1.24, ang ibig niyang sabihin, in general, pag tinawag ng ganun ang ina ay siguradong masasaktan. hindi na kailangang lumagay sa katayuan nila para maintindihan 'yon. isip isip din hindi fantard-fantard, prohate-prohate lang.
Yan ang hirap sa pinoy the victim syndrome is so rampant here, hindi porket Jackie lang tawag sa kanya eh nakakabastos na, knowing ang culture sa US minsan ganyan talaga at dun siya lumaki! Isa pa hindi naman nagpaka-INA si jackie sa kanila so it's his prerogative kung yun ang gusto niya! Wag kayong shonga na kala mo pinanganak kahapon... Hindi kayo si JACKIE so wag personalin mga beki! Hala magsikulot na lang kayo
"what Jackie is saying" Ouch. Skit nun for a mom who carried them for 9 months. :( I am not a fan of Jackie, ha. Pero nanay ako and I think some will know where Im coming from. At alam ko ang pano magmahal ang mga nanay. Ang tigas ng puso nila :( I hope they learn to forgive. :( Im sure naman di naman lahat ng gnaw ni Jackie mamas db? Grabe. Nakaka-disappoint si Kobe.
Disowning or disrespecting your mother. Tsk tsk. Forgiveness is needed from them. Maybe they need experience hardship or they will be in "karma" situation before they can forgive her. I hope they will not regret doing this.
Nakakawalang respeto ang ganyang klaseng anak, walang perpektong magulang at wala din perpektong anak. Sana makita ni kobe sa puso nya ang totoong meaning ng pagmamahal
si jackie naman kase kuda ng kuda parang hindi ina at naging asawa ni Benjie..how could they forgive this lady if wala nang ginawa kundi siraan sila ng siraan tapos pag nasa katinuan sasabihin mahal na mahal nya mga anak nya....I'm a mother too but when my son is too makulit at naiinis na ko..lunalayo muna ko or tumatahimik then my child knows he did something wrong then we hugged each other.. Jackie needs to change as a mother,less pride,less hatred,and she needs to keep mum...
Gaya ng sabi niya, get your facts straight. Ang hirap sa Pinoy, masyadong nagpapadala sa drama. Masama siya kasi hindi niyo alam kung ang totoong nangyari.
Addressing his mom as "Jackie." Ouch ouch ouch! Matindi pinaghuhugutan ng batang ire. sana makapag harap2 lahat at nang matapos na. Kakapagod sila eh hehe
He has been living in the states for a while now so sanay na silang by name na lang ang tawag sa ibang tao. Walang Ate, Tita, or Ms. They call their friends' parents or other elders by name. And hindi siya nagpapasikat. He's merely honing his skills in basketball sa states.
1:25 at 1.27, bakit lumaki ba siya sa america? hindi diba? Wow... fantard na fantard ang pagsagot niyo. It did not make sense at all! Make baluktot defense pa! LOL.
Actually tama naman siya eh... At isa pa yung ibang commenters dito, aral aral muna pag may time, hindi porket "JACKIE" lang tawag niya sa mama niya eh disrectful na... Remember, its common in the US to call even their grandparents by first name basis!
There is nothing wrong with kobe's comment and i commend him for being honest... too bad he had to delete this comment, perhaps to avoid another series of tirades and rants from jackie...
Wow.. kobe calling the woman who carried him in her womb for 9 months "jackie". Ganun lang yun? Its either u were brainwashed or u just grew up without manners like twas the most normal thing to happen. Tsk. Tsk.
That's good kobe! Its time to defend yourself and the rest of your family. So kapal talaga tong mga taong makapag judge! Akala mo kung sino! Feel so bad for benjie and the whole family... They dont even bother to fire up against this jackie. But these commenters are too much!
12.26 Agreed. I worry that the pressure will be too much for Kobe that it will affect his work and future. Some kind of mom Jackie is to cause such damage to her kids.
siguro nga xa ang nagluwal pero ang tanung xa den ba ang nag alaga? dapt nga magpasalamat pa so jackie kasi may umako sa responsibilidad nia bilang ina na dapt xa ang gumawa..
Eh ksi naman wala naman alam mga tao, gustong guston nakikisawsaw, sino ba naman di maiinis. Lahat naman napupuno din, di naman sila psychopath para walang mafeel.
I hope people will just leave the paras brothers alone. Sa dinami dami ng rants ni jackie sa social media, bakit wala siyang relative or close friend to defend her??? People close to her knows the real story siguro. Dont you think its unfair for these kids to be bashed after all they've been through? They are trying to live their lives as normal as possible, sana we give them a chance. Jackie has her own life now, sana din she will not rant in social media anymore kse hindi nakakatulong sa sitwasyon niya or ng mga anak niya. Sad...
Aww, grabe Jackie na lang tawag niya sa biological mom niya :( siguro nga it really takes time to heal kung ano man yung sakit na pinagdaanan nila dati. Sana maayus nila to.
Kobe, they probably meant when you were growing up. You and your brother were at an impressionable age wherein you soaked up everything you heard around you like a sponge. Whatever happened in the past, and whatever is going on now(hoping Jackie would calm down for now), I hope someone, anyone, would act like an adult and mediate a peaceful co-existence with all of you.
Walang galang at utang na loob sa INA, as in Jackie lang talaga! Sana lang dka mag tagumpay sa career mo! Mas maangas ka talaga sa kuya mo, maybe because ur stepmom na halos nagpalaki sau!
Kung ano ka ngayon ay dahil yan sa pagpapalaki sau ng mabubuting magulang mo kunoh! Puno ka ng galit sa puso mo, pls try to read d bible, baka mahimasmasan ka!
parang ikaw lang..hindi mo naman alam pinagdaanan nila masyado ka makajudge the way he speaks...He lives in Us and it's common to call older people by names..respect is earned not given
You didn't know what happened. Trauma in children places a lifelong consequence sa buhay niya, so if he decides to drop the sh*load of stress from his mom you have no right to judge.
Didn't your God tell you you can't judge others too? Hypocrite.
Don't judge the kids. if they really don't feel any respect, affection or love for Jackie, wala din talaga silang ibibigay. Stop imposing your dapat ganito dapat ganon to them kasi we don't really know what happened and most specially, we don't know their pain.
Parang ngang yang batang yan ang humusga sa nanay niya...kahit ano pa pag tatanggol niyo ang ina ay ina...ang tigas ng puso nito..ang mga magulang biyaya yan ng Diyos para sa atin ganun din ang mga anak sa mga magulang kahit ano pa kasalanan ng ina niya patawarin nya..balang araw magiging magulag din siya.
12.42 it takes more than giving birth to become a mother. A real mom will understand and support them, not threaten or wish them ill will just because he and his brother won't do as Jackie wants them to.
Kawawang mga bata, talagang pinipressure ng mga sanctimonious sheep ni Jackie na patawarin ang nanay nila pero opposite naman ang effect kina Kobe at Andre.
1:12, overrated na yang wala kayong alam na yan. Bakit kasi hindi sagutin ang mga akusasyon ni Jackie? Hindi kaya totoo ito kaya hindi sila makasagot??
1.19, oops! Jackie is not wishing them ill. A good brother is hindi nandadamay ng ibang tao lalo na ang half-sister or brother, pati lolo at lola. Just saying!
Why many people are so judgemental, and not knowing the whole story. Two sides, two different stories, and even people don't know their stories, why bother telling your opinions unlessit is affecting you and your life. In short, mind your own business. Just read their stories, and shut your fingers typing in the comments. Hehe! Why am I having this comment anyway?
Sakit naman for a mom na tawagin ka lang sa first name ng mga anak nya. Clearly they don't acknowledge her. Just hope and pray they can find forgiveness in their hearts whatever she may have done in the past. Mukhang napagsisihan and napagbayaran na naman ni Jackie yun with whatever is happening now, that is if may pagkukulang and pagkakamali man sya.
Yan lumabas na ang tunay na kulay. Well brought up kids kuno. Hindi naman the last two yrs lng ang pinag uusapan dito. Nagsimula yan nong malilit pa kayo. Nilayo kayo ng ama nyo kay "Jackie".
They don't have an obligation to the public to share their side. They simply don't care to share the facts so wala tayong magagawa. The problem with some, porket yung isa daldal nang daldal, feeling ng mga tao yun na yung totoo kasi siya lang yung nagbibigay ng expose. It's just a he said she said scenario.
12.56 tama. Kaya nga gasgas na 'yong sinasabi nila na "hindi niyo alam ang totoo" ek ek na yan dahil ang totoo wala siguro sila sa katwiran, bale justify lang nila ang ginagawa nilang mali.
I may not know what truly happened between them, what i know is, children are naive. No matter what you tell or show them, they wont have a grudge this big towards Jackie if walang nagsusulsol through their growing years. Just sayin. It seems they "hated" their mom so much kase.
Sawsawera people, kung wala naman tayong alam sa buong detalye sana wag naman marunong. Nanahimik ang mga bata and if they chose to do what they want, let them be. Hindi yung kung magsalita naman ang mga tao eh parang kakilala na talaga nila ang pinapakealaman nila. Unang una, napakasensitibong usapin ito para sa kanila so hayaan niyo na kasi sila. Kapag sumagot sila, nagagalit kayo sakanila? Eh kayo naman ang nanghihimasok. Oo public figure si Kobe at Andre pero hindi naman gustong talakayin ang part ng buhay nilang yan. KUMBAGA HINDI NILA SHINASHARE IN PUBLIC ANG PART NA YUN KAYA SANA RESPETO SA MGA NANGHIHIMASOK AT WALA TAYONG RIGHT MANGEALAM SA PART NA YUN. Yung nanay lang nila ang nagpupublic nun kaya kay Jackie na lang siguro kayo magcomment.
The main details are there: young mother who made mistakes and is sorry for her past actions, older dad who controlled and abused (verbal, at the very least) the young mother. Young kids caught in the middle then taken away from their mother for what was supposed to temporary, but eventually became permanent using force and brainwashing tactics. It's a big mess and a whole team of people are at fault. The biggest victims are Jackie and the kids.
Why do people judge this kid? Seriously. He has his reasons. Si jackie lang naman ang vocal kaya hindi natin alam ang feelings nina kobe at kung ano pa ang nangyari in the past.
Wow. First name basis ang tawag sa tunay na nanay nya. I understand may issues ka with the person but konting respeto nalang. Kahit balibaliktarin mo mundo nanay mo parin yan. Dugo at DNA parin nya nasa katawan mo, ijo. Di mo kailangan to forgive her if hindi ka pa ready pero dont be bastos.
Give the kid a break. Jusko hindi naman ma showbiz tong batang to. Bat ba siya binabash. Kayo ba iniwan ng mama? Kayo ba nakakaalam kung ano talaga yung nangyari? He has his reasons.
malalaman natin nag mga nangyari pagkapanganak ni Jackie. Gaya nga ng sabi niya na ang choices lang nila ay ang sagutin ang mga sinasabi ni Jackie or magdemanda kaso hindi nila magawa dahil alam nilang totoo ang mga sinasabi niya.
Hindi ko gets bakit kay Jackie yung sympathy ng tao. Porke't sya ang ina or something. Forgiveness should not be forced. Kung ayaw nila kobe, then fine. They don't talk ill about their mother. They just don't talk about her. They have their own lives now so dapat move on move on na lang. The kids are not cursing Jackie or whatever.
I'm not siding Jackie, in fact there's a doubt in me na malaki ang kasalanan ni Jackie na ginawa sa 2 anak nya. But to address your biological mother sa first name nya, OMG, how disrespectful you are.
I totally side with Jackie. There's remorse. There's respect. There's forgiveness. The latter two aren't being granted. As if both Kobe and Andre are better than God. Shame on them.
Bakit sinasabihan si Kobe na hindi magiging successful sa career niya dahil wala syang utang na loob na anak? Duh!!! Yung politicians natin na sobra kung magnakaw ang eh naging successful din naman sa politics. Point is, stop associating Kobe's attitude towards her kom with his attitude towards his career. Seriously, he is one hell of a basketball player. The kid is pretty much okay, attitude wise. Hayaan niyo sya sa buhay niya. Wala kayong alam kung ano yung nangyari.
Magiging nba player man sya, magiging mailap tagumpay unless he forgives and knows how to show respect to his mom. D magiging lubos na masaya pag galit ang pinapairal
If B&L are good parents, they know it is wrong and Kobe must be corrected. Unless, It would be ok for them Kobe misbehaving towards his own mom and they are happy about it
Tao lang din si Kobe. Bata pa siya. Nauubos din naman siguro yung pansensiya niya sa mga bashers sa social media. Mga tao kasi ang galing mang bash, wala naman talagang alam. Kung tutuusin, nananahimik yung bata sa States. Wag niyo nang guluhin yung buhay nya mga walang magawang bashers
jan mo makikita na hindi talaga maganda ang ginawang pagpapalaki sa mga batang ito. embarrassing not only for #KobeParas but for the woman who raised her ang pagtawag niya ng Jackie sa kanyang biological mother.
Sama ng ugali bastos!! sana di ka sumikat look at lebron and other basketball stars they love their mom. Kaw kung makaJackie na utang mo buhay mo. sana ms. Foster man lng ang tinawag mo.
I feel like many commenters put their sentiments first before you know, facts. It's not a difficult concept to grab. Giving birth is not motherhood. Period. Swerte siguro kayo kasi yung nag-anak sa inyo ay mother figure niyo rin. Hindi applicable yang ganyang situation sa lahat ng panahon. What makes a mother is the time, love, devotion she gives to her children... and it just so happened na hindi nila nakuha kay Jackie yun. It's that simple. Sa mata nila, hindi si Jackie ang nanay nila. That's how they feel and no amount of lecturing them about antiquated and, frankly, faulty definition of motherhood will make them change their mind. Leave them be. They only greetd their stepmom on mother's day and did not, in any way, say anything awful about Jackie. Wag magpadala sa awa... ang anak na nasaktan marunong magpatawad, maliban na lang kung grabe grabe ang naranasan nilang sakit.
Kobe , ung si Jackie nanay mo pa rin, nakakalungkot kang bata ka, ganda pa naman ng mga sinabi at papuri mo kay lyxen pero parang kahit konting pag galang sa taong nagluwal sayo wala ka, kung hindi ka nga na brainwash anong mabuting naturo sayo ng sinasabi mong mga magulang? Pag naghiwalay ang mag asawa hindi iisa lng ang may kasalanan, dAlawa sila, produkto din ako ng broken family pero never siniraan ng nanay ko ang tatay ko lalo na nung mga bata pa kme until i found out na may kapatid pala ako sa labas na sing tanda ko rin. Dun pa lang nagconfirm ang nanay ko at dahil dun yao hindi na nabuo ang family namin.
their story is different from yours..so you're not in the position to advise or give them a lecture..you never know the reasons why there's a great wall of china between them....leave them alone..
Mahirap kasi na puro insulto ang inaabot ng pamilya Paras lalo pa na nagsimula ito dahil sa post ni Jackie. Mula sa umpisa palang kung marunong siyang maghintay lalapit at lalapit ang mga anak niya sa kaniya. Dahil sa pinagsasabi ni jackie "in jesus name" kuno ay sinisira niya ang kabuhayan ni Benjie, ni Andres at ni Kobe. Ang masaklap pa ay kusang nananahimik ang pamilya para di rin lumabas ang bahong ginawa niya.
1.29, open book ang buhay ni Jackie, alam ng lahat ang pagkakamali niya before. Yong pamilyang sinasabi mo, nananahimik sila para hindi lumabas ang bahong ginawa nila. It's not the other way around!
Well 3:18 kahit open book --- kung totoong mahal nga nia anak nia, babaguhin nia ang pagiging mabula nia in public. Ano yan, it is her way or no way at all?!?
I can't blame him if reacts that way, grabe may judge yung iba as if they are close to these people and they know everything. No mother/parent would put their children in a bad light.
Grabe na talaga ang hatred ng batang ito. Nasa maselang kalagayan pa naman si "Jackie" ngayon. Pag may mangyari sa Ina ninyo wiirh her delivery, magpapyesta kayo ha. Pag biglang kunin si "Jackie" ni Lord wag kayong ngunawa ha, bagkos maglumpasay kayo sa tuwa dahil mawalla na ang "favorite people" nyo. Yan yata ang kailangan para matauhan kayo. To Jackie: Let these boys go. They're not worth fighting anymore. Be happy with your children. Concentrate on them, shower them with your love. Your older children do not need you now. Use the power of silence. " Be still and know that i am God", said the Lord. Offer everything to Him.
I agree, don't wait for the time when your mom can't post anymore On social media and declare her love anD longing for you because she's already gone. That will be one too painful and too heavy to carry in years to come. You'd wish you can turn Back time. It happens.
Eh ano gusto mo itawag nila sa kanya? They do not recognize her as such! Pipilitin mo ba sarili mo kung di mo kaya? Para saan, para maging okay sa inyong mga usisero't usisera?
Ako bilang produkto ng "broken family" mahirap talaga ang sitwasyon na ganyan para sa bata lalo pa kung nandyan ka sa sitwasyon na sikat ang pamilya mo, lalong mas mahirap. Sana lang bigyan niya ng oras ang mga anak niya na mapatawad siya at hindi yung pilitin sila na makipag usap sa paraan ng "blackmail thru social media". Buti na lang hindi nagdedemanda ang pamilya Paras. Hays ang kapatawaran ay nakukuha mula sa pagpapakumbaba at di mula sa pananakot at pagmamanipula.
At their age and upbringing malamang fully aware na sila sa nangyari para magkaroon ng ganyang disposition. Buti pa nga at Jackie lang itinawag sa kanya at hindi dinagdagan ng iba pang derogatory words, fair enough.
kahit gaano pa kasama ang nanay mo, you cannot deny the fact that you wouldn't be here if she didn't carry you in her womb for 9 months. Kahit yun man lang ang isipin mo. Bata ka pa, you think the world is in the palm of your hand kaya ganyan ka magsalita. I know you are blinded by hate, but try, even for just a moment, to be in her shoes. How would you feel having your own son call you by your first name? Wala man lang respeto kahit katiting. I pray na hindi mangyari sa yo ang ginagawa mo sa nanay mo.
Duh, foreigner din si Jackie and sa culture nila, there's nothing wrong whhen parents are called by their first names. Wag masyadong biased na hndi nag-iisip.
buti nga may pangalan pa kesa naman na ilagay nya ay That Woman. mas masakit. well irespeto na lang natin ang privacy ng bata. may kamag anak ako na ganyan ang peg. nakipagkalas ang asawa ng tito. hanggang ngayon na lahat sila may sarili ng pamilya, kinalimutan na nila ang tito kahit na nagrereach out sya. nakakaawa tignan pero mapapaisip ka na dapat mag move on na tito kasi hanggang ngayon stuck up sya.
I think these are what lyxen refers to as their "favorite people." Yung mga wala namang alam sa mga totoong nangyari and yet wagas makasawsaw sa issue. Ang daming time ng mga nanay na to for social media ha. Nagdidikta pa. Just leave them alone. Get a life. It's good that Kobe deleted his comment, alam nyang mali ang ginawa nya, calling his biological mom by her first name.
Imbes na makita niyo yung point nung bata sa comment niya which is tantanan na sila and wag agad agad sila I judge based mga mababasa at naririnig LANG sa social media, binigyan niyo ng focus is yung kung pano binanggit ni kobe yung nanay niya. Come on guys, we're more than that! Hayaan naman nating magkaron ng peaceful na buhay yang mga yan. They have their valid reasons kung bakit sila ganyan sa pangyayari
Apparently, unti lang ang "more than that." Welcome to the Philippine society na mas mahalaga sasabihin ng ibang tao sa kung ano gusto o nararamdaman mo.
Why are people reacting negatively that kobe called his biological mom "jackie". Ano gusto ninyo itawag niya, "mommy"? They dont have a relationship. He didnt call her "that woman". Haay typical masang pinoy mentality lol
3:08, so anong gusto mo? Ikaw ba si Kobe para masabi ano ang mas gusto nyang itawag? Mas mahalaga pa sa iyo sasabihin ng ibang tao kaysa sarili nilang nararamdaman e. Outsider ka lang, pare. Wag mangialam.
Daming may alam sa story nila no. Super judgemental. Just cause he called her real mom by her name. Maybe he's not ready to face Jackie. Jackie pushes the reconciliation way too much and she does it too publicly. If she's really sincere she should take the high road and do it quietly to make it sincere. Napuno na Si kobe that's why he lashed back. Everyone is blaming the andre and Kobe for everything. Bakit hindi nila mapa tawad Si jackie, it's their call. They should be able to make decisions without people butting in their personal business and without getting bullied personally and over social media.
2.37, yeah, it's their call whether to forgive or not. But I think that's impossible to happen co'z brainwashed sila, eh? Meaning, inumpisahang ibrainwash noon hanggang sa maging successful ang pag-brainwash. So 'yong ginagawa ni Jackie ay unloading ng mga pangyayari na maski sa hinagap ay wala silang alam. Nawawalan na siya ng hope kaya dun na siya nagre-resort.
Kobe, your bahavior justifies that you were raised by your stepmom& dad the wrong way. You are so arrogant. Yoa are a good player and one day you will be in the nba but remember this you may be successful but you will never be happy with so much hatred in your heart. Pls respect your birthmom. Look at colin kaepernick of sf 49ers, he is disrespectful to her birthmom just like you. He is a good player, a successful quarterback . He got her athletic skills from her mom just like you & andre got the good looks from your mom.. There is reason for everything that happened. Back to kaepernick, though he is a good player he hasnt achieve a championship . F
well for me tama lang naman ang pag gamit niya ng jackie buti nga hindi 'her' eh. isa pa di ba nga hindi nila kinoconsider na nanay nila si jackie kaya first name lang ang gamit dahil nga para sa kanila si lyxen yung nanay nila.
sa ngcomment parang g*g* lang nakakainis yung mga taong nasasabi na nabrainwash parang nakakaoffend na bakit wala ba sariling pagiisip yan para hindi makita ang tama at mali. base kasi sa picture na pinopost ni jackie malaki na magkapatid dun may isip na sila hindi na pede burahin sa memory nila if even na naging mabuti si jackie that time dahil tatak yun sa utak ng mga bata. at parang sure na sure siya ah.
for me lang siguro ayaw na talaga nila pagusapan kasi ayaw nila maiskandalo lahat naman tayo may bagay na ayaw natin pagusapan. makulit lang talaga tong si jackie eh siya gumagawa ng sarili niyan ikakasakit.
HOY KOBE MAGTIGIL KA. YANG TINAWAG MONG JACKIE KAHIT BALIBALIGTARIN ANG TATAY MO AT STEP MOM MO...BAKA MAGISING KA SA ULIRAT MO NA ANG TINATAWAG MONG JACKIE ANG NAGBIGAY NANG NAKAKAANGAT NA MUKHA. KUNG NAGKATAON NA SI LYXEN TOTOO MONG NANAY, MANALAMIN KA NGA SA MGA KAPATID MO.
para sa akin, hindi pinalaki ng maayos ni benjie at nung stepmom nila sina kobe at andre, whatever it is that happened in the past, sana tinuruan nila yung bata na hindi lumaking may galit sa nanay nila. ang rami naman jan nag hihiwalay na mag asawa pero they spare their kids sa gulo because they are not mentally matured and ready to comprehend what is going on thus the anger towards their parents. ao man naging kasalanan ni Jackie atleast binuhay nya ang bata at di pinamigay kung kani-kanino. Mag ingat kayo Kobe and Andre, nakaka Karma ang iyak ng nanay.
He addressed his biological mother as "JACKIE"???? To the highest level ang kabastusan ng lalake na yan. He could have called her "MISS JACKIE" just to show some respect not as a mother if he doesn't consider her one Atleast as an older person. So disgusting!
Brainwashing doesn't happen overnight. It builds up overtime. Baka nakakalimutan ng Kobe na yan na lumaki cya sa stepmom and sa dad nya. Yung ganung age madaling ma-brainwash ang mga bata. Just saying!
gi adopt lang ni Kobe ang ugali ng mga Kano. Ganyan sa America ninsan pa ngalan lang talaga tawag nila sa Nanay at tatay nila. Lali na pag in laws nila first nne lang tawagan.
im not a mom pero i feel sorry for jackie. grabe ang mga anak nya, kahit ano pa ang pagkakamali ng nanay nyo sa mga anak nya dapat konting respeto naman. nasa 10 commandments of God to honor your mother and father. sana lang mas naging matinong tatay rin si benjie para hindi naman ganyan ang mga bata sa nanay nila. kawawa si jackie kasi ganyan ang treatment ng mga anak nya. masama yang ginagawa ng mga anak nya, i still believe in karma..maybe this is jackie's karma pero wag sana antayin ng mga anak na danasin rin nila ang bad karma sa pagtrato nila sa tunay nilang ina. sana maayos nila yan lawakan ang pagiisip at unawain na nila ang nangyari noon kasi tapos na yun matagal na sana matuto na rin magpatawaran, after all ina pa rin nila si Jackie kaya respeto sana.
magkakaroon lang ng time magpatawad ang paras brothers kapag tumigil maging pushy si jackie on social media
Reaching out to them via social media is so fake Ginagawa nyang pang fiesta buhay nila NA GUSTONG GUSTO ng maraming echoserang pinoy para MAKISAWSAW magbigay ng advice kuno
Mga feeling magaling at perpekto
Try nyo kaya imagine sarili nyo sa paras brothers Tapos yung nanay nyo mega kwento sa kapitbahay sa prob ng pamilya nyo at lalapitan kayo ng di nyo kilalang tao para mag ADVICE
Yan problema ng pinoy Guys, respect is earned. Nanahimik nuon yun magkapatid at no comment lang
Pero what happened? Masyado nag ingay si jackie
Sana sumuporta na lang sya in silent sa mga anak Be the better person and protect your kids sa mga taong tulad ni basher na pakialamero
ayusin gulo personally Its more genuine than in social media
Kobe's right, we dont know and we will never know what they went through in their childhood just because of Jackie. All we know is the paawa & drama queen posts of Jackie in social media. And yes we are brainwashed. Lets not forget that a mother is NOT just someone who carries a child in her womb. Being a mother is MORE than that. And maybe for these 2 boys, thats where the conflict begun. So lets leave the PARAS' brothers alone. They have been harassed enough, by Jackie and now by all these people who thinks they know enough to comment such things. Let the boys live their lives and for Jackie to solve her own problems.
sa mga taong humuhusga sa mga anak ni jackie foster na masama.sana naiisip nyo daw na may possibleng pngyyari n di ntn alm kung bkit gnyan sila ktigas..may mga pngyyari n di ntn alm at sila lng nkkaalm..at sa mga nkikisawsaw wala kayunv krapatang pahsabihin yung mga snk nila kasi di nman kau andun nung time na nhihiraon mgadjust yung mga ank nila nung iniwann sila..may time Para sa forgiveness..if she really sincere keep it private sa pkikioagreconcile nya sa ank nya..
yung iba nga dyan nagawang itago ng ina sa public for many years at hindi sya naging ina for those years pero nagawa pa din magpatawad ng bata. I hope kobe will someday learn how to let go and forgive
I dont think malayo ang mararating nito sa pagbabasketball.... kahit ano pang rason dapat isipin pa din kung saan sya nangaling. Kahit may galit sya or what he needs to forgive and wag bastusin ang tunay na nagluwal sakanya...
Nakakainis lang rin yung mga nagcocomment na sana magpatawad na sina kobe, pinalaki sila nang mali, hindi sila magiging successful sa buhay, etc. Pwede ba wag magmarunong! Wala naman kayo sa pwesto ng mga bata. Madali at magaling kayo mag advice, puro kayo salita, palibhasa hindi naman kayo sila. Wag nyo silang diktahan! Galing nyo grabe
Contradicting naman pala ang sinasabi ng Iba na you were raised well and good. When it comes to your stepmom and dad ganda ng mga sinasabi nyo, when it comes to your real mom, she doesn't exist. Is that how you were raised well and good?
Kahit gano kalaki kasalanan ng magulang, walang karaparan ang anak to disrespect him/her. Hating one's parents is tantamount to disrespecting God kaya laging sinasabi na one will not be blessed pag lagi kang galit sa magulang.
Painful to be called jackie only.
ReplyDeleteThat's his prerogative to call Jackie what he wants 12.19. Wag ninyong personalin ang issue nilang pamilya. Hindi kayo sila.
DeleteYes! Sakit sa puso...
Delete1.24, ang ibig niyang sabihin, in general, pag tinawag ng ganun ang ina ay siguradong masasaktan. hindi na kailangang lumagay sa katayuan nila para maintindihan 'yon. isip isip din hindi fantard-fantard, prohate-prohate lang.
DeleteMaybe that is just what Jackie means to him. Simple Jackie. Hindi naman naging nanay, baka friend lang.
DeleteYan ang hirap sa pinoy the victim syndrome is so rampant here, hindi porket Jackie lang tawag sa kanya eh nakakabastos na, knowing ang culture sa US minsan ganyan talaga at dun siya lumaki! Isa pa hindi naman nagpaka-INA si jackie sa kanila so it's his prerogative kung yun ang gusto niya! Wag kayong shonga na kala mo pinanganak kahapon... Hindi kayo si JACKIE so wag personalin mga beki! Hala magsikulot na lang kayo
Delete"what Jackie is saying" Ouch. Skit nun for a mom who carried them for 9 months. :( I am not a fan of Jackie, ha. Pero nanay ako and I think some will know where Im coming from. At alam ko ang pano magmahal ang mga nanay. Ang tigas ng puso nila :( I hope they learn to forgive. :( Im sure naman di naman lahat ng gnaw ni Jackie mamas db? Grabe. Nakaka-disappoint si Kobe.
ReplyDeleteSiguro dapat patawarin muna ni Jackie ang sarili nya , that way makikita ng mga anak nya na sincere cya sa pakikipag ayos sa kanila
DeleteDisowning or disrespecting your mother. Tsk tsk. Forgiveness is needed from them. Maybe they need experience hardship or they will be in "karma" situation before they can forgive her. I hope they will not regret doing this.
DeleteSus! Pasalamat sya may Jackie pa! If all the news about jackie is true baka dapat she who must not be named sya.
DeleteDiktador at pakialamero mga nagmamarunong dito, di nalalayo sa ugali ni Jackie. Nanay din ako pero kelanman di ko type pinanggagawa ng babaeng yan.
Deleteawww sakitt jackie
ReplyDeleteWe have our own will .and that his will just respect guys
ReplyDeleteNakakawalang respeto ang ganyang klaseng anak, walang perpektong magulang at wala din perpektong anak. Sana makita ni kobe sa puso nya ang totoong meaning ng pagmamahal
Deletesi jackie naman kase kuda ng kuda parang hindi ina at naging asawa ni Benjie..how could they forgive this lady if wala nang ginawa kundi siraan sila ng siraan tapos pag nasa katinuan sasabihin mahal na mahal nya mga anak nya....I'm a mother too but when my son is too makulit at naiinis na ko..lunalayo muna ko or tumatahimik then my child knows he did something wrong then we hugged each other.. Jackie needs to change as a mother,less pride,less hatred,and she needs to keep mum...
DeleteAnong masama 1:35 sa sinabi nya eh jackie namn tlga name nya. Ang masama kung my sinabi syang deregatory bout jackie.
DeleteGaya ng sabi niya, get your facts straight. Ang hirap sa Pinoy, masyadong nagpapadala sa drama. Masama siya kasi hindi niyo alam kung ang totoong nangyari.
Deleteaww sakitt jackie
ReplyDeleteAddressing his mom as "Jackie." Ouch ouch ouch! Matindi pinaghuhugutan ng batang ire. sana makapag harap2 lahat at nang matapos na. Kakapagod sila eh hehe
ReplyDeleteJackie lang ? Walang respeto baka di kana sumikat
ReplyDeleteHe has been living in the states for a while now so sanay na silang by name na lang ang tawag sa ibang tao. Walang Ate, Tita, or Ms. They call their friends' parents or other elders by name. And hindi siya nagpapasikat. He's merely honing his skills in basketball sa states.
DeleteSa states kasi ok lang first name basis sa parents and older people than you. Wag masamain kasi english yung reply ni kobe kaya keri lang... #peace
DeleteHindi naman siya nagpapasikat
DeleteI'm sure hindi kasikatan ang priority niya. Gusto niyang gumaling sa craft niya, hindi sumikat. Fame can come after.
DeleteRespeto binibigay sa taong dapat i respeto and Jackie is not one of them.
Delete1:25 at 1.27, bakit lumaki ba siya sa america? hindi diba? Wow... fantard na fantard ang pagsagot niyo. It did not make sense at all! Make baluktot defense pa! LOL.
DeleteKatakot..oh well hindi naman natin alam ang buong nangyari kaya wag na makialam at magconclude agad agad
ReplyDeleteKobe makes sense.
ReplyDeleteTrue!
DeleteActually tama naman siya eh... At isa pa yung ibang commenters dito, aral aral muna pag may time, hindi porket "JACKIE" lang tawag niya sa mama niya eh disrectful na... Remember, its common in the US to call even their grandparents by first name basis!
DeleteThere is nothing wrong with kobe's comment and i commend him for being honest... too bad he had to delete this comment, perhaps to avoid another series of tirades and rants from jackie...
ReplyDeleteBefore i unfollwed jackie on insta parang hindi nman nya tinira ang mga anak nya, anyway follow ko sya ulit to confirm. BTW, tulog na Lyxen
Delete1:39 ung last post nia sinasbi nia na na di magandang ihemplo sina kobe at andre sa mga youth of today na umiidolo sa kanila.
DeleteWow.. kobe calling the woman who carried him in her womb for 9 months "jackie". Ganun lang yun? Its either u were brainwashed or u just grew up without manners like twas the most normal thing to happen. Tsk. Tsk.
ReplyDeleteWell, 9 months may be nothing compared to the years they were supposedly abandoned.
DeleteSurrogate moms carry many children for nine months too and they don't even get recognised by them when they're older.
Delete9 months na napilitan alagaan dahil kasama ang kanyang sariling katawan versus years na hindi pinakialaman.
DeleteEto si brainwashed nanaman. Hay... Wala lang madahilan
DeleteThat's good kobe! Its time to defend yourself and the rest of your family. So kapal talaga tong mga taong makapag judge! Akala mo kung sino! Feel so bad for benjie and the whole family... They dont even bother to fire up against this jackie. But these commenters are too much!
ReplyDelete12.26 Agreed. I worry that the pressure will be too much for Kobe that it will affect his work and future. Some kind of mom Jackie is to cause such damage to her kids.
DeleteLeave Kobe and Andre alone kasi, they deserve to lead a peaceful life, stop bashing them directly on their social media account.
ReplyDeleteGrabe naman makatawag ng Jackie tong si Kobie! Ui siya parin yung nagluwal sayo.
ReplyDeleteKung yun lang ang meaning ng motherhood sayo sige push mo yan.
Deletesiguro nga xa ang nagluwal pero ang tanung xa den ba ang nag alaga? dapt nga magpasalamat pa so jackie kasi may umako sa responsibilidad nia bilang ina na dapt xa ang gumawa..
Deletei felt sad reading kobe's response. there's too much hatred and emotional baggage in his heart.
ReplyDeleteand Jackie doesn't have hatred and emotional bagage in her heart and mind?????
DeleteEh ksi naman wala naman alam mga tao, gustong guston nakikisawsaw, sino ba naman di maiinis. Lahat naman napupuno din, di naman sila psychopath para walang mafeel.
DeleteI hope people will just leave the paras brothers alone. Sa dinami dami ng rants ni jackie sa social media, bakit wala siyang relative or close friend to defend her??? People close to her knows the real story siguro. Dont you think its unfair for these kids to be bashed after all they've been through? They are trying to live their lives as normal as possible, sana we give them a chance. Jackie has her own life now, sana din she will not rant in social media anymore kse hindi nakakatulong sa sitwasyon niya or ng mga anak niya. Sad...
ReplyDeleteMalaki na si kobe to know what's right and wrong. Let the kids be. Guilty lang masyafo si jackie kaya kung makapaghabol sa mga anak nya ganun na lang.
ReplyDeleteAww, grabe Jackie na lang tawag niya sa biological mom niya :( siguro nga it really takes time to heal kung ano man yung sakit na pinagdaanan nila dati. Sana maayus nila to.
ReplyDeleteHala Jackie lang talaga yung tawag nya.
ReplyDeleteWe may not know the whe story pero sorry. ANG YABANG NG MAGKAPATID NA TO ESP KOBE
ReplyDeleteSus! Wala namang sinabing masama. Judgemetal ka lang. Di mo naman kilala.
DeleteI dnt find them mayabang.
DeleteKobe, they probably meant when you were growing up. You and your brother were at an impressionable age wherein you soaked up everything you heard around you like a sponge. Whatever happened in the past, and whatever is going on now(hoping Jackie would calm down for now), I hope someone, anyone, would act like an adult and mediate a peaceful co-existence with all of you.
ReplyDeletePrecisely right! The brainwashing meant was prior to when you went to the US like below 10 yrs old. Too nuch hatred in your comments Kobe!
DeleteGrabe galit nitong bata na to sa totoong nanay niya. I wonder bakit. Minsan nagagalit tayo sa magulang natin pero ako, di ko sila matitiis.
ReplyDelete"We know enough by what is show on social media" lol
ReplyDeleteSo ganun, pag nakabasa ka ng one sided story sa internet yun na agad ang katotohanan..
Jackie? Kobe called her mom jackie "Jackie" just Jackie.. Sobrang sakit neto for sure. Hihintayin ko mala nobelang post ni Jackie
ReplyDeleteWalang galang at utang na loob sa INA, as in Jackie lang talaga! Sana lang dka mag tagumpay sa career mo! Mas maangas ka talaga sa kuya mo, maybe because ur stepmom na halos nagpalaki sau!
ReplyDeleteYou and your small mind is what's wrong in this country. Just because his stepmom raised him you think that way!
DeleteKung ano ka ngayon ay dahil yan sa pagpapalaki sau ng mabubuting magulang mo kunoh! Puno ka ng galit sa puso mo, pls try to read d bible, baka mahimasmasan ka!
ReplyDeleteWag pilitin ang religious views mo to others. Learn to respect individualities.
DeleteBastos lumaki. Sooner magigising din sila. Abangan na lang natin.
ReplyDeleteparang ikaw lang..hindi mo naman alam pinagdaanan nila masyado ka makajudge the way he speaks...He lives in Us and it's common to call older people by names..respect is earned not given
DeleteMaka-Jackie parang tropapips lang lol
ReplyDeletei wonder maging successful kaya si KOBE if di siya marunong magpatawad?? kung ang diyos nga nagpapatawad siya pa..
ReplyDeleteJackie pa more.....
ReplyDeleteSuch a poor kid! Did u study the Ten Commandments at school?
ReplyDeleteYou didn't know what happened. Trauma in children places a lifelong consequence sa buhay niya, so if he decides to drop the sh*load of stress from his mom you have no right to judge.
DeleteDidn't your God tell you you can't judge others too? Hypocrite.
2.04, dapat kasi sabihin nila ang totoo para maget ng mga tao yong sinsabi nilang 'facts' kuno.
DeleteDon't judge the kids. if they really don't feel any respect, affection or love for Jackie, wala din talaga silang ibibigay. Stop imposing your dapat ganito dapat ganon to them kasi we don't really know what happened and most specially, we don't know their pain.
DeleteParang ngang yang batang yan ang humusga sa nanay niya...kahit ano pa pag tatanggol niyo ang ina ay ina...ang tigas ng puso nito..ang mga magulang biyaya yan ng Diyos para sa atin ganun din ang mga anak sa mga magulang kahit ano pa kasalanan ng ina niya patawarin nya..balang araw magiging magulag din siya.
Deletei wonder maging successful kaya si KOBE kung ganyan siya na di marunong magpatawad?? kahit anu nagawa mother nya..
ReplyDeleteWag nyong ipilit. Wala kayong alam.
Delete12.42 it takes more than giving birth to become a mother. A real mom will understand and support them, not threaten or wish them ill will just because he and his brother won't do as Jackie wants them to.
DeleteKawawang mga bata, talagang pinipressure ng mga sanctimonious sheep ni Jackie na patawarin ang nanay nila pero opposite naman ang effect kina Kobe at Andre.
Delete1:12, overrated na yang wala kayong alam na yan. Bakit kasi hindi sagutin ang mga akusasyon ni Jackie? Hindi kaya totoo ito kaya hindi sila makasagot??
Delete1.19, oops! Jackie is not wishing them ill. A good brother is hindi nandadamay ng ibang tao lalo na ang half-sister or brother, pati lolo at lola. Just saying!
DeleteAng kyoray ng reaction pero winner! Walang kaplastikan na godblessyou sa huli.
ReplyDeleteEh asus 2 years ka diyan pero sino ba nagpalaki sa inyo .... Jackie lang talaga ha .... Mga walang galang
ReplyDeleteWhy many people are so judgemental, and not knowing the whole story. Two sides, two different stories, and even people don't know their stories, why bother telling your opinions unlessit is affecting you and your life. In short, mind your own business. Just read their stories, and shut your fingers typing in the comments. Hehe! Why am I having this comment anyway?
ReplyDeleteTulog na lyxen magluluto ka pa ng breakfast ng Andre
DeleteLyxen?
DeleteJackie lang talaga tawag :(
ReplyDeleteang sama
DeleteSakit naman for a mom na tawagin ka lang sa first name ng mga anak nya. Clearly they don't acknowledge her. Just hope and pray they can find forgiveness in their hearts whatever she may have done in the past. Mukhang napagsisihan and napagbayaran na naman ni Jackie yun with whatever is happening now, that is if may pagkukulang and pagkakamali man sya.
ReplyDeleteGood thing that I'm not your mother!
ReplyDeleteThe feeling is mutual.
DeleteYan lumabas na ang tunay na kulay. Well brought up kids kuno. Hindi naman the last two yrs lng ang pinag uusapan dito. Nagsimula yan nong malilit pa kayo. Nilayo kayo ng ama nyo kay "Jackie".
ReplyDeleteMasyado kasing millitant si Jackie sa pag attack kay Benji at stepmom, yan tuloy hate ka talaga ng mga anak mo.
ReplyDeleteJackie?Really???
ReplyDeleteOf course he cannot see he is brainwashed. Bata pa sya when that kind of feelings and thoughts were put into his head.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, napaka sama ng attitude ng batang to. May magandang talent nga sya sa sports but that does not mean mahusay pagpalaki sa kanya.
1blessedman is sauce dipping kasi. Buti pa mag aral ng difference between 'their' and 'there'.
ReplyDeleteaww Jackie lng tinawag nya sa mom nya, di n nga tinawag n nanay, first name pa tinawag, so much hatred
ReplyDeleteI think people would love to get their "facts right" if they would care to share these facts. #badattitude
ReplyDeleteThey don't have an obligation to the public to share their side. They simply don't care to share the facts so wala tayong magagawa. The problem with some, porket yung isa daldal nang daldal, feeling ng mga tao yun na yung totoo kasi siya lang yung nagbibigay ng expose. It's just a he said she said scenario.
Delete12.56 tama. Kaya nga gasgas na 'yong sinasabi nila na "hindi niyo alam ang totoo" ek ek na yan dahil ang totoo wala siguro sila sa katwiran, bale justify lang nila ang ginagawa nilang mali.
Deletegaano pa kasama nanay pa rin nila si jackie gets mo!
DeleteI may not know what truly happened between them, what i know is, children are naive. No matter what you tell or show them, they wont have a grudge this big towards Jackie if walang nagsusulsol through their growing years. Just sayin. It seems they "hated" their mom so much kase.
ReplyDeleteSalbahe itong batang ito wala kang magandang kakahinatnan iho salbahe mo
ReplyDeleteSawsawera people, kung wala naman tayong alam sa buong detalye sana wag naman marunong. Nanahimik ang mga bata and if they chose to do what they want, let them be. Hindi yung kung magsalita naman ang mga tao eh parang kakilala na talaga nila ang pinapakealaman nila. Unang una, napakasensitibong usapin ito para sa kanila so hayaan niyo na kasi sila. Kapag sumagot sila, nagagalit kayo sakanila? Eh kayo naman ang nanghihimasok. Oo public figure si Kobe at Andre pero hindi naman gustong talakayin ang part ng buhay nilang yan. KUMBAGA HINDI NILA SHINASHARE IN PUBLIC ANG PART NA YUN KAYA SANA RESPETO SA MGA NANGHIHIMASOK AT WALA TAYONG RIGHT MANGEALAM SA PART NA YUN. Yung nanay lang nila ang nagpupublic nun kaya kay Jackie na lang siguro kayo magcomment.
ReplyDeleteThe main details are there: young mother who made mistakes and is sorry for her past actions, older dad who controlled and abused (verbal, at the very least) the young mother. Young kids caught in the middle then taken away from their mother for what was supposed to temporary, but eventually became permanent using force and brainwashing tactics. It's a big mess and a whole team of people are at fault. The biggest victims are Jackie and the kids.
DeleteKobe just addressed his biological mother "Jackie!" Apparently, hindi sya na-brainwashed. Ano na tawag jan? Tsk tsk
ReplyDeleteKung hindi siya nabrainwashed gaya ng sinabi niya at tinawag niyang Jackie ang mom niya, ibig bang sabihin bastos siya talaga? LOL.
Deletedami mo din kuda..manahimik ka na lang.. wala ka naman alam sa story nila if ano talaga nangyari sa kanila
DeleteWhy do people judge this kid? Seriously. He has his reasons. Si jackie lang naman ang vocal kaya hindi natin alam ang feelings nina kobe at kung ano pa ang nangyari in the past.
ReplyDeletethis..buti na lang merong hindi makitid utak dito unlike ng iba grabe makacomment kala mo kilalabg kilala nila and as if they know the real story..tsk
DeleteWow. First name basis ang tawag sa tunay na nanay nya. I understand may issues ka with the person but konting respeto nalang. Kahit balibaliktarin mo mundo nanay mo parin yan. Dugo at DNA parin nya nasa katawan mo, ijo. Di mo kailangan to forgive her if hindi ka pa ready pero dont be bastos.
ReplyDeleteWith what jackie did to them, pasalamat sya she's even called by her first name
DeleteGive the kid a break. Jusko hindi naman ma showbiz tong batang to. Bat ba siya binabash. Kayo ba iniwan ng mama? Kayo ba nakakaalam kung ano talaga yung nangyari? He has his reasons.
ReplyDeletemalalaman natin nag mga nangyari pagkapanganak ni Jackie. Gaya nga ng sabi niya na ang choices lang nila ay ang sagutin ang mga sinasabi ni Jackie or magdemanda kaso hindi nila magawa dahil alam nilang totoo ang mga sinasabi niya.
DeleteHindi ko gets bakit kay Jackie yung sympathy ng tao. Porke't sya ang ina or something. Forgiveness should not be forced. Kung ayaw nila kobe, then fine. They don't talk ill about their mother. They just don't talk about her. They have their own lives now so dapat move on move on na lang. The kids are not cursing Jackie or whatever.
ReplyDelete1.12, you know that there a lot of ways on how to disrespect and curse and also ways on how to show respect, right??
DeleteI'm not siding Jackie, in fact there's a doubt in me na malaki ang kasalanan ni Jackie na ginawa sa 2 anak nya. But to address your biological mother sa first name nya, OMG, how disrespectful you are.
ReplyDeletehow judgemental you are? leave them alone..haha
DeleteI totally side with Jackie. There's remorse. There's respect. There's forgiveness. The latter two aren't being granted. As if both Kobe and Andre are better than God. Shame on them.
DeleteNormal lang yan in developed societies. Dito lang yan sa third world, backward mentality Pilipinas naging big deal.
Delete- first world person
Di nyo ba gets na yung step mom nila kinoconsider nilang mom. Bkit ba ang kukulit nyo?
DeleteLumabas na maka-Lyxen jan purihin sa pagpapalaking tama si Kobe pati na si Andre! Tapos sasabihin epekto ng pagabandona ni Jackie blah blah blah.
ReplyDeleteBakit sinasabihan si Kobe na hindi magiging successful sa career niya dahil wala syang utang na loob na anak? Duh!!! Yung politicians natin na sobra kung magnakaw ang eh naging successful din naman sa politics. Point is, stop associating Kobe's attitude towards her kom with his attitude towards his career. Seriously, he is one hell of a basketball player. The kid is pretty much okay, attitude wise. Hayaan niyo sya sa buhay niya. Wala kayong alam kung ano yung nangyari.
ReplyDeleteMagiging nba player man sya, magiging mailap tagumpay unless he forgives and knows how to show respect to his mom. D magiging lubos na masaya pag galit ang pinapairal
Delete2:54, psychologist ka? O plain judgmental lang?
DeleteDaming nag aadvice kasi mga wala namang alam sa totoong nangyari. Epal lang nung nag comment.
ReplyDeleteI know, right?
DeleteIf B&L are good parents, they know it is wrong and Kobe must be corrected. Unless, It would be ok for them Kobe misbehaving towards his own mom and they are happy about it
ReplyDeleteNothing wrong withwhat kobe did
DeleteMay brainwash theory pang nalalaman yung nag comment! Kaloka! Masyadong nagmamarunong.
ReplyDeleteTao lang din si Kobe. Bata pa siya. Nauubos din naman siguro yung pansensiya niya sa mga bashers sa social media. Mga tao kasi ang galing mang bash, wala naman talagang alam. Kung tutuusin, nananahimik yung bata sa States. Wag niyo nang guluhin yung buhay nya mga walang magawang bashers
ReplyDeleteWe are not in the position to judge. We dont even know the whole story.
ReplyDeleteIts their personal issue, not ours. And if you think about it, the issue never came from Benjie or the kids. Its always from Jackie.
Jackie can only do so much.
DeleteBuhay nyo atupagin nyo di buhay ng ibang tao. Let them be.
ReplyDeletejan mo makikita na hindi talaga maganda ang ginawang pagpapalaki sa mga batang ito. embarrassing not only for #KobeParas but for the woman who raised her ang pagtawag niya ng Jackie sa kanyang biological mother.
ReplyDeleteSayang, produkto ka pa naman ng catholic school.
Sama ng ugali bastos!! sana di ka sumikat look at lebron and other basketball stars they love their mom. Kaw kung makaJackie na utang mo buhay mo. sana ms. Foster man lng ang tinawag mo.
ReplyDeletePagsumikat to lalo tong yayabang
buti unknown ka kase mukhang mas mayabang ka kesa sa kanya e..atleast sya God given yung talent nya sa sports..ikaw ba??
DeletePeople, mind your own business!
ReplyDeleteIf you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen! lol.
DeleteI feel like many commenters put their sentiments first before you know, facts. It's not a difficult concept to grab. Giving birth is not motherhood. Period. Swerte siguro kayo kasi yung nag-anak sa inyo ay mother figure niyo rin. Hindi applicable yang ganyang situation sa lahat ng panahon. What makes a mother is the time, love, devotion she gives to her children... and it just so happened na hindi nila nakuha kay Jackie yun. It's that simple. Sa mata nila, hindi si Jackie ang nanay nila. That's how they feel and no amount of lecturing them about antiquated and, frankly, faulty definition of motherhood will make them change their mind. Leave them be. They only greetd their stepmom on mother's day and did not, in any way, say anything awful about Jackie. Wag magpadala sa awa... ang anak na nasaktan marunong magpatawad, maliban na lang kung grabe grabe ang naranasan nilang sakit.
ReplyDeleteAMEN!
DeleteKobe , ung si Jackie nanay mo pa rin, nakakalungkot kang bata ka, ganda pa naman ng mga sinabi at papuri mo kay lyxen pero parang kahit konting pag galang sa taong nagluwal sayo wala ka, kung hindi ka nga na brainwash anong mabuting naturo sayo ng sinasabi mong mga magulang? Pag naghiwalay ang mag asawa hindi iisa lng ang may kasalanan, dAlawa sila, produkto din ako ng broken family pero never siniraan ng nanay ko ang tatay ko lalo na nung mga bata pa kme until i found out na may kapatid pala ako sa labas na sing tanda ko rin. Dun pa lang nagconfirm ang nanay ko at dahil dun yao hindi na nabuo ang family namin.
ReplyDeletetheir story is different from yours..so you're not in the position to advise or give them a lecture..you never know the reasons why there's a great wall of china between them....leave them alone..
DeleteMahirap kasi na puro insulto ang inaabot ng pamilya Paras lalo pa na nagsimula ito dahil sa post ni Jackie. Mula sa umpisa palang kung marunong siyang maghintay lalapit at lalapit ang mga anak niya sa kaniya. Dahil sa pinagsasabi ni jackie "in jesus name" kuno ay sinisira niya ang kabuhayan ni Benjie, ni Andres at ni Kobe. Ang masaklap pa ay kusang nananahimik ang pamilya para di rin lumabas ang bahong ginawa niya.
ReplyDelete1.29, open book ang buhay ni Jackie, alam ng lahat ang pagkakamali niya before. Yong pamilyang sinasabi mo, nananahimik sila para hindi lumabas ang bahong ginawa nila. It's not the other way around!
DeleteWell 3:18 kahit open book --- kung totoong mahal nga nia anak nia, babaguhin nia ang pagiging mabula nia in public. Ano yan, it is her way or no way at all?!?
DeleteI can't blame him if reacts that way, grabe may judge yung iba as if they are close to these people and they know everything. No mother/parent would put their children in a bad light.
ReplyDeletebut Jackie did!
DeleteGrabe na talaga ang hatred ng batang ito. Nasa maselang kalagayan pa naman si "Jackie" ngayon. Pag may mangyari sa Ina ninyo wiirh her delivery, magpapyesta kayo ha. Pag biglang kunin si "Jackie" ni Lord wag kayong ngunawa ha, bagkos maglumpasay kayo sa tuwa dahil mawalla na ang "favorite people" nyo. Yan yata ang kailangan para matauhan kayo. To Jackie: Let these boys go. They're not worth fighting anymore. Be happy with your children. Concentrate on them, shower them with your love. Your older children do not need you now. Use the power of silence. " Be still and know that i am God", said the Lord. Offer everything to Him.
ReplyDeleteI agree, don't wait for the time when your mom can't post anymore On social media and declare her love anD longing for you because she's already gone. That will be one too painful and too heavy to carry in years to come. You'd wish you can turn Back time. It happens.
DeleteEh sobrang kulit naman kasi ni JACKIE noh!
DeleteEh ano gusto mo itawag nila sa kanya? They do not recognize her as such! Pipilitin mo ba sarili mo kung di mo kaya? Para saan, para maging okay sa inyong mga usisero't usisera?
DeleteAko bilang produkto ng "broken family" mahirap talaga ang sitwasyon na ganyan para sa bata lalo pa kung nandyan ka sa sitwasyon na sikat ang pamilya mo, lalong mas mahirap. Sana lang bigyan niya ng oras ang mga anak niya na mapatawad siya at hindi yung pilitin sila na makipag usap sa paraan ng "blackmail thru social media". Buti na lang hindi nagdedemanda ang pamilya Paras. Hays ang kapatawaran ay nakukuha mula sa pagpapakumbaba at di mula sa pananakot at pagmamanipula.
ReplyDeleteAt their age and upbringing malamang fully aware na sila sa nangyari para magkaroon ng ganyang disposition. Buti pa nga at Jackie lang itinawag sa kanya at hindi dinagdagan ng iba pang derogatory words, fair enough.
ReplyDeletekahit gaano pa kasama ang nanay mo, you cannot deny the fact that you wouldn't be here if she didn't carry you in her womb for 9 months. Kahit yun man lang ang isipin mo. Bata ka pa, you think the world is in the palm of your hand kaya ganyan ka magsalita. I know you are blinded by hate, but try, even for just a moment, to be in her shoes. How would you feel having your own son call you by your first name? Wala man lang respeto kahit katiting. I pray na hindi mangyari sa yo ang ginagawa mo sa nanay mo.
ReplyDeleteDuh, foreigner din si Jackie and sa culture nila, there's nothing wrong whhen parents are called by their first names. Wag masyadong biased na hndi nag-iisip.
DeleteI remember napanood ko nuon sa Startalk si jackie na nag iiiyak sa Airport dahil hindi nya nahabol ang mga anak na itinakas ni Benjie. Kawawa naman..
ReplyDeleteNo respect to his biological mom at all.. tsk tsk... so much hatred in his heart..
ReplyDeletebuti nga may pangalan pa kesa naman na ilagay nya ay That Woman. mas masakit. well irespeto na lang natin ang privacy ng bata. may kamag anak ako na ganyan ang peg. nakipagkalas ang asawa ng tito. hanggang ngayon na lahat sila may sarili ng pamilya, kinalimutan na nila ang tito kahit na nagrereach out sya. nakakaawa tignan pero mapapaisip ka na dapat mag move on na tito kasi hanggang ngayon stuck up sya.
ReplyDeletethe kids treat jackie that way kasi tingnan naman yung mga tirada nia on social media! nakakapuno!!! di ba ma gets ng tao, leave them alone
ReplyDeleteI think these are what lyxen refers to as their "favorite people." Yung mga wala namang alam sa mga totoong nangyari and yet wagas makasawsaw sa issue. Ang daming time ng mga nanay na to for social media ha. Nagdidikta pa. Just leave them alone. Get a life. It's good that Kobe deleted his comment, alam nyang mali ang ginawa nya, calling his biological mom by her first name.
ReplyDeletenabuking kasi ang tunay niyang ugali kaya dinilit kaso na-screen shot.
DeleteNope, hindi nabuking, napuno na lng yung bata. Wag na ksi makielam, di naman tyo kasali
DeleteWalang respeto sa ina nag uwal sa kanya. Sana malaos ka! Ayaw bf nga PInoy ang mga batang walang galang sa ina.
ReplyDeleteansabe mo?
DeleteDo you speak in behalf of all pinoys? Weh. If not then wag kang sumawsaw.
DeleteImbes na makita niyo yung point nung bata sa comment niya which is tantanan na sila and wag agad agad sila I judge based mga mababasa at naririnig LANG sa social media, binigyan niyo ng focus is yung kung pano binanggit ni kobe yung nanay niya. Come on guys, we're more than that! Hayaan naman nating magkaron ng peaceful na buhay yang mga yan. They have their valid reasons kung bakit sila ganyan sa pangyayari
ReplyDeleteApparently, unti lang ang "more than that." Welcome to the Philippine society na mas mahalaga sasabihin ng ibang tao sa kung ano gusto o nararamdaman mo.
DeleteWhy are people reacting negatively that kobe called his biological mom "jackie". Ano gusto ninyo itawag niya, "mommy"? They dont have a relationship. He didnt call her "that woman". Haay typical masang pinoy mentality lol
ReplyDeleteHey! stil hindi pa din magandang pakinggan. Huwag masyadong ipokrito.
DeleteAgree!
DeleteJackie naman kasi talaga pangalan nya.
Korak 2:35. Mga pinoy talaga ang kitid ng utak
DeleteButi na lang im way too educated to know there was nothing wrong with what kobe said.
3:08, so anong gusto mo? Ikaw ba si Kobe para masabi ano ang mas gusto nyang itawag? Mas mahalaga pa sa iyo sasabihin ng ibang tao kaysa sarili nilang nararamdaman e. Outsider ka lang, pare. Wag mangialam.
Deletenonsense reply ni kobe.. 2years alone in US e sino nagpalaki sa iyo before that 2years na sinasabi mo?
ReplyDeleteDaming may alam sa story nila no. Super judgemental. Just cause he called her real mom by her name. Maybe he's not ready to face Jackie. Jackie pushes the reconciliation way too much and she does it too publicly. If she's really sincere she should take the high road and do it quietly to make it sincere. Napuno na Si kobe that's why he lashed back. Everyone is blaming the andre and Kobe for everything. Bakit hindi nila mapa tawad Si jackie, it's their call. They should be able to make decisions without people butting in their personal business and without getting bullied personally and over social media.
ReplyDelete2.37, yeah, it's their call whether to forgive or not. But I think that's impossible to happen co'z brainwashed sila, eh? Meaning, inumpisahang ibrainwash noon hanggang sa maging successful ang pag-brainwash. So 'yong ginagawa ni Jackie ay unloading ng mga pangyayari na maski sa hinagap ay wala silang alam. Nawawalan na siya ng hope kaya dun na siya nagre-resort.
DeleteKobe, your bahavior justifies that you were raised by your stepmom& dad the wrong way. You are so arrogant. Yoa are a good player and one day you will be in the nba but remember this you may be successful but you will never be happy with so much hatred in your heart. Pls respect your birthmom. Look at colin kaepernick of sf 49ers, he is disrespectful to her birthmom just like you. He is a good player, a successful quarterback . He got her athletic skills from her mom just like you & andre got the good looks from your mom.. There is reason for everything that happened. Back to kaepernick, though he is a good player he hasnt achieve a championship . F
ReplyDeletesapol na sapol mo men!!!
DeleteThere is no peace without forgiveness. If you want peace, you have to forgive.
ReplyDeletewell for me tama lang naman ang pag gamit niya ng jackie buti nga hindi 'her' eh. isa pa di ba nga hindi nila kinoconsider na nanay nila si jackie kaya first name lang ang gamit dahil nga para sa kanila si lyxen yung nanay nila.
ReplyDeletesa ngcomment parang g*g* lang nakakainis yung mga taong nasasabi na nabrainwash parang nakakaoffend na bakit wala ba sariling pagiisip yan para hindi makita ang tama at mali. base kasi sa picture na pinopost ni jackie malaki na magkapatid dun may isip na sila hindi na pede burahin sa memory nila if even na naging mabuti si jackie that time dahil tatak yun sa utak ng mga bata. at parang sure na sure siya ah.
for me lang siguro ayaw na talaga nila pagusapan kasi ayaw nila maiskandalo lahat naman tayo may bagay na ayaw natin pagusapan. makulit lang talaga tong si jackie eh siya gumagawa ng sarili niyan ikakasakit.
HOY KOBE MAGTIGIL KA. YANG TINAWAG MONG JACKIE KAHIT BALIBALIGTARIN ANG TATAY MO AT STEP MOM MO...BAKA MAGISING KA SA ULIRAT MO NA ANG TINATAWAG MONG JACKIE ANG NAGBIGAY NANG NAKAKAANGAT NA MUKHA. KUNG NAGKATAON NA SI LYXEN TOTOO MONG NANAY, MANALAMIN KA NGA SA MGA KAPATID MO.
ReplyDeleteSige nga Kobe kung ayaw mo talaga sa nanay mo eh ibalik mo mukha mo sa kanya. Total height lang naman namana mo kay benjie.
ReplyDeletepara sa akin, hindi pinalaki ng maayos ni benjie at nung stepmom nila sina kobe at andre, whatever it is that happened in the past, sana tinuruan nila yung bata na hindi lumaking may galit sa nanay nila. ang rami naman jan nag hihiwalay na mag asawa pero they spare their kids sa gulo because they are not mentally matured and ready to comprehend what is going on thus the anger towards their parents. ao man naging kasalanan ni Jackie atleast binuhay nya ang bata at di pinamigay kung kani-kanino. Mag ingat kayo Kobe and Andre, nakaka Karma ang iyak ng nanay.
ReplyDeleteNone of our business. Who are we to judge when we don't know anything about what went on and what they had to go through.
ReplyDeleteHe addressed his biological mother as "JACKIE"???? To the highest level ang kabastusan ng lalake na yan. He could have called her "MISS JACKIE" just to show some respect not as a mother if he doesn't consider her one Atleast as an older person. So disgusting!
ReplyDeleteBrainwashing doesn't happen overnight. It builds up overtime. Baka nakakalimutan ng Kobe na yan na lumaki cya sa stepmom and sa dad nya. Yung ganung age madaling ma-brainwash ang mga bata. Just saying!
ReplyDeletegi adopt lang ni Kobe ang ugali ng mga Kano. Ganyan sa America ninsan pa ngalan lang talaga tawag nila sa Nanay at tatay nila. Lali na pag in laws nila first nne lang tawagan.
ReplyDeleteim not a mom pero i feel sorry for jackie. grabe ang mga anak nya, kahit ano pa ang pagkakamali ng nanay nyo sa mga anak nya dapat konting respeto naman. nasa 10 commandments of God to honor your mother and father. sana lang mas naging matinong tatay rin si benjie para hindi naman ganyan ang mga bata sa nanay nila. kawawa si jackie kasi ganyan ang treatment ng mga anak nya. masama yang ginagawa ng mga anak nya, i still believe in karma..maybe this is jackie's karma pero wag sana antayin ng mga anak na danasin rin nila ang bad karma sa pagtrato nila sa tunay nilang ina. sana maayos nila yan lawakan ang pagiisip at unawain na nila ang nangyari noon kasi tapos na yun matagal na sana matuto na rin magpatawaran, after all ina pa rin nila si Jackie kaya respeto sana.
ReplyDeleteLol e d wow kobe!
ReplyDeletemagkakaroon lang ng time magpatawad ang paras brothers kapag tumigil maging pushy si jackie on social media
ReplyDeleteReaching out to them via social media is so fake
Ginagawa nyang pang fiesta buhay nila
NA GUSTONG GUSTO ng maraming echoserang pinoy para MAKISAWSAW magbigay ng advice kuno
Mga feeling magaling at perpekto
Try nyo kaya imagine sarili nyo sa paras brothers
Tapos yung nanay nyo mega kwento sa kapitbahay sa prob ng pamilya nyo at lalapitan kayo ng di nyo kilalang tao para mag ADVICE
Yan problema ng pinoy
Guys, respect is earned.
Nanahimik nuon yun magkapatid at no comment lang
Pero what happened?
Masyado nag ingay si jackie
Sana sumuporta na lang sya in silent sa mga anak
Be the better person and protect your kids sa mga taong tulad ni basher na pakialamero
ayusin gulo personally
Its more genuine than in social media
Kobe's right, we dont know and we will never know what they went through in their childhood just because of Jackie. All we know is the paawa & drama queen posts of Jackie in social media. And yes we are brainwashed. Lets not forget that a mother is NOT just someone who carries a child in her womb. Being a mother is MORE than that. And maybe for these 2 boys, thats where the conflict begun. So lets leave the PARAS' brothers alone. They have been harassed enough, by Jackie and now by all these people who thinks they know enough to comment such things. Let the boys live their lives and for Jackie to solve her own problems.
ReplyDelete. chilax lang ganyan ang mga bata sa america .
ReplyDeleteMadaling tawaging INA, pero mahirap MAGPAKA INA. PAK! Nag ring na yung bell uwian na class!
ReplyDeletesa mga taong humuhusga sa mga anak ni jackie foster na masama.sana naiisip nyo daw na may possibleng pngyyari n di ntn alm kung bkit gnyan sila ktigas..may mga pngyyari n di ntn alm at sila lng nkkaalm..at sa mga nkikisawsaw wala kayunv krapatang pahsabihin yung mga snk nila kasi di nman kau andun nung time na nhihiraon mgadjust yung mga ank nila nung iniwann sila..may time Para sa forgiveness..if she really sincere keep it private sa pkikioagreconcile nya sa ank nya..
ReplyDeleteI don't care what their story is - calling your mother on first name basis is NOT right.
ReplyDeleteyung iba nga dyan nagawang itago ng ina sa public for many years at hindi sya naging ina for those years pero nagawa pa din magpatawad ng bata. I hope kobe will someday learn how to let go and forgive
ReplyDeleteI dont think malayo ang mararating nito sa pagbabasketball.... kahit ano pang rason dapat isipin pa din kung saan sya nangaling. Kahit may galit sya or what he needs to forgive and wag bastusin ang tunay na nagluwal sakanya...
ReplyDeleteNakakainis lang rin yung mga nagcocomment na sana magpatawad na sina kobe, pinalaki sila nang mali, hindi sila magiging successful sa buhay, etc. Pwede ba wag magmarunong! Wala naman kayo sa pwesto ng mga bata. Madali at magaling kayo mag advice, puro kayo salita, palibhasa hindi naman kayo sila. Wag nyo silang diktahan! Galing nyo grabe
ReplyDeleteThis is really so sad. Tsk! Good luck on your chosen career Kobe, wish you reach NBA.
ReplyDeleteContradicting naman pala ang sinasabi ng Iba na you were raised well and good. When it comes to your stepmom and dad ganda ng mga sinasabi nyo, when it comes to your real mom, she doesn't exist. Is that how you were raised well and good?
ReplyDeleteKahit gano kalaki kasalanan ng magulang, walang karaparan ang anak to disrespect him/her. Hating one's parents is tantamount to disrespecting God kaya laging sinasabi na one will not be blessed pag lagi kang galit sa magulang.
ReplyDeleteUgali bg anak nagrereflect sa magulang kung pano sila hinayaang lumaki ng may hatred grabe..
ReplyDelete