tingnan nyo na lang ang achievement nila. nganga kayo. proves na the best ang binibigay nila sa anak nila.

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    1. may achievements nga hindi naman tinuruan ng mabuting asal mga anak.

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    2. Wala sa achievement yan sa mata ng Diyos, true colors ni madrasta nalabas na! Kaya si jackie sure na na di titigil

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    3. isang check ulit…pero small nalang ang check ha? nsabi na sa itaas eh

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    4. ang oa ng di tinuruan ng magandanga sal ha. ikaw nga di mo alam mga nangyayari nakakapagsabi ka ng ganyan eh. wala ka pa sa sitwasyon niyan ha!

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  20. Lahat tayo sawsawero st sawsawera lamang. Sa totoo lang, mangyayari lang naman yung forgiveness kung at peace silang lahat diba? Jackie is making her kids turn their back to Benjie and Lyxen and be with her, just like that. Wow, magic lang? Mangyayari lang yung peace and forgivenss na pinagsasabi nyong lahat if both sides will start it. Sa dami ng mga apoy na nabato (in public pa ha, mind you), sa tingin nyo ba mangyayari pa yun?

    Walang perpektong tao. Lyxen saw an opportunity to bite back those bashers who are insulting her kids, and she took it. Simpleng comment lang yan, hindi yan IG post.

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    1. Kahit pa hindi yan IG post, her comment showed what she really is. Masama ugali. Kailangan pa magpatutsada? Ano, tuwa pa sya na yung tunay na isa eh hate na hate ng mga anak.

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    2. Her kids? they're not her kids. Dyan sya nagkamali kasi inagaw nya ang papel ni Jackie sa buhay ng mga anak nya. Anumang conflict meron sina Benjie at Jackie, dapat labas siya doon. Yan ang mali ng karamihan sa mga stepmothers. Inaangkin ang mga stepchildren. A good stepmother teaches her stepchildren to respect their real parent. Hindi naman binabawi ni Jackie ang mga anak niya. Ang gusto lang naman nya na magkaroon sila uli ng relationship at sa mga anak nya ngayon.

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    3. Sure na tinuruan ang hate ang boys! 6 and 8 for sure madali ka mapaniwala sa story na iseserve sayo. Kawawang jackie pinagkaisahan. Ayaw nila ipag ayos ang mga bata sa tunay na na ito.. Dito ako pinakasure

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    4. Dear 2:53 how about Jackie? Maganda ang ugali? her posts show how she hates the stepmother and washes off her hands to all the cyber bullying her 2 boys are currently receiving. All because of her posts! Full of Jesus' name and God bless pa. Please don't be a hypocrite like her.

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    5. Si ĺyxen palaging nandito sa fp

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    6. Anon 2:53 Affected ka masyado. lol Masama ugali talaga? Ano sila robot? hangang kailan ba nila kayang i endure ang non-stop bashing? Baka ikaw yung isa sa mga sawsawero na tinutukoy ni Anon 2:10. hahahahaha

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    7. To Anon 3:59 - being a mother is more than giving birth. The stepmom has been more than a mom to the kids kesa kay Jackie. To be honest, nobody elses's opinion matters here aside from the opinion of the kids. And sa pinapakita nila, si Lyxen mother nila for them. Wala pa si Lyxen nung nagkagulo sila Benjie at Jackie, so when she came into the picture walang tumatayong mother sa kids so wala siyang inagaw na papel dahil bakante yung role nung dumating siya. Tho di ko sure kasi malay ko ba sa mga issues dati. Sabi lang ng Papa ko magulo lang talaga si Jackie noon pa haha.

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    8. 7.47 yeah galit siya kay Lyxen pero hindi siya ganyan sumagot. Si Lyxen, trash! Nanggagatong pa! Bait-baitan ang peg

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  21. c Stepmon cya lht ang lumalabasna masama nkaya nagkakaroon lalo gap sa kanila...ngaun nauuto mo pa mga yan pero pg nagkaisip na tlaga yn isa ksa kamumuhian ng mga yn!..maniwala ka!..mali ang turo mo imbes na pagbatiin mo cla ikaw pa nanunuya at gumagatong smga anak!..

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  22. if she really taught the paras boys so well. sana pati yung pagmamahal sa tunay nilang ina naituro niya din kesahodang siya or sinuman nagpalaki sa paras boys. magrereflect din naman sa ugali ng boys yung mga tinuturo niya eh. sana lang hindi lang love para sa sarili niya ang naituro niya kila a&k sana love din for jackie na totoong nanay nila. sasaludo ako sa kanya if ganun ginawa niya talag.

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    1. Tama ka yan ang tunay na madrastang mabait

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  23. May parinig factor pa tong madrasta na to! Mukhang imbis na pag ayusin nanggagatong pa!

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  24. O di ba? Napatunayan na hindi mabait ang step mom. Yung posts niya naghuhumiyaw na "in your face Jackie and bashers! take that!" Kahit anong pagtago ng tunay na ugali, mahuhuli at mahuhuli mo rin. Buti pa si Jackie all out kung out kung sino sya. When is it ever a sin for a mom to keep on trying to reconcile with her children especially if she has done everything in her own way and resources? She's been trying for years...this did not happen yesterday or last month or last year. Don't you think she has already done what the social media advisers are telling her to do? Siguro dapat hayaan na lang sya...it's her life anyway. Ang tingin ko sa kanya desperado na at ito na yung alam nyang pwede nyang gawin.

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    1. Agree. Huli ang totoong ugali.

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    2. Tamahh!! Kahit na anong papuri ang sinasabi ng dalawang bata sa madrasta nila meron pa ring "something odd" na galit na galit naman sila sa nanay nila. Had she been really this perfect step mom like what A&K is saying its rather questionable how could they have love someone so dearly and not have a drop of love or respect for their mom. If a child is well taught kahit pakitang tao pa yan they will act on a socially well accepted manner na hindi ganyan katigas sa nanay nila at puring puri naman nila ang step mom nila. Mabuti na mahal nila ang step mom nila pero hindi kailangan i compare pa sa nanay. At ang step mom naman hindi na lang isang simpleng thank you mga anak.. may mga gatong pang nagaganap! kalurkey

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    3. Inaasahan ba nating lahat dito na yung stepmom ay laging tahimik kahit tinitira sila? Pag tahimik, sasabihin guilty. Pag nagpost, nagpaparinig at masama ugali. Malamang kung kayo yung nahaharass, mas grabe pa dyan ang gagawin nyo. Maging totoo tayo.

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    4. Super agree! Di ko na kailangan isulat ang comment ko.

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    5. Kung mabuti kang ina, sana pilitin mong makipabati na ang anak sa nanay nila. Lumaki silang may hatred sa puso.

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    6. Hindi ba pwedeng it's not in her nature na mag kuda ng kuda sa social media? Just because nag post lang sya ng comment alam mo na agad ang ugali. Her statement can be misinterpreted by malicious people (like you). Do not worsen the situation. You are not helping these people (Benjie, wife, sons and Jackie) to reconcile by judging them.

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    7. 11.21 at 3:50, hindi sinasabi na bawal siyang sumagot. Ang sinasabi nila ay yong WAY niya ng pagsagot. The way she talks says it all.

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  25. Kung hindi naging gwapo stepsons mo na nakuha sa genes ni jackie, you may not have shown them good deeds. Alam mo na then na one day they would be your milking cows kasi your sons are just so so in looks lyxen. Pasalamat ka din , its not only their talents , their looks mainly brought them to where they are now. Ikaw you were a nobody. Wag nang manggatong

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  26. Lyxen atupagin develop the athletic skills ng mga anak nyo ni benjie. Dun pwede sila pero never sa showbiz dahil wala nman . Pwede pero sa comedy like their dad. Kulang sa fezlak

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  27. Bat itong lyxen d makaget over ke jackie at d na lang manahimik. Simpleng maldita. Baka namang nababanggit pa ni benj pangalan ni jackie sa panaginip kaya insecure ang lola mo. Paarng hindi educated

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  28. Jackie is real and outspoken while the stepmom is wearing a mask and speaks in codes. Take your pick.

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    1. Ha ha ha! I thought so. Couldn't agree more. Thumbs uP!

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    2. Sana may thumbs up dito.

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  29. F na F ni atey! Because of this post na may litanyang greetings in public and fave people lalo akong naconvince na ayaw nyo makipag ayos lalo na sina kobe at andre sa totoong nanay nila. For sure etong babaeng to ang nagdagdag bawas ng kwento para sumama ang tingin lalo ng mga bata sa tunay na ina. Kung good step mom ka manahimik ka at ikaw ang naging bridge sana. Sana talaga lumabas ang totoo para magkaalaman na

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    1. 3.23 ito ang hindi maisip ng mga fantard nila. Ang rason kasi nila "si jackie ang may kasalanan ng lahat kaya sila nagagalit ngayon." Yun, yun lang ang alam nila. Bawal ang magpatawad sa kanila. At kapag lumalaban na si Jackie dahil sa frustration niya, kasalanan pa din niya dahil nababash daw yong dalawa! Wow! So ibig bang sabihin si Jackie lagi ang magpasensiya, sumunod na parang aso sa gustong mangyari ng kabila kahit siniraan na nila ito noon pa? Wow... unfair na yata 'yon.

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  30. Jackie is real and outspoken while the stepmom is wearing a mask and speaks in codes. Take your pick.

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  31. Though Jackie did some very poor choices in the past, which she admitted to her sons publicly, I believe God has already forgiven her. She is blessed with a handsome and loving man who also accepted her third child as his own. The purpose of her daughters' illness is to show how loving Jackie is as a mother. It's a pity that her two older children was deprived of their rights to have some moments with her and to experience her motherly love. From old pictures, you can really see the love in her eyes when she was with her children. It is really sad that the children got isolated from her.

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  32. Though Jackie did some very poor choices in the past, which she admitted to her sons publicly, I believe God has already forgiven her. She is blessed with a handsome and loving man who also accepted her third child as his own. The purpose of her daughters' illness is to show how loving Jackie is as a mother. It's a pity that her two older children was deprived of their rights to have some moments with her and to experience her motherly love. From old pictures, you can really see the love in her eyes when she was with her children. It is really sad that the children got isolated from her.

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  33. Gatong pa more. The boys are like that bec they have Stockholm syndrome. At such young age was brain washed by dad and step mom.

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  34. Anong walang ni isang anak nya may gusto sa kanya? Kung wicked ang totoong ina, bakit mahal siya ng mga anak ngayon. If Jackie is not a good mom, how come her daughter looks so happy and so well adjusted despite her cancer. Jackie is doing a great job as a mom. I am sure, if she was given the opportunity to bond with her two older children she would be a loving mother just like what she is now to her children. Separated couple should not use the children to spite each other. Leave the children out from your personal conflict. It is not their fault that your relationship crumbled.

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  35. She is a good step mother, yang ang importante. Pasalamat si Jackie dapat na maski papano may nagmahal ng mga anak nya.
    Forgiveness wi come one day if she leave them alone.
    Huwag masyadong mapagpatawad mga pinoys. Kaya hindi umuunlad ang pinas kasi madali tayong sumakay sa sob stories. Tayo lang ang bansang ibubuto padin as presedente ang mga magnanakaw kasi nagsisisi daw. Learn a lesson.
    Forgiving doesn't mean giving that person another chance to hurt you again.
    Para sa step mum, mga anak niya ang 2. She is just protecting them from Jackie.

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  36. Puro kayo opinion. Puro expert. Nakikibasa lng ang dami nyo ng sinabi wala naman kayong alam sa mga buhay nila. Bakit, ano sa akala nyo, masaya ang mga involved sa media war na to? They are just as miserable as the comnenters here. Kaka suya lng mga playing victim, preaching pilates dito e.

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  37. I was abondoned by my father for his other family wala pang financial support but i wasnt mad kasi my mom didnt tell us bad about him. Yun uun eh, the kids must have been brainwashed since then, at saka jackie was still young pa. People who judge her, kesyo dapat di niya iniwan blah blah, dont have the right to do so kasi wala kayo sa sitwasyon. when you get married to a jerk and have kids with him, u will understand her.

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    1. Good morning jackie. Nagkape ka na ba?

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    2. Tapos na inday mag linis kana ng banyo tama ng pakipagchimisan dito.

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    3. Ako rin iniwan ng dad ko when i was just less than a yr old
      My mum didn't say a lot of bad things abt him. Syempre may times din na meron pero not enough for me to hate him, so I didn't, even though he never supported us in any way. I never saw him again.
      But now that i'm 26y/o and realized how useless a person he was for being an absent father who knows no responsibility, i really can't say that i can and am willing to build a relationship with him. Parang you had your chance but you didn't do anything. Bakit pa?

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    4. 11.47, so na sa pagpapalaki talaga.

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  38. Bakit kapag si Jackie ang naglilitanya puede pero kapag ung stepmom na masama agad ugali? How sure are we na tinuruan nila ang magkapatid na magalit sa nanay? Hindi ba puede na meron nakita/naranasan na Hindi maganda ung dalawang bata nung nakakasama pa nila ang nanay nila? I think naging totoong tao lang ang stepmom nung nagpasaring cya dahil alam naman nya na magagalit si Jackie na nagpost ang mga anak nya na pabor sa stepmom. Na anticipate n nya ang mga bashers na uubod ng inam

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    1. 6.32, ang pinag-kaiba kasi kung maglitanya si Jackie, may wisdom while si Lyxen, basura, full of panggagatong sa problema. Si Benjie, name calling. Sino ang civilized? Haha!

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  39. sana kung mabuting stepmom siya tulungan nya magkaayos yung mag ina. tutal siya naman pinili ng dalawa, sana pangaralan nya din yung dalawang bata na patawarin yung ina. eh mukhang nanggagatong pa to para mapalayo lalo ang loob ng mga anak. sobrang feel ko si jackie yung pain sa kanya as a mom. hindi nararamdaman nung stepmom kung ganu kasakit.

    im not jackie.

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  40. Haha. Kaloka. May pagka-malditabdin itey butbokayvlangvmaldita din naman si Jackie. Tama yan para di xa ma-bully, lol

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  41. Sa tingin ko insecure c lyxen k jackie. If she really has a good heart sya mismo gagawa ng way para tuluyan ng mag bati ang mag iina kahit pa unti unti. Tsaka it's very obvious sa post nya ipagsigawan on social media at ipamukha k jackie kung gaano sya kagaling at kamahal ni A&K bilang ina nila which is alam nya na masasaktan c jackie lalo na sa sitwasyon nya ngayon na buntis sya at nag aalaga pa ng isa nyang anak na may sakit. I feel for jackie kahit gaano man ka laki Ang kasalanan nya noon sa mga anak nya lubos nmn nya itong pinag sisihan. Sana one day in Gods perfect time maayos rin nila ang gusot na to para maging happy c la both sides ng family not just for jackie.

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  42. Kawawa naman Si Jackie 1 vs. 6. Outnumbered nga naman sya. But her fierceness is admirable, she never backs down. That's how it should be, don't pretend that you're not hurting, show it, Mabuti na yang nagpapakatotoo ka sa mga nararamdaman mo kesa yung mga yun na puro pasaring, indirect tirade ba. At desente pa daw yun, porke nag iingles.

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  43. I can totally relate to Benjie's sons siding over their stepmom. My biological mom is abusive to us. Umaga palang eversince we were kids minumura na kami. She's a frustrated person. She is only nice to us if she needs something. We totally cut her out of our lives and now we live in peace.

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    1. Baka naman kasi suwail kayo at mga pasaway na mga anak. Usually mga anak na ganyan ayaw mapagsabihan. Ganyan talaga mga Nanay mabungaga pero di ibig sabihin wala na kayong halaga sa kanya. Weh, in peace na kayo, Di ka naging tao kung wala Nanay mo, it's a cliche pero yan ang totoo, at wag sabihing di nyo ginustong mabuhay sa mundo at di nyo ginustong magkaroon nga Nanay na ganyan, fact is binigyan nya kayo ng buhay, at hindi nya kayo pinatay sa sinapupunan nya. Walang peace sa iyo Ateng.

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    2. Lopsided logic, 2:36. Pagalitan mo, yes but to the point na kid ka palang pero 'minumura mura' ka na? Kasalanan pa ng bata yun? LOL. LOOOOL.

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    3. 3.58, yong sinabi niya is a reality of life. HInd kasalanan ng bata, oo, pero nangyayari 'yon eh? So, ang bata ang mag-aadjust once magmature siya. Pero sa kaso ni 10.05, mukhang hindi siya nagmature

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  44. E**l and Wicked Step MOM..lumabas sa sariling bibig niya ... "... our favorite people... ", "... those who don't matter! " ... iniinsulto niya at sinasabihang si Jackie does not matter ....

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  45. Natural yan iisipin niyo, madrasta yan e. Di niyo ba naiisip na above being a stepmom e tao siya, na nasaktan din sa patutsada ng nanay ng dalawa? Nakakapagod tumahimik no. Kung diyos yang si Lyxen, mapapatawad niya lahat e hindi naman. Pasalamat kayo magaganda relasyon niyo sa nanay niyo pero yan din yung rason para manahimik kayo kasi di niyo alam kung anong pinagdadaanan ng lahat ng involved. Kung mahal talaga ni Jackie yung mga anak niya, kahit i**** **** siya noon ng angkan ni Benjie, di siya mawawalay sa mga anak niya. E hindi ganun ang nangyari. Wag puro puso kuno ang pairalin. Magisip din kayo minsan. May mga instances - hindi madalas pero meron - na mas matindi pa ang pagmamahal ng mga madrasta/madrasto kesa sa pagmamahal ng tunay na mga magulang. -Part ng broken family

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    1. 2.13, analyze mo kung sino sa dalawa kina Jackie at Lyxen ang mas matalim manalita. Dun ka magjudge.

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  46. Palagay ko po, mahal ni Andre at Kobe ang Kanilang ina, dahil hanggang ngayon di pa rin sila maka move on sa promise ni Jackie na babalikan sila at magsasama sama silAng mag iina. Wala silang choice kundi pakibagayan sundin ang madrasta dahil sya yung nandun sa bahay nila habang lumalaki sila. Dahil mga bata pa, wala silang magawa, Syempre go with flow, whatever is being feed them at young age, they will easily absorb it growing up.

    Notice nyo sabi ng madrasta first time na ni greet sya ng dalawa ng mother's day sa social media, what does it mean, why they didn't do it before? Look how she reacted she's very surprised, even commended them for the courage to do so. Do you think the boys don't have any other reason other than than just greeting her? These kids just wanted to make their mother mad and jealous. Because these boys may have claimed they are happy with the family, deep inside they are yearning for the love and care coming from their real mom. I guess at some point they are also peeking at her IG, seeing those pics of her new family and her half brother and sister being well taken care of by Jackie must be pinching their heart of jealousy. They must have yearned for that too. Pride is just in between Jackie and her boys, I hope they'll see that it's making them suffer in the inside.

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    1. Teh ano to, teleserye??? Hahaha I doubt na pride or hatred nafifeel ng boys kay Jackie. It's merely indifference. In short, wala na silang pake. Ngayon siguro medyo nagkakahatred kasi ginugulo sila ni Jackie. I guess hatred is better than indifference.

      Nakita ko sa IG nila na binibisita pa minsan nila Benjie at Lyxen at Andre si Kobe sa states. Preschool teacher ata si stepmom so Im sure she's wonderful with kids. Tanggapin nyo nang siya talaga tinuturing na mom ng kids. Hindi to teleserye na entrapped yung kids sa pamilya nila. You sound like Jackie, ang lawak ng imahinasyon mo.

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    2. May point ka...

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    3. may wisdom si 2.31, ikaw 4.14, wala! Yun lang yun!

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  47. On another note, I wonder what type of relationship Jackie's other son has with his real dad. And if he suddenly comes into the picture again, will they welcome him back with open arms just like that? Hmm

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  48. What I don't get is if she's really a great stepmom and a good person, why instill hatred in the hearts of these boys for their mom? Yes, i know someone will comment, eh kung yung mga bata talaga ang galit? Ok sige, galit sila. Pero kung maayos ka na tao at ina, hindi ba dapat turuan mo silang magpatawad, or tulungan mo silang intindihin yung mga nangyari. But no, look at her comment. Nagbabait baitan lang to. I believe in my heart sobrang selfish nyan na inangkin nya yung mga bata, leaving no room sa buhay nila para sa tunay nilang ina. Karma, girl, it's bound to get you, benjie and the boys one way or another. Looking at Jackie's other children, especially Caleigh, that's proof mabuting tao ang nagpalaki sa kanya with just how she is. I am not bias, I am just saying these things based on what I see. I don't like this Lyxen girl.

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  49. If not for Jackie walang Mga gwapong Paras brothers. In fair. Pero Oo siguro nga alam ko may pinagdaanan talaga na Di maganda yung Mga bata Kay Jackie, Pero dapat tinuturuan din yung Mga bata para magpatawad. In Lyxens case, Oo naging mabuti siguro talaga syang stepmom to the kids Kaya mahal din sya ng Mga bata. Pero sana Di na sya nagbanggit na "our favorite people will surface again". Nakakasira ng message. And at the end of the day, lahat sila dapat Di na dinaraan sa social media ang lahat ng Ito. Nakakawalang class. Nakakaumay na. Never wash your dirty linen in public. Gaganda nyo pa naman.

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    1. tumpak! yan ang hindi makita ng mga taong PRO-HATE.

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  50. I think the role of a stepmom is just to accept and love the children of your husband not be a bridge to reconcile the kids with their biological mom. That responsibility, if ever belongs to the father. Hindi dapat makialam ang stepmom kasi labas sya don. Baka sila pang mag-asawa ang magkaproblema.

    Like in my case, I wouldn't want my husband to act as a bridge for my son and his biological father. Labas na sya sa problema namin. I'm just really grateful that he loves my son. Just saying

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    1. 7.08, at dapat hindi rin nakikialam ang stepmom/stepdad sa gulo, especially, hindi lang sa pakikipagbati.

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  51. I don't think Lyxen taught them to hate their biological mother. These two boys aren't kids anymore. They can make their own decisions and use their own judgments. I, myself, hate my biological father, but my mom nor my people around me taught me to hate him. They even asked me to try to forgive. I hate him because of what he did to us. Not because someone else pushed me to be hatred towards him. So Ms. Jackie Forster, don't blame Lyxen. Maybe you should stop your SONAs and look back. Try to figure out what went wrong and what you can do to make things right.

    Respect begets respect.

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    1. 7.35, sa anong edad ka nagsimulang naghate?

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  52. Diyos ko..patawarin mo sila...tinatawag nang mga anak nya eh a big improvement sa mukha nya..kung chaka mga yan i doubt kung aariin nya..ganyan naman ang mga 2nd kunyari mahal nila mga anak sa una...hello sa maraming mga second and third...

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    1. Level up nga c ateng nagkaroon mestiduhing anak. Inggit d artistahin sariling anak

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  53. Inday lyxen, yan din ba ipapamana mong ugali sa dalawang anak mo kung sakaling magkahiwalay kayo ni dodong benjie? Tsk tsk... nandoon na tayo na may galit ang mga anak sa nanay na biological but the way u sounded parang ginatungan mo pa just to show na mas naging nanay ka. Nagkataon din kasi na mature ka na nang nag asawa. Kung sakaling nagkataon din ka kasing edad mo ang nanay nila baka magkalapit ang estorya ninyong dalawa ni inday jackie. gaya nang bond paper na lalagyan nang kahit isang tuldok lang nang respeto sa nanay nila makes a big difference.

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  54. daming comments ng jackie and friends. kapagod. pare-parehong twisted minds. sige, sama-sama kayong mabulok.

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    1. 12.14, medyo may mali naman kasi sa message niya.. Parang sinabi niya na "talo ka na dahil na sa amin ang anak mo. Wahaha!" - ganun ang message niya. Sana kung talagang matino siya despite sa edad niya, sana sinabi niya na "magiging ok din ang lahat". Pero hindi, eh? Parang NANGGATONG siya. So, sa ginawa niyang yan parang totoo yong sinasabi ng mga insiders ni Jackie against sa kanya. Bakit, hindi mo ba nakita 'yon?? Ikaw ang twisted ang utak hindi sila.

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