Easy lang kayo sa mga comments. malamang hindi nila alam yung message nung biological mom nila coz she could be block sa social medias nila and they might not be updated sa mga showbiz chismis like you all are here! Pero why the so…what could have happend between them?
kahit anong kasalanan magulang mo hindi dapat ganito ang ipapamukha nyo. madali lang bawiin ni LORD ang tinatamasa nyo ngayon kung hindi kayo marunong magbigay respeto sa nanay nyo.
she must have done something right for the boys to love and adore her that much...kids give what they receive...sheust have nurtured them,loved them,held them when they cried and when ther were scared...no amount of brainwash would make kids love someone unless that someone has sincerely loved them and cared for them...i feel for jackie but it's about time she made peace with the stepmom that way she can start reaching out to her boys...as long as she fights the stepmom andre and kobe would not listen to her...she just needs to stop fighting and start making peace....
1;50 AM THAT'S FOR YOU TO SAY. Kindly leave those boys alone as you did not walk or bear their path. What we see are the public posts of the biological mother but we were not there when she inflicted those hurts. The boys are well educated and intelligent enough to make their own decisions.
Ang daming feelingera, kala sila yung mga bata. Wag ninyong personalin ang kalagayan ni Jackie. Hindi kayo sya at sya ang unang magblock sa inyo kung ayaw niya ang mga sinasabi ninyo pero ang mga bata hindi nila pwedeng gawin yun dahil babash agad sila. #isipisipdin
I don't really get all these harsh comments below. These 2 kuds simply expressed their love for their stepmother. What's so wrong about shouting it out to the world eh sa mahal nila uung tao. Wla naman direct swipe at jackie eh.
they can forgive, but it's pretty tough to forget... especially kung ang stepmom ay loving at supportive... remember, hindi lang biological ang batayan ng pagiging nanay.
Who are you to tell him so? He just stated his appreciation to the person that raised him most of his life. He did not say anything bad about his biological mom. Giving birth does not make you a mother honey or a parent. Obviously she did something right with these kids as it is very hard to win the affection , love and respect of stepchildren and with these kids trust must have been an issue after what their biological mother apparently did to them. Why are you so affected and why do you demand this on the child ? He will find closure at some point in his life but the wounds that was inflicted on them , they alone can find healing.
Hi Jackie! Hindi dapat pinu-push sa tao yan, nasa sa kanila na yan kung kelan nila mararamadaman na time na para magpatawad. hindi naman siguro forever na ganyan sila sayo.
Maybe they've forgiven her already. But forgiveness doesn't mean jackie can re-enter their lives. As we can see, someone already filled the role of a mother that was supposed to be jackie's.
agree. they keep hurting their REAL mom by intentionally making innuendos. this Lyzen seems to have evil motives and must be laughing inside with this. Paras bros, pls keep in mind you wont succeed if you keep being ungrateful to a person who let you see the world
the so-called love and respect given to the stepmom may have been earned by the stepmom in a manipulative way. perfect example is why these children hate their bilogical mom so much. sobrang galing lang kasi ng stepmom dahil psychologist. sobrang ginamit nya ang pinag aralan nya para mapaganda nya ang tingin sa kanya ng mga stepchildren nya kahit sa ibang tao e kailanman di sila maiintindihan.
Give those boys a break, about the evil stepmom. Both boys are smart, levelheaded and well educated to be manipulated and are old enough to discern the truth. There are actually step parents , foster parents that actually earn the love, respect and appreciation of their step or adopted kids because they gave unconditional love, time and effort and sacrificed for those kids. Kids are smarter than you think and no amount of brainwash can force those kids to give that love back.
1:10 AM you can rant or say anything you want. you can paint the stepmother as evil as manipulative as you want but you could not change or erase the fact how those 2 boys appreciate, love and respect their stepmother. Those are exceptionally well raised kids. they must have forgiven their biological mother as they are well adjusted but it does not mean that they are ready to allow her to push her way into their lives. She seems unstable , volatile and tends to use the media to rant a lot. The biological mother needs to appreciate the people who took care of those 2 broken souls instead of making them out as monsters. If those 2 parents are as evil as the biological mother paints them to be, the children are surprisingly too well adjusted to be a product of such montrosity. The biological mother needs to accept her failures and learn how to accept that you can not just hurt people around you and come back, disrupt their lives and pick-up where you left off and feel entitled to acceptance love and respect that you think those kids owe to you. Love begets love , respect begets respect.
psychologist lang ginawan mo pa ng issue. kahit normal na tao kayang magmanipulate, and who are you to throw those baseless accusations? makajump ka naman into conclusions. wala bang mga isip ang mga bata? maybe she earned the love of the kids, kaya siya mahal na mahal. wala yatang nagturong magmahal sayo.
Graveh sakit nman nyan for jackie, his biological mother. She really made the wrong decision in giving her kids up and not seeing her while they were growing up. If I were jackie, I won't give up my kids no matter what. I'd take them wherever I go. I'm pretty sure jackie would get hurt once she reads her son's message to his stepmom. Sad.
My black sheep sister left her 3 kids when they're still young. She left them and the husband at sumama sa ibang lalaki. After almost 7 years of hate to their mother, dumating ang oras na sila na mismo gusting makita Nanay nila. Yes, now pati kaming mga kapatid naging maayos na. I pray for their family, too. We are just passing here on earth. Learn to forgive, Andre and Kobe.
Mas mahal talaga nila ang step mom nila kesa sa biological mom nila... I wonder kung bakit ganun ang turing nila sa real mom nila... Siguro grabe talaga ang traumatic experience nila kay jackie dati... Grineet ang step mom pero ang biological mom hindi....
ang mga batang ito, kailangan talaga isampal sa biological mom nila na iba ang tinuturing nilang nanay. I understand that your mom might have done something in the past, but also know that you're not going to be in this world without her.
The stepmother earned their love , trust and respect. Most step children's relationship with the step parent do not come that far. The fact that they treat her as their real mother means she did something right.
Sobrang tindi ng galit ng 2 sa nagsilang sa kanila. One side lang naririnig nila eh, why don't they hear the other side also, remember, there are 2 sides lagi. Kawawang Jackie, no matter what she does, ang titigas ng mga anak nya..
My dear, any woman can be pregnant and give birth but it does not make them a mother. My biological gave me up too. I was raised by a step mom. I don't owe my biological mom anything for giving me away. Acknowledging that she was my birth mom is enough. Children don't usually understand the reason behind it but the feeling of abandonement and rejection is traumatic. Imagine yourself being given away too, being in our shoes, not just in jackie's situation. - denisa
sobrang galing kasi ng psychologist madrasta. inapply ang pinag aralan sa dalawang bata. she earned their love and respect but she also earned the spite of all outside their family, knowingly and unknowingly. kahit ano pang gawin ng mga paras, unless it is about addressing the real issue of forgiveness and understanding. majajudge at majajudge sila esp. ang stepmom who she is probably thinking na tagumpay sya na ma alienate ang 2 bata sa tunay nilang ina pero sa mga mata ng publiko, e sya ang dahilan ng patuloy na hidwaan ng mag iina. if she truly loves her STEP-children, she should teach them how to not hate their mother rather be magnanimous at ipangalandakan pa na sya lang ang tinuturing na ina ng mga bata. dahil kahit anong gawin nya, she will forever remain a stepmother only.
1.28 Jackie walang umagaw sa mga pinabayaan ng ina. Tactic mo lang yang siraan ang mga nag aruga sa anak mo. Ikaw ang manipulative at vindictive kaya na sense ng mga bata na hindi ka dapat pagtiwalaan.
Madaling mabuntis and yes mahirap manganak pero mas mahirap mag raise ng anak. Imagine how many years na sya ang kasama and instead of jackie being on their side siya ang kumalinga, maybe yun ang di napapansin ng karamihan kaya mas mahal nila stepmom nila more than their biological mom. Kasi kung talagang masama ugali ng stepmom hindi ganyan ang pagmamahal nila sa stepmom nila
This says a lot on how they were treated by their step mom. They were made to feel as if they were her own. Especially with "the experience" they've had with their biological mother, I guess the feeling of being REALLY loved made Kobe and Andre look up positively to Lyxen. I'm not saying they should hate Jackie, but I think Lyxen deserves their love.
Confeeeermed!! Maldita ang step mudra!! Nagcomment at nagparinig abt the real mommah sa comment nya sa post ni andre! Kung talagang mabuti kang nanay nanayan imbis na paglayuin mo yung mag ina eh paglapitin mo dapat! --- yaya ni jackie
Feel na feel ni madrasta if i am a good mom i will make way to patch things up! Eh magandang example din e! Tsktsk for sure ayaw din nila magkaayos. Nakakaawa din si jackie at 15 nabuntis i hope icredit natin ng konti ang tunay na nanay
i agree, we don't really know what happened pero Nanay parin nila, they can post anything they like pero napaka insensitive nila sa part na to. at sana din yung step mom pag kaayusin, di naman din siguro ni Jackie na kunin sila kasi matatanda na sila, gusto lang niya na magkaayos sila ng mga anak nya.
Felt sorry for Jackie Forster. It must have stung so bad. I really wonder what made these boys turned stone cold towards her. Buti pa yung anak ni Kurt Cobain, kahit ilang beses na syang in- embarrass ng bongga ni Courtney Love, nakuha pa rin nyang I-acknowledge ang kanyang mudra.
I think the problem lies with Jackie. She keeps on bad mouthing and disrespecting their dad and step mom who looked after them when their own bio mom couldn't. Hard to like someone who expect love and forgiveness but can't show the same to the people close to you.
1;16 am yes so true. Jackie earned what she sowed and her attempt to bulldoze herself way back into their lives was so wrong as well as playing it out in the public was low.
Sana inisip din ni Jackie kung GAANO KASAKIT ng iwan ng kanilang sariling ina! Quits lang yan, kulang pa nga eh... The victim-syndrome is rampant here, no wonder pinoys love these "awa-paawa" bida teleseryes
Hay Andre! Bakit ang brutal brutal mo? You're cruel.... This is the most hurtful thing you could ever do to your biological mom! It's like a dagger straight to Jackie's heart.
he is sincere but can't help to think that this is a side swipe to his birth mother. there is nothing wrong to be grateful to your step mom but please never disregard the person who contributed to 50% of your genome. I hope that both parties will get to live a harmonious relationship in God's perfect time.
haaay ang anak ko mahal ba mahal din stepdad nya...kasi nga mahal na mahal din sya...di man namin sya tinuruan pero sya mismo ayaw sa biological dad nya kasi nga wala syang naramdaman o nakuha man kahit konting love..ganun talaga mga bata kung sino nagmamahal at ng-aalaga sa kanila un love nila...pag father's day stepdad nya gini-greet nya
Etong Paras brothers bakit hindi binabash ng fans. They are clearly disrespectful of their mother. No matter anong kasalanan ng ina, ina pa din nila yan. They dont deserve any adulation.
Yet the mother herself didn't think at that time when she left her kids with no mother-figure to mold them... So to be honest, she doesn't even deserve the least sympathies that you all have right now for her!
You must not know them personally to judge them. They already forgave Jackie a long time ago. They have just move on with their lives and for sure they know who is their biological mom.
My mother abandoned us too when we were young but we never sow hatred considering that she left for another man. We may have tampo but not that kind of hatred as they have for Jackie, simply because my father would not let us talk bad about her and we never heard him trash talk her as well. Or may be not in front of us. What I am saying is that, they were too young that time and if their father had guided them well, they will not grow up with that feeling. And remember when the stepmother posted cryptic messages on Facebook which was obviously pertaining to Jackie? Now tell me she did not brainwash them.
I hope Jackie prays for the grace to accept the things that are hard to realize with serenity and move on with her life in peace without her sons. She did her part in trying to win their attention but to no avail. Her sons already made a decision to call someone "Mother" who thankfully did a good job in filling the void left by Jackie. We do not know the real score behind this family, but I wish them all peace and healing.
may pamangkin ako na iniwan ng hipag ko 5 mos pa lang siya.. nung college na pamangkin ko biglang nagpasabi ang hipag ko na gusto niyang makita anak niya, pinayagan naman namin at nagkita sila.. Pag.kaalis niya, tinanong ko pamangkin kung ano naramdaman niya nung makita niya mama.. sagot sa akin..wala, ano ang mararamdaman ko eh hindi ko naman siya nakasama.. siguro nga ganun talaga ang nagiging reaction ng anak kapag nawalay sa magulang.
ang miserable lang ng life nitong mgkapatid na to... with their act? i doubt na masaya pa rin sila by the end of the day... the fact the nakkita nila mukha ng ina nila sa salamin kahit baliktarin mo mundo niloloko nyo lang 2 magkapatid sarili nyo..
Looking at those 2 boys, I could hardly say they have miserable lives. They have done well considering what they have been through. It must have been difficult to hurdle as trust is the most fundamental in a child's developmental milestone and it was their own mother who broke that trust. It must have taken a lot of hardwork for both the father and stepmother to be able to successfully raise them as well adjusted kids. Your life 12:10 am must be very miserable.
if it wasn't for your birth mother, you wouldn't be alive, you wouldn't be able to say those things to your step mom, you don't give credit to her now but you will eventually
That is so overuse. There are a lot of women who gave birth to kids yet abanadon them , deprive their kids of their basic needs and basic rights, do not give their kids the time of day, abuse them or neglect them. They either end up on the streets, foster homes or vagrants. I guess they should all be grateful to their biological parents for giving them such a life.
I have been thru the same. I hated my mom and almost cursed her to death. But forgiveness came to me when I saw her at my door. So NO, i don't understand them. Kahit anong mangyari, cia ang ina and she deserves respect.
kahit na. if they were raised well, di sila magiging ganyan. hatred and nakatanim sa puso nila. they're too young that time at kung sino man ang nagpalaki sa kanila, sya dapat sisihin bakit lumaking mga bato ang puso ng mga bata. mali yun. I am a mother, masakit pag saken nangyari yan. :(
Tama! Kaya who are we to judge them? Yun ang nararamdaman nila para sa step mom so respect them! They've found comfort and love, and she must have done something great ti the bros and she deserves their love
I don't get that "walang patutunguhan" idea of yours. Eh ang layo na nga ng narating, wala pa ring patutunguhan? Ang Nanay ba nila ano na ang accomplishment so far? Nakapag-asawa lang ng mayaman, ganern? So yung Nanay na lang ang pwedeng maging "kahit gaano kasama"? What sort of logic do you have?!
Cant find the words how to describe the feeling of being stab a thousand times hard... Feel sorry for jackie... She's trying her best to reach out though... Yet they always reject her... Its those hard hearted kids problem now... Karma will bite you hard...
jackie must have done something terribly wrong for her sons to be so indifferent to her and the stepmom must have done something right to get this love and adoration from the boys...
Jackie maybe the biological mom but that's a whole lot different from "being" a mother.. There are people out there who loves their grandparents, aunts/uncles more than their parents.. You can't blame Andre or Kobe for feeling that way, coz for kids growing up, the one that matters is the people who stayed..
They are being grateful to their stepmother, obviously they really love her because she's good to them. Who are we to judge these kids?!? Di ba dapat matuwa tayo na napalaki sila ng maayos, both kids are doing very well in school, maaga palang may career path na sila. Im not saying that jackie should be thankful to lyxen, thats a diff story and she has all the right to feel how she feels with regards to her kids. Pero sometimes we just have to take things at face value and stop the drama. Its mothers day, para sa iba hindi lang "biological" ang pagkakaroon ng ina.
My opinion if i were the stepmom ng dalawang batang eto hahayaan kong yong mga bata ang magdesisyon paglaki nila ika nga ang Ina ay ina,, papaano kung dumating ang panahong magmatured yong two boys at magkaayos sila ni Jackie, masakit din para sa stepmom yon, ang buhay ay parang bola umiikot
nakakabilib ang step mom di ba, minahal niya na parang tunay na anak yong dalawa.. ang hirap kaya nun ... lalo na kung mary sarili ka na rin anak, maninimbang ka di ba? kung kayo ang step mom at ganyan kayo kamahal ng step sons mo... di ba proud and happy ka?
Let's not be judgemental to anyone. We all don't know what really happened in their household when those kids were with their mom.
I agree those posts are hurtful to Jackie but as I said we don't know the whole story. I'm sure both sides have their own faults. All that we can do is pray that they all will find it in their hearts to forgive & forget.
Wala akong masyadong alam sa nangyari sa buhay nilang lahat ang alam ko lang napakasakit nito sa isang ina..siguro kahit hindi ka pa ina ramdam mo na yung sakit kapag nabasa mo to galing sa sarili mong dugo at laman..ina rin si lyxen kahit alam nya na never mangyayari sa kanya tong nangyayari kay jackie sana ina sa ina na lang sana pinaalala nya sa 2 ang mararamdaman ng totoong ina sa posts nila..haaay kahit konting konsiderasyon..life is short..konting puso naman para sa taong nagluwal..kalungkot..
We don't know the real story of what happened to their family kaya let's hold our judgement to ourselves na lang. All I can say is, masakit for sure sa biological mom ang makitang may tinuturing na ibang nanay ang sariling mga anak. How sad naman.
Your stepmom's sacrifices are nothing Compared to your mother's sacrifices when she decided to let you be born in this world at a very young age. Never again disrespect your mother for the whole world to see, you don't know what love is, that's not love you feel for your stepmom, it's appreciation for her taking care of both you while your mom was persona non grata in your home courtesy of your father. Love is forgiving and letting go of your hatred. Honor your mother mga iho, isa yan sa Samsung katuutusan ng Dyos Ama , one day you'll harvest what you sow.
Thats why they hate their mom, yung mga reaction nio making them the bad person. As portrayed sa films or tv shows, ang mga step mom ang masama, w/c koby and andre obviously didnt felt with lyxen. Kaya sila grateful and love her. U can't choose ur family pro u can choose who to fight for and love. Jackie made her choice and so did they. Kaya sige ibash nio pa silang magkapatid ng lalo silang mainis kay Jackie.
SUBRA naman yata to! parang nainis na talaga ako sa dalawang lalaking to! grabeeeeeeeeee! may iba nga dyan iniwan din ng mga walang hiyang parents nakaka forgive naman eh! sila? grabe napakatigas! hindi na nakakatuwa!!!
Bakit kasi pinipressure silang i forgive si Jackie. Hindi naman si Jackie o madlang pipol ang dapat mag desisyon nun, sasabihin ng mga bata kung kelan sila ready.
these two boys do not honor their mother. grabe ang sasama nyong 2. para kayong di inalagaan nung maliit pa kayo ng tunay nyong ina! napaka. DISRESPECTFUL!
If totoong napalaki sila ng maayos ng stepmom nila, bakit patuloy nilang sinasaktan ang tunay nilang ina. Grabe ang naitanim na poot sa puso ng dalawang binatang ito. Di man lang napunuan ng stepmom nila para maging mabuting anak sila
Eh di ba nga hindi naman talaga sila inalagaan?! Kaya nga nagalit sila eh. Besides, wala naman silang sinabing nega about their own mom di ba? Nagpasalamat lang sila sa step mom. What's wrong with that eh sa sya yung andun nung panahong kailangan ng mga bata eh. Sows...marunong ka pa eh.
we don't really know what happened pero Nanay parin nila, they can post anything they like pero napaka insensitive nila sa part na to. at sana din yung step mom pag kaayusin, di naman din siguro ni Jackie na kunin sila kasi matatanda na sila, gusto lang niya na magkaayos sila ng mga anak nya.
I raised my daughter not hating her biological father who abandoned us when she was just a toddler. But every time people would ask her about her biological father, she simply calls him 'the sperm donor.' My daughter is now 25 years old and nor once she asked for her biological father. But she loves her stepfather more than anything else. Kids have their minds. Let's just respect their decision on who should they will love, respect and trust.
I think d naman to paraninig. They are just honoring the woman that raised them and treated them as their own child. We don't know what happened to them and their real mom. Who are we to judge?
grabe nman sna man lng khit pahapyaw eh binati man lng nya ang biological mom nya ng mothers day.. wla ka dito sa mundong ito kung dhil sa nanay mo.... mhirap manganak noh... u shud know that....
So hanggang sa panganganak na lang ba yun? Yes, mahirap yung 9 months na dala mo yung bata at yung mismong panganganak. Pero maliit na bagay yun kumpara sa pagod, puyat, at minsan sama ng loob na aabutin mo sa MGA TAON habang lumalaki pa lang ang mga bata. Alam ko dahil may 2 anak na lalaki rin ako.
I stopped longing for my biological dad when I realized how lucky I was to have my step dad. And you know what? At the end of the day, my affection and loyalty will always be for my step father. Blood is not always thicker.
andami pa rin palang nag-iisip nung wala ka kung wala nanay/tatay mo. while that might be biologically true, hindi na yan ang pinag-uusapan dito. mas matindi ang hinihingi ng pagiging magulang, hindi lang yong ipanganak mo. kasi kung di mo kayang panindigan, mabuti pang di mo na lang ipinanganak. so ano, salamat ipinanganak mo ako pero iniwan mo naman? ano ine-expect mong mararamdaman nung mga bata?
But that also depends sa mga kasama sa bahay ng mga bata if they've given the biological parent a chance to be a "parent" to the children. Sa case na yan kase he said, she said. Pero sa bandang huli cradle snatcher par in Benjie Paras
Di nya iniwan mga bata. It's just so happen na mas financially stable si Benjie that time. at eto pa, sana kahit that time, di nya nilayo ang mga bata. pwede naman nasa kanya mga bata pero nadadalaw ni Jackie. Nilayo talaga nya, pano naman sya makikilala ng mga bagets??? at eto naming mga bata, pasulsol sa tatay at stepmom nila. :(
Maling turo ng mga taong nagpalake s kanila!...grabe mga bata kayo!..kung nasaktan mn kau wag nyo gantihan ang Nanay nyo sa gnyng paraan,lumalabas din na masama dn kayung anak!.mali ng pagpapalake s inyo ng stepmom at tatay nyo...di kayu nakaka proud!
Kung mali pagpapalaki sa kanila siguro napariwara na sila .. Malaking porsyento ng kabataan ang napapariwara o nag dadrugs at iba pang bisyo dahil sa Broken Family.. Kaya nakakatawa lang yang sinasabi mo.. Ang pagpapatawad inde yan pinipilit , binibigay yan pag naghilom ng yung sakit mula sa ginawa ni jackie ..
baka wala naman sila intention to hurt jackie. too grateful lang sila sa stepmom nila cguro na minsan nagmumukha lang patama kay jackie, pero hindi naman intentionally para magparinig kay jackie. if i were jackie, i'll keeo quiet na lang and let God do the miracle para di na lumala.
Si jackie nung na inlove at nabuntis ay sobrang bata pa. Immature pa sya noon.. Hindi mo masisisi kung ganyn ang ugali nya noong time na kasama pa nya mga anak nya. Ngayong matanda na sya, tsaka nya narealized lahat. Si benji kse, sya ang matanda na noon! Cradle snatcher!
I just wish that Andre and Kobe will not one day regret not recognizing their biological mother who brought them into this world no matter what their past relationship was. Another sad family tale.
Nageexpress lng ng pagmamahal ang 2 bata sa step mom nila, wala nmn masama dun..pano naging disrespectful ang post? wala nmn silang masamang sinabi kay Jackie...hindi nmn porket may totoo silang ina na nagiwan sa kanila, bawal na sila magpost ng appreciation sa stepmom nila..
mahirap kasi makisimpatya kay jackie sa lahat ng pinagpopost niya. nakakaawa siya pero kasi bago siya patawarin at tanggapin ng mga anak niya dapat siguro umpisahan niya sa sarili na aminin yung mga ginawa at pagkukulang niya that time. i doubt na nabrainwash sila andre ang laki na kaya nila sa mga picture! isa pa ang bata hindi nawawala sa memory nila once na nakita nila love at pagaaruga ng isang tao anu pa kaya kung nanay ka.
pero sa tingin ko napatawad na siya ni andre at kobe, siguro ayaw nalang nila na magkaroon ng connection kay jackie kasi natatakot sila na mangyari ulet yun ngyari before na sila lang ang tanging nakakaalam. isa pa parang nakakatakot si jackie parang any moment mag tatatalak kapag may hindi nagustuhan.hahahahaha
Pasensya na, pero nakakairita makabasa ng comments dito, kesyo inggrato, kesyo napakatigas, kesyo bastos, kesyo dapat magpatawad etcetera etcetera. Madaling mag advice, kasi hindi natin buhay. Bigyang respeto naman natin yung pagpapahayag nila ng pagmamahal sa stepmom nila. You may not agree with it, but they are entitled to their feelings. Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to allow the person who hurt you back into your life. And just because they don't express their respect in a way pleasing to all of you does not mean they disrespect their biological mother. Ang magulang ay higit sa pagluluwal o pagiging biological parent, ang pagiging magulang ay ang pagtuturo ng tamang daan at pagaaruga sa isang bata.
Si Lyxen pa ang masama? Sya na nga nag-aruga at kinalakihang ina ng dalwang bata?. Di porket kaawawa mga posts ni Jackie sa social media eh kalimutan na lqng ng 2 ang lahat. Di nyo alam anung feeling na maabandona. Wag kayong magmarunong. Kay daling sabihing magpatawad. Sa mga taong ganyan din ung ma-experienced di ganun kadali un. In time cguro pero sa ngaun irespeto nyo decisions nila.
Who are we to judge those kids? Thats what they really felt and they're only expressing it since it is Mother's day. Masama na pala ang magsabi ng paghanga at pagmamahal sa taong inalagaan at tinuring kang anak. Wala naman akong nabasang nilait nila ang biological mother nila. Mga pinoy talaga. Let them be. Let the children express what they want. Magalit kayo kung they said something bad to Jackie but since wala naman stop bashing the kids.
This is an extremely difficult and painful situation for all of them. We have no right to judge any one of them because we dont know the whole story no matter how much they feed us thru media still sila sila lang ang nakaka alam ng buong katotohanan.
Bakit nga ba lagi na lang ipagdidiinan ng mga tao na kahit anu pa ginawang kasalan ng ina mo she still deserves to be forgiven ng ganun+ganun na lang dahil utang na loob mo ang buhay mo sa kanya. I find that unfair, di mo hiniling iluwal ka nya dito sa mundo, her own choice tapos sasaktan at iaabandona ka. T******!
Before you all say na disrespectful ang dalawang ito sa biological mom nya, ano b ang dapat nilang gawin? Na once bumalik ang mom nila after so many years (let's not forget she has a family of her own as well) tatanggapin n lang ni Kobe and Andre with open arms? Jackie is asking for way too much from these 2. Asking for forgiveness is enough, but asking them to accept her once more as their mother? That's ridiculous. Yes biological mom title goes to her. But the woman that raised the 2 boys is the one that is irreplaceable. She stood by the boys no matter what even if it's not her own kin.
Jackie should learn to live and breathe every word in the Serenity Prayer; maybe the healing process for the sake of all of her children would finally start.
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ReplyDeletethese are too painful for Jackie. ouchiemuch.
DeleteEasy lang kayo sa mga comments. malamang hindi nila alam yung message nung biological mom nila coz she could be block sa social medias nila and they might not be updated sa mga showbiz chismis like you all are here! Pero why the so…what could have happend between them?
DeleteNo nega please. It's their prerogative to choose who they consider as mom. People should mind their own business.
DeleteMagpaturo kaya tong dalawang batang to kay KC kung paano matanggap ang biological parent.
Deletekahit anong kasalanan magulang mo hindi dapat ganito ang ipapamukha nyo. madali lang bawiin ni LORD ang tinatamasa nyo ngayon kung hindi kayo marunong magbigay respeto sa nanay nyo.
Delete1:21 AM KC 'S LIFE WAS NOT AS TRAUMATIC S THOSE BOYS.
Deleteang sakit nito para kay Jackie.my heart bleeds for her. hindi ko pa rin kakalimutan ang HONORY THY MOTHER N THY FATHER.. walang ifs and buts.
DeleteSila stepmom, Andre at Kobe same sila ng shape ng mouth.
Deleteshe must have done something right for the boys to love and adore her that much...kids give what they receive...sheust have nurtured them,loved them,held them when they cried and when ther were scared...no amount of brainwash would make kids love someone unless that someone has sincerely loved them and cared for them...i feel for jackie but it's about time she made peace with the stepmom that way she can start reaching out to her boys...as long as she fights the stepmom andre and kobe would not listen to her...she just needs to stop fighting and start making peace....
Delete1;50 AM THAT'S FOR YOU TO SAY. Kindly leave those boys alone as you did not walk or bear their path. What we see are the public posts of the biological mother but we were not there when she inflicted those hurts. The boys are well educated and intelligent enough to make their own decisions.
Delete1:49 am the God that I know is not vengeful.
DeleteAng daming feelingera, kala sila yung mga bata. Wag ninyong personalin ang kalagayan ni Jackie. Hindi kayo sya at sya ang unang magblock sa inyo kung ayaw niya ang mga sinasabi ninyo pero ang mga bata hindi nila pwedeng gawin yun dahil babash agad sila. #isipisipdin
DeleteI don't really get all these harsh comments below. These 2 kuds simply expressed their love for their stepmother. What's so wrong about shouting it out to the world eh sa mahal nila uung tao. Wla naman direct swipe at jackie eh.
DeleteAndre Paras! You'll never go far until you know where you came from. Learn how to forgive your own mother.
ReplyDeleteTrue...
Deletethey can forgive, but it's pretty tough to forget... especially kung ang stepmom ay loving at supportive... remember, hindi lang biological ang batayan ng pagiging nanay.
DeleteWho are you to tell him so? He just stated his appreciation to the person that raised him most of his life. He did not say anything bad about his biological mom. Giving birth does not make you a mother honey or a parent. Obviously she did something right with these kids as it is very hard to win the affection , love and respect of stepchildren and with these kids trust must have been an issue after what their biological mother apparently did to them. Why are you so affected and why do you demand this on the child ? He will find closure at some point in his life but the wounds that was inflicted on them , they alone can find healing.
DeleteBest comment.
DeleteHi Jackie! Hindi dapat pinu-push sa tao yan, nasa sa kanila na yan kung kelan nila mararamadaman na time na para magpatawad. hindi naman siguro forever na ganyan sila sayo.
DeleteMaybe they've forgiven her already. But forgiveness doesn't mean jackie can re-enter their lives. As we can see, someone already filled the role of a mother that was supposed to be jackie's.
DeleteYou're not in their shoes so stop judging them
DeleteDi mo pwedeng panakot yan. Kamo sabihin mo yan sa nanay nya para mahimasmasan. Di porke inang lumuwal sa yo, lahat ng pang aabuso patawarin agad.
DeleteTama at wala kang mukhang ganyan kung hindi sa nanay mo. Sana kahit konting forgivess bigay nyo na sa tunay nyo mom since malaki na kayo to understand
Deleteagree. they keep hurting their REAL mom by intentionally making innuendos. this Lyzen seems to have evil motives and must be laughing inside with this. Paras bros, pls keep in mind you wont succeed if you keep being ungrateful to a person who let you see the world
DeleteMaybe they will forgive her if she stops harassing them on social media.
DeleteIn time
Delete12: i agree with your comment
Deleteswerte ng stepmom from 2 loving step sons !!!
Delete@anom 12:11
Deletethe so-called love and respect given to the stepmom may have been earned by the stepmom in a manipulative way. perfect example is why these children hate their bilogical mom so much. sobrang galing lang kasi ng stepmom dahil psychologist. sobrang ginamit nya ang pinag aralan nya para mapaganda nya ang tingin sa kanya ng mga stepchildren nya kahit sa ibang tao e kailanman di sila maiintindihan.
True 12:11!!
DeleteTrue Anon 12:11!!
DeleteSI 1:10 AM sure akong si Jackie...ganyang ganyan lang mag-comment. Lol
Delete1.10 napaka hater mo naman. why don't you just acknowledge that they grew up well and that's thanks to Benji and their step mom not Jackie.
DeleteGive those boys a break, about the evil stepmom. Both boys are smart, levelheaded and well educated to be manipulated and are old enough to discern the truth. There are actually step parents , foster parents that actually earn the love, respect and appreciation of their step or adopted kids because they gave unconditional love, time and effort and sacrificed for those kids. Kids are smarter than you think and no amount of brainwash can force those kids to give that love back.
Delete1:10 AM you can rant or say anything you want. you can paint the stepmother as evil as manipulative as you want but you could not change or erase the fact how those 2 boys appreciate, love and respect their stepmother. Those are exceptionally well raised kids. they must have forgiven their biological mother as they are well adjusted but it does not mean that they are ready to allow her to push her way into their lives. She seems unstable , volatile and tends to use the media to rant a lot. The biological mother needs to appreciate the people who took care of those 2 broken souls instead of making them out as monsters. If those 2 parents are as evil as the biological mother paints them to be, the children are surprisingly too well adjusted to be a product of such montrosity. The biological mother needs to accept her failures and learn how to accept that you can not just hurt people around you and come back, disrupt their lives and pick-up where you left off and feel entitled to acceptance love and respect that you think those kids owe to you. Love begets love , respect begets respect.
Deletepsychologist lang ginawan mo pa ng issue. kahit normal na tao kayang magmanipulate, and who are you to throw those baseless accusations? makajump ka naman into conclusions. wala bang mga isip ang mga bata? maybe she earned the love of the kids, kaya siya mahal na mahal. wala yatang nagturong magmahal sayo.
Deletesakit nito grabe
ReplyDeletesobrang sakit nito para kay jackie..
ReplyDeleteMajor major OUCH for Jackie
ReplyDeleteYan sagot ni andre sa post ng mudra nya. #ouch
ReplyDeleteGraveh sakit nman nyan for jackie, his biological mother. She really made the wrong decision in giving her kids up and not seeing her while they were growing up. If I were jackie, I won't give up my kids no matter what. I'd take them wherever I go. I'm pretty sure jackie would get hurt once she reads her son's message to his stepmom. Sad.
ReplyDeleteGetting hurt is great understatement, baka maglaslas na si Jackie when she reads this. Graveh ang sakiiit!!
DeleteMy black sheep sister left her 3 kids when they're still young. She left them and the husband at sumama sa ibang lalaki. After almost 7 years of hate to their mother, dumating ang oras na sila na mismo gusting makita Nanay nila. Yes, now pati kaming mga kapatid naging maayos na. I pray for their family, too. We are just passing here on earth. Learn to forgive, Andre and Kobe.
DeleteMas mahal talaga nila ang step mom nila kesa sa biological mom nila... I wonder kung bakit ganun ang turing nila sa real mom nila... Siguro grabe talaga ang traumatic experience nila kay jackie dati... Grineet ang step mom pero ang biological mom hindi....
ReplyDeleteThats the MYSTERY……
DeleteDi ko maisip at 7 or 6 alam na ng bata ang traumatic experienxe, i think may dagdag bawas din sa pagpapalaki sa mga taong to.
Delete@anon 12:42. Ant**ga lang ng comment mo.. Of course kahot ganun ka bata nakakaranas na din ng trauma.. Tumatanim un sa utak nila..
DeleteBeautiful message... you can feel how andre's, and probably kobe's, need for a mother has been properly fulfilled...
ReplyDeleteYep. nagpost din si Kobe
Deleteang mga batang ito, kailangan talaga isampal sa biological mom nila na iba ang tinuturing nilang nanay.
ReplyDeleteI understand that your mom might have done something in the past, but also know that you're not going to be in this world without her.
The stepmother earned their love , trust and respect. Most step children's relationship with the step parent do not come that far. The fact that they treat her as their real mother means she did something right.
DeleteSobrang tindi ng galit ng 2 sa nagsilang sa kanila. One side lang naririnig nila eh, why don't they hear the other side also, remember, there are 2 sides lagi. Kawawang Jackie, no matter what she does, ang titigas ng mga anak nya..
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DeleteMy dear, any woman can be pregnant and give birth but it does not make them a mother. My biological gave me up too. I was raised by a step mom. I don't owe my biological mom anything for giving me away. Acknowledging that she was my birth mom is enough. Children don't usually understand the reason behind it but the feeling of abandonement and rejection is traumatic. Imagine yourself being given away too, being in our shoes, not just in jackie's situation.
Delete- denisa
11:19 that is why she is called " biological "
Deleteafter giving birth, the responsibility doesn't stop there
who knows what she did that is so traumatic to her sons
12:15 kung ganyan katitigas ang dalawa itanong mo kay jackie kung anong ginawa nya!
Deletesobrang galing kasi ng psychologist madrasta. inapply ang pinag aralan sa dalawang bata. she earned their love and respect but she also earned the spite of all outside their family, knowingly and unknowingly. kahit ano pang gawin ng mga paras, unless it is about addressing the real issue of forgiveness and understanding. majajudge at majajudge sila esp. ang stepmom who she is probably thinking na tagumpay sya na ma alienate ang 2 bata sa tunay nilang ina pero sa mga mata ng publiko, e sya ang dahilan ng patuloy na hidwaan ng mag iina. if she truly loves her STEP-children, she should teach them how to not hate their mother rather be magnanimous at ipangalandakan pa na sya lang ang tinuturing na ina ng mga bata. dahil kahit anong gawin nya, she will forever remain a stepmother only.
Deleteang no matter what she does mo kasi teh di naman talaga nakakatulong. yong constant pang-aaway sa tatay nila, yon ayaw nila.
Delete12:13 -- Lyxen did something right and wrong at the same time. Inagaw niya pagiging mother sa dalawa.
Delete1:28 am nothing was ever inagaw in your terms. They chose to give back the love and respect that their stepmother gave to them.
Delete1.28 Jackie walang umagaw sa mga pinabayaan ng ina. Tactic mo lang yang siraan ang mga nag aruga sa anak mo. Ikaw ang manipulative at vindictive kaya na sense ng mga bata na hindi ka dapat pagtiwalaan.
DeleteMadaling mabuntis and yes mahirap manganak pero mas mahirap mag raise ng anak. Imagine how many years na sya ang kasama and instead of jackie being on their side siya ang kumalinga, maybe yun ang di napapansin ng karamihan kaya mas mahal nila stepmom nila more than their biological mom. Kasi kung talagang masama ugali ng stepmom hindi ganyan ang pagmamahal nila sa stepmom nila
DeleteOuch!-jackie
ReplyDeleteSana gumawa din sya kay jackie poser. sana magkayos na sila magina
ReplyDeleteAno ba nagawa ni Jackie at sobra na lang ang galit sa kanya ng mga anak nya? Masakit ito para sa kanya :(
ReplyDeletepatola din itong si andre.. bravo!
ReplyDeletehiyang hiya naman un matris na nagluwal sayo
At hiyang hiya naman si andre at kobe sa comment mo. Alam na alam mo ata nanyare eh.
DeleteToo painful for his mom to read, i am not privy to the truth, but in the future when he becomes a dad, he mght be more compassionate
ReplyDeleteI feel so sorry for jackie :( is andre spiteful?
ReplyDeleteHow sweet! I bet she's a great mom imagine being close to those 2 bagets despite everything.
ReplyDeleteSiempre, back in her mind she was thing these two will be her milking cows. Mga anak naman nya ordinaryo lang
DeleteLyxen, grabe tulog ka na! It's not sweet. It leaves a very bad taste in our mouths
DeleteThis says a lot on how they were treated by their step mom. They were made to feel as if they were her own. Especially with "the experience" they've had with their biological mother, I guess the feeling of being REALLY loved made Kobe and Andre look up positively to Lyxen. I'm not saying they should hate Jackie, but I think Lyxen deserves their love.
ReplyDeleteAgree! You cannot force them to give Jackie a chance but I hope and pray time will come that everything's going to be okay
Deletestepmom: touching and yey
ReplyDeletebirthmom:sad and sobrang ouch
aww.lets wait the real jackie now!!
ReplyDeleteit hurts me so much :( -mommy jackie
ReplyDeleteandre, mahalin mo rin ako. i love you so much!!!!
ReplyDeleteaaaaaaaaaray ko!!! -- jackie
ReplyDeleteYou're such a good son Andrei. I sallute you.
ReplyDeleteouch! - jf
ReplyDeleteConfeeeermed!! Maldita ang step mudra!! Nagcomment at nagparinig abt the real mommah sa comment nya sa post ni andre! Kung talagang mabuti kang nanay nanayan imbis na paglayuin mo yung mag ina eh paglapitin mo dapat! --- yaya ni jackie
ReplyDeleteFeel na feel ni madrasta if i am a good mom i will make way to patch things up! Eh magandang example din e! Tsktsk for sure ayaw din nila magkaayos. Nakakaawa din si jackie at 15 nabuntis i hope icredit natin ng konti ang tunay na nanay
DeleteWala naman pinarinig guilty lang ang magreact!
Deletei agree, we don't really know what happened pero Nanay parin nila, they can post anything they like pero napaka insensitive nila sa part na to. at sana din yung step mom pag kaayusin, di naman din siguro ni Jackie na kunin sila kasi matatanda na sila, gusto lang niya na magkaayos sila ng mga anak nya.
DeleteTheres nothing wrong in stepmom reply. Nabasa ko, wag kang nega.
DeleteFelt sorry for Jackie Forster. It must have stung so bad. I really wonder what made these boys turned stone cold towards her. Buti pa yung anak ni Kurt Cobain, kahit ilang beses na syang in- embarrass ng bongga ni Courtney Love, nakuha pa rin nyang I-acknowledge ang kanyang mudra.
ReplyDeleteI think the problem lies with Jackie. She keeps on bad mouthing and disrespecting their dad and step mom who looked after them when their own bio mom couldn't. Hard to like someone who expect love and forgiveness but can't show the same to the people close to you.
Delete1;16 am yes so true. Jackie earned what she sowed and her attempt to bulldoze herself way back into their lives was so wrong as well as playing it out in the public was low.
Deletethis is sad. i feel sad for the real mom ;(
ReplyDeleteOuch kay jackie.
ReplyDeleteAndre that's bad. Di mo alam gaano kasakit yan sa totoong mommy mO. So disappointed :(
ReplyDeleteSana inisip din ni Jackie kung GAANO KASAKIT ng iwan ng kanilang sariling ina! Quits lang yan, kulang pa nga eh... The victim-syndrome is rampant here, no wonder pinoys love these "awa-paawa" bida teleseryes
Deletewhat about the pain the real Mom has inflicted on these 2 boys ?
Deleteit must be really traumatic
Hay Andre! Bakit ang brutal brutal mo? You're cruel.... This is the most hurtful thing you could ever do to your biological mom! It's like a dagger straight to Jackie's heart.
ReplyDeletehe is sincere but can't help to think that this is a side swipe to his birth mother. there is nothing wrong to be grateful to your step mom but please never disregard the person who contributed to 50% of your genome. I hope that both parties will get to live a harmonious relationship in God's perfect time.
ReplyDeleteWould you tell the same for surrogate babies? abandoned and adopted kids?
DeleteThanks anon 1:12 I was about to say that.
Deletehaaay ang anak ko mahal ba mahal din stepdad nya...kasi nga mahal na mahal din sya...di man namin sya tinuruan pero sya mismo ayaw sa biological dad nya kasi nga wala syang naramdaman o nakuha man kahit konting love..ganun talaga mga bata kung sino nagmamahal at ng-aalaga sa kanila un love nila...pag father's day stepdad nya gini-greet nya
DeleteEtong Paras brothers bakit hindi binabash ng fans. They are clearly disrespectful of their mother. No matter anong kasalanan ng ina, ina pa din nila yan. They dont deserve any adulation.
ReplyDeleteYet the mother herself didn't think at that time when she left her kids with no mother-figure to mold them... So to be honest, she doesn't even deserve the least sympathies that you all have right now for her!
Deleteuhmmm baka wala kasi talaga silang fans... hindi sisikat mga ganyan.. sana itahimik na lang nila lahat.. kawawa ung nagbigay buhay sa kanila e
DeletePak!
DeleteClearly, you have much to learn about life. Just because they choose to love their stepmother doesn't mean they are being disrespectful of their mom.
DeleteYou must not know them personally to judge them. They already forgave Jackie a long time ago. They have just move on with their lives and for sure they know who is their biological mom.
DeleteAnsabeh ni Jackie?
ReplyDeleteHay naku hinahantay ko rin
DeleteKahit si Kobe ang touching din ng message nya sa stepmom nila
ReplyDeleteMeron din post si Kobe na sobrang ouch din for Jackie, Jackie really f up.
ReplyDeletehe should at least thank his bio-mom for his tisoy genes. kahit yun man lang.
ReplyDeleteMy mother abandoned us too when we were young but we never sow hatred considering that she left for another man. We may have tampo but not that kind of hatred as they have for Jackie, simply because my father would not let us talk bad about her and we never heard him trash talk her as well. Or may be not in front of us. What I am saying is that, they were too young that time and if their father had guided them well, they will not grow up with that feeling. And remember when the stepmother posted cryptic messages on Facebook which was obviously pertaining to Jackie? Now tell me she did not brainwash them.
DeleteI hope Jackie prays for the grace to accept the things that are hard to realize with serenity and move on with her life in peace without her sons. She did her part in trying to win their attention but to no avail. Her sons already made a decision to call someone "Mother" who thankfully did a good job in filling the void left by Jackie. We do not know the real score behind this family, but I wish them all peace and healing.
ReplyDeleteSakto. Sana ipagpasalamat nalang nya na may sumalo o umako sa papel nya nung hindi nya kayang maging nanay.
Deletedarating din ang panahon na pagsisisihan mo ang mga nagawa at hindi mo nagawa
ReplyDeletemay pamangkin ako na iniwan ng hipag ko 5 mos pa lang siya.. nung college na pamangkin ko biglang nagpasabi ang hipag ko na gusto niyang makita anak niya, pinayagan naman namin at nagkita sila.. Pag.kaalis niya, tinanong ko pamangkin kung ano naramdaman niya nung makita niya mama.. sagot sa akin..wala, ano ang mararamdaman ko eh hindi ko naman siya nakasama.. siguro nga ganun talaga ang nagiging reaction ng anak kapag nawalay sa magulang.
ReplyDeleteang miserable lang ng life nitong mgkapatid na to... with their act? i doubt na masaya pa rin sila by the end of the day... the fact the nakkita nila mukha ng ina nila sa salamin kahit baliktarin mo mundo niloloko nyo lang 2 magkapatid sarili nyo..
ReplyDeleteLooking at those 2 boys, I could hardly say they have miserable lives. They have done well considering what they have been through. It must have been difficult to hurdle as trust is the most fundamental in a child's developmental milestone and it was their own mother who broke that trust. It must have taken a lot of hardwork for both the father and stepmother to be able to successfully raise them as well adjusted kids. Your life 12:10 am must be very miserable.
Deletei think they are happy. kita mo naman di ba? yon nga lang, dahil mas marunong ka, sige na nga, di sila masaya at the end of the day.
Deleteikaw 12:10, masaya ka ba pag nakikita mo ang sarili mo gayong alam mong napaka judgmental mo sa ibang tao?
Deleteif it wasn't for your birth mother, you wouldn't be alive, you wouldn't be able to say those things to your step mom, you don't give credit to her now but you will eventually
ReplyDeleteThat is so overuse. There are a lot of women who gave birth to kids yet abanadon them , deprive their kids of their basic needs and basic rights, do not give their kids the time of day, abuse them or neglect them. They either end up on the streets, foster homes or vagrants. I guess they should all be grateful to their biological parents for giving them such a life.
DeleteYou will never understand kobe and andre unless you been through the same experience they had..
ReplyDeleteI have been thru the same. I hated my mom and almost cursed her to death. But forgiveness came to me when I saw her at my door. So NO, i don't understand them. Kahit anong mangyari, cia ang ina and she deserves respect.
Deletekahit na. if they were raised well, di sila magiging ganyan. hatred and nakatanim sa puso nila. they're too young that time at kung sino man ang nagpalaki sa kanila, sya dapat sisihin bakit lumaking mga bato ang puso ng mga bata. mali yun. I am a mother, masakit pag saken nangyari yan. :(
DeleteTrue 12.11 Marami ang na brain wash sa mga paawa post ni Jackie.
DeleteTama! Kaya who are we to judge them? Yun ang nararamdaman nila para sa step mom so respect them! They've found comfort and love, and she must have done something great ti the bros and she deserves their love
DeleteWow!binuhusan talaga ng asin ang sugat sa puso ni Jackie!
ReplyDeleteKahit pa gaano kasama ng tunay na Ina nila hindi sila dapat ganyan. Walang patutunguhan ang mga batang yan
ReplyDeletesino ka para magsabing wala silang tutunguhan?
DeleteI don't get that "walang patutunguhan" idea of yours. Eh ang layo na nga ng narating, wala pa ring patutunguhan? Ang Nanay ba nila ano na ang accomplishment so far? Nakapag-asawa lang ng mayaman, ganern? So yung Nanay na lang ang pwedeng maging "kahit gaano kasama"? What sort of logic do you have?!
DeleteI call this family...THE HIGH AND MIGHTY AND MORAL FAMILY!!!! ang moral moral nila! Lalo na ang stepmom! Napakamoral nya!
ReplyDeleteCant find the words how to describe the feeling of being stab a thousand times hard... Feel sorry for jackie... She's trying her best to reach out though... Yet they always reject her... Its those hard hearted kids problem now... Karma will bite you hard...
ReplyDeletejackie must have done something terribly wrong for her sons to be so indifferent to her and the stepmom must have done something right to get this love and adoration from the boys...
DeleteThe stepmother and their father ang dahilan kung bakit ganun na lng ang galit nila sa Nanay nila.
DeleteJackie maybe the biological mom but that's a whole lot different from "being" a mother.. There are people out there who loves their grandparents, aunts/uncles more than their parents.. You can't blame Andre or Kobe for feeling that way, coz for kids growing up, the one that matters is the people who stayed..
ReplyDeleteThey are being grateful to their stepmother, obviously they really love her because she's good to them. Who are we to judge these kids?!? Di ba dapat matuwa tayo na napalaki sila ng maayos, both kids are doing very well in school, maaga palang may career path na sila. Im not saying that jackie should be thankful to lyxen, thats a diff story and she has all the right to feel how she feels with regards to her kids. Pero sometimes we just have to take things at face value and stop the drama. Its mothers day, para sa iba hindi lang "biological" ang pagkakaroon ng ina.
ReplyDelete-hindi po ako si lyxen
walang utang na loob.. Jackie is still your mom you i***t!!
ReplyDeleteMeron silang utang na loob sa taong naging ina nilang totoo. Hindi mo alam ang totoo kaya mind your own business.
Deleteyou wont understand unless you are in their shoes
Deletemind your own business anon 12:42!!
Delete2:32 am
Deleteyou should mind you own business first. The truth does hurt a lot!
Who we are to judge diba? We don't know where Kobe is coming from... But did he really have to post this? For what?
ReplyDeleteHe should still be very thankful to his biological mom. Hindi madali magbuntis ng 9 months at manganak.
My opinion if i were the stepmom ng dalawang batang eto hahayaan kong yong mga bata ang magdesisyon paglaki nila ika nga ang Ina ay ina,, papaano kung dumating ang panahong magmatured yong two boys at magkaayos sila ni Jackie, masakit din para sa stepmom yon, ang buhay ay parang bola umiikot
ReplyDeleteang sakit para sa isang ina ang mga ginawa ng mga batang to.. tsk.tsk.
ReplyDeleteSometimes talaga, what validates motherhood is what your children say about you. Good job, stepmom! You must be very proud of your kids.
ReplyDeletesleep na benjie!
DeleteTrue.
Deletenakakabilib ang step mom di ba, minahal niya na parang tunay na anak yong dalawa.. ang hirap kaya nun ... lalo na kung mary sarili ka na rin anak, maninimbang ka di ba? kung kayo ang step mom at ganyan kayo kamahal ng step sons mo... di ba proud and happy ka?
ReplyDeleteLet's not be judgemental to anyone. We all don't know what really happened in their household when those kids were with their mom.
ReplyDeleteI agree those posts are hurtful to Jackie but as I said we don't know the whole story. I'm sure both sides have their own faults. All that we can do is pray that they all will find it in their hearts to forgive & forget.
Wala akong masyadong alam sa nangyari sa buhay nilang lahat ang alam ko lang napakasakit nito sa isang ina..siguro kahit hindi ka pa ina ramdam mo na yung sakit kapag nabasa mo to galing sa sarili mong dugo at laman..ina rin si lyxen kahit alam nya na never mangyayari sa kanya tong nangyayari kay jackie sana ina sa ina na lang sana pinaalala nya sa 2 ang mararamdaman ng totoong ina sa posts nila..haaay kahit konting konsiderasyon..life is short..konting puso naman para sa taong nagluwal..kalungkot..
ReplyDelete-missRockyB
Wow i cried when i read these, i felt jackies pain. They shouldve not posted these on insta, they couldve just texted her instead.
ReplyDeletePero Jackie can say anything she wants?
DeleteWe don't know the real story of what happened to their family kaya let's hold our judgement to ourselves na lang. All I can say is, masakit for sure sa biological mom ang makitang may tinuturing na ibang nanay ang sariling mga anak. How sad naman.
ReplyDeletewala po tayong right i judge ang paras brothers,, kasi hindi din natin alam ang pinagdaanan nila.. ipagdasal n lng natin na magkaayos silang mag ina..
ReplyDeleteYes, ouch kay Jackie, but you can tell these boys genuinely love their step mom. Bakit nila itatago yung affection na yon?
ReplyDeleteYour stepmom's sacrifices are nothing Compared to your mother's sacrifices when she decided to let you be born in this world at a very young age. Never again disrespect your mother for the whole world to see, you don't know what love is, that's not love you feel for your stepmom, it's appreciation for her taking care of both you while your mom was persona non grata in your home courtesy of your father. Love is forgiving and letting go of your hatred. Honor your mother mga iho, isa yan sa Samsung katuutusan ng Dyos Ama , one day you'll harvest what you sow.
ReplyDeleteThats why they hate their mom, yung mga reaction nio making them the bad person.
ReplyDeleteAs portrayed sa films or tv shows, ang mga step mom ang masama, w/c koby and andre obviously didnt felt with lyxen. Kaya sila grateful and love her. U can't choose ur family pro u can choose who to fight for and love. Jackie made her choice and so did they.
Kaya sige ibash nio pa silang magkapatid ng lalo silang mainis kay Jackie.
SUBRA naman yata to! parang nainis na talaga ako sa dalawang lalaking to! grabeeeeeeeeee! may iba nga dyan iniwan din ng mga walang hiyang parents nakaka forgive naman eh! sila? grabe napakatigas! hindi na nakakatuwa!!!
ReplyDeleteBakit kasi pinipressure silang i forgive si Jackie. Hindi naman si Jackie o madlang pipol ang dapat mag desisyon nun, sasabihin ng mga bata kung kelan sila ready.
Deletethese two boys do not honor their mother. grabe ang sasama nyong 2. para kayong di inalagaan nung maliit pa kayo ng tunay nyong ina! napaka. DISRESPECTFUL!
ReplyDeleteIf totoong napalaki sila ng maayos ng stepmom nila, bakit patuloy nilang sinasaktan ang tunay nilang ina. Grabe ang naitanim na poot sa puso ng dalawang binatang ito. Di man lang napunuan ng stepmom nila para maging mabuting anak sila
DeleteEh di ba nga hindi naman talaga sila inalagaan?! Kaya nga nagalit sila eh. Besides, wala naman silang sinabing nega about their own mom di ba? Nagpasalamat lang sila sa step mom. What's wrong with that eh sa sya yung andun nung panahong kailangan ng mga bata eh. Sows...marunong ka pa eh.
Deletewe don't really know what happened pero Nanay parin nila, they can post anything they like pero napaka insensitive nila sa part na to. at sana din yung step mom pag kaayusin, di naman din siguro ni Jackie na kunin sila kasi matatanda na sila, gusto lang niya na magkaayos sila ng mga anak nya.
ReplyDeleteAno ba talaga ang nangyari jackie?
ReplyDeleteI raised my daughter not hating her biological father who abandoned us when she was just a toddler. But every time people would ask her about her biological father, she simply calls him 'the sperm donor.' My daughter is now 25 years old and nor once she asked for her biological father. But she loves her stepfather more than anything else. Kids have their minds. Let's just respect their decision on who should they will love, respect and trust.
ReplyDeleteExactly!
DeleteI think d naman to paraninig. They are just honoring the woman that raised them and treated them as their own child. We don't know what happened to them and their real mom. Who are we to judge?
ReplyDeletegrabe nman sna man lng khit pahapyaw eh binati man lng nya ang biological mom nya ng mothers day.. wla ka dito sa mundong ito kung dhil sa nanay mo.... mhirap manganak noh... u shud know that....
ReplyDeleteSo hanggang sa panganganak na lang ba yun? Yes, mahirap yung 9 months na dala mo yung bata at yung mismong panganganak. Pero maliit na bagay yun kumpara sa pagod, puyat, at minsan sama ng loob na aabutin mo sa MGA TAON habang lumalaki pa lang ang mga bata. Alam ko dahil may 2 anak na lalaki rin ako.
DeleteNaku kung hindi dahil sa nanay nyo di kayo magiging gwapo. Doon man lang pasalamat kayo. Si andre nga lang nasobrahan ng pisngi. Lolz
ReplyDeleteI stopped longing for my biological dad when I realized how lucky I was to have my step dad.
ReplyDeleteAnd you know what? At the end of the day, my affection and loyalty will always be for my step father. Blood is not always thicker.
1.16 I've always admired people who can love other people's children like their own. I'm glad you appreciate your step dad.
DeleteWe should never judge them, wala tayong lahat sa posisyon para ipagtanggol si Jackie at pagsabihan yung magkapatid.
ReplyDeleteandami pa rin palang nag-iisip nung wala ka kung wala nanay/tatay mo. while that might be biologically true, hindi na yan ang pinag-uusapan dito. mas matindi ang hinihingi ng pagiging magulang, hindi lang yong ipanganak mo. kasi kung di mo kayang panindigan, mabuti pang di mo na lang ipinanganak. so ano, salamat ipinanganak mo ako pero iniwan mo naman? ano ine-expect mong mararamdaman nung mga bata?
ReplyDeleteBut that also depends sa mga kasama sa bahay ng mga bata if they've given the biological parent a chance to be a "parent" to the children.
DeleteSa case na yan kase he said, she said.
Pero sa bandang huli cradle snatcher par in Benjie Paras
Di nya iniwan mga bata. It's just so happen na mas financially stable si Benjie that time. at eto pa, sana kahit that time, di nya nilayo ang mga bata. pwede naman nasa kanya mga bata pero nadadalaw ni Jackie. Nilayo talaga nya, pano naman sya makikilala ng mga bagets??? at eto naming mga bata, pasulsol sa tatay at stepmom nila. :(
DeleteMaling turo ng mga taong nagpalake s kanila!...grabe mga bata kayo!..kung nasaktan mn kau wag nyo gantihan ang Nanay nyo sa gnyng paraan,lumalabas din na masama dn kayung anak!.mali ng pagpapalake s inyo ng stepmom at tatay nyo...di kayu nakaka proud!
ReplyDeleteKung mali pagpapalaki sa kanila siguro napariwara na sila .. Malaking porsyento ng kabataan ang napapariwara o nag dadrugs at iba pang bisyo dahil sa Broken Family.. Kaya nakakatawa lang yang sinasabi mo.. Ang pagpapatawad inde yan pinipilit , binibigay yan pag naghilom ng yung sakit mula sa ginawa ni jackie ..
DeleteThis is sad for the biological mother.
ReplyDeletebaka wala naman sila intention to hurt jackie. too grateful lang sila sa stepmom nila cguro na minsan nagmumukha lang patama kay jackie, pero hindi naman intentionally para magparinig kay jackie. if i were jackie, i'll keeo quiet na lang and let God do the miracle para di na lumala.
ReplyDeleteSi jackie nung na inlove at nabuntis ay sobrang bata pa. Immature pa sya noon.. Hindi mo masisisi kung ganyn ang ugali nya noong time na kasama pa nya mga anak nya. Ngayong matanda na sya, tsaka nya narealized lahat. Si benji kse, sya ang matanda na noon! Cradle snatcher!
ReplyDeleteI just wish that Andre and Kobe will not one day regret not recognizing their biological mother who brought them into this world no matter what their past relationship was. Another sad family tale.
ReplyDeleteNageexpress lng ng pagmamahal ang 2 bata sa step mom nila, wala nmn masama dun..pano naging disrespectful ang post? wala nmn silang masamang sinabi kay Jackie...hindi nmn porket may totoo silang ina na nagiwan sa kanila, bawal na sila magpost ng appreciation sa stepmom nila..
ReplyDeleteI dont know the whole and real story but this is so sad. ang sakit nito for jackie. Please forgive and respect your mom.
ReplyDeleteas much as we want na maging ok silang lahat, kung hindi pa in God's time, hindi pa talaga.
ReplyDeletemahirap kasi makisimpatya kay jackie sa lahat ng pinagpopost niya. nakakaawa siya pero kasi bago siya patawarin at tanggapin ng mga anak niya dapat siguro umpisahan niya sa sarili na aminin yung mga ginawa at pagkukulang niya that time. i doubt na nabrainwash sila andre ang laki na kaya nila sa mga picture! isa pa ang bata hindi nawawala sa memory nila once na nakita nila love at pagaaruga ng isang tao anu pa kaya kung nanay ka.
ReplyDeletepero sa tingin ko napatawad na siya ni andre at kobe, siguro ayaw nalang nila na magkaroon ng connection kay jackie kasi natatakot sila na mangyari ulet yun ngyari before na sila lang ang tanging nakakaalam. isa pa parang nakakatakot si jackie parang any moment mag tatatalak kapag may hindi nagustuhan.hahahahaha
Pasensya na, pero nakakairita makabasa ng comments dito, kesyo inggrato, kesyo napakatigas, kesyo bastos, kesyo dapat magpatawad etcetera etcetera. Madaling mag advice, kasi hindi natin buhay. Bigyang respeto naman natin yung pagpapahayag nila ng pagmamahal sa stepmom nila. You may not agree with it, but they are entitled to their feelings. Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to allow the person who hurt you back into your life. And just because they don't express their respect in a way pleasing to all of you does not mean they disrespect their biological mother. Ang magulang ay higit sa pagluluwal o pagiging biological parent, ang pagiging magulang ay ang pagtuturo ng tamang daan at pagaaruga sa isang bata.
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DeleteSi Lyxen pa ang masama? Sya na nga nag-aruga at kinalakihang ina ng dalwang bata?. Di porket kaawawa mga posts ni Jackie sa social media eh kalimutan na lqng ng 2 ang lahat. Di nyo alam anung feeling na maabandona. Wag kayong magmarunong. Kay daling sabihing magpatawad. Sa mga taong ganyan din ung ma-experienced di ganun kadali un. In time cguro pero sa ngaun irespeto nyo decisions nila.
ReplyDeletePaying tribute to someone important to you is never a bad thing.
ReplyDeleteWho are we to judge those kids? Thats what they really felt and they're only expressing it since it is Mother's day. Masama na pala ang magsabi ng paghanga at pagmamahal sa taong inalagaan at tinuring kang anak. Wala naman akong nabasang nilait nila ang biological mother nila. Mga pinoy talaga. Let them be. Let the children express what they want. Magalit kayo kung they said something bad to Jackie but since wala naman stop bashing the kids.
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This is an extremely difficult and painful situation for all of them. We have no right to judge any one of them because we dont know the whole story no matter how much they feed us thru media still sila sila lang ang nakaka alam ng buong katotohanan.
ReplyDeleteBakit nga ba lagi na lang ipagdidiinan ng mga tao na kahit anu pa ginawang kasalan ng ina mo she still deserves to be forgiven ng ganun+ganun na lang dahil utang na loob mo ang buhay mo sa kanya. I find that unfair, di mo hiniling iluwal ka nya dito sa mundo, her own choice tapos sasaktan at iaabandona ka. T******!
ReplyDeleteCompletely Agree. Whereas it was their choice to have you and bring you to this world; it was never your choice to be born in this world.
Deleteramdam na ramdam ko na presenya ng totoong ina ng dalawang bata saka ang step mom, build up pa more lol
ReplyDeletenganga n naman si jackie forster
ReplyDeleteBefore you all say na disrespectful ang dalawang ito sa biological mom nya, ano b ang dapat nilang gawin? Na once bumalik ang mom nila after so many years (let's not forget she has a family of her own as well) tatanggapin n lang ni Kobe and Andre with open arms? Jackie is asking for way too much from these 2. Asking for forgiveness is enough, but asking them to accept her once more as their mother? That's ridiculous. Yes biological mom title goes to her. But the woman that raised the 2 boys is the one that is irreplaceable. She stood by the boys no matter what even if it's not her own kin.
ReplyDeleteSorry Kobe nganga ka na lang sa NBA careeer mo sama ng ugali mo kahit kailan!
ReplyDeleteJackie should learn to live and breathe every word in the Serenity Prayer; maybe the healing process for the sake of all of her children would finally start.
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