Wala namang mali as long na hindi na minor ung guy. Meron talagang ganun mas napapamahal sila sa may edad sa kanila. Wala naman silang dapat ipaliwanag. Love freely.
Asus. Pag sa lalaki ang old sobrang mali.dami basher. Free pass pag girl??? Come oooon. And to add before pag mag 18 mag start na sila. Kaya sabi may grooming pa dn.
At age 25 saka palang fully developed yon brain. Kaya maraming kabataan ang padalos dalos mag decision or minsan maling choices na later on ireregret nila. Nasa legal age naman yon lalaki yon nga lang baka fleeting lang yon relationship nila kasi di pa mature pagiisip nyan.
love freely mo mukha mo. literal teenager papatol yung titang trentahin? my god whats wrong with your brain? kung nasa 30s na yung lalake and nasa 60s na si babae acceptable pa atleast both namang fully developed ang frontal lobe. my goodness parang kaka graduate lang ng high school yan papatulan mo? lol
Tama ba alam ko na 21 ang age of consent? Anyhow mas mabagal mag mature ang mga lalaki kesa sa babae. Kung na reverse yan at mas matanda yung lalaki sa babae same age difference kay Apple and her CHILDfriend ganun din malamang ang reaction ng tao.
Ma lalake o ma babae, mali talaga yun. Antay kayo magkaanak kayo and see how youd feel if your kid engages in a relationship with someone 15-20 years their senior. How depraved can you be na ganyan kabata papatulan mo?
12:04 - TO BE FAIR, ANG MATURITY HINDI NAMAN PALAGI NAKIKITA SA AGE. MAY MGA MATURE NA AT 15 KASI NAPILITAN SILANG MAGING GANUN BECAUSE OF THEIR CIRCUMSTANCES.
18 IS A LEGAL AGE SO THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH IT.
Buti sana kung 36 si guy at 72 ka, pwede pa charot. But seriously why stay in a relationship that for sure will only be temporary? The guy is 18 you can’t possibly believe that he will stick with the girl.
Yes tatanda sya agad. Ngayon yummy pa sya, saw her, ganda flawless, but she’ll age fast before reaching 40. Si boi bata pa sobra. Tagal pa mag aging yan.
Reach 40? During my late 30s & now in my 40s is when mas maraming nanligaw at naghabod saakin. My bf is 10yrs younger & he's crazy about, love me more than I love him.
1:20 natumpak mo. Kaya nga kahit si mommy D hinabol-habol ng younger man becoz of alam mo na. Mahirap pa namn ang ekonomiya ngayon. kaya if there's a shortcut, why not?
A 34-year-old female + an 18-year-old male = empowerment, you go girl, warrior princes :D :D :D A 32-year-old male + 18-year-old female = groomer, creep, rapist :) :) :) And there lies the hypocrisy ;) ;) ;) Some will even say the young guy should be grateful because a mature lady is entertaining him :) :) :)
Dami kaya celebrities na nag date ng ganyan age and ok lang sa publiko. Si Zanjoe nagka gf ng bata as in 18 palang yung girl then nag reveal nalang sila noong nag 19 na walang violent reaction. Sa loveteam culture mga below 18 and nag bf ng men in their mid 20s and kilig na kilig ang mga tao
Sa akin ung parents q malaki din age gap nila mas matanda ung nanay q kaysa sa tatay q. Kaya masasabi q naka depende sa maturity ng tao. May tao maaga nag mamature dahil sa experiences sa buhay. I am not saying this to justify her situation but based sa story ng magulang q. Matured na mag-isip ung tatay q at very young age. he is very responsible, a good provider and very family oriented. Pinaglaban niya ang relationship nila and pinakita niya he is the man of the house, he is a good father to us and a good husband to mom. Etoh ang story namin not sure aq sa iba na may May-December love affair. Im saying this based in our story.
let see. which in fact there’s a high chance probability to end their relationship sooner. Pero nakadepende yan sa kanila how open minded and matured they are to handle their relationship. Dont get ahead of them in short wag pangunahan.
Wala naman dapat ipaliwanag. Bakit kailangan mag-sorry? Ang dami nang true love success stories na may malaking age gap. At hindi lang sa Pinas, lalo't bukas ang isip nila sa ibang bansa.
Basta walang ibang naaagrabyado at tinatapakan, let's let them be. 💕💕💕
Something's wrong, stop justifying. He is basically still a teenager. She has nearly 20 years of experience over him. Mas may alam siya, mas matured. There is imbalance in that relationship.
nakadepende yan sa 2 tao na involved. I don’t think so na huhusgahan mo sya agad. Same na nangyari sa kaibigan q na caught in same situation din. But they are happily married with kids. As long pareho silang responsible and committed to maintain healthy relationship as family. At infairness kay guy good provider at consistent sya.
Gosh.grooming ginawa no girl pero nakalusot kse ang drama eh Hindi na sisiw si bagets.pero pag lalake automatic bash at sandamakmak na batikos.kadiri ka apple.
tanong lng when grooming happens? automatic bng kapag malaki ang age gap ay may grooming na? im asking cause i really want to know, or do we really understand the meaning of grooming? when and how it happens maam/sir?
it’s her life. unless pumasok na ung magulang ng guy para mag intervene and stop the relationship. However ung guy is 18 na rin which is legal age dito sa Pilipinas so if that the case ang may decision nyan is ung guy na kung gusto nya ba or ayaw ituloy ang relationship Nila.
448 magiging issue sya kung makikialam na ung magulang at immature ang isa sa kanila. To handle this kind of relationship dapat pareho silang committed at alam nila ang kanilang responsibility. Kung pareho sila matured kahit 18 palang isa sa kanila at alam Nila panu mag compromise sa isat isa and able to they meet half way then walang issue doon. Hayaan mo sila kung ano gusto nila and besides buhay nila yan.
Legal, yes...still just a teenager barely out of high school. You are a generation apart. In a way, generation mo magulang niyan. Somehow you're gonna be a sugar mama.
Pero pede naman sya mag trabaho kung gugustuhin niya kasi yan legal age pede magtrabaho. Wala ba syNg karapatan mag magmahal ng mas matanda s knya or mag mahal ng bata s knya? Problema nila yan. sila ang nagmamahalan di ka kasali doon kung ano gusto nilang gawin sa buhay. Hayaan mo sila panu sila magcompromise sa isat isa. Nahusgahan mo agad ung 18 wala syang maibibigay? Well i would say it depends on the course of situation. Ang maturity hindi sa age sa experiences din ng tao. Generation gap? yes probably meron pero Let them meet halfway .
Ikaw as a matured and educated woman, papatol ka ba sa bata? Ke 18 yan o 19 wala pinagkaiba yan sa 16-17. Totoy na totoy ang itsura. Hindi actually ung age gap ang problema, ung edad at itsura nung bata nung panahon napag-isipan mo na ah pwede jowain 'to ah.
6.17 hayaan mo sya dumiskarte kung panu niya buhayin ang sarli niya. sabi ngah kung buhay niya yan hayaan mo sya. 18 na yan kaya kayang kaya na niyang maghanapbuhay. iisipin mo pang kung financial stable sya hayaan mo sya problema nya un….
my gosh. 18! teenager! can't regulate their feelings yet, lots of changes during this adolescent growth. let him be a kid (yes, kid!), madam. gosh- whose tita is this woman?
Mga PAKIALAMERA lang kayo! Legal age na yung lalaki at isa pa sa pamahon ngayon, sobrang mature na pag iisip ng mga tao ngayon noh! Buhay nila yan at wala tayong paki pagdating sa lovelife! Parehong single at walng mga iniwanan.
for now it’s working…but be realistic girl, it will not lasts..he will outgrow whatever he has for you, you’ll get old and grey and this child will find someone else and leave you. Appreciate the fleeting moment !
iba na mga bata ngayon, they easily get tired of everything… be prepared sis .. he’ll eventually drop you like a hot potato, for now you do you 💕🥹
Ang tawag po dito ay January-November liaison relationship. Mga boomer millennials lang ang may issue dito datapuwat walang problema sa aming mga Gen-Zers kase love wins age na tayo.
So anong tawag natin sa mga toh Vic and Pauleen, Zsa Zsa and Dolphy, Heart and Chiz, Assunta and Ledesma, Rudy and Lorna, abeeerr!??? Double standards, baaaby.. tsk tsk. Live and let live. U are not in their position and frankly my dear, all of us have no business on it! Move on people! 2026 naaaa… mindset niyo huh. Di lang kayo tao sa mundo, let these people be happy on their own.
Sana pinag-isipan mo mabuti yang mga ginawa mong example. Those people you mentioned, they have experienced a lot in life bago sila pumatol sa mas matanda sa kanila. Heart na lang for example. She had many relationships, built her own career and achieved her dreams until she settled down with Chiz. Itong si guy, he's just 18. Very ripe age. Kung ako ang ate niya, I'd feel sad and bad for him kasi he should be spending time with people around his age. I don't if he could still do that being with a 34 year old woman.
At before sila pumatol, way older na sila. Hindi katulad niyan na kaka18 palang. Sana si Liza, Julia M, Bea Binene ginawa mong examples. Or para mas accurate si Bugoy and yung volleyball player. What is a 30+ year old doing with an 18 year old? Sana di mangyari sa mahal mo sa buhay.
OMG hahaha talagang yan ang reasoning mo? Yuck, no wonder why lubog forever ang Pilipinas dahil may Pilipino na katulad mo mag isip, and nakakatakot pa, marami kayo.
i dont get why ppl so judgmental to the woman? yan ang hirap sa ating mga pinoy we play the 'morals' yet we don't act on it tumigil na tau sa pagiging hypocrites..ewan choice nila yun let them figure it out kung tama or mali ang choices nila..kaka imbyerna kau lahat 😂
r u kidding me or u just being 'juice..y' hypoctites bc ppl here are 'playing god'' more than perfect kung maka shame at magturo ng kung anong tama sa buhay double standards as if older women is desperate or predatory but with older men is as natural ok lang..hopefully this helps baby girl..
Teh, unang-una hindi naman kagwapuhan yung bata para i-risk mo career and rep mo. PERO kahit gwapo pa yan, bata pa din yan. Or dapat daw ginaya mo si Coco Martin na ni-reveal na lang years later, pero kahit na, mali pa din talaga pumatol sa isang teen.
Don't mind the bashers. Mas malala pa ang reaksyon sa magulang at pamilya nung boyfriend. At the end of the day, the bashers do not really care if you are sad or happy.
Ang daming nag cocomment na pag babae uung minor iba ang treatment. MALAMANG SA ALAMANG!! Ang babae nabubuntis.. ang dami kayang matatandang vlogger na content puro kalokohan tapos ang mga jowang nabubuntis mga mas bata.. nakakaawa talaga tignan. Imagine binulag lang sa pera at popularity yung mga dalaga tapos binahay na.. well dko din masisi kase asan ba mga magulang nyang mga bata na yan in the first place????
I have a cousin who fell in love with a 21 year old guy when she was in her early 30s. Eventually it did not work out because the temperament was very different. Iyak si cousin. Si guy siyempre bagets pa, maybe it was just not serious for him.
Seryosong tanong kailan masasabi na may grooming na nangyayari? Is all about age- gap agad? Na tulad sa case nila. or talaga mapang husga talaga ang mga tao.
Age gap is not the point here, she could be 28 pero it's still distasteful. The issue here is, he's just 18 years old with frontal lobe that is still being developed. He's barely an adult and is being exposed to this type of environment.
About your examples sa mga May-December love affair, you couldn't compare it to this because regardless of their age gap, both parties were ADULTS when they started the relationship. IBANG IBA YON.
Just imagine your son/daughter who is 18 years old and having a relationship with a fully grown man/woman, are you not going to be alarmed?
It just shows how Philippines is so pre-mature when it comes to child gr**ming. Sad.
I would say mas nagiging open minded ang tao ngaun. Pero pagdating sa ganyan rel ang magulang ang papagitna dyan. Iba iba ang maturity ng tao. ang tanong q lng kailan papasok ang gr**ming? At panu masasabi n gr**ming ang nangyari?
944 kaya di ba ang iba iba ang level ng maturity ng tao. I am saying this it was experience of may parents. Maagang nainlove ang tatay pero pinaglaban at pinagkita niya na magiging responsible niyang asawa kay nanay at ama sa amin. honestly ung relationship nila is on and off dahil sa tingin ng iba kaya naging motivation ng tatay q na para makatapos ng pag aaral at magkaroon kami ng maayos ng buhay at thankful aq doon sa katatagan niya. he started romantic rel with nanay his same age kay guy but cut short after peoples judgement pero makulit ang tatay at mahal ang nanay q nilaban niya at pinatunayan na mali sila. tama ka available sa google ang gr**ming how is that we have different interpretations?
12:42 I don’t want to exert more energy in responding to you because the way you composed your response, it kinda shows that it will take time and effort to educate you.
However, let me tell you about your dad.
Not because your dad did it, it means it’s right. Don’t romanticise your dad’s situation, if you are actually thinking, your dad was robbed of time and chances.
213 tell him to heaven. it is clear we have different approach and standpoint when it comes to this. Me taking all the way from their experiences. He fell in love at young age however still waited for the right timing to propose. He didnt rush but use all time and opportunity to be the person he was. He fell in love young but still waited that’s kind of level of maturity he had. He broke the social norm and culminated their love story with i do. Again that’s his level of maturity nevertheless i do not compel it to everyone. Every rel is unique it is up to us how we handle it.
Sakin lang ah, kadiri.. Hindi yun gap, yun age mismo ng bata! Ang disgusting nitong babae na to. And that goes with anyone lagpas sa teens na go sa mga teens. Or 3 year age gap max kapag 18 na yun tao.
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Wala namang mali as long na hindi na minor ung guy. Meron talagang ganun mas napapamahal sila sa may edad sa kanila. Wala naman silang dapat ipaliwanag. Love freely.
ReplyDeleteEnabler. When you turn 18, magically mature na din mag-isip?
DeleteAsus. Pag sa lalaki ang old sobrang mali.dami basher. Free pass pag girl??? Come oooon. And to add before pag mag 18 mag start na sila. Kaya sabi may grooming pa dn.
DeleteEighteen as in TEENAGER pa po yung bata. Nag-aaral pa!
DeleteWould you say the same kung babae na teenager tapos 34 yung BF??
At age 25 saka palang fully developed yon brain. Kaya maraming kabataan ang padalos dalos mag decision or minsan maling choices na later on ireregret nila. Nasa legal age naman yon lalaki yon nga lang baka fleeting lang yon relationship nila kasi di pa mature pagiisip nyan.
Deletelove freely mo mukha mo. literal teenager papatol yung titang trentahin? my god whats wrong with your brain? kung nasa 30s na yung lalake and nasa 60s na si babae acceptable pa atleast both namang fully developed ang frontal lobe. my goodness parang kaka graduate lang ng high school yan papatulan mo? lol
DeleteTama ba alam ko na 21 ang age of consent? Anyhow mas mabagal mag mature ang mga lalaki kesa sa babae. Kung na reverse yan at mas matanda yung lalaki sa babae same age difference kay Apple and her CHILDfriend ganun din malamang ang reaction ng tao.
DeleteMa lalake o ma babae, mali talaga yun. Antay kayo magkaanak kayo and see how youd feel if your kid engages in a relationship with someone 15-20 years their senior. How depraved can you be na ganyan kabata papatulan mo?
Delete12:04 - TO BE FAIR, ANG MATURITY HINDI NAMAN PALAGI NAKIKITA SA AGE. MAY MGA MATURE NA AT 15 KASI NAPILITAN SILANG MAGING GANUN BECAUSE OF THEIR CIRCUMSTANCES.
Delete18 IS A LEGAL AGE SO THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH IT.
Lol stop normalizing pdf
DeleteButi sana kung 36 si guy at 72 ka, pwede pa charot. But seriously why stay in a relationship that for sure will only be temporary? The guy is 18 you can’t possibly believe that he will stick with the girl.
ReplyDeleteYes tatanda sya agad. Ngayon yummy pa sya, saw her, ganda flawless, but she’ll age fast before reaching 40. Si boi bata pa sobra. Tagal pa mag aging yan.
Deletelola ko 29, lolo was 18, they are now 56 yrs married. pero maski sa panahon nila, sobrang against ang mga tao especially lola was a widow with 2 kids.
DeleteReach 40? During my late 30s & now in my 40s is when mas maraming nanligaw at naghabod saakin. My bf is 10yrs younger & he's crazy about, love me more than I love him.
Delete2:25 Yeah, keep telling yourself that. Lol
DeleteAng ganda mo naman 2:25AM. Bakit di ka naghollywood?
Delete2:25 marami ka na kasing pera pag late 30s and 40s ka na, kaya hinahabol ka na ng mas bata
Delete1:20 natumpak mo. Kaya nga kahit si mommy D hinabol-habol ng younger man becoz of alam mo na. Mahirap pa namn ang ekonomiya ngayon. kaya if there's a shortcut, why not?
DeleteA 34-year-old female + an 18-year-old male = empowerment, you go girl, warrior princes :D :D :D A 32-year-old male + 18-year-old female = groomer, creep, rapist :) :) :) And there lies the hypocrisy ;) ;) ;) Some will even say the young guy should be grateful because a mature lady is entertaining him :) :) :)
ReplyDeleteDami kaya celebrities na nag date ng ganyan age and ok lang sa publiko. Si Zanjoe nagka gf ng bata as in 18 palang yung girl then nag reveal nalang sila noong nag 19 na walang violent reaction. Sa loveteam culture mga below 18 and nag bf ng men in their mid 20s and kilig na kilig ang mga tao
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DeleteSa akin ung parents q malaki din age gap nila mas matanda ung nanay q kaysa sa tatay q. Kaya masasabi q naka depende sa maturity ng tao. May tao maaga nag mamature dahil sa experiences sa buhay. I am not saying this to justify her situation but based sa story ng magulang q. Matured na mag-isip ung tatay q at very young age. he is very responsible, a good provider and very family oriented. Pinaglaban niya ang relationship nila and pinakita niya he is the man of the house, he is a good father to us and a good husband to mom. Etoh ang story namin not sure aq sa iba na may May-December love affair. Im saying this based in our story.
DeleteYES!! At last someone said it!! Sobrang double standard pero panay sigaw ng equal rights. 🤣
ReplyDeleteAnd before 18 sila na! Grooming is grooming guy.
Di bale, ma-Ai Ai din yan. 😆
DeleteKse naman teh! Pag 38 ni guy, 54 ka na. Pa bloom pa lang sya, pa retire ka na.
ReplyDeletePero sige support ka namin sa delulu mo
Bakit kelangan naka white? Lol!
ReplyDeleteNawala ang tapang at taray ni Apple.
ReplyDeleteNapagsabihan siguro
DeleteLet her be and let her lesson her lesson.that child will outgrew his love for you.
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Deletelet see. which in fact there’s a high chance probability to end their relationship sooner. Pero nakadepende yan sa kanila how open minded and matured they are to handle their relationship. Dont get ahead of them in short wag pangunahan.
DeleteWala naman dapat ipaliwanag. Bakit kailangan mag-sorry?
ReplyDeleteAng dami nang true love success stories na may malaking age gap. At hindi lang sa Pinas, lalo't bukas ang isip nila sa ibang bansa.
Basta walang ibang naaagrabyado at tinatapakan, let's let them be. 💕💕💕
Ay true? So kapag si teacher jinowa si estudyante pero success story naman so far, tama un?
DeleteSomething's wrong, stop justifying. He is basically still a teenager. She has nearly 20 years of experience over him. Mas may alam siya, mas matured. There is imbalance in that relationship.
DeleteSino ba si Apple David muna? Mag-teacher nga ba sila?
Deletenakadepende yan sa 2 tao na involved. I don’t think so na huhusgahan mo sya agad. Same na nangyari sa kaibigan q na caught in same situation din. But they are happily married with kids. As long pareho silang responsible and committed to maintain healthy relationship as family. At infairness kay guy good provider at consistent sya.
DeleteGosh.grooming ginawa no girl pero nakalusot kse ang drama eh Hindi na sisiw si bagets.pero pag lalake automatic bash at sandamakmak na batikos.kadiri ka apple.
ReplyDeletetanong lng when grooming happens? automatic bng kapag malaki ang age gap ay may grooming na? im asking cause i really want to know, or do we really understand the meaning of grooming? when and how it happens maam/sir?
DeleteIn this scenario, it’s also because she’s in a position of power. Not necessarily double digit ang age gap para matawag na grooming.
DeleteWala na bang ibang nanligaw sa kanya? Maganda naman sya. Nakakaloka yung 16 year gap.
ReplyDeleteit’s her life. unless pumasok na ung magulang ng guy para mag intervene and stop the relationship. However ung guy is 18 na rin which is legal age dito sa Pilipinas so if that the case ang may decision nyan is ung guy na kung gusto nya ba or ayaw ituloy ang relationship Nila.
DeleteEnjoy it while it lasts.. yolo sis
ReplyDeleteMay lalaki talaga na gusto older women sa kanila paki nyo ba
ReplyDeletemay mommy issues kamo and its not normal.
Delete448 magiging issue sya kung makikialam na ung magulang at immature ang isa sa kanila. To handle this kind of relationship dapat pareho silang committed at alam nila ang kanilang responsibility. Kung pareho sila matured kahit 18 palang isa sa kanila at alam Nila panu mag compromise sa isat isa and able to they meet half way then walang issue doon. Hayaan mo sila kung ano gusto nila and besides buhay nila yan.
DeleteLegal, yes...still just a teenager barely out of high school. You are a generation apart. In a way, generation mo magulang niyan. Somehow you're gonna be a sugar mama.
ReplyDeletePero pede naman sya mag trabaho kung gugustuhin niya kasi yan legal age pede magtrabaho. Wala ba syNg karapatan mag magmahal ng mas matanda s knya or mag mahal ng bata s knya? Problema nila yan. sila ang nagmamahalan di ka kasali doon kung ano gusto nilang gawin sa buhay. Hayaan mo sila panu sila magcompromise sa isat isa. Nahusgahan mo agad ung 18 wala syang maibibigay? Well i would say it depends on the course of situation. Ang maturity hindi sa age sa experiences din ng tao. Generation gap? yes probably meron pero Let them meet halfway .
Deletelegal naman na yung guy pero I still get the ick.
ReplyDeleteIkaw as a matured and educated woman, papatol ka ba sa bata? Ke 18 yan o 19 wala pinagkaiba yan sa 16-17. Totoy na totoy ang itsura. Hindi actually ung age gap ang problema, ung edad at itsura nung bata nung panahon napag-isipan mo na ah pwede jowain 'to ah.
ReplyDeleteYes and for sure hindi pa din financial stable si guy.
Delete6.17 hayaan mo sya dumiskarte kung panu niya buhayin ang sarli niya. sabi ngah kung buhay niya yan hayaan mo sya. 18 na yan kaya kayang kaya na niyang maghanapbuhay. iisipin mo pang kung financial stable sya hayaan mo sya problema nya un….
Deletemy gosh. 18! teenager! can't regulate their feelings yet, lots of changes during this adolescent growth. let him be a kid (yes, kid!), madam. gosh- whose tita is this woman?
ReplyDeleteMga PAKIALAMERA lang kayo! Legal age na yung lalaki at isa pa sa pamahon ngayon, sobrang mature na pag iisip ng mga tao ngayon noh! Buhay nila yan at wala tayong paki pagdating sa lovelife! Parehong single at walng mga iniwanan.
ReplyDeletefor now it’s working…but be realistic girl, it will not lasts..he will outgrow whatever he has for you, you’ll get old and grey and this child will find someone else and leave you. Appreciate the fleeting moment !
ReplyDeletebasta ang masasabi ko lang, problema na nila yun lol
ReplyDeleteiba na mga bata ngayon, they easily get tired of everything… be prepared sis .. he’ll eventually drop you like a hot potato, for now you do you 💕🥹
ReplyDeleteLife is too short to not love. As long you are not doing anything bad sa kapwa mo, live your life as you see fit.
ReplyDeleteAng tawag po dito ay January-November liaison relationship. Mga boomer millennials lang ang may issue dito datapuwat walang problema sa aming mga Gen-Zers kase love wins age na tayo.
ReplyDeleteSo anong tawag natin sa mga toh Vic and Pauleen, Zsa Zsa and Dolphy, Heart and Chiz, Assunta and Ledesma, Rudy and Lorna, abeeerr!??? Double standards, baaaby.. tsk tsk. Live and let live. U are not in their position and frankly my dear, all of us have no business on it! Move on people! 2026 naaaa… mindset niyo huh. Di lang kayo tao sa mundo, let these people be happy on their own.
ReplyDeleteSana pinag-isipan mo mabuti yang mga ginawa mong example. Those people you mentioned, they have experienced a lot in life bago sila pumatol sa mas matanda sa kanila. Heart na lang for example. She had many relationships, built her own career and achieved her dreams until she settled down with Chiz. Itong si guy, he's just 18. Very ripe age. Kung ako ang ate niya, I'd feel sad and bad for him kasi he should be spending time with people around his age. I don't if he could still do that being with a 34 year old woman.
DeleteAt before sila pumatol, way older na sila. Hindi katulad niyan na kaka18 palang. Sana si Liza, Julia M, Bea Binene ginawa mong examples. Or para mas accurate si Bugoy and yung volleyball player. What is a 30+ year old doing with an 18 year old? Sana di mangyari sa mahal mo sa buhay.
DeleteI pray you’re not dense enough to not understand the difference between this and the relationships you mentioned.
DeleteOMG hahaha talagang yan ang reasoning mo? Yuck, no wonder why lubog forever ang Pilipinas dahil may Pilipino na katulad mo mag isip, and nakakatakot pa, marami kayo.
DeleteAno kaya nagustuhan ni girl kay boy? Kahit saan angle he looks so totoy. Tska ano paguusapan nyo? So cringe!
ReplyDeletei dont get why ppl so judgmental to the woman? yan ang hirap sa ating mga pinoy we play the 'morals' yet we don't act on it tumigil na tau sa pagiging hypocrites..ewan choice nila yun let them figure it out kung tama or mali ang choices nila..kaka imbyerna kau lahat 😂
ReplyDeletePaano hypocrite eh wala naman akong partner na 18 years old?
Deleter u kidding me or u just being 'juice..y' hypoctites bc ppl here are 'playing god'' more than perfect kung maka shame at magturo ng kung anong tama sa buhay double standards as if older women is desperate or predatory but with older men is as natural ok lang..hopefully this helps baby girl..
DeleteThe age gap between a 34-year-old man and an 18 year old girl is also inappropriate, so….
Deleteok naman ba sa side nung guy? and sa side nya? if yes, eh di gorabels. i think
ReplyDeleteEnjoy while it lasts.
ReplyDeleteTeh, unang-una hindi naman kagwapuhan yung bata para i-risk mo career and rep mo. PERO kahit gwapo pa yan, bata pa din yan. Or dapat daw ginaya mo si Coco Martin na ni-reveal na lang years later, pero kahit na, mali pa din talaga pumatol sa isang teen.
ReplyDeleteAi-Ai & Gerald v2.0
ReplyDeleteDon't mind the bashers. Mas malala pa ang reaksyon sa magulang at pamilya nung boyfriend. At the end of the day, the bashers do not really care if you are sad or happy.
ReplyDeleteSakit ng pinoy pagiging pakialamera at holier than thou. Mga palpak naman sa sarili nilang mga buhay.
ReplyDeleteAng daming nag cocomment na pag babae uung minor iba ang treatment. MALAMANG SA ALAMANG!! Ang babae nabubuntis.. ang dami kayang matatandang vlogger na content puro kalokohan tapos ang mga jowang nabubuntis mga mas bata.. nakakaawa talaga tignan. Imagine binulag lang sa pera at popularity yung mga dalaga tapos binahay na.. well dko din masisi kase asan ba mga magulang nyang mga bata na yan in the first place????
ReplyDeleteYup, girls get pregnant and must.live with that consequence for a lifetime.
DeleteI have a cousin who fell in love with a 21 year old guy when she was in her early 30s. Eventually it did not work out because the temperament was very different. Iyak si cousin. Si guy siyempre bagets pa, maybe it was just not serious for him.
ReplyDeleteSeryosong tanong kailan masasabi na may grooming na nangyayari? Is all about age- gap agad? Na tulad sa case nila. or talaga mapang husga talaga ang mga tao.
ReplyDeleteBuhay nila yan. Choice nila yan.
ReplyDeleteAteng tumigil ka na. Mali pa rin makipagrelasyon sa isang barely adult, na kung tutuusin, may parent consent pa rin yan.
DeleteAge gap is not the point here, she could be 28 pero it's still distasteful. The issue here is, he's just 18 years old with frontal lobe that is still being developed. He's barely an adult and is being exposed to this type of environment.
ReplyDeleteAbout your examples sa mga May-December love affair, you couldn't compare it to this because regardless of their age gap, both parties were ADULTS when they started the relationship. IBANG IBA YON.
Just imagine your son/daughter who is 18 years old and having a relationship with a fully grown man/woman, are you not going to be alarmed?
It just shows how Philippines is so pre-mature when it comes to child gr**ming. Sad.
I would say mas nagiging open minded ang tao ngaun. Pero pagdating sa ganyan rel ang magulang ang papagitna dyan. Iba iba ang maturity ng tao. ang tanong q lng kailan papasok ang gr**ming? At panu masasabi n gr**ming ang nangyari?
Delete6:27 Para mo nang anak yan, hello. Maang maangan lang?🤣
Deleteexactly the guy is not a 13 y.o boy calling out just to downplay whatevr the girl was saying is for me distasteful and judgmental.
Delete06:27 PM, when you were 18, what were you like? Is your thinking now the same as how you were thinking when you were 18?
DeleteGro*ming - the internet is available, search more about it.
944 kaya di ba ang iba iba ang level ng maturity ng tao. I am saying this it was experience of may parents. Maagang nainlove ang tatay pero pinaglaban at pinagkita niya na magiging responsible niyang asawa kay nanay at ama sa amin. honestly ung relationship nila is on and off dahil sa tingin ng iba kaya naging motivation ng tatay q na para makatapos ng pag aaral at magkaroon kami ng maayos ng buhay at thankful aq doon sa katatagan niya. he started romantic rel with nanay his same age kay guy but cut short after peoples judgement pero makulit ang tatay at mahal ang nanay q nilaban niya at pinatunayan na mali sila. tama ka available sa google ang gr**ming how is that we have different interpretations?
Delete12:42 I don’t want to exert more energy in responding to you because the way you composed your response, it kinda shows that it will take time and effort to educate you.
DeleteHowever, let me tell you about your dad.
Not because your dad did it, it means it’s right. Don’t romanticise your dad’s situation, if you are actually thinking, your dad was robbed of time and chances.
213 tell him to heaven. it is clear we have different approach and standpoint when it comes to this. Me taking all the way from their experiences. He fell in love at young age however still waited for the right timing to propose. He didnt rush but use all time and opportunity to be the person he was. He fell in love young but still waited that’s kind of level of maturity he had. He broke the social norm and culminated their love story with i do. Again that’s his level of maturity nevertheless i do not compel it to everyone. Every rel is unique it is up to us how we handle it.
Delete2:13 Ipilit mo pa teh na "normal" makipagrelasyon ang 31 year old female adult sa isang 18 year old male minor. Ipaglaban mo yan🤣
DeleteSakin lang ah, kadiri.. Hindi yun gap, yun age mismo ng bata! Ang disgusting nitong babae na to. And that goes with anyone lagpas sa teens na go sa mga teens. Or 3 year age gap max kapag 18 na yun tao.
ReplyDeleteedi mandiri ka..just make sure of morals ang mga ginagawa mu sa buhay???
DeleteMay isang tao dito na tambakan na lahat ng reply lahat ng comment, maipaglaban lang ang "normalcy" nya. 🤦♂️
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