Nobody will understand how she feels lalo na kung di kayo mga ina.She's an adult now,she's changed.These kids are bitter.Jackie should just focus on her kids now who loves her unconditionally.- Isa ring ina,I feel her.
if you truly practice what you preach jackie, maybe your kids will reach out to you. ikaw naman kasi ang kuda ng kuda sa social media. do it in private before things get out of proportion. those things that you have started and those you threatened to expose is like a ticking time bomb. baka mas magsisi ka sa huli pag tuluyan ka ng iwan at kalimutan ng mga anak mo.
Eh diba nga tinry na yun. Kaya nga nagsasalita si Jackie sa social media dahil ni ayaw siyang kausapin privately. So she's telling everything publicly para kahit papaano eh makarating sa mga jugets.
2:22 hindi mo kailangan maging ina para maintindihan ang situation nila. try mo rin minsan ilagay ang sarili mo sa kalagayan ng mga bata na yan. para open ka sa mga situations nila pareho. hindi lang dahil sa ina ka kaya mas naiintindihan mo si Jackie.
and fyi, hindi lahat ng nagka-anak eh nagiging "ina"
Hindi mo dapat ipilit sa tao na patawarin ka. Hayaan mong kusa nilang gawin pag ready na sila. Hindi natin alam ang dahilan ng magkapatid kung bakit matigas pa rin sila. Hindi nanan ibig sabihin nun na they're still living in the past.
I am a my Mom's child. My Mom committed many mistakes towards me. She left me when I was a year old. But not even once na nagalit ako sa kanya. At the end of the day, she's my Mom. My biological Mom, who gave birth to me. I forgave her, and that made everything right. Nawala ang galit sa puso ko, at nawala ang mabigat na dinadala nya. Message to you, Andre and Kobe: Learn to forgive and forget. You can never go wrong with those two things :)
Ang dali mong magsabing stop living in the past. We all become who we are because of our experiences, which are the past. Your decisions, perspectives, and points of view were all because of who you were and how you were treated.
Bka nman mapatawad nla si jackie, un nga lang cguro kung patay na... thats how cruel andre and kobe to their mom... di nman siguro mgllbas sama loob ung tao s social media kung feeling nya e di sya ssbog s sama ng loob...
Just because you carry them inside your womb for nine months makes you a mother. Just because you were young when you got married excuses you for failing your children. Just because you consider the responsibilities of being a parent as sacrifices when in fact those are your basic responsibilities ,makes you entitled to their acceptance. just because you felt wronged and entitled to those children does not give you the right to shatter their quiet and peaceful existence so you can achieve the justice you want in your own terms and own time line. What a sad sorry case of a woman who thinks that she is being a parent.
Hay nako 2:22 we're living in the MODERN WORLD already... At hindi porket ina ka na, hindi mo na mararamdaman ang kalagayan ng 2 bata, baket? Di ba naging BATA ka rin naman muna bago ka naging INA? Kaya dapat alam mo rin paano ilalagay ang sarili mo sa sitwasyon nung 2 bata... Msyado mo naman ata hinuhusgahan yung mga bata na bitter, eh paano magiging bitter yung dalawa eh napaka-successful na in their own respective fields, acting and basketball, so ano ba dapat ika-bitter nila? Baka nga si jackie ang bitter kasi nakikita niya yung mga anak niya kay benj eh may napatunguhan na KAHIT WALA SIYA samantalang yung mga anak niya sa IBANG LALAKI na siya mismo nagpalaki eh NGANGA! So tell me again who's bitter? Hala magsaing ka na baka nagugutom na yung mga anak mo at inuna mo pa makipagchismisan 'NAY!
2:22, are you sure the kids are bitter... they have moved on, quite well apparently... it's their so-called mother who hounds them and obliges them to understand her just because she is 'their mother'... before you ask the boys to change, jackie must learn to give them properly respect her kids... the way she publicizes every sentiment doesnt help remedy their situation...
Mothers are selfless individuals. They care more about their children than their own self. If she was that kind of mother even at a young age then maybe they will still be close. Blaming everything and everyone aside from yourself is wrong. I think she should send her kinds short and loving messages, no drama via text or dm or pm, no publicity. Pagtyagaan nya, sabi nga pakuluan mo mabuti ang karne at lalambot din yun.
if you have a stepmother who is so good to you, yong kulang na lang ang ipinanganak ka niya... yon ang difference ni jackie sa asawa ni benjie. ipinanganak lang niya yong mga bata.
I feel sorry for Benjie and the boys, this woman will stop at nothing until she gets what she wants, no matter how it hurts everyone. Jackie, don't think that making threats will win you any favours with your kids, it will be the opposite.
Crazy woman, she started this brouhaha even though it hurt her own sons yet she still threatening to make more trouble after she has given birth. How about focusing on the children she has with her and let Andre and Kobe be until they're ready to face her.
I feel her anguish as a mother myself, masakit talaga sa isang ina na itakwil ka ng sarili mong anak o hindi ka mahalin. Pero may mga tao talaga na pag hindi lumaki sa isang parent, tlgang malayo ang loob or walang amor. Dapat noon pa nya ipinaglaban ang mga anak nya. Hindi reason yung bata pa cya or di nya alam ggawin nya or powerful yung other party. Lahat sila may mali d2, but she should just stop her ranting, lalong lumalayo loob nung mga anak nya and the more na naku-compare cya sa step mom nila na tahimik lng at di nagrarant o di pumapatol. Let time heal the wounds. If cya nga ang victim dito, keep quiet na lng. God knows the truth, kung talagang naniniwala cya na alam ng Dyos and totoo. Di n nya kailangan pang ipapansin, bka kung she'll play the underdog, magka amor pa yung mga anak nya, kc they will to themselves na nasasaktan nanay nila. But the more na palaban cya, lalo lng nagkkarason yung mga anak nya na lumayo loob sa kanya. Sa pagrarant nya, cno ba npphiya? Cyempre mga anak nya, kya lalong nwawalan ng amor sa kanya. If she truly is a Christian and believes is God, ipagpapasa Dyos nya n lng lahat. Sa ginagawa nya pagkahol kahol, parang lumalabas na gulity cya kya panay rant nya.
tama!!! tapos ang mga kuda nya pinapalabas nya na sya ang biktima at wala syang ginawang mali.. ewan ko sa babaeng ito. ina din ako pero itong ginagawa nya para hindi na tama..
for a mom jackie is just so self-centered and selfish...it's always about her...about her sacrifices daw what about her 2 kids???what about their pain???what about everything they went through when jackie was "finding herself"...everything she says alienates kobe and andre more...why doesn't she humble herself, own up to her mistakes(as she said she was young then) and try to make peace...reach out without coming on too strong and combative...as long as she fights and say bad things about benjie and the wife I doubt she would have a chance of having a relationship with andre and kobe
Ang dami mong banta Jackie. Miski ilang beses mong i rant sa social media na hindi mo inabandona ang mga anak mo waley pa rin sa kanila dahil ang dada mo. Just accept the fact that they don't want to have anything to do with you right now and stop making things difficult for them.
Ok lang block mo ko. Di naman kita follow. Seriously girl, you need to see a shrink. Why can't u just be happy to see that ur kids are well taken care of, and they are happy. All u do is whine and act selfishly.
wag nating masyadong husgahan si Jackie..hindi natin nararamdaman kung gaano ang pangungulila nya sa mga anak nya kay Benjie..kung gaano kasakit yung nararamdaman nya sa di pagpansin sa kanya bilang ina..ilang taon na ang nakalipas.
Hay naku Jackie, the more you talk on issues about Andre & Kobe, the more na lumalayo ang loob nila sayo. Quiet ka na lang. Isipin mo nlng in God's time, magiging ok din ang lahat.
Please take your battles within the confines of your own home. You are still ranting in social media . It will alienate your kids from you. Do yourself a favor and learn how to be patient. The reality is that your children are nearly adults and you can scream and shout all you want but if they are not ready as you have been informed, then you can not get what you are claiming as yours. Love acceptance respect is given and earned, those are the truths in life.
tapos nagtataka pa siya at nasasaktan kung bakit ayaw sa kanya ng anak niya sa tingin niya ba tama ang ginagawa niya hay nako jackie.pasalamat pa nga dapat siya at hindi sya sinisiraan ng mga anak nya. kung siraulo lang ang mga yan at wala talaga pakialam baka before pa nakwento na nila kung anu ba talaga ngyari but hindi nila yun ginawa dba tahimik lang sila so sa tingin ko nirerespeto padin sya nila.
only proves how ell they were raised by benjie and their stepmom. grabe lang itong nanay nila bakit nagwawala na e yang may isisilang pa pala syang bagong baby. bat di sa bata ifocus ang attention at kalimutan na negativity na sya din naman ang nagsimula
6:21 am there is nothing fishy about it darling. It is called decency and not fueling the fire. It's about keeping your mouth shut in behalf of one's family and for the sake of his children's dignity despite being attacked by a rabid person in the media. It is about a man who knows how to value his family and who knows where to draw the line between his public and private life. It is a demonstration on how to be a parent.
6:21, Dahil mahal ni Benjie ang family nya. Sa mga nangyayari sa kanila, walang panalo. Pag sumagot si benjie, sasagot din c Jackie. Walang katapusang sagutan . Lalaki lalo ang issue at gugulo lalo ang buhay ng 2 nyang anak. Kung titingnan, may katiting pa din na paggalang ang mga bata kay Jackie, kasi kung mga t*******o sila baka matagal na silang nakipagsagutan sa ina nila.
Mga may aral kasi ang anak mo at ang pamilya ngayon ni Benjie, nananahimik na sila at huwag mo na sila gambalain pa masyadon kasing pang skwalalumpur mga istilo mo, hindi uubra sakanila yan. Ako may asawa at ang asawa ko may anak sa pagkabinata, yung nanay ng bata ganyan ang ugali din, pero hindi namin pinapansin kasi ayaw namin bumaba sa level ng taong walang moral.
Wow at napaka moral mo para sabihing walang moral yung Nanay ng anak ng asawa mo sa pagkabinata. Sana Lang teh, walang anak sa labas yang asawa mo after you. Iinis mo! Bakit ano ba level mo?
Baka naman hindi marunong magpaka-ama ang asawa mo sa anak nya sa pagkabinata. At ikaw binabawalan mo din asawa mo na sustentuhan e magwawala nga #peace
3:00. We don't even know the real reason behind their failed relationship. I heard Jackie had another man. It was in the papers when they broke up years ago. It was even in the news. But then again, who knows?
??? Bakit? Anak ba ni Benjie si Jacky? OMG!!! Kitid ka din. I know she was young but matanda na siya ngayon. She made a mistake then and continue makinbg a mistake now by publicly really runting. Won't win her a mother of the year award from her kids.
In the first place, na-prevent dapat ang galit nila Andre and Koby. Nasa pag-handle yan ni Benjie at Lyxen. But it seems na sila na mismo naglayo sa loob ng mga bata kay Jackie. Tsk tsk
bakit te sure ka bang di inalagaan ni Benjie si Jackie? nandoon ka nong mangyari lahat ng 'to? ina sya at asawa, dapat habang kasal sila pinakita nya dapat ang pagiging ina at ang pagiging asawa nya.. sure ka bang wala ding pag kukulang si Jackie? kasi kung totoong nagpa-ina sya sa mga anak nya dapat nong naghiwalay sila sinigurado nyang makukuha nya anak nya or kung hindi man dahil wala syang stable job at least sinigurado man lang nya na mabigyan sya ng karapatang dalawin ang mga anak nya..
Haha the relationship was consensual . She was very young , true but she was no angel. Having an affair while being married you mean makes a woman a saint. Oh please.
And that makes her an outcast? Are you saying that kapag ang lalaki had an affair, it's ok because lalaki sya? What a lame thinking. And besides Jackie has learned her mistakes and changed her life, doesn't she deserve a second chance. She is trying to reach out to her sons, she's the biological mother, masama ba yon? She never asked them to love her back but at least to recognize her kahit bilang tao. Is that too much to ask for? Para sa isang ina na nagluwal sa anak?
She's a mother, give her a break. at least in the future when all is said and done and settled, no one will say that she didn't try. kahit na malayo ang loob ng mga bata sa nanay, they should have at least treat her with respect. all these posts about their love for their stepmother really gets to me. walang masama pero parang ang lalim na ng sugat ni jackie, nilalagyan pa ng asin nung dalawang anak. what i don't understand is, saan galing ang sobrang galit nila sa nanay nila. other children misses their mother kahit na anong sakit ginawa ng mothers nila sa kanila, sila parang sobra, and it doesn't make sense. now, the stepmother should have at least advice them not to rub it on their mother na, and benjie, it all boils down to him. kung pinalaki nya ng tama ang mga anak and not bad mouth her, walang panggagalingan ang galit na yan. she's their mother for god's sakes, wala man lang silang masabing hindi maganda, at least respetohin ma lang. there's dignity in silence. magsisisi sila sa huli. i promise.
I totally agree with you....that step mother could have been an instrument to bridge the gap but she is not doing anything. And that post, it's like kicking Jackie whilst she is already down on the floor. What has she done to deserve such treatment? Is she has gone astray there must have been a valid reason, tama perhaps she was not treated and loved well. She made mistake and corrected her life. She just wanted to reach out to her sons but they totally closed all doors and windows on her. Let's say si Benjie ang nagloko, ok lang kasi lalaki...pero kapag babae, unforgivable na? What a double standard.
How do you know what the stepmother had done. The kids do have the right to choose and make a decision. The last time the kids were interviewed they said to give them time and space. Yet their so called mother continuously harasses them , make threats and constantly vilifying the father. It's good that they have not ask for a restraining order against her. The so called mother needs to shut up . The court favored Benjie , it means she did not have whatever capacity to take care of them.
God forbid, if i were Benjie i will never let this psycho enter my kids' lives ever again. Who knows what else this self-centered woman is capable of doing? It's gonna be like welcoming a hell to happen. She needs professional help. She needs to fix herself first seriously, she is very disturbed. Not normal for a mother who claims she truly loves her kids.
Why can't she just be thankful that her boys are well taken cared of and are growing up as fine men? This is despite her absence. And why would she threaten them just because of her sons' posts? Those were loving and respectful posts as tribute to a woman who has shared her life to children who are not her own.
A mother is a mother is a mother. No matter what she'll do anything for her child. She's a woman too who has needs of her own. She needs to have someone who will accept her and her past, someone who will support her financially and emotionally, someone who will be with her in times of good and bad. If Benjie can move on and have another wife, why can't Jackie. She's blessed with a good man who not only accepted her but loves and respects her as woman, as a wife and as mother. Despite of that I think Jackie still feel incomplete, she needs her older boys not for material things but their love and respect and presence In her life. A mother's love is always greater than anybody can imagine. Don't blame her for what she's doing, you are not in her shoe. She's sacrificed her reputation and credibility on social media just to be noticed by her kids. You think it's easy for her, it's not. While the other party stays quiet about her rats, why do you think they ignore her, because they know the truth is out there. These boys may have grown up like they should be, proper, neat, good looking, talented but others are two things the people around them forgot to embed into their heart and mind.... Respect and Forgiveness. I'm a mother of 14 years old, my husband abandoned us seven years ago And lived with another woman, but I never instilled into my sons minD to hate his father nor disrespect him in any way even though in seven years up to present he never showed up in my son's life or even supported us financially. So please to some people here, wag po tayo double standard, Jackie may have flirted with others doesn't mean she forgot her love for her children at that time, kapag lalaki ang nangaliwa, Okey Lang kasi lalaki yan, pero pag babae it's such a big issue. Kapag ang babae turned their attention to other man, there's something wrong in the,house, she must have felt neglected unloved and not needed and deceived. Don't you know that their marriege was null and void, which means they were never married in the first place, ask Benjie why. I guess that's one of the things Jacke will tackle in the future, so stay tuned.
What is the scientific basis that there is something in the house as the main reason for those extramarital affairs? Some women experiment , some women go for the thrill , some women have self esteem issues and some women have psychological issues. Delude yourself.
Anon 1:24 Sabi mo nga some women seek for the thrill, but some women who seek love and affection outside the relationship Always has a reason. Well I don't blame you If have done that just for the heck of it, you're just being true to yourself that you can't live in a monogamous relationship. He he he he!
Some women just have loose morals. Wag ng ijustify ang panlalalake niya noon. It is not uncommon to be dissatisfied and unhappy with one's marriage but not every woman who find themselves in this situation fool around. It all boils down to your values.
7:47 HONEY IT DOES NOT PERTAIN TO ME, I have been in a very secure relationship for donkey years. My first and my last. I am just educating 7:44 am, some women have a happy home yet still play.
Dapat tanggapin na ni Jackie na ayaw siyang kilalanin ng two boys niya. Dapat ipagpasa-dios na lang niya ang lahat. Dapat ipakita niya na masaya siya kahit hindi siya kilalanin. Dapat isipin niya na lang na nagamit lang siya ng panahon para showbiz career ng dalawa. Hay naku, inuubos lang ni Jackie ang mga oras niya sa mga walang kwentang bagay. I bet 'yong mga maka-two boys diyan babaliktad at magiging maka-jackie ngayon. LOL. Sala sa init, sala sa lamig ano??
Sa lahat ng mga comments dito, ito lang talaga ang may award. Hayaan na kasi sila. Matatanda na yung 2 boys. Kung ayaw nila eh di wag. Nagawa na ni Jackie ang part niya trying to reach out to them. It's more than enough.
We can't blame Jackie for doing such things but we also can't blame the kids kung bakit sila ganun kay Jackie. I hope all will be well in God's perfect time. But sa ngayon... Ms. Jackie, magfocus ka muna sa 3 kiddos mo na super bagets pa. Especially kay Caleigh and kay Y. You are loved by them.
A & K, find time to think things through and to talk to your mom privately. Settle the unsettled and if you don't feel like talking to her again after that, wag niyo na kausapin.
You already have a wonderful husband and soon to be 3 beautiful children with him. Concentrate on those who deserve your love and attention. Do not let this hurt and negativity affect your wonderful family. God gave you this chance to be happy and do things right. Be happy with yourself and Andre and Kobe may want to be with you down the road.
Yeah, didn't you readher posts...she has admitted that all emotional turmoil was brought about by so many incidents in her life since she got pregnant at 15!! She was not even supposed to be a mother at that age and Benjie didn't take precautions knowing full well that he was already 25 that time. Shame on him for taking advantage of a child!
diyos ko te tapos na yong "get pregnant at 15".. dapat nga maging mas marami na syang alam ngayon at maging matured ang pag iisip.. ang hirap kasi kay Jackie hindi nalang tanggapin ang nangyari sa past and move on.. bakit pa babalik-balikan ang nakaraan wala na sya magagawa doon di na nya yon mauulit pa.. ang gawin nya nalang is magpatawad at kausapin ang mga taong nakasakit sa kanya at magpatawaran then for sure susunod na yong gusto nyang makipag-usap at maging malapit sa anak nya.. hanggang di pa nya ma-let go ang past nya walang mangyayari sa future nya..
hindi pede ireason yan 15 palang sya that time nuong unang panahon marami ng maaga magbuntis. hindi lang siya ang unang taong nabuntis ng ganyan edad meron pa nga 13 years old lang. kung anu man ang ginawa niya that time pinili niyang gawin yun
just be thankful maayos mga bata.. ung achievement ni andre ngayon, lalo na si kobe, pambihira. kung hindi inalagaan ni benjie and wifey mabuti mga yan, edi sana hindi sila achiever ngayon. bihira ganung blessings sa mga bata....ngayon, isipin mo. kung masama mga anak mo at daddy and stepmom nila, bakit sila nabibigyan ng ganyang blessings? sige nga....
For sure thankful naman si jackie sa maayos na pagpapalaki ni benjie and wife sa mga anak nya. What she wanted lng naman is to make peace with his sons. Hindi naman siguro masama iyon. Hindi nya naman siguro agawin ang mga anak nya ky benjie coz she has her own family din naman. Kung nagkamali sha before, whats important is that she recognized it and learned from her mistakes. Kaya nga ang una una nyang ginawa eh, to go with her sons kaya lng dinedma sha.
Sinabi lang naman ng mga boys kung gaano nila ka love ang stepmom. Wala silang sinabi na kinamumuhian nila ang kanilang biological mom. Nag state lang sila ng truth na inalagaan sila ng stepmom at ina appreciate nila ito. Walang parinig o sumbat tungkol sa biological mom sa mga nabasa ko. Paano sila naging disrespectful? Nasaktan man si Jackie sa mga post na ito, hindi iyon ang motibo ni Kobe at Andre.
Oh really? Perhaps they profuse their love for the step mom in such an innocent public notion but they are old enough to realize that doing so could consequently hurt the biological mom who has been trying to reach out to them. Very inconsiderate. That to me feels like a swipe at Jackie for crying out loud.
Kung imoral si Jackie e ano pa si Benjie? P!! Dapat nga nakulong siya to begin with! 25 siya noon tapos si Jackie e 15 pa lang!! Napansin ko hindi maayos ang pagpapalaki sa 2 anak nila nung stepmom, parang ang sasama ng ugali, lalo na si Kobe. Parang hindi gentleman kung umasta, sobrang bastos at maangas. Kung ayaw nila kay Jackie hindi nila kailangang bastusin ang nanay nila. kahit kakarampot na respeto na lang sana ibigay nila sa taong nagluwal sa kanila, kung naturuan man sila nun.
bakit anu pambabastos ba ginawa nila? eh hindi nga nila pinapatulan yan mga novelang post ni jackie tahimik lang sila. maari mo silang tawagin bastos o walang respeto kung kada post ni jackie sinasagot nila eh hindi naman diba tahimik nga sila eh.
Hayaan nyo na si Jackie, hindi naman natin talaga alam kung ano ang mga nangyari sa kanila noon. Ang habol lang naman nya is pansinin sya ng mga bata. Lahat tayo nagkakamali, pero mas mali siguro kung hindi tayo marunong magpatawad. Malalaki na mga anak ni Jackie, dapat alam na nila ang tama at mali, kahit gaano pa sila nasaktan nung iniwan sila ni Jackie nung bata pa sila eh hindi enough na dahilan para tratuhin nila yung nanay nila ng ganun. Napakasakit sa isang ina na hindi ka kilalanin ng anak mo.. Sa opinyon ko lang naman sana hindi nalang nagpost ng mothers day greeting yung magkapatid para sa stepmom nila. Naawa lang talaga ako kay Jackie..
Sa totoo lang, nakakainis ang mga ganitong pag iisip. Masyado kang presumptuous na walang forgiveness, na bastos yung mga bata. Hindi mo ba naisip, na kaya hindi sila nakikipagusap Ay dahil tingin nila ito ang mas tamang gawin? Sa mga kilos ni Jackie napaghahalatang wala syang pinagbago. Kung mag post man ng kung anong greeting yung mga bata, problema na ng mga readers tulad ni Jackie kung paano nila tatanggapin yun. D masama maawa, pero hindi iyon rason para mahusgahan mo ng mali ang iba.
sabihin mo yan kay jackie na magpatawad sya at humingi din sya ng tawad sa mga nasaktan nya.. hindi yong lagi nalang nya biniblame si benjie at kung sino paman na kesyo di nya maka-usap mga anak nya.. eh sino namang anak makakapag patawad or gustong kumausap sa ganyang klaseng ina na binubulgar mga problema ng pamilya in public.. kalimutan nalang ni jackie and nakaraan instead i-try nyang kausapin in peaceful way sina benjie at kung sino paman gusto nya kausapin.. now kung di pa sila ready eh di mag hintay sya..
sana hindi nalang nagpost ng ganun? bakit si jackie naisip niya ba mga anak niya nung ngpost siya ng kung anu anu hinanakit niya sa IG dba hindi din naman.
Anon 5:42 dapat Siguro Si Benjie dapat ganun din, magpatawad din at kalimutan na nakaraan, pagbatiin nya mga anak Nya at ina nito, yun ang napakagandang aksyon na magagawa nya para matigil na rin Si Jacke. Bilang sya naman itong nakatatanda, habang nanahimik sya, habang ganyan ang trato nila sa ina nila, I guess Jackie will not just sit in the corner and do nothing. You should understand iba IBA ang nanay, me maingay. Me tahimik, meron namang pinapasa Dyos na Lang, meron ding pinapipilitan ang sarili kahit na sinusuka na, pero isa Lang NASA puso nila malalim na pagmamahal sa mga anak. I believe Jackie is a very strong woman, opinionated and fierce, she'll do anything for her kids to,recognize her as their mother. hindi madali kapalan ang mukha at magmukhang epal sa mata ng Iba, but she's not turning her back, she's very determined.
Her style and tactics at trying to win her kids back are obviously not working. Lalo nya lng sila inaantagonize. Sige, reveal your "truths" some more. Tingnan ko lng kung emepek yan.
Grabe! Matinding pang brainwashed ni benjie sa mga anak nya.Hatred to their mom..bitter lng tlga eh may wife na rin nman sya..hindi mgnda ang pagpapalaki ni benjie.kung ano man kasalanan ni jackie nuon sa knlang dalwa lng un,nadamay lng un mga bata..under custody kc ni benjie un anak nya.not financially capable si jackie to support the kids.parang un mga anak ni chiz sa knya din..for me .may isip na cla but si benjie ang matigas di manlang iguide un anak ng tama..balang araw maiintindihan ng mga batang yan kapag nag asawa cla at di rin nag work out..ang karma laging nanjan lng.
I'm not painting Jackie as some sort of victim in this, obviously she also has fault - but a lot of us forget that she was 15 when she started living in with Benjie Paras who is 10 years older than her. That is statutory rape! She was a mother at 16. A lot of people would say well she got herself into that kind of situation so she has to deal with it - but didn't Benjie also got himself into that kind of situation, i.e., taking a 15 year old as his wife, getting her pregnant at 16, then again, and allegedly not lending enough emotional support for the young mother who must have been clueless as to what she was supposed to do? It seems to me that Jackie is being unfairly blamed for the consequences of both her and Benjie's actions.
Pwedeng magpatawad mahirap nga lang makalimot. Parang ako, iniwan ako ng mom ko 9 m0nths palang ako she went abroad. di daw kasi nya kaya pambababae ng tatay ko. lumipas 4 na taon mangilan ngilan beses ko lang natatandaan na tinawagan nya kami. dalaga na ko nung bumisita sya 14 y.o ako una kaming nagkita. Okay na sana. bumalik sya nung 16 ako and nung 19. Nung nag 23 ako last na balik nya uminom sya ng alak. Nagwala sa madla pinahiya tatay ko. Nagalit ako. di na nya kasi naisip kahihiyan din yun for me. - dd kenya
dati pa maiinitindihan ko kung mahal ang tawag. matagal ang sulat. ngayon super high tech na. social media. di man lang ako makamusta ni mudra - dd kenya
Mag-effort ka kaya na hindi publicized. Baka mas effective yun para tanggapin ka ng mga anak mo.
ReplyDeleteAndre already mentioned that before to not publicise the matter.
DeleteNobody will understand how she feels lalo na kung di kayo mga ina.She's an adult now,she's changed.These kids are bitter.Jackie should just focus on her kids now who loves her unconditionally.- Isa ring ina,I feel her.
Deleteif you truly practice what you preach jackie, maybe your kids will reach out to you. ikaw naman kasi ang kuda ng kuda sa social media. do it in private before things get out of proportion. those things that you have started and those you threatened to expose is like a ticking time bomb. baka mas magsisi ka sa huli pag tuluyan ka ng iwan at kalimutan ng mga anak mo.
DeleteEh diba nga tinry na yun. Kaya nga nagsasalita si Jackie sa social media dahil ni ayaw siyang kausapin privately. So she's telling everything publicly para kahit papaano eh makarating sa mga jugets.
Delete2:22 hindi mo kailangan maging ina para maintindihan ang situation nila. try mo rin minsan ilagay ang sarili mo sa kalagayan ng mga bata na yan. para open ka sa mga situations nila pareho. hindi lang dahil sa ina ka kaya mas naiintindihan mo si Jackie.
Deleteand fyi, hindi lahat ng nagka-anak eh nagiging "ina"
They should stop living in the past.My God people change.They should give Jackie a chance. 2:43
DeleteHindi mo dapat ipilit sa tao na patawarin ka. Hayaan mong kusa nilang gawin pag ready na sila. Hindi natin alam ang dahilan ng magkapatid kung bakit matigas pa rin sila. Hindi nanan ibig sabihin nun na they're still living in the past.
DeleteI am a my Mom's child. My Mom committed many mistakes towards me. She left me when I was a year old. But not even once na nagalit ako sa kanya. At the end of the day, she's my Mom. My biological Mom, who gave birth to me. I forgave her, and that made everything right. Nawala ang galit sa puso ko, at nawala ang mabigat na dinadala nya. Message to you, Andre and Kobe: Learn to forgive and forget. You can never go wrong with those two things :)
DeleteAnonymousMay 13, 2015 at 2:54 AM
DeleteAng dali mong magsabing stop living in the past. We all become who we are because of our experiences, which are the past. Your decisions, perspectives, and points of view were all because of who you were and how you were treated.
Bka nman mapatawad nla si jackie, un nga lang cguro kung patay na... thats how cruel andre and kobe to their mom... di nman siguro mgllbas sama loob ung tao s social media kung feeling nya e di sya ssbog s sama ng loob...
Delete#justsayin
Just because you carry them inside your womb for nine months makes you a mother. Just because you were young when you got married excuses you for failing your children. Just because you consider the responsibilities of being a parent as sacrifices when in fact those are your basic responsibilities ,makes you entitled to their acceptance. just because you felt wronged and entitled to those children does not give you the right to shatter their quiet and peaceful existence so you can achieve the justice you want in your own terms and own time line. What a sad sorry case of a woman who thinks that she is being a parent.
DeleteHay nako 2:22 we're living in the MODERN WORLD already... At hindi porket ina ka na, hindi mo na mararamdaman ang kalagayan ng 2 bata, baket? Di ba naging BATA ka rin naman muna bago ka naging INA? Kaya dapat alam mo rin paano ilalagay ang sarili mo sa sitwasyon nung 2 bata... Msyado mo naman ata hinuhusgahan yung mga bata na bitter, eh paano magiging bitter yung dalawa eh napaka-successful na in their own respective fields, acting and basketball, so ano ba dapat ika-bitter nila? Baka nga si jackie ang bitter kasi nakikita niya yung mga anak niya kay benj eh may napatunguhan na KAHIT WALA SIYA samantalang yung mga anak niya sa IBANG LALAKI na siya mismo nagpalaki eh NGANGA! So tell me again who's bitter? Hala magsaing ka na baka nagugutom na yung mga anak mo at inuna mo pa makipagchismisan 'NAY!
DeleteVery well said 2:43
Delete2:22, are you sure the kids are bitter... they have moved on, quite well apparently... it's their so-called mother who hounds them and obliges them to understand her just because she is 'their mother'... before you ask the boys to change, jackie must learn to give them properly respect her kids... the way she publicizes every sentiment doesnt help remedy their situation...
DeleteMothers are selfless individuals. They care more about their children than their own self. If she was that kind of mother even at a young age then maybe they will still be close. Blaming everything and everyone aside from yourself is wrong. I think she should send her kinds short and loving messages, no drama via text or dm or pm, no publicity. Pagtyagaan nya, sabi nga pakuluan mo mabuti ang karne at lalambot din yun.
DeleteBravo, anon 6:51AM! You are so right on point.
Deleteif you have a stepmother who is so good to you, yong kulang na lang ang ipinanganak ka niya... yon ang difference ni jackie sa asawa ni benjie. ipinanganak lang niya yong mga bata.
Delete6:51 bravo my dear!
DeleteHey Jackie, don't use the name of God in vain.
DeleteMga bashers kasi wala nang ginawang mabuti!
ReplyDeleteParang ikaw may nagawang mabuti. Eh puro kahibangan inaatupag mo!
Deleteweh? kung hindi nag rant at binulgar ni Jackie ang baho nila sa social media walang magbabash sa kanya o mga anak nya. Mali si Jackie.
DeleteBasher is such an overused word. It's not bashing if you genuinely want to question someone's version of truth. It's called logic.
DeleteTeh pinagsasabihan mu ba sarili mo?
DeleteAs if you're not a basher yourself, darling. Let's cut the hypocrisy here. LOL
DeleteHay keep your truths to yourself na lang Jackie. Itigil mo na ang mga banta mo mas nakakaperwisyo lang sa mga anak mo.
ReplyDeleteI feel sorry for Benjie and the boys, this woman will stop at nothing until she gets what she wants, no matter how it hurts everyone. Jackie, don't think that making threats will win you any favours with your kids, it will be the opposite.
ReplyDeleteKaya ayaw kay Jackie ng mga anak nya dahil puro banta at paninira ang ginagawa ng ina nila kay Benjie.
ReplyDeleteCrazy woman, she started this brouhaha even though it hurt her own sons yet she still threatening to make more trouble after she has given birth. How about focusing on the children she has with her and let Andre and Kobe be until they're ready to face her.
ReplyDeleteI feel her anguish as a mother myself, masakit talaga sa isang ina na itakwil ka ng sarili mong anak o hindi ka mahalin. Pero may mga tao talaga na pag hindi lumaki sa isang parent, tlgang malayo ang loob or walang amor. Dapat noon pa nya ipinaglaban ang mga anak nya. Hindi reason yung bata pa cya or di nya alam ggawin nya or powerful yung other party. Lahat sila may mali d2, but she should just stop her ranting, lalong lumalayo loob nung mga anak nya and the more na naku-compare cya sa step mom nila na tahimik lng at di nagrarant o di pumapatol. Let time heal the wounds. If cya nga ang victim dito, keep quiet na lng. God knows the truth, kung talagang naniniwala cya na alam ng Dyos and totoo. Di n nya kailangan pang ipapansin, bka kung she'll play the underdog, magka amor pa yung mga anak nya, kc they will to themselves na nasasaktan nanay nila. But the more na palaban cya, lalo lng nagkkarason yung mga anak nya na lumayo loob sa kanya. Sa pagrarant nya, cno ba npphiya? Cyempre mga anak nya, kya lalong nwawalan ng amor sa kanya. If she truly is a Christian and believes is God, ipagpapasa Dyos nya n lng lahat. Sa ginagawa nya pagkahol kahol, parang lumalabas na gulity cya kya panay rant nya.
ReplyDeletegood point there!
Deletetama!!! tapos ang mga kuda nya pinapalabas nya na sya ang biktima at wala syang ginawang mali.. ewan ko sa babaeng ito. ina din ako pero itong ginagawa nya para hindi na tama..
Deletefor a mom jackie is just so self-centered and selfish...it's always about her...about her sacrifices daw what about her 2 kids???what about their pain???what about everything they went through when jackie was "finding herself"...everything she says alienates kobe and andre more...why doesn't she humble herself, own up to her mistakes(as she said she was young then) and try to make peace...reach out without coming on too strong and combative...as long as she fights and say bad things about benjie and the wife I doubt she would have a chance of having a relationship with andre and kobe
ReplyDeletetama! bakit niya sinusumbat yang mga sinacrifice niya eh resposibilidad niya yun bilang magulang ang engeng lang yan ni jackie.
Delete1:01 korek!
DeleteSo true. Kaya walanf ka amor amor ang mga bata sa kanya. All they can probably remember are her trantrums
DeleteAng dami mong banta Jackie. Miski ilang beses mong i rant sa social media na hindi mo inabandona ang mga anak mo waley pa rin sa kanila dahil ang dada mo. Just accept the fact that they don't want to have anything to do with you right now and stop making things difficult for them.
ReplyDeleteOk lang block mo ko. Di naman kita follow. Seriously girl, you need to see a shrink. Why can't u just be happy to see that ur kids are well taken care of, and they are happy. All u do is whine and act selfishly.
ReplyDeletewag nating masyadong husgahan si Jackie..hindi natin nararamdaman kung gaano ang pangungulila nya sa mga anak nya kay Benjie..kung gaano kasakit yung nararamdaman nya sa di pagpansin sa kanya bilang ina..ilang taon na ang nakalipas.
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Hay naku Jackie, the more you talk on issues about Andre & Kobe, the more na lumalayo ang loob nila sayo. Quiet ka na lang. Isipin mo nlng in God's time, magiging ok din ang lahat.
ReplyDeletePlease take your battles within the confines of your own home. You are still ranting in social media . It will alienate your kids from you. Do yourself a favor and learn how to be patient. The reality is that your children are nearly adults and you can scream and shout all you want but if they are not ready as you have been informed, then you can not get what you are claiming as yours. Love acceptance respect is given and earned, those are the truths in life.
ReplyDeletetapos nagtataka pa siya at nasasaktan kung bakit ayaw sa kanya ng anak niya sa tingin niya ba tama ang ginagawa niya hay nako jackie.pasalamat pa nga dapat siya at hindi sya sinisiraan ng mga anak nya. kung siraulo lang ang mga yan at wala talaga pakialam baka before pa nakwento na nila kung anu ba talaga ngyari but hindi nila yun ginawa dba tahimik lang sila so sa tingin ko nirerespeto padin sya nila.
ReplyDeleteShe's lucky that her sons hadn't charged her with harassment yet
ReplyDeleteonly proves how ell they were raised by benjie and their stepmom. grabe lang itong nanay nila bakit nagwawala na e yang may isisilang pa pala syang bagong baby. bat di sa bata ifocus ang attention at kalimutan na negativity na sya din naman ang nagsimula
DeleteI wonder why. And to top it all, Benjie's not refuting any of Jackie's allegations. Hmmm I smell something fishy.
Delete6:21 am there is nothing fishy about it darling. It is called decency and not fueling the fire. It's about keeping your mouth shut in behalf of one's family and for the sake of his children's dignity despite being attacked by a rabid person in the media. It is about a man who knows how to value his family and who knows where to draw the line between his public and private life. It is a demonstration on how to be a parent.
DeleteDati ko pa sinasabi to, mas naniniwala ako dun sa tahimik lang na kampo. Yung talak ng talak, defensive. Yun ang guilty.
Deletebaka naman ayaw lang patulan teh. you choose your battles. not everything is worth your while. alam mo yan! (sana)
DeleteKung sasagutin pa nila si Jackie eh sa putikan sila pupulutin. Better ignore that unstable woman.
Delete6:21, Dahil mahal ni Benjie ang family nya. Sa mga nangyayari sa kanila, walang panalo. Pag sumagot si benjie, sasagot din c Jackie. Walang katapusang sagutan . Lalaki lalo ang issue at gugulo lalo ang buhay ng 2 nyang anak. Kung titingnan, may katiting pa din na paggalang ang mga bata kay Jackie, kasi kung mga t*******o sila baka matagal na silang nakipagsagutan sa ina nila.
DeleteMga may aral kasi ang anak mo at ang pamilya ngayon ni Benjie, nananahimik na sila at huwag mo na sila gambalain pa masyadon kasing pang skwalalumpur mga istilo mo, hindi uubra sakanila yan. Ako may asawa at ang asawa ko may anak sa pagkabinata, yung nanay ng bata ganyan ang ugali din, pero hindi namin pinapansin kasi ayaw namin bumaba sa level ng taong walang moral.
ReplyDeleteWow at napaka moral mo para sabihing walang moral yung Nanay ng anak ng asawa mo sa pagkabinata. Sana Lang teh, walang anak sa labas yang asawa mo after you. Iinis mo! Bakit ano ba level mo?
DeleteBaka naman hindi marunong magpaka-ama ang asawa mo sa anak nya sa pagkabinata. At ikaw binabawalan mo din asawa mo na sustentuhan e magwawala nga #peace
DeleteEveryone whatabout Benjie. He is the reason for all of these. Dapat inalagaan nya si Jackie during their married life.
ReplyDelete3:00. We don't even know the real reason behind their failed relationship. I heard Jackie had another man. It was in the papers when they broke up years ago. It was even in the news. But then again, who knows?
Delete??? Bakit? Anak ba ni Benjie si Jacky? OMG!!! Kitid ka din. I know she was young but matanda na siya ngayon. She made a mistake then and continue makinbg a mistake now by publicly really runting. Won't win her a mother of the year award from her kids.
DeleteKahit alagaan mo kung sadyang pakawala ung tao eh wala kanang magagawa.
DeleteKasing para sa mga bata, Benjie is holier than thou. Period walang coma. :)))))))
DeleteTAma, considering minor si Jackie when he had her.
DeleteIn the first place, na-prevent dapat ang galit nila Andre and Koby. Nasa pag-handle yan ni Benjie at Lyxen. But it seems na sila na mismo naglayo sa loob ng mga bata kay Jackie. Tsk tsk
Deletebakit te sure ka bang di inalagaan ni Benjie si Jackie? nandoon ka nong mangyari lahat ng 'to? ina sya at asawa, dapat habang kasal sila pinakita nya dapat ang pagiging ina at ang pagiging asawa nya.. sure ka bang wala ding pag kukulang si Jackie? kasi kung totoong nagpa-ina sya sa mga anak nya dapat nong naghiwalay sila sinigurado nyang makukuha nya anak nya or kung hindi man dahil wala syang stable job at least sinigurado man lang nya na mabigyan sya ng karapatang dalawin ang mga anak nya..
DeleteHaha the relationship was consensual . She was very young , true but she was no angel. Having an affair while being married you mean makes a woman a saint. Oh please.
Delete9.30, ignoring someone doesn't necessarily mean you're angry at them.
DeleteAnd that makes her an outcast? Are you saying that kapag ang lalaki had an affair, it's ok because lalaki sya? What a lame thinking. And besides Jackie has learned her mistakes and changed her life, doesn't she deserve a second chance. She is trying to reach out to her sons, she's the biological mother, masama ba yon? She never asked them to love her back but at least to recognize her kahit bilang tao. Is that too much to ask for? Para sa isang ina na nagluwal sa anak?
DeleteShe's a mother, give her a break. at least in the future when all is said and done and settled, no one will say that she didn't try. kahit na malayo ang loob ng mga bata sa nanay, they should have at least treat her with respect. all these posts about their love for their stepmother really gets to me. walang masama pero parang ang lalim na ng sugat ni jackie, nilalagyan pa ng asin nung dalawang anak. what i don't understand is, saan galing ang sobrang galit nila sa nanay nila. other children misses their mother kahit na anong sakit ginawa ng mothers nila sa kanila, sila parang sobra, and it doesn't make sense. now, the stepmother should have at least advice them not to rub it on their mother na, and benjie, it all boils down to him. kung pinalaki nya ng tama ang mga anak and not bad mouth her, walang panggagalingan ang galit na yan. she's their mother for god's sakes, wala man lang silang masabing hindi maganda, at least respetohin ma lang. there's dignity in silence. magsisisi sila sa huli. i promise.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you....that step mother could have been an instrument to bridge the gap but she is not doing anything. And that post, it's like kicking Jackie whilst she is already down on the floor. What has she done to deserve such treatment? Is she has gone astray there must have been a valid reason, tama perhaps she was not treated and loved well. She made mistake and corrected her life. She just wanted to reach out to her sons but they totally closed all doors and windows on her. Let's say si Benjie ang nagloko, ok lang kasi lalaki...pero kapag babae, unforgivable na? What a double standard.
DeleteHow do you know what the stepmother had done. The kids do have the right to choose and make a decision. The last time the kids were interviewed they said to give them time and space. Yet their so called mother continuously harasses them , make threats and constantly vilifying the father. It's good that they have not ask for a restraining order against her. The so called mother needs to shut up . The court favored Benjie , it means she did not have whatever capacity to take care of them.
DeleteStop saying she's immoral, who are you to judge? Masyado naman mataas tingin nyo sa sarili nyo. People change, She deserves a second chance.
ReplyDeleteGod forbid, if i were Benjie i will never let this psycho enter my kids' lives ever again. Who knows what else this self-centered woman is capable of doing? It's gonna be like welcoming a hell to happen. She needs professional help. She needs to fix herself first seriously, she is very disturbed. Not normal for a mother who claims she truly loves her kids.
ReplyDeleteWhy can't she just be thankful that her boys are well taken cared of and are growing up as fine men? This is despite her absence. And why would she threaten them just because of her sons' posts? Those were loving and respectful posts as tribute to a woman who has shared her life to children who are not her own.
ReplyDeleteA mother is a mother is a mother. No matter what she'll do anything for her child. She's a woman too who has needs of her own. She needs to have someone who will accept her and her past, someone who will support her financially and emotionally, someone who will be with her in times of good and bad. If Benjie can move on and have another wife, why can't Jackie. She's blessed with a good man who not only accepted her but loves and respects her as woman, as a wife and as mother. Despite of that I think Jackie still feel incomplete, she needs her older boys not for material things but their love and respect and presence In her life. A mother's love is always greater than anybody can imagine. Don't blame her for what she's doing, you are not in her shoe. She's sacrificed her reputation and credibility on social media just to be noticed by her kids. You think it's easy for her, it's not. While the other party stays quiet about her rats, why do you think they ignore her, because they know the truth is out there. These boys may have grown up like they should be, proper, neat, good looking, talented but others are two things the people around them forgot to embed into their heart and mind.... Respect and Forgiveness. I'm a mother of 14 years old, my husband abandoned us seven years ago And lived with another woman, but I never instilled into my sons minD to hate his father nor disrespect him in any way even though in seven years up to present he never showed up in my son's life or even supported us financially. So please to some people here, wag po tayo double standard, Jackie may have flirted with others doesn't mean she forgot her love for her children at that time, kapag lalaki ang nangaliwa, Okey Lang kasi lalaki yan, pero pag babae it's such a big issue. Kapag ang babae turned their attention to other man, there's something wrong in the,house, she must have felt neglected unloved and not needed and deceived. Don't you know that their marriege was null and void, which means they were never married in the first place, ask Benjie why. I guess that's one of the things Jacke will tackle in the future, so stay tuned.
ReplyDeleteYawn! Sige suportahan mo pag-ngalngal niya in public--- that is what is wrong with Jackie!!! Sino ba nagsabi walang sala si benjie?!?
DeleteWhat is the scientific basis that there is something in the house as the main reason for those extramarital affairs? Some women experiment , some women go for the thrill , some women have self esteem issues and some women have psychological issues. Delude yourself.
DeleteAnon 1:24 Sabi mo nga some women seek for the thrill, but some women who seek love and affection outside the relationship Always has a reason. Well I don't blame you If have done that just for the heck of it, you're just being true to yourself that you can't live in a monogamous relationship. He he he he!
DeleteSome women just have loose morals. Wag ng ijustify ang panlalalake niya noon. It is not uncommon to be dissatisfied and unhappy with one's marriage but not every woman who find themselves in this situation fool around. It all boils down to your values.
Delete7:47 HONEY IT DOES NOT PERTAIN TO ME, I have been in a very secure relationship for donkey years. My first and my last. I am just educating 7:44 am, some women have a happy home yet still play.
DeleteDapat tanggapin na ni Jackie na ayaw siyang kilalanin ng two boys niya. Dapat ipagpasa-dios na lang niya ang lahat. Dapat ipakita niya na masaya siya kahit hindi siya kilalanin. Dapat isipin niya na lang na nagamit lang siya ng panahon para showbiz career ng dalawa. Hay naku, inuubos lang ni Jackie ang mga oras niya sa mga walang kwentang bagay. I bet 'yong mga maka-two boys diyan babaliktad at magiging maka-jackie ngayon. LOL. Sala sa init, sala sa lamig ano??
ReplyDeleteSa lahat ng mga comments dito, ito lang talaga ang may award. Hayaan na kasi sila. Matatanda na yung 2 boys. Kung ayaw nila eh di wag. Nagawa na ni Jackie ang part niya trying to reach out to them. It's more than enough.
DeleteWe can't blame Jackie for doing such things but we also can't blame the kids kung bakit sila ganun kay Jackie. I hope all will be well in God's perfect time. But sa ngayon... Ms. Jackie, magfocus ka muna sa 3 kiddos mo na super bagets pa. Especially kay Caleigh and kay Y. You are loved by them.
ReplyDeleteA & K, find time to think things through and to talk to your mom privately. Settle the unsettled and if you don't feel like talking to her again after that, wag niyo na kausapin.
God bless you all.
I don't care kung mag-vent si Jackie and waiting for her side of truth. Truth hurts regardless kung kaninong side pa yan manggagaling. Ano pa ba mawawala kay Jackie e tinalikuran na nga sya ng anak nya? Kung ano pa man sasabihin nya, it's not for us to judge. Na kina André and Koby na last say.
ReplyDeleteYou already have a wonderful husband and soon to be 3 beautiful children with him. Concentrate on those who deserve your love and attention. Do not let this hurt and negativity affect your wonderful family. God gave you this chance to be happy and do things right. Be happy with yourself and Andre and Kobe may want to be with you down the road.
ReplyDeleteI think Jackie is not emotionally stable. It's very difficult to live with a person who has a roller coaster of emotions.
ReplyDeleteintindihin mo naman bat nagkaganun si jackie.
DeleteYeah, didn't you readher posts...she has admitted that all emotional turmoil was brought about by so many incidents in her life since she got pregnant at 15!! She was not even supposed to be a mother at that age and Benjie didn't take precautions knowing full well that he was already 25 that time. Shame on him for taking advantage of a child!
Deletediyos ko te tapos na yong "get pregnant at 15".. dapat nga maging mas marami na syang alam ngayon at maging matured ang pag iisip.. ang hirap kasi kay Jackie hindi nalang tanggapin ang nangyari sa past and move on.. bakit pa babalik-balikan ang nakaraan wala na sya magagawa doon di na nya yon mauulit pa.. ang gawin nya nalang is magpatawad at kausapin ang mga taong nakasakit sa kanya at magpatawaran then for sure susunod na yong gusto nyang makipag-usap at maging malapit sa anak nya.. hanggang di pa nya ma-let go ang past nya walang mangyayari sa future nya..
Deletehindi pede ireason yan 15 palang sya that time nuong unang panahon marami ng maaga magbuntis. hindi lang siya ang unang taong nabuntis ng ganyan edad meron pa nga 13 years old lang. kung anu man ang ginawa niya that time pinili niyang gawin yun
DeleteHoney it takes two to make a child . That is why you educate your kids about the bird and the bees so they don't have unwanted pregnancies.
Deleteshut up, jackie
ReplyDeletejust be thankful maayos mga bata.. ung achievement ni andre ngayon, lalo na si kobe, pambihira. kung hindi inalagaan ni benjie and wifey mabuti mga yan, edi sana hindi sila achiever ngayon. bihira ganung blessings sa mga bata....ngayon, isipin mo. kung masama mga anak mo at daddy and stepmom nila, bakit sila nabibigyan ng ganyang blessings? sige nga....
ReplyDeleteFor sure thankful naman si jackie sa maayos na pagpapalaki ni benjie and wife sa mga anak nya. What she wanted lng naman is to make peace with his sons. Hindi naman siguro masama iyon. Hindi nya naman siguro agawin ang mga anak nya ky benjie coz she has her own family din naman. Kung nagkamali sha before, whats important is that she recognized it and learned from her mistakes. Kaya nga ang una una nyang ginawa eh, to go with her sons kaya lng dinedma sha.
Delete2:48 pm in due time. the problem with her is she wants what she wants and is so inconsiderate of her children's feelings.
DeleteSinabi lang naman ng mga boys kung gaano nila ka love ang stepmom. Wala silang sinabi na kinamumuhian nila ang kanilang biological mom. Nag state lang sila ng truth na inalagaan sila ng stepmom at ina appreciate nila ito. Walang parinig o sumbat tungkol sa biological mom sa mga nabasa ko. Paano sila naging disrespectful?
ReplyDeleteNasaktan man si Jackie sa mga post na ito, hindi iyon ang motibo ni Kobe at Andre.
Oh really? Perhaps they profuse their love for the step mom in such an innocent public notion but they are old enough to realize that doing so could consequently hurt the biological mom who has been trying to reach out to them. Very inconsiderate. That to me feels like a swipe at Jackie for crying out loud.
DeleteKung imoral si Jackie e ano pa si Benjie? P!! Dapat nga nakulong siya to begin with! 25 siya noon tapos si Jackie e 15 pa lang!! Napansin ko hindi maayos ang pagpapalaki sa 2 anak nila nung stepmom, parang ang sasama ng ugali, lalo na si Kobe. Parang hindi gentleman kung umasta, sobrang bastos at maangas. Kung ayaw nila kay Jackie hindi nila kailangang bastusin ang nanay nila. kahit kakarampot na respeto na lang sana ibigay nila sa taong nagluwal sa kanila, kung naturuan man sila nun.
ReplyDeleteHiyang hiya naman sila sayo! Galing mong asumera!
Delete" PARANG " di ka pala sure pero the way ka magcomment tila kilala mo mga bata
Deletebakit anu pambabastos ba ginawa nila? eh hindi nga nila pinapatulan yan mga novelang post ni jackie tahimik lang sila. maari mo silang tawagin bastos o walang respeto kung kada post ni jackie sinasagot nila eh hindi naman diba tahimik nga sila eh.
DeleteHayaan nyo na si Jackie, hindi naman natin talaga alam kung ano ang mga nangyari sa kanila noon. Ang habol lang naman nya is pansinin sya ng mga bata. Lahat tayo nagkakamali, pero mas mali siguro kung hindi tayo marunong magpatawad. Malalaki na mga anak ni Jackie, dapat alam na nila ang tama at mali, kahit gaano pa sila nasaktan nung iniwan sila ni Jackie nung bata pa sila eh hindi enough na dahilan para tratuhin nila yung nanay nila ng ganun. Napakasakit sa isang ina na hindi ka kilalanin ng anak mo.. Sa opinyon ko lang naman sana hindi nalang nagpost ng mothers day greeting yung magkapatid para sa stepmom nila. Naawa lang talaga ako kay Jackie..
ReplyDeleteSa totoo lang, nakakainis ang mga ganitong pag iisip. Masyado kang presumptuous na walang forgiveness, na bastos yung mga bata. Hindi mo ba naisip, na kaya hindi sila nakikipagusap Ay dahil tingin nila ito ang mas tamang gawin? Sa mga kilos ni Jackie napaghahalatang wala syang pinagbago. Kung mag post man ng kung anong greeting yung mga bata, problema na ng mga readers tulad ni Jackie kung paano nila tatanggapin yun. D masama maawa, pero hindi iyon rason para mahusgahan mo ng mali ang iba.
Deletesabihin mo yan kay jackie na magpatawad sya at humingi din sya ng tawad sa mga nasaktan nya.. hindi yong lagi nalang nya biniblame si benjie at kung sino paman na kesyo di nya maka-usap mga anak nya.. eh sino namang anak makakapag patawad or gustong kumausap sa ganyang klaseng ina na binubulgar mga problema ng pamilya in public.. kalimutan nalang ni jackie and nakaraan instead i-try nyang kausapin in peaceful way sina benjie at kung sino paman gusto nya kausapin.. now kung di pa sila ready eh di mag hintay sya..
Deletesana hindi nalang nagpost ng ganun? bakit si jackie naisip niya ba mga anak niya nung ngpost siya ng kung anu anu hinanakit niya sa IG dba hindi din naman.
DeleteAnon 5:42 dapat Siguro Si Benjie dapat ganun din, magpatawad din at kalimutan na nakaraan, pagbatiin nya mga anak Nya at ina nito, yun ang napakagandang aksyon na magagawa nya para matigil na rin Si Jacke. Bilang sya naman itong nakatatanda, habang nanahimik sya, habang ganyan ang trato nila sa ina nila, I guess Jackie will not just sit in the corner and do nothing. You should understand iba IBA ang nanay, me maingay. Me tahimik, meron namang pinapasa Dyos na Lang, meron ding pinapipilitan ang sarili kahit na sinusuka na, pero isa Lang NASA puso nila malalim na pagmamahal sa mga anak. I believe Jackie is a very strong woman, opinionated and fierce, she'll do anything for her kids to,recognize her as their mother. hindi madali kapalan ang mukha at magmukhang epal sa mata ng Iba, but she's not turning her back, she's very determined.
DeleteHer style and tactics at trying to win her kids back are obviously not working. Lalo nya lng sila inaantagonize. Sige, reveal your "truths" some more. Tingnan ko lng kung emepek yan.
DeleteGrabe! Matinding pang brainwashed ni benjie sa mga anak nya.Hatred to their mom..bitter lng tlga eh may wife na rin nman sya..hindi mgnda ang pagpapalaki ni benjie.kung ano man kasalanan ni jackie nuon sa knlang dalwa lng un,nadamay lng un mga bata..under custody kc ni benjie un anak nya.not financially capable si jackie to support the kids.parang un mga anak ni chiz sa knya din..for me .may isip na cla but si benjie ang matigas di manlang iguide un anak ng tama..balang araw maiintindihan ng mga batang yan kapag nag asawa cla at di rin nag work out..ang karma laging nanjan lng.
ReplyDeleteI'm not painting Jackie as some sort of victim in this, obviously she also has fault - but a lot of us forget that she was 15 when she started living in with Benjie Paras who is 10 years older than her. That is statutory rape! She was a mother at 16. A lot of people would say well she got herself into that kind of situation so she has to deal with it - but didn't Benjie also got himself into that kind of situation, i.e., taking a 15 year old as his wife, getting her pregnant at 16, then again, and allegedly not lending enough emotional support for the young mother who must have been clueless as to what she was supposed to do? It seems to me that Jackie is being unfairly blamed for the consequences of both her and Benjie's actions.
ReplyDeletePera pera lang yan. Sikat na mga anak eh.
ReplyDeletePwedeng magpatawad mahirap nga lang makalimot.
ReplyDeleteParang ako, iniwan ako ng mom ko 9 m0nths palang ako she went abroad. di daw kasi nya kaya pambababae ng tatay ko. lumipas 4 na taon mangilan ngilan beses ko lang natatandaan na tinawagan nya kami. dalaga na ko nung bumisita sya 14 y.o ako una kaming nagkita. Okay na sana. bumalik sya nung 16 ako and nung 19. Nung nag 23 ako last na balik nya uminom sya ng alak. Nagwala sa madla pinahiya tatay ko. Nagalit ako. di na nya kasi naisip kahihiyan din yun for me. - dd kenya
dati pa maiinitindihan ko kung mahal ang tawag. matagal ang sulat. ngayon super high tech na. social media. di man lang ako makamusta ni mudra - dd kenya
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