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Monday, April 29, 2013

Inday Barretto: Gretchen Did Not Work for Us

 

Source: www.abs-cbnnews.com

MANILA – The matriarch of the Barretto family continued her tirade against daughter Gretchen Barretto, denying that the actress took on the role of parent to her siblings and even gave up her schooling to enter showbiz.

In a statement she sent to “The Buzz” on Sunday, Inday Barretto urged Gretchen to “stop putting yourself up by putting us down.”

“Just remember that my house, which you call less than your criteria, was what gave you a roof over your head, food on your stomach, clothes on your back when you were a nobody and had nothing! All you wanted was to hitch your wagon to a star and the world gave you the moon as well,” she said in the statement.

“You still have to bash us with lies and pasikat up to when Dad and I are about to close our eyes! The trouble with lies is you have to tell more lies to back it up!” she continued.

Furthermore, Mrs. Barretto responded, point by point, to Gretchen's assertion that she worked in showbiz to help her family.

“Issues and allegations: 1. Gretchen stopped schooling to stand as bread winner of the family - to pay for the rent, electricity, food and schooling of her siblings!

“Answer: At the age 12 modelled for a line of clothing, P1,000 per pictorial. At 14, she did a movie ‘14 Going Steady’ P20,000 per project, followed by two more movies I cannot remember. One or two more endorsements, maybe of the same amount. A total of P100,000. By the time she joined showbiz, three of her siblings were already done with school and well on their way,” she said.

“She was only with us for three years. By the time she changed into adult roles and earning better, she was already living in with (basketball player Joey) Loyzaga and our family were already in Iloilo to spend little time with my 90-year-old mother. And Daddy wanted to go into prawn farming,” she added.

Mrs. Barretto said they may not be rich but she also maintained that they were never poor.

“Our family had a comfortable lifestyle long before she was born and up to the present. No way will we let a 12-year-old child work for us. Family and friends can attest to that,” she said.

The feud among the Barrettos started when the family matriarch released a statement last Wednesday, announcing that she is disowning Gretchen.

Mrs. Barretto defended her daughter Claudine against the allegations of Gretchen, who had supposedly criticized her younger sister for "bashing" their niece Julia on Instagram.

Following this, their brother Joaquin also issued his own statement claiming it was actually Gretchen who once “put food on the table, paid for the rent, electricity and hospital bills when dad suffered.”

Gretchen and Claudine have yet to speak on the issue.

201 comments:

  1. ughhhh will this ever end?!!!

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  2. Inday Barreto ikaw ang may mali. kahit ano pa sabihin mo ikaw tlaga ang mali kasi di mo napalaki ng maayus ang mga anak mo!!!

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    1. Alam mo hundi ganun eh... ang tao pag nagkaisip na gagawa na at susundin na nila ang sarili nilang desisyon... alam narin ang tama at mali alam natin payo ng mga nagulang natin pero yung gusto mo lagi ang susundin mo. thats how it is... why we dont know im not a parent pero sometimes i look back and think sana sinunod ko si mum when she told me this... i mean hindi kasalanan ng isang ina kung mapariwara ang anak.. in ms gretchens case... she was blinded by money... she is too materialistic... hindi kailangan maging matalino para makita yun. gretchen is vain and will not let go of money and she uses money to gain people.... sad but true... i dont think she listens to her parents kaya nagkaganyan silang pamilya because gretchen thinks shes better than her parents. but mahal nila isat isa... sobrang taas lang ng pride... one day they wil patch things up. family yan eh. maguli lang kasi nasa showbiz ive seen worse family case scenarios... wala pa yan.

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    2. Tamaaaa! khit anong away pa yan kung sinanay nya ang mga anak nya n wag palakihin at wlang sumbatan pag nag aaway, wla snang ganyan ngaun. naniniwala ako sa tamang pagpapalaki ng magulang.

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    3. Materialistic na tao si Greta, pero bakit? Kelan nagsimula? Knowing na anim silang magkakapatid, may pagkukulang ba sa part ng magulang at may anak na kulang sa atensyon? O nabigay naman ng magulang lahat pero still mas gusto pa rin na maging ganid? Mahirap kasi sa panahon ngayon, materyal na bagay na ang nagiging batayan ng kasiyahan ng tao. Gusto ko lang maintindihan yung problema, kung san nag-ugat. Madali kasing manisi, pero hindi naman inaalam yung mga nangyari bakit nagkaganoon.

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    4. ^ hindi naman mangyayari yun kay gretchen kung naituwid niya ang ugali nung maliit pa lang. Nasa pagpapalaki un at pagpapangaral. Malaki ang impluwensya ng magulang sa anak. Eh parang wala namang pakialam tong nanay na to kundi gumawa ng gumawa ng bata. Eh diba nga ni mayakap at masabihan si gretchen ng i love you di nagawa ng nanay?

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    5. Hay naku,nakarelate ako kay la greta,pitong anak,panglima ako at kulang sa atensyon ng lumalaki kasi parents ko busyng busy sa paghahanap buhay para mapasok sa expensive univ ang 3 kong kapatid,ang resulta nakatapos mga nakakatanda kong kapatid pero wala ring nangyari,nagsipag asawa at ang gugulo ng buhay,ako na materialistic daw ito paupo upo at pashopping shopping at sila pa rin lagi ang aking pinoproblema,hingi dito hingi doon,anung konek?hehehe example lang,

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    6. 12:10 pwedeng tama ka mataas lang talaga ang pride ni Gretchen at masyadong materialistic ito PERO hindi sapat na dahilan ang pagiging materialistic ng isang tao para mabuwag ang pamilya nila. Mabubuwag lang 'yan kung 'yong magulang mismo ang bubuwag gaya ng ginawa niyang pagkampi at pagsalita sa publiko. Wow, pinagtanggol lang ni Gretchen 'yong pamangkin niya at hindi naman niya direkta si Clau. Maaaring nagkamali siya sa pagaakala na si Clau nga 'yon pero grabe.. maliit lang na bagay 'yon para pagtulungan siya at ganituhin? Kung matino siyang ina dapat inayos niya 'yon instead na palakihin pa. 'Yong ina ang may kasalanan dahil hindi magiging complicated ang lahat kung namagitan siya. Ina siya, she should know better.

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    7. Nature vs nurture ang issue. I think nature na ni greta maging materialistic tapos na-nurture pa ng environment

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    8. Kung materialistic si Greta mas materialistic ang Nanay. Naging basehan nya ang pagiging mabuting anak sa kung sino ang mas nakatulong sa kanila. Anong klaseng magulang sya. Tantanan na nya yung anak nya. Parang di sa matres nya galing kung pagsalitaan nya.

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    9. 1:02 ok ka lang? Kaya ayaw nya kay greta dahil kung ano anong kasinungalingan sinasabi. Binabalasubas pa ung tatay nila para maiangat ang sarili. Sama sa pakiramdam ng tatay nun ha. Magsinungaling anak mo na 12 years old daw sya pinagtrabaho mo?

      At wala yan sa pagpapalaki. Sa impluwensya yan ng mga kasama mo at sa pagdedesisyon. 6 kaming magkakapatid ako ang pang gitna. Muka 10 years old ako nasa abroad mga magulang ko pero matino akong tao.

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    10. I still believe na nasa pagpapalaki yan ng magulang. Kung ano ka man ngayon ay resulta ng paghubog sayo ng magulang mo. Kahit may sarili ka nang isip at nasa tamang edad ka na, kung napalaki ka ng magulang mo ng maayos at may pagrespeto sa kanila, susundin mo pa rin ang mga pangaral nila. I've seen movies and teleseryes wherein a parent would disown his child countless times. But this was the first time na sa totoong buhay nangyari yun. How can a mother do that? Sayo kaya nanggaling ang itinataboy mong anak. Ikaw ang gumawa dyan. Your blood and your genes. Impossible naman na sa kapitbahay mo mag-mana ang anak mo eh sayo naman nanggaling. Of course, we do not know their family dynamics. Pero as a regular citizen, in my point of view, it's the parents' fault. Wala sila lahat sa ayos.

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    11. well hindi naman yun ang claim it was lagreta claims na she put food on their table and sent her siblings to school...itanong nyo sa mga pamanking nila kung sino ang nagpapaaral knino...tsk tsk...

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    12. Hindi lahat yan sa pagpapalaki ng magulang. Kasi at one point in our life natutunan na natin ang tama at mali, may sarili na tayong pag iisip. Sampu kaming magkakapatid, hindi din nabigyan ng atensyon, financial support at pangaral ng magulang. Pinili ko magsikap at tumulong ng walang kapalit. Bottomline, nasa tao ang choice kung anong buhay gusto nya. Mga taong mahilig sisihin sa iba ang nangyayari sa buhay ay walang sense of responsibility at accountability. Pinili ni Gretchen maging magulo buhay nya kesa tahimik at enjoyin ang fruits of her work. Hindi dapat sisihin ang ibang tao o magulang o kapatid dahil you control yourself, your thoughts, decisions and actions. Ang naninisi ng iba ay walang sariling bait.

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    13. kahit anong sama ng anak, kung mabuti kang magulang, hindi mo gagawin ang ginawa ni enday. tapos ang usapan.

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    14. Shut up you guys! you dont know the whole story behind, stop judging the mother. I tell you what, kung anong ugali ng anak parents can never change it, they can only give advice but its our choice to follow. tinakwil din ako ng nanay ko dahil sa sobrang tigas ng ulo ko nun pero i came to her saying sorry and she accepted. children should respect their parents (mortal sin) and learn humiliation. i was fighting with my sister before that almost broke i relationship but i listened to my mom and learned humiliation.WHICH MEANS! IF YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO DECIDE WHICH IS RIGHT OR WRONG, NOBODY CAN EVER CHANGE THAT NOT EVEN PARENTS.

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  3. Hayyy! Teleserye!

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  4. what will the mom lose? si gretchen ang affected dito. hay, wala bang magiinterview kay gretchen cojuangco - ang ina ni tony boy? tapos, bakit laging wala na si marjorie sa eksena? takot rin siyang ibuko ni mader?

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    1. Si marjorie laging cause ng gulo. Siya at mga anak niya

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    2. Meldy Cojuangco, you mean? Gretchen Cojuangco is Danding's wife.

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    3. Donya Imelda Cojuangco po ang mother ni Tonyboy ,
      ang number one arch-ENEMY ni Gretchen Barretto.. Bwahaha!!

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    4. Mahirap mag appear si Marjorie. Mas mabubuking ang relationship nya with ___ and yung rumored child nila. Hirap di ba, baka magkalaglagan.

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    5. imelda ongsiako cojuangco is tony boy's mother & as far as she's concerned, this latest round in the barretto family feud is no reason for worry. on the contrary, she & her cercle des amis must be enjoying watching the events unfold in the sidelines. meldy as she's fondly called by her peers has never considered sa vraie belle-fille, like she did denise yabut and tony boy's previous flames(Bing Bing Tuason Gonzalez, daughter of the legendary Marilou Paterno Tuason Gonzalez who remarried a Guingona. Her son Jojo Guingona, Bing Bing's half-brother, in turn married Peping Sumulong and Ting Ting de los Reyes Cojuangco's daughter Pin hence her strong relations with the Jose and Antonio branches of the Cojuangco clan). These were femmes de bonne famille also.

      As for Gretchen Lichauco-Cuyugan Oppen-Montilla Cojuangco, her kids are Charlie, Mark, and Lisa. She was the mother-in-law of Rio Diaz of the fabled Diaz clan of beauties and Kimi Schulze-Cojuangco of the mestizo Schulze family(w/c includes among others former model Lexi Schulze who married Javy Berenguer-Testa of the landed mestizo Berenguer clan of Bais, Negros Oriental).

      The Meldy Cojuangco was Ramon Cojuangco's 2nd wife after his first wife (Natividad de las Alas) died in the liberation of Manila with their unborn child. Natividad belonged to the Batangas family (Lontok-de las Alas) whose members married into the equally prominent Concepcion, Recto, Montinola, Padilla, and Ilustre families.

      Only Choy Cojuangco it is said had cordial relations with La Greta as Meldy's two daughters who both married the sons of former house speaker and supreme court chief justice Jose Yulo and Cecilia Sitchon Araneta loathe her guts & unbridled greed & need for validation

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    6. Toto? Is that you?

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    7. @anon 10:54am A for the effort. you did a very good research. (clap clap clap)

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    8. Very in the know ha. You must be one of meldy's chismosa peers.

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  5. Gosh, kaloka talaga ang pamilya na to! Please lang, no one cares about your family. So please stop washing your dirty linen in public. Mas maraming isyu na dapat tutukan ng mga tao. Your petty lives are of no concern to us.

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    1. "NO CONCERN TO US" ---nandamay ka pa teh! bakit binasa mo ang article tapos nag comment ka pa? Hypocrisy ang tawag dyan.

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    2. so bakit ka pa nag-comment? baka nga binasa mo pa eh :)

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    3. oo nga ateng! 'wag mo kming idamay. tsaka madami pang ibang articles si FP dito. yun ang basahin mo. pagkahabahaba ng article na to nagawa mo pang basahin. wapakels ka pala!!

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    4. kung di ka interesado ateng wag mong basahin...kmi interested kami noh...

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  6. Ang mabuting mother di namimili. Dapat pinagbabatinang mga anak at di pinapalaki ang problema.

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    1. tama yan at ideal, pero in the real world, hndi na rn bago n may hndi tlga magkakaayos na... alangan naman pg ausin pa kayo, e kung hndi na healthy relationship nyo, ipipilit nyo pa ba d b?

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    2. Anon 10:18 'family' eto, hindi eto basta basta 'relationship' lang. Family is sacred. And the mother should be the 'ilaw' of it.

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  7. o ayan gretchen!!!!ginalit mo si mommy inday!hinayaan kna nga...nanahimik si claudine inistorbo mo pa!pinublic pa!!!lol u open the pandora's box!!!ngayon dami painterview in ur behalf!!lols puro sabi-sabi naman...di sigurado!lols

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    1. akala ko pandora's botox hehehe... :P

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  8. Mas masakit sa ulo na kesa mag-usap-usap na sila-sila lang, e binubuyangyang pa nila sa madla. At kay Manang Inday, isipin mo rin na anak mo si Greta. Tingin mo bakit naging ganyan siya? Kung bata palang may naging problem na kay Greta, sino ba ang dapat magtama? Kahit hindi ako pro-Greta, nakakainis lang na may ganyang nanay. Kesa magsalita ka pa nang masasama tungkol sa kanya, manahimik ka na lang at kayo-kayo ang mag-usap. Susmiyo!

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    1. oo nga eh, nakakainis talaga.. hindi ako makapaniwala na may ganyan palang ina sa mundo. gosh!

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    2. Worse nanay in showbiz history. She could've defended Claudine without putting the other daughter down. No wonder the family is dysfunctional.

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    3. Kahit sa batas natin may provision na nag-a-allow na hndi pamanahan ang anak. Yun eh kung idi-disown ng magulang. Ibig sabihin nangyayari talaga na may nadisdisown at nawawalan pa ng karapatan sa mana

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  9. tama naman si madir. naka-CSA silagn magkakapatid wala pa man sa showbiz si greta. that alone says a lot. at mismong si tania na rin ang angsabing may sariling yaya si gretchen nung grade school kung kailan malaki na sya at kung tutuusin eh pwede naman na wala nang yaya pa. tama yung sabi nina gia--hindi sila ganun kayaman (far from the cojuanco's) but they're definitely NOT poor. stop the paawa effect na greta, tama na.

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  10. I think her mom has more integrity...

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    1. Nasaan ang integrity ng nanay na nagsasalita ng ganun sa anak. For all we know, nasasaktan lang din yun marinig na ang mga anak nila ang sumusoporta sa kanila. Nakakahiya yun na asa kayo ng asa sa mga anak nyo imbes na kayo ang asahan ng anak.

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    2. anon 1:07 pm check your comprehenion skills. ok? basa basa din then do your own research.

      -antigreta but not proclaudine

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  11. weeeh sa mga bashers ni mama inday!!!!o ayan aghhh si greta maliit pa lang social climber na kahit pangalan ng nanay niya kinakahiya pangkatulong daw!lols at pinapakilala nyang nanay nya ung tita nya na bigtime sopistikada kc!ung mamaya nya kc mataba at mukhang haggard...jeje at nagreklamo si gretchen bakit daw yaya ng mga klasmeyts nya nka uniform the next day nakaputi na ang yaya nya may uniform nrn!!!!lols

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    1. ibig mong sabihin na kung ganyanin ka ng anak mo ay ididisown mo din?? don't forget that whatever your kid become in the future, they're still your kid. ok lang ang magalit pero idisown is a big no no maliban lang kung wala kang kwentang ina kaya mong gawin yan sa anak mo.

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    2. EH KUNG KATULAD LANG NAMAN NI LA GRETA ANAK KO EH SUSME I DI DISOWN KO NGA ...

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    3. kaya ka nga naging magulang para iguide ang mga anak mo kahit ano pa man mangyari sa kanila. tungkulin ng magulang na iguide ang anak.

      so gusto mo lahat ng anak mo na mali ang ginagawa disown lang nang disown?

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    4. Really i disown mo because she's materialistic? Babaw mo teh. Di naman serial killer or bomber yan. Besides, di naman pera mo ginagastos nya.

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    5. Mga bulag talaga ang nagtatanggol kay greta...ayan ohhh isang sabi lang nya sa nanay nya pubagbibigyan agad!pra lang mplease ang anak!

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    6. Yung Nanay nga ng bomber sa Boston bombing eh, todo defend pa sa anak...

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  12. Korak! Tpos ngyon iba na statement ni tanya, wala na daw yaya si greta! Halata nman byatan

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  13. Alam pla nya n under age c gretchen nung nakipag live in kay Loyzaga, bakit ndi nya pinigilan? nung nanliligaw plang c tony boy at nagshoshopping buong pamilya nya sa hongkong bakit cya umayon? dapat antimano plang cnabihan n nya c gretchen n magiging kabit lng cya, pero pinayagan pa rin nyang maging kabit kc mayaman?

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    1. Matigas nga kasi ulo ni Greta. Di ba sabi ni Gia, tumakbo dun sa gitna ng kalsada nung ayaw payagan na mag-artista. Tsaka naka ilang laslas na ng pulso at sleeping tablet overdose ang babaeng to.

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  14. is the Optimum Teleserye Queen really coming back in KaFam? Sure na ba? Kasi parang nagsisiraan sila for the sake of this month`s MEG cover girl

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    1. Wagas na wagas ang tawa ko sa comment about the MEG cover. Baka pinag-aawayan din nilang maging cover ULI ng LIWAYWAY. LOL

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  15. base sa description ni gia, they were like super rich. pero sabi naman ni inday di daw sila rich pero di din mahirap.. ano ba talaga?

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    1. Sabi ni Gia, they were never rich but never poor.

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    2. Siguro yung family nila before FEELING MAYAMAN. They've lived beyond their means. Kaya kahit hindi ganun kadami ang pera, they still show off. Most probably tumatak yung sa mind ng mga anak na they are well-off since the parents tried to give them a superb kind of living. Lahat naman sila may mali dito. Not just one. If only Gretchen did not overreact, things might have been a bit lighter with them. It is also possible na if gretchen is the meanest of them all, my poccible root cause din eto like may tinatago syang hinanakit sa family or she might have felt unloved all throughout or she thought she's the least favorite. If it is true na Claudine has mental issues, rather than mocking her in public, they should be her number one support. When it comes kasi sa psychotherapy, SUPPORT SYSTEM ang pinakaimportante so Claudine herself will feel safer with the treatment. For sure madaming fears si Claudine regarding her condition kaya hindi sya nagiging religious with her treatment. The way her siblings react to her condition is enough evidence na she's being judged. As far as I know, you can't divulge a person's condition in public. Sa case naman ng mother nya, the mothe must've been provoked para itakwil ang anak nya. Or anak ba nya talaga si Gretchen? Cos the way they disown her, parang hindi nila kabloodline. Like what Gia said, "Leave my family alone."

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    3. di cla npakayaman but can afford naman cla. kababayan ko cla at schoolmate ko 1 of the sister, alam kong meju my kaya cla at graduate na ung older brothers and sisters nila nung nag artista c gretchen kya imposible tlaga na obligado xa tumulong. Nung na bankcrupt ang negosyo ng dad nila ngsasama na cla ni TonyBoy, but still c Claudine ang 2mulong At never na pinangangalandakan yun ni clau pati pag papaaral sa mga pamangkin. Kaya naiintindihan ko kung bakit kampi ang family ky clau, di nyo lang alam mga ginawa ni Gretch sa parents nya kaya sana wag maging judgemental. Pag nawala c Tony sa pamilya pa rin tatakbo c Greta at tatanggapin pa rin yan kasi ganun lagi ang eksena.

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  16. and the saga continues. haha

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  17. This mother is the cause of her family's insanity. No decent mother acts like this. Kakasuka

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    1. Is that u greta?

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    2. I'm thankful she's not my mother.

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    3. Thank God, I don't have a mother like her. My mom is very caring and nurturing. Although minsan, ramdam ko na favorite nya yung kapatid ko more than me, it's not enough for me to feel insecure kasi I always feel her love and care for me. Ako na ang may mabuting ina. Hehe.

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  18. this family is the ipetone of a disfunction family.andami nang problema s bansa ntin pati personal problems nila pinapublic pa.pls lng tigilan nyo n yn and pls try to seatle this thing in your own living rooms!!!kaloka

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    1. What IPetone?? Did you mean EPITOME? ^^ HIGHLarious! Lol

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    2. **EPITOME **SETTLE **DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY ** You made me laugh! Please tell me you're just trying to amuse us ;) @12:36 pls

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    4. Acetone? erase!

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  19. bakit hindi nalang mag artista c mani inday. gusto nya lagi nasa public ang problema nila eh.

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  20. hay!
    U can never buy cLass taLaga..
    Gretchen, i hope u continue ur studies, kuLang ka sa GMRC..
    It's gretchen fault that she grow up like that, no matter how a mother hoLd or guide there chiLd(ren) if the chiLd will not listen or Let go off the hoLd, who ever u r cant do anything if the child decide the latter..
    Try to check urseLf to a psychiatrist, use ur money to fix ur inside, not just ur appearance..

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    1. Hahaha fix your inside talaga? Andame kong tawa dun ha!

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    2. 'Yong ina dapat ang magpacheck-up, hindi siya.

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    3. "their" po, hindi "there". magtagalog na lang kasi.

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    4. true that! u can never ever buy class...kaya sana nag-Tagalog ka na lang! I hope you also continue your studies...kung si gretchen e kulang sa GMRC, ikaw kulang sa proper grammar! kakalurki ka 'te!

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    5. Teh, I hope you continue your studies too...in GRAMMAR and VOCABULARY!!!

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  21. Go lang ng go!!! Labasan ng baho sa media. Nakaka-entertain!!!

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  22. Mommy inday have u ever heard of... "Kung ano ang puno sya ang bunga"???

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    1. not always true

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    2. not really true. good parents may produce bad children and bad parents may produce good children. my husband was beaten then abandoned by a parent but managed to become successful. he even invited them to his graduation because he's going to receive an award. He even pays for his parents' rent now. kaya wag maging judgemental sa mga magulang kasi we all have a choice on how we'll live our lives.

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    3. ^^^yeah very trueeee my parents are too nice pero eto meron talaga sa pamilya saltik!!!lol at ako di rin naman mabuting anak tamad sila pa nghahanap ng work for me pro ayaw ko talaga...pro ung ate ko hopeless!lols

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    4. nah.. ung nagpalaki sakin ay napakabait pero lumaki ako na mabarkada and all.. its my choice.. lage ako tinatakwil sa house namin nun pero neverako nagsalita ngmasama sa parents ko... maraming parents ang makikita mo na nagagalit sa anak pero dka masyado makakakita ng anak na sinisiraan ang magulang nya.. mas weird and ginagawa ni gretchen.. ang problema ay nakay gretchen.. bat di nia pigilan friends nia sa pagsasalita kase alam nia naman againts sa mum and dad nia ang sasabihin ni tanya.. impossible hindi sya nainform ni tanya na makekealam sya sa away pamilya nila..

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    5. May not always be true but MOST OF THE TIME, it is true.

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  23. Bket walang fans si greta? Bket lahat me bayad?

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  24. para itakwil ka ng ina at kapatid mo nagpapatunay na masama ka talaga Gretchen..Magbago kana bago pa nawala parents mo humingi ka ng tawad,wag puro pera ang pahalagahan.

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  25. Binuhay at sinanay nila mga anak nila sa magarbong buhay na kahit hindi kaya eh hala ng hala,ang resulta naging mga inggitira ang mga anak,siempre maiinggit ka pag mga kaklase moh nakasheding tapos ikaw nakamotorsiklo,altho nakacar sila wala pa rin un sa mga tunay na mamayamang kaklase nila na with matching yaya and driver,buti walang nabanggit na butler,hahaha,ung letter ni gia eh may mali,sabi nia nakachufer sila at nakatira sa big houses,eh bakit sabi nia ngpaaral sa kanya si claudine,anu toh,inuna ang yayas and chufer sweldo keysa mg ipon pampaaral sa kanila,huli,pasosyal

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  26. Sa wakas na entertain din ako kay gretchen!!!!

    Wala ksing kwentang umarte ito. At least ngayon nkakatawa sya!

    Saka nun time na sinabi nya na di pareho ang role na ginagampanan nya sa MMK dahil dina man daw siya kabit!!! Super tawa ko nun! Entertaining!

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    1. Gretchen is considered a common-law wife. Tony Boy and Gretchen eloped at the time na Tony is already separated but not annulled to his 2nd wife. His ex-wife, actually, has a common-law husband na rin at the moment. Hindi lang mapa-annull ang marriage nila kasi Tony Boy is hesitant to divide his multi-million assets. Kaya Gretchen is not someone na nang-agaw ng asawa. She's caught in the technicalities lang. Yung mga tao kasi kung makapam-bash parang nang-agaw si Gretchen ng asawa ng may asawa.

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    2. Anon 3:55pm

      Madaming kabit si tony FYI lang!

      Kung mka kwento parang alam mo lahat!
      Me mas love pa nga siya kesa kay greta.

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    3. In short KABIT pa din siya!

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    4. Eloped? Bwhhahaha!

      Ilang taon na si gretchen nuon at tony? Lolz

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    5. Madaming naging kabit si greta! Isang politiko pa nga diba?! Na inaamin nman nya!

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    6. TC was quoted saying he will never get an annulment & will never marry again. part of the reason may be he did not have a pre-nup with DYC (the legal wife), but it's also said that she is the love of his life. he was in fact trying to get DYC back when GB came in the pic. there was even an incident that the pregnant GB made a scene & threatened to commit suicide when she wasn't allowed to enter TC's place (he was having dinner with the legal wife). TC has an older daughter (P), but never married the mother's child. it was only DY whom he married (they don't have a child).

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    7. Sayo n nanggaling...NOT YET ANNULLED... E di shubit nga..

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  27. Sa pagpili ng partner (o asawa), walang magulang na nananalo sa anak.

    Pero sa pag-exist ng isang anak, wala syang panalo sa magulang..... dahil anak lang sya.

    Sa kaso ni Gretchen, may ginawa sya para i-provoke ng husto ang nanay nya.. Mahirap lumabas in public dahil hindi na yon mababawi pa, pero hindi na mapigilan si Inday Barreto..

    Si Gretchen ang dapat magpakumbaba at humingi ng tawad sa magulang. Huwag nya isumbat na sinagot nya ang open heart surgery ng tatay nya. Kung talagang nagkamal na sya ng kayamanan, higit pa dyan ang dapat ginawa nya.

    Some good Parents produce good children. However, it cannot be denied that

    "Some good parents produce bad children, and bad parents produce good children"

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    1. the best comment ka te! agree ako sa lahat ng sinabi mo :)

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    3. super likey.. :)

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  28. No mother would ever speak ill about her children no matter how prodigious the child has become, no matter how the child has erred.

    Ang ina ang siyang unang pumoprotekta sa kanyang anak.

    Kung hindi mo kayang palakihin ng maayos at disiplinahin ang anak mo, wala kang karapatan para ikondena at itakwil siya.

    To some extent, Who we are, the things we say and do, becomes an example to our children. Who they are today and what they will become tomorrow, is a reflection of ourselves.

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    1. very well said. sana ma relize yan ni mommy inday. may fault naman si gretchen, but instead of fixing the issue, mas lalo pang napalala. my prayers to them.

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    2. Makes you wonder kung anak niya talaga si Gretchen. Sabi niya sa letter niya "I have love you as my own". Si Gia naman "leave my family alone". Then, she called Gretchen ST Queen, Evil, manipulator, etc. I just cannot believe any mother could shame, belittle and degrade their own child in public like this. Those words should have only been spoken privately.

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    3. Korek!!! Ang issue dto is ung manner ng paghandle ni mommy inday sa problema between her junakises. worst ever.

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  29. kayo naman, kapag konsintidor ang nanay binabatikos nyo, pag naman naninindigan against her daughter/son binabatikos pa rin. In the end, Gretchen had a choice. Kung napag desisyonan nyang tulungan pamilya nya, sana wala namang sumbatan o kaya bilangan, kasi kung nagbibilangan at nagsusumbatan, di tulong yon. that's blackmail.

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    1. Hindi panindigan ang ginawa ni Inday, she degraded and belittle her own daughter in public. There is nothing wrong if she wants to defend Claudine against Gretchen, the problem was her choice of words describing her other daughter. Even though I believe na totoo iyong description niya kay Gretchen, it's just taboo in our society for a mother to shame her daughter like that for all of us to hear.

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  30. Ang mas nakakahiya sa gulong ito is iyong nanay. Grabe iyong panghamak na ginawa niya kay Gretchen sa unang letter niya. Anong klaseng ina ito? Baka naman hindi niya anak si Greta?

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  31. Hay naku lalong makakalbo si Tony sa mga pangyayaring ito hehehe...

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  32. Masamang na c Inday barreto. Hahamakin mo ang bumuhay sa inyo para lang pagtakpan ang may sala mong anak. How cruel.

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  33. for a mother to disown a child, greta must really be the most evil daughter among the siblings

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  34. Trending yata ngayon ang mga mothers ng showbiz personalities going beserk....look at heart's mother...it seems she started it all....what happened to mothers who are supposed to be the first to give her children unconditional love

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  35. fyi - your childs personality/attitude is a reflection of your parenting. if you are a concerned mother(a good one like you claim to be then you would have pulled your daughter aside and give her your piece of mind. again your parenting skills is very poor. just saying

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    1. then blame your parents for you are very JUDGEMENT :P

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    2. I mean JUDGEMENTAL. :)

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  36. Everyone in the family is at fault! Please settle the issue amongst yourselves. Grrr!

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  37. Question lang.. Bakit sabi ni madir "you were only with us for three years...." ibig saabihin di sa kanila lumaki si gretch??

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    1. i think she was refering to the time when gretchen started working na... the mother was trying to prove na hindi si gretchen ang bumuhay sa kanila.

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    2. from what i understand, gretchen stayed with her parents for 3 more years after she did adult roles and earned good money.

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  38. wala ba kayong mga bait, ang tatanda nyo na? pagkakamali nyo, sa magulang nyo isisisi.. very irresponsible kind of thinking

    so para sa inyo, pwede din isisi ni inday baretto sa nanay nya ang ginagawa nya ngayon? e di si adan at eba ang may kasalanan ng lahat

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  39. hindi nabibili ang breeding

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  40. bakit sinisisi ang nanay? minsan kasi kung d nman nakikinig ang anak, cnong ina ba naman ang ipipilit ang sarili niya dba? may mali silang pareho pero mas malaki kasalanan ni Gretchen. wlang ina ang gagawa nito kung d na sagad ang galit niya. like she said, ayaw ni Gretchen maging part ng family nila. Itinakwil niya si Gretchen kasi yun naman ang gusto niya in the first place. pinag bigyan lng niya kumbaga.. lol

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  41. Sabi nga ng nanay niya.. Ayaw ni Gretchen maging part ng family nila in the first place. Ngayon kasalanan pa ng nanay kung nag give up siya kay Gretchen? Pareho silang may mali pero kng d sumobra si Gretchen eh di sna mangyayari toh. masakit din sa ina mag let go ng anak. eh kung ayaw ng anak mo sa family nyo at matigas ang ulo, may magagawa ka ba? may sarili na siyang pag iisip pra mag desisyon for herself.

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  42. kala ko ba ang anak kayang tiisin ang magulang,pero ang magulang hindi kayang tiisin ang anak?bakit ung nanay nila namimili? curo kaya nya pinag tatanggol c claudine para hindi matuluyan mabaliw...

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    1. siguro between claudine and gretchen si claudine ang mas nangangailangan ng kakampi or tagapagtanggol.. matibay kase si grtechen kaya nia itago baho nia nakangiti parin sa camera kahit dame na naissue na lalake skanya like john etc.. while claudine mahina naman konting issue lang nakakagawa na ng ikakasira nia.. di nia mahandle sarili nia.. d nia mapigilang magmura pag natapilok sya.. etc

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    2. Saka kasi si gretchen may tagalinis ng kalokohan nia.. Ung pera ni tbc. E si clau waley naman...

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  43. when sibblings fight mothers should play the role as switzerland

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  44. lahat sila may mali. pero sana lang, huwag nang kunin ng abs cbn ulit si claudine. witl all these negativity, sasakit lang ulo nila kay claudine. ang masasabi ko lang, kung si raymart nga na asawa na mismo, di nakatiis sa ugali ni claudine,ibig sabihin si claudine talaga ang may problema o ang problema mismo. PLEASE ABS, HUWAG NANG IBALIK SI CLAUDINE SA ISTASYON NIYO!!!!!! Malulugi lang kayo sa kanya tulad nang nangyari sa GMA 7.

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  45. ngayon ko naaappreciate ang Aquino family. kahit anong kahihiyan at problema ang dinadala ni kris sa pamilya nila, they are as solid as ever supporting one another. that's what you call breeding. sabagay, malaki naman talaga ang pagkakaiba ni inday kay cory.

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    1. At malaki rin ang pagkakaiba ni Kris at Gretchen. Both of them made wrong choices and bring shame to the family but Kris was a loving daughter and sister. She never maligned her family on her own words or action but her bad/wrong choices were the ones that hurt/shame the Aquino family.

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  46. anong klaseng ina ang itatakwil ang sariling anak at ilalabas ang kasiraan nito sa publiko? you crushed one daughter of yours just to save one? di ka na dapat nag issue ng kahit anong statement. alam na kung kanino nagmana ng pag uugali si claudine.. tsk tsk.. dapat protektahan mo ang buong pamilya pero sa ginagawa mong paglabas ng statement lalo itong nasisira. natatakot ka bang hindi makabalik si claudine sa dos kaya ganun na lang ang pagtatangol mo sa kanya? hindi na babango ang image nya. naia incident, eksena sa bangko, at kung pagmamaldita sa co stars.. anak mo pa rin yan, imbes na pagkasunduin mo sila ikaw mismo ang nag divide sa kanila.

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  47. kung kayo kaya si Inday na merong anak na wala pang 16 yrs old nag choose makipag live in , loka lokahan ang ginawa , gusto maka hook ng mayaman to live her dream to be rich - i wonder ano gagawin nyo. Cliche na ang e tag ang pagiging ina ay dapat santo ka na kahit bastusin ka at sagot sagutin sige yayakapin ka pa. Kaya maraming anak laban ng laban sa magulang at ginagawa ang gusto nila gawin dahil yan ang kulturang nilalagay sa isip na ang magulang di matitiis ang anak. Tama ba yan. And please lang wag isisi sa magulang lagi ang hindi pagiging mabuting tao ng isang anak, kaya ka binigyan ng utak at puso to know by yourself ano ang tama at mali.

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  48. i think Gretchen must have really done something bad - i mean, really really bad, for her mom to disown her in public. i don't know about you guys pero ako, i'm on Mother Inday's side. kasi from what i'm seeing, she was left with no other choice na. parang she had to disown na Gretchen because only by doing so lang magkakaron ng peace sa family niya. just a thought.

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  49. @ennaojyendis


    Get real iha. Sa lipunan, ang nanay ang gumagabay sa kanyang mga anak kasehodang mawala man sa landas ang bata. Sabihin na nating malaki ang kasalanan ni Gretchen pero maling mali ang piniling paraan ni Inday Barretto para i-handle ang family problem na ito. Kahit pagbali-baligtarin mo ang mundo neng, pagpapakita lang na walang kwentang ina si Inday sa walang kwentang anak niya. They are a perfect example of the saying- Kung anong puno, siyang bunga. Kaya di na ko magtataka kung ung bunso nia eh may saltik, ung isa naman ambisyosa at materialistic.

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    1. kaya nga sabi ko na pareho silang may mali! basa2 din kasi.. pero unfair nman kng e blame lahat dun sa nanay dba? yung iba nga mabubuti abg mga nagulabg pero lumaking masama ang mga anak, does that mean kasalanan nila yun? minsan oo, but not all the time dba? tao din yang magulang mo. nagagalit at nasasaktab. kung nka sabi sya ng masama, masisisi mo ba? d porke't nanay ka, hahayaan mo nlg ang anak mong babuyin ka at ang pamilya mo ksi nga anak mo eh, dpat ok lng? she has all right tama o mali kasi siya ang ina. c gretchen, she has no right to lambast her family and her sisters. none at all

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    2. So ibig sabihin yung mga anak na naliligaw ng landas, automatic nanay agad ang may diprensya? Parents can only raise you well but the moment na you reach certain age and maturity and miggle with the outside world, ikaw na ang responsible sa buhay na tatahakin mo. I don't think there are parents who will wish evil towards their children.

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  50. This is so heartbreaking. Whatever Gretchen is now partly manifests how bad her childhood was. Puro siguro bad memories, always trying to win her mother's attention over Claudine - this is the downside of playing favoritism. Normal lang na magkaron ng rifts even within families pero dito obvious na dysfunctional kase the patriarch has no overall control sa pamilya, very permissive siguro, he never stood up first to lead his wife and discipline his children. Yung matriarch naman equally dysfunctional by going public to personally ruin her own family and the rest of the children came riding the bandwagon. This shows how loose their family ties was. Bottomline, the parents should take responsibility for bringing up unrestrained children, sana lang yung mga anak wag na nilang ulitin sa mga anak nila yung masamang naranasan nila sa magulang nila. Pero sa huli kahit ganong kasama or kasakit ang naidulot ng pamilya, dugong Barreto pa din ang nananalaytay sa kanilang lahat so sana mag kaayos sila really soon.

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  51. When Gretchen was still starting out, I was a big fan. Gandang-ganda ako sa kanya. Kaya lang, parang OA na siya nung sila na ni Tony. Mga bodyguards, yayas, tapos sa IG niya, isang bundok ng LV and Goyard ang mga post niya. Yes, mayaman siya - she can afford. Pero paminsan yung mga post niya, sobra na. I cannot reconcile the prayerful, simple, humble Greta she likes to project to the world, and the pictures in her IG account, and the mean things she is saying to her younger sister. Sana she takes a page out of Dawn Zulueta's and Nanette Medved's books. Diba si Nanett Medved, nag-sexy rin before. But look at her now, tahimik ang buhay niya. Si Dawn Zulueta, tahimik rin ang buhay - kahit nasa showbiz siya. I do not know if their husbands are as rich as Tony - but I am sure they are all more than financially comfortable. I am neutral kay Claudine - but I do wish her well. Sana gumaling na siya, and I do hope the whole family can heal together and move forward.

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  52. Para sa akin mahirap din ang malaking pamilya magulo, ngayon ang question ay sino ba ang nagsasabi ng totoo? May pagkukulang din ang kanilang ama at ina kung bakit nagkaganito ang sitwasyon nila. Sa mga nagbabalak magkapamilya magaral kayo ng Parenting 101 ng sa gayon di kayo matulad sa kanila walang peace and happiness ito ang nagiging epekto. Madali ang magasawa pero mahirap ang bumuo ng pamilya.

    -concerned citizen of the philippines

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  53. And let this be a lesson to aspiring actors and actresses. Si Sunshine Cruz, pinagsisihan yung sexy movies niya before. Si Gretchen, kahit ano pang signature items ibalot sa katawan niya, kahit mag-English pa siya, kahit Maserati pa kotse niya, forever ST queen siya - kahit sa mismong pamilya niya. So think really hard, before sumabak sa sexy films.

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    1. Anon 3:45 read Robbie Tan's ( seiko films) interview. ST is just a tag for marketing purposes but never sya nag bold.
      #justsaying

      -notafanofgretchen

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    2. Anon 5:22. I didn't say nag-bold siya, but her movies were marketed for a more mature audience. Hence, sexy roles. Wala naman talaga siyang nude scenes. If you ask me, mas matindi pa nga yung TV shows like Game of Thrones or Sex and the City. Kaya lang, naka-tatak na sa tao yung 'ST Queen' tag - unfortunately for her. And no matter what she does, ganoon ang tawag sa kanya at perception sa kanya. Ang point ko lang - one has to be really careful in showbiz. You have to think twice bago ka pumayag kung paano ka i-market ng manager mo, or ng film outfit na nag-hire sa iyo. Because sometimes that tag, whether it's merely for marketing purposes or whatever will haunt you for a really long time.

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  54. ngayon lang nag salita ang mother dearest nila after a long time since nag aaway sila mag kakapatid.. i think na-puno na talaga ang nanay nila, hinde rin natin maisis si Inday Barretto. kaya i understand her kahit paano..for Gretchen, noon pa naman may topak na yan.

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  55. What kind of mother ang tatawag sa anak na ST Queen at ipagsisigawan na nakipag live in ang anak. Well i think may pagka maldita si gretchen, example ang pagiging Mistress nya, kissing scandal, at pagshow off sa yaman na di nya pinaghirapan. But u know what, hindi pa rin gawain dapat ng isang ina ang gumawa ng isa public announcement na makakadegrade ng sobra sa anak. To think, na hindi lang spur of the moment yun o sobrang galit. Ilang beses nya pinahiya si Gretchen.

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    1. Because the mother said she never learned. Do you think the mother will blow her top on simple and silly things? Meaning there has been a history and the mother just wanted to stop Gretche's evil and manipulative ways. I don't think the mother is insane to disown her over small stuff. Meron yang matagal nang pinahuhugutan at napuno na. Gretchen didn't listen so the mother has to blow it all out.

      And besides, sino unang nag public and nag provoke...si Gretchen thru her IG din db?

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  56. Ilagay nyo mga sarili nyo sa position ni Gretchen. Ano mararamdaman nyo pag nilait kayo at dinisown ng nanay nyo thru public announcement. I cant imagine how painful it is na ipagsigawan kang St queen at nakipaglive in at young age. Ipagsigawan ka sa buong mundo na ganun ka. Kulang na lang ipagsigawan pa syang kabit. I dont like gretchens doings but tao pa din sya. Hindi hayop. Hehehe. Kahit anong sama ng anak. A good morher will reach out and help her change her wring direction.

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    1. She deserves it! Sya ang pasaway and manipulative sa family di ba. She asked for it. Hindi naman basta basta lang nagsalita ang ina for nothing.

      And hey, she was ST Queen and she lived in at a young age na hindi naman siguro itinuro nor ipinilit sa kanya to do it. She had affairs with married men before and currently living in with a married man. This is the life she chose. So what is there to deny?

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    2. Gretchen has no remorse, wala syang nararamdaman. All she would want is to get even kahit na pamilya nya yan. She is a user and unfortunately she will.be until her parents closed their eyes. Does she thought to ask for.forgiveness kahit parents ang mali. That is humility but she will not because for her she could live without her family.

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  57. Inday! Buti di tulad mo ang naging nanay ko. Ang ate ko naging kabit. Ginawa ng lahat ng nanay ko ang lahat para mabuksan mga mata nya. But still my ate chose to be a mistress. Iniyakan yan ng nanay ko. Napahiya ang pamilya namin. But never as in never nya ginawa ang ipahiya sya sa buong mundo. Aanhin mo ang nanay na sustal at ayaw umamin na naghirap sila at one point if their lives. Susyal ka nga, anong klase ka namang ina.

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    1. Are you proud your sister is still a mistress? Just because your mother chose to keep mum about your sister's wrong doings does not mean she's a good mother. If she thinks she's done what's best for your sister, dont you think the same thought runs inside the barretto mother?

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    2. Kaibigan, understand mo yung point ni anon 4:39pm. Ang ibig nyang sabihin kahit anong sama ng anak, hindi paraan ng Diyos ang yurakan mo pa lalo ang nagkamali mong anak. Ang mabuting ina hindi titigil para maging mabuti ang anak. A mothers cry doesnt mean she allows her daughter to be a bad person. It mean a mothers heart can break into million pieces but still chooses to never stop loving your daughter. At kasama doon ay pagtulong sa kanya na maging mabuting tao. Example cory aquino. Mula umpisa di sya pabor sa mga pagkakamali ni kris. Alam ng publiko yan. Pero never nya tinawag na kabit sa publiko si kris.

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    3. Hindi. Hindi tumahimik ang nanay ko. Katakot takot na sermon ang inabot ng ate ko. Maraming masasakit na salita ang inabot nya sa nanay ko. One time nasampal pa nya ang ate ko. I am not proud of my ate being a mistress. Weve been raised na magkaron ng takot sa Diyos at wag gagawa ng masama. Lahat kami sa pamilya kasal at nasa maayos. But what I am telling is a mother plays a KEY role in the family. Lahat ng bagay pwede pag usapan sa loob ng bahay. I am not proud if what my ate did. But i am proud of my mother. Never nya pinahiya sa harap ng mga tao ang ate ko. She chose to resolve everything inside our HOME. And until now, hindi sya sumusuko na ituwid ang pagkakamali ng ate ko. She chose to seek help from God and not from Media.

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  58. It's so simple. Kailangang maging mukhang demonyo c Greta, para magmukhang anghel c Claudine. Inday's strategy. But this isn't working. The public is no longer interested with Claudine anymore. Inday should just make good publicity na lang para kay Julia, her apo, kaso d naman sa kanya mapupunta ang kita, kaya hindi nia ini-effort. C Marjorie kc ang makikinabang dun. Unlike kay Claudine, kikita cia, kc she's her own daughter at hawak nia talaga sa leeg. Un lang un...

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  59. GRANDMA INDAY SAYS:
    ''No way will we let a 12-year-old child work for us!''
    SO WHY DID SHE END UP IN SHOWBIZ???
    WHY DID YOU NOT DISSUADE HER FROM ENTERING SHOWBIZ AND SEND HER TO AN EXCLUSIVE SCHOOL???
    she was just a minor then and you had all the rights to forbid her from joining showbiz!!!
    THAT QUOTED STATEMENT CONVINCED ME THAT YOU ARE A LIAR GRANDMA!!!
    nevertheless, it does not matter who is lying or who is telling the truth!!!
    what matter are love and forgiveness!!!
    1 peter 4:8 says:
    ''Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.''
    YOU ARE THEIR MOTHER!!!
    YOUR LOVE FOR YOUR DAUGHTERS SHOULD BE BEYOND ANY HATRED!!!
    jesus says:
    '' Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”
    Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.''
    YOU ARE THEIR MOTHER!!!
    YOU SHOULD ALWAYS FORGIVE YOUR CHILDREN NO MATTER WHAT!!!
    you bet!!!

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    1. Yes brother eddie! Peace! Iboboo kita! BOOM!

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    2. Intense!!! Hahahha

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  60. itong c inday ang dapat gumawa ng paraan pr matapos ang away ng magkakapatid n yan, cy ang ina dapat pinagharap harap ny at kinausap ang 3sisters ng maayos ang lahat ng gulo, kaso IBANG KLASENG INA DIN ito c inday imbis n inayos cy ang nagpagulo at nag labas ng kong ano anong sikreto ng pamillya nlaman tuloy kong anong klase anak c claudine at anong klaseng pamilya cila mayroon, ang masakit cyang ina p ang umalipusta k greta, sbihin natin hindi perpertong tao c greta maraming pagkakamali pero dapat wag ng alipustain ng ng sarili niyang ina. at s himig ng salita ng nanay nila ok lang s kanya anong gawin kamalditahan n claudine khit itakwil p niya ang isang anak ny.

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  61. what Greta is today is may be because of how she was raised and may be of what she had seen and experienced as a child. A child's first teacher will always be his parents, especially the mother and whatever those experiences were, will in one way or another impact a child as he or she grows up. And I don't believe Greta's Mom when she said, she will not let a 12 year old work for their family. Then what the hell is Greta doing in showbiz when she was 12? I don't think that if the family lives in a 'comfortable' life will the parents let their child stop schooling and pursue acting. Parents of a minor will always have the right to decide what's best for their child and in this case you ruined your kid by 'allowing' her to enter showbiz.

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  62. I'm just lucky inday barretto is not my mother.

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    1. Yes Tania . Goood for u! Hahaha

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  63. sa away ng mga barretto, lahat sila talo higit lalo si mrs inday barretto, bilang magulang, tungkulin mong pagbatiin ang mga anak mong nag-aaway, wala ka dapat pinapanigan dahil lahat sila nanggaling sa yo. tingin ko isa lang ang pinag-ugatan nito...PERA,

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  64. hindi din kapanipaniwala n walang naitulong s kniya c greta non time n yon, malamang mayroon itong galit s kanyang anak nc greta bk mayroon gusto n hindi naibigay ky gnyan cy, pero kahit ano sbhin hindi cy ng nagsalita ng masakit s anak n para kampihan ang isang anak din n marami din kapalpakan ginagawa, HINDI ULIRANG INA ITONG C ALING INDAY. ang alam kong ina handang ipaglaban ang anak s mga umaalisputa s knya HINDI YON INA N CY P MISMO NAUUNANG ALIPUSTAIN O LAIT LAITIN ANG ANAK NIYA. 1 star lang c inday s pagiging ina very low ang rating ny.
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  65. Mommy Inday, enough. As a mother, it hurts when you see your child hurting and why you are one of the cause of your child's unhappiness. Please evaluate yourself. Did you give enough love and attention to her?In my humble opinion, we mothers, are the protectors and defenders of our children no matter what.

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  66. we have no idea what is really behind the story. wala rin akong idea kung ano ang start ng bangayan ng mga baretto. kasi hindi naman sinabi kung ano talaga ang main reason sa kung bakit nangyari eto sa kanila ngayon. but for me lng ha, possible then naman na gumagawa lang sila ng issue para maibalik kay claudine ang sympathia ng mga tao after sa incident nila with his husband raymart vs tulfo brothers. kasi dba dahil sa incident na yun, na sira ang pangalan ni claudine.malay natin drama lang ang mga eto ng mga family baretto para kay claudine. pamilya sila at alam nating lahat na ang pamilya ay pamilya. magkaaway man ngayon pero mgka ayos rin naman.. well, that was my ONLY opinion sa nangyari sa mga barreto.

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  67. OMG! I hope mother Inday should stop bashing her children. Even if Gretchen is the most disgusting child in the whole world (to her standards), she's still the mother of Gretchen. A mother is a mother....obviously me paborito syang anak at hindi sya mabuting ina.

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  68. HI GRETCHEN!! i just want to share some lines of this Christian song to help you feel lil' bit okay(hoping)
    "TIME COMES THAT I'M DOWN, PARENTS AND FRIENDS NOT AROUND, SO I KNEEL MY FEET ON THE GROUND AND FEEL GOD'S PRESENCE...

    dii man kampi lahat ng tao sa mundo sayo...always remember! God is willing to listen...

    pakatatag lang!!

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  69. What you plant is what you will harvest. You can never harvest an apple from a mango tree that you planted. So whoever is Gretchen now and what she is right now, is totally shaped by her parents 100%. Never blame your kids if he/she turns out bad or good in the future. Look back and see how you shaped your kids and think what you've done. You'll realize in the end where'd you get wrong.

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    1. Hindi rin. Parents can only guide and shape us up to a certain point, when we reach puberty, then we are capable of deciding for ourselves. As we grow up we widen our interaction outside our house and we meet other people and new experiences. Whatever path we chose is the result of our own doing because no parents will force us to do bad things. Parents mean well but sadly there are children who do not listen and go against their will.

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    2. Society plays a vital role in shaping our behaviour. Although education ika nga begins at home! I agree with u anon 6:26

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    3. Nature and nurture din yan friend. Kahit ikaw im sure you are not 100% of what your parents raised you to be. May percentage din environment mo kung saan ka lumaki...in denial ka lang...

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  70. Maintain your silence Gretchen, poise yan. You have the love of Tony & Dominique,that's all you need now. Maybe your mom & some siblings can't take the kind of life you are enjpying now,or maybe a slice of your fortune could keep their mouths shut...inggit lang yan sayo!

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    1. How can u say that? Ganyan ka rin sa parents mo?

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    2. Yes! Mabuhay ang mga kabit?!!! Chos! Bwhhaaha

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    3. @7;26pm, inggit much kaya wala kang masabi kungdi mabuhay ang kabit?

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    4. Kahit ganyan si gretchen, mahal sya ni tb at dominique. Hate ko ang mga kabit but in this situation, i dont hate gretchen. Mas hate ko ang nanay nyang grabe mangbastos at magpahiya sa anak nya.

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  71. eto naman kasing nanay na to, kung makapag react. sumulat sulat pa. kung bakit ung sulat eh sa media men pinapadala at hindi kay gretchen, ayan tuloy. tingin ba nya makakabalik sa showbiz ang bunso nya ng dahil sa pang-aaway nya kay gretchen. eh kung dp alam ng public at ng 3 big network ang pagka primadonna nyang bunso nya eh.

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  72. Everyday inaabangan ko kung anong bago sa Barretto's family feud! Sad pro intriguing:) very COLOURFUL! i'm a fan of Claudine based sa mga nabasa ko mas naniniwala ako kay Jay-Jay Barretto! Whether sinulsulan sya ni La Greta or not. Let's face it Inday Barretto is probably still on denial sa nangyayari kay Claudine. Why did Raymart left her? Siguro he had enough na. Which d sana sya bumitaw kso mukhang tama ung kuya nila Claudine needs HELP! dinadivert lng nila ang issue kay La Greta kc in DENIAL cla parents na Claudine needs help. Sana lng d mahuli ang lahat. Sbi nga sa isang interview kay Inday Barretto na trauma c Claudine sa pagkamatay ni Rico Yan kc she been crucified. Maybe she's still haunted. Sa nga fans nman ni Claudine na galit kay Gretchen aba dapat we have to urge her to seek help! I believe Joaquin Barretto! I guess Inday Barretto is on Claudine's side not because nakatira cla sa condo nya but because in denial sya!

    Un lng po. FP pa post po nito. Thanks:)

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  73. @ennaojyendis


    Neng, hindi naman namin sinabing kasalanan ng ina LAHAT. Basa basa din ha? Tlgng hindi dapat hayaan ng magulang na maging suwail ang mga anak nila, tama ka. Pero ginawa ba ni Inday ang parte niya? She can say all these nasty things sa anak niya, without public ridicule. Nag effort man lng sana ung ina na pangatawanan ang pagiging "ina" sa mga anak niya.

    "yung iba nga mabubuti abg mga nagulabg pero lumaking masama ang mga anak, does that mean kasalanan nila yun? minsan oo, but not all the time dba?" -teh, minsan kasi i-comprehend din ung binabasa ha. Kaya nga I chose them as an example. That dsnt mean na it applies to all family situation.

    So sinasabi mo na "ina si Inday" kaya siya lang ang may karapatang babuyin at maliitin ang anak niya? You wrote pa na kesyo wg isisi lahat sa ina. So dapat ang sisi sa lahat ng nangyari eh sa anak lng? Sinabi mo pang pareho silang may mali eh ang content lng nmn ng reply mo eh in favor lng sa ina. You just contradicted everything you said. Very biased judgment.

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  74. gretchen, just maintain your silence. lalabas din naman ang totoo eventually. this is claudine's karma, not yours. for hurting rico yan and so many other people, it is not surprising na nanay lang niya at mga kapatid niyang natulungan ang nagtatanggol ke claudine. ni wala nga atang friends yang si claudine sa sama ng ugali niya. remember, nakaaway niya dati sina angel locsin and angelica panganiban???? hay naku, laos na yang si claudine at kahit ilang comeback pa gawin niya, fail pa rin siya kasi nega na talaga image niya sa public. better rehabilitate yourself claudine bago pa mawala sau pati mga anak mo..

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  75. To give you more insight about Gretchen Barretto and the life she chose to live http://netadix.livejournal.com/14715.html

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  76. sana maayos nila itong gulo sa pamilya nila. kahit anong yaman mo pag may agrabyado ; wlang peace of mind. there are 2 sides of the story, so kahit magkabilang panig ang mag pa interview, kani-kanilang kwento. labasan ng mga baho ; but at the end of the day, it boils down to their conscience. sana lang maisip nila to humble down and forgive each other. as a child, sana magpakumbaba si Gretchen kasi magulang yan kailangang I honor at respetuhin. On the other hand, si Claudine naman if she needs help she must consistently seek for therapy. As her family, support ang kailangan ni Claudine hindi ridicule. Kaya siguro napuno c Mommy Inday kasi pinahiya talaga ng 2 sisters nya in public. Hindi naman yun ang solusyon sa problema ni Claudine. As her sisters, sana in private tinulungan nila. Just my 2 cents...

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  77. Hindi naman issue dito kung ano ang problema ng pamilya nila dahil di naman natin ang totoong problema nila. Ang hindi katanggap tanggap yung pamamaraan ni Inday sa pag-disown sa sarili niyang anak. Bakit naman kailangan pang isa- publiko ang ganun. Off talaga ang ginawang yun ni Inday. Sana naisip niya na ang kahihiyan ni Gretchen ay kahihiyan niya rin at ng buong pamilya.
    Ang pagiging magulang ay walang katapusang obligasyon, extended pa yan hanggang sa mga apo. Misyon yan na ibinigay ng Diyos at dapat panindigan hanggang ipikit mo ang yung mga mata.
    Sabi nga, isa yan sa itatanong sa iyo sa Itaas...paano ka naging ina sa mga anak mo...

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  78. for those who are saying na kasalanan ni inday barreto dahil mali ang pagpapalaki nya sa anak nya, did u say the same thing about the late Cory Aquino with all of kris's brouhaha?

    selective judgment kase ung iba dito. kung ano ang recent issue, you're so quick to the draw and shoot. wag nyong sabihing may mali sa pagpapalaki ng anak si cory. all of her children grew up to be people of good morals, except for kris. ang pagkakaiba lang siguro, magkaibang level ng evils sina kris at gretchen, the latter being too muh for the mother to handle.

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  79. @Anonymous April 29, 2013 at 10:57 PM

    Natawa naman ako sa selective judgment na pinagsasasabi mo. At ikaw hindi? Hahaha.

    Te, ang point namin dito is yung manner ng paghandle ni Inday sa family crisis nila.
    Icompare ba nmn si sina Cory at Kris over Inday at gretchen hahahaha.
    Selective judgment tlga ha? Eh kung makapanghusga ka na imoral si tetay, daig mo pa ang first honor sa pagiging prejudice.
    So ang level of comparison mo is between Cory Aquino and Inday Barretto? Excuse me miss pero never na inalipusta o minaliit at itinakwil ni Cory si Kris in public. At nakita mo na bang kinalaban ni Tetay ang nanay niya?
    There's nothing to compare. Magkaibang magkaiba ang mga sirkumstansya iha.

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  80. ayaw tumigil ni inday kaka bash ah.. ang gawin mo Inday tumahimik ka nalang kasi kahit gano kasama sabihin mo ke greta eh hindi na sisikat yang bunso mo alam ng lahat ano ugali nyan at talagang me problema sa kanya..imbis na magpadala ka ng magpadala ng sulat sa abs eh asikasuhin mong ipagamot yang bunso mo, at hindi na rin tatanggapin ng abs yang bunso mo kasi la ocean deep na!!!

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  81. My Verdict:
    Mommy Inday - Favorite si Claudine
    Gretchen - Pasaway at black sheep ng pamilya, binibigay ang kita dati sa magulang (normal sa lahat ng underaged) nagST para makakalas sa pamilya dahil mainit ang dugo sa kanya ng magulang niya
    Claudine - depressed at nasa very sensitive state
    Gretchen - Nanggagatong at gusto pa lalong masira si Claudine
    Mommy Inday -Sumabog dahil punong puno na kay Gretchen dahil lalo pang madedepress si Claudine
    Joaquin - Binayaran para magsalita

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    1. Korak ! Great summary!

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    2. Anon 1:33 am sabihin na nating binayaran or nabayaran c Joaquin Barretto i think he's telling d truth! Kung balak nila iparehab c Claudine( as what he said) malamang d lang depression or nasa "sensitive state" . C Inday B nman eh mukhang tinotolerate c Claudine sad pero nsa DENIAL sya na c Claudine may mental issue( not all mental issue are baliw) c Gretchen nman sana d cia nag post sa IG or nagparining ayan tuloy..I like Claudine she's a great actress but sana lang if she really needs help sana gawin na agad agad before it's too late. Un lang po..bow!

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  82. Honey ! Please remind the kids not to marry below their pay grade.

    You do not want to attract the flotsam and jetsam of the human gene pool.

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  83. Im lucky my MOM is not like Inday Barreto,and I am sad for her children,all of them!

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  84. claudine is a negative example of a person,no one likes her except her mother..well,pinag-perahan nga naman sya ng parents nya for how many decades..dapat nga lang ipaglaban talaga..but i am a mom and im loving my kids equally,even if they dont have the same traits and characters,they fight ,they yell but at the end of the day I see to it that my kids hugs each other and forgives each other's faults coz no one is perfect,neither me nor Inday Barreto but we can make our life perfectly beautiful by appreciating life's simplest things and treasures~ our children! Inday,sana matauhan ka bilang isang ina,dapat ipagbuklod buklod mo sila at hindi mo hahayaang mawala ng landas,dapat ipakita mo ang equal na pagmamahal..walang Ina ang maaring magtakwil ng anak dahil sya ay isang biyaya o regalo galing sa DIYOS natin, pero bakit mo ngawang itakwil ang isang anak mo na syang kulang ng pagmamahal at gabay ng isang magulang na tulad mo...

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  85. i read the pep article, 3rd interview na ata kay inday b. where she talked about ung kinita ni la greta and other stuff.

    1. hindi ba malaking amount ang 100k during the mid-1980s, kung yun ang kinita ni la greta? and kung sinasabi na di sila financially sinuportahan ni greta, it's surprising how she knows how much greta earned.

    2. did she work? i get the impression she's a full-time housewife. she mentioned that she never prepared the lunch boxes/baon of her children, that someone did that for them. hindi ba dapat siya gumagawa nito?

    3. sana di na rin nagsalita ung si tania. she may believe what she said but as a whole, di nga naman siya miyembro ng pamilya and she only sees the side of gretchen.

    i hope the Barretto family finds peace. Greta, wag ka na magsalita. to the other siblings and especially Inday b, i hope this is the last time you will grant a media interview.

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  86. @Anonymous April 30, 2013 at 12:06 AM

    una, wag mo kong ma-iha iha. unless lola levels ka na.

    pangalawa, you do not dictate what is the "point" being discussed in forums like this. kung ang point na nirerefute ko is the argument on "kung anong puno, syang bunga", who are u to deflect that? mali ba ako sa example ko about cory and kris? di ko din alam na fan ka ni kris, sorry. now, how inday is handling this situation as a mother is a different story. did i even made a comment on that?

    chura mo.

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  87. I think that Claudine's downfall really started with the death of Rico Yan. Although she had her rebelde years during her adolescence with Mark Anthony, but she and Rico did make a great team together! Rico had a positive impact on her and taught her a lot of things outside of her world in showbiz. She blossomed with Rico because he was mature, well-educated, decent and responsible, and she was able to feel like lady - pampered and leaves all the practical decision making to the man. It's easy to be nice if your environment is very accommodating. However, 1. Rico cheated on her 2. He died 3. His death was blamed entirely on her 4. She married Raymart, who although might be mabait is no Rico Yan in terms of maturity and responsibility, so she had to step up. 5. She became fat 6. Her career spiraled downwards (because of her weight) and so she got into depression and started to destroy herself in the process, through 1. having extramarital scandals 2. getting hooked to gambling 3. started picking on fights with everyone who got on her nerves (as her "defense mechanism" to people against her). This shows that people really do change and adopt (for better or for worse) depending the environment they are in. And Gretchen is surely making her situation worse! Things might not have been the same were Rico Yan still alive; then we might know a different Claudine right now...:(

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    1. Me point ka dyan! Pero indi lng naman sya ang ngiisang BIG STAR na nalaos. A lot of people's situation eh mas worst pa sa knya. So Claudine if you are reading this, DO NOT MAKE AN EXCUSE. ANG MUNDO AY IIKOT PARIN REGARDLESS OF WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU. Buttom line is, YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOURSELF SPECIALLY THAT YOU HAVE KIDS THAT LOOK UP AND DEPEND ON YOU. YOUR LIFE IS NO LONGER ABOUT YOU ANYMORE KC MAY MGA ANAK KA. GO PICK YOURSELF UP!

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  88. Yun ibinigay ni Gretchen yun kita niya sa magulang niya is partly true kasi nga normal lang sa mga bata ibigay yun sa parents nila since they do not know anything about handling investments di ba? And siyempre magastos magartista lalo na if your startup bcoz you have to invest a lot to sell your look. And there is the slight possibility that the family might be living beyond their means. Marami naming pamilyang ganito talaga. Hindi naman siya hindi karaniwan given na marami silang magkakapatid and marami silang gastos. But the part wherein Gretchen claims that she was forced to act at an early age and is the breadwinner is totally flawed!!!! At itong brother na ito, parang totally walang credibility at halatang may hidden agenda! Its either binayaran ni Gretchen or nagpapalakas kay Gretchen kasi may kelangan sa kanya. Same goes to Tanya. I find Gia the most credible despite her being in the States than Joaquin. Si Mommy Inday kasi right now sobrang high blood na kay Gretchen kaya hindi na nina kayang maging partial. Nilalabas na lahat ng baho ni Gretchen as a threat kasi alam niya na gagamitin ni Gretchen ang pera at influence niya to influence the public perception over her sister - whom she hates right now. Kaya nag step in na yun nanay as a warning to Gretchen to stop already and not use this same tactic on her kasi she can always rebut all her allegations!

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  89. If you watched the interview of the Barretto siblings done by Boy before featuring Gretchen, Claudine and Margorie. You can get a picture on why Gretchen is acting like that. Coming from a big family, she did not get enough attention as a child, so she craves for attention outside. She partners with Tonyboy but still high society won't accept her not because of her not being "rich" but because of her ST background. So she makes up this story on how she was forced to work due to her family's financial circumstances para magkaroon ng sense yun past niya. Nakakaawa si Gretchen kasi until now she is still very insecure with being accepted and looked up to in society because of her status as mistress and her sT background that's why she has to put other people down to bring herself up. No amount of jewelry or expensive items and hide this fact. And the recent scandal and revelations by her mother further aggravates the way people view her.

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  90. As i see it, parang wala namang ginawa itong si inday sa mga anak kundi mamuhay donya. she was even quoted saying she never prepared baon for her children. maybe she was used to living the lifestyle of the rich at hindi niya matanggap na naghirap sila when her husband lost his business kaya kung sinong anak ang mas marami ang naibigay o naitulong sa kanya, yon ang favorite niya. but she cant dispel the fact na may problema talaga si claudine. she should help her youngest, instead of condemning another child in public just to please the former. ang may mali talaga dito, ung nanay. siya ang puno't dulo. she cannot control herself and her children. period.

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