Just imagine if the headline reads... "Mylene Dizon Wants Daughters to Make It On Their Own, Not Leaving Them Her Solid Assets" :D :D :D There will be outrage and MD will be cancelled ;) ;) ;)
even people like elton john, shaquille, kevin o'leary mentioned that they will not give their children inheritance. they will provide for basic needs and education, pero the kids should build their fortune on their own. pinoy mindset yang mag anak para may mag alaga pag tanda.
Ganyan yon pagiisip non mga anak na mana lang ang gusto sa magulang. Tapos ni hindi man lang mabisita or maalagaan yon magulang at kung may kapatid, pagaawayan pa yon mana.
Mga anak na TAMAD at walang abilidad na kumita ng pera lang naman ang magagalit sa ganyang setup. Aasa sa inheritance only to squander it in a short period of time. Iba ang perang pinaghirapan. How lazy can you get
So you mean to say you're just after your parents money and assets and not because of love and concern? Baka gawin din sa'yo ng anak mo yan. Teach your children the value of money and hard work. Para kahit wala ka na eh makatayo pa din ang mga anak mo sa sarili nilang mga paa
1045 ang responsibilidad ng magulang yung arugain ka nung bata ka, pagaralin ka, bihisan, bigyan ng maayos na tahanan, turuan ng mabuting asal at busugin sa pagmamahal. Kapag kaya mo na bonus na lang na pamanahin ka pa ng properties o pera. Ginawa na ng magulang ang part nya para matuto ka on your own. Kung hindi ka pinamanahan right nya yon na gawin ano gusto nya sa pera nya sa knya yon, hindi mo yon pera at maaring paraan din nya ito para hindi ka mag depend sa mana at maging mas madiskarte ka sa buhay…
Actually, it’s a good training not only for kids but for parents as well. Na acquire ng nanay ang property and not the other way around. Teach them how to fish! Yun cancel culture di nakakatulong magpalaki ng batang di palaasa. Ang anak ko po dahil pamimsan minsan nabibigyan ng konting pera ng tita ay hindi po sa akin humihingi ng allowance pati sa soccer fee sya na po ang nagbabayad 3 years na. Hindi ko po pinalaki ang anak ko na palahingi pero generous po akong nanay sa kanya. I taught him that money from her aunt were earned per hour dito po sa Japan. Kaya hindi basta humihingi. Kung bibigyan ka salamat kung wala naman salamat. Sana po ganun din gawin natin sa anak natin esp sa single moms. Single mom po Ako kaya kita ng anak ko ang hirap kumita ng konting pera.
11:36 sa tingin mo other people will care for her well being more than her own children ? Ilang seniors na nag scam out of their assets because they trusted carers ? This mindset is terrible. You think she will be happy spending time with her caretakers rather than her own children and grandchildren?
1:35 inheritance is more than just about money. It represents love and legacy. Komo may pera ang isang tao you dont think it won't hurt Kung unfair ang hatian ng parents ? It will destroy the relationship of the siblings and grandchildren.
Kawawa tLaga mga anak dyan sa Pinas. Pag inabuso honor thy mother and father daw. Pero sila ang gagawin retirement plan ng karamihan as you can see sa dami ng OFW at napatol sa matanda. Na afam. Pag naman may kakayahan tama pa din ang magulang pag ayaw mag pa mana sa anak.
1:33 Kung may papamana eh di ipamana. Kung wala eh di wala. Mylene was just trying to say na iba pa din ang taong masikap, maabilidad at independent. Gaya niya. So yun din ang gusto niyang mangyari
if you watched the interview sbi ko ay sayang nman mas doon ako sa me legacy na maiwan sya but nabilib lng ako doon s mas nag focus sya s the money i have right now can afford the best education na pwd nya mabigay s mga anak nya and she is a single mom so that it will be a tool na maging dependent sila on their own sila s anuman ang plans in their future which is a great mindset for me kse alam nila they have to work hard kse walang aashan na inheritance and di nman sya nagkukukang doon kse mga nak nya are even studying abroad
Anong gustong patunayan ng mga parents na ganyan? Hindi naman gusto ng mga anak nila na pinanganak sila sa mundong toh. Parents should give everything sa anak nila hanggat kaya nila. Pinanganak nila para mag hirap ganun? :)
Pinag aral nga diba after mag aral ano gagawin? Mag work diba? To earn their own money, ayaw mo sa mga nagsusumikap? This only applies to parents na may maipapamana LOL
Ahy ang punto ni mylene maging independent sila matuto magwork hard kasi mga bata ngayon entitled. Gusto lahat isubo na lang. Ayaw rin nya rin siguro umasa sa kanila kaya ang pundar nya kanya or bigay sz kawang gawa which Ayun naman ang utos ni Lord
iba ang method nya so her children can make it on their own kumbaga mas nag iinvest sya na kayanin ng mga anak s buhay sa sarili nilang kakayanan and shes proving them with good education bet k nga ganun kse alam na ay wala pla kming yaman o aasahan so we have to work hard bonus na lng kune me extra pa pag namatay ako na pwdng iwanan kse itotodo k sguro s support to mold them na maging independent hanggang kaya na nila
Alam mo na na sinabi nya sa interview nya na right now e best education ang binabaybay ng 2 sons nya. She said na she's giving them the best education that her money can buy/afford para may magamit sila sa buhay nila kapag graduate na sila. Ung mom at dad ko madaming mana from parents pero di ko inaasahan un kasi nakapagtapos naman ako, 2 courses pa kasi supportive parents ko. Now my mom is planning to sell her properties at mag enjoy sa life, sabi ko go ahead, pag aari naman nya mga un. Kahit I tour around the world nya or spend it all sa Las Vegas, it is hers, importante happy sya. At wala na ako mahihingi pa kasi nagampanan nya pagiging nanay nya sa aming magkakapatid
why are you offended? kids don't have a right to be offended over this because parents have a right to do whatever they with their money/properties as long as they provide food, shelter, clothing and basic care to their kids, that's fine. college education is just bonus in my opinion. i think you're just entitled lazy offspring.
Hindi naman pala 12:34. Sorry naman hindi ako naglagay #sarcasm para maintindihan mo 12:26 comment ko. I watched the video. Ang talino mo kasi para i-compare si Mylene kay Jackie Chan.
12:49 she's too poor to buy because she is spending her money now for her sons' education. Na makakatulong sa future nila. Ok na? May lupa nga na mamanahin mga anak mo, pero di mo naman napag aral to optimize their potnetial, eventually baka di din magtaval yang mana nila.
I applaud her for this resolve. It likely took a lot. I am not a parent. But I think, in most cases, it’ll take so much restraint for a parent to not want to leave behind something for her kids para makagaan-gaan sila sa buhay. It’s a priceless lesson she’s giving them.
ako nga nagka realization sa video na eto e una isip ko din sayang nman but its also a good way na alam nilang walang aasahan kung d magtitiyaga dami nang mayaman na ganyan pag naubos ung mana dhil hindi marunong s buhay nganga na after
Magandang way din yan para hinsi nakafocus ang mga kamaganak/pamilya sa makukuha nila sayo after your death. Kasi kapag alam na nila beforehand na hinsi sa aknila mapupunta, makikita mo ang authentic na ugali. Madaminh relasyon na ng magkakapamilya ang nasira dahil sa mana.at hatian sa mana.
Sana pinanood mo video para malaman mo na nire-rentahan nya lang yang property nya. As for her other assets, wala na tayong pakialam kung san nya daldahin o ibibigay pag nawala na sya
Malamang Mylene and her kids are enjoying it now. Kaya nga she is giving the best schools she can afford for her kids kaya kung walang mamanahin eh binigyan nman ni Mylene ng magandanh buhay at education ang mga anak nya.
9:59 correct! Ang daming butt hurt dito na mga anak na nag eexpect or mga magulang na nakatanggap din kasi ng mana…your kid, your rule. She wants to spend her $ while she’s alive, then let her be, hindi naman sya nag kulang as a mother.
As a parent, I find this ridiculous. Nagwork kami ng husband ko to give our children the best life, and I want them to not worry about their future anymore. Tuturuan pa rin namin silang maging independent, pero lahat ng kung anong meron kami eh sakanila lahat maiwan
11_20pm. I'm with you. As parents we work hard for our children. Why give them to others? You can give some to charities but more to the children, Life is short and what if something happen to her? Will other people take good care of her? She might have money now but in the long run what if she runs out?
Eto yung klase ng magulang na nangguiguilt trip sa anak LOL. Yung tipon pinundar namin itong negosyong ito para sa inyo kaya manahin nyo. E pano kung ayaw ng anak nyo yung negosyo nyo at iba ang gawin? O kung gusto pala magmigrate at ayaw tumira sa malaking bahay na pinundar nyo? Tinatali nyo mga anak nyo sa mga pangarap nyo. Ego nyo lang din yan na may napatunayan kayo hiding in the guise of providing for your children's future.
As a parent, that's the least you can do to your children. It wasn't their choice to be born in the first place. This isn't something to be proud of. I respect and admire those parents who make make sure their children will live a good life even after they're gone by leaving them with inheritance.
Then you're a parent that doesn't know how to be one. Di mo sila tinuturuan ng value of money and hard work. If a person wants money, he must work hard for it. Kahit sa bible walang karapatan kumain ang hindi nagtrabaho. You're teaching your kids to be lazy and dependent on you for money and everything. Tapos lahat ng ipapamana mo gagastusin lang nila dahil di nila pinaghirapan. In the end, mahihirapan din sila kung bankrupt na sila at hindi marunong magtrabaho
True. I agree with Mylene. But that doesn't mean I will follow her. Ang taas na ng properties pag time na ng anak ko, i want to buy a prime lot for him that he can use when he grow up and build his own family one day.
Luh. Ikaw yata ang hindi magulang. Cos if u are, tignan natin kung matitiis mo mga anak mo. Anong gagawin ko sa pinaghirapan ko kung di rin lang naman mapapakinabangan ng anak ko. Di naman ibig sabihin eh tuturuan mo na sila maging tamad at asa kapag ganun. Depende pa rin yun sa pagpapalaki mo ano. - not 11:41
my parents are retired now middle class kmi but nkapag invest sila so alam namin ngayon p lng meron makukuha but di kmi naka tingin doon we are really on our own now kse gusto nmin ma enjoy nila un today and whatever na maiwan salamat but kinakareer namin ang mga sarili nmin buhay at pamilya na ngayon salamat s education and guidance s buhay
Why the need to do this and share it in public? Kung may bisyo yung mga anak niya o hindi siya trinato ng maayos, maiintindihan ko na way ito to teach them a lesson. Pero kung hindi naman, hindi ito deserved ng mga anak niya.
Deserved because? Kung gustong gastusin ng magulang ang pera niya at walang ipamana sa anak, then so be it. As long as napaaral ang anak at nasagot ang basic needs. That's more than enough. Otherwise mahinang nilalang lang yun anak para magalit at hindi napamanahan
The dad of Bill Gates who was a prominent and wealthy lawyer , plus the mom who came from old money gave him seed money for his startup . They sent him also in the best schools since grade school . Even Zuckerberg, his parents were the first investors . They gave them a huge head start .
Bill gates will be leaving 1% of USD152 B to his kids to share. Warren buffet will be leaving 2B for his family to share. Leaving nothing to your children is ridiculous. You should train up a child to be worth of their inheritance and allow them to become stewards of your wealth. This is written in the Bible.
I watched the entire video. Mylene’s point was just for her sons to work hard and stand on their own two feet. Hindi yung naka depende sa inheritance. May mga ganung anak na dependent na lang talaga sa trust fund or kung anong minana nila from their parents. Mylene kasi based on what she shared, became independent at a young age, and she chose to follow her dreams even if that meant leaving her family in the US. Look at her, she is a very secured and strong woman kasi she faced life’s struggles alone. Kaya ganyan din yung gusto nyang mindset for her children. For those who left a negative comment, I suggest you watch the video first. It may not be the usual and the ideal direction of parents for their children, it’s her own children so wala na tayong say dun.
So ang way nya na turuan yung anak eh pag damutan? Kahit may pamana or wala kung tuturuan nya ng tama hindi yan aasa sakanya. Hindi yung parang kasalanan pa ng mga bata na pinanganak sila ng nanay nila
Di naman pagdamutan, 2:06. As a parent you equip your kids so they can navigate life on their own. You provide basic needs, education, core life experiences. For all you know by the time nagtatrabaho na ang mga anak nya, mas mayaman pa sila sa nanay nila and they won’t need whatever she has now.
Sya lang yan, anak nya yan, at pera nya yan. Do what’s best for you.
Thats well and good. Ako I dont plan to financially support my kids as they try to navigate through their young lives except for school and vacation. However when im in my 60s to 70s , they will be full grown adults hopefully with a family of their own so you better believe they're getting everything i worked hard for.this life can be a roller coaster. I want to leave them and their family additional security as much as im able to. That's more meaningful to me than spending it on luxury etc.
1:56 that is you. My siblings and I are different… my mom plans on selling the house she worked hard for here in Canada and downgrade to a little condo. She told us she will give us a little share once the house is sold. All of us said, don’t and use it for her retirement to finally enjoy her life. My mom sacrificed a lot for us to be here and to provide food. If your children’s mindset is like ours, I think you did your part as a parent- nurture the kid and helped the kid grow to forge his/her own path. If you showed love and support to your kids while they’re growing up, honestly, the kid/s shouldn’t expect any inheritance.
7:56 not sure why you said that is you.. as if what i said is a negative thing. Im benefiting from inheritance, like my parents did, my grandparents, and generations before them. Many of my friends and their families are the same, my children's friends are the same. I guess we all believe what it says in Proverbs, a good man leaves inheritance to his children's children. Either way im not here to fight just showing a different perspective.
11:03 so it has become maybe a tradition in your family and that is okay…and I am not even fighting lol, I also am just showing a different perspective, coming from a child’s… PS: we don’t expect any inheritance because we hustle hard and have our own money anyway. If mom eventually leaves us money then we will be grateful but there are NO expectations because honestly, we want her to enjoy her money. And I’m proud to say to myself that all I have built for- house, investments are all on my own, without a single penny from any inheritance. I plan to impart the same mentality to my kids because honestly it feels really good to have something that you built on your own for real… no “bili ni mommy yung lupa, or regalo nila papa yung kotse, etc” I actually would be shy to accept gifts like that. And this is me… and my siblings. Mom paying for our vacation sure! But to buy us a house or lot, or get shares from their properties? that’s a different ball game. We want it to come from our hard earned money. Besides, here in US, 60s to 70s is still young! They need money to for their daily expense and enjoy life, we won’t take that away from them
If a parent taught their child well, they would know not to fully depend on mom and dad financially, common sense yan kasi ang mabuting anak ay ayaw naging burden sa magulang. However as a parent, its best to pass something down, kahit pang allowance or source of investment para lang ipagtabi. Kasi youll never know baka the kid might go into misfortunate situations (aka naging mahirap ang buhay, nagkasakit, nawalan ng work), its a way to make them feel na di sila napabayaan. Ung iba kasi feeling waldas ang anak nila. Well baka di mo din tinuruan kung pano mag work and its more of the parents' insecurity to show they're a good parent than it is a lesson in hard work. Mylene also knows her kids more than us so ifactor din yon.
Panoorin mo interview. The best education ang sabi ni Mylene ipapamana niya. Her kids are studying abroad. Infernes sa kids mga matatalino at honor students, napalaking maayos they will not go poor
Naku. You can teach your kids to be independent and self reliant while still giving them something when youre gone. Bakit super yaman ba sya? Bat magdadamot pa. Her children could use those assets to star a business. Ang damot naman ng magulang na to.
Yes it's also two different time frames. Teaching them while they're still young, by the time Mylene is old there is nothing to be taught any more..that should be when parents lovingly leave assets for the future generation. Saying this in public is awful.
Ang sabi SOLID ASSETS….so malamang may trust fund at insurance na yung mga anak nya and they need to use that to establish their future. The kids need to strive on their own
Gets ko ung point ni mylene. Pero as someone who grew up in a traditional loving family (so i am speaking from my own exp), parang masa-sad ako if di ako pamanahan ng magulang ko, though i know pera nila yun so wala akong say.
Ako kasi, single pa ako now and nagpagawa ako ng last will in case something bad happens to me *knock on wood*, mostly ng assets ko mapupunta sa parents ko, ung iba sa mga kapatid ko. Kasi i love them at wala naman akong ibang pagbibigyan.
Maiintindihan ko pa si mylene if her kids are toxic and tamad, di talaga deserve pamanahan. Pero wala pa naman yata siyang anak (hindi ako aware if meron man sorry). Parang kung naging mabuting anak naman, pamanahan mo naman.
Yup. That is you. But it doesn’t mean she’s a bad parent. Kung pinag aral naman nya, she attended all their events and was supportive of their goals in life, hindi na experience ma gutom ng mga bata, then she did part na as a parent. Let your parents enjoy their money pag adult na rin naman lahat kayo and what if mag kasakit sila? At least they have money to spend and hindi na aasa sa inyo. The house for example na maiiwan if they go, can be used for their funeral expenses instead. Kung ano na lang matira then siguro you can use it for your own. My mom told me hindi nya ako pamamanahan kasi she said she will just use the money while she’s alive to build memories with us ( her children) instead. I agreed… Mas gusto ko yung idea na yun… we travel together and make memories kesa sa bigyan kami ng pera pag patay na sya… aanhin namin yun? We have our own naman but I appreciate it when she does grocery shopping and pay for them, or for example pay my kid’s tournament fee and the hotel let’s say we need prior the tournament. She also pays for the meals in the restaurant… that’s how she wanted to spend her money- instead na ipon ipon daw tapos ipapamana. Honestly, mas na appreciate ko yun. We had a wonderful time in New York and recently sa Europe. I don’t need her inheritance, her spending time with me and her grand children is more than enough. I also know a lawyer na ang specialty sa mga ganyan na inheritance and assets and sakit sa ulo daw kasi nag aaway away ang mga anak. So I think my mom’s idea is right. To spend her money building memories with us na lang magakakapatid. And if may natira and she gave it to my siblings I won’t get sad either. Her money, her rules. She spent some with me while she’s alive and that is more than enough.
1:17 di ba? Bakit ka ma sasad kung wala kang mana? Kung pinag aral naman tayo and they spent $ making memories with us while they’re alive bakit pa ba tayo mag expect ng mana? Sapat na dapat ang ginawa nila sa atin. Hindi porket mabuti kang anak, deserve mo ng mana, what a mentality. If the child is really kind, she/he won’t actually expect, and she/he would rather have her parents enjoy their money.
Dami na naman triggered dito on both sides ng opinyon. Siempre charet charet lang yan dios ko nagpapaniwala kayo sa mga artista, artista nga di ba? Maraming arte chareng! Kesehodang ayaw nila or kung anu mang kacharotan eh sa mga anak parin mapupunta.
Anong punto ng hard work nya if she doesn't give her kids any inheritance? Pahirapan na makabili ng property ang future generation, a property or inheritance would have given them a head start in life. Pwede naman siguro turuan ng financial planning ang anak para hindi ma squander yung mana.
I respect her decision, but I think it is best to teach our children how to work smart and invest in properties, stocks and businesses along side with good education para mapamanahan mo man sila o hindi, they will know what to do in life especially sa ipapamana mo in case. Intelligent wealthy do this like sila Henry Gokongwei and the Ayalas.
I respect her decision, but I think it is best to teach our children how to work smart and invest in properties, stocks and businesses along side with good education para mapamanahan mo man sila o hindi, they will know what to do in life especially sa ipapamana mo in case. Intelligent wealthy do this like sila Henry Gokongwei and the Ayalas.
Sa lahat ng magulang dito tandaan niyo, your children didn’t ask to be here. Desisyon niyo na dalhin sila sa mundo. So whether you like it or not, it is your responsibility to give them a good life.
6:39 Kakasuka na mga ganitong pov na "desisyon nyo sila dalin sa mundo blah blah blah" Kaya mga pinoy sa pinas may mga asawa at anak na nakatira pa din sa magulang, pinapa-ako sa mga magulang ang responsibilidad kahit ugod ugod na ang mga magulang kaya tumigil ka nga! Ginagawa na ni Mylene ang obligation nya bulag ka ba? Sino ba sa tingin mo nag susuppport sa living expenses ng mga anak nya sa ibang bansa habang nag aaral sila, diba si Mylene? Paano ba lumaki yang nga anak nya sino ba nag provide, hindi ba si Mylene? So ano pake mo kung ang desisyon nya is to teach her sons to earn their own money, anong mali dun? At least naging prangka sya sa mga anak nya as early as now na wala syang ipapamana para mag sikap ng mabuti ang mga anak. Mas gusyo ko na yang ganyan kesa maging tamad mga anak at mag depende lang sa ipamamana.
1:53 Are you living under a rock? Jusko ang daming anak mayaman na tamad! Ok ka lang ba? Sa earth ka ba nakatira? Bakit di mo alam? Oo hindi lahat ng anak eh magiging tamad pag may mana, pero yung tanong mo na saan ko nakuha na komo may mana ang anak eh magiging tamad na, ang sagot ko syo ay abot sa imo, wala ka sa realidad! smh
Fyi, kahit ano pa sa sabihin nya protected ng batas ang legitime entitlement ng mga anak nya kesehoda may last will ka pa hindi pwede maapektado ang legitime ng anak. Ibibigay yan ng batas. At kapag wala ka na hindi ka pwede magreklamo.
Hindi nya pwedeng gawin yan sa pilipinas. Ang civil code natin may tinatawag na compulsory heirs. Ibig sabihin di mo pwedeng hindi pamamanahan ang mga compulsory heirs mo kagaya ng anak at asawa. Kahit ilagay mo sa will na pupunta lahat sa charity ng ari-arian mo, di papansinin ng korte yan
Basta para sakin kung meron ako iiwan ko lahat sa mga anak ko. Kung wala naman, eencourage ko mga anak ko na mag sumikap para mapaganda ang buhay nila.
Ang mga tao dito pinakikialaman ang decision ni Mylene. My gosh! Do what you want, and she can do whatever she wants because that's her money! Magrespetuhan tayo hindi yong gusto ninyo masunod. omg! you guys are toxic really.
Sana maisip din ng mga nagpapamana na tinatali nila mga anak nila sa mga mana na yan. What if ayaw ng anak nyo sa negosyong pinundar nyo? O ayaw nila tumira sa bahay na pinaghirapan nyo? You are somehow limiting your kids. Ego nyo lang naman din yan na may naipundar kayo.
Kami di kami mayaman, and while we appreciate na pinamanahan kami ng bahay at lupa na pinaghirapan hulugan ng parents namin, minsan naisip ko sana we took that family trip instead, or sana better school na lang kami or we invested on family health. Kasi now, we are all based abroad pero somehow, kailangan pa namin ngayon intindihin yung pinamana sa amin. I also know of a few friends who feel tied down with their family business.
Just imagine if the headline reads... "Mylene Dizon Wants Daughters to Make It On Their Own, Not Leaving Them Her Solid Assets" :D :D :D There will be outrage and MD will be cancelled ;) ;) ;)
ReplyDeleteDon’t think so.
DeleteHer money, her choice! Kung si Barron Hilton nga, 97% ng yaman napunta sa charities, siya pa kaya?
DeleteEtong si smiley pa-I-KNOW-IT-ALL ang peg lagi. 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteTrue! Kala mo siya tama sa lahat lahat 🤣🤣🤣
Deletepansin ko din. hit or miss naman comments ni smiley. madalas naman sablay!
DeleteKung ganya lang din ang parents, eh magkanya2x nalang din make sure na pag matanda na siya di siya lalapit sa mga anak niya 😂
ReplyDeleteGinaya mo pa sa ugali mo.
DeleteTransactional ba ang tingin mo sa parent-child relationship. What’s wrong with you???
DeleteAs she should! I am not raising my children so they can help me out when im old. Hindi sila insurance!
DeleteI’m sure she’s prepared for her retirement. Bakit mo naman ina-assume na lalapit sya sa mga anak nya pag matanda na sya?
DeleteKaya nga
Deleteeven people like elton john, shaquille, kevin o'leary mentioned that they will not give their children inheritance. they will provide for basic needs and education, pero the kids should build their fortune on their own. pinoy mindset yang mag anak para may mag alaga pag tanda.
DeleteGanyan din si Bill Gates at Jackie Chan. Walang iiwan sa mga anak. Si Bill Gates sa charity ibibigay.
DeleteGanyan yon pagiisip non mga anak na mana lang ang gusto sa magulang. Tapos ni hindi man lang mabisita or maalagaan yon magulang at kung may kapatid, pagaawayan pa yon mana.
DeleteMga anak na TAMAD at walang abilidad na kumita ng pera lang naman ang magagalit sa ganyang setup. Aasa sa inheritance only to squander it in a short period of time. Iba ang perang pinaghirapan. How lazy can you get
DeleteSo you mean to say you're just after your parents money and assets and not because of love and concern? Baka gawin din sa'yo ng anak mo yan. Teach your children the value of money and hard work. Para kahit wala ka na eh makatayo pa din ang mga anak mo sa sarili nilang mga paa
DeleteSana wala kang anak and kung meron man, I pity you dahil sa ganyang mentality mo
Delete1045 ang responsibilidad ng magulang yung arugain ka nung bata ka, pagaralin ka, bihisan, bigyan ng maayos na tahanan, turuan ng mabuting asal at busugin sa pagmamahal. Kapag kaya mo na bonus na lang na pamanahin ka pa ng properties o pera. Ginawa na ng magulang ang part nya para matuto ka on your own. Kung hindi ka pinamanahan right nya yon na gawin ano gusto nya sa pera nya sa knya yon, hindi mo yon pera at maaring paraan din nya ito para hindi ka mag depend sa mana at maging mas madiskarte ka sa buhay…
DeleteIf a parent still needs to approach her kids just to be helped by them, then tama nga si Mylene.
DeleteActually, it’s a good training not only for kids but for parents as well. Na acquire ng nanay ang property and not the other way around. Teach them how to fish! Yun cancel culture di nakakatulong magpalaki ng batang di palaasa.
DeleteAng anak ko po dahil pamimsan minsan nabibigyan ng konting pera ng tita ay hindi po sa akin humihingi ng allowance pati sa soccer fee sya na po ang nagbabayad 3 years na. Hindi ko po pinalaki ang anak ko na palahingi pero generous po akong nanay sa kanya. I taught him that money from her aunt were earned per hour dito po sa Japan. Kaya hindi basta humihingi. Kung bibigyan ka salamat kung wala naman salamat. Sana po ganun din gawin natin sa anak natin esp sa single moms. Single mom po Ako kaya kita ng anak ko ang hirap kumita ng konting pera.
11:36 sa tingin mo other people will care for her well being more than her own children ? Ilang seniors na nag scam out of their assets because they trusted carers ? This mindset is terrible. You think she will be happy spending time with her caretakers rather than her own children and grandchildren?
Delete1:35 inheritance is more than just about money. It represents love and legacy. Komo may pera ang isang tao you dont think it won't hurt Kung unfair ang hatian ng parents ? It will destroy the relationship of the siblings and grandchildren.
DeleteKawawa tLaga mga anak dyan sa Pinas. Pag inabuso honor thy mother and father daw. Pero sila ang gagawin retirement plan ng karamihan as you can see sa dami ng OFW at napatol sa matanda. Na afam. Pag naman may kakayahan tama pa din ang magulang pag ayaw mag pa mana sa anak.
Delete10:25 Toxic parent spotted!
Delete1:33 Kung may papamana eh di ipamana. Kung wala eh di wala. Mylene was just trying to say na iba pa din ang taong masikap, maabilidad at independent. Gaya niya. So yun din ang gusto niyang mangyari
Delete1:22 clearly hindi compulsory mag pa mana. But kung meron and you deliberately disingerit your heirs thats the issue.
DeleteAng bongga may beach house
ReplyDeleteLease lang
DeleteRent lang yung place at lote pero pinapaayos niya. Sabi nga niya hindi niya madadala sa material things pag namatay siya
DeleteLol
Deleteif you watched the interview sbi ko ay sayang nman mas doon ako sa me legacy na maiwan sya but nabilib lng ako doon s mas nag focus sya s the money i have right now can afford the best education na pwd nya mabigay s mga anak nya and she is a single mom so that it will be a tool na maging dependent sila on their own sila s anuman ang plans in their future which is a great mindset for me kse alam nila they have to work hard kse walang aashan na inheritance and di nman sya nagkukukang doon kse mga nak nya are even studying abroad
DeleteAnong gustong patunayan ng mga parents na ganyan? Hindi naman gusto ng mga anak nila na pinanganak sila sa mundong toh. Parents should give everything sa anak nila hanggat kaya nila. Pinanganak nila para mag hirap ganun? :)
ReplyDeletePinag aral nga diba after mag aral ano gagawin? Mag work diba? To earn their own money, ayaw mo sa mga nagsusumikap? This only applies to parents na may maipapamana LOL
DeleteEducation and right values are the best gifts u can give your children.
Deleteyung ganyan klaseng magulang yung may mga “utang na loob” mindset
DeleteTrue… as someone na gustong magkaanak but afraid na hindi ko mabibigay sakanila ang best life for them kaya nagdadalawang isip talaga ako
DeleteThats not what she said tho 💁🏽♂️
DeleteAhy ang punto ni mylene maging independent sila matuto magwork hard kasi mga bata ngayon entitled. Gusto lahat isubo na lang. Ayaw rin nya rin siguro umasa sa kanila kaya ang pundar nya kanya or bigay sz kawang gawa which Ayun naman ang utos ni Lord
DeleteYou can teach them to be independent 12:13 ng hindi sila pinagdadamutan
DeleteShe's teaching her children to carve their own path. She can afford to have this option.
DeleteThose who think otherwise, well...
iba ang method nya so her children can make it on their own kumbaga mas nag iinvest sya na kayanin ng mga anak s buhay sa sarili nilang kakayanan and shes proving them with good education bet k nga ganun kse alam na ay wala pla kming yaman o aasahan so we have to work hard bonus na lng kune me extra pa pag namatay ako na pwdng iwanan kse itotodo k sguro s support to mold them na maging independent hanggang kaya na nila
DeleteAlam mo na na sinabi nya sa interview nya na right now e best education ang binabaybay ng 2 sons nya. She said na she's giving them the best education that her money can buy/afford para may magamit sila sa buhay nila kapag graduate na sila. Ung mom at dad ko madaming mana from parents pero di ko inaasahan un kasi nakapagtapos naman ako, 2 courses pa kasi supportive parents ko. Now my mom is planning to sell her properties at mag enjoy sa life, sabi ko go ahead, pag aari naman nya mga un. Kahit I tour around the world nya or spend it all sa Las Vegas, it is hers, importante happy sya. At wala na ako mahihingi pa kasi nagampanan nya pagiging nanay nya sa aming magkakapatid
Deletewhy are you offended? kids don't have a right to be offended over this because parents have a right to do whatever they with their money/properties as long as they provide food, shelter, clothing and basic care to their kids, that's fine. college education is just bonus in my opinion. i think you're just entitled lazy offspring.
DeleteAng ganda ng property naku wala makukuha ang anak haha sayang
ReplyDeleteSorry lease pala haha diko pa napanuod
DeleteGaya-gaya kay Jackie Chan. Haha
ReplyDeletePinanood mo ba yung video?
DeleteHindi 12:26. Tinatanong mo pa obvious namang hindi.
DeleteHindi naman pala 12:34. Sorry naman hindi ako naglagay #sarcasm para maintindihan mo 12:26 comment ko. I watched the video. Ang talino mo kasi para i-compare si Mylene kay Jackie Chan.
DeleteThats okay mylene. Make sure you are saving for you monthly fees for nursing home. Enjoy your property
ReplyDeleteIt’s obvious you didn’t watch the video which explains your sarcasm. The property is not hers. She’s leasing it.
DeleteLease lang kasi ayaw nya bumili since di madadala sa hukay at wala daw imamana sa anak lol
ReplyDeleteReasoning yan ng mga walang pera. She’s too poor to buy. She couldn’t afford.
DeleteOk lang din yun. Yung iba nga magkakapatid na may mana nagpapatayan pa makuha lang lahat.
Delete12:49 she's too poor to buy because she is spending her money now for her sons' education. Na makakatulong sa future nila. Ok na?
DeleteMay lupa nga na mamanahin mga anak mo, pero di mo naman napag aral to optimize their potnetial, eventually baka di din magtaval yang mana nila.
I applaud her for this resolve. It likely took a lot. I am not a parent. But I think, in most cases, it’ll take so much restraint for a parent to not want to leave behind something for her kids para makagaan-gaan sila sa buhay. It’s a priceless lesson she’s giving them.
ReplyDeleteako nga nagka realization sa video na eto e una isip ko din sayang nman but its also a good way na alam nilang walang aasahan kung d magtitiyaga dami nang mayaman na ganyan pag naubos ung mana dhil hindi marunong s buhay nganga na after
DeleteMagandang way din yan para hinsi nakafocus ang mga kamaganak/pamilya sa makukuha nila sayo after your death. Kasi kapag alam na nila beforehand na hinsi sa aknila mapupunta, makikita mo ang authentic na ugali. Madaminh relasyon na ng magkakapamilya ang nasira dahil sa mana.at hatian sa mana.
DeleteSo ano gagawin nya sa assets nya? Isasama nya sa hukay yung mga title?
ReplyDeleteSana pinanood mo video para malaman mo na nire-rentahan nya lang yang property nya. As for her other assets, wala na tayong pakialam kung san nya daldahin o ibibigay pag nawala na sya
DeleteSpend it all before she dies
DeleteMalamang Mylene and her kids are enjoying it now. Kaya nga she is giving the best schools she can afford for her kids kaya kung walang mamanahin eh binigyan nman ni Mylene ng magandanh buhay at education ang mga anak nya.
Delete9:59 correct! Ang daming butt hurt dito na mga anak na nag eexpect or mga magulang na nakatanggap din kasi ng mana…your kid, your rule. She wants to spend her $ while she’s alive, then let her be, hindi naman sya nag kulang as a mother.
DeleteAs a parent, I find this ridiculous. Nagwork kami ng husband ko to give our children the best life, and I want them to not worry about their future anymore. Tuturuan pa rin namin silang maging independent, pero lahat ng kung anong meron kami eh sakanila lahat maiwan
ReplyDeletePag naturuan mo ang mga anak mo maging independent, you do not have to worry about their future.
DeleteOnly worrying about the future will develop risk management skill, resilience and sharp survival instinct.
DeleteEh di ikaw yon. Kelangan ba pare-pareho tayo ng pag-iisip?
DeleteWag ibigay lahat sa anak kasi sa true lang hindi ka sure eh na aalagaan ka ng mga anak mo. Worst ibebenta pa ng wala kang kamalay malay.
Delete10:46 walang added value ang comment mo
Delete10:46 they also will not enjoy the present
Delete11_20pm. I'm with you. As parents we work hard for our children. Why give them to others? You can give some to charities but more to the children, Life is short and what if something happen to her? Will other people take good care of her? She might have money now but in the long run what if she runs out?
DeleteEto yung klase ng magulang na nangguiguilt trip sa anak LOL. Yung tipon pinundar namin itong negosyong ito para sa inyo kaya manahin nyo. E pano kung ayaw ng anak nyo yung negosyo nyo at iba ang gawin? O kung gusto pala magmigrate at ayaw tumira sa malaking bahay na pinundar nyo? Tinatali nyo mga anak nyo sa mga pangarap nyo. Ego nyo lang din yan na may napatunayan kayo hiding in the guise of providing for your children's future.
DeleteAs a parent, that's the least you can do to your children. It wasn't their choice to be born in the first place. This isn't something to be proud of. I respect and admire those parents who make make sure their children will live a good life even after they're gone by leaving them with inheritance.
ReplyDeleteThen you're a parent that doesn't know how to be one. Di mo sila tinuturuan ng value of money and hard work. If a person wants money, he must work hard for it. Kahit sa bible walang karapatan kumain ang hindi nagtrabaho. You're teaching your kids to be lazy and dependent on you for money and everything. Tapos lahat ng ipapamana mo gagastusin lang nila dahil di nila pinaghirapan. In the end, mahihirapan din sila kung bankrupt na sila at hindi marunong magtrabaho
DeleteTrue. I agree with Mylene. But that doesn't mean I will follow her. Ang taas na ng properties pag time na ng anak ko, i want to buy a prime lot for him that he can use when he grow up and build his own family one day.
Deletewow maka-judge naman! iba-iba ang sitwasyon…
DeleteLuh. Ikaw yata ang hindi magulang. Cos if u are, tignan natin kung matitiis mo mga anak mo. Anong gagawin ko sa pinaghirapan ko kung di rin lang naman mapapakinabangan ng anak ko. Di naman ibig sabihin eh tuturuan mo na sila maging tamad at asa kapag ganun. Depende pa rin yun sa pagpapalaki mo ano. - not 11:41
Deletemy parents are retired now middle class kmi but nkapag invest sila so alam namin ngayon p lng meron makukuha but di kmi naka tingin doon we are really on our own now kse gusto nmin ma enjoy nila un today and whatever na maiwan salamat but kinakareer namin ang mga sarili nmin buhay at pamilya na ngayon salamat s education and guidance s buhay
DeleteWhy the need to do this and share it in public? Kung may bisyo yung mga anak niya o hindi siya trinato ng maayos, maiintindihan ko na way ito to teach them a lesson. Pero kung hindi naman, hindi ito deserved ng mga anak niya.
ReplyDeleteDeserved because? Kung gustong gastusin ng magulang ang pera niya at walang ipamana sa anak, then so be it. As long as napaaral ang anak at nasagot ang basic needs. That's more than enough. Otherwise mahinang nilalang lang yun anak para magalit at hindi napamanahan
DeleteWhy don't they deserve it? Us kids can't demand any inheritance from parents. Are you a demanding/entitled kid?
DeleteGustong matawag na cool mom. Hehe
ReplyDeleteI don't think she's doing it for younto call her cool. She's doing it whether it meets your approval or not.
DeleteThose negative comments, obviously did not watch the whole interview.
ReplyDeleteHindi mo din masisisi. People are only reacting based on the title.
Deletebill gates and warren buffet lng ang peg,lol!
ReplyDeleteThe dad of Bill Gates who was a prominent and wealthy lawyer , plus the mom who came from old money gave him seed money for his startup . They sent him also in the best schools since grade school . Even Zuckerberg, his parents were the first investors . They gave them a huge head start .
DeleteBill gates will be leaving 1% of USD152 B to his kids to share. Warren buffet will be leaving 2B for his family to share. Leaving nothing to your children is ridiculous. You should train up a child to be worth of their inheritance and allow them to become stewards of your wealth. This is written in the Bible.
DeleteI watched the entire video. Mylene’s point was just for her sons to work hard and stand on their own two feet. Hindi yung naka depende sa inheritance. May mga ganung anak na dependent na lang talaga sa trust fund or kung anong minana nila from their parents. Mylene kasi based on what she shared, became independent at a young age, and she chose to follow her dreams even if that meant leaving her family in the US. Look at her, she is a very secured and strong woman kasi she faced life’s struggles alone. Kaya ganyan din yung gusto nyang mindset for her children. For those who left a negative comment, I suggest you watch the video first. It may not be the usual and the ideal direction of parents for their children, it’s her own children so wala na tayong say dun.
ReplyDeleteSo ang way nya na turuan yung anak eh pag damutan? Kahit may pamana or wala kung tuturuan nya ng tama hindi yan aasa sakanya. Hindi yung parang kasalanan pa ng mga bata na pinanganak sila ng nanay nila
Delete2:06 mukhang di mo din pinanood entire video. You missed Mylene's point.
DeleteDi naman pagdamutan, 2:06. As a parent you equip your kids so they can navigate life on their own. You provide basic needs, education, core life experiences. For all you know by the time nagtatrabaho na ang mga anak nya, mas mayaman pa sila sa nanay nila and they won’t need whatever she has now.
DeleteSya lang yan, anak nya yan, at pera nya yan. Do what’s best for you.
Thats well and good. Ako I dont plan to financially support my kids as they try to navigate through their young lives except for school and vacation. However when im in my 60s to 70s , they will be full grown adults hopefully with a family of their own so you better believe they're getting everything i worked hard for.this life can be a roller coaster. I want to leave them and their family additional security as much as im able to. That's more meaningful to me than spending it on luxury etc.
Delete1:56 that is you. My siblings and I are different… my mom plans on selling the house she worked hard for here in Canada and downgrade to a little condo. She told us she will give us a little share once the house is sold. All of us said, don’t and use it for her retirement to finally enjoy her life. My mom sacrificed a lot for us to be here and to provide food. If your children’s mindset is like ours, I think you did your part as a parent- nurture the kid and helped the kid grow to forge his/her own path. If you showed love and support to your kids while they’re growing up, honestly, the kid/s shouldn’t expect any inheritance.
Delete7:56 not sure why you said that is you.. as if what i said is a negative thing. Im benefiting from inheritance, like my parents did, my grandparents, and generations before them. Many of my friends and their families are the same, my children's friends are the same. I guess we all believe what it says in Proverbs, a good man leaves inheritance to his children's children. Either way im not here to fight just showing a different perspective.
Delete11:03 so it has become maybe a tradition in your family and that is okay…and I am not even fighting lol, I also am just showing a different perspective, coming from a child’s… PS: we don’t expect any inheritance because we hustle hard and have our own money anyway. If mom eventually leaves us money then we will be grateful but there are NO expectations because honestly, we want her to enjoy her money. And I’m proud to say to myself that all I have built for- house, investments are all on my own, without a single penny from any inheritance. I plan to impart the same mentality to my kids because honestly it feels really good to have something that you built on your own for real… no “bili ni mommy yung lupa, or regalo nila papa yung kotse, etc” I actually would be shy to accept gifts like that. And this is me… and my siblings. Mom paying for our vacation sure! But to buy us a house or lot, or get shares from their properties? that’s a different ball game. We want it to come from our hard earned money. Besides, here in US, 60s to 70s is still young! They need money to for their daily expense and enjoy life, we won’t take that away from them
DeleteWala din naming assests si Mylene. She’s not even rich. She’s middle class at best.
ReplyDeleteGanya din ako sa Charity Casino ko lang bibigay ang pera ko.
ReplyDeleteWatch the video mga mihh before you react and comment. Ang daming g na g nang walang dahilan.
ReplyDeleteSa Pinas kasi buhay pa mga magulang gusto na kunin mana nila.
ReplyDeleteIf a parent taught their child well, they would know not to fully depend on mom and dad financially, common sense yan kasi ang mabuting anak ay ayaw naging burden sa magulang. However as a parent, its best to pass something down, kahit pang allowance or source of investment para lang ipagtabi. Kasi youll never know baka the kid might go into misfortunate situations (aka naging mahirap ang buhay, nagkasakit, nawalan ng work), its a way to make them feel na di sila napabayaan. Ung iba kasi feeling waldas ang anak nila. Well baka di mo din tinuruan kung pano mag work and its more of the parents' insecurity to show they're a good parent than it is a lesson in hard work. Mylene also knows her kids more than us so ifactor din yon.
ReplyDeletePanoorin mo interview. The best education ang sabi ni Mylene ipapamana niya. Her kids are studying abroad. Infernes sa kids mga matatalino at honor students, napalaking maayos they will not go poor
DeleteNaku. You can teach your kids to be independent and self reliant while still giving them something when youre gone. Bakit super yaman ba sya? Bat magdadamot pa. Her children could use those assets to star a business. Ang damot naman ng magulang na to.
ReplyDeleteYes it's also two different time frames. Teaching them while they're still young, by the time Mylene is old there is nothing to be taught any more..that should be when parents lovingly leave assets for the future generation. Saying this in public is awful.
Deleteit's not pagdadamot. its about kids have no right to expect inheritance from their parents. do you get it?
DeleteChildren expecting is cringe. Parents who broadcast this is also cringe.
DeleteEh si Paolo Paraiso na tatay ng mga anak niya ano kaya plano?
ReplyDeleteAng sabi SOLID ASSETS….so malamang may trust fund at insurance na yung mga anak nya and they need to use that to establish their future. The kids need to strive on their own
ReplyDeleteGets ko ung point ni mylene. Pero as someone who grew up in a traditional loving family (so i am speaking from my own exp), parang masa-sad ako if di ako pamanahan ng magulang ko, though i know pera nila yun so wala akong say.
ReplyDeleteAko kasi, single pa ako now and nagpagawa ako ng last will in case something bad happens to me *knock on wood*, mostly ng assets ko mapupunta sa parents ko, ung iba sa mga kapatid ko. Kasi i love them at wala naman akong ibang pagbibigyan.
Maiintindihan ko pa si mylene if her kids are toxic and tamad, di talaga deserve pamanahan. Pero wala pa naman yata siyang anak (hindi ako aware if meron man sorry). Parang kung naging mabuting anak naman, pamanahan mo naman.
But this is me.
Yup. That is you. But it doesn’t mean she’s a bad parent. Kung pinag aral naman nya, she attended all their events and was supportive of their goals in life, hindi na experience ma gutom ng mga bata, then she did part na as a parent. Let your parents enjoy their money pag adult na rin naman lahat kayo and what if mag kasakit sila? At least they have money to spend and hindi na aasa sa inyo. The house for example na maiiwan if they go, can be used for their funeral expenses instead. Kung ano na lang matira then siguro you can use it for your own. My mom told me hindi nya ako pamamanahan kasi she said she will just use the money while she’s alive to build memories with us ( her children) instead. I agreed… Mas gusto ko yung idea na yun… we travel together and make memories kesa sa bigyan kami ng pera pag patay na sya… aanhin namin yun? We have our own naman but I appreciate it when she does grocery shopping and pay for them, or for example pay my kid’s tournament fee and the hotel let’s say we need prior the tournament. She also pays for the meals in the restaurant… that’s how she wanted to spend her money- instead na ipon ipon daw tapos ipapamana. Honestly, mas na appreciate ko yun. We had a wonderful time in New York and recently sa Europe. I don’t need her inheritance, her spending time with me and her grand children is more than enough. I also know a lawyer na ang specialty sa mga ganyan na inheritance and assets and sakit sa ulo daw kasi nag aaway away ang mga anak. So I think my mom’s idea is right. To spend her money building memories with us na lang magakakapatid. And if may natira and she gave it to my siblings I won’t get sad either. Her money, her rules. She spent some with me while she’s alive and that is more than enough.
Delete8:10 agree with what your mom did.
Delete1:17 di ba? Bakit ka ma sasad kung wala kang mana? Kung pinag aral naman tayo and they spent $ making memories with us while they’re alive bakit pa ba tayo mag expect ng mana? Sapat na dapat ang ginawa nila sa atin. Hindi porket mabuti kang anak, deserve mo ng mana, what a mentality. If the child is really kind, she/he won’t actually expect, and she/he would rather have her parents enjoy their money.
DeleteDami na naman triggered dito on both sides ng opinyon. Siempre charet charet lang yan dios ko nagpapaniwala kayo sa mga artista, artista nga di ba? Maraming arte chareng! Kesehodang ayaw nila or kung anu mang kacharotan eh sa mga anak parin mapupunta.
ReplyDeleteAnong punto ng hard work nya if she doesn't give her kids any inheritance? Pahirapan na makabili ng property ang future generation, a property or inheritance would have given them a head start in life. Pwede naman siguro turuan ng financial planning ang anak para hindi ma squander yung mana.
ReplyDeleteSarap pati sabihin na may ancestral house ang family nyo.
DeleteDaming billionaires na ganito ginagawa para di lumaking naka asa mga anak sa yaman ng magulang.
ReplyDeleteYou're so gullible. They benefit just by being associated with their parents. It's nepotism at its finest.
DeleteComparable ba si Myleen sa billionaires ? Parang di naman. She doesnt wield the same power
DeleteButi na lang wala akong assets at wala rin ako anak.
ReplyDeleteYou might have both someday soon
DeleteI respect her decision, but I think it is best to teach our children how to work smart and invest in properties, stocks and businesses along side with good education para mapamanahan mo man sila o hindi, they will know what to do in life especially sa ipapamana mo in case. Intelligent wealthy do this like sila Henry Gokongwei and the Ayalas.
ReplyDeleteYes nasa culture ng family diba. Given na Yung turuan habang bata.. ang Inheritance pag matanda na.
DeleteI respect her decision, but I think it is best to teach our children how to work smart and invest in properties, stocks and businesses along side with good education para mapamanahan mo man sila o hindi, they will know what to do in life especially sa ipapamana mo in case. Intelligent wealthy do this like sila Henry Gokongwei and the Ayalas.
ReplyDeletei like your reply anon 3:42pm
DeleteSelfishly publicly declared Grabe ganitong klaseng ina.
ReplyDeleteSa lahat ng magulang dito tandaan niyo, your children didn’t ask to be here. Desisyon niyo na dalhin sila sa mundo. So whether you like it or not, it is your responsibility to give them a good life.
ReplyDelete6:39 Kakasuka na mga ganitong pov na "desisyon nyo sila dalin sa mundo blah blah blah"
DeleteKaya mga pinoy sa pinas may mga asawa at anak na nakatira pa din sa magulang, pinapa-ako sa mga magulang ang responsibilidad kahit ugod ugod na ang mga magulang kaya tumigil ka nga! Ginagawa na ni Mylene ang obligation nya bulag ka ba? Sino ba sa tingin mo nag susuppport sa living expenses ng mga anak nya sa ibang bansa habang nag aaral sila, diba si Mylene? Paano ba lumaki yang nga anak nya sino ba nag provide, hindi ba si Mylene? So ano pake mo kung ang desisyon nya is to teach her sons to earn their own money, anong mali dun? At least naging prangka sya sa mga anak nya as early as now na wala syang ipapamana para mag sikap ng mabuti ang mga anak. Mas gusyo ko na yang ganyan kesa maging tamad mga anak at mag depende lang sa ipamamana.
11:10 san mo nakuha na komo may mana ang anak eh magiging Tamad na ? What kind of people do you surround yourself with ?
Delete1:53 Are you living under a rock? Jusko ang daming anak mayaman na tamad! Ok ka lang ba? Sa earth ka ba nakatira? Bakit di mo alam? Oo hindi lahat ng anak eh magiging tamad pag may mana, pero yung tanong mo na saan ko nakuha na komo may mana ang anak eh magiging tamad na, ang sagot ko syo ay abot sa imo, wala ka sa realidad! smh
Delete3:10 If you must know, I grew up and live in the US.
DeleteFyi, kahit ano pa sa sabihin nya protected ng batas ang legitime entitlement ng mga anak nya kesehoda may last will ka pa hindi pwede maapektado ang legitime ng anak. Ibibigay yan ng batas. At kapag wala ka na hindi ka pwede magreklamo.
ReplyDeleteHindi nya pwedeng gawin yan sa pilipinas. Ang civil code natin may tinatawag na compulsory heirs. Ibig sabihin di mo pwedeng hindi pamamanahan ang mga compulsory heirs mo kagaya ng anak at asawa. Kahit ilagay mo sa will na pupunta lahat sa charity ng ari-arian mo, di papansinin ng korte yan
ReplyDeleteBasta para sakin kung meron ako iiwan ko lahat sa mga anak ko. Kung wala naman, eencourage ko mga anak ko na mag sumikap para mapaganda ang buhay nila.
ReplyDeleteI think best encourage them kahit marami ka iiwan.
DeleteAng mga tao dito pinakikialaman ang decision ni Mylene. My gosh! Do what you want, and she can do whatever she wants because that's her money! Magrespetuhan tayo hindi yong gusto ninyo masunod. omg! you guys are toxic really.
ReplyDeletePeople are voicing their opinions, that's what this platform is for.
DeleteSolid assets nga eh. Mga kinulang sa comprehension
DeleteSana maisip din ng mga nagpapamana na tinatali nila mga anak nila sa mga mana na yan. What if ayaw ng anak nyo sa negosyong pinundar nyo? O ayaw nila tumira sa bahay na pinaghirapan nyo? You are somehow limiting your kids. Ego nyo lang naman din yan na may naipundar kayo.
ReplyDeleteKami di kami mayaman, and while we appreciate na pinamanahan kami ng bahay at lupa na pinaghirapan hulugan ng parents namin, minsan naisip ko sana we took that family trip instead, or sana better school na lang kami or we invested on family health. Kasi now, we are all based abroad pero somehow, kailangan pa namin ngayon intindihin yung pinamana sa amin. I also know of a few friends who feel tied down with their family business.