RIP. Hays ito ang problem ngayon on us young people. I’m a mid millennial but as they say sobrang sensitive namin and lalo gen z ngayon.. some say snowflake, bawal mapuna or mapagalitan, some mag self delete nga napagalitan lang, privileged daw, and so on. Why, huge thanks to the what we see on soc med. we’re doomed if lalala pa ito.
Sad. So young. Unsolicited advice for the young (and even old) nakakadepressed talaga ang internet. Cut of the net, cut of social media, cut of this virtual life especially kung hindi naman kayo kumikita diyan at vulnerable kayo sa sinasabi ng iba. You don't need to hear these useless SOAB bashing or hurting you. Get out of the house, just soak under the sun. Physically feel life. Sun and physical activities can really help. Eventually you'll find something you like to do and eventually love to do.
10:13 I think 4:35 is speaking from his or her own experience. SHARING tawag dun. And judging from your response, tama nga ang sinasabi niya na super sensitive at snowflake kayo
I was an internet addict about year 2006 first time naming nagkaroon ng internet sa bahay. Cause usually meron lang internet sa office, library, computer shops. Pero sa bahay 2006 lang nagka available sa lugar namin at nagwowork na ako so I have the means to pay for it. Dahil sa nanay ko kuryente at tubig lang ang basic utilities. Anyway, to cut the long story short. Nasira buhay ko. Nasira trabaho ko. Un 8-5 job ko di ko na nagagampanan ng maayos. Absent ako o late. Lagi akong puyat kasi. Nagka insomnia ako. And if I remember it right nanonood lang naman ako sa YouTube noon na may maximum 10 minutes per video. Tapos online chats lang. Nakaka amaze sa mga first timer na the world has opened and has become one chat away. Sa mga online yahoo groups etc. You can talk to anybody around the world kahit nasa Pilipinas ka. What we did para ayusin un eh I had to cut off my internet. Pati tuloy phone sa bahay nawala. Then when I need something via online. Punta kong computer shop. Ang hassle. But then again, kailangan siya para hindi maging constant 24/7 ang internet sa akin. This was before mobile phones na may internet access has become a thing. Conclusion ko. Internet is an addiction. So is social media. May Social media addiction din. And if you're too emotional and vulnerable, you can easily fall for it. Minsan naniniwala ka na your identity and importance are tied up to these likes, views, positive comments etc. Pati comments and sinasabi ng iba. Which is bad especially if your mental health is affected. Minsan mahirap ng ding bumitaw. As for me now hindi na ako internet addict, online shopping addict na lang. Na ginagawan ko naman ng paraan at limit. Charot.
11:09 long story short talaga eh noh? 😅😅 Pero kidding aside, dami talaga nasisira buhay dahil sa internet. People just needs to be more responsible with use of it
Internet now has become more accessible kasi. Dati talaga punta ka pang computer shops makapag internet lang. Ngayon 24/7 you're online. And some people would equate social media as "socialization" which is very wrong. Ang layo. Ang layo sa totoong buhay ng pakikipagkaibigan online versus actual face to face. Iba ang taong nakilala mo sa social media sa taong nakilala mo face to face. Even if they're the same person. I know society and technology are going downhill nung nasa isang table kami waiting for our food and instead of talking to each other they're on their phones scrolling. They kasi di ako nakisali. Umikot na lang ako ng restaurant. what's the use of being together, eating together when you hardly talk to each other
10:46pm isa ka pa. Kung ano man yang opinyon mo e palipasin mo na lang muna at hindi eto ang tamang pagkakataon dyan. Parang bineblame mo pa ang mga bata. How insensitive
2:09. Wag mong ganyanin si 11:09. Baka siya naman ma-depress. 7:49. Wala masama sa Reddit. Baka nasa maling topic ka lang. Marami pa rin mabait sa Reddit.
2:09 I didn't write it for you. I wrote it for me. Who you ka ba in the first place dear? Masyado ka namang feeling important 10PM Reddit are full of bashers but fools. Wala silang ginawa dun kundi mangbash. Emman wasn't exempted. May thread siya dun specifically to bash her. Mas matatalino ang mga original kaFP. Hindi bagay ang mga squammy sa Reddit dito. Oops baka tamaan ka na naman ah. Hahaha
May mga nababasa pa nga ko na mga bashing at hateful comments even after her death. Kesyo wala daw sisihin kundi siya. Naghugas kamay na un mga bashers at haters niyang mga kawawang nilalang.
Nope hindi siya magarbo perp binash nonetheless due to her last name and association. I dont even know her at the time. She just popped up on my feed sa tiktok with her video explaining how mas mayaman at mapera pa ang mom side niya vs sa dad side niya. I SO LOVE HER ELOQUENCE.
So shocked with the news lalo super bata pala niya.
Praying for her peace. May she finds it on the other side. Rest well, beautiful soul 🕊
She was bashed because of being a nepo baby. May personal opinion siya about being one and how she's punished by being born into a wealthy family, especially her family being tied to politics, maraming negative comments toward her. Knowing na nag-blow up yung DPWH rich kids issue, nadamay rin yata siya.
I don't think it's fair to throw hate towards her lalo na't sinabi naman niya na ang mama niya ang breadwinner, she said that. Yes, nagserve ang dad nya sa politics for a while pero matagal na siya wala sa public service.
Sure, she has privilege pero it's not nice at the end of the day to have assumptions towards her private life. We don't know her family 100%.
Still cant believe. Aside from being too young, her being vocal is inspiring. She got humor, she's funny without even trying, just being herself. Hence she's misunderstood.
People, being kind is free. Let's live and do better.
She wasn't misunderstood..She may have been everything positive u have mentioned but on the other hand she was bashed for a reason : flexing and outrageous spending. .Anyway,rest in peace and may God touch the hearts of the grieving family.
I dont know her, I have not seen any of her vlogs pero napanood ko kanina she seems jolly and mabait, parang d rin maarte? Sana people should be kinder next time, hindi natin alam ang pinagdadaanan ng isat isa.
I think what 1222 was pointing out is about her opinion sa nepo. She said kasi na di dapat isisi sa mga anak kasalanan ng magulang na kurap, and she was misunderatood about that; When all she was trying to convey was baka malimutan na habulin ang totoong may kasalanan (the parents) because we are too busy running after their children. Napanuod ko yun eh, cant remember if sa live ba nya, basta before sya maglielow sa socmed.
She was recently misunderstood tho 1:10 about her nepo commentaries and eventually being tagged as nepo because Atienza were tied up to politics. And her issue way back about her lavish and outrageous spending, i dont think she deserve that one din. And she explained that one well, butthurt nalang ayaw makaintindi.
She was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, ADHD, post traumatic stress disorder. I admire her strength to live the life the way that she wants in spite of her mental illnesses. Hindi ko maalala kung sino yong international celebrity na may mental illness na nagsu#cide. Pinakita ng wife iyong vid na masaya at okay pa iyong husband pero the next day biglang nag su#cide.
711 their anonymity give them the right to be vicious and hateful. Kung sensitive ka, wag ka mag engage. Wag mong subukan ang socmed at all kung fragile ka. Ako when I comment online tapos mumurahin ako bigla once, ibabalik ko ng 10 beses. Ayun biglang natatahimik sila. Online or offline, if these idiots think they can bully you, they surely will.
1010 sadly if she is, help should have been there early on or sana hindi sha Hinayaan maiwan mag isa. Pero again, who knows kung time na nya. Lahat tyo may kanya kanyang opinion at for sure lahat may kontra at agree. Pero matuto rumespeto sa pananaw ng iba
And your point is? 5:12PM Anon I could be wrong, but your sentiments sounds rude.
Sana naisip mo din na iba iba din tayo ng tolerance. Kahit pareparehas tayong may pinagdadaanan, doesnt mean we have same level of pain.
She was clinically diagnosed, she's been fighting for it for years and went thru sessions of therapy. She tried her best to live. If you are her follower, you will somehow know. But if you are not, i think it is not right to compare each other's battle.
"Pare parehas" doesnt give someone comfort who silently battling for something we do not know of.
Be kind and sensitive...you might save a life out of it.
11 pa lang ako na bankrupt na kami, 13 pa lang ako namatay na tatay ko. Lumaki ako na parang war zone sa bahay. I always go back to those painful times. Kung yung bata na yun lumalaban, ako pa na full blown adult na. Sometimes un masakit sa buhay, yun ang magpapatibay sa'yo. Hindi ka naman titibay sa masaya o madali. Matututo ka sa mahirap at masakit. What money did to me was just to be complacent. And complacency can kill dreams and ambitions. And no, I am not comparing my struggles to her struggles, just stating it matter of factly. Sharing it for others to get something from it. RIP Emman. Sana mas may nakausap ka pa o mas may nakita ka pa to keep you fighting for your life and wanting to live. Sumalangit nawa ang iyong kaluluwa and that God will give you peace and joy in His Holy Presence 🙏
1123 but you know what? You are comparing. I do not get why people like you have to tell what you been thru your life in articles of someone who passed due to su!c!de. It is not inspiring at all, like what you want to say. You're just lowkey slapping the deceased and those who are battling the same that you are strong and they are weak. Yeah thats how i perceived it. This is not the thread for our surpassed battle to tell.
@1123PM AND 512PM: I see your point, and it’s great that you managed to build strength from your experiences — really, good for you. 😊 But just to clarify, depression isn’t about not being strong enough or not learning from life’s hardships. It’s an illness, not a mindset.
Some people can go through the toughest situations and come out fine, while others can be fighting silent battles you can’t see. That doesn’t make one person stronger and the other weaker- it just means they’re human in different ways.
So while your “matter-of-fact” sharing is noted, maybe next time try adding a bit of compassion, too. You never know whose life your words might affect.
Natural lang yung pumuna sa mga nagfa-flex ng lavish lifestyle. Natural rin pumuna sa mali ng tao. Totoo naman kasi na nepo baby siya. Kaya hindi ako nag RIP. If si Jammy Cruz yan, would you feel sad too? Be honest. Kaya hindi ako nag rest in peace. Tutal hindi ko rin naman kilala in person. Hindi ko rin siya idol. FYI di ko siya binash sa mga platforms niya.
As much as I agree with you, sana umiwas na lang rin siya sa negative comments. May nagsabi kasi na nagllurk daw siya sa Reddit ng opinions ng tao. Gets ko yung point na curious siya, pero syempre protect your peace na lang rin. Hindi ako nagvvictim blame dito dahil nababasa ko rin mga comments sa kanya pero pag alam mong mahina loob mo sa ganyan, wag ka na pumunta sa comments section para magbasa pa.
11:03 so bawal na ba mag comment/rant about public figures sa Reddit and other platforms? Ang sisihin niyo yung mga nambully sa kanya directly sa mismong accounts niya.
To 11:03PM, It's not victim blaming because you already know that you struggle mentally tapos you feed it pa? Ikaw ba, tatawid ka sa edsa knowing may high chance na mabunggo ka? Will you drive intoxicated knowing you can get to jail or harm other people and yourself?
As adult humans, we know the consequences of our actions. Yes, we give sympathy to the grieving family, and yes, it's a good reminder to check up on our friends regularly but also, I'm sure she was given enough advise from family and friends na wag na magbasa ng comments kasi it will ruin your mental health, knowing she's struggling na pala.
People are asking to be kind and we can give that. But there were also instances na she wasn't nice to people who disagree with her politically. Death is a sensitive topic yes, pero sana hindi rin ikinatutuwa ng mga tao yung differences niyo. Ang daming politically charged hate din ni ate girl no, lalo na knowing super sensitive rin kayong mga Dilawan.
7:43 hindi bawal pero alangan tira ka ng tira pero you expect hindi ka titirahin. That’s how it works in every scenario hindi lang politics. If you take the first shot then you should be ready for retaliation. That is life. That is the real world. Kahit pa artista nilalait mo syempre may fans yun who would be offended.
💔 Rest in peace. It’s heartbreaking to hear about her passing. Mental health struggles are often invisible, yet so incredibly heavy to carry. My thoughts are with her family, friends, and everyone who loved her. Let’s remember her kindness, her strength, and the light she brought into the world — and let this be a reminder that no one should ever have to face their pain alone. If you’re struggling, please reach out — help is out there, and you are never alone. 🕊️
Based sa mga comments diro and in another post I read, mukhang she was cyberbullied? Why? I have no idea coz I didnt follow her. Also, Im assuming she died by S? People hide behind the anonymity provided by the internet and use that to hurt others thru harsh comments and cyberbullying. We should all take a step back and look at its effects on others.
To the bereaved family, may you eventually find peace and acceptance. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
grabeh nagulat tlga ako..favorite ko pa naman mga videos nya sa black app huhu. kakapanood ko pa lang nung nag bibiskleta sya going to grocery. like ko din mga GRWM videos nya. she's so confident and carefree. ang lakas p nyang mag wall climbing. super like her personality huhu. RIP Emman . mamimiss ko tiktok videos mo huhu
The kind of people that bashed her reflects the level of intellect and type of upbringing that the general population of our country has. So sorry she had to bear all of that.
So young… everyday naiisip ko sana mawala na ako ayaw ko nang mabuhay.. ayaw ko nang magising kinabukasan… pag makabasa ako ng ganito nalulungkot dn ako…
Kaya palagi ko pinapalala sa mga pamangkin ko na life is beautiful. Kahit maraming struggles darating, maging matatag kasi lilipas din. Kung need ng kausap, reach out sa family or sa kaibigan na tunay makikinig.Most of all, Pray .
Same! Sinasabihan ko ang mga anak ko na life is beautiful but it is not perfect. That there are seasons in life and nothing lasts forever but their family. Always pray when life gets rough. And… don’t spend too much time on socials.
I'm sorry 3:54 & 9:12 but I beg to disagree. We can't tell a person who is suicidal, or struggling with mental health problems, to just pray. Clinically diagnosed po sila. I have a suicidal friend so I'm aware.
Tsaka hindi po lahat Christian na sasabihan lang ng - just pray. It doesn't work that way.
11:31 if you are suicidal or clinically depressed all the more kailangan mo ng kakapitan para hindi ka matuluyan. Every little bit helps. Syempre importante ang therapy and medication pero nakakatulong din yung emotional grounding, whether through a support system or through prayer kung religious ka, basta reach out and hold on to something, any small thing that can help you keep going, kasi mauubos ka talaga ng depression at mas lalo mong hindi kakayanin kung mag self isolate ka at mag-isa ka lang sa sarili mo.
watched the interview, in some ways nagkulang sya sa guidance. Maybe her parents are too busy making money and thought she is okay. Sa totoo lang kung babasahin mo ang mga words nya, hard pill to swallow pero parenting fail yung nangyari. She felt she is not seen or being asked kung okay lang sya. Also hindi tatagal ng ganun ang abused if her parents checked on her. Maybe they just assumed that she is okay.
Tiktok is crazy guys! When you depend on likes and hearts then you are not living an authentic life. So when its all sour then you lose yourself and the physicsal people around you doesnt matter.
Masaya na ba ang mga bullies and bashers? you never know what others are going through. Enough with the hate sa mga taong wala namang personal na issue sa inyo.
I wished a family/guardian was with her during her therapies, someone close should have watched her especially kung may mga tendency of hurting herself. Ang bata bata niya pa and she has potentials.
The deep sorrow of loss engulfs her family now. May God grant her peace. 🙏
On a related note, since covid plus the advent and constancy of social media, most everyone lives in these digital spaces. For young people who seek validation from likes and opinion, digital platforms are dangerous spaces. Parents, loved ones and guardians should teach the young once resilience and that validation does not come from likes and public opinion. It can really lead a young, impressionable and inexperienced mind to very dark spaces and sometimes, it leads to tragedy.
Kasing edad din siya ng daughter ko who struggles with mental health. Puspusan na lang akong gumagabay, praying na malampasan niya. I emphatize deeply sa parents ni Emman. Sobrang painful to have to go through that, loosing the battle.
19 pa lang siya pero parang ang tagal niya na sa US naninirahan mag-isa. At parang lagi siyang malayo sa family niya. If aware ang fam na may ganyan siya, dapat they keep her close. I know it won't prevent but it could delay. Rest in peace. May you found what you're looking for now. I don't see what she did as weakness, honestly, it boggles me how one could because it never cross my mind despite all the hard time and negativity around me.
19 pa lang siya pero parang ang tagal niya na sa US naninirahan mag-isa. At parang lagi siyang malayo sa family niya. If aware ang fam na may ganyan siya, dapat they keep her close. I know it won't prevent but it could delay. Rest in peace. May you found what you're looking for now. I don't see what she did as weakness, honestly, it boggles me how one could because it never cross my mind despite all the hard time and negativity around me.
Alam mo tama ka. Alam kaya ng family and friends nya na may depression sya? I have a cousin na laging nagtatangka minsan me kasayahan magpapaalam lang mag freshen up yun pala maglaslas na. Pero dahil nandyan lagi ang pamilya para sa kanya naaagapan. Yun nga lang lahat ng gusto nasusunod buti na lang me ikakaya ang pamilya. Sana di hinayaan na mag isa kahit pa gusto nya kasi bata pa din naman sya at kargo ng magulang.
Nakakalungkot ito. WORST NIGHTMARE NG LAHAT NG MAGULANG YAN! Ang daming taong lumalaban sa buhay, mga may sakit, terminally ill pa yung iba, walang pera or hikahos sa buhay pero pilit na tinigtignan ang ganda ng buhay. Ito ang nagagawa ng social media sa isip ng bata. YES BATA SHA AT BIKTIMA SHA NG LAHAT NG TAO NA MAHILIG MAMUNA AT WALANG EMPATHY at comment nag comment na walang katuturan. She started social media so young! Kaya sana LETS PROTECT OUR KIDS FROM SOCIAL MEDIA AND TEACH THEM TO PROTECT THEIR MENTAL HEALTH. LETS BE INTENTIONAL WITH OUR KIDS EVEN THE NOT SO YOUNG ONES. Hindi na tama ito.
Sana lang yung ibang nakiki RIP eh totoo. Baka iba diyan mga pala comment din ng kasamaan sa social media. Puro kasi biglang ang babait pero hanggat walang ganitong incidents panay hate kinakalat online. Emman is just one of your victims. Yung BINI grabe niyo rin pagsalitaan na parang ginawan kayo ng masama, yung ibang celebrities kung ipako sa krus akala mo mga kung sinong matuwid. Laging nakikipag talo sa choices ng iba. Sorry pero i think some are hypocrites. Makarma din sana mga taong walang ginawa kung hindi magkalat ng kasamaan online!
Daming signs bata pa lang and based on her posts across socmed something is wrong. Sana mas nabantayan at natutukan. Why does she live alone in Cali knowing her unstable condition.
Pag nagsasalita ka ng masama tungkol sa iba isisipin ng kausap mo na sigurado ginagawa mo rin yan sa kanya pag nakatalikod sya. Nakalista lahat ng bad na nagawa natin. Be good to everyone kahit hindi mo kaparehas ngbelief or upbringing. Mas mahirap maging bad kaysa sa good. Pag lagi masaya at nasmile mas hindi kukulubot ang skin mo. RIP Emman🖤
Social media will not heal you. The positivity you're getting there are all fake. Better open up with your true friends or family or seek professional help.
Just because people can say whatever they want on social media doesn’t mean they should. All that anger, all that hate — too often it’s directed toward public figures, forgetting they’re human too.
Someone just lost their life because of cruel, careless words. Mental health is not a joke. You can have everything materially and still feel broken inside.
Please… be kind. You never know what battle someone is silently fighting.
The thing is you can’t control the world. If we could tell people to be kind and they’d be kind, there would be no wars. We can only control ourselves.
Was she in the Philippines when it happened? I understand she goes to a university in the U.S. Condolences to Kuya Kim and family. This must be heartbreaking for them.
Wag magbabad sa social media. Social media is a toxic world. Sad how many of the youth seek validation from social media karamihan Gen z. Mas matibay sikmura kaya ng mga bata lumaki walang internet noong araw.
I’m in my 50s and I tried Instagram. Just scrolling on posts gave me anxiety. So I stopped looking. Life should be enjoyed in slow pace.
Agree. Resilience and the awareness of living 'in the real world' where you live and breath and you see what you can touch and hold. The digital in a lot of it's aspects are still abstract - it requires imagination. And if your mind is not anchored nd your emotions are unstable, it can take you to very dark spaces were evil lurks.
Depende sino pina follow mo sa Instagram 2.49. Ako I don't follow friends on IG, instead i follow people from across the globe na gusto ko yung pinopost na pics and reels, like slow living, gardening, home cooking. And so every morning when i checked on my insta feed, super inspired ako na life is good and beautiful.
since mag isa lang sya sa US nung pumanaw sya, wala bang foul play kasi alam ba ng family kung sino ang nakakasama ni Emman dun. alam nyo naman sa US madaming masamang elemento
kaya di tlga ako gumagamit ng black app. Fb reels lng tapos di ako nafollow ng mga page na nkkstress. Buti n lng tlga nahilig ako sa gaming and anime. Whenener naiisip kong mag self destruct, iniisip ko na need ko pa matapos ung One Piece, or inaantay ko ung next season ng Frieren. Another reason to live and dgaf sa sinasabi ng iba. Idont even mind mamuhay ng mgisa forever. hahaha
di ko naman sya kapamilya, kaibigan.. not even an avid follower of her, she just randomly appears on my feed but this feels so heavy.. like I lost a friend. I knew she was battling with her mental health but she was always so full of life, super active and trying new things, going to outreaches, very outspoken and authentic. Nakaka sad. Rest easy, Emman.
Her death is featured in NY post and Daily Mail and they stated the cause of death. Pray she find peace. I don't have, tik tok, facebook nor instagram. Talk to your love ones, if social media affects you, deactivate. Beware of AI or chat gp whatever. So many young minds/ people have been drawn to the clutches of social media and internet and most of the result are tragic. Prayers and tears for the family.
She made the headline news sa US. I didn't know of you Emman, but RiP angel. Masakit para sa family ito, and I hope they find peace. It'll take time, but I hope the family find peace.
I’m sorry pero ang prublema kasi sa iba they think they can say whatever and people should automatically agree with them. That’s just not how the world works. Maybe in your house you held your whole family hostage to your every whim but in the real world it just isn’t like that. Madami pang mga bastos na hndi lang basta iquestion ang opinion pero below the belt ang comments. If you can’t handle differing opinions then social media isn’t for you. Kahit yun mga pnakasikat na grabe sa daming followers like marian rivera, napakadami din bashers. Social media is a different kind of beast kagaya ng pagcancel k vice, k toni, etc. kung hindi matibay hindi talaga kakayanin. Being an influecer has so many perks but kasama ng perks na yun is getting yourself out there and sometimes getting destroyed.
I stayed away from socmed for 3 years when I was struggling with depression. It's not a good thing na magbabad kasi fake validation lang naman makukuha mo. Na question pa tuloy ang lifestyle nya at natawag na nepo baby when her mom's side of the family is very rich.
Same with me. When I had PPD binura ko lahat ng socmed apps. Over stimulating talaga sya. It helped me a lot. Plus I got to live in the moment vs death scrolling endlessly. Coz really do we need to know what all our friends are eating for lunch, where they’re going, what they’re thinking, etc. info overload talaga. IRL hindi naman natin nalalaman lahat yan.
Same advice from my psychiatrist. Malaking naitulong sa akin when I stayed away from social media. But then again, kanya kanya pa rin tayong coping mechanism. I just hope that all of us could get all the help we could at lahat ng help na ito (meds, therapy, support group, etc) accessible para sa lahat. :(
So sad. I really enjoyed her TikTok’s. Naapektuhan din siguro na tinatawag na nepo baby
ReplyDelete12:03 people are quick to judge. Bakit hindi nila tirahin yung mga politiko kung may ebidensya.
DeleteRIP. Hays ito ang problem ngayon on us young people. I’m a mid millennial but as they say sobrang sensitive namin and lalo gen z ngayon.. some say snowflake, bawal mapuna or mapagalitan, some mag self delete nga napagalitan lang, privileged daw, and so on. Why, huge thanks to the what we see on soc med. we’re doomed if lalala pa ito.
DeleteSad. So young. Unsolicited advice for the young (and even old) nakakadepressed talaga ang internet. Cut of the net, cut of social media, cut of this virtual life especially kung hindi naman kayo kumikita diyan at vulnerable kayo sa sinasabi ng iba. You don't need to hear these useless SOAB bashing or hurting you. Get out of the house, just soak under the sun. Physically feel life. Sun and physical activities can really help. Eventually you'll find something you like to do and eventually love to do.
DeleteShe has an interview with Toni G. Since 13 may depression na daw sya
Delete4:35pm pls this is not the right time for that. Don't invalidate yung feelings of those who were truly hurt and struggling. Wag maging insensitive
Delete10:13 I think 4:35 is speaking from his or her own experience. SHARING tawag dun. And judging from your response, tama nga ang sinasabi niya na super sensitive at snowflake kayo
DeleteI was an internet addict about year 2006 first time naming nagkaroon ng internet sa bahay. Cause usually meron lang internet sa office, library, computer shops. Pero sa bahay 2006 lang nagka available sa lugar namin at nagwowork na ako so I have the means to pay for it. Dahil sa nanay ko kuryente at tubig lang ang basic utilities. Anyway, to cut the long story short. Nasira buhay ko. Nasira trabaho ko. Un 8-5 job ko di ko na nagagampanan ng maayos. Absent ako o late. Lagi akong puyat kasi. Nagka insomnia ako. And if I remember it right nanonood lang naman ako sa YouTube noon na may maximum 10 minutes per video. Tapos online chats lang. Nakaka amaze sa mga first timer na the world has opened and has become one chat away. Sa mga online yahoo groups etc. You can talk to anybody around the world kahit nasa Pilipinas ka. What we did para ayusin un eh I had to cut off my internet. Pati tuloy phone sa bahay nawala. Then when I need something via online. Punta kong computer shop. Ang hassle. But then again, kailangan siya para hindi maging constant 24/7 ang internet sa akin. This was before mobile phones na may internet access has become a thing. Conclusion ko. Internet is an addiction. So is social media. May Social media addiction din. And if you're too emotional and vulnerable, you can easily fall for it. Minsan naniniwala ka na your identity and importance are tied up to these likes, views, positive comments etc. Pati comments and sinasabi ng iba. Which is bad especially if your mental health is affected. Minsan mahirap ng ding bumitaw.
DeleteAs for me now hindi na ako internet addict, online shopping addict na lang. Na ginagawan ko naman ng paraan at limit. Charot.
11:09 long story short talaga eh noh? 😅😅 Pero kidding aside, dami talaga nasisira buhay dahil sa internet. People just needs to be more responsible with use of it
DeleteInternet now has become more accessible kasi. Dati talaga punta ka pang computer shops makapag internet lang. Ngayon 24/7 you're online. And some people would equate social media as "socialization" which is very wrong. Ang layo. Ang layo sa totoong buhay ng pakikipagkaibigan online versus actual face to face. Iba ang taong nakilala mo sa social media sa taong nakilala mo face to face. Even if they're the same person. I know society and technology are going downhill nung nasa isang table kami waiting for our food and instead of talking to each other they're on their phones scrolling. They kasi di ako nakisali. Umikot na lang ako ng restaurant. what's the use of being together, eating together when you hardly talk to each other
Delete10:46pm isa ka pa. Kung ano man yang opinyon mo e palipasin mo na lang muna at hindi eto ang tamang pagkakataon dyan. Parang bineblame mo pa ang mga bata. How insensitive
DeleteHer advocacy for mental health makes it even sadder, because she was the one who needed that support the most. ☹️💔
Delete1:28 haba ng sinabi ko yun lang take away mo? Napasukan na talaga ng taga FB at reddit ang FP. OMG
DeleteAt 11:09 PM TLDR (groan) Learn to summarize, ok? We didnt ask for your life story", ok?
Delete2:09. Wag mong ganyanin si 11:09. Baka siya naman ma-depress.
Delete7:49. Wala masama sa Reddit. Baka nasa maling topic ka lang. Marami pa rin mabait sa Reddit.
@4:35 Agree. Social Media klled her, and so are many other young souls.
Delete2:09 I didn't write it for you. I wrote it for me. Who you ka ba in the first place dear? Masyado ka namang feeling important
Delete10PM Reddit are full of bashers but fools. Wala silang ginawa dun kundi mangbash. Emman wasn't exempted. May thread siya dun specifically to bash her. Mas matatalino ang mga original kaFP. Hindi bagay ang mga squammy sa Reddit dito. Oops baka tamaan ka na naman ah. Hahaha
Oh thats sad, bata pa nia. 🙏🏼
ReplyDeleteDepression😭
ReplyDeleteOh my. RIP
ReplyDeleteSana lahat ng “sana” nagawa before sya nawala
ReplyDeleteThis is very sad. Everyone should be kind and spread love
ReplyDeleteNaku nangyayari lang yan pag may ibinabalitang pumanaw pero sa ibang article grabe pa din
DeleteMay mga nababasa pa nga ko na mga bashing at hateful comments even after her death. Kesyo wala daw sisihin kundi siya. Naghugas kamay na un mga bashers at haters niyang mga kawawang nilalang.
DeleteOhhh my … condolence to the bereaved family…
ReplyDeletesya ba yung binash ng bongga dahil sa pagiging magarbo???
ReplyDeleteNope hindi siya magarbo perp binash nonetheless due to her last name and association. I dont even know her at the time. She just popped up on my feed sa tiktok with her video explaining how mas mayaman at mapera pa ang mom side niya vs sa dad side niya. I SO LOVE HER ELOQUENCE.
DeleteSo shocked with the news lalo super bata pala niya.
Praying for her peace. May she finds it on the other side. Rest well, beautiful soul 🕊
She was bashed because of being a nepo baby. May personal opinion siya about being one and how she's punished by being born into a wealthy family, especially her family being tied to politics, maraming negative comments toward her. Knowing na nag-blow up yung DPWH rich kids issue, nadamay rin yata siya.
DeleteI don't think it's fair to throw hate towards her lalo na't sinabi naman niya na ang mama niya ang breadwinner, she said that. Yes, nagserve ang dad nya sa politics for a while pero matagal na siya wala sa public service.
Sure, she has privilege pero it's not nice at the end of the day to have assumptions towards her private life. We don't know her family 100%.
Opo sya yung sa expensive dinner
DeleteShe shouldn’t be allowed to be combative on social media knowing her condition.
DeleteStill cant believe. Aside from being too young, her being vocal is inspiring. She got humor, she's funny without even trying, just being herself. Hence she's misunderstood.
ReplyDeletePeople, being kind is free. Let's live and do better.
Rest in peace Emman.
She wasn't misunderstood..She may have been everything positive u have mentioned but on the other hand she was bashed for a reason : flexing and outrageous spending. .Anyway,rest in peace and may God touch the hearts of the grieving family.
DeleteI dont know her, I have not seen any of her vlogs pero napanood ko kanina she seems jolly and mabait, parang d rin maarte? Sana people should be kinder next time, hindi natin alam ang pinagdadaanan ng isat isa.
DeleteI think what 1222 was pointing out is about her opinion sa nepo. She said kasi na di dapat isisi sa mga anak kasalanan ng magulang na kurap, and she was misunderatood about that; When all she was trying to convey was baka malimutan na habulin ang totoong may kasalanan (the parents) because we are too busy running after their children. Napanuod ko yun eh, cant remember if sa live ba nya, basta before sya maglielow sa socmed.
DeleteRest easy now Emman.
She was recently misunderstood tho 1:10 about her nepo commentaries and eventually being tagged as nepo because Atienza were tied up to politics. And her issue way back about her lavish and outrageous spending, i dont think she deserve that one din. And she explained that one well, butthurt nalang ayaw makaintindi.
DeleteMay sakit ba siya? Parang nakita ko lang kailan ung post niya. Ano nangyari? RIP ang bata pa tsk.
ReplyDeleteWatch mo Toni Talks with her. Nakakagalit mga ginawa sya kanya at dahil dun nagkaron sya ng mental illness.
DeleteShe was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, ADHD, post traumatic stress disorder. I admire her strength to live the life the way that she wants in spite of her mental illnesses. Hindi ko maalala kung sino yong international celebrity na may mental illness na nagsu#cide. Pinakita ng wife iyong vid na masaya at okay pa iyong husband pero the next day biglang nag su#cide.
DeleteMental health struggles daw based sa mga comments.. not sure if it was depression.
DeleteSalamat sa reply, wala ako social media kaya nagulat ako nung una ko nabasa dito. Nalaman ko rin eventually.
DeleteOmg! Wag sana laging maging harsh sa pag comments mga tao dahil nakakaapekto talaga ang comments sa mental health ng celebs
ReplyDeleteSadly netizens are matatapang behind their phone screens. Ang dali mag bash without thinking of repercussions :(
Delete711 their anonymity give them the right to be vicious and hateful. Kung sensitive ka, wag ka mag engage. Wag mong subukan ang socmed at all kung fragile ka. Ako when I comment online tapos mumurahin ako bigla once, ibabalik ko ng 10 beses. Ayun biglang natatahimik sila. Online or offline, if these idiots think they can bully you, they surely will.
DeleteI remember her interview with Toni. She was abused by her yaya then a boy he liked 😔 Some wounds can never heal. RIP Emman
ReplyDeleteLahat naman tayo may pinag dadaanan sa buhay. At kanya kanya tayong pamamaraan ng pag laban sa mga pag subok na dumadating sa atin.
Delete5:12 ayan na naman tayo. iba po ang bipolar and may chronic depression
Delete1010 sadly if she is, help should have been there early on or sana hindi sha Hinayaan maiwan mag isa. Pero again, who knows kung time na nya. Lahat tyo may kanya kanyang opinion at for sure lahat may kontra at agree. Pero matuto rumespeto sa pananaw ng iba
DeleteAnd your point is? 5:12PM Anon
DeleteI could be wrong, but your sentiments sounds rude.
Sana naisip mo din na iba iba din tayo ng tolerance. Kahit pareparehas tayong may pinagdadaanan, doesnt mean we have same level of pain.
She was clinically diagnosed, she's been fighting for it for years and went thru sessions of therapy. She tried her best to live. If you are her follower, you will somehow know. But if you are not, i think it is not right to compare each other's battle.
"Pare parehas" doesnt give someone comfort who silently battling for something we do not know of.
Be kind and sensitive...you might save a life out of it.
11 pa lang ako na bankrupt na kami, 13 pa lang ako namatay na tatay ko. Lumaki ako na parang war zone sa bahay. I always go back to those painful times. Kung yung bata na yun lumalaban, ako pa na full blown adult na. Sometimes un masakit sa buhay, yun ang magpapatibay sa'yo. Hindi ka naman titibay sa masaya o madali. Matututo ka sa mahirap at masakit. What money did to me was just to be complacent. And complacency can kill dreams and ambitions.
DeleteAnd no, I am not comparing my struggles to her struggles, just stating it matter of factly. Sharing it for others to get something from it. RIP Emman. Sana mas may nakausap ka pa o mas may nakita ka pa to keep you fighting for your life and wanting to live. Sumalangit nawa ang iyong kaluluwa and that God will give you peace and joy in His Holy Presence 🙏
1123 but you know what? You are comparing. I do not get why people like you have to tell what you been thru your life in articles of someone who passed due to su!c!de. It is not inspiring at all, like what you want to say. You're just lowkey slapping the deceased and those who are battling the same that you are strong and they are weak. Yeah thats how i perceived it. This is not the thread for our surpassed battle to tell.
DeleteIts not about you 11:23.
Delete5:12 same goes na di ka pwede maging masaya dahil palaging may MAS kesa sayo.
Delete11:23 shut up.
Delete@1123PM AND 512PM: I see your point, and it’s great that you managed to build strength from your experiences — really, good for you. 😊 But just to clarify, depression isn’t about not being strong enough or not learning from life’s hardships. It’s an illness, not a mindset.
DeleteSome people can go through the toughest situations and come out fine, while others can be fighting silent battles you can’t see. That doesn’t make one person stronger and the other weaker- it just means they’re human in different ways.
So while your “matter-of-fact” sharing is noted, maybe next time try adding a bit of compassion, too. You never know whose life your words might affect.
Very good point 11.23! This generation could learn a thing or two from you!
DeleteDeepest Condolonces. No parent should ever have to experience this kind of loss
ReplyDeleteDami nya basher. Kaya people dapat maging sensitive tayo sa feelings ng
ReplyDeletemga artista. Tapos pag nawala may pa RIP pa kayo.
Natural lang yung pumuna sa mga nagfa-flex ng lavish lifestyle. Natural rin pumuna sa mali ng tao. Totoo naman kasi na nepo baby siya. Kaya hindi ako nag RIP. If si Jammy Cruz yan, would you feel sad too? Be honest. Kaya hindi ako nag rest in peace. Tutal hindi ko rin naman kilala in person. Hindi ko rin siya idol. FYI di ko siya binash sa mga platforms niya.
Deletehindi naman sinabi kung anong cause so bashing kaagad dahilan malay nyo naman may sakit
DeleteTeh desisyon nya yun hindi mo pwede isisi sa basher lalo na may basehan yung mga puna sa kanya.
DeleteAs much as I agree with you, sana umiwas na lang rin siya sa negative comments. May nagsabi kasi na nagllurk daw siya sa Reddit ng opinions ng tao. Gets ko yung point na curious siya, pero syempre protect your peace na lang rin. Hindi ako nagvvictim blame dito dahil nababasa ko rin mga comments sa kanya pero pag alam mong mahina loob mo sa ganyan, wag ka na pumunta sa comments section para magbasa pa.
DeleteI don't know her or her circumstances but ang sick ng bashers ng isang teenager.
DeleteYun yon eh, bash ng bash tapoa rip po blah blah
Delete5:30 di ka pa nag victim blame nyan ah, but you know what? You just did.
DeletePeople really do not know how to be sensitive.
11:03 so bawal na ba mag comment/rant about public figures sa Reddit and other platforms? Ang sisihin niyo yung mga nambully sa kanya directly sa mismong accounts niya.
DeleteTo 11:03PM, It's not victim blaming because you already know that you struggle mentally tapos you feed it pa? Ikaw ba, tatawid ka sa edsa knowing may high chance na mabunggo ka? Will you drive intoxicated knowing you can get to jail or harm other people and yourself?
DeleteAs adult humans, we know the consequences of our actions. Yes, we give sympathy to the grieving family, and yes, it's a good reminder to check up on our friends regularly but also, I'm sure she was given enough advise from family and friends na wag na magbasa ng comments kasi it will ruin your mental health, knowing she's struggling na pala.
People are asking to be kind and we can give that. But there were also instances na she wasn't nice to people who disagree with her politically. Death is a sensitive topic yes, pero sana hindi rin ikinatutuwa ng mga tao yung differences niyo. Ang daming politically charged hate din ni ate girl no, lalo na knowing super sensitive rin kayong mga Dilawan.
If you're asking
7:43 hindi bawal pero alangan tira ka ng tira pero you expect hindi ka titirahin. That’s how it works in every scenario hindi lang politics. If you take the first shot then you should be ready for retaliation. That is life. That is the real world. Kahit pa artista nilalait mo syempre may fans yun who would be offended.
DeleteSo young. I wonder how she passed. Rip 🙏
ReplyDelete💔 Rest in peace. It’s heartbreaking to hear about her passing. Mental health struggles are often invisible, yet so incredibly heavy to carry. My thoughts are with her family, friends, and everyone who loved her. Let’s remember her kindness, her strength, and the light she brought into the world — and let this be a reminder that no one should ever have to face their pain alone. If you’re struggling, please reach out — help is out there, and you are never alone. 🕊️
DeleteThis is so sad to hear😞 I really enjoyed her videos. Her spunk, feisty attitude, and wit. Rip Emman🙏
ReplyDeletePoor child. Ang dami pala niyang hardships. Rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteOh my. So young. May she rest in peace
ReplyDeleteBased sa mga comments diro and in another post I read, mukhang she was cyberbullied? Why? I have no idea coz I didnt follow her. Also, Im assuming she died by S? People hide behind the anonymity provided by the internet and use that to hurt others thru harsh comments and cyberbullying. We should all take a step back and look at its effects on others.
ReplyDeleteTo the bereaved family, may you eventually find peace and acceptance. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Yung mga basher na grabe mang bash before ngaun may pa rip 🤷 eto ba gusto niyo?
ReplyDeletegrabeh nagulat tlga ako..favorite ko pa naman mga videos nya sa black app huhu. kakapanood ko pa lang nung nag bibiskleta sya going to grocery. like ko din mga GRWM videos nya. she's so confident and carefree. ang lakas p nyang mag wall climbing. super like her personality huhu. RIP Emman . mamimiss ko tiktok videos mo huhu
ReplyDeleteSometimes what we project in socmed is entirely the opposite of what we are. Just saying.
DeleteThe kind of people that bashed her reflects the level of intellect and type of upbringing that the general population of our country has. So sorry she had to bear all of that.
ReplyDeleteNakakalungkot naman to.
ReplyDeleteNatural selection ata tawag dito.
DeleteThis loss is such Big blow to the parents. Prayers and condolences to the bereaved.
ReplyDeleteBe kind not everyone knows the silent battles we have.
ReplyDeleteSo young… everyday naiisip ko sana mawala na ako ayaw ko nang mabuhay.. ayaw ko nang magising kinabukasan… pag makabasa ako ng ganito nalulungkot dn ako…
ReplyDeleteKapit lng kay God at isipin mo anong mafefeel ng mga mahal mo s buhay kapag nawala k
Deletein a world where you can be anything, be kind.
ReplyDeleteThis is 💔
ReplyDeleteI love her speaking tagalog content, subrang nakakagulat at sad to😔😔😔
ReplyDeleteThat's what those 'evil behind the screen' pinoy cowards wanted. And at night they ask bakit andami nilang sakuna at problema.
ReplyDeleteKorek mga haters ang bashers na parang masaya kapag may na de depress
DeleteOMG ka shock naman, Rest in peace Emman and condolence to Kuya Kim and the whole family 🙏🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteI always liked her and been an avid viewer of her videos. Her death made me so sad 🥲
ReplyDeleteWill say a prayer for her soul.
Kaya palagi ko pinapalala sa mga pamangkin ko na life is beautiful. Kahit maraming struggles darating, maging matatag kasi lilipas din. Kung need ng kausap, reach out sa family or sa kaibigan na tunay makikinig.Most of all, Pray .
ReplyDeleteSame! Sinasabihan ko ang mga anak ko na life is beautiful but it is not perfect. That there are seasons in life and nothing lasts forever but their family. Always pray when life gets rough. And… don’t spend too much time on socials.
DeleteI'm sorry 3:54 & 9:12 but I beg to disagree. We can't tell a person who is suicidal, or struggling with mental health problems, to just pray. Clinically diagnosed po sila. I have a suicidal friend so I'm aware.
DeleteTsaka hindi po lahat Christian na sasabihan lang ng - just pray. It doesn't work that way.
11:31 if you are suicidal or clinically depressed all the more kailangan mo ng kakapitan para hindi ka matuluyan. Every little bit helps. Syempre importante ang therapy and medication pero nakakatulong din yung emotional grounding, whether through a support system or through prayer kung religious ka, basta reach out and hold on to something, any small thing that can help you keep going, kasi mauubos ka talaga ng depression at mas lalo mong hindi kakayanin kung mag self isolate ka at mag-isa ka lang sa sarili mo.
DeleteIt does 11.31, actually.
DeleteMay she rest in peace. Condolences to the family.
ReplyDelete19 is too young
ReplyDeleteDami nya guestings aa mga podcast the past months.. mukang mabait at maayos naman.
ReplyDelete19 lamg pla siya. Akala ko nung una fake news hanggang sa nakita ko sa FP. Emman may you rest in peace. Kuya Kim n family, please stay strong
ReplyDeleteEternal rest grant unto the soul of Emman Atienza Oh Lord. And let perpetual light shine upon her. May she rest in peace Amen🙏🏻
ReplyDeleteWatch her interview with Toni Gonzaga. My gosh so heartbreaking.
ReplyDeletewatched the interview, in some ways nagkulang sya sa guidance. Maybe her parents are too busy making money and thought she is okay. Sa totoo lang kung babasahin mo ang mga words nya, hard pill to swallow pero parenting fail yung nangyari. She felt she is not seen or being asked kung okay lang sya. Also hindi tatagal ng ganun ang abused if her parents checked on her. Maybe they just assumed that she is okay.
DeleteSo sorry that people failed you. I hope before you left, you felt peace.
ReplyDeleteI don’t know her personally but I’m so broken for her. I follow her social media accounts as I really enjoy her posts :(
Tiktok is crazy guys! When you depend on likes and hearts then you are not living an authentic life. So when its all sour then you lose yourself and the physicsal people around you doesnt matter.
ReplyDeleteThis
DeleteSocial media is bad for gen z di talaga kaya ng mental health nila lalo na grabe mga bashers below the belt talaga
ReplyDeleteMasaya na ba ang mga bullies and bashers? you never know what others are going through. Enough with the hate sa mga taong wala namang personal na issue sa inyo.
ReplyDeleteSana maka Carma Martin ang mga bashers ang lalakas mag comment ng mga below the belt kasi nagtatago sa mga troll account mga Duwag
ReplyDeleteCarma martin back to you, 9.43
DeleteWag na manisi ng iba may menatl illness talaga siya
DeleteI wished a family/guardian was with her during her therapies, someone close should have watched her especially kung may mga tendency of hurting herself. Ang bata bata niya pa and she has potentials.
ReplyDeleteThe deep sorrow of loss engulfs her family now. May God grant her peace. 🙏
ReplyDeleteOn a related note, since covid plus the advent and constancy of social media, most everyone lives in these digital spaces. For young people who seek validation from likes and opinion, digital platforms are dangerous spaces. Parents, loved ones and guardians should teach the young once resilience and that validation does not come from likes and public opinion. It can really lead a young, impressionable and inexperienced mind to very dark spaces and sometimes, it leads to tragedy.
Kasing edad din siya ng daughter ko who struggles with mental health. Puspusan na lang akong gumagabay, praying na malampasan niya. I emphatize deeply sa parents ni Emman. Sobrang painful to have to go through that, loosing the battle.
ReplyDelete19 pa lang siya pero parang ang tagal niya na sa US naninirahan mag-isa. At parang lagi siyang malayo sa family niya. If aware ang fam na may ganyan siya, dapat they keep her close. I know it won't prevent but it could delay. Rest in peace. May you found what you're looking for now. I don't see what she did as weakness, honestly, it boggles me how one could because it never cross my mind despite all the hard time and negativity around me.
ReplyDeleteYou think they didn’t try?
Delete19 pa lang siya pero parang ang tagal niya na sa US naninirahan mag-isa. At parang lagi siyang malayo sa family niya. If aware ang fam na may ganyan siya, dapat they keep her close. I know it won't prevent but it could delay. Rest in peace. May you found what you're looking for now. I don't see what she did as weakness, honestly, it boggles me how one could because it never cross my mind despite all the hard time and negativity around me.
ReplyDeleteAkala ko nga 20s na sya and college grad na. Surprised na 19 palang. I thought sya yung may issue sa Palestine protest..yung sister pala nya yun.
DeleteAlam mo tama ka. Alam kaya ng family and friends nya na may depression sya? I have a cousin na laging nagtatangka minsan me kasayahan magpapaalam lang mag freshen up yun pala maglaslas na. Pero dahil nandyan lagi ang pamilya para sa kanya naaagapan. Yun nga lang lahat ng gusto nasusunod buti na lang me ikakaya ang pamilya. Sana di hinayaan na mag isa kahit pa gusto nya kasi bata pa din naman sya at kargo ng magulang.
DeleteToo many young people in this digital era are dying in plain sight. May her soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteNakakalungkot ito. WORST NIGHTMARE NG LAHAT NG MAGULANG YAN!
ReplyDeleteAng daming taong lumalaban sa buhay, mga may sakit, terminally ill pa yung iba, walang pera or hikahos sa buhay pero pilit na tinigtignan ang ganda ng buhay.
Ito ang nagagawa ng social media sa isip ng bata. YES BATA SHA AT BIKTIMA SHA NG LAHAT NG TAO NA MAHILIG MAMUNA AT WALANG EMPATHY at comment nag comment na walang katuturan. She started social media so young!
Kaya sana LETS PROTECT OUR KIDS FROM SOCIAL MEDIA AND TEACH THEM TO PROTECT THEIR MENTAL HEALTH. LETS BE INTENTIONAL WITH OUR KIDS EVEN THE NOT SO YOUNG ONES. Hindi na tama ito.
She also speaks about politics so expected na banter at bashing makakatapat. Kahit saang field talaga uso ang bullying. She’s also very outspoken.
DeleteOh my. Prayers for the Atienza family. I remember years ago, yung pinsan din nya:( May the family be comforted 🙏🏻
ReplyDeleteSana lang yung ibang nakiki RIP eh totoo. Baka iba diyan mga pala comment din ng kasamaan sa social media. Puro kasi biglang ang babait pero hanggat walang ganitong incidents panay hate kinakalat online. Emman is just one of your victims. Yung BINI grabe niyo rin pagsalitaan na parang ginawan kayo ng masama, yung ibang celebrities kung ipako sa krus akala mo mga kung sinong matuwid. Laging nakikipag talo sa choices ng iba. Sorry pero i think some are hypocrites. Makarma din sana mga taong walang ginawa kung hindi magkalat ng kasamaan online!
ReplyDeleteBack to you, 11.24
DeleteRemember ginawa nila sa anak ni Tunying malala din!
DeleteYour comment doesnt make sense @ 3:32 tinamaan ka kasi isa ka sa mga salbahe online?
DeleteDaming signs bata pa lang and based on her posts across socmed something is wrong. Sana mas nabantayan at natutukan. Why does she live alone in Cali knowing her unstable condition.
ReplyDeleteYan din ang naisip ko na bakit siya alone. Kahit ba masaya siya and all kasama, kapag nagiisa yan it hits hard.
DeleteBata pa lang sya ganyan na situation she was living with Yaya that gave her trauma.
DeleteAyaw na daw nya sa "zoo". Ayon dun sa caption ng post nya sa IG
DeletePag nagsasalita ka ng masama tungkol sa iba isisipin ng kausap mo na sigurado ginagawa mo rin yan sa kanya pag nakatalikod sya. Nakalista lahat ng bad na nagawa natin. Be good to everyone kahit hindi mo kaparehas ngbelief or upbringing. Mas mahirap maging bad kaysa sa good. Pag lagi masaya at nasmile mas hindi kukulubot ang skin mo. RIP Emman🖤
ReplyDeleteSocial media will not heal you. The positivity you're getting there are all fake. Better open up with your true friends or family or seek professional help.
ReplyDeleteJust because people can say whatever they want on social media doesn’t mean they should.
ReplyDeleteAll that anger, all that hate — too often it’s directed toward public figures, forgetting they’re human too.
Someone just lost their life because of cruel, careless words.
Mental health is not a joke. You can have everything materially and still feel broken inside.
Please… be kind.
You never know what battle someone is silently fighting.
The thing is you can’t control the world. If we could tell people to be kind and they’d be kind, there would be no wars. We can only control ourselves.
Delete8:36 im with you.
DeleteKay kuya kim ako naawa.
ReplyDeleterip po.
ReplyDeleteWas she in the Philippines when it happened? I understand she goes to a university in the U.S.
ReplyDeleteCondolences to Kuya Kim and family. This must be heartbreaking for them.
Mas nakakaawa talaga ang naiwan lalo na sa parents na maglilibing sa kanilang anak, na sa agos ng buhay ang Parents ang mauuna.
ReplyDeleteWag magbabad sa social media. Social media is a toxic world. Sad how many of the youth seek validation from social media karamihan Gen z. Mas matibay sikmura kaya ng mga bata lumaki walang internet noong araw.
ReplyDeleteI’m in my 50s and I tried Instagram. Just scrolling on posts gave me anxiety. So I stopped looking. Life should be enjoyed in slow pace.
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DeleteAgree. Resilience and the awareness of living 'in the real world' where you live and breath and you see what you can touch and hold. The digital in a lot of it's aspects are still abstract - it requires imagination. And if your mind is not anchored nd your emotions are unstable, it can take you to very dark spaces were evil lurks.
DeleteDepende sino pina follow mo sa Instagram 2.49. Ako I don't follow friends on IG, instead i follow people from across the globe na gusto ko yung pinopost na pics and reels, like slow living, gardening, home cooking. And so every morning when i checked on my insta feed, super inspired ako na life is good and beautiful.
Deletesince mag isa lang sya sa US nung pumanaw sya, wala bang foul play kasi alam ba ng family kung sino ang nakakasama ni Emman dun. alam nyo naman sa US madaming masamang elemento
ReplyDeletekaya di tlga ako gumagamit ng black app. Fb reels lng tapos di ako nafollow ng mga page na nkkstress. Buti n lng tlga nahilig ako sa gaming and anime. Whenener naiisip kong mag self destruct, iniisip ko na need ko pa matapos ung One Piece, or inaantay ko ung next season ng Frieren. Another reason to live and dgaf sa sinasabi ng iba. Idont even mind mamuhay ng mgisa forever. hahaha
ReplyDeleteMay mga bata na kailangan talaga ng tutok na atensyon. Wag lang natin ipasa sa mga yaya o kasambahay o kaibigan. Maging involved sa buhay ng anak.
ReplyDeletedi ko naman sya kapamilya, kaibigan.. not even an avid follower of her, she just randomly appears on my feed but this feels so heavy.. like I lost a friend. I knew she was battling with her mental health but she was always so full of life, super active and trying new things, going to outreaches, very outspoken and authentic. Nakaka sad. Rest easy, Emman.
ReplyDeleteHer death is featured in NY post and Daily Mail and they stated the cause of death. Pray she find peace. I don't have, tik tok, facebook nor instagram. Talk to your love ones, if social media affects you, deactivate. Beware of AI or chat gp whatever. So many young minds/ people have been drawn to the clutches of social media and internet and most of the result are tragic. Prayers and tears for the family.
ReplyDeleteShe made the headline news sa US. I didn't know of you Emman, but RiP angel. Masakit para sa family ito, and I hope they find peace. It'll take time, but I hope the family find peace.
ReplyDeleteI’m sorry pero ang prublema kasi sa iba they think they can say whatever and people should automatically agree with them. That’s just not how the world works. Maybe in your house you held your whole family hostage to your every whim but in the real world it just isn’t like that. Madami pang mga bastos na hndi lang basta iquestion ang opinion pero below the belt ang comments. If you can’t handle differing opinions then social media isn’t for you. Kahit yun mga pnakasikat na grabe sa daming followers like marian rivera, napakadami din bashers. Social media is a different kind of beast kagaya ng pagcancel k vice, k toni, etc. kung hindi matibay hindi talaga kakayanin. Being an influecer has so many perks but kasama ng perks na yun is getting yourself out there and sometimes getting destroyed.
ReplyDeleteKorek! Kaya deactivated na lahat ang aking soc med. Mas okay na magbasa ng pili piling news at gusto mo lang iconsume.
DeleteBakit nga ba noh me too yung fb gives me anxiety also. Kaya d na din ako masyado ng scroll into short dramas nalang na latin.
ReplyDeleteI stayed away from socmed for 3 years when I was struggling with depression. It's not a good thing na magbabad kasi fake validation lang naman makukuha mo. Na question pa tuloy ang lifestyle nya at natawag na nepo baby when her mom's side of the family is very rich.
ReplyDeleteSame with me. When I had PPD binura ko lahat ng socmed apps. Over stimulating talaga sya. It helped me a lot. Plus I got to live in the moment vs death scrolling endlessly. Coz really do we need to know what all our friends are eating for lunch, where they’re going, what they’re thinking, etc. info overload talaga. IRL hindi naman natin nalalaman lahat yan.
DeleteSame advice from my psychiatrist. Malaking naitulong sa akin when I stayed away from social media. But then again, kanya kanya pa rin tayong coping mechanism. I just hope that all of us could get all the help we could at lahat ng help na ito (meds, therapy, support group, etc) accessible para sa lahat. :(
DeleteRIP Emman.
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