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Thursday, February 5, 2015

FB Scoop: Cancer Patient, Jam of Jamich, Requests Euthanasia


Images courtesy of Facebook: Yexel Sebastian

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    1. Natawa naman ako dun sa wag Iappproach ng sad or nega at Baka mastress e di tsugi. Ironic pero di ba yun gusto niya mangyare?... Pero in a serious note kung chinechemo man siya e try na nilang ihinto at pahithitin na siya ng marijuana. Hindi ako nagbibiro dahil ang marijuana e me analgesic effect at bukod pa yung laugh high effect at food trip effect. Dapat itry na Ito sa mga terminal patients na depressed coz of what they're going through and dahil wala na silang ganang kumain. Sana maiabot Ito sa pamilya niya. Wag siya muna sumuko Hindi niya pa niya natatry itong suggestion ko. At Pag food trip siya puro mga gulay ang ipakain sa kanya. Serious Ito.

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    2. Honga... iexperiment na niya yung maryjane baka maging way pa yun as cure tutal naman sagad na siya wala ng mawawala pa baka me magandang maging effect sa kanya para matigil na yung napakagastos na mga chemo na yan na lalo ka lang pahihirapan baka sa cheap lang na damo e me healing pang makuha. Try niyo sebastian family baka maging precedent pa si jam pag gumaling sya. Baka sign din yan for him coz sikat siya baka makarecover siya e para sa mga kids na din who have the same circumstances… Go Jam! Experiment mo na nothing to lose na naman ang mindset mo e and me logic yung sinabi ni @4:32 yung epekto nga kasi ng maryjane its like fit for that kind of illnesses.

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    3. I agree with you. Matagal ko na sinasabi sa mga kakilala ko ang marijuana na medical purposes. Magaling na pain killer ito at nakakagamot talaga. Sana maapprove ito sa Pinas.

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    4. Pero matindi effect ng maryjane sa utak. At napakatagal tanggalin sa katawan. Kidney at liver dse aabutin nya.

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    5. Don't you get it? Di na nga makakain food trip ka pa dyan. Though I do not condone mercy killing, my heart goes out to Jam. All in God's time.

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    6. Kasi po 4:32, pag nastress sya lalo sya mahihirapan hindi naman mamamatay agad ng dahil sa stress. Magisip ka nga. Suggest ka pa ng marijuana sa tingin mo san sila kukuha nyan ng legal? Tyaka mejo late na ata sa stage nya ung magtry ng other medications.

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    7. @4:32 waaww lung cancer tapos mj ang papahithit mo? Yan tlga ang mercy killing ahaha. Mamamatay sia ng high na high nian. Sure ka bang di pa nya natatry mag weed?

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    8. @4:32 it's a viable option to be honest. yun lang, illegal tlaga sa pinas. so he might just go abroad to undergo the kush treatment.

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    9. Cannabis cures cancer. This has been proven many times over. The family should do research about it and hopefully travel to a U.S. state that provides medical marijuana legally.

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    10. 12:59 AM CANNABIS DOES NOT CURE CANCER, THERE IS STILL NO KNWN CURE FOR CANCER OR IF THERE WAS THEN SOMEBODY SHOULD HAVE RECEIVED THE NOBEL PRIZE FOR THAT. EVEN THE USE OF CANNABIS FOR PAIN CONTROL IS EXPERIMENTAL

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    11. 4:32 bat ka natatawa? totoo nman na di dapat sya ma stress kasi mas lalo syang mahihirapan

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    12. ANON 1:35 AM CANNABIS OUL CAN CURE CANCER. AS WELL AS MARIJUANA CAN BE BENEFECIAL TO OUR HEALTH. AND IRONICALLY THESE TWO HAS BEEN BANNED AND CONSIDERES ILLEGAL. BUT THEY HAVE BEEN SELLING CIGARETTES LEGALLY WHICH IS THE LEADING CAUSE OF LUNG CANCER. DO YOU WAKE UP? CANCER IS A 95.5BILLION INDUSTRY. YOU REALLY BELIEVE THEY WANT TO STOP THAT CASH FLOW? OPEN YOUR MIND. DON'T BE A ROBOT OF YOUR OWN WORLD.

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    13. anon 12:59, you have a lot to learn about cannabis and marijuana and it's history and why it is classified the way it is. research. seriously.

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    14. Naku agree aq un nga rn ssvhn q try nia nga ung mary jane , kc db it rebuilds dead cells accdg to reserch

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    15. 0747 am please show us readers the evidence based practice and then I will believe you . Having worked with the best doctors in the world in cancer care I have not seen any of them used cannabis to treat cancer. If you could show me a person whose cancer was treated with cannabis then I also would like you to tell the world imagine that you would be the first Filipino to ever win the Nobel prize. Imagine all those millions of lives that can be save and imagine all the billion of dollars that can be used to fund another research for. Another disease. Make sure that the evidence is Grade A . Sayang yung caps lock . This argument is coming from a person who makes clinical decisions on treatment plans.

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  2. This is just too heartbreaking... :(

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    1. IKR! I have an uncle who has cancer and underwent a chemo too. He too gave up his chemo because of the pain that came with it. It's just too sad.

      I think, sometimes it's best to give them what they wish for. We have no idea what pain they are experiencing, how badly it hurts them. I just hope and pray that they will do the right thing.

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  3. I think it would be selfish to prolong the life of someone who so desperately wants to move on. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain he must be in, both physically and psychologically.

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    1. True. Isama mo na rin ang pain financially, kahit gaano ang yaman mo pero kung cancer kalaban mo mauubos kayamanan mo

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    2. I think it has become more of a moral dilemma than anything else at this point. May mga belief kasi na hindi acceptable sa relihiyon ang euthanasia to the point na akin to the punishment of suicide na straight to hell. I just heard about that from a friend na may ganon palang paniniwala. Kaya nakakalungkot basahin. Parang torn na torn yung pamilya about what to do lalo na sa kalagayan nung patient. Heartbreaking indeed

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  4. So sad! Pero this delicate matter shouldn't be divulged. Prayers are what public can offer.

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    1. True. Although everyone is concerned with his welfare, some things should be kept private

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    2. You know what, that's what I thought at first too. Pero this made me see yung mga things that are not shown in TV. May moments na ganito and it made me thankful that my family and I are in good health. I guess if the intent was to famewhore then it would be wrong pero in this case wala namang gain na gusto makuha.

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  5. Kaloka ayaw nia mastress pero mamatay gusto nya?!

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    1. Kasi nga hirap na hirap na sya. Wag pilosopo!!!!

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    2. nasasabi mo yan kasi di ka nakakarelate, nagkasakit ka na ba ng malala, alam mo ba pakiramdam? tsaka pag ganyang may sakit talaga,malamang hindi nasa tamang state of mind nakita mo na ba itsura noon, sobrang payat, hirap na hirap. infer don sa gf nya, ang tapang.

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    3. Hoy wag ka mag hasik ng lagim dito ha! Mamili ka naman ng pag uumpisahan mo ng ka negahan mo! Wala ka na ba kahit kaunting awa dyan sa puso mo?! Ok lang mag nega ka dyan sa ibang issue pero mag tira ka naman kahit man lang sa taong dumadanas ng sobrang hirap at gusto na mag pahinga. Ugali mo!

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    4. ang makakaintindi lang kay jam ay yung mga may malalang sakit mismo at cancer survivor!

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    5. Tama ka 2:55! HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

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    6. it's because he's going thru so much already...kahit dampi nga lang daw ng damit masakit na...i can't even imagine how he can go thru like that everyday...kaya please understand na kaya nya ayaw sana ng added stress is because sobra na pinagdadaanan nya..

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    7. Matapang nga gf nya. tapang ng mukha makuha pa mag selfie sa social media. Sa interview sa Tv Patrol di na nakuha pa lumuha. blooming pa si gurl at ang dami nya sexy pictures. Kung ayaw nyo maniwala pumunta kayo sa IG nya. Panay ang selfie at papansin. Panay posing. Ayos din si gurl. madami na nag cocomment ng masama sa kanya don. Pero dinedelete nila. Sa totoo naman no.

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    8. Di mo ba nakikita ang paghihirap niya? Kung ako man yan mas gugustuhin ko pa matapos na lang even through death kesa naman nahihirapan ka lalo na king dun din ang punta nun.

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    9. alam mo yong sinasabi niyang pagod na pagod na siya? yong stress kasi dadagdag lang pero di naman niya ikamamatay yon. pero kung ganun mangyari malamang gugustuhin na rin niya base sa hinihiling niya. di mo kasi alam what it takes for one person to ask for mercy killing. sinabi naman niya gusto niya mabuhay pero hirap na talaga. naku naman talaga mga utak-garapata.

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    10. Nakuha pang mamilosopo dito at tumawa. Hindi niyo ba naintindihan ang severity nito? Na si Jam mas gustuhin pang mamatay kesa mastress? Isipin niyo yun. Bearable pa ang mamatay kasi yun na ang end ng pain. Ang stress nararamdaman mo pa yuN.

      Kung sino ka man na ngcomment 2:55 at 4:32 sana u'll take some time to rethink of what u have just said here. Pg isipan ninyong mabuti anong mali ang nagawa niyo rito at sana di na maulit pa at sana wala ng taong katulad ninyo. Insensitive. Sa tagalog,bastos.

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    11. Lung cancer nag metastesize na to bone cancer. Totoo pag kumalat na, halos wala ng pag asa lalo pa 4th stage na. Sad lang na he is in pain, I pray that di na sya magsuffer ng matagal

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    12. Sinong gustong mamatay nang nasestress? I'm sure, if given a choice, people would rather die peacefully and without pain. Syempre ayaw nang magpastress ng tao.

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  6. Life is so mysterious... daming nangyayari sa buhay na hindi maexplain. Si lord lang ang nakakaalam kung ano ang plano nya sa atin. For jam, madami ang nagmamahal sayo. Nauunawaan nila ang desisyon mo.

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  7. All anyone can do now is pray for him. Lost my dad, mom and 2 sisters to cancer. Pray for what's best for him.

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    1. anon2:58, i also pray that you'll always feel loved by the Lord even if He already took your dad, mom and two sisters

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    2. Mag palliative care sya for cancer patients. Bone cancer is the most painful of all cancers. A good palliative and hospice team dapat amg puntahan nila not euthanasia

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  8. Question. Euthanasia is illegal ba sa Philippines? Is it legal sa states?

    My heart totally breaks for Jam and his family and for Mich. Ang sad tlaga..

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    1. So kailangan muna cyang pumunta sa states para mag pa anesthesia?

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    2. Ewan ko about pinas. Pero sa US, may three (not sure) states ang may law na "right to die" one is Oregon.. Nabalita kasi sa cnn yun..

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    3. Euthanasia is still illegal in the Phils. Doctors are not allowed to practice it here pa.

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    4. it might be illegal but stopping all his treatment is one way of making his life short...tapusin n ang lahat just make him feel comfortable..give him medicine that could take the pain..make him sleep...until unti unti syang mamatay...I think they should respect what he wants

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    5. Anon 4:07 "euthanasia" not anesthesia

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    6. in depends... sa mga naka life support kc family ang may say kung ituturn of na ung machine. so its also euthanasia.

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    7. Sorry natawa ako sa anesthesia ni anon4:07.

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    8. Passive euthanasia is considered legal anywhere. He already opted to stop any form of medications so he's already under euthanasia

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    9. 4.07, euthanasia. ang anesthesia ay iba naman, like pabunot ng ngipin or opera, mga ganun.

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    10. hay naku its not euthanasia nga its called hospice care.

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    11. Euthanasia=Mercy killing. ano pinag sasabi mo dyan? basahin mo ang text ni Jam gusto na nya i mercy kill na sya kaloka ka!

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    12. My patient before who had MND went to Switzerland.He was very intelligent man.First time I spoke with him when he was admitted in the ward he was so vocal that he won't wait for his end and that he wanted to die with dignity.After few weeks he was all over the news and his last photo raising "glass of wine"they call it assisted death.I work in a pallative care so I know how it feels.When my dad was diagnosed of CA end stage.Mom won't give up but I knew that my father had enough.Tiring treatment and so much pain I felt so bad for my father he did not get the best treatment we usually give for our pallative patients.My family cannot understand me at first when I told them that It is a blessing if dad will go quickly so he will be in peace and not be in pain anymore.Dad won't get any better and I don't want to see him lying in bed in pain for another one day or one week.Dad died in his sleep after I give him his dose of pain killer.My sister even doubt me at first for overdosing dad.I did not but I reassured dad and told him just to go to sleep and not to wake up again...What we need in PI is good Hospice care for CA patients.I feel so bad for the poor who got no means for proper treatment.Anyhow IMHO patients who has capacity should be given a choice if they want assisted death..I wish it will be legalised..

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  9. I think no need for mercy killing. If he wishes to end his agony they just have to stop all the medications and the chemotherapy, Ang pangit kasi pag mercy killing parang sindya na iend ang life nya. He really looks in real pain and kahit ako mas gugustuhin ko na tapusin ang paghihirap ko kung ganun.

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    1. 3:03 you dont know what you are talking

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    2. Anon 4:08 that's his/her opinion. I, myself agree with stopping of medications and chemotherapy instead of euthanasia. Meron na rin iba na gumawa noon rather than resulting to mercy killing.

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    3. Sana gumaling pag tinigil ang chemo. Marami na ang lumalabas na medical facts na mas nakakasira pa yung chemo kesa sa nakakacure. Depende cguro sa type ng chemo

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    4. Hi Anon 3:03. I'm a nurse here in the U.S. and technically speaking, your comment is the legal way of doing it. It's called passive euthanasia. It includes the cessation of treatment and medications to prolong life. It is very unfortunate, especially in the pedia department. Some parents of infants who were born w/ congenital defects (treatable pero they'll never live a normal, healthy life) opt to have this taken care of ASAP. The doctor is not allowed to do active euthanasia, so the feeding, nasogastric, and other tubes are disconnected. Very sad to say but, the infant is just left to wither and die (hunger, infection, etc.).

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    5. It will still be a slow and painful death.

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    6. Palliative care

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    7. I agree with stopping the meds kung di na niya kaya. We're not in his shoes, di natin alam pinagdadaanan niya. Kawawa naman. He lloke like he is in so much pain. Nakikita sa photos. Dapat maintindihan ng family and respect his wishes. God bless you jam.

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    8. My mom had bone cancer at totoo na khit hangin lang na mejo malakas ay nassaktan sila...

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    9. He wants to end his life immediately because of the pain.. if you stop the medications, yes he will die but a slow and painful death na ayaw nga niya. He wanted it swift and as much as possible painless.

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  10. I went through surgery, chemotherapy, and then radiation almost all the months of last year. While I am done with the treatments I am still not cancer free. And yes, it is the most difficult thing anybody can ever experience--the pain is indescribable because it is different after each cycle. I am sorry for Jam. Please hold on to hope, pray to the Holy Spirit to be with you when you are confounded. Find that place in your heart and mind and truly commune with God, and your burden will become light. God's mercy is so much greater than any pain or anguish this world can give. Trust in His love and mercy. You will be in my prayers.

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    1. Wow. You are full of hope. May God bless you always.

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    2. Instead of asking for euthanasia request the Lord to strengthen you to carry out His will. God is aware of whats going on with our life, He knows the exact no. of our hair strands, let His will be done not ours.

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    3. May God bless you with longer and healthier life!

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    4. 8:42 pm he is asking for comfort and symptom relief, to have a bit of dignity on his last days. I don't know about your God, but the God that I know believes in the value and dignity of every creature that is on this earth. God helps people who helps themselves. Without those palliative measures he will be in agony. I have seen it happen and a painful excruciating death is the most inhuman thing I have ever seen. Respect his wish to die ith dignity. It is not your life and it i not your suffering or pain.

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  11. Maybe the family can approach their parish priest or their church pastor for counseling or for last rites kung talagang time na niya. Dasal lang talaga ang maiooffer ng public.

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  12. Hala, diba ag bata niya pa? This is so sad, I cannot imagine what he is going through...may God give him the peace he needs. I wish him all the blessings and prayers for his last struggle. Nakakalungkot, ang bata pa. May God bless you fully. :(

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  13. So sad..naaawa naman ako for him.hayyy.. prayers for him.

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  14. Hirap na hirap / sakit na sakit PERO nakapagtext?

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    1. Touch screen naman ang smart phone nya bakl. Di naman keypad phone na gaya ng phone mo na kelangan tlga ng energy.

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    2. Kc po hindi na sha makapagsalita dahil sa lung ang cancer nya bawat hinga mahalaga sa knya. Kaya wag kang bida bida jan may masabi ka lang sana ndi mangyari sau ang hirap na pinagdadaanan nya.

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    3. 339 sounds umay na umay PERO nagbasa at nakapag comment?

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  15. My prayers... i remember my friend who suffered pain before he died. May Godbless you boi.

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  16. Consider hospice care for comfort measures only.

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    1. Walang hospice care sa Pinas.

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    2. my uncle who is a physician there, addresses those issues and the hospital he works for offer those service but not under the name of hospice , FYI

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  17. So sad but I agree with him! may mga tao talaga na di na kaya ang sakit at pinili na lang ang Euthanasia!
    Don't worry jam! mukhang naging mabuti ka namang bata this lifetime! kaya mas magandang buhay naghihintay sayo sa next incarnation mo, depende na rin yan sa soul contract mo! kaya ok lang yan!
    Our soul are eternal! Move on and enjoy your next lifetime!
    baka mas gwapo at mas healthy ka sa next life mo!
    Bon voyage patungo sa liwanag :)

    -MadameAuringLocsin

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  18. Sa sabado nasa Startalk to panigurado. Call me walang puso, pero para sakin isang kapapansinan lang naman ang drama na yan. Si Madam Miriam stage 4 lung cancer din pero tignan niyo siya ngayon, parang walang nangyari! Imbes na euthanasia, bakit hindi kaya yung gamot ni Madam Miriam ang i-consider niya?

    JUST SAYING!!!

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    1. Si Madame Defensor eh may pera pang gamot! Advabced ang treatment dun nag US pa yun para magpagamot. Eh etong Jam, wala masyado kaya nga raise sila ng funds through you tube etc. Just sayin, just saying... isipin mo muna sasabihin mo bago mo sabihin mo. Bigyan mo ng pera pra ma try nya gamot ni defensor no!

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    2. Even if he wants to have euthanasia, may dr bang gagawa nun sa kanya? D naman sya coma na papatayin lamg angachine e deads na. Kailangan lasunin yan pra mamatay, which is opposite sa goal ng mga Dr na bumuhay at hibdi pumatay.

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    3. Bakit te, pare pareho ba ang may cancer? Naexperience mo naba? Wla kana cgrong pake dun kung nsa startalk sha dahil ung startalk nmn ang gusto magcover ng story nya pero ung taong malapit na sa bingit ng kamatayan sa tingin ko eh ndi na makukuhang magpapansin. Madali lang pra satin magsalita kc wla tau sa kalagayan nila kaya magpasalamat tau imbes na jumajust saying ka jan dahil oo, ssabhn ko sau wla kang puso!

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    4. Nakita mo na ba si Jam ngayon? Sobrang payat na nya at para na siyang malnourished child kagaya sa mga bata sa Africa. You don't compare one's suffering to the other. Hindi pare-pareho ang pag cope ng tao sa pain..

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    5. Wala ka bang brain? Pare pareho ba ang pakiramdam ng tao? Bago ka kumuda dito baka gusto mo gamitin utak na binigay syo ng diyos.

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    6. Oo wala ka tlgang puso. Sana magkasakit ka rin ng malaman mo pakiramdam ng may cancer. Kinumpara mo pa kay Miriam Defensor yung isa as if pare pareho ang pain tolerance ng lahat ng tao.

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    7. Baks, una galing states yung mga gamot ni Miriam. Pangalawa, each cancer case is different. Imbes na magdoubt ka pa dun sa taong naghihingalo na at nahihirapan, pagdasal mo na lang

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    8. Ikaw kaya ang i chemo ng i chemo ng i chemo tignan ko lang kung masabi mo pa na nagdadrama lang sya. Dahil sobrang sakit nyan, matouch mo lang ng kaunti eh sobrang sakit na sa balat!!

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    9. Yung ke miriam ang pagdudahan mong stage 4 kuno, dahil ang stage 4 e gulay na parang ke jam. Yung ke miriam e sympathy sickness lang yun! Papaniwala ka sa mga yan! Pag me mga kaso yan nagkakasakit pero pag sa kampanya at eleksyon e ang lalakas!

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    10. Duh! talagang parang walang nangyari kay Miriam kasi hindi naman totoo na may cancer sya! drama nya lang yon naniwala ka naman! cancer daw stage 4 pa tapos walang sudden weightloss?! *lol nya! go ask doctors (kahit hindi oncologist) para malaman mo!

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    11. hindi ka walang puso. Mag isip ka mas malala ka pa sa walag puso, mas malala ka pa dun.

      JUST SAYING!!!

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    12. hindi lahat ng gamit pwede sa pasyente. makaasta ka parang doctor ka worse kala mo alam mo medical history nya

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    13. Have you seen his latest pictures? Sige nga icompare mo kay Miriam! May pa-just saying-just saying ka pa jan try mo kaya mag-isip muna. Iba iba ang cases ng cancer sa mga patients kaya nga may ibang nagsusurvive at may ibang hindi. Wala ka na ngang puso, wala ka pang utak! Mahiya ka naman puro ka bibig!

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    14. Mag sponsor ka?

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    15. Research muna bago dumakdak. Naka depende sa lagay ng pasyente ang gamot na ilalapat sa kanya. Sa financial status din. Hindi porket parehong stage 4 eh pareho din ang lagay nila.

      Educate yourself please. Wag lagi startalk bukambibig

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    16. Sana di mangyari sayo ang magkacancer ewan ko lang if di mo bawiin lahat ng sinabi mo. Nakakaawa ka.

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    17. Bakit pa kailangan i-sponsoran eh meron naman siya pambili ng IPhone6... Tsaka ang sabi naman ni 4:30 PM i-"CONSIDER" ang gamot ni Sen. Miriam. Hindi naman natin alam kung nagpaconsult na ba tong Jambil kung pwede sa kaniya, right???

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    18. 430 pm There are different types of cancer with different prognosis ok, wag mag pa ka bright. He is young, he underwent chemotherapy. Now he is at the terminal stage. From the world terminal - the end.

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    19. Hindi ka po walang puso. Wala kang utak! Anon 4:30

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    20. Waw ang daming Jamich at Yexel na nagcomment!!! Kayo din mga walang puso para akusahan si Senator na pinepeke ang sakit niya! FYI nagdudugo ang nails niya! Naaawa ako sa tao, pero di talaga ko maka move on sa eksena niya sa IPhone6.

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    21. 1:42 grabe ka naman. Di ka maka get over sa iphone6! So what kung gusto nya magkaroon nyan eh kung yan ba makakapag pasaya sa kanya sa sitwasyon nya ngayon, ano ba naman palagpasin na at alam naman ng lahat na malala na ang sakit nya. Ugali nito!

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  19. Iphone 6 plus na lang wag na mercy killing.. For sure mas gusto nya un

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    1. grabe ka. bakit ka pa kaya nabuhay sa mundong ibabaw. napakasama ng tabas ng dila mo ateng.

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    2. naka I phone 6 plus na sya. tingin ko kaya gusto nya ang mercy killing.that time yun gf nya lagi nasa galaan at party party lagi. kahit check nyo pa yun fb at ig ng gf nya. andun mga pix at shout out wall ng gf nya. tapos ang nag aalaga sakanya yun JOSHUA. kahit check nyo pa fb nun ... sya ang ngaing caregiver ni jam. syempre. kung nakikita mo yun mahal mo na mas madalas pa nasa barkada kaysa alagaan ka at paramdam sayo na wala na sya time para sayo gugustuhin mo pa ba mabuhay? naging trending na eto sa ig at fb ni gurl puro pang ba bash lang ginawa sakanya. kasi nga party party lang inatupag nya

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    3. insensitive much

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  20. parang tatay ko lang din may cancer din siya. nkaka awa sya pag nkikita mo yung sakit na nrramdaman nya. lagi nyang cnasabi na gusto na rin nyang mamatay dahil sobrang sakit na ng nraramdaman nya at nhihirapan na sya. lagi nyang sinasabi na Lord sana kunin nyo na ako d ko na kaya at nka ready na ako kung gusto nyo na akong kunin. 3yrs syang nkikipag laban sa cancer. 3yrs nrin syang wala sa amin.

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  21. I know someone na na-comatose and naka-depend na lang talaga sa respirator. There's no mercy killing sa Pinas, but her parents were given the option to pull the plug by themselves dahil di pwede ang doctors gumawa.

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    1. honey its not up to the doctor and it's never up to the octor . It's because the family has to make that decision as the peson is mentally incapacipated if there is no next ok kin it goes to the state or the law has to take care of it. The doctor can tell the family about the prognosis and outcomes , it is his duty to inform and educate them about their options. So if that person is comatose, how's his quality of life?

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  22. God bless you and your family.

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  23. I know the feeling of Jam and also his relatives. Been through the same exact position with his bro. I suggest to have him on pain management. If nababasa nyo to, kumuha kayo ng pain specialist doctors. They know what to give and what dosage he can have for pain. Atleast ease the pain he's feeling. My kuya died of cancer. Been in pain for so many months. Wanted euthanasia as well.. But we opted for a pain management team. And it had lessen my kuya's pain.

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  24. i-morphine drip na yan! hindi kasi uso advance directive sa Pinas eh

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    1. te, hindi lahat ng pain narerelieve ng morphine. OD sa morphine baka mapadali pa.

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  25. i'm not a fan of Jamich. actually ayaw ko talaga sa kanila. pero Jam suffering from cancer, ibang usapan yun. oo Anon 4:30 wala kang puso. kung noon papansin talaga sila sa mga videos nila, iba na ngayon. sakit ang pinag-uusapan dito. the fact na nagmamakaawa na sya for mercy killing is :( sana iuwi na lang sya sa bahay kung ayaw na nya sa medication. kung darating ang time na alam nyo na, at least masaya sya with his loved ones at hindi hirap na hirap! :(

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  26. Bakit hindi nila try ang alternative medicine, marami ng pag-aaral na nakakatulong ang marijuana sa chemotherapy. Baka sakaling makatulong din sa kanya.

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    1. Lung cancer pagmamarijuanahin ?

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  27. Naluha nman ako sobrang lungkot s tao n un ,kaya sana ung iba dyan wag nlang gawin kata tawa. isipin nlang natin kung s inyo o s mahal nyo s buhay nangyari un.kaya pasalamat nlang tyo .

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  28. I can't imagine how hard it is for him at his very young age to utter those words. With Mirriam Defensor-Santiago I think that's one of the best option they could consider since chemo is so expensive din. Sa states pa galing yung gamot pero diba why not give it a try? Prayers lang kaya ng public and sana nga gumaling sya at wag sumuko

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  29. ang papansin lang ng dating.. bakit kelangan ipublicize? kulang na sa funds?

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    1. Pera ba hinihingi?

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    2. Anonymous 1:11 AM hindi kelangan ni jam ang pera, sobra ka hindi mo lang alam ang pinag dadaanan ng may stage 4 lung cancer.. mapasalamat ka sa panginoon dhil mapalad ka..maging magulang kna ba??? Balang araw mmagiging magulang ka din sna hwag danasin ng magiging anak mo ang dinaranas ngaun ni jam.. sobra ka sna hwag kang tamaan ng sakit na cancer. Ang karma ngaun mabilis lang.

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  30. God bless you! :( i remember my mum.

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  31. how shallow and rubbish.... that is something private and personal between family need pa talaga i post at let the world know????? need na ba uli ng donation? di pa ba nabibili yung iphone? need ba ng spot light uli???? i feel bad for the patient but phuleeeeezzzz stop famewhoring.....

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    1. You have so much hatred in your heart, very insensitive!

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  32. Heartbreaking. Sana walang negative comment sa kanya ang iba dito dahil di yun makakayulong.

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  33. Jam, hang on.. Walang imposible sa Panginoon..

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    1. That's exactly what i said to my mom before she died of lung cancer. But God wanted her to suffer no more kaya kinuha na sya. Minsan talaga kailangan na nating mag let go and Let God. Sabi nga nya "Come to me and I will give you rest".

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  34. Read your past posts, jam! Sabi mo papagaling ka.. Kaya mo yan! Will pray for u..

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  35. masakit pano nakapagtext?

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  36. Grabe naman ang iba na kaya pang mag paka nega comments.saan kaya humuhugot ng negative vibes ang mga ito,siguro ang papangit niyo.Doon kayo sa ibang post magkalat.

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  37. can't they keep this thing in private

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  38. This kind of information is too private. This should not be posted in public. Kahit public figure ka pa. I dont know what's their intention is to post it in cyberspace but I hope he gets well.
    P.s. Ilang araw nya tinype sa iphone 6 nya ung message nya ;)

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    1. Jam sent this msg privately. What i want to think nlng sa family na ngpapublic nito, may kailangan talaga sila, like truely honestly desperately, they need something out of this. Which is not bad naman given the situation. Hindi yun fame kasi ang pangit na nga ng kalagayan ni Jam. Moral suppport at maybe nga ngbabasakaling may maawa naman talaga at mgdonate at dalhin sa US si Jam. Baka doon pwde sya mapagaling.

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  39. Demons are invading this thread.

    Jam, wag ka pa rin sumuko... Please.... God and angels, give Jam the miracle to endure the pain... :(

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    1. True! Demons and know-it-all non-practicing nurses who are call center workers...

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  40. uminom ka ng nilagang guyabano leaves.da best yun kesa sa chemo.

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  41. check their IG and see how the gf is coping with all of these. unli selfie and promote ng sponsors. dont forget the bf is terminally ill. actually fiance pla cause she proposed.

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    1. Yun din ang ngdidisturb sa akin. Yung behavior ng girl. Oo kailangan niya maging positive para iuplift ang situation. Pero langya naman eh materialistic masyado na type of person. Nung ganyan din ang problema ko, na mawawalan na ako mahal sa buhay, ang material na bagay ay hindi na importante sakin, ang maliliit na bagay ay napakalaking pasalamat ko na na meron pa ako. Really

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    2. Tama ka anon 3:14 kapal muks ni Gurlash. Ayos mag cope. Nakukuha pa mag make up o di ba kung ako un pinagpaliban ko na ang get aways ang mga bakasyon ko sa beach. Malamang di na din ako nakakakain dahil ung fiance ko eh may cancer. Di na naawa si gurlaloo. g.r.r.r. grabe lang girl kung nababasa mo to dahil sa IG pinagbubura mo mga comment na ganyan. Dito hinde. Sana makonsensya ka na. Bungo na ang mukha ng bf mo. Di ka na nahiya. Puro ka pa pasexy. Pacute at papansin. bastos.

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    3. maybe she does that because the sponsors are giving them money for the treatment? as for the selfies, well, iba iba tayo ng coping mechanisms. maybe that's her way of coping with the stress?

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    4. I do not follow them on social media. Pero nag aappear sa fb wall ko minsan yung page nila. Pansin ko nga yung girl laging nakaayos at camera ready ang smile. Nagtataka din bakit hindi nakalbo si jam though ang payat nya talaga.

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  42. Kulang lang sa iphone si Mich

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  43. What a difficult time for him and his family.

    Nakakatakot lang kasi di naman daw siya nagyoyosi pero nagka lung cancer siya. Talagang healthy lifestyle lang talaga to prevent any disease.

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  44. So kids matuto kayo sa kanya baguhin nyo na ang lifestyle nyo wag kayo magpupuyat sa inuman at sabayan pa ng yosi

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  45. Grabe yung mga ibang tao dito, hindi ko alam kung tao paba, walang awa grabe. Shocks, may mga mahal ba kayo sa buhay? May mga puso paba kayo? Hindi nyo ba nakita yung tao ngayon?

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  46. Ipon para sa iphone 6!

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  47. ewan ko ba.... bigla kong naaalala ang "IPON or iPhone" issue niya. Nanghihingi ng tulong pampagamot pero sa post pinag-iipunan ang iPhone. Now this one: gusto ng mamatay thru Euthanasia pero AYAW NG NEGA NEWS AT BAKA MABIGLA SIYA AT MA-STRESS. at sa IG ni Girl, ewan ko ba.

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  48. Reminds me of my mom.. sabi nya kung hindi pa lang daw kasalanan magpakamatay, ginawa na nya. Nagbilin pa cia na in case na 50-50 na hindi na cia magpaparevive. And that's what i did, masakit man. Kasi alam ko na she will be in a better place and no more pain.

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  49. FYI, there are 101 ways to die. If you really want to end your life, goole it and just do it. No need to post it sa social media.

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    1. FYI, there are also 101 reasons kung bakit mo kailangan umalis dito sa FP! No need na magcomment kung hindi naman nakakatulong comment mo!

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    2. shame on you! im praying na sayo na lang mapunta sakit ni jam!

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    3. Ruthless comment! Shame on you!

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  50. Ayoko magpaka-ipokrita o magpaka-plastik na hindi sya nakakainis. Oo, nakakaawa, kasi sino ba naman ang gustong magkaron ng Cancer? Pero minsan para san pa tong mga to? Pwedeng coping mechanism nya to or sa Facebook nya naihihinga ang mga reklamo nya sa buhay pero please naman... Wag masyadong magingay. Sa totoo lang, ang daming bata at tao sa mundo ang may Cancer at walang pampagamot unlike you. Pero hindi sila nagpapapansin. Hindi ko na mawari kung anong purpose ng ganito.

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  51. Etong si Mich binlock ako sa IG. Galet na galet sa bashers. Talaga naman po ang arte nya. Nakuha pa nya mag post na kumakanta sa carpark? ayos ka gurl. At balak mo pa magpa funsigns? Ano ka sikat na sikat? Sumisikat ka dahil di ka na naawa sa bf mo na may sakit. Asawa ko nga pag nagkasakit di na ako mapakali. Eh ikaw? May OOTD ka oa nalalaman sa instagram mo! Kapal! Dito ko bubyhos lahat ng inis ko sayo! Kapal mo gurl

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    1. Buti nga blinock ka lang. Kung ako si mich ha-huntingin kita para mag tanda ka.

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    2. Eh ano ba gusto mo hayaan ka lang mambastos?! Buti nga di ka minura. Dapat syo tagain mga daliri para di na makapag comment ng kabatusan.

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    3. ikaw kc asawa mo na kya di ka mapakali

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    4. grabe ka kung sino ka man. do You really expect ipi please ni mich ang mga bashers nya?may personal kang galit

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    5. Eh di maghuntingan tayo. Hahaha

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    6. Tagain ang daliri? How cruel ang morbid nyo ha. tama si anon 3:46 madami po nag cocomment sa kanya at puro na lang pacute ung Mitch na yan

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    7. Walang pagkakaiba ang fiance sa asawa. Ganun din yon.

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    8. Malaki kaibahan ng fiance sa asawa.

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    9. Kapag Fiance pwede na pabayaan mamatay, GANERN BA ANON 6:34 PM???

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  52. Magkakaiba ang cancer. Wag nyong ikumpara yung kay Jam at kay Miriam kasi yung kay Miriam hindi kumakalat at naharang ang pagdami dahil naagapan ng specialized na gamot. Si Jam dumaan na sa chemotherapy, yun hindi targeted sa cancer cells ang treatment kaya buong katawan nya apektado, kaya madali syang nanghina.

    Cancer is very complicated. Isip isip at basa basa din.

    Ipagdasal nyo na lang na sana tama ang desisyon na gagawin ng family nya sa kanya, whether sundin yung hiling nya na mercy killing o lumaban para sa kanya kahit sobrang nahihirapan na sya.

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  53. I was never a fan of this Youtube sensation couple but I could tell that the family is really hurting and that this was not just a PR stint. I do think that posting the text message online was uncalled for, but the brother must really be at a loss. Sobrang naguguluhan at nasasaktan siguro siya na wala siyang maisip gawin kundi humingi ng suporta sa tao. Kahit sinong hindi mapakali baka hindi na maisip ang sensitivity ng issue. Try to understand na lang and offer your well wishes instead of calling him out.

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  54. may God bless and heal you Jam. Sa mga nag question kung bakit gusto ni Jam ng iphone despite his illness, divertion na lang nya yun. lahat naman tayo pag may nararamdaman kahit simple heartbreak lang naghahanap tayo ng something thay will make us smile. and why judge him, may nai contribute ba kayo for his iphone? kung si mich ay nagpa party, okay yun kasi at least may napaglilibangan sya. mas mahirap kung si Jam lang ang focus nya because even if she stay beside him 24/7 wala din naman sya magagawa to heal him. the logic is, let say na laid off ang partner mo, dapat ba mag resign ka na din sa work pra pareho kayong down. syempre may mga officemates ka din na dapat samahan. I hope maging open minded lahat tayo and hindi judgemental. nung bata ako my Mom would always remind me that if I have nothing good to say, dont speak at all. lalo na kung hindi naman kayo nakakatulong. jam, my prayers are with you and your family.

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    1. low morals na ang mga tao nowadays kya opinionated na.basta lahat dapat may say sila to stay relevant kahit maka sakit pa ng damdamin

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    2. I agree 12:41 napansin ko din ang dami ng bastos at pang squatters ang asal ng mga tao ngayon. Ibang iba sa mga ugali ng mga tao noon.

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    3. 12:25 AM, yung totoo, si jam ka ba, o si yexel???

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    4. God bless your heart 12:25

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  55. mamamatay na nga yung tao may nalalaman ka pang kaek-ekan na uncalled for. I think calling it as such is the one that is totally "uncalled for". ikaw na ang Miss Prim and Proper.

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  56. i pity jam, maybe just maybe , na shatter ang expectation nya kay mich, nakaka gulag lang tila in enjoy nailing ng babe ang nakukuha yang attention sa media..si ko alam kung bakit ganun ang reaction ni BOY abun sa buzz sa youtube maybe BOY knows or felt what mich is up to..just saying

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