Grabe ka girl kasiraan na yan ng pamilya mo, hindi mo na dapat pinag kakalat yan. Yes it happened. We feel you. Pero nakakahiya yung reputasyon ng family ang nakasalalay. Sana you consider man lang. You have many options. You can do therapy, you can confess to a priest, you can go to a peaceful quiet place for a vacation but never mo siraan pamilya mo sa public. I hope my makaintindi sa comment ko. I’m not bashing her.
Girl! Kumulo yung dugo ko sayo kahit anonymous ka. Mas importante sayo ang kasiraan ng pamilya kaysa sa biktima? You're the problem why there are so many victims na dala dala nila yung trauma hanggang pagtanda nila for the sole reason na itatago nila ito for the sake of the family's reputation. I've worked for an NGO supporting victims so I witnessed firsthand how damaged those children were because they were sexually abused at a young age. At dahil sa mga taong kagaya mo na mismong magulang nila kaya hindi nila ito nasabi kahit kanino, even the police. So they just suffered for many years at paulit ulit ang pang-aabuso until private organizations like us intervened. Sana, sana lang..huwag itong mangyari sa pamilya, kamag-anak, o mga taong malapit sayo.
Same thought kaya lang paniguradong may kokontra satin. Pupwede din naman din yang ireklamo sa kinauukulan kung gusto nya. Pagpipyestahan lang sila ng mga tao. Ok lang kung mag isa syang anak. Kasabihan nga, "Dont wash your dirty linen on public". Kung sabagay crime na din yan eh. So ano gusto nya?..tuligsain ang tatay nya at ipakulong o trial by publicity???
9:24 Ka-FP, dirty linen are secrets that are embarrassing or shameful but not necessarily criminal. Sexual abuse is a crime, not just a private family matter. It is not something that should stay secret like the typical "dirty linen." And please, let's not throwing blame or whatever to people like her na ngayon lang naglakas loob sabihin yang ganyang bagay. Remember, she was only 10 when it happened. She probably didn't know it was abuse during that time. Maybe she thought it was just something bad or unusual. Some people like her just found the courage to say it now without feeling shame or hate because they already accepted things and have given forgiveness. It's not about the father anymore, it's about liberating herself. I don't think she wanted the people to crucify the father kaya nga ngayon yung pinili niyang time to talk about it. And why do we care if the father gets the hate in the first place? Why consider the feelings of the offender instead of the victim?
I also dont get why sinabi nya pa sa public i mean what for? Patay na yung tatay niya at kung may trauma pa siya pwde naman pumunta sa psychiatrist or medical professionals and heal in private. Grabe na mga tao ngayon wala na tinitira for privacy, too much info.
8:52 bakit? Iyan ba talaga ang tanging sagot para makamit nya ang peace? Ipagkalat sa public yung nangyari sa kanya? Mapapanatag na ba sya after that? Mind you ptay na tatay nya sana binigyan nya man lang ng konting respeto.
8:14 kaya madaming biktima na ayaw magsalita dahil sa mga tulad mo! Kung mangyare sayo o sa anak mo yang ganyan, iapply mo sa inyo mga paniniwala mong bulok! Hindi masamang mag out ng mga taong mah maling ginawa lalo na kung krimen, at mas lalong walang nakakahiya sa pagiging biktima!!
gets ko po mga nagsasabi ng dapat magsalita ang biktima... tama po kayo... but justice is not a one way street... may karapatan din po ang akusado na ipagtanggol ang sarili... sa sitwasyon ni Jonalyn na patay na ang tatay nya, the best po na tumahimik na sya... or mag confide sya sa few trusted people lang... hindi na dapat isapubliko dahil yung akusado wala na pagkakataon na dumepensa.
kasi hindi lahat ng baho kelangan ilantad for what? sympathy empathy ? for fame? for clout? either you get positive or nega reaction pero if i were her id rather keep my secret privately kasi wala na naman magagawa patay na and you continue to lambast then why didnt you do something 10 yrs ago or 15 or 5 ? why now? may purpose and intention eh.
Juice ko mga tita anong klaseng utak meron kyo!! Dapat sa mga kagaya niyo kinukulong din eh! I would never wish what she went thru to any of your family members. And I would never wish for anyone to have you, mga titang walang utak, as a family.
Haha! Rage bait? Pero if not sige. May point naman. BUT! Ito lang din. Wag agad jump to conclusion! Mabigat na paratang yan. Dapat both sides mapakingaan.
Not bursting your bubble pero alam mo bang pwede ding di nangyari yan?? Kung baga nasa utak mo lang. May tawag sa psychology yan eh… lalo sobrang bata ka pa. Need investigate si ra maigi yan lalo ilang years na. Tapos innocent pala pinsan mo it’s all in your head, paano NASA utak?
Bakit kailangan pa irefute? Obviously di ka okay. Wala namang matinong tao mag cclaim na molested sila nung bata specially kadugo niya kung di totoo. Again matinong tao. And Jona seems to be a good person so tingin mo she was only making this story up? You're sick!
this needs to be tackled privately . the voice sometimes wont help you, most of the time will harm you sana nagsalita sya buhay pa tatay or at leadt yrs ago hindi ngayon lang, this has intention
@11:20. Kaya nga may batas tayo innocent until proven guilty dba?? Di guilty muna bago maging innocent. Baka magulat ka ang daming mga tao ganyan made up stories for clout especially nowadays because of… thanks again soc med.
8:38 panoorin mo kase ung interview. Na explain dun. At maganda pagkakalatag nila ni toni.. forgiveness is not a one time thing, its a choice na lagi mong pinipili pag naaalala mo ang ginawa sayo. Kaya mahirap talaga yung naging sitwasyon nya.
8:46 yeah pwede. Pero mas okay pa din na sinabi nya to para may matutunan yung ibang tao. Not all victims can speak out. Some predators pwedeng matauhan at magbago dahil sa pag expose ng kwento na to..
Nope. Wrong move. I know it's best to name drop so people would be careful around him, pero aside sa patay na ang tao, you have to protect you family din. Hindi lang siya ang anak. Artista pa siya. May mga pamangkin na nag aaral. It's painful to keep it to yourself, but for me okay lang as long as I don't have to put my sisters and brother to limelight. Na pag tinignan sila ng tao, iisipin ay anak yan nung rapist l. Ganito ganon. Idk if I made myself clear pero basta ganoon. Pero syempre sabihin sa mga lapatid at pamilya pero huwag ibroadcast sa publiko.
Mga tao sakay agad eh. Basta ito guys, innocent until proven guilty sabi nga ng isa dito.. not otherwise. Deds na tatay nya. D na pwwde kunin side nya. And sa mga nagsasabi sino b naman anak magiimbento.. 🤦🏻♂️ Magugulat kayo how people are nowadays, lalo sa soc med era.
This is so sick.i have no empathy to any molester regardless of age.they deserve a painful death.
ReplyDeleteBefore you react wildly dapat hear mo both sides. Innocent until proven guilty, not guilty until proven innocent!
Delete11:48 Studies show most children don't report until they are adults.
DeleteHow could she have reported it then when she was TEN and her dad was most likely the breadwinner of the family?
Grabe ka girl kasiraan na yan ng pamilya mo, hindi mo na dapat pinag kakalat yan. Yes it happened. We feel you. Pero nakakahiya yung reputasyon ng family ang nakasalalay. Sana you consider man lang. You have many options. You can do therapy, you can confess to a priest, you can go to a peaceful quiet place for a vacation but never mo siraan pamilya mo sa public. I hope my makaintindi sa comment ko. I’m not bashing her.
ReplyDeleteMahiya ka naman sa pinagsasabi mo te.
Deleteyuk ka
DeleteI cannot believe may katulad mong mag isip. Kawawa ang mga taong uunahin pang isipin ang kahihiyan at reputasyon ng iba kesa sa ikabubuti ng sarili.
DeleteGirl! Kumulo yung dugo ko sayo kahit anonymous ka. Mas importante sayo ang kasiraan ng pamilya kaysa sa biktima? You're the problem why there are so many victims na dala dala nila yung trauma hanggang pagtanda nila for the sole reason na itatago nila ito for the sake of the family's reputation. I've worked for an NGO supporting victims so I witnessed firsthand how damaged those children were because they were sexually abused at a young age. At dahil sa mga taong kagaya mo na mismong magulang nila kaya hindi nila ito nasabi kahit kanino, even the police. So they just suffered for many years at paulit ulit ang pang-aabuso until private organizations like us intervened. Sana, sana lang..huwag itong mangyari sa pamilya, kamag-anak, o mga taong malapit sayo.
Deletena gets kita dai, may concert kasi accla sa november kaya watch na tayo
DeleteSame thought kaya lang paniguradong may kokontra satin. Pupwede din naman din yang ireklamo sa kinauukulan kung gusto nya. Pagpipyestahan lang sila ng mga tao. Ok lang kung mag isa syang anak. Kasabihan nga, "Dont wash your dirty linen on public". Kung sabagay crime na din yan eh. So ano gusto nya?..tuligsain ang tatay nya at ipakulong o trial by publicity???
DeleteIsa kang MANGMANG! 8:14
DeleteDAPAT LANG MALAMAN NG BUONG MUNDO KUNG GAANO KASAMA ANG TATAY NIYA.
DeleteWho are you to invalidate her feelings and her decisions na magopen up sa public? It not your story to tell.
DeleteYan na naman tayo sa mga banal banalan atittude niyo eh kaya hindi umaaaenso pinas eh. Mas marunong pa kayo dun sa tao.
Delete9:24 Ka-FP, dirty linen are secrets that are embarrassing or shameful but not necessarily criminal. Sexual abuse is a crime, not just a private family matter. It is not something that should stay secret like the typical "dirty linen." And please, let's not throwing blame or whatever to people like her na ngayon lang naglakas loob sabihin yang ganyang bagay. Remember, she was only 10 when it happened. She probably didn't know it was abuse during that time. Maybe she thought it was just something bad or unusual. Some people like her just found the courage to say it now without feeling shame or hate because they already accepted things and have given forgiveness. It's not about the father anymore, it's about liberating herself. I don't think she wanted the people to crucify the father kaya nga ngayon yung pinili niyang time to talk about it. And why do we care if the father gets the hate in the first place? Why consider the feelings of the offender instead of the victim?
DeleteKaya walang naglalakas ng loob magsumbong because of the people like you.
DeleteI also dont get why sinabi nya pa sa public i mean what for? Patay na yung tatay niya at kung may trauma pa siya pwde naman pumunta sa psychiatrist or medical professionals and heal in private. Grabe na mga tao ngayon wala na tinitira for privacy, too much info.
Delete8:52 bakit? Iyan ba talaga ang tanging sagot para makamit nya ang peace? Ipagkalat sa public yung nangyari sa kanya? Mapapanatag na ba sya after that? Mind you ptay na tatay nya sana binigyan nya man lang ng konting respeto.
Delete8:14 kaya madaming biktima na ayaw magsalita dahil sa mga tulad mo! Kung mangyare sayo o sa anak mo yang ganyan, iapply mo sa inyo mga paniniwala mong bulok! Hindi masamang mag out ng mga taong mah maling ginawa lalo na kung krimen, at mas lalong walang nakakahiya sa pagiging biktima!!
Deletegets ko po mga nagsasabi ng dapat magsalita ang biktima... tama po kayo... but justice is not a one way street... may karapatan din po ang akusado na ipagtanggol ang sarili... sa sitwasyon ni Jonalyn na patay na ang tatay nya, the best po na tumahimik na sya... or mag confide sya sa few trusted people lang... hindi na dapat isapubliko dahil yung akusado wala na pagkakataon na dumepensa.
DeleteTo whoever you are, mahiya ka Sa mindset na meron ka.
Deletekasi hindi lahat ng baho kelangan ilantad for what? sympathy empathy ? for fame? for clout? either you get positive or nega reaction pero if i were her id rather keep my secret privately kasi wala na naman magagawa patay na and you continue to lambast then why didnt you do something 10 yrs ago or 15 or 5 ? why now? may purpose and intention eh.
Delete8;14 mahiya ka at mangilabott kasa pinagkukuda mo dyan. Apaka stupid ng comment mo
Delete11:15, bigyan respeto ang yumaong ama??? Binigyan ba sya ng respeto nito nung hinalay sya nung sampung taong gulang pa lamang sya?!?!
DeleteJuice ko mga tita anong klaseng utak meron kyo!! Dapat sa mga kagaya niyo kinukulong din eh!
DeleteI would never wish what she went thru to any of your family members. And I would never wish for anyone to have you, mga titang walang utak, as a family.
Haha! Rage bait? Pero if not sige. May point naman. BUT! Ito lang din. Wag agad jump to conclusion! Mabigat na paratang yan. Dapat both sides mapakingaan.
Deleteandami pa ding conservative kuno talaga sa Pinas. kayo ang dahilan bakit madaming abuse na nangyayari. my gaaaaad mga enablers!!!!
DeleteDisgusting mentality
DeleteAko din nung 5 yrs old ng 3 ko pinsan.. akala nila di ko matatandaan pinagagagawa nila.. 40 yrs old na ko ngayon
ReplyDeletetotoo yan, kahit maliit ka pa noon maaalala at maaalala mo pa rin
DeletePraying for your complete healing and peace. GOD loves you.
DeleteOh my!! Hugs sissy.
DeleteNot bursting your bubble pero alam mo bang pwede ding di nangyari yan?? Kung baga nasa utak mo lang. May tawag sa psychology yan eh… lalo sobrang bata ka pa. Need investigate si ra maigi yan lalo ilang years na. Tapos innocent pala pinsan mo it’s all in your head, paano NASA utak?
DeletePatay na yun tatay niya. Hindi na din marefute un sinasabi niya.
ReplyDeleteBakit kailangan pa irefute? Obviously di ka okay. Wala namang matinong tao mag cclaim na molested sila nung bata specially kadugo niya kung di totoo. Again matinong tao. And Jona seems to be a good person so tingin mo she was only making this story up? You're sick!
Deletethis needs to be tackled privately . the voice sometimes wont help you, most of the time will harm you sana nagsalita sya buhay pa tatay or at leadt yrs ago hindi ngayon lang, this has intention
Delete@11:20. Kaya nga may batas tayo innocent until proven guilty dba?? Di guilty muna bago maging innocent. Baka magulat ka ang daming mga tao ganyan made up stories for clout especially nowadays because of… thanks again soc med.
DeleteEh bakit nung namatay tatay niya may pa I Will Miss You pa
ReplyDeleteTsk ang babaw naman ng kaisipan mo ghorl
DeleteMaybe because mas matimbang yung love and forgiveness sa puso niya? Many people hurt us but we still say good things to them, right?
DeleteAs harsh as it may sound pero lakas makahypocrite
Delete8:38 panoorin mo kase ung interview. Na explain dun. At maganda pagkakalatag nila ni toni.. forgiveness is not a one time thing, its a choice na lagi mong pinipili pag naaalala mo ang ginawa sayo. Kaya mahirap talaga yung naging sitwasyon nya.
Deleteyes tapos siniraan mo sa public. she should have just talked to God for forgiveness and strength.
DeleteKse po ate may busilak syang kalooban di tulad niyo. May puwang pa rin ang love and forgiveness sa puso nya.
DeleteTBH, she could be lying or true dun and natnggap nya. You cannot pass judgement agad dahil sa salita lang.
DeletePwede naman magpainterview without bearing it all.
ReplyDelete8:46 yeah pwede. Pero mas okay pa din na sinabi nya to para may matutunan yung ibang tao. Not all victims can speak out. Some predators pwedeng matauhan at magbago dahil sa pag expose ng kwento na to..
Deletesa ngalan ng upcoming concert sariling pamilya ilalaglag
Deletematutunan? mag advocate for others pero wag na buksan ang matagal ng sarado! May intention kasi . di maganda to expose this in public
DeleteBakit ngayon pa sinabi kung patay na ang Tatay? at bakit kay Toni ? Eh for the views din naman yan Jona.
ReplyDeletebakit hindi kay Toni?
Deleteyes . bat ngayon lang nauso kasi molestation . tagal na dapat non pa sya nagsalita
DeleteMaglalabasan na naman po yung mga banal banalan at boomer dyan oh 👀
ReplyDeleteYung mga commenter na mas marunong pa dun sa taong involve 🤷
ReplyDeleteNope. Wrong move. I know it's best to name drop so people would be careful around him, pero aside sa patay na ang tao, you have to protect you family din. Hindi lang siya ang anak. Artista pa siya. May mga pamangkin na nag aaral. It's painful to keep it to yourself, but for me okay lang as long as I don't have to put my sisters and brother to limelight. Na pag tinignan sila ng tao, iisipin ay anak yan nung rapist l. Ganito ganon. Idk if I made myself clear pero basta ganoon. Pero syempre sabihin sa mga lapatid at pamilya pero huwag ibroadcast sa publiko.
ReplyDeleteMga tao sakay agad eh. Basta ito guys, innocent until proven guilty sabi nga ng isa dito.. not otherwise. Deds na tatay nya. D na pwwde kunin side nya. And sa mga nagsasabi sino b naman anak magiimbento.. 🤦🏻♂️ Magugulat kayo how people are nowadays, lalo sa soc med era.
ReplyDeleteAng bait mo para magpatawad, child molesters only belong to h**l
ReplyDelete