Huh? Halatang comment ng ignorant kung wala kang actual experience and alam sa topic just sit down and let the experts talk. Di naman ganun lang basta ibig sabihin nun, give and take yan. And my needs ang bawat isa emotionally, physically, psychologically, backed by science yan. Ngayon kung d mo maintindihan yung give and take sa magasawa, better maging matandang dalaga ka na lang.
A wife's job is to nurture and take care of husband and kids A husband's job is to provide and protect the family Ito ang old mindset nakakatak parin sa maraming tao like zoren It can be true, whatever works
Hindi siya red flag. He is actually just stating a fact. I remember a teacher of mine during highschool and this was 90s, she told us wag mong pababayaan ang appearance mo. You have to take care of yourself and your husband as well even though you have kids.
I remember Gelli de Belen said this as well. You have to prioritize your husband coz when your kids grow old kayong 2 ng husband mo pa rin ang maiiwan in the long run.
4:37 😂😂😂give and receive, iniba mo lang words same context sa give and take coz what ever you are taking you are receiving it either given as expectations or given because your spouse wants to give it to you. Sino maysabi sayo na wife’s job lang ang mag alaga ng bata at asawa? Either you are not married yet and attempting to give an expert advice with no life experience or you live in another planet. You are both equally responsible for nurturing your children and marriage and you should be equally responsible for providing food on the table unless what will work for your family is one of you will give up your career and stay home so the kids can be looked after by one parent that is usually delegated to yaya, teacher or tutor or afterschool place. If you can wash dishes, clean, cook and do the laundry your spouse should do that too. The women are not your maid they need a break from their chores too. Husband is not a mule that is obligated to hold 3 jobs just to keep your family afloat, having 2 earning power and sharing child rearing and relationship nurturing is a better role.
9:21 Yun lang ang observation ni Zoren which is the reality and hindi naman jina-justify. Hindi lang naman sa asawa yan, pati sa mga anak, kaibigan even empleyado etc., during vulnerable times, nakakaisip maghanap ng kapalit. Yung marurupok talaga, madaling papatol. In reality, may tukso dito sa mundo. It takes two to tango. Alagaang maigi ang mga mahal sa buhay para hindi maghanap ng kalinga sa labas ng bahay.
9:21 Try mong maghanap ng lalaking kahit hindi mo siya alagaan at kahit hindi mo alagaan ang sarili mo, hindi magtutuksong maghanap ng iba. Hindi yan jinajustify, Lahat ng tao, maski ikaw, want to be taken good care of lalo na ng mga mahal natin sa buhay.
5:43 define alagaan?? Pareho kayong pumasok sa trabaho yet ikaw pa rin luto, laba, alaga ng bata pagdating nyo sa trabaho tapos si Mister nakatunganga sa cellphone or nasa barkada or sabungan or inuman tatawagin mo na lang pag kakain, na, yan ba ang definition mo ng pag aalaga or you BOTH have to nurture your relationship?? Alin ang tama? Lol lol di kayo pinanganak ng Nanay nyo para maging alila ng lalaki, ang baba naman ng tingin nyo sa sarili. Unless being a good provider ay tambay na lang si girl sa bahay at may kasamang yaya, katulong, cook at tagalaba aba aba pag uwi ng husband ko hindi lang masahe ibibigay ko halikan kopa lagi sa rear dahil Donya superstar ako walang role sa buhay kundi mag intay ng asawa dahil lang sa sakal/ kasal.
5:43 so if your husband expects to have a sexy wife in order not to cheat why don’t you expect your husband to have a physically fit body or get rid of his dad bod and pimples so you would not stray too? Give and take my dear not just give give and give,. Are you also expecting him to help with the chores/ kids while you go to the gym and salon for your overdue nails and highlights appointments? If you got home from work do you expect yourself to attack all the chores and just let your husband rest because you are “taking care of him “ let him rest with a massage later after all the chores lol lol lol! 😂 let me guess you never been married are you that’s why you have that living in the lala land ideology.?
1:28 and 5:43 nag aral ka ng college to become an engineer, teacher, doctor, lawyer etc para tumambay lang sa bahay at mag nurture ng anak at husband at make sure you are always drop dead gorgeous and desirable to your hubby lol lol lol.But if you work , do you still get all the brunt of all nurturing and household chores and child rearing lol lol lol what about him? What do you expect from him ? do you expects the same standards? Lol lol 😂
10:03 aka 9:50 aka 9:28 Ang dami mong sinabi for sure wala nang nagbasa ng nobela mo. Itinulog mo na lang sana. Agree ako kay 5:43, maghanap ka ng lalaki/babae na hindi alagain at hindi ka aalagaan. Tingnan mo na lang kung hindi ka hihiwalayan. Period.
9:22 Si Mavy ayaw din humiwalay pa sa kanila si Cassy. Toxic agad ang tawag mo dun? Nasa college pa si Cassy. Kahit may nag-aartista pa siya. Mas laki nga namang tipid kung dun muna siya sa parents niya. Si Mayor Vico nga, kay Connie pa din nakatira.
The real secrets to a satisfying marriage are "happy wife, happy life," "just always say yes dear," and, the most important part, "treat her like a queen." :D :D :D Oh and don't forget, give her all your money ;) ;) ;)
Panahon pa ng kastila yang kwento mo Smiley give her all the money your ar$& tagal nang maraming may 2 income sa pamilya at yaya at kasambahay taga alaga sa mga bata and they don’t rely on just the husband as breadwinner. Take for example kay Carmina and Zoren, although they both work, sino sa kanila ang dere derecho project at my earning power?
I think depende sa set up ng mag asawa. I dont work for 4 yrs now, my husband pays all our bills and wala din kaming anak. sabi nya gawin ko ang gusto ko gawin, sa bahay lang, or mag work kaso ayoko mag work parang nalipasan nako ng corporate world. so ok naman kami, wala naman rason kumayod marino kaming dalawa kasi wla naman kaming anak. kaya naman nya provide lahat ng needs ko
Kasi payat pa din siya Carmina? Lol
ReplyDeleteBetween the two of them Zoren is the one who aged well.
DeleteFace value lang si zoren pero sobrang red flag!
DeleteMagka fez talaga sila ni BB
ReplyDeleteCarbon copy! Bakit kaya?🤔🤔🤔
DeleteHabang tumatanda si C naging magmakamukha na silang dalawa ni BB
Deleteang mag-asawang toxic.
DeleteNakaka aliw silang dalawa, watch nyo full GGV episode nila
ReplyDeleteTrue. Love this couple. Love this family
DeleteMinsan iba iba ang definition ng tao sa long lasting relationship.
ReplyDeleteSuper red flag si koya.. justifying cheating kasi “hindi naaalagan” yung asawang lalaki? Huy.. yaya po kunin mo hindi asawa
ReplyDeleteHuh? Halatang comment ng ignorant kung wala kang actual experience and alam sa topic just sit down and let the experts talk. Di naman ganun lang basta ibig sabihin nun, give and take yan. And my needs ang bawat isa emotionally, physically, psychologically, backed by science yan. Ngayon kung d mo maintindihan yung give and take sa magasawa, better maging matandang dalaga ka na lang.
Delete9:21 lets be realistic. Try mo pabayaan asawa mo? Try mo.
DeleteA wife's job is to nurture and take care of husband and kids
DeleteA husband's job is to provide and protect the family
Ito ang old mindset nakakatak parin sa maraming tao like zoren
It can be true, whatever works
Hindi siya red flag. He is actually just stating a fact. I remember a teacher of mine during highschool and this was 90s, she told us wag mong pababayaan ang appearance mo. You have to take care of yourself and your husband as well even though you have kids.
DeleteI remember Gelli de Belen said this as well. You have to prioritize your husband coz when your kids grow old kayong 2 ng husband mo pa rin ang maiiwan in the long run.
11:17 you have a point. Maraming lalake na nangangaliwa eh yun ang dahilan and nhahanap nya yan sa iba
Delete10:42 give and take is toxic... it's very transactional... give and RECEIVE is the healthy dynamics...
Delete9:21 define napabayaan?
1:28 hindi yan old mindset... that's is actually natural law... maski gaano ka modern ang society, yan talaga ang roles ng masculine at feminine
4:37 😂😂😂give and receive, iniba mo lang words same context sa give and take coz what ever you are taking you are receiving it either given as expectations or given because your spouse wants to give it to you. Sino maysabi sayo na wife’s job lang ang mag alaga ng bata at asawa? Either you are not married yet and attempting to give an expert advice with no life experience or you live in another planet. You are both equally responsible for nurturing your children and marriage and you should be equally responsible for providing food on the table unless what will work for your family is one of you will give up your career and stay home so the kids can be looked after by one parent that is usually delegated to yaya, teacher or tutor or afterschool place. If you can wash dishes, clean, cook and do the laundry your spouse should do that too. The women are not your maid they need a break from their chores too. Husband is not a mule that is obligated to hold 3 jobs just to keep your family afloat, having 2 earning power and sharing child rearing and relationship nurturing is a better role.
Delete9:21 Yun lang ang observation ni Zoren which is the reality and hindi naman jina-justify. Hindi lang naman sa asawa yan, pati sa mga anak, kaibigan even empleyado etc., during vulnerable times, nakakaisip maghanap ng kapalit. Yung marurupok talaga, madaling papatol. In reality, may tukso dito sa mundo. It takes two to tango. Alagaang maigi ang mga mahal sa buhay para hindi maghanap ng kalinga sa labas ng bahay.
Delete1:28 tama si 4:37, hindi yan mindset more on psychological and nature ng male and female.
Delete9:21 Try mong maghanap ng lalaking kahit hindi mo siya alagaan at kahit hindi mo alagaan ang sarili mo, hindi magtutuksong maghanap ng iba. Hindi yan jinajustify, Lahat ng tao, maski ikaw, want to be taken good care of lalo na ng mga mahal natin sa buhay.
Delete5:43 define alagaan?? Pareho kayong pumasok sa trabaho yet ikaw pa rin luto, laba, alaga ng bata pagdating nyo sa trabaho tapos si Mister nakatunganga sa cellphone or nasa barkada or sabungan or inuman tatawagin mo na lang pag kakain, na, yan ba ang definition mo ng pag aalaga or you BOTH have to nurture your relationship?? Alin ang tama? Lol lol di kayo pinanganak ng Nanay nyo para maging alila ng lalaki, ang baba naman ng tingin nyo sa sarili. Unless being a good provider ay tambay na lang si girl sa bahay at may kasamang yaya, katulong, cook at tagalaba aba aba pag uwi ng husband ko hindi lang masahe ibibigay ko halikan kopa lagi sa rear dahil Donya superstar ako walang role sa buhay kundi mag intay ng asawa dahil lang sa sakal/ kasal.
Delete5:43 so if your husband expects to have a sexy wife in order not to cheat why don’t you expect your husband to have a physically fit body or get rid of his dad bod and pimples so you would not stray too? Give and take my dear not just give give and give,. Are you also expecting him to help with the chores/ kids while you go to the gym and salon for your overdue nails and highlights appointments? If you got home from work do you expect yourself to attack all the chores and just let your husband rest because you are “taking care of him “ let him rest with a massage later after all the chores lol lol lol! 😂 let me guess you never been married are you that’s why you have that living in the lala land ideology.?
Delete1:28 and 5:43 nag aral ka ng college to become an engineer, teacher, doctor, lawyer etc para tumambay lang sa bahay at mag nurture ng anak at husband at make sure you are always drop dead gorgeous and desirable to your hubby lol lol lol.But if you work , do you still get all the brunt of all nurturing and household chores and child rearing lol lol lol what about him? What do you expect from him ? do you expects the same standards? Lol lol 😂
Delete10:03 aka 9:50 aka 9:28 Ang dami mong sinabi for sure wala nang nagbasa ng nobela mo. Itinulog mo na lang sana. Agree ako kay 5:43, maghanap ka ng lalaki/babae na hindi alagain at hindi ka aalagaan. Tingnan mo na lang kung hindi ka hihiwalayan. Period.
DeleteI think may pagka toxic itong si Zoren. Di ba nagpupumilit bumukod yung daughter?
ReplyDeleteOkay na 9:21 basher ka lang
Delete9:22 Si Mavy ayaw din humiwalay pa sa kanila si Cassy. Toxic agad ang tawag mo dun? Nasa college pa si Cassy. Kahit may nag-aartista pa siya. Mas laki nga namang tipid kung dun muna siya sa parents niya. Si Mayor Vico nga, kay Connie pa din nakatira.
DeleteShe looks like bibi gandanghari from afar!
ReplyDeleteEh db nga kaya attracted c Ruston sa kanya kasi nga si carmina ang peg nya pag naging babae sha. Ngayon bb na sha na achieve nya na magkamuka sila
DeleteParang ginaya tlga ni BB
DeleteOhh makes sense. Parang yun si husband ni Joey Mead twinnies na din sila.
DeleteAng Ganda pa rin ni Carmina.looking Young!!!
ReplyDeleteNatatapangan ako sa mukha nya, lalo na pag wala sya sa mood o pag galit sya.😳
DeleteAng Tagal na rin Nila almost 25 Yrs na rin silang magkasama..Isa sila sa mga favorite ko na couple sa showbiz..
ReplyDeleteShe looks good for 50!
ReplyDeleteThe real secrets to a satisfying marriage are "happy wife, happy life," "just always say yes dear," and, the most important part, "treat her like a queen." :D :D :D Oh and don't forget, give her all your money ;) ;) ;)
ReplyDeleteYou got it right for the first time smiley. A wife deserves all that and more
DeletePanahon pa ng kastila yang kwento mo Smiley give her all the money your ar$& tagal nang maraming may 2 income sa pamilya at yaya at kasambahay taga alaga sa mga bata and they don’t rely on just the husband as breadwinner. Take for example kay Carmina and Zoren, although they both work, sino sa kanila ang dere derecho project at my earning power?
DeleteI think depende sa set up ng mag asawa. I dont work for 4 yrs now, my husband pays all our bills and wala din kaming anak. sabi nya gawin ko ang gusto ko gawin, sa bahay lang, or mag work kaso ayoko mag work parang nalipasan nako ng corporate world. so ok naman kami, wala naman rason kumayod marino kaming dalawa kasi wla naman kaming anak. kaya naman nya provide lahat ng needs ko
Delete9:14, better to have extra money to invest. Kapag nagkasakit ang asawa mo, doon ka naman maghahabol magtrabaho.
DeleteBoth Good Looking!!Ageless!
ReplyDeleteIn fareness huh? Bumait talaga si Zoren after maging sila ni Carmina. Positive influence na sa wife, positive influence pa sa church niya.
ReplyDeleteParang pastor SI zoren before
DeleteI remember nung si Carmina yung may mga dramas, Zoren was willing and not ashamed of being called house husband.
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