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Thursday, February 26, 2015

Kris Aquino Shares Failed Love Story

Image courtesy of www.withlovekrisaquino.com


From my perspective, it has never been RECALLING the fights, the breakup, the disappointment over avoidable interviews that made me cry. It was remembering the happy moments that were so fleeting, but so special because they were so “normal”.

He went into my A&A dressing room on our 2nd telecast and said: “Ms. Aquino, may I have your number?”

He brought me a cheeseburger w/ no onions, fries, and a small Coke on my birthday last year. I’ve never had that meal again from that fast food because I’m now with the opposing Pinoy Food Giant (takot mag violate ng contract) and partly because it will just never taste the same again.

We watched the midnight screening of Divergent and I’ve never gone back to the cinema where we watched.

He gave me this funny looking, ugly cute figurine holding a heart, and I used to have it beside my bed, and now I have it kept inside my night table drawer.

He sent me a lot of Gatorade, boxes of it, and I’ve never had the sports drink again.

We went to 2 Starbucks with drive through windows, and I’ve also never gone back to those places.

We spoke of building a life together, actually set a time frame, in this restaurant in Greenbelt that I frequented because of their steaks and burgers, but I’ve also never eaten there again.

I cut off more than 18 inches of my hair because I wanted to forget how I must have looked with hair all over my face & pillow, when he used to surprise me by waking me up and bringing me my venti nonfat latte with no foam, just because his day would be so hectic and early morning was the only time he could see me, regardless of my still being fast asleep.

Broken hearts retreat to where they can be safe again, locked away for nobody to ever get too close to again…

This is the first time i’ll publicly acknowledge this, because I can now recall with absolutely no bitterness or regrets; on the first Friday of April nearly a year ago during merienda, he said he was tired, he didn’t want to play games, he was tired of chasing and of running away, and he wanted to feel secure with someone he could grow old with.  He said, walang romance, walang lokohan, walang bolahan. Okay na raw ba ko to marry him kasi nga PAGOD na sya?

I remember laughing and saying that was probably the least romantic proposal any woman has ever received, but because we were so similar in our weirdness, I was in agreement; I wanted to grow old with him because I knew we’d never be bored conversing, and maybe this was where God led 2 individuals who deserved a chance at life long companionship with maturity, and full acceptance of equally colorful pasts.

We went separate ways because he had an appointment with an old professor he had kept close to, and I went to 6 PM Mass and prayed that this was what would be best for us.

The next day he had dinner with my family, and I cried during our heart to heart talk after that first attempt at introducing him to my family.  I said I realized he never said he loved me, he was simply tired, and I didn’t want to be his version of Salonpas, Alaxan, Ben Gay, or a massage. He cried too and said he was scared, overwhelmed, afraid of being branded a “user” when he has given the majority of his life to public service, and maybe we should take a step back.

We went to Mass together Sunday because we had made a pact that praying together will be our priority, but again we parted immediately after Mass because he had friends to meet up with… I remember going home, alone because my 2 sons were going to have dinner with James and Mic. And I prayed and said, please God strengthen us, cement our bond, and protect our peace. And I remember thinking, sana umabot sya sa point that he would be comfortable enough to let me be more a part of his world.

I made the mistake of speaking about him the following night on A&A. The next day, over the phone he broke up with me, right before Bimb’s 7th birthday party.

In time we healed, and became friends again. Comfortable to catch up over the phone every few weeks or so.

The last time I cried about him was Christmas Eve. I remembered an earlier agreement that we had made, when he asked early in our relationship how we’d deal with the holidays, I said that my non-negotiable was Christmas Eve Mass with my family, but Christmas Day was for him & his siblings & his kids. And I went to sleep with tears quietly streaming down my face, sad that we hadn’t made it.

So can I be truthful, I hibernated February 15, and listened to this song over and over. I kept to myself and slept most of February 15. And I was proud of surviving.

Inayawan nya ko, I’d like to think not me the actual person, but the complicated baggage that comes with having a relationship with me.

He called 4 times that Sunday, the day after my birthday, and I just didn’t pick up. Bimb saw his name flashing on my phone, and he told me: “Mama, go ahead talk to him because when you talk to him, you get happy. But remember after, you get so sad and I hate seeing you cry.”

And BOOM, that was my wake up call, my long avoided wisdom coming from the innocence of my 7 year old.

I realized as much as I want us to be friends, we can’t. There were just too many promises that my heart so desperately wanted to believe in. And continuing the friendship will continue to make me long for what wasn’t meant to be.

And I want Bimb to see by my example, that his feelings come first. A 7 year old shouldn’t be subjected to being the protector of his mother’s fragile feelings.

And maybe this was what this whole experience of trying to love again was meant to teach me, to be HUMBLE that for a man not ready to commit, I WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH.

Yes in all honesty, I still pray for someone who can be my strength. I still pray for someone to talk to at the end of a long day, someone who will listen, and someone who will also teach me new things, challenging my mind, and mirroring my values. Someone to pray with and pray for. Someone I can trust with all my fears, someone who accepts my past, and still looks forward to our future. And someone who won’t be tired about love, but will accept, nurture, and treasure what we will share.

But then, maybe Mom raised me to stand alone, and own my strength. And maybe the rejection I went through is a blessing, because I needed to feel the hurt, in order to learn to be less selfish and more compassionate, to empathize more readily with those suffering from all kinds of pain.

I needed for my love to be declined for me to value those who accept my love with so much gratitude, and I needed to realize this important life truth: True love doesn’t find you, neither do you find it. You build true love together, and you can’t do that when you’re tired, jaded, or weary. Love is built by those who have inspiration, determination, fortitude, trustworthiness, loyalty, courage, childlike faith, openness, enthusiasm, and enchantment with what is, plus all that will be.

To now paraphrase my mom: And love can only make you the best possible version of yourself.

I was spared birthday blues maybe because God said: NATUTO NA SYA, OKAY NA YAN, SIGURO NAMAN MAG-IINGAT NA…

236 comments:

  1. Nakakaumay ka na Kris tigil na

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    1. Yea?!? But you read her article, duh?!?

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    2. Hindi ako naumay. NAIYAK ako. Siguro isa kang tuod. For someone that successful, pinakita ni Kris na tao din sya na nasasaktan. Mahal siya ng tao dahil totoo siya. Ikinumpisal niya ang sarili niya sa taong bayan at hindi sa pari.

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    3. Siningit na naman si 'mom.' Hay naku, everytime these siblings open their big mouths, rest assured they will not fail to mention mom or dad! Sabi na ngang umay na ang tao dyan e!

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    4. Umay naman pala. But you really took time to read and mag comment sa article na to. Haha. Not a fan of Kris but you know, tao din siya na nasasaktan gaya mo, like everyone else.

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  2. Spare the public of your cries and whines. Nga pala madami itong yellow believers.

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  3. i feel her pain. pero sana she learns to zip her mouth. she just cant stop babbling. feeling teeny bopper at 44!

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    1. Let it go. Let it go.........

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    2. Nasa hot seat na naman kasi kapatid nya kaya need nya gumawa ng eksena para makalimutan ang issue ni brother.

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    3. That's correct 2.24. Because when you think about it, why now? This while story between her and Bistek has been played out for the public already. So now, dahil nasa hot seat si Kuya, come to the rescue si bunso na walang takot ibuyangyang sa lahat ang kahihiyan niya sa mga tao. Wala na, wala nang naniniwala sa mga gimmick niyo.

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    4. I'm thinking the same thing anon 2:24 AM

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    5. Yaan na. Nag eemote nga eh.

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  4. Kris kris kris.... You don't owe us your life story. Enough.

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    1. Yep! Not everyone's interested.

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    2. There are people who are interested though.

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    3. Then don't read nor visit her site.

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    4. and of all people she is talking about Bistek...yuck

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    5. The fact that people still bothered themselves to read thru this fp post and made a comment, a lot of people are still curious and interested.

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    6. Haha korek anon 1:17. Buti kung si James Yap pa yun. Teka gano ba sila katagal ni Bistek? Maryosep!

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  5. Omg tetay tigilan mo na si bistek may mga anak din sya

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  6. Kris Aquino is a paradox. Either you love or hate her.
    Panalo the Gatorade drinks and the Starbucks drive thru.

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    1. Eh yung pinagupit yung buhok para hindi na pupunta sa mukha kapag ginigising sa umaga during sleepovers. O diba??? Napataas ang kilay ko hanggang chandelier namin. LOL #krisiskristalaga

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  7. I feel for you Kris! I hope you'll find your true love! Tama yan let go of Herbert.

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    1. she's a person too. she overshares, but she is not insincere. live and let live, kaya agree ako

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  8. blah blah blah blah

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  9. I love you kris!!

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  10. i love you krissy ...May God bless ur love life ❤...just hold on

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  11. Pag magsusulat ng autobiography tong si Kris, siguro mala-trilogy. Ang dami niyang gustong i-share.

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    1. baka nas mahaba pa sa Odyssey at Iliad ni Homer

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    2. Potek 119AM sobrang napatawa mo ako sa panalo mong Iliad comment. Bwahahahaha.

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  12. kahit ganyan ka i still wish na sana mahanap mo na talaga ang lalakeng seseryoso sayo.

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  13. Ang haba ng article??? ano to pang alis isyu sa kapatid nya at para lablayf nya pag-usapan. Hoy Kris natuto na ang mga pinoy, di na uubra ang style mong bulok. Don't wash your dirty linens in public. Kaloka!!!!

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  14. I adore and hate her, pardon me. Sometimes, hatred overwhelms when she couldn't be more private. But oftentimes, in awe when she starts to talk because or her diligence eloquence and brevity to not to think about what others might think about her.

    Thank God na lang Kris because you deserve someone better than HB(?). In His perfect time He will give you a man whom you deserve.

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    1. *bravery instead of brevity

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    2. nagcorrect pa tong si Anon 1:32AM eh bubing naman.

      BREVITY is such a word. Duh.

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    3. buti kinorrect mo, kasi di bagay ang brevity kay kris! :D

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  15. Did she not even mention that the "guy" has kids? Josko! Where's the "natuto" part there?

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    1. ...but Christmas Day was for him & his siblings & his kids.

      Matuto kasing magbasa. Comprehension naman.

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    2. Read it again. She did mentioned herberts kids on planning spending Christmas days with his siblings and his kids...

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    3. meron db? sabi nya christmas day is for his "Kids"... ano dun din mo naintindihan?

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    4. "..I said that my non-negotiable was Christmas Eve Mass with my family, but Christmas Day was for him & his siblings & his kids."
      namention naman but its still about HER, she could spend Christmas day with him, his siblings and his kids.

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    5. Many are blabbers. Read it and comprehend. Wag puro satsat nakakaawa.

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    6. To ANON 12:53AM, 12:54AM, 1:13AM, 1:08AM:


      Yes, but in general, why is she insisting to think nga that the guy has kids, and napahiya pang kids sa nangyari. Hello? Comprehension kayo diyan. Literal niyong nakita sa statements, but in general, she wrote the blog as if the guy's world was into her alone. Hindi naman dapat kasi may mga kids and may existing partner pa ang guy. Kris should be considerate naman sana sa part ng kids ng guy.

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    7. Hahaha 12.32, hindi ka nagbasa! May test mamaya!

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  16. Nainlove talaga siya kay Mayor..

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  17. Anong nagustuhan mo kay HOBBIT BAUTISTA?

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  18. Ganon po talaga, hindi binibigay lahat sayo. Hayaan m na, focus m nalang love mo sa 2 anak mo.. Eh kung gusto m palit tayo, ako na kasing yaman mo. Sayo na lahat ng boys ko.

    Madam au

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  19. Oh my golly wow! Nabuhay ulit ang drama ni Kris Aquino!!! Naloka ako sa lalim ng relationship nila. Hang lalim grabe! Dami nilang storms na na-weather, dami nilang obstacles na surpass. Oh her poor poor dramatic heart!

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    1. LOL! And their "relationship" last for how long again? 2 months?
      But the moving on phase lasts for more than a year?..

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    2. Your sarcasm is not lost on me. Lol!

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    3. Chrew! Kung umarte kala mo ang tagal ng pinagsamahan. Kaya cguro di sya maka move on eh dahil inalukan sya ng kasal.

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    4. Bwahahahaha! aliw ang mga comments ditey! Nagpapapansin na naman ang isa pang autistic.

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    5. Pero kung susuriin mo napaka-babaw! Pa-teeny bopper si Ateng! Lol

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    6. Siguro di nyo pa naranasan mag mahal at masaktan...

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    7. Haha ang tagal nga ng relationsgip nila about 60 days bwahahaha

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  20. Money cant really buy happiness, dear.

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  21. Nakakaloka ka Kris! Di ka pa din over kay Herbert Bautista?? Kinasal na si Marian, nanganak na so Cristine Reyes, dumating na si Pope, natodas na si Marwan, kinasal na si Heart and Chiz pero ikaw, stuck ka pa din sa moment na yan!! Nakakaloka!!!

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    1. Hahahahahaha panalo bakla.

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    2. waley pa kasi naglakas loob manligaw na bago kaya yung isa pa din pinupunterya.

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    3. Hahaha winner comment mo!

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    4. Eh un nararamdaman nya. . Pake mo!

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    5. Kasi tawag p ng tawag si mayor sa kanya. Pumunta pa nga sa house nya di ba? Kalo ka!

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    6. at natapos na ang Be Careful with my Heart.

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    7. Eh kasi may issue ang kapatid. You know, tapal tapa din.

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    8. pang divert daw ng atensyon kc na sa hot seat cutol kaya to the rescue c bratinella.
      for sure madaming masang pinoy naman ang kakagat sa kadramahan ng hitad na yan..at makakalimutan ang kapalpakan ni utol....hayyy mga kababayan wake up!!!!!

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    9. HAHAHAHA!!! (roflmao)

      Your comment is my peborit, 12.41!!!

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  22. I thought it was well written but knowing its from kris. She strikes again letting the world know that its all about her and the pnoy issue is forgotten once again. Magtigil ka na tetay! Pumapag ebeg ka pa diyan.

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    1. Well written ba? Masyadong drawn out melodramatic. Pilit nilalagyan ng connect lahat. Parang love story sa high school newsletter.

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  23. ho hum ....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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  24. a seven yr old son more SENSIBLE than an experienced seasoned Mom

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    1. An important word of wisdom advice may come from a child. This came from my son's fortune cookie.

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  25. sabi ni Mayor ayam daw syang matawag na "user" pero wala man lang I love you kasal agad...hello !!!

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    1. marriage for convenience of sort... not really about being a "user" but simply he wants to marry her because PAGOD na siya as she stressed out... no love involved there

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  26. I feel sorry for her woes. But seriously, in order for her to find love, she have to learn to zip her effin mouth and stop craving for attention. #PATHETIC

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    1. DITTO. Who would want a partner who just doesn't shut up? I mean, seriously? Tsk!

      #suffocating

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  27. Naku, obvious na ginagamit lang ni Bistek si Kris. Madalian ba namang yayaing magpakasal?? Just because he's "tired" kuno?? "Ow common!" Humahabol bago mag-2016??? Tapos nung nalaman niyang nega pala yung magiging perception ng general public sa pakikipagrelasyon niya kay Kris, nakipaghiwalay na lang agad-agad?? Such a user! Tama si Kris, he doesn't really love her. Buti na lang mga at hindi nagpatuloy ang relasyon nila!

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    1. Korek ka jan! Ginawa atang Social Weather Station si Kris ng HB na yan!

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    2. Anon 1:09 How judgmental for you to say that... I wonder how you were raised by your parents...

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    3. Tumapak 1:09 am! I feel sorry for her.

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  28. Omg, he broke up with u coz u can't keep your mouth shut and now you are doing it again. Keep it PRIVATE! That's what men want!

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  29. Hahaha...aabutin ng 50years di maka move on ito. Funny if she gets to be 70yo and keeps repeating same old lines, over and over, with that far away look in her eyes.

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    1. dito kasi sya kumikita sa ganito.. kaya sige dakdak lang ng dakdak. mainis na ang maiinis basta ang pera sa kanya ang pasok.

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  30. Haay kris, we got it that you were hurt pero nag-iingay na naman. Ano ba kelan ka tatahimik?

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  31. I am sorry you may hate me for these two reasons why I think Kris opened her mouth once again:
    1. She wanted to promote her new website. Giving it more like an umpf-factor so people would actually visit her site. As you can see in her IG she has been promoting her new site for days now.
    2. Now that all eyes are on with one Aquino, I think this Aquino is trying to take the limelight away from her brother. To take the heat off a little I guess. If people talk about her more then they will talk less about her brother.
    Just an opinion though.

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    1. we have the same thoughts on number 2

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    2. I agree on number1 !! Magaling talaga sya sa marketing!!

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    3. exactly the same thoughts I had from day one of the country's MOST CONTROVERSIAL FIASCO erupted. ikako, sigurado! maglalabas ng pang balanse or pan-takip poso negro ang sisteret for the sake of big bro's head. eto na nga ba!

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    4. Or no. 3. She loves herself sooo much that it's hard not to talk about herself being the center of all. Narcissism kicks in.

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    5. She just can't take away the limelight from his brother... with this mere blogpost. I DOUBT. stop fantasizing about your unfurnished realities

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  32. Di pa rin makamove on si Kris sa pagkawala ni Pido (Rene Requestas) kaya tuloy lungkot si Dida (Kris A.) First love and first kiss nya kaya.

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  33. It's understandable that she's trying to vent her emotions. But this kind of thing is what immature, and usually teenage, girls do. She keeps on claiming something about moving on but why does she always end up looking pathetic, chasing after those men she has moved on from.

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  34. sa dami ng problema ng pilipinas, ang pinuproblema ng presidential sister ay ang kanyang naunsyaming lovelife.. teen ager lang ang peg.

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    1. hahahhahaa. true that.

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    2. eh dapat ba nyang problemahin ang buong bansa at ang isang kagaya mo na makitid ang utak?

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    3. Para daw sa kanya dumamay ang mga tao, hindi sa mga pamilya ng fallen 44.

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  35. Diversionary tactic, or she just doesn't know when to stop? Everyday it's I, me, my, myself, ako, akin, ako, ako. Narcissism is an understatement.

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  36. @ 12:32 it reads: "...but Christmas Day was for him & his siblings & his kids." basa din pag may time.

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  37. While I was reading it, it's as if I could also hear her shrill voice narrating the story that it only made me more irritated.

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    1. Hahaha.!!!! Same here

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    2. with matching pointy fuschia lips

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  38. naku, kris opened up this issue again... sana she just ket this in private. we don't have to know every detail of her lovelife.

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  39. You are strong and beautiful, Kris, and you will survive this. In God's perfect time you shall find that person that you long for and deserve.

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  40. You can't have everything in life. Kaya yung mga nagke-claim na perfect sila at yung buhay nila- please lang, si God lang ang perfect.

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  41. Kaya takot ang mga lalake magkarelasyon sa kanya dahil ibubulgar ni Kris ang lahat ng detalye ng relasyon nila.

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  42. Makuntento ka nalang kasi sa mga anak mo.

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  43. "True love doesn’t find you, neither do you find it. You build true love together, and you can’t do that when you’re tired, jaded, or weary."

    Beautiful words here.

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  44. You can't have your cake and eat it too...sad but true

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  45. Kris, don't fall for every man who gives you attention. Yeah, maybe he wants to get to know you better, and you're the kind of woman who's easy to fall in love with, but being who you are can get a bit intimidating, so the guy, hoping to quietly let the relationship grow, gets overwhelmed when after being introduced to the whole world as your new love, and have the media hounding him, his life exposed, including his family, etc. The Bible says that a quiet woman is a treasure. Be that woman.

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  46. For the first time ever, I feel bad for her. Yung guy naman kasi shouldve stayed away na. Yan yung mga tipong hindi alam ang gusto sa buhay.

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  47. That's her blog so she can very well write whatever she wants there. If you hate what she puts there- why even bother? You who criticize her for being her are more pathetic. Just concentrate on your own lives. She did not ask you to read or visit her blog.

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    1. AND we did not ask for your opinion. :)

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    2. Someone is blinded here. I assume you are new to the Aquino tactics.

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    3. AGREE ATENG!
      daming crab.

      These bashers are acting as if it is mandatory for the blogpost to be read by them and their families. NKKLK.

      ang immature.

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  48. "I made the mistake of speaking about him the following night on A&A. The next day, over the phone he broke up with me, right before Bimb’s 7th birthday party."

    Ms. Kris talagang mistake na nauna pang nalaman ng taumbayan ang relasyon nyo kesa sa mga anak nya,ofcourse they'll be shocked.Kung sana you made the effort din to let them know you I think they wouldn't have reacted negatively kaso hindi kasi nalaman na lang nila sa tv na may jowa na tatay nila.You and your big mouth nga naman.

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  49. I like her but upon reading this i find her extremely sooooo G***....antanda na plsssss

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  50. You always say you have matured but acts the opposite.I'll wait for the time you'll stop saying that and that's the time I'll say yes,you have matured.

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  51. Marami siguro sainyo ang hindi pa nakaranas masaktan,magmahal, mag-isa, magmahal, magkamali, husgahan,halos itakwil ng pamilya dahil sa pag-ibig, maging ina't ama ng mga anak. Iyan ang ramdam ko kay Kris i feel sorry for her but I'm sure the right Guy will come.

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  52. Krissy in your story kung iisipin ang babaw lang ng naging relatiinship nyo tapos isang taon na hindi ka pa din makapag moveon! Kung tutuusin nga parang hindi naman ata naging kayo eh. Baka mag M.U lang kayo assumera ka lang talaga!

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    1. Hahaha MU tapos na friend zoned in the end

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  53. Patahimikin mo na si bistek past is past! Ikaw lang nagmumukang bitter. It looks like he really loved you naman talaga eh db kaya lang he backed out too early in your relatiinship. Buti na rin yon sinabi nya sayo ng maaga para maka moveon ka na.

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  54. For some reasons, naalala ko ang Gone Girl kay Kris. Parang ganon kasi siya eh, creepy.

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  55. Oh wow ... eto na naman ang grandstanding niya in the hope na matakpan ang hinaharap na krisis ngayon ng kapatid niya.

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    1. Yun na! Gasgas na abg ganyangvklaseng strategy! Di nyo na kami mauuto!

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  56. Sooo....she is still pining over that guy.

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  57. haha!! so many haters but admit it,u got intrigued and read the whole story..&
    after reading it u hate.

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    1. instead of hate na sad ako. everybody deserves happiness... sana mahanap na nya yun

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  58. 2:10 naranasan natin lahat yan at some pint in time but big diff is WE KEPT OUR MOUTHS SHUT
    so there !!!

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    1. The difference is public figure si krizzy while us are normal ones. LOL

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    2. even if you talked about your experience dear no one would care coz you are are not famous noh! #realitycheck

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  59. Napakalumang issue na to. Move on na Kris, and learn to respect yourself and others close to your heart by giving them the privacy they deserve. Know when to keep things to yourself dear.

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  60. ako ako ako.. babaeng puro ako.

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    1. At sino ang iaangat nya? Ikaw? BAt nag aksaya ka ng time sa article nya? Buang ka rin kse aminin mo Anon 3:16

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  61. Despite it being the "me" kind of story, I must admit na magaling pala si Kris magsulat.

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  62. still like her.boring ang showbiz pag wala ang babaitang to.ha ha

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  63. Gurang ka na Kris di na bagay syo mga ganyan mga kaartehan. Nakakaumay na puro ikaw na lang ang bida. Di lang syo umiikot ang mundo ha ka stressed ka sama mo na din ang kapatid mo.

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  64. Dapat ung nasa huli...

    "NATUTO NA SYA, OKAY NA YAN, KASI NEXT TIME TUMAHIMIK KNA"

    -HB

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  65. Parang high school nakakaloka. Tagal mag move on

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  66. Truth is, wla ng interesado sa failed supossed love story nyo ni Herbert kaya kung talagang importante sayo ang privacy, sana tinikom mo nalang yang bibig mo. Sa totoo lang, hindi rin naman namin kailangan ng ganito kadaming detalye dahil nakaksawa na yanh pag-whine mo about this issue. Tama na. Pathetic na.

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  67. ansakit naman non, matapos mong proud na in-announce, hiniwalayan ka agad kinabukasan! nakakloka!
    pero sana last na ito, para maka move on na tayong lahat. darating din ang para sa yo kung tlagang meron diba.

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  68. Gumawa kaseh kayo ng sarili nying blog. Di yung nakikibasa kayo. Alangang ikaw ang isulat nya! Hahahaha!

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  69. just learn to shut up. men are freaking scared of your blabber mouth esp after the relationship is over. siempre, lahat ng ex mo, sila yung masama. nakaka trauma ka siguro maging ex girlfriend.

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  70. hhhmmmmm. attempt ba eto to deviate the persons attention to what happened to the SAF44?

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  71. The most open and honest person I know in my whole 65 years of living....We love you Kris...

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  72. Mahirap makahanap ng isang lalaking fully committed sa isang package deal. Lalu ng kung ang lalaking ito ay meron ring excess baggage.

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  73. naiyak ako promise.. totoo naman sinabi nya.. hopefully this time totoo na ang sinasabi nyang she learned her lesson.. anyway just pray maybe, just maybe someone for you will come :)

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  74. wow kaya takot ang mga guys lumigaw or magka-relasyon sa kanya ikwekwento nya kasi ng buong buo ang detalya kahit walang nagtatanong, much more kung nagkahiwalay na. kulang na lang nga maglagay sya cctv sa bawat kanto ng bahay nya para mapanuod mga tao ang buhay nya. grabe tetay bigyan mo naman ng dignidad ang sarili mo, sa ginawa mong yan parang nagpapa-awa ka kay herbert, pinapa-guilty mo ang tao para balikan ka. Maswerte ka matalino si Bimby para matauhan ka, pero sana nga magtuloy-tuloy na yan, pero knowing you, lahat ng sinabi mo before ay di mo tinutupad.

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  75. with this detailed revelation, alam na why bistek opted to give her up. simple lang ang gusto ng tao, mabuhay ng tahimik at hinde kumplikado, things that kris can never comprehend. this woman is 44 years old, and she continues to not learn from her many failed romances. buti sana kung walang mga anak para mas tuunan ng pansin di ba? she's been branded queen of talk for a reason nga naman. queen of epic fails pwede rin.

    question ko lang, nung nakita syang umiiyak ni bimby hindi kaya naisip ng bagets na tumatawa sya? iisa lang itsura nya when doing both.

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  76. Para paraan din si Kris para mawala ang atensyon ng mga tao kay Pnoy.

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  77. Kris motive in sharing this now: to divert the peoples attention from Pnoy.

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    1. Well it's the public's call if they'll be diverted by this issue. No one is forcing the public to pay attention to her. Ignore her if you must and turn your attention to the more important issues at hand. Now, if Kris do get people's attention then it's not Kris' fault, those people are just gullible.

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  78. Aigoo. Last na hugot na ba ito or part ito ng isang series, call it drama involving herself and the Filipino people. In fairness, I like how it was worded out pero ang taas ng post. And the line that it's not actually me but the baggage that came along with me ang inayawan niya to that effect is super win. Obviously, love niya talaga self niya. Hahahaha

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  79. I think kris is still in love,kayo mga haters please wag maghusga u don't know what shed been through deep in her heart,masakit sobrang sakit masaktan,this is how she cope with her hurt feelings so be it.kay mga iba dyan medaling mamatay kasi keni keep ang problema

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  80. Move on na.Pick yourself up from this , learn the lesson. Put please put clisure para di na lang rehash ng rehash.

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  81. Di ba sabi sa Forevermore: Wala naman formula ang "move on move on" na yan. But then again, even Drew Barrymore and Angelina Jolie learned when to stop.

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  82. di ba ang tagal na nilang wala, at ni hindi yata umabot ng 1 month bakit nag eemote pa? i guess this is a distraction to divert the focus from Pnoy's flak

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  83. Kris that guy clearly doesnt love you. Im surprised ang dali mong mag fall kay Herbert na obviously hindi kayang mag spend ng maraming oras na kasama ka. Hindi siya makapag commit kc hindi niya nararamdaman ang spark na nararamdaman sa taong gusto kang makasama ng habang buhay. Sa history ni Herbert kapag gusto niyan ang babae parang stalker yan. Si Lea Salonga hinahabol habol niyan kung saan saan hanggang airport nakikita na lang ni lea na sumusulpot si HB kahit wala silang usapan kaso basted. Ganon din siya kay Janice pero bakit sayo parang palipasan ka lang niya ng oras. Sana kris makakita ka ng lalakeng gusto ka talaga. Ang linaw linaw na hindi ka talaga love niyang si Mayor.

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  84. Illusion lang yan dear....there was never an us dah!

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  85. AT TALAGANG BRINODCAST MO NANAMAN???!!! KALA KO BA NATUTO KNA. HAAAAYYYY...KAMI NAPAPAGOD SAYO E

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    1. HOY12:12! WAG MO KAMI IDAMAY NANANAHIMIK KAMI DITO!!!

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    2. Betteryet, sa planet Mars.
      #goodriddance

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    3. Bwahaha! Lakas ng tawa ko at nagpanic si 4:47!!

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  87. Anong meron? Bakit nagdrama si ate kris? D pa rin ba sya maka move on kay mayor?

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  88. we love kris aquino , she is an example of a strong woman no hurricane will put down .idol ang peg

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  89. to bashers: you know how she is but you still read her darn blog. sino nabuset ngayon? ang ending, sya pa rin ang winner dahil nakuha nya mga attention nyo! and no amount of panlilibak can change that! di nyo ba napapapansin, habang bash kayo ng bash, sya naman go lang ng go sa bank!

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    1. I agree with u. sana nga labg yung ibang nega dyan dinedevote na lang nila time nila to be productive atleat makabuluhan pa..not unless kumikita sila sa pangbabash kay kris haha

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  90. Me pagka kuripot pala si Bistek. Cheeseburger meal na nga, small coke pa.

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  91. I like Ms. Kris, because hindi siya madamot i-share ang true feelings niya sa public unlike most celebrities I know na niloloko ang public ayaw umamin ng tunay na happenings sa buhay nila, Kris is just being honest which I like, perfect siyang product endorser talaga because of her HONESTY. I LOVE KRIS!!

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  92. Siguro people are so umay na with her because dyan sa Pinas napapanood sya all the time sa TV. Hindi ako umay with her kasi I don't watch her or follow her with any SNS. And with this - it only means na when it comes to LOVE lahat tayo pantay pantay. We all feel the same emotions. Nagkataon lang na kapag naiinlove sya todo buhos talaga and that's her.

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  93. parang di kayo nagdaan sa heartbreaks

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  94. aw this is heartfelt.. i could feel her heart out.. pabayaan na natin sya, she's also a human who fell in love and have lost love.

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  95. Jusmeo. Ayaw talaga patalo sa Fallen 44 issue ng 44 year old woman na ito! KSP to the highest level.

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    1. Desperate move para maiba naman ang topic at hindi puro SAF at ang kuya nya... haay naku!

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    2. Desperate move agad?! Excuse.me kelan kaya kayo ttigil din sa pg gamit ng SAF??? This is one issue is all hers personal to share..if di mo feel den dont bother to read it.

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  96. I love you Kris! you are a hopeless romantic. I feel for you. you have so much love to give kaya ka pinagpapala.

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  97. This is very low of the administration. Nagpapabango so to the rescue ang little sister? Hmmmm.

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    1. Mas feel ko na low utak.mo. make another issue para sa bet mo para naman maiba.

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  98. nawawala na ang limelight sa kanya.. so kelangan gumawa ulit.... haays...

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  99. diversionary tactic....

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  100. This is one lovely and inspiring piece. <3

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  101. Sayang. They look good together pa naman. I was really rooting for them. Oh well, you can't have everything.

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  102. Guys, baka nakakalimutan nyo na Kris Aquino is in the center of the solar system. Titigil ang mundo pag di sya ang nasa limelight. Dapat sya lagi ang center of attention. Kaloka! Lol.

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