Hay naku, if matagal mo pa yang ginawa noong unknown palng sila eh di sana may makukuha kang simpatya. But ngayon mo lng sila napansin na may mga sarili na silang pangalan. Sayang but you can never turn back the time that you've been wasting since then
She is still their mother. They will not be here in this world if Jackie did not carried them from her womb. No matter what Jackie did in the past, her children should never forget their mother and maybe learn to forgive.
The problem is. Kahit tayo pa ang nagsilang sa magiging anak natin hindi lng dyan ang batayan ng pagiging ina. Ang pagiging ina ay pagmamahal ng isang tao sa isa pang tao at bibigyan ng pag mamahal na walang pag iimbot. I can relate to her kids because i was also dump by my own mom. Bumabawi na sya ngayon kahit may second family na siya but the pain is still hurting me kahit almost 16yrs na nong iniwan nya ako. Maybe time will not definitely heal all wounds but courage on how to accept the fact that you've been hurt and move on.
Maybe this pain will keep on haunting you until you learn to forgive the people who have hurt you. But as they say, it's hard to forgive. In God's perfect time, He may place in a situation for you to forgive them, as what our Lord saves us from our sins.
Hay naku, if matagal mo pa yang ginawa noong unknown palng sila eh di sana may makukuha kang simpatya. But ngayon mo lng sila napansin na may mga sarili na silang pangalan. Sayang but you can never turn back the time that you've been wasting since then
huwag mo naman sabihing its too late..napa sakit mo naman magsalita. perfect ka siguro. siguraduhin mo lang sa mga loved ones mo hinding hindi ka nagkamali.
They are raised to be true to their feelings. Give them some break. Puro kasi post etong si mudra, gumawa kaya sya ng way para personal. Mas maaappreciate siguro nila yun. And we dont know what really happened. Dont judge nalang
12.40 all these happened when they were less than 10 yrs old..too young to hate so much. A child is not capable of such hate unless he grew up hearing bad things about his mom. If they are raised in a loving environment, forgiveness will not be hard. These kids have a hardened heart. They did not even reach out when their half sister faced a life threatening illness.
Mga expert, tumigil na kayo.qy mga doctorate man kayo sa psychology, di nyo pwede i assume yung mga personal nyong haka-haka sa kanila. Magbasa lng. Manu ba't lalabas din ang katotohanan.
Are the children in some way felt the love of Jackie when they are growing up? Never! Did the mother respect her kids privacy? Nope. So stop bashing Andrei and Kobe for they've suffered a lot.
2:23, I couldn't agree more! Pati half sister dinadamay... So paano maiintindihan ng isang matinong tao yong ginagawa nila kung hindi talaga sila brainwashed?
I really find Benjie creepy nabrainwash nya noon si Jackie na 15 or 16 yrs old tapos nabuntis nya. Its not possible now na nabrainwash nya rin mga anak nya kobe and andre. I hope when these boys come to their senses its not yet too late
I think napatawad ng magkapatid yun nanay nila pero sabi nga you can forgive but not forget. Ignoring their Mom is prolly the best way right now, yung nanay lang ang makulit at laging nasa social media to get sympathy. Dapat makipag ayos muna sya kay Benjie baka maencourage mga anak nya na lumapit sa kanya.. di natin alam kun ano ang mga hugot ng bawat isa.. pero i think pareho lang sila mapripride.. time can heal kun ano ang pinagdadaanan nila..
Bakit ba si jackie ang kailangan tumiklop sa mga anak niya? Yung iba nga inaabandona at hindi na hinahanap talaga pero walang galit ang nga anak. Tapos etong mga anak niya nagmamatigas sakanya.
Kasi pag wala sa tamang pagiisip ang nanay biglang naninira sa ama at bahong asawa na nag aruga sa kanila! Pag di nakukuha ni jackie gusto nia, parang brat na nanggugulo! Kelanman walang sinabi si benjie na masama sa mga interviews nia
Jackie must be consistent, try to be silent and personally reach out. Minsan kasi pag bad mood mangaaway, pag good mood gusto reconciliation. Kung ako nanonood lang napapagod yung mga involved pa kaya. Saka wag yung side lang ni jackie pinakikinggan natin, benjie and the boys never said anything bad against her.
If you really care about you and your sons' relationship, you will never drag them into a situation like this. Habang pinapaganda mo ang image mo bilang ina na naghahabol sa mga anak, pinasasama mo naman ang image nila. If you have matters to discuss, discuss it privately.
Un father kz dapat di itinurong mag-tanim ng galit sa ina nila..Kahit pagbali-baligtarin, si jackie pa rin mom nila, and kung hindi kay jackie, di sila ganyang ka-gwapo...
mahirap husgahan o magassume sa nangyari tanging si andre at kobe lang ang makapagsasabi bakit ayaw nila sa mom nila. isa pa kung ganyan na age nila before mangyari ang lahat ng issues nila sa tingin ko may isip at matalas na memory ng mga bata that time at alam na nila ngyayari sa paligid nila so sa tingin ko may ngyari talaga natrauma o hindi nila nagustuhan kumbaga up to now dala dala nila yun. sana in time maayos na .
I dont like jackie dahil bratty and feeling api lagi but parang may tinatagong kamalditahan the step mother! If she really is indeed a kind step mother she will make sure to teach the boys forgiveness kaso mukhang may truth dun sa sinasabi ni bratty na may brainwash na nangyayari from the father and stepmother.
They're prolly brain washed.. pero wow naman, ang lalaki na ng mga anak nya, may isip na, give them their privacy naman, if u want to reconcile do it privately for their sake.. bigyan naman sila ng kahihiyan ng nanay nila..
i admire benjie and the boys. sa lahat ng paninira ni jackie sa social media, kahit masira pa image ng mga anak nya, never sila nagsalita against her. hoy jackie, tigilan mo na kasisira sa pagkatao ng mga anak mo. kunwari nami miss mo sila pero sinasabi mo lang sa mga tao na look at me, hindi ako mahal ng mga anak ko....walang mabuting nanay ang sisira sa mga anak katulad ng ginagawa mo. mula noon hanggang ngayon, consistent ka sa pagsira ng buhay nung mga bata.
I agree. We will never know kung anong feeling nung dalawa kapag nakikita nila mga post ni Jackie. Easy to say na "Forgive your mother she brought you to this world" pero we don't know what they've gone through. Also, let's not underestimate kids. Kahit 10 lang sila nung nagsimula ang gulo with their parents, they could understand it and the feelings will stick around for as long as they remember.
Let it come from the boys. One day they will decide to approach their mother for whatever reason. We shouldn't push them to do something they aren't ready for. No matter how we put ourselves in Jackie's shoes
Walang puso, so si Jackie may puso nun pinabayaan nya yun mga anak nya habang nagpapakasarap sya and she'll drag her kids to this kind of publicity in social media... eh may puso nga, matigas nga lang katulad ng face nya... atleast benjie and kids won't say anything bad against her... si Jackie lang ang putak ng putak pero imbis na simpatya ang mahakot nya, bashers ang na gather nya
Alam mo Jackie, magpakumbaba ka at kaibiganin mo si Benjie at yung new wife niya. Para makita ng mga bata na puwede kayong maging isang pamilya pa rin at hindi post nang post sa instagram. Ikaw din ang sumisira sa mga anak mo.
what bothers me here is that she does this all in instagram. nababawasan ang sincerity. i hope she does this privately and i hope she remembers that the more she puts down the father, the more her children will refuse mending things with her.
Right on. Its rather off-putting than heartwarming. Probably does more damage to her sons kasi kapag lalong dinededma nung dalawa ang mga posts ni Jackie na ganito, napapasama silang dalawa. Who would want to reconcile with that?
Mahaba pa aabutin ng story na to.... I think una dapat magkapatawaran c Jackie at Benjie,hindi muna yung mga anak... Gusto kasi ni Jackie maayos yung relasyon nya sa mga anak nya pero paano maaayos kung patuloy ang pagsira nya sa mga nagpalaki sa anak nya...lalong mahihirapan ang mga bata na makita ang sencerity nya kung ganyan na post sya ng post sa social media.. Kung hindi nya sinisiraan si Benjie, hinahabol nya ang mga anak nya..parang lahat ng ginagawa nya e para sa sarili lng nya.. Inapi ako, napaka buti kong ina, napaka generous kong amo..why not do things in private.. Kahit sya ang totoong ina, kung patuloy nmn nya sinusugatan ang puso ng mga anak nya sa ginagawa nyang pagsira kay benjie...paano yun? Mabait nga ang mga anak nya kasi hindi sila nagsasalita laban kay Jackie..kumpara nyo kila anabelle at ruffa na nagpaparinigan sa social media...
Iba ang pagmamahal ng kadugo, ng pamilya..nothing is impossible..magkakapatawaran din sila..pero sana sa lalong madaling panahon para mas mahaba pa yung panahon that they can make up with the lost time na hindi nila nakasama isa't isa :)
i think jackie's biggest problem is the stepmom, not that she's doing anything wrong but that she's probably doing everything right, kasi mahal nung mga bata yong asawa ni benjie eh.
napunta ko sa IG ni andre ang dami nanenermon sa kanya yan ba gusto ni jackie na sumasama tingin ng tao sa mga anak niya? hay nako jackie mas nakakaawa mga anak mo.
daming nanermon sa kanya dahil after nagpost si Jackie ng desire and longing nya to be with her sons again, nagpost naman ng very loving tribute si andre para sa step mom nya. o di ba ganyan sya pinalaki ng kanyang step mom and father.so much for "the kids were brought up well". I may not know their story but I know very well that Jackie was a minor corrupted. ever wonder why minors are so protected by so many laws? Because minors have underdeveloped brains that are easiliy corruptible and doing so has lasting negative consequences to the minors. now ever wonder why the ex is not saying anything bad against jackie?
Tingin niya gaganda tingin ng mga anak niya sa kanya sa ginagawa niya? Sincere man siya o hindi sa mga posts niya, sobrang wrong move parin na ibalandra sa social media for the public to feast on. It was all done in bad taste.
me naaalala ako nun na interview kay Jackie na gusto nya Makita mga anak nya pero tinago ni benjie.. matagal na un, bata pa mga anak nila parang elem days pa lang nla..
Happy mothers day
ReplyDeleteAno ba naman kasi ginawa mo before. Yan tuloy nahihirapan ka.
ReplyDeleteHay naku, if matagal mo pa yang ginawa noong unknown palng sila eh di sana may makukuha kang simpatya. But ngayon mo lng sila napansin na may mga sarili na silang pangalan. Sayang but you can never turn back the time that you've been wasting since then
ReplyDeleteBaka ngayon lng natin napansing ang effort ni jackie bcoz ngayon lng may social media. Wag ng nega!
DeleteShe is still their mother. They will not be here in this world if Jackie did not carried them from her womb. No matter what Jackie did in the past, her children should never forget their mother and maybe learn to forgive.
DeleteThe problem is. Kahit tayo pa ang nagsilang sa magiging anak natin hindi lng dyan ang batayan ng pagiging ina. Ang pagiging ina ay pagmamahal ng isang tao sa isa pang tao at bibigyan ng pag mamahal na walang pag iimbot. I can relate to her kids because i was also dump by my own mom. Bumabawi na sya ngayon kahit may second family na siya but the pain is still hurting me kahit almost 16yrs na nong iniwan nya ako. Maybe time will not definitely heal all wounds but courage on how to accept the fact that you've been hurt and move on.
DeleteMaybe this pain will keep on haunting you until you learn to forgive the people who have hurt you. But as they say, it's hard to forgive. In God's perfect time, He may place in a situation for you to forgive them, as what our Lord saves us from our sins.
DeleteHay naku, if matagal mo pa yang ginawa noong unknown palng sila eh di sana may makukuha kang simpatya. But ngayon mo lng sila napansin na may mga sarili na silang pangalan. Sayang but you can never turn back the time that you've been wasting since then
ReplyDeleteIkaw naman sumira ng relationshp nyo. Now maybe its too late to make amends
ReplyDeleteMukhang marami kang alam teh!
Deletehuwag mo naman sabihing its too late..napa sakit mo naman magsalita. perfect ka siguro. siguraduhin mo lang sa mga loved ones mo hinding hindi ka nagkamali.
DeleteCge ng cge, push lang, push away nga lang. The right way is to reconcile with Benjie and the new family.
ReplyDeleteKorek. Pano siya mamahalin ng mga bata e todo lait kay Benjie at wifey. Siyempre mahal ng mga bata yon.
Deleteandre and kobe's treatment of their mom speaks volumes on how they are raised.
ReplyDeleteand brainwashed too!
DeleteThey are raised to be true to their feelings. Give them some break. Puro kasi post etong si mudra, gumawa kaya sya ng way para personal. Mas maaappreciate siguro nila yun. And we dont know what really happened. Dont judge nalang
DeleteAndrei and Kobe never treated Jackie bad, they just totally ignore her which the right thing to do.
Delete12.40 all these happened when they were less than 10 yrs old..too young to hate so much. A child is not capable of such hate unless he grew up hearing bad things about his mom. If they are raised in a loving environment, forgiveness will not be hard. These kids have a hardened heart. They did not even reach out when their half sister faced a life threatening illness.
DeleteChildren are smart!
DeleteMga expert, tumigil na kayo.qy mga doctorate man kayo sa psychology, di nyo pwede i assume yung mga personal nyong haka-haka sa kanila. Magbasa lng. Manu ba't lalabas din ang katotohanan.
DeleteAre the children in some way felt the love of Jackie when they are growing up? Never! Did the mother respect her kids privacy? Nope. So stop bashing Andrei and Kobe for they've suffered a lot.
Delete2:23, I couldn't agree more! Pati half sister dinadamay... So paano maiintindihan ng isang matinong tao yong ginagawa nila kung hindi talaga sila brainwashed?
DeleteI really find Benjie creepy nabrainwash nya noon si Jackie na 15 or 16 yrs old tapos nabuntis nya. Its not possible now na nabrainwash nya rin mga anak nya kobe and andre. I hope when these boys come to their senses its not yet too late
DeleteI think napatawad ng magkapatid yun nanay nila pero sabi nga you can forgive but not forget. Ignoring their Mom is prolly the best way right now, yung nanay lang ang makulit at laging nasa social media to get sympathy. Dapat makipag ayos muna sya kay Benjie baka maencourage mga anak nya na lumapit sa kanya.. di natin alam kun ano ang mga hugot ng bawat isa.. pero i think pareho lang sila mapripride.. time can heal kun ano ang pinagdadaanan nila..
DeleteGo push, they wont be goodlooking as now without jackie , if ever they just tall.
ReplyDeletekirek!
DeleteBakit ba si jackie ang kailangan tumiklop sa mga anak niya? Yung iba nga inaabandona at hindi na hinahanap talaga pero walang galit ang nga anak. Tapos etong mga anak niya nagmamatigas sakanya.
ReplyDeleteSikat na eh, kumikita na ng sariling pera. In short lumake na ulo
DeleteMay rason bakit ayaw magpa reconcile ng mga bata, para sa kanila na lang yun, hindi dapat pinipressure ni Jackie ang mga anak nya sa social media.
DeleteKasi na brainwash ni papa bear! Bitter pa kasi sya until now.
DeleteKasi pag wala sa tamang pagiisip ang nanay biglang naninira sa ama at bahong asawa na nag aruga sa kanila! Pag di nakukuha ni jackie gusto nia, parang brat na nanggugulo! Kelanman walang sinabi si benjie na masama sa mga interviews nia
DeleteJackie must be consistent, try to be silent and personally reach out. Minsan kasi pag bad mood mangaaway, pag good mood gusto reconciliation. Kung ako nanonood lang napapagod yung mga involved pa kaya. Saka wag yung side lang ni jackie pinakikinggan natin, benjie and the boys never said anything bad against her.
Delete2.36, sabi mo pag di nakukuha... Bakit kailan ba nakuha ni Jackie ang gusto niya??
DeleteYup! wala siyang sinabing masama at wala din siyang sinabing mabuti.
If you really care about you and your sons' relationship, you will never drag them into a situation like this. Habang pinapaganda mo ang image mo bilang ina na naghahabol sa mga anak, pinasasama mo naman ang image nila. If you have matters to discuss, discuss it privately.
Delete2:36, pag may sinabing mabuti plastic naman? ang mood ng family ni benjie ay dedma. walang sasabihin. no acknowledgement. gets mo?
DeleteLalapit at lalapit din sila, dahil nagiisang Nanay nila yan, parang ang perfect ng iba dito, parang di nakagawa ng masama all their lives.
ReplyDeleteIn gods perfect time ms. Jackie.
ReplyDeleteUn father kz dapat di itinurong mag-tanim ng galit sa ina nila..Kahit pagbali-baligtarin, si jackie pa rin mom nila, and kung hindi kay jackie, di sila ganyang ka-gwapo...
ReplyDeletetsek beks. wala na e. na brain wash talagang maigi..
DeleteWala tayong alam sa istorya ng pamilya nila kaya wala tayong karapatang manghusga.
Deleteang babaw nugn "di sila ganyan kagwapo." tingin mo kung pangit sila mas tatanggapin nila si jackie? cmon. ans**nga lang.
DeleteKahit na ano nangyaring away before sa parents, wala dapat hatred, life is too short para di magkapatawaran.
ReplyDeleteSana magkausap usap na si Jackie, Benjie at etong dalawang anak nila. Pls lang ayusin nyo na yan. Affected na ako. I want to see peace and closure.
ReplyDeleteBaka hintayin nilang may mangyari sa Nanay nila saka nila tanggapin. Pero baka late na. Baka doon pa sila magpatawad pag wala na.
ReplyDeletemahirap husgahan o magassume sa nangyari tanging si andre at kobe lang ang makapagsasabi bakit ayaw nila sa mom nila. isa pa kung ganyan na age nila before mangyari ang lahat ng issues nila sa tingin ko may isip at matalas na memory ng mga bata that time at alam na nila ngyayari sa paligid nila so sa tingin ko may ngyari talaga natrauma o hindi nila nagustuhan kumbaga up to now dala dala nila yun. sana in time maayos na .
ReplyDeleteYeah. Lalo nang mahirap kalimutan kapag negative experience pa. Wag maliitin ang kakayanan ng mga bata.
DeleteI dont like jackie dahil bratty and feeling api lagi but parang may tinatagong kamalditahan the step mother! If she really is indeed a kind step mother she will make sure to teach the boys forgiveness kaso mukhang may truth dun sa sinasabi ni bratty na may brainwash na nangyayari from the father and stepmother.
ReplyDeletei agree. mas bibilib sana ako sa step mom kung sya ang magtuturo na magpatawad mga step sons nya
Deleteagree
DeleteMas bibilib ako kay Nathaniel kung mapapalambot nya ang puso ni tatay abner at ng maturuan ang mga anak magpatawad
DeleteThey're prolly brain washed.. pero wow naman, ang lalaki na ng mga anak nya, may isip na, give them their privacy naman, if u want to reconcile do it privately for their sake.. bigyan naman sila ng kahihiyan ng nanay nila..
DeleteThat's right.
Deletei admire benjie and the boys. sa lahat ng paninira ni jackie sa social media, kahit masira pa image ng mga anak nya, never sila nagsalita against her. hoy jackie, tigilan mo na kasisira sa pagkatao ng mga anak mo. kunwari nami miss mo sila pero sinasabi mo lang sa mga tao na look at me, hindi ako mahal ng mga anak ko....walang mabuting nanay ang sisira sa mga anak katulad ng ginagawa mo. mula noon hanggang ngayon, consistent ka sa pagsira ng buhay nung mga bata.
ReplyDeleteI agree. We will never know kung anong feeling nung dalawa kapag nakikita nila mga post ni Jackie. Easy to say na "Forgive your mother she brought you to this world" pero we don't know what they've gone through. Also, let's not underestimate kids. Kahit 10 lang sila nung nagsimula ang gulo with their parents, they could understand it and the feelings will stick around for as long as they remember.
DeleteLet it come from the boys. One day they will decide to approach their mother for whatever reason. We shouldn't push them to do something they aren't ready for. No matter how we put ourselves in Jackie's shoes
ReplyDeleteI agree. At some point they will reach out to her. Maybe in the next few years.
DeleteOMG. beautiful. grabe cant stop my tears..
ReplyDeleteh@$%^p talagang benjie paras na yan walang puso.
ReplyDeleteWeh? Eh si jackie ba, may malasakit kay Benjie? Eh kung siraan nya sa publiko si Benjie at yung bagong asawa, wagas!
DeleteWalang puso, so si Jackie may puso nun pinabayaan nya yun mga anak nya habang nagpapakasarap sya and she'll drag her kids to this kind of publicity in social media... eh may puso nga, matigas nga lang katulad ng face nya... atleast benjie and kids won't say anything bad against her... si Jackie lang ang putak ng putak pero imbis na simpatya ang mahakot nya, bashers ang na gather nya
DeleteAlam mo Jackie, magpakumbaba ka at kaibiganin mo si Benjie at yung new wife niya. Para makita ng mga bata na puwede kayong maging isang pamilya pa rin at hindi post nang post sa instagram. Ikaw din ang sumisira sa mga anak mo.
ReplyDeleteKobe has posted a very loving and thoughtful mother's day greeting on his Instagram and Twitter accounts - for the stepmom.
ReplyDeletewhat bothers me here is that she does this all in instagram. nababawasan ang sincerity. i hope she does this privately and i hope she remembers that the more she puts down the father, the more her children will refuse mending things with her.
ReplyDeleteKorek!
DeleteRight on. Its rather off-putting than heartwarming. Probably does more damage to her sons kasi kapag lalong dinededma nung dalawa ang mga posts ni Jackie na ganito, napapasama silang dalawa. Who would want to reconcile with that?
DeleteMahaba pa aabutin ng story na to....
ReplyDeleteI think una dapat magkapatawaran c Jackie at Benjie,hindi muna yung mga anak...
Gusto kasi ni Jackie maayos yung relasyon nya sa mga anak nya pero paano maaayos kung patuloy ang pagsira nya sa mga nagpalaki sa anak nya...lalong mahihirapan ang mga bata na makita ang sencerity nya kung ganyan na post sya ng post sa social media.. Kung hindi nya sinisiraan si Benjie, hinahabol nya ang mga anak nya..parang lahat ng ginagawa nya e para sa sarili lng nya.. Inapi ako, napaka buti kong ina, napaka generous kong amo..why not do things in private.. Kahit sya ang totoong ina, kung patuloy nmn nya sinusugatan ang puso ng mga anak nya sa ginagawa nyang pagsira kay benjie...paano yun? Mabait nga ang mga anak nya kasi hindi sila nagsasalita laban kay Jackie..kumpara nyo kila anabelle at ruffa na nagpaparinigan sa social media...
Iba ang pagmamahal ng kadugo, ng pamilya..nothing is impossible..magkakapatawaran din sila..pero sana sa lalong madaling panahon para mas mahaba pa yung panahon that they can make up with the lost time na hindi nila nakasama isa't isa :)
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i think jackie's biggest problem is the stepmom, not that she's doing anything wrong but that she's probably doing everything right, kasi mahal nung mga bata yong asawa ni benjie eh.
ReplyDeletenapunta ko sa IG ni andre ang dami nanenermon sa kanya yan ba gusto ni jackie na sumasama tingin ng tao sa mga anak niya? hay nako jackie mas nakakaawa mga anak mo.
ReplyDeletedaming nanermon sa kanya dahil after nagpost si Jackie ng desire and longing nya to be with her sons again, nagpost naman ng very loving tribute si andre para sa step mom nya. o di ba ganyan sya pinalaki ng kanyang step mom and father.so much for "the kids were brought up well". I may not know their story but I know very well that Jackie was a minor corrupted. ever wonder why minors are so protected by so many laws? Because minors have underdeveloped brains that are easiliy corruptible and doing so has lasting negative consequences to the minors. now ever wonder why the ex is not saying anything bad against jackie?
DeleteTingin niya gaganda tingin ng mga anak niya sa kanya sa ginagawa niya? Sincere man siya o hindi sa mga posts niya, sobrang wrong move parin na ibalandra sa social media for the public to feast on. It was all done in bad taste.
ReplyDeletebut they have already found another, dear.
ReplyDeleteme naaalala ako nun na interview kay Jackie na gusto nya Makita mga anak nya pero tinago ni benjie.. matagal na un, bata pa mga anak nila parang elem days pa lang nla..
ReplyDeleteWag na tayo masyadong mag judge kasi hindi natin alam ang buong kuwento.
ReplyDeletePero As a mother i expose ko ba mga anak ko sa hatred ng public mapatawad lang ako? Baka I would protect them first bago ang kapakanan ko.