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Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Priest Humiliates Unwed Mother During Baby’s Baptism


Source: www.thedailypedia.com

A video of a priest humiliating a 17-year-old single mother during the baptism of her son last Sunday, July 6, has been circulating online, after the baby’s grandmother uploaded it on her Facebook account hours after the baptismal rite. The baptism happened at the Sacred Heart Chaplaincy of the Redemptorist Church in Barangay Jagobiao, Mandaue City where the priest named Fr. Romeo Obach of the Congregation of the Most Holy Redeemer delivered a sermon about Kaye being a single mother. “It’s humiliating to have a baptism without a husband. You slept with a man that is not your husband? Aren’t you ashamed?,” said by the priest during his sermon.

The said the video which is 2:03 minutes long and shows Kaye standing and holding her baby while Fr. Obach was delivering his sermon, was taken by Jovielyn’s 12-year-old daughter, who she said ‘accidentally’ captured the priest’s tirades.


Fr. Obach was captured telling Kaye and those who were present during the baptism:

“Ayaw mo pagsunod sa hiwi nga binuhatan, nga mosugot lang mo nga modug sa lalaki nga di pa ninyo bana. Ingon ana ba diay ang atong pagtulon-an sa simbahan? Kaning bata, walay ni sala pero ang mga babae ug lalaki nga magdug nga wala pa sa kasal, maoy nagpuyo sa sala. Mapasa usab sa bata ang disgrasya. Hinaot pa nga dili kay naghappy-happy ug naglingaw-lingaw mo kay naay bata. O grasya ni pero nabuhat ni siya sa sala. Wala ni siya buhata sa…Naminyo ba ka, Day? (Girl shakes head) O, tan-awa, maayo ba ni siya nga Kristiyanos? Ipanghambog ba ta ni, Day? Nga naa kay anak pero wa kay bana? Kaulaw ani, Day. Motago gani unta ka karon, kay naa kas simbahan, makaulaw. Kay magpabunyag ka nga wa kay bana, nakigdug ka og laki nga di nimo bana. Nakadungog ka nako, Day? Di ka mauwaw? Dako kaayo ng uwaw. Nya kamo, mosunod mo? Mobikangkang mo sa laki nga mokuhit ninyo? Mao na nga makauwaw ni. Busa kaning bata-a, magpuyo ni sa grasya kay gibunyagan man siya. Ikaw gibunyagan ka pero wa nimo tumana ang imong mga saad sa bunyag. Hinaot ning bataa nga motubo nga motuman sa iyang mga saad sa bunyag. Hiwi ka, yabag ka. Hinaot pa naay uban nga motabang aron di na mayabag ang bata sama nimo nga di mosunod sa pagtulun-an ni Hesus.”

(Don’t follow wrong deeds, allowing yourself to sleep with a man who is not your husband. Is that what the church has taught you? This child did not sin, but the man and the woman who slept together unwed are the ones who are living in sin. The child will bear the mistake. Hope you’ll think that this is not just about being happy and amused because the child is here. Yes, this is grace, but conceived through sin. This was not done through…Were you married, Day? (Girl shakes head) Oh, see, is she a good Christian? Is this something you can be proud of, Day? That you have a child, but have no husband? This is shameful, Day. You should have covered yourself, because you are in church, shameful. Because you want this baptism even without a husband, you slept with a man who was not your husband. Can you hear me, Day? Aren’t you ashamed? This is so shameless. And you (addresses crowd), are you going to follow what she did? Will you spread your legs for a man you barely know? That’s why this is shameful. This child will live in grace because he is baptized. You, on the other hand, was baptized but you did not fulfill the promise of baptism. Hope this child will grow to follow his baptismal promise. You are crooked. I hope that some people will help you and enlighten you so your child will grow up following Christ’s teachings, which cannot be said of you.)

178 comments:

  1. Grabe toh, kalat na sa facebook yung video. Shame on that priest. Grabe! Nakakahiya sya, pari pa man din eh kung pwedeng sermunan nya sana yung silang dalawa na lang ng unwed mother. Grabe parang di pari kung umasta.

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    1. Oo nga, nakakahiya... Wala bang Code of Ethics ang mga pari?! Sana sinermunan na lang niya after the ceremony.

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    2. Tama nman ung priest ah...kaw cguro maaga kang naglandi din noh?

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    3. Well it's on of the tenets of the catholic church. ano, magbu-bulag bulagan na lang yung pare? he is just doing his job.

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    4. Pwede naman kausapin nya privately para sermunan. Or magsermon na lang sya sa mass without saying any names. Sana naglagay na lang sila ng requirement pag magpapabinyag, kelangan kasal o may-asawa. Matatakot na tuloy ang mga single parent magpabinyag o yung mga di kasal.

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    5. Anon 12:42 tama??? Tama manghiya ng tao??? Kung ang Jesus hindi hiniya si Magdalena na openly alam ng tao ang uri ng babae, ang pari pa?? Manghiya ng tao publicly???? Please!!!

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    6. anon 12.42 tulog na father.

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    7. Well, may katwiran din naman kasi yung pari kung tutuusin! On the other hand, marami rin namang mga pari ang mga nagkaanak sa hindi naman nila asawa!

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    8. Haaay. Tsk tsk. May point si father pero sana di na hiniya. Pasalamat nga tayo at binuhay ang bata at pina binyagan. Tinatama niya ang maling nagawa niya. Mali si father dito. Sana in private nalang siya sinermonan di yun sa harap ng madamibg tao

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    9. tama nmn lahat sinabi ng priest.. only that he did it publicly...baka n insulto lng ng tudo-tudo yong girl at ang family niya kaya gumanti, ipinagkalat sa fb..ganyan nmn kasi ang mga loosers at cowards...di mka pagsalita ng harapan kaya sa social media ibinubuhos ang lahat, baka sakali mka kuha nh sympathy sa people..at the same time mka pg higanti sa priest....the truth hurts kasi..ang aarte pa...i ako nmn pg ngkasala tatanggapin ko..positive vibes lang,...yon lnag..eh totoo nmn

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    10. I think what the priest did was just right...

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    11. 17 lng kasi si ateng. may katwiran si father. kaya nga sermon e. nanenermon. duh. 17?? duh.

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    12. The issue here is pinahiya ng pari ung mother. Tama si Anon 1:39.

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    13. Para walang problema, at walang matakot na magpabinyag, magpakasal muna kayo. Yun ang tama. Pwera sa mga biktima ng rape.

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    14. 12:42 AM - may point nga si father pero sana hindi sa harap ng maraming tao. ethics tawag dun.

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    15. bahala na kayo..

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    16. 1:39, hindi po ganung (masamang) babae si Magdalena. Google mo kung ano ang toong story.

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  2. De p*tang pari yan. That's why I've lost all respect on priest. Majority of them are just sanctimonious bastard especially the old farts...

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    1. ibanak ka ni?? ibanag din ko hehe sikat na talaga fb pati dito satin

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    2. pavvurulun! yan lang alam kong ibanak! haha

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    3. Not all of them.. Some Lang naman... Mga ganito priest we have to pray for them... Tao din sila nag kakamali.

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    4. Mga pari nga naman. Akala mo kung sino. Yes, hindi tama na mabuntis ka o makipags*x ka ng hindi ka kasal pero, duh? Dapat ipahiya talaga? Kaya di umuunlad Pilipinas dahil sa pangengealam ng mga to. Papansin. Grr

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  3. Hong aga naman kasing lumandi ng hitad nako kung ganyan ang ibang kabataan eh di mas lalo pang darami population ng pinas.

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    1. Hindi rason yan para mangpahiya ng tao. Ang mga kabataan sa ganyang edad ay hindi pa fully develop ang brain kaya padalos dalos. Eh yang pari? tanda na nyan G*go pa rin. Isa pa kung populasyon ng Pilipinas lang rason mo, aba'y magrally ka sa harap ng simbahan, diba sabi nyang mga yan 'humayo kayo at magpakarami' at bawal ang contraceptives! Mas maraming populasyon, mas maraming tagadeposito.

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    2. Wala syang karapatan at mali ang venue para sa pansarili nyang opinyon.

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    3. weh,ipokrita if i know isa ka din sa mga sinasabi mong "aga lumandi'

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    4. the end does not justify the means!

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  4. Tama din naman ung sinabi ng pari. Ang mali nga lang di dapat sa ganung okasyon.

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    1. I agree. Sa totoo lang need ma advise yang girl. Pero during a private consultation sana.

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    2. Mali yung pari dahil wala sya sa lugar. Yung magulang nung bata ang dapat magpangaral hindi yung pari na hindi naman kilala ang pagkatao nya.

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    3. Anon 12:55

      Harsh si Father pero may karapatan siyang magpangaral considering ang mga pari ay guardians of the flock. Kaya nga pinabinyagan si baby para maging Kristiyano di ba? And this religion is adamant against premarital sex. So as parent, she should emulate the true essence of christianity. Nagkamali siya, she should be ready for the consequence. Hirap kasi sa atin, pabinyag binyag hindi naman isinasapuso ang true meaning of Christianity. Ano yun seremonya lang? Kung ayaw niyong marinig sermon ng mga pari, eh di wag niyong pabinyagan dun baby niyo. Switch to another religion!

      The problem with the priest is his choice of words. Vulgar, harsh and disrespectful. If he really meant to correct the ways of an errant sheep, dapat in a constructive and kind manner. At dapat done in private. Pero may right siya pangaralan ang mga nawawala sa landas because that is one of his duties.

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  5. siguro naman next time magpapakasal na muna si day bago makipag-dug sa hindi nya asawa.

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    1. Easily said than done. Philippines should face the truth na ginagawa talaga yan ng mga bata at mahirap na silang pigilan. Dapat matutunan nila kung pano hindi sila mabubuntis

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  6. Oa naman si father, sa tingin ba nya gusto ng batang yan na mawalan ng ama yung anak nya. Nagkamali na nga yung tao gaganyanin pa,pinahiya nya pa.

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  7. wala na masyado sumusunod sa utos ng dyos, which is sad, philippines is a catholic country pero parang ang dami ng atheist

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    1. Utos ng dyos? sabi nino? ng pari? gusto lang ng mga yan ng pera nyo noh. If you really truly believe in God, you don't need a middle man to have a personal relationship with him. Catholicism is a farce brought to take over the people ages ago and some people just accept it with open arms brains shut! Oh well, I guess pinili nyo yan. Just because some people doesnt follow what priests say doesnt mean they are atheist...ignoranteng komento. The Philippines is in the state it is...3rd world...precisely because of this religion. They dont want progress, they dont want people to think, they just want people to be like you 12:21. Nakahanda na ba ang pang tithe mo? gusto yata ng bagong luxury car ni padre damaso.

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    2. Eh yan ngang mga nasa gobyerno di ba pare-parehong mga katoliko pero sila-sila nagnanakawan, kaya hindi natin natin masisi mga tao kung mawalan na ng ng interes! Father unahin mong sermunan yung mga magnanakaw sa gobyerno!

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    3. I agree with 12:49 mas mahalaga ay ang personal and unique relationship mo with God na hindi kinakailangan ng dikta ng mga pari. ang relihiyon naman ay gawa lang ng tao para kontrolin ang nakakarami at para magpayaman.

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    4. Kung ganitong pari ang haharapin ko lingo2, oo, mas mgging atheist na lang ako na gumagawa ng maayos sa kapwa ko. self raychus ampf...

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  8. He who casts the first stone....

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  9. Inappropriate for the priest to humiliate the teen. Kawawa naman.

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    1. Eh kc nga naman, maagang naglandi.. Un tuloy.. Lol

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    2. 12:59 kahit sinong maagang lumandi, merong RIGHT TO PRIVACY. dapat sa pari na iyan sundan nang palihim at alamin ang mga kalokohan niya at pagkatapos ay ibuyangyang ang mga kalokohan niya habang may misa para matauhan at matuto.

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    3. What if na-rape lng pla ung girl.. Grabe nman sa panghuhusga :(

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  10. ugh bat ba kasi daming nabubuntis na ang babata pa, ano ang dahilan?

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    1. maagang mga lumandi kasi.

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    2. Lack of sex education, my friend. Masyadong pa-"virgin" at pa-conservative effect mga Pilipino kaya tuloy nagsusuffer mga kabataan.

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  11. Ang harsh ni Father! Yan ba ang tamang pagtrato ng tao? Ganyan ba ang gusto nyong gayahin ng tagasunod nyo?

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    1. Tama nman kc si father, dapat d muna tumihaya si dalaga para d sya nabuntis kaagad, or sana nag control man lang...

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  12. Si Father parang reincarnation ni Padre Damaso...

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  13. Kahiya sayo father.

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  14. bawal kasi mag sleep with a married man

    tapos gusto nyo santo santo ang anak nyo

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    1. Baptism is about giving blessing to the baby not the mother.

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    2. Di nmn sinabing married ung lalaki. Ang sabi ng priest she slept with a man who isn't her husband. Gets?

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    3. Bawal nga! Pero yung ginawa ba ni father e sa tingin mo tama??? Tapos gusto mo galangin yung pari??? Even Jesus didnt forsake Magdalene, nor the sinners. Who is this 'priest' to do so??? Aber???

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    4. panu mu naman nalaman na married man ang tatay?

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    5. Pano m nalaman? Ikaw ba asawa ng nakabuntis?

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    6. 1:43 hindi siya pinahiya kundi ginawa lang na sermon 'yong ginawa niya. oh well dapat ihandle niya na lang dahil maraming consequences 'yong ginawa niya. Anong gusto mo purihin pa siya para mahandle niya ang mga consequences? Ano ba!

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  15. kung ako sa kanila, di nila ina-upload to.
    sila rin ang napahiya

    nalaman tuloy na kabit sya.
    pati anak nya pag laki, mapapahiya

    anuvah?
    isip isip din

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    1. Huh anong connect sa kabit? Wala nmng kabit issue.

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    2. Kabit agad?? Sinabi ba na may asawa ung lalake?? Mag conclude ka te wagas!

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    3. ang sabi " You slept with a man that is not your husband" hndi " You slept with a married man that is not your husband"

      isip isip din!

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    4. yun LEGAL wife kasi kamag anak ni father! lol

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    5. Hindi naman siguro siya kabit, ang sinabi lang you slept with a man who is not your husband. Totoo naman kasi nga di sila kasal. At ayan nabuntis siya. =)

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    6. Hindi po kabit ang ina ng bata..according sa news po, she tried committing suicide when she was pregnant coz she found out that her boyfriend ( the father of the baby and is obviously single) has another girlfriend and ran away from his responsibilities. She tried hanging herself and was unconscious. The baby was born premature also. Can you imagine how traumatizing her situation was? Plus this humiliation she received from the priest is way too much! Mabuti nga hindi nya pinaabort ang bata. What difference does it make kung nabuntis ang isang babae out of wedlock sa mga babae nga nag premarital sex din kaso hindi nabuntis? Ang ibang tao wagas kung makapaghusga! tsk tsk

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    7. u should be the one who do isip isip here

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  16. Anong klaseng pari yan...wlang manners! Educate the mother in private khit pa mali talga ang ginawa nya for being an unwed mother...Kaya maraming katoliko ang lumilipat sa ibang religion coz of such priests...

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  17. Tama nmn c father. Ambata pa nya naging ina. Kaya lang sana di sa harap ng ibang mga tao. Pero ok na din siguro, magtatanda na yung nanay ng bata hehe

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    1. Sana magtanda! E pano kung hindi? Traumatizing yang ganyan experience a.. Baka imbis na mapalapit sa Diyos, lalong lumayo.

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  18. Walang delikadeza ang paring ito. Pwede namang pagsabihan ng walang ibang tao kasali. Ngayon bad trip ang maraming tao kay father dahil sa pagka taklesa niya.

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  19. Kung si Kristo nga hindi nya pinahiya si Mother Magdalene sa harap ng to bagkus ay itinayo nya ito at iginalang....this video is sad....I am a Catholic but a true priest should be nurturing.....and yes ok naman na magpangaral pero sana inisip nya na irespeto ang babae sa harap ng publiko.....siguro kung ako ang nasa sitwasyon na yan baka nag walk out ako....nawala na ang paggalang sa babae at sa kapwa tao....nakakalungkot lang....

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    1. Exactly!!! Some priests are just not worthy of the 'calling' kuno.

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    2. 2014 na mary magdalene jesus pa rin?!??? Utang na loob

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    3. gawa gawa lang naman kasi ang bible na yan... tanong nyo sa pope..

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  20. Hindi kase mayaman binibinyagan nya. Iba tabas ng dila ng ul*l na yan kung mayaman yung pamilya!

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    1. tama!

      kung richie rich ang pamilya, tiyak na zip my lips ang drama ng pari na iyan dahil ang makakabangga niya ay kuwarta at kapangyarihan. magaling lang siya sa walang lakas! he is a wonderful servant of god!

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  21. so gusto nyo itolerate ng mga pari ang ganitong pangyayari kahit labag sa utos ng diyos? ginagawa lng nila ung responsibilidad nila as priests,un nga lng dapat private nlng sinabi ni father

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    1. dapat pa nga purihin nung pari yung girl. sinunod lang nya ang "pro-life" stance ng simbahan na "go forth and multiply" :)

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  22. OA ni Father! Pwede naman pagsabihan in private. Yan mga ganyang unwed mothers ang isa sa target ng RH law na tinututulan nyo.

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    1. pag private.. sinong mapagsabihan nyang "are you going to follow what she did?"

      wala di ba?? OK na rin to.. dapat ganito parati pag may case na ganito.. :D

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    2. AnonymousJuly 8, 2014 at 8:07 PM
      Aba iba pala ang Dios nyo. Mapanginsulto, bastos, at walang galang ang ina-idolize niyo. Kung mali man sa tingin nyo ang nagawa ng ina, ano ang tawag sa ginawa sa pari sa kanya? Bakit ang Santo Papa bininyagan ang batang anak ng babaeng di kasal? Obviously you didn't know that, or you're just too ignorant to accept other's fault and be rude and nasty about it.

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  23. Basta ako i agree with Fr. Obach .. D namn pwede kc ipabinyag tas d pa kasal..

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    1. wala naman value ang binyag na yan. wla naman kasalanan ung bata at wala din sapat na kaisipan upang tumanggap ng aral.

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    2. kawawa naman yuing mga batang walang muwang kung ganun. kaloka ka ah

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  24. Regardless of whether or not she slept with a married man the priest is waaay out of line here. What right has he na ipahiya yung tao na lumalapit sa "bahay ng Diyos" kung si Kristo nga hindi hinusgahan si Maria Magdalena? Ang mga pari naman din are no different. In our history there are a lot atrocious deeds done by priests and yet they expect people to honor them.
    Hypocrisy anyone?

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  25. Catholic nga di ba bawal ang sumiping ng di kasal, so what do you expect from yhe priest? Praise them? Buti nga para yung magulang ng 17 year old girl na yan mapahiya din.

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    1. Wag ka sana magkaanak na mabuntis ng maaga at ipahiya pamilya mo publicly! Ang linis mo te!

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    2. di ba may confessional sa catholic religion where you can safely talk about your sins and where the priest can lecture you if he wants? dapat ikwento ng pari ang mga kasalanan mo sa madla para maintindihan mo kung ano ang difference between public and private.

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    3. Wow teh napakalinis mo, baka lumagpas ka sa langit nyan. So judgemental. Daig mo pa si God ikaw na!

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  26. Alis Padre Damaso, alis!

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  27. para namang hindi pari si father umasta, pangaral na may kasamang pahiya sa public yang ginawa mo umayos ka nga, kala mo naman perpektong tao sya. Nagkamali na nga yong tao mabuti na lang di nya pina abort.

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  28. i applaud the priest for standing by his virtues and shame on the grandmother for humiliating him like this. hindi pinahiya ang babae.. sinermonan sya ni father dahil ang kanyang nagawa ay hindi ukol sa catholic church. napagalitan lang naoffend na agad. bininyagan naman ang bata diba?

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    1. hindi pinahiya?? eh may patanong tanong pa nga sa audience eh! ano un!?

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  29. i applaud the priest for standing by his virtues and shame on the grandmother for humiliating him like this. hindi pinahiya ang babae.. sinermonan sya ni father dahil ang kanyang nagawa ay hindi ukol sa catholic church. napagalitan lang naoffend na agad. napahiya sya because she couldnt handle the truth. bininyagan naman ang bata diba?

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    1. May seminar bago ang binyag. If the parish priest is strict on this matter dapat sinasabi yan ng church clerks sa seminar. Hindi sa mismong araw ng binyag, hindi in public, at lalong hindi kung kelan nakuha na ang bayad. And the Catholic Church should not wonder why madaming hindi kasal. Ang laki ng singil nila for a church wedding!

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    2. Si Jesus ba ginanyan si Magdalene?? Sinermunan in public??? Pakisagot pls.

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    3. sa susunod, yung mga kasalanan mo, isesermon ng pari sa iyo habang may malaking audience. ok lang sa iyo, di ba. after all, kasalanan mo naman lahat yun. so what kung sermunan ka sa harap ng ibang tao.

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  30. Being an unwed mother is only wrong in the eyes of the self-righteous Christians. Mas marami akong nakilalang walang bahid ng pagiging judgemental na may secular beliefs.

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  31. Bakit yung mga celebrities and politicians pag nagpapabinyag ng mga anak sa labas, engrande pa at dose-dosenang mga ninong at ninang, hindi pinapagalitan ng mga pari?

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    1. Like zion the young lion. Naka pang safari pa nga si father. Mabuti nga pina binyagan diba.

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    2. Pera pera lang yan..

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    3. Alam mo na! Kaya konti lang talag yung pari na mapagkakatiwalaan mo.

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    4. kng si Sarah Lahabti kaya ang babaeng yan, ganyan din kaya ang sermon nya?

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    5. Kaloka ibang priests ngayon bastos!

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  32. This is why I stopped going to the church. Kung sino pa mga religious sila pa ang mga mapanghusga. Di alam ni father ang cicumstances nung babae para husgahan nya, and to make things worst pari pa naman sya. What does the bible say about tolerance and acceptance and forgiving , Father ?

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    1. Maghanap ng credible na priest hahhah di yong hypocrite!

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    2. TAMA! bastos ang mga pari sa pilipinas... not all pero marami!!!

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    3. kaya dumami ang nasadlak sa kasalanan, dahil sa pag tolerate ng mga "matatalinong" taong tulad mo...

      ikaw na..

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    4. 1:43AM, accept Jesus Christ as your personal Saviour and from there you would see the difference between having a religion (such as Catholic) and having a personal relationship with the Lord :)

      8:10PM, its not tolerating, but giving love and compassion, just like what Jesus did when He was here on earth as a man. He loved even the sinners and even died on the cross for the forgiveness of our sins.. including the SIN of that young lady... so do not hate.. there are so many sinners on earth but Jesus Christ died on the cross for the forgiveness of those sins.. that's how much HE LOVES US. and so, we live on earth to Praise and Serve Him, Disciple and share the good news! Haven't you heard of it? I can share it with you :)

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  33. Siguro na fed up na yung pari sa daming kabataan na nabuntis ng maaga. Minsan kailangan talaga na prangkahan para matuto

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    1. Talaga lang 'huh....at sa mismong binyag pa ng anak nun girl hiniya ng pari?!

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  34. I agree with the catholic priest..he was just following the doctrine of the roman catholic church.

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    1. tama yung doctrine. e bakit naglecture IN PUBLIC? during a baptism? e ikaw kaya, pagalitan ka at ipagsigawan sa mundo yung mga sinabi mong kasalanan sa confessional, ok sa iyo?

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    2. I agree with you as well. The priest was just standing by his virtues and shame on the mother for humiliating him this way. Sinermonan ang babae, hindi pinahiya. What do they expect the priest to say? "Good job bata, ituloy mo lang yan

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    3. ang binyag eee para sa bata.. for the baby to accept the holy sacrament of god. . for the parent/s and ninong and ninang raise the baby ng maayos ng may takot sa dyos at mging mabuting cristyano.. not saying things beyond his limit.. shame to all of you na walang pang intindi... everyone has its own job to do... and this priest his job is to encourage everyone to praisegod.. na merong dyos.. na educate tau at ipaalam sa mga kukote natin ang banal na salita ng dyos.. not telling things beyond his limit.. its too personal.. sobrang foul xa don..

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    4. pero may tamang medium para masabi nya point nya, sa way na di nakakahiya.

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    5. the sermon wasn't done properly. even JESUS CHRIST loves the sinners... how could a priest do something like that? JESUS CHRIST is the only one who can judge us, nobody else. PRIESTS are supposed to be delivering the message of CHRIST - which includes NOT JUDGING PEOPLE.

      Whether you do a simple lie or sleep with someone who is not your husband are SINS. No greater sin, no lesser sin. So sa MATA ng DIYOS makasalanan ka ren. So NO ONE in this world is given the authority to JUDGE and do such kind of sermon

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  35. May mga priests talaga na bastos at kala mo kung sino. Just because they claim to be 'holy'. Sana maisip ng mga pari na they are the deliverer of the holy message, that doesnt mean they are saints ( atleast not yet, if they are worthy)

    Traumatizing yan sa bata. I remember when i was around 15-16 years old nag kumpisal ako para lang sigawan at sarcastically sabihan na hindi ako marunong magkumpisal?? At wag ako babalik ng simbahan o ng kumpisalan hamggat di ako marunong??? From then on, di na ko nangumpisal. And im now 34 years old.

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    1. nangyari din yan sa akin mag cocommunion naman ako, naka sleeveless ako aba nung ako na ang bibigyan ng ostiya sabi ba naman sa akin wag na kong magsusuot ng ganun ulit at sabay idinukdok sa palad ko ang ostiya na kala mo grabe nagawa kong kasalanan. pwede naman ako pagsabihan ng maayos sa isang tabi hindi ung habang nag ko communion ako. grabe talaga mga nagsasabing alagad sila ng diyos.

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    2. Sadly, meron talagang mga priests na ganyan. Many are called but few are chosen.

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    3. so the priest here claimed to be a saint?

      #justAskin'

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  36. o sa mga maka-comment lang dyan,ang sabi " You slept with a man that is not your husband" hnd sinabi na me asawa nakabuntis sakanya.kung makapag judge naman agad kayo na kabit o maagang lumandi. as if naman kau di nagi-slept with a man that is not your husband, e db mga jowa nu gngawa nu un e d nu pa asawa un? maingat lang kau kaya di kau nabubuntis.pero im sure pag gnwa ng pari sa inu yan ewan lang if matuwa pa kau.

    -nanay ni baby :P

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  37. Their Pope, Francis teaches love and acceptance, clearly this priest shows otherwise.

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  38. pede naman pangaralan ng hindi naka publiko... imbitahin nya tapos pagsabaihan ng personal...

    sana pinangaral din nya mga paring aktibo pero may asawa... kabit... anak...

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  39. Against yan sa bill of rights di ba? pde sya magreklamo sa commission on human rights.

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  40. mainit ang ulo ni father!kawawa din nmn ung nasermunan..dpat d nmn cya pinahiya ng gnun..

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  41. the mother was really too young. but the priest---even though his religion says no to sex outside of marriage---was out of line dahil it's a baptism. wala sila sa confessional where pwedeng magdiscuss ng mga kasalanan in private.

    this issue aside, di kailangan ang mga priests to be in touch with god and your spiritual side. you can speak to god without these charlatans. di ninyo kailangan dumaan sa kanila, 'no. don't give them your money and don't give them power over your life!

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  42. kung makahusga kayo wala na rin kayong pinag kaiba sa ginawa ng pari. Hindi siya KABIT nabuntis lang ng maaga at iniwan ng nakabuntis. Muntik na nga magpakamatay yang batang yan dahil sa pagkabuntis Tapos ipahiya pa sa pari. Sana kinausap niya ng sila sila lang. Mali pa rin ang pari walang respeto kahit sa binyag man lang ng bata.

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  43. nasaan ang simbahan para banggain ang mga latakut-takot na kurakot at magnanakaw sa gobyerno? bakit yung maliit na tao lang ang puntirya?

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  44. huwag kayong magpaloko. talk straight to god. live a life with goodness as your guide. STOP ORGANIZED RELIGION.

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  45. sarap s*mpalin ng pari na yan! hindi na niya kailangan ipagdukdukan sa nanay na nagkamali siya. malamang alam na niya yun nung malaman niyang buntis siya. at sa harap ng madaming tao pa ginawa! pwede namang after ng binyag na lang niya kausapin para pangaralan yung bata. sino ngayon ang mas nakakahiya father?! ugali! menor de edad pa naman yung nanay at higit sa lahat yung nagsermon, pari! hindi ho yan misa, binyag! pari ka pa naman, dapat ikaw ay maging huwaran. pero ano? namahiya pa!

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  46. Me point naman yon priest eh...madami na rin kasi kabataan ngayon na masyadong mapusok. Kahit hindi kabataan maski na me asawa. Nakikiapid masunod lng tawag ng laman. Tapos mabubuntis...

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  47. Sometimes one have to do something for the young generation to uphold family values, preserving oneself for the right time and probably his or her choice of partner. Premarital sex has always been an issue all over the world conceiving children out of wedlock. And who suffer afterwards, it's the children. Either they go astray, a few becomes better in life but mostly become also child or teen parents themselves. You can't blame the priest it's his job to sermon and uphold the values of church about premarital sex. It's not humiliating the girl, it's just like a father sermoning his own daughter to straighten up.

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  48. ugggh wether or not hes fed up with teen preggy or unwanted pregnancies,, he should still be accepting and loving of others which means NOT BEING JUDGEMENTAL towards them.. this is the problem of the phils we're all too self righteous and even use religion,, THE RELIGION AND STATE SHOULD BE SEPARATE

    anyways hopefully women's rights in the phils are improved they should be allowed access to contraception and safe abortion

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  49. Sa mga nagalit kay Pader. 17 years old unwed. Hindi man lang nagsumikap sa buhay muna.

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  50. Tama naman si father, yung nag upload nito sya ang dapat na mas mahiya sa sarili Nya. Hindi Nya na guide ng maayos sarili nyang anak tapos pag nasermunan ni father sasama ang loob. Di naman ako nag mamalinis dahil me mga flaws din naman ako. Ako kinasal sa church na six months pregnant na, pina galitan din ako ng pari sa harap mismo ng magulang ko at ng magulang ng asawA ko, umiyak ako, sumama ang loob ko, ni yakap ako ng asawA ko at sabay kaming Nangako sa harap ng Dyos na palalakihin namin na mabuting kristyano ang anak namin. Mas tumibay ang pananampalataya ko sa simbahan ng katoliko, kasi straight to the point ang pagmamalasakit sa iyong kinabukasan Hindi puro palabok na malayo sa realidad.

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  51. Agree sa priest?!?! Mas marami pang masahol na pari sa ordinaryong tao! Kala mo naman yung mga kabaro ng pari na yan , mga santo at santa! Ang daming paring sugarol, babaero!

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  52. Tama naman si Father, it's high time na parangalan ang mga kabataan. Masyado na kasing permissive ang society.

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  53. tama lang naman ginawa ng pari, kaya nga "sermon" kadalasan tawag sa misa nila, kasi they act as the moral conscience of our society. magpabinyag ba naman na wala man lang paabiso sa pari kung ano ang status nya, syempre jan nya sasabihin mga payo nya. people only think its wrong kasi natatamaan. mali naman kasi talaga pero dahil madami na, society gives way and accepts unwed mothers.

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  54. May point si father but dapat ba pinapahiya ka in public? Kung makapangaral sya mas alta pa kay Kristo. Should've have done it privately, yan tuloy mas nagmumukhang bastos pa sya sa nanay ng baby. Dami ding mga pari na disgrace sa Catholicism noh isa na ang pinaalis sa town namin dahil sa reklamo ng mga tao na kurakot daw. Pagawa daw sa simbahan, binulsa lang ang pera! A wolf under a lamb's skin, yuck!

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  55. It's ok na sermunan ang bata but not in an occasion like these. If sya nagsesermon sya about shame and delikadeza, sana naisip nya din ung habang nagsesermon sya. Kung ang Diyos hindi naghusga bakit ang pari may karapatang manghusga ng tao? Bakit narinig mo na ba ang Diyos magsalita ng ganyan? Yan din ba ang itinuro sa seminaryo, ang manghusga at mampahiya ng tao? There's a proper time and place for that. Hindi sa publiko habang nakamikropono.

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  56. In my opinion, the one who humiliated the 17yo mother is not the priest but the one who circulated this video. Totoo naman lahat ng sinabi ng pari..

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  57. The priest's intent was right. The delivery came out wrong. First of all, it is a sin to live without the marriage/ blessing of God. That is in the Bible.

    I don't know why the Church has to apologize for declaring the Gospel. That is the Gospel and it should be spread. The priest still went on and baptized the child because he knew that the child qas without sin and innocent.

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  58. buti nga hindi pinaabort nung girl yung bata...pag inabort ba anung sermon naman ang aabutan nya? yes nagkamali sya pero hindi ba turo na ng Diyos ang magpatawad at wag maging mapanghusga? inisip ba nya na naghrap din yung babae magpalaki ng bata on her own? bigyan dn dapat ng credit na napanagutan nya ang pagkkamali nya.

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  59. Unahin kaya nya sermonan mga kabaro nya? Hindi ba ito violence against children? 17 pa lang yung bata.. Kala mo kung gano kabait mga pari! Filingero!

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  60. bakit sila pag nagkamali hindi nag sosorry... dapat sa mga yan tinatampal ng hard!!

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  61. Stress yang pari na yan! Kaya nga may confession room para dun sa mga gusto mag confess ng kasalanan nla. D ung ipapahiya ka sa harapan ng tao. At binyagan yan. D yan misa. At tska 17yrs old yung babae. Minor pa.dpat kasuhan yang pari na yan! Hindi lahat ng pari banal!

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    1. Bakit kakasuhan si Father? Si Father ba sumiping sa 17 yo? I don't get your point.

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  62. Yung sermon ng pari para dun sa bata is correct, PERO yung sabihin nya yan during the Baptismal Rites e mali. Napahiya yung bata eh 17 years old lang malay ba natin kung narape lang pala yung bata kaya ganyan diba? We may never know. Hindi porke nabuntis e dahil lumandi or whatever bakit wala bang nabubuntis sa rape? Sana private nya nalang sinabi dun sa bata then sa misa nya saka sya magsermon ng ganyan na pangkalahatan diba?

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  63. He is too harsh. But I think the reality hurts.

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  64. grabe kayong lahat ke father ... sinabi nya lang ang tutuo..... for sure napagsabihan din yang 17 yrs old mother pero di nakinig
    siguro kung nagingat aya di aya napagsabihan ni father

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    1. Day pwede nyang pag sabihan yung bata in private hindi ung nka mic at ina announce sa buong mundo ang kasalanan nya. kaloka.

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  65. So Alam Na Kung Bakit Tinitira Ng Ibang Religion Ang Mga Catholic Priest. TSK TSK TSK.

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  66. Misrepresenting God's heart is a sin greater than we give it credit for. Those who desire to teach the Bible, to lead God's people, must be aware of the weightiness of that responsibility.

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  67. I have never confessed in 7 years. The last time I did the priest berated me. He was fuming mad at me because of the sins I've done. I always make it a point to confess at least once a year. That priest was the only one who scolded me. My sins aren't even mortal sins. Since then I have never gone to confession. I dont want to generalize but have lost trust in them. They're judgemental and they lack compassion and understanding.

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    1. Kung ayaw mong mapagalitan, eh di wag kang mag confess. Simple as that. Besides, if you are really contrite, God will forgive you. Hindi na kailangan ng blessings ng mga pari. Tao lang yan.

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  68. Tapos na-rape pla si girl kya walang asawa.. Judge not so you wont be judged.

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  69. THE PRIEST DOESN'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO DO THAT. EVEN JESUS CHRIST, LOVES THE WOMAN AND THE CHILD.

    TO THE WOMAN, I KNOW YOU ARE A BELIEVER OF CHRIST. CONFESS YOUR SINS DIRECTLY TO THE LORD AND I AM CONFIDENT THAT HE WILL FORGIVE YOU.

    JESUS CHRIST DIED ON THE CROSS FOR THE FORGIVENESS OF OUR SINS. AND NO ONE ON THIS EARTH HAS THE AUTHORITY TO JUDGE US, BUT GOD.

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  70. Ang pari tao lang, ang Diyos ay omnipotent dahil kung hindi dahil sa kung ano ano ang pinag gagawa natin sa mundo eh matagal na Niya tayong tinapos. Nagagalit na siguro si father dahil nakikita nya ang nangyayari sa mga batang binibinyagan nya, nagiging kaawa awa lang.

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  71. "You should have covered yourself, because you are in church, shameful." nasa tamang pag iisip ba tong paring to?

    eh "hi" mo ko kay Maria Magdalena na ang Diyos mismo hindi siya hinusgahan... kakainit ng ulo!

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    1. Questionable pa yan kung si maria Magdalena nga ay prostitute. Remember, the Romans propagated Christianity as a political ploy. Maraming binago yang mga Romano during the Council of Nicea.

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  72. Pwede nyang pagalitan ang bata privately, wag nyang ipahiya sa harap ng maraming tao. Besides, di nya alam kung ano ang story behind her pregnancy. I lived with church people before (nun, priests and seminarians), and i tell you, they're mean and hypocrites beyond belief.

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  73. Okay lang naman mangsermon eh pero sa harap ba naman ng tao? Naku po yan ang mali ng pari -.-

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  74. everything the priest said was right....BUT....that's inappropriate for the sacrament of baptism...the focus (which should be on the child) was shifted..and he's making it sound like the child was just "an unwanted accident"...we all know that God has a reason for everything....

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  75. Ano ang mas worst, An unwed mother o paring bakla nang aabuso ng teen-agers? Im sure hindi sinesermonan ng paring to ang mga kasama nya sa " congregasyon"

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  76. This is not the proper venue for the priest to voice out his opinion. He should have acted as guidance and explained that despite that ut was by an unfortunate event but the baby is still a blessing. Kaloka! Na stress ako sayo, father!

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  77. I have question to catholic people.have your religion believe in heaven?then why your disciple have been talked like this.I think he is not a priest he is a racist...

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  78. hy priest kp nmn..nk2desmaya k...

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