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Thursday, August 21, 2014

Letter from a Reader: Varsity Player's Conscience is Missing

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Dear Fashion Pulis,

Good day to you, FP! I am one of your avid fans. I read your blog everyday not only for the showbiz stuff but also for other relevant information.

I am a working mom and I write to you to expose this certain varsity player whose conscience is missing CM. CM is one of the more popular basketball players from one of the universities in UAAP. 

CM is a dangerous guy victimizing young women, taking advantage of the girls’ vulnerability and his star player’s status, to abuse, get these girls pregnant and leave them like nothing happened.

I am one of those girls whom CM had victimized, impregnated and left me and my baby for nothing. FP, I am seeking justice not only for myself but also for and in behalf of all the women whose lives CM had shattered. This person should be stopped and punished for all the mistakes he committed. The list of his victims keeps getting longer, and I cannot afford to just sit down and watch him sow terror in the lives of us innocent victims.

In the beginning, CM would court the girls, promising them the moon and the stars, and once his lust gets satisfied and after the woman gets pregnant, that’s when CM disappears, leaving the woman alone to care for and support the child. CM has no conscience, he doesn’t discriminate, he abuses and gets even minors pregnant!

I know and admit that as a woman, it was my mistake to have been blinded, swayed and fell for  a big pretender and liar like CM whom I truly loved in the beginning. But I believe that blaming myself should stop there, that my wrongs don’t make CM right. And I speak for his other victims, too, that something must be done.

CM’s activities are getting alarming, leaving these girls to be young mothers without any support from him. What kind of future await the mother and her fatherless child? At this point, keeping quiet about this matter should be out of the question. That is the very reason why CM continues to wreak havoc on these young women – because we just keep quiet and endure. This foreigner should be taught a lesson.  

If ever CM was able to do this with impunity while he was in other countries, he should be made to account and pay for his crimes this time. He is earning big in our country and this is what he does to our young girls? No way!    

Right now, CM resorts to blackmail, threatening us his victims and even boasting that there is nothing we can do because he is protected by his university which he plays for. It is for this reason why the other victims have chosen to keep quiet.

FP, I believe that our justice system is fair and that we will be heard. CM should not be tolerated and allowed to play in any of our Philippine university, earning big allowances and perks while wreaking havoc on our young, hapless women.

Thank you very much for giving this letter a space in your column. I hope that through your widely read blog, the victims will come forward. Our collective voices are enough to stop the vulture that is CM from preying on more young girls in the future.

God bless us all!

Sincerely,

Juliet

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109 comments:

  1. Dear Juliet, Talk to a lawyer, tell them your story and if you have a strong case then they might take it on pro bono basis (that means no win no pay). Goodluck.

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    1. "pro bono" does not mean "no win, no pay". it simply means "for free"-- or no pay. probably you are referring to a contingency payment agreement, wherein payment for lawyer's services is given only when a favorable decision is obtained. -- wag magbigay ng legal opinion kung walang alam sa batas.

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    2. Dear Juliet et.al,

      Even if you love a guy, if he's not your husband yet, always insist in protection.

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    3. Hay nakoh.. sabe nga ni Papa Jack.. guys would say anything at gagawa ng kung ano anong pangako makuha lang ang babae.. nasa sayo na un kung maniniwala ka at papakatanga.

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    4. Umi-et al ka pa jan teh. Para kang si pro-bono. Makagamit lang ng term??? Kaimbey!

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  2. Dalhin mo yan sa presinto.
    I TV patrol mo! Investigator or sa Tulfo brothers. Dami Mong options mama.

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    1. Investigator talaga? Saang channel ba yan te? Push yan teh!

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  3. eh how can the other victims come forward if hindi naman sasabihin kung sino yung guy?

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  4. Eh kung pagaaral muna ang inatupag at hindi ang bugso ng damdamin, edi sana maayos ang buhay mo hija. At ngayon, rerekla-reklamo ka. You brought this upon yourself, so swallow that bitter pill!

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    1. Easy 1:56, nagsisisi na nga yung tao eh. In fact, nauntog na ng bongga, brave enough to put everything into writing to publish here on FP so actions will be taken and girls forewarned.

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    2. nauntog na nga xa tapos isisi nya sa lalaki lng, na kesyo ginamit xa and all? eh dalawa nmn clang gumawa nun? babae rin ako but i find this letter parang mapanira. kng tlgang marami na clang nabiktima kailangan nya pa yun i-prove.

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    3. I think yung focus nung letter is yung act ng pagseduce sa girls until may mangyari and then pagdisappear pag buntis na.. which according to gurl was happening continously...

      Yes nagkamali sila pareho. Once for the gurl and she learned from it big time... pero si guy parang ginawang hobby?? Which is sadya na and very wrong...

      The gurl needs to step forward and prove her allegations... if true, this guy needs take responsibility...

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    4. Lives shattered? Juliet, don't play hapless victim here. You and the other girls enjoyed your time with him, and probably even aggressively pursued him in the beginning kasi nga popular jock siya. He might turn the tables on you too and say kayo nagpabuntis, and now want to trap him. Some girls do that, you know. Nasa babae din yun, d lang sa lalake. Ngayong tapos na ang ligaya, file a legal complaint. If nothing happens, accept the consequences, learn and move on.

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    5. I understand where she's coming from. Madaling sabihin na "ginusto mo yan" or "nag-enjoy ka naman." You would never really understand until you've been through it. Those kind of guys have mastered the art of manipulation. They know how to deceive. Let your story be brought out in the open, I admire you for having the courage. Go!

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    6. I'm so appalled that you guys are victim-blaming! Bakit niyo pa mas lalo dinadown yung girl?? She owned up to it na. People these days are so heartless.

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  5. Waahhh kaloka ito.. wait n lng ako s ibang comments..

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  6. it takes 2 to tango. if she wants the justice system to act on it, she should follow legal protocol and go public, instead of being anonymous

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  7. Eh paano ma-stop eh wala kang clues lol

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  8. Te kipitin nyo kasi pag minsan. Para di kayo nabubuntis tapos ngayon pag tinakbuhan kayo e nganga kayo.

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  9. If u girls are so called victims, bakit hndi nlng kayo mag file ng case againts this mr. Tulis para tapos!! Dapat nga sinabi mo na name nya..

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  10. I see you are really quite an a*****e. You want justice then go where justice will be served. Where both sides will be heard.

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  11. jusko.concerned ka sa mga girls na nabiktima at mabibiktima pa lang? kasi isinuko mo na agad ang bataan! hindi yan mapipigilan unless may mga babaeng ayaw magpaloko.ok.

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    1. Kaya nga wala man lang clue. Haller

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  12. File a lawsuit. Do it legally.

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  13. 1 word, 3 letters: sue

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  14. Yung import yan no. Sus nasa Caption na ung initials! alam na!

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  15. Ah. Eh. Di ba fault din ng girls yun bat nagpapauto sila? Kahit pa sabihing in love ka, di naman kailangan maging tan*a di ba?

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    1. E di po ba inamin naman na may kasalanan din? pero dapat ba iwanan din ang reponsibilidad at mangbiktima pa ng iba?

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  16. 1 word, 3 letters: Sue Sue his a**, GURL~ Call some back up. Total, sabi mo marami kayo.THIS NEEDS TO BE PUBLICIZED!

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  17. Dapat maturuan ito ng leksiyon! wag palabasin ng bansa and work to support his kids if ever this is true…… but who could make him do that?

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  18. Sabi k nga ba eh, kaya hindi ako lumalapit sa gwapo at sikat kuno!! At never mainlove, mas nakakatakot yan.. Kaya lng, mga babae na biktima ni c, ganon sila ka bulag??? Petra

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    1. Ang tanong pogi nga ba yan si player? Parang di naman! Hahaha!

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    2. Parang hindi nga... Ang itim kaya! Dko nga maimagine bat ang daming naloko't nagpabuntis.

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  19. Omg is this the boylet of g? Haha

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  20. Grabe din Anon 4:41 . Hindi porket tan*a ang ina eh dapat ng pabayaan ng ama ang anak at exempted na sya sa responsibilidad nya. kalerky ka. dapat dito sa lalaking ito maparusahan ng madala at di na mambiktima pa.

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  21. Salamat po sa unawa. Ito po ang kailangan namin para lumakas pa loob namin sa Laban na to

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  22. Hindi mo mahahanap ang justice dito! Talk to a lawyer.

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  23. I am sad that this happened to the letter sender. But you weren't raped or forced. What you did to be impregnated was also to your consent, just happened that the guy is a douche. Meaning, you should be responsible to yourself and to your actions and cannot blame all the fault to the father of your child, it takes two to tango. Matagal ba kayong magbf-gf? Matagal mo na ba syang kakilala? Minsan dinadahilan na lang ng babae na bulag daw sya sa pag-ibig kaya nya nagawa yun, but the truth is being irresponsible. As I have said, sad ako that it happened to you, but you should start to face the consequence also.

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    1. Yun ang key question: matagal na ba kayong mag bf-gf? Kasi kung naging matagal kayo, bakit madami kayong "biktima"? So either pinagsabay sabay kayo or mabilis kang nailigawan at naikama. Sa panahon ngayon, girls should 't be easily swayed by boys. Dapat mas vigilant tayo palagi. Kilalaning mabuti at isipin ng matagal lahat ng gagawing actions within a relationship.

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  24. bakit ka kasi pumatol?? ikaW DIN naman kasi.. at tsaka pano mo nman nalaman yung sa ibang babae?? sinabi nila sayo??

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  25. Kung based sa initials, C? Medyo mahirap

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  26. no university will tolerate such behavior. anyway, kailangan mo iexpose kung gusto mo ng hustisya

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  27. Your words against his words.yan ang version mo.pwede rin sinubukan o pinagaralan ka nyang mahalin pero hindi talaga.hundi lang ang sinasabi mo ang may mali, ikaw din kaya wag mong isisi lahat sa kanya. People nowadays alam na.both men and women mahihilig talaga.maganda rin yang letter mo kasi warning s mga girls n makakabasa at para maging matalino sila. Yung baby mo ay blessings yan.

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  28. teh kasalanan mo din yan you go for "sikat and feeling entitled" guys eh just accept the fact na isa ka ding feelingera at feeling "ganda ko" nung na catch mo si guy! o edi yan napala mo... face the consequences, move on and have a life... just sue the guy already no need for a melodramatic "wanna have sympathy and pitty" letter! bawasan na kadramahan mo sa buhay teh go and sue na!

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  29. Was she forced? Hindi diba? so sisihin parin inya ang sarili niya dahil nakakakita lng siya ng Varsity Player eh bumukaka na agad siya!!! LOLS!

    _iamRP

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    1. Some were forced! He's a big man!

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  30. Sino bang import ng UAAP that start with the letter "C"?.....

    Anyway, Juliet, fault mo rin naman Kasi kaya ka nabuntis, and why you gave up your thingy so easily? Dahil nainlove ka? Na blinded? That's a big BULL****! Baka Kasi in iwan ka Kasi you really planned to get preggy by him para your ticket to go abroad, remember that most or should I say 95% of young men don't have a plan to raise a family of their own. Dapat dun ka sa UAAP board/bosses mag file ng complaint or sa presinto.

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  31. With this premise, I think a DNA test should come handy once the baby or all of the babies are born. This girl might also be making up stories. I mean, if she is serious about it, talk to the guy exhaustively then if you don't get favorable response, go to the courts. And perhaps Juliet, buy condoms next time, theyre readily available over 711 or mini stop.

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  32. Puwedeng hindi naman "C". Yung may "V" siguro. Kase guwapo yun. :p

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  33. Ateng, merong pills and condoms. chaka nagustuhan mo naman diba? sana nag ingat ka.

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  34. Basa basa din pag may time. Nakalagay na nga na malakas ung kapit nung player at tsaka bakit kaya ganyan tayo mag isip. Para naring sinabi na mali ung girl at tama ang ginawa nung player.

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    1. Isa ka sa mga nagASSUME na mali ang babae at tama ang ginawa ng lalaki, pero most of the comments here ay pareho silang careless at irresponsible lalo na yun babae kasi gaanong katagal na ba nya kilala yun player, few months pa lang? Tapos hinayaan nyang mabuntis sya?! Kumbaga si babae at player nagpadala sa lust naging mga brainless tuloy.

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  35. It takes two to tango. The problem is not just this guy. It's all the girls that fell for him. Consequence. That's what comes to mind.

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  36. Taga Silangan ba itong si CM?

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  37. uu u admitted that may kasalanan ka rin ika nga it takes two to tango. bakit nmn din ung mga babae eh naniniwala prin s knya if he has impregnated loads of women? napansin ko rin during my younger years even til now napakabango ng mga varsity players na akala natin prang Diyos na kung pansinin tayu eh heaven na, lalo n kung ikama, sa una nmn malalaman mo kung ang lalaki ay totoo diba? bakit d kau gumamit ng protection mura lng mn sguro un. ako rin nmn ay single mom but never kong pinagsisihan na nabuntis ako at tanggap ko at alam nting lahat na kung hndi ka na pansinin ng lalaki meaning wla n syang gana. i am raising my child alone at alam ko kaya mo, move on ka at mgPray lagi, i know balang araw, matatanggap mo ang lahat. God bless u and ur baby xxx #singlemom

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  38. if you sue, and I am the varsity players lawyer, how will you respond to this questions------- you are promiscuous and do not know how to use birth control pill, and now you are after what????

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    1. This is unfair, ibig sabihin wala ng responsibility ung nakabuntis?? Grabe ah.. kawawa naman talaga ang mga pilipinang nabuntisan. Nabuntis na nga, tinawag pang imoral at higit sa lahat low I.Q. pa. Sana di maransan yan ng immediate relative mo. Baka kasi tanungin ng same question mo. Anyway.. next!!!!

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    2. Teh, sino namang matinong varsity ang gustong magraise ng family on the prime of their basketball career? Una, mas responsibilidad nating mga babae ang laging mag ingat, bakit mo iririsk ang maging preggy sa di mo naman lubos na kakilala? Ni hindi nga milyones ang earnings ng player kundi allowance lang. At saka pwede ba huwag idaan sa blind item dapat direct to the concern person ang mga hinaing nya.

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    3. Promiscuity, in human sexual behaviour, is the practice of having casual sex frequently with different partners or of being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual ...

      AnonymousAugust 20, 2014 at 11:05 PM- how did u know it was just casual for girls?? hindi naman lahat marunong agad gumamit ng birth control pill! lalo na sa minor!

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    4. well unfortunately life is not fair, and unfortunately tama, its partly the girls fault, don't know why people don't use pill and rubber, simple lang enjoy pa, btw, ano hahabulin nya, sa US you can enforce mag sustento, eh artista nga na lalaki sa pinas , me work, di nagsusustento yan pa, player lang gano ba naman ang suweldo nya?

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    5. kahit na sabihing harsh si lawyer.. that's how things work.. for sure itatanong pa dyan sigurado ka bang sya ang ama..

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  39. I dont think this is the right place para makuha mo ang hustisya. Kailangan BI? If gusto mo ng justice at mbigyan ng leksyon sa korte or di kaya media mo go public pangalanan mo. Pano mag-ingat ang ibang girls kung kailangan muna nila hulaan kung sino ang Varsity Player na yan? Hit and miss? Pag binuntis sila at iniwan pwedeng siya na nga ang tinutukoy mo? Duh. Pangalanan mo kung ayaw marami pa ang mabiktima.

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  40. Da Who si Varsity Player? From what School? Foreigner daw, so is he Black or White? Waley na ba ibang clues?

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  41. Oops! Mukang si V to ah? Tama kaya???

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  42. I guess para ma deport ung player, un ang gusto ng sender at para malaman ng mga potential victim ang ugali nung player at para di na dumami pa mga biktima. kasi naman working na sya at mag isa na nyang tinaguyod anak nya (nagbabasa lang) at saka if me perang involve man, eh dapat lang kasi anak naman nung player ung bata dapat bigyan ng financial support. I dont tolerate premarital sex, may kasalanan din ung babae pero mas lalong d ko tinotolerate ang ginawa ng player. Dapat aksyunan na to. Ilantad na ung player?!

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  43. initials on title..this is m

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  44. mmmasarap to pag malamig o umuulan.

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  45. Lesson learned dont give in unless you're given a ring!

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    1. Anong ring ba yan? Booty ring? :) naku naman po sila Mommy at daddy nga dati kaya karamihan sa kanila eh nagtanan. Lol. Maka ring naman tong si Maria Clara. peace!

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    2. Baka suffeRING ang ibig nya sabihin?

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  46. ang aga mong lumandi magtiis ka sa hapdi.

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    1. wow galing naman ng comment mo te nakaka inspire haha sa mga negatron, u can always tell all bad things sa babae but you can never justify this gurl's situation hangga't di mo nararanasan. I salute her kasi binuhay nya mag isa anak nya. its not easy na maging single mom. And shes not selfish enough to fight for what is right. madaling mag move on pero ung kunsensya mo na sana me ginawa ka to stop him eh yun ang mahirap kalaban. Go teh kaya nyo yan!

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  47. I think call directly the university. Talk to the president or Students Affairs Office Head and tell them his a bad reputation to the university. If they will just ignore this, go public na.

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  48. Wag kasi makipag-S pag hindi pa nagpapakasal!

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  49. I don't think this is the proper venue for this. Magsampa ka ng kaso Ate. Di ko alam ano pinaglalaban mo. I mean rights ba ng anak mo? If yes walang magagawa 'tong BI mo. Dalhin na sa korte yan!

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  50. Were you of legal age when you did the deed? If yes, then there's nothing you (or the rest of the 'victims') can do - unless one/some of you were actually raped. It would be difficult to charge him with rape since it was consentual.

    You can go public but it won't give you the justice that you're looking for. Aside from possibly the player suing you for defamation.

    Tanging habol mo ay yung sustento para sa anak mo. Pero kailangan mong patunayan na anak nga niya yan (DNA Test).

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  51. Hindi yan import. OA naman yang babae na yan sa growing list niya. Alam mo ate kung marsmi na yan matagal nang maraming nag reklamo dyan. Ikaw lang nman mag isa ate ang nag re reklamo.kilala ko yung player. Malay ba niya kung siya ang ama. At bkit ngayon ka lang nag rereklamo.obvious naghahabol ka ng pera kasi sumisikat na siya.hondi yan import kasi wala nmang very.popular player na import sa uaap.

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  52. Feeling ko eto ung n, kasi binase ko sa c photo above.

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  53. Sa mga nag cocomment na pangalanan na ang varsity player, mga baguhan ba kayo dito sa FP? kelan pa pinangalanan dito ang mga article na ganito? Yung sender sigurado sinend kay FP kung sino yan pero dahil sa rules dito kaya nka BI ang article. kakaloka kayo!

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  54. C? WHAT TOTOO BA TO? BAT DOON KA PA

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    1. Gusto kasi magkaanak ng matangkad.

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  55. based on the initials, ewan ko lang ha, the girls he victimized need to see an eye doctor. my gosh naman di naman gwapo!!! to top it all, sana man lang kung from the prestigious g or b school...!!!

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    1. Korek ka jan teh, panu kaya nya nasikmura?

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  56. My goodness, allowance lang naman ang nakukuha ni varsity player, kung mag inarte naman yun juliet feeling nya player yun lalaki na milyones ang datung. Ginusto nilang pareho ang di gumamit ng proteksyon kaya magtiis sya.

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  57. Naku kung nag stay at home na lang sya wala pang disgrasya! juice ko po

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  58. Women who are into consensual sex should not label themselves as victims if the relationship doesn't work out.

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    1. true..i believe all the victims of this player are old enough to decide naman..may mga lalaki talaga na ginagamit ang charm at pambobola pra makapangbiktima ng babae but don't you think may kasalanan din yung mga nabibiktima?kasi di nman kayo pinwersa, pumayag kayo magpagalaw kahit walang kasiguraduhan kung ano ang intensyon ng lalaki..dahil lang gwapo, laglag panty agad..babae din ako and it hurts to know na marami ng babae ngayon ang papayag sa 1nyt stand dahil lang sa crush nila yung lalaki...it will serve as a lesson to all the young girls na dapat pahalagahan natin ang sarili natin at wag magpadala sa bugso ng damdamin

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  59. Wala ng excuse maging ignorant about birth control sa panahon ngayon.

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  60. If its not C baka si V hehe wild guess

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  61. Hay naku! C... Totoo nga to. nakita ko ung mga bata kamukhang kamukha nya pero deny to death pa din sya.

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  62. Tulong galing sa ama at respeto sa situation nya ang hinihingi ng sender, hindi sermon. Malamang ginwa n ng magulang. Imbes tulungan, dinown nyo pa.

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  63. This should be a lesson to all young girls out there who are head over heels with the young varsity players they see playing. You went to bed with these players - you should've used protection. Like what the other commenters said, you were not forced to go to bed with them. You had a choice - and a choice that should've been made was to use protection.

    Now, focus on your studies and make sure that you raise your child well - without that douche of father anymore.

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  64. Mas maganda ngang di na sya nagpakasal pa kay CM. jusme, baka pati pa yun eh problemahin pa nya pag nagkataon. Mali ang ginawa nung girl, aminado naman sya pero Maling mali para sa mga lalake ang mambuntis ng babae kung wala silang balak pangatawanan ito or kahit man lang magpaka ama sa bata. Hindi rin pwedeng sabihin ng lalake na pinilit din silang galawin ang babae dahil for sure din naman ginusto din nya un. Go te! Ilaban nyo yan. Para sa mga bata at para na rin matigil na ang ginagawa nya sa mga babae dito. Dayo lang yan dito at wala syang karapatang umasta ng ganyan!

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  65. Yung ate ko naloko na nito eh pinerahan pa! buti d sya nabuntis. Me pangako pa siyang kasal daw eh nalaman nalang namin na kasal na pala siya sa iba. Galing nya magtago. Lumayas kana dito CM!

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    1. girl, dont blame the guy :) may utak rin si ate mo diba, now lng nya nasabai na pinerahan sya after all lol!

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    2. Linis mo teh! Haha para namang ikaw ay d nagpakatanga sa boylet mo. D ka sana makarma sa utak mong yan lol

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  66. Totoo ang blog! I know everything too.

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