huwag mong basahin para hindi ka maloka. Affected ka masyado kay Nadine. Kung hindi mo sya gusto huwag ka nalang mag comment para hindi ka nakakadagdag sa dinadala ng tao. She need respect from everyone like you, give it to her.
Alam nyo tantanan nyo muna sya. May knya knyang way ang tao to deal with grief. Mukang sanay sya na sya ang dandalan ng pamilya nya being a bread winner. Kaya gnyan sya. Respeto at bigyan naten sya ng space.
Does it have to be always about her and her bashers? Her life seems to revolve around these. Fighter mode always, she has other more important things to turn her attention to. Kaya dumadami nagba-bash sa kanya.
agree, 3:19, 7:31 and 9:16... d ba dapat ang nararamdaman niya ngayon eh lungkot at hindi galit? I mean hindi ako judgmental or pakialamera but sana matagpuan niya sa puso ang pagpapatawad at katahimikan.
How long does it take for a quick post? Kayo rin mas maraming time to comment and say things about her... isn't she just thinking about her family when she says this? Kasi when its her picture lalo lang dumadami ang kuda! Pero haters and bashers walang timeout sa inyo no? Pero na lang king kayo ang nawalan!!!
sino ba hindi magagalit may pinagdadaanan ka na nga dami pang naninira sayo, may hangganan din ang pasensya ng isang tao, di nga sya nagsasalita nung mga nakaraang araw ngayon lang kasi di na niya kinaya tapos may sasabihin pa rin namang di maganda!
It says a lot about her then. Sa totoo lang natahimik ang most of her bashers and haters in all socmeds tas may ganyang paganap si queen mo. Duh. Sa halip na isilence ang mga tao sa pamamagitan ng pagpasalamat sa mga nakiramay nagbabanta wow naman. Ugali talaga asal.
Bakit kasi kailangan niya pansinin? She should just tune the bashers off. Take a brief period off from social media. Mourn the loss of her brother and be with her family.
12:42 si Nadine may reason kung magalit man sya andaming nambabash sa kanya, eh ikaw may dahilan ba bakit galit ka sa kanya? She doesn't even know you and yet ganyan ang gigil mo sa kanya.
I perfectlly understand nadine. But the thing is, the only picture of her that i've seen was posted by her aunt. So maybe she should ask her her relatives first to refrain from posting her pics.
couldn't agree more, 2:24 and 2:26. matagal na niyang alam na marami syang bashers pero maraming nanahimik ngayon dahil nirespeto siya...dapat magpasalamat na lang muna siya sa mga nakisimpatiya at nakiramaay sa kanila instead of expressing her anger.
I think she did already... and before you even saw other posts nadelete because of her post... so it did it's job... I don't understand why she gets hate comments for asking the privacy for a gew hours just during the funeral?
Condolence Nadine. There is nothing wrong with showing that you are weak, if I may quote, "Sometimes, our greatest strength come from our weakness." I understand your first post, yes it's true, you need privacy at moments like this.
Pero yung 2nd post mo, para kang naghahamon at nagsasabing you will get your revenge. May this trying time be a way for you to trust and find comfort in Him, as well as spend time with your loved ones.
And always remember: When you're already at the very TOP, there is no other way but to go DOWN later.
I think you are misunderstanding her 2nd post. Correct me if I'm wrong, but if you're referring to the second part of the bottom post, she is actually referring to fans that are messaging her their own stories of struggle. She says "I GOT U" meaning she will respond eventually.
Thank you though for commenting in a polite manner without bashing her. I can't even imagine dealing with grief and people judging me all over social media.
Lol I’m sorry I should feel bad but she takes it upon herself for people really to say something about her attitude. You’re going through a tough time it’s ok to be weak, that’s a human trait. Superwoman ka ba? You’d rather people see you as walwal?
Everyone has their own way of grieving, in a similar way that depression manifests itself in different forms. I think she is used to being the breadwinner but also being the one everyone in her family leans on. Kaya she chooses to not show that "weak" side of her.
I understand her because I am the same way. When I am dealing with something heavy, I absolutely hate showing vulnerability and I don't cry unless I'm alone in private. Though it's not healthy, some people deal with their emotions by suppressing them, maybe because they feel like they have to put up a "strong" front for the people around them
Stop pretending that you are strong when you’re actually not. Minsan yan ang nakaka cause ng depression, pag kinikimkim mo lang lahat. Cry it out pag sobra na. Wala naman mawawala sayo kung maging weak ka kahit sa ilang minuto o oras ng buhay mo.
true..You will se me UP but never DOWN.goodluck Nadya..I used to like you before bUt you're so fake now..Goodluck bilog ang mundo wag masyado mapagmataas.
Imbes na ask for prayers, nagbanta pa. Your brother took his own life because of depression and you’re telling people who you think “judged” you to get lost. You have a false sense of entitlement, nadine.
This is what I observed too. Instead of reading people's tweets about her, she should just veer away from social media at the moment and spend time with her family during this time.
4:21 she put herself out there. Instead of staying away from socmed and dealing with her grief, she opted to confront her bashers. She gets what she gives.
ang yabang ng dating... bakit ganon. imbes na maawa, nakakainis pa. yung tita kasi pinost picture nya. baka yun ang pinariringgan nya. kung sa bagay baka yun yung way din ng pag-cope nya sa problema. nawalan na nga ng kapatid nasisisi pa yung tatay niya dahil sa baril na nagamit. minsan talaga ang problema kapag dumating buhos kung buhos... pero sabi nga nya, we will never see her down. nagpapaka-tatag lang sya. pero iba lang dating.
She’s so full of herself. People extending their symphaties yet this girl acts as if she’s got reasons to feel anger. Instead na makadama ka ng simpatya sa kanya maiinis ka talaga
Maybe she feels a little guilty of not spending more time with her brother/family instead of wasting her time with her friends. Kaya dyan nya nilalabas galit nya.
may time pa talagang mag post sa social media c ateng! d man lang nagluksa! hoy nadine, no one is judging you, ikaw lang ang nag-iisip nyan. ba't di ka muna manahimik at manalangin para sa kapatid mo. kaloeka ka baks!!!!
isang simpleng post lang ng paghingi ng privacy at panalangin, nadine. yun lang. di mo kailangan mang-threaten. maiintindihan ng mga tao kung magkakabreakdown ka. trahedya yan. kapatid mo.
kasi naman nag luluksa na nga yung tao kung maka judge pa ng iba kala nila alam sa nasa dibdib ni Nadine. Kung kayo nasa kalagayan nya anong pakiramdam? Tigilan nyo na kasi ang nega comments nakakasakit kayo ng kapwa. Hindi naman sya naghihingi ng sympathy sa inyo. Wala ng lulugaran yung tao sa inyo. Kung hindi nyo sya gusto dont spit it out keep it to your self para tahimik mundo. She is what she is.
maraming nakiramay sa kanya. i read some of the comments na awang awa sa kanya mga tao. maraming nagdasal for her and for her brother pero siya na din mismo ang nagbibigay ng reasons to bash her. maangas ang dating niya lagi.
Naku nadya sa showbiz no one is indispensable. Wag kang papakasigurado nasa tuktok ka lagi. Ngaun pa nga lang you are going down already. Be humble dear.
Then she should tell her friends and relatives not to share photos of her. Sila ang sisihin nya hindi ang mga tao. Walang pagpyepyestahan kung walang pinopost ang mga friends/relative nya.
Maybe posting the first message is her way of asking everybody - including her aunt and other relatives. Let's all choose to be kinder towards everyone. Peace!
Ang pangit ng statement... Would be better if she just thanked those who are concerned. She can ask for privacy naman but wag magsalita in such a rude tone.
I appreciate her trying to read the messages people send to her. At least she's doing her part in listening to people who are suffering or going through depression. Wala syang obligasyon magbasa ng problema ng iba but for her to say "I GOT U" means she wants to do something for others who are going through what her brother did.
Sad na wala na silang nagawa for her brother (and it really is no one's fault anyway; depression really kills) but pay it forward na lang siguro sa mga ibang may pinagdadaanan pa. Hay. RIP to her brother.
I AM HERE TO LISTEN would have been better. I GOT U sounds like she is trying to be a hero. Depressed people don’t need a hero, they don’t need to be saved. They just want to know they are not alone while they are trying to save themselves.
Her underlying message is its not good na makitang nagluluksa ang namatayan. Mali naman. It's perfectly natural na down ang tao when they lost a loved one. It's perfectly natural na magluksa. She's using her influence wrong. Her way will cause more depression. If that's what she wants fine but don't influence others to do the same.
Suicide is a terrible thing. The guilt alone can tear apart even the closest families. Her coping mechanisms might be questionable to some people but if it helps her manage her grief and keep her sanity intact I say let's just give it to her. It's a small thing compared to the magnitude of her loss.
That's the problem Nadine... IT'S OKAY NOT TO BE OKAY. That's what makes you human. It doesn't make you weak if you display at least little bit of pain. You can mourn in private if you want to but I find it disrespectful to your brother's memory for you to display publicly that you're okay.
true,not judging how she copes or yung way of grieving nya,Sa amin kasi nung namatay tatay ko di muna kami lumabas or nag saya agad2x ok lang maging malungkot at down natural namatayan baka nasa denial at anger stage sya
This! Also mas matapang ang taong hindi nahihiyang ipakita yung totoong feelings! Pag sad, sad! Pag happy, happy! Kebs sa mga sasabihin ng ibang tao! Yang pastrong ni nadine obviously it's just a mask! Di nakakatulong para maaccept nya yung nangyare at maka move on.
Sana she could just use this time for quiet reflection and be with her family. This is a very painful and poignant time best spent in the solace of her loved ones rather than social media. Like it or not, mapa-ordinaryong tao man o hindi, meron talagang lilitaw na paghuhusga sa mga ganitong pangyayari. She should use her strength on shutting away these unnecessary noises silently.
Kaloka beh. Walang nagdadown sayo. Ngayun lang kasi dami mong kuda. Dami mong haters at bashers na di kumikibo dahil sa nangyari sayo tas may paganitong ganap ka. Tsssss.
Guys, be kind to her and to everyone. It’s her socmed account, let her be. She may have posted coz of people like you always lurking. Respect her and her family.
Yung iba gusto makitang nag iiyak kesa makitang matatag sya. Kelan nyang tumatag dahil sya lang inaasahan ng family. Maraming nambabash sa pag work out nya pero hindi naisip kung ano ang lagay nya for the rest of d day.
I don't think Nadine will ever get back her "sweet girl" image. The girl has truly changed into someone who's constantly attracting negativity thru her careless actions. Kaya negadine ang tawag sa kanya eh.
3:59, it’s because of people like you that people lose confidence in themselves. yung ginagawa nyong yan pwedeng maging cause ng depression. magiging happy ba kayo to be the cause of misery of other people?
Bat ganyan si Nadine? I Dont like her- but since the new broke out ang puso at panalangin ko nasa kanya at sa pamilya nya. Until that IG story. Why full of hate gurl
People who are open and not afraid to show their vulnerability are the strong ones. They can easily shake-off ANY criticism, and focus on what they are dealing with without fear.
it was her tita posted and mga fans mo nag repost. Sana kinausap mo auntie mo about it Hinde mo pariringan. Dito mo makikita may galit siya sa mga Tao nakapaligid Sa kanya yun yun ang family niya. Kaya siguro she choose to be with her friends during these trying time ng family niya. Instead of asking prayers for her brother galit message pa wag Ganun Nadine Hinde maganda ugali yan. Hinde Lang Ikaw masasaktan Pati mom and dad mo.
Nagrerequest lang sya ng privacy. Asan ang galit dyan? Yung mga bashers andun sa fb gumagawa ng kwento. Anong gusto manahimik sya? Hayaang i judge ang mga magulang nya. Kung kayo ang na sa kalagayan. Im sure di nyo kayang manahimik
I can't be sad for her. Maybe for her brother's other family members lang. When will she learn to behave appropriately? This isn't the time to act cool, high, and mighty. Humble yourself for once in respect to your poor sibling.
being a bread winner, she probably is used to being strong. yung tipong hindi sya ever pwede maging weak. dont judge her because of this. everyone is different from one another. there are people na hindi comfortable na ipakita sa mga tao na umiiyak sila or weak sila.
Kaya nga, walang pahinga yon tao, namatayan na nga, lahat pa rin krini criticized. Kaya tumataas rate ng depression and suicide dahil na din judgmental na society.
Hindi ba sya pwedeng magkaroon ng private space dahil namatayan sya ng kapatid? Wala kayong right na i-judge sya. Mga bashers talaga walang patawad eh.
Nadine, Meron ibang Tao Mas grabe pinag dadaanan yung Iba nga diyan namatayan pero Wala support nakukuha from friends and family yung Iba nga hinde makauwi para makita parents or kamag anak nila mailibing Lang. You are so blessed that you are surrounded of people na mahal ka and supporting you. Just be thankful of what you have and deadma na Lang sa negativity
Hay nadine, turn away from social media kahit ngayon lang. Para di ka na makabasa ng negative comments. Lalo silang ginaganahan sa ginagawa monf pag rereact. Dont enable them. Just shut up for your brothers sake.
A sign of weakness is actually not admitting you are weak. You appear strong and smiling but crying in the inside. Then, boom! One day it will all just explode. That’s even more dangerous.
She has been showing signs that she's imploding. Ang news about her all the time eh naglalash out sa strangers/fans sa social media. Seems like wala talaga siyag tunay na friends na pwede siyang magpakita ng weakness at mahing authentic.
This 7:43! It seems that she only have shallow friends that she can never be real about her feelings. I hope she can find someone to be herself and open up.
Dapat ung tita ang hindi post ng post. Sa tita naman niya galing ung mga pics. Dapat nung pagkapost pa lang may nakalagay na na "do not repost" chu chu. Saka bakit ba nakabantay si Nadine sa social media? Asikasuhin na muna niya family niya hindi bashers niya.
Nobody wants to see you "down" at this moment, they were just merely curious - curious as to what you might be feeling at this moment BUT NOT because they like the idea of you feeling down.
Dyan mo malalaman ang totoong ugali ng isang tao kng pano sya mag react sa mga ganyang situation. It shows na kng pano nten sya nakilala in tje beginning of her career hindi talaga sya ganon. Pretending to be a goody goody lang.
Being the family breadwinner, the rock, the person everyone relies on, that's a lot of pressure for a young woman to handle. On top of that she lost her sibling and her dad is under investigation. Now she has to deal with people judging her choices too. I don't blame her for lashing out, there's only so much a person can take. A little understanding can go a long way folks.
Simple solution for her: refrain from using social media for a period. If she was able to disable them for a while in the past, she may willingly do so at this much needed time.
as what her tita Nona said, Nadine is the rock that the family is leaning on right now, what else can she do but be strong for her family? This is her way of shielding her family from prying eyes of people who has been judging them from this tragedy. I am with her on this, she's acting like a lioness protecting her kin which given the situation any person will do.
May time pa si ateng sa mga ganyang hanash kaloka!!!
ReplyDeletehuwag mong basahin para hindi ka maloka. Affected ka masyado kay Nadine. Kung hindi mo sya gusto huwag ka nalang mag comment para hindi ka nakakadagdag sa dinadala ng tao. She need respect from everyone like you, give it to her.
DeleteAno masama dyan sa pinost niya?
DeleteEh yung Tita nya g pa pampam ang post ng post eh! Yun ang u ahin nyang pagsabihan juicecolored!
DeleteAlam nyo tantanan nyo muna sya. May knya knyang way ang tao to deal with grief. Mukang sanay sya na sya ang dandalan ng pamilya nya being a bread winner. Kaya gnyan sya. Respeto at bigyan naten sya ng space.
DeleteDoes it have to be always about her and her bashers? Her life seems to revolve around these. Fighter mode always, she has other more important things to turn her attention to. Kaya dumadami nagba-bash sa kanya.
DeleteI agree. For a person who is supposed to be grieving, ang dami nyang time sa social media at masyado syang concerned sa sinasabi ng mga tao. Ang babaw
DeleteOo nga mas concern nya sasabihin ng tao. Nadine lahat nakikiramay sayo bkit iniisip mo dinodown ka ng mga tao?
Deleteagree, 3:19, 7:31 and 9:16... d ba dapat ang nararamdaman niya ngayon eh lungkot at hindi galit? I mean hindi ako judgmental or pakialamera but sana matagpuan niya sa puso ang pagpapatawad at katahimikan.
DeleteHow long does it take for a quick post? Kayo rin mas maraming time to comment and say things about her... isn't she just thinking about her family when she says this? Kasi when its her picture lalo lang dumadami ang kuda! Pero haters and bashers walang timeout sa inyo no? Pero na lang king kayo ang nawalan!!!
Deleteano ba yan nadeng! puro galit n yta laman ng puso mo.... pangatawanan mo pagiging STRONG mo hah
ReplyDeletesino ba hindi magagalit may pinagdadaanan ka na nga dami pang naninira sayo, may hangganan din ang pasensya ng isang tao, di nga sya nagsasalita nung mga nakaraang araw ngayon lang kasi di na niya kinaya tapos may sasabihin pa rin namang di maganda!
Deletenaitanong mo ba sa kapwa mo bashers 12:42 kung bakit puro galit at pait din laman ng puso nyo?
Deleteako rin puro galit ang nasa puso ko... namatayan din ako by suicide. hindi nyo alam kung gaano kasakit.
DeleteIt says a lot about her then. Sa totoo lang natahimik ang most of her bashers and haters in all socmeds tas may ganyang paganap si queen mo. Duh. Sa halip na isilence ang mga tao sa pamamagitan ng pagpasalamat sa mga nakiramay nagbabanta wow naman. Ugali talaga asal.
DeleteBakit kasi kailangan niya pansinin? She should just tune the bashers off. Take a brief period off from social media. Mourn the loss of her brother and be with her family.
DeleteShe's easily affected bec she's actually 'down'.. we shld try to understand her mood right now
Delete12:42 si Nadine may reason kung magalit man sya andaming nambabash sa kanya, eh ikaw may dahilan ba bakit galit ka sa kanya? She doesn't even know you and yet ganyan ang gigil mo sa kanya.
DeleteYun naman pala nadine doesnt even know 12:42 so anong problema?
DeleteI perfectlly understand nadine. But the thing is, the only picture of her that i've seen was posted by her aunt. So maybe she should ask her her relatives first to refrain from posting her pics.
Deletecouldn't agree more, 2:24 and 2:26. matagal na niyang alam na marami syang bashers pero maraming nanahimik ngayon dahil nirespeto siya...dapat magpasalamat na lang muna siya sa mga nakisimpatiya at nakiramaay sa kanila instead of expressing her anger.
DeleteI think she did already... and before you even saw other posts nadelete because of her post... so it did it's job... I don't understand why she gets hate comments for asking the privacy for a gew hours just during the funeral?
DeleteMore love and understanding for you Nadine. You needed it.
ReplyDeletebkit sa halip n mag kasimpatya ka sa babaeng toh... maiinis ka pa daming hanash sa socmed... post pa more
ReplyDeleteAgree.. at bakit kaya ayaw niyang makita na down sya? Ang buhay ay parang gulung minsan up tayo, minsan down.
DeleteInis ka lang talaga sa kanya. Wag ka nang plastic.
Deleteto 12:46 bash pa more ikauunlad mg buhay mo yan
DeleteTama...
Delete1:08 i used to ignore your idol talaga kaso sorry no this is so pretentious.
Delete1:44 fosho ikinaunlad mo yan no?
Delete2:22 then completely ignore her and have respect esp to yourself!
DeleteAgree. Naawa ako nung una pero ngayon d ko magets yung inis nya at pagbabanta. San galing yon?
Deletetrue, up and down naman talaga ang buhay so anong hanash niya?
DeleteHindi niyo man lang ba naisip na baka sa paligid anakayag, reason kaya nagawa ng kapatid nya yun, sa inyong mga basher at mga bullies...
DeleteThen just keep ignoring her. Pero sa halip may pangbash parin. You know what's worst is your apathy!!
DeleteCondolence Nadine. There is nothing wrong with showing that you are weak, if I may quote, "Sometimes, our greatest strength come from our weakness." I understand your first post, yes it's true, you need privacy at moments like this.
ReplyDeletePero yung 2nd post mo, para kang naghahamon at nagsasabing you will get your revenge. May this trying time be a way for you to trust and find comfort in Him, as well as spend time with your loved ones.
And always remember: When you're already at the very TOP, there is no other way but to go DOWN later.
2 Cor 12:10
12:48 very well said
Deletenicely put!
DeleteObjectively said.
DeleteI think you are misunderstanding her 2nd post. Correct me if I'm wrong, but if you're referring to the second part of the bottom post, she is actually referring to fans that are messaging her their own stories of struggle. She says "I GOT U" meaning she will respond eventually.
DeleteThank you though for commenting in a polite manner without bashing her. I can't even imagine dealing with grief and people judging me all over social media.
Nakakabahala attitude ni nadine.
Deletesuper agree with you. si nadine dami pang sinasabi eh.
Deletedi nalang aminin na weak din sya. lahat naman ng tao may weakness
nung namatay kapatid nya, puro condolences nababasa ko. ngayon lang nagcocomment mga tao sa dami ng hanash nya
nice one, 12:48
Deletekudos 12:48.
DeleteWe need the Lord.
Same thoughts when I read her posts.
Deletetapang ni ate. kinabog si negastar sa pagiging high and mughty
ReplyDeleteLol I’m sorry I should feel bad but she takes it upon herself for people really to say something about her attitude. You’re going through a tough time it’s ok to be weak, that’s a human trait. Superwoman ka ba? You’d rather people see you as walwal?
ReplyDeleteEveryone has their own way of grieving, in a similar way that depression manifests itself in different forms. I think she is used to being the breadwinner but also being the one everyone in her family leans on. Kaya she chooses to not show that "weak" side of her.
DeleteI understand her because I am the same way. When I am dealing with something heavy, I absolutely hate showing vulnerability and I don't cry unless I'm alone in private.
DeleteThough it's not healthy, some people deal with their emotions by suppressing them, maybe because they feel like they have to put up a "strong" front for the people around them
Stop pretending that you are strong when you’re actually not. Minsan yan ang nakaka cause ng depression, pag kinikimkim mo lang lahat. Cry it out pag sobra na. Wala naman mawawala sayo kung maging weak ka kahit sa ilang minuto o oras ng buhay mo.
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ReplyDelete10:51 sus kunwari ka pa, talagang ayaw mo talaga sa kanya.
DeleteYung imbes na maawa ka sana kaso hindi e.
ReplyDeleteMismo!
DeleteAgree.
DeleteTumpak.
Deleteay oo! sinabi mo pa
Deletetrue..You will se me UP but never DOWN.goodluck Nadya..I used to like you before bUt you're so fake now..Goodluck bilog ang mundo wag masyado mapagmataas.
DeleteImbes na ask for prayers, nagbanta pa. Your brother took his own life because of depression and you’re telling people who you think “judged” you to get lost. You have a false sense of entitlement, nadine.
ReplyDeleteAgree 12:58
DeleteYou don't have the right to dictate. Do really don't know what she's feeling right now. Respect pls.
DeleteThis is what I observed too. Instead of reading people's tweets about her, she should just veer away from social media at the moment and spend time with her family during this time.
Delete4:21 she put herself out there. Instead of staying away from socmed and dealing with her grief, she opted to confront her bashers. She gets what she gives.
Deletetactfulness at these times are very much needed
Deleteang yabang ng dating... bakit ganon. imbes na maawa, nakakainis pa. yung tita kasi pinost picture nya. baka yun ang pinariringgan nya. kung sa bagay baka yun yung way din ng pag-cope nya sa problema. nawalan na nga ng kapatid nasisisi pa yung tatay niya dahil sa baril na nagamit. minsan talaga ang problema kapag dumating buhos kung buhos... pero sabi nga nya, we will never see her down. nagpapaka-tatag lang sya. pero iba lang dating.
ReplyDeleteBaka defense mechanism.. praying for more strength and peace of mind for you, Nadine.
ReplyDeleteThis!
DeletePretentious up till the end.
ReplyDelete💯💯💯
DeleteIkaw hater till the end. Don't judge people so easily . That's one of the reasons why a lot of people are having depression because you exist.
Delete4:34 mahirap bigyan ng benefit of the doubt yang idol mo when she acts so aggressive always. Why don't you tell her to zip her mouth, for once.
Deleteanon 4:23 nung lumabas ang balita n nmatay kpatid nya
Deletelahat nkiramay
pero panay hanash nya
ung attitude nya problema kahit noon pa
when ur being tested aside from people should understand, nadine should also take a look in the mirror and evaluate her attitude
kasi lumalabas totoong ugali ng tao kpag may mga trials
agree with 7:48 tell her to zip her mouth and focus on her family
Hay nako nadine..
ReplyDeleteIf this your way of coping up Nadine go lng. Rant all you want. I hope you're really ok.
ReplyDeletePero ganyan na sya karude magsalita pre-tragedy. Dyan sya consistent.
Deletepagpassensyahan nyo na, namatayan eh.
DeleteShe’s so full of herself. People extending their symphaties yet this girl acts as if she’s got reasons to feel anger. Instead na makadama ka ng simpatya sa kanya maiinis ka talaga
ReplyDeleteAlam mo ba 7 cycles of grief. Yan ang way nya. Lets give her space
DeleteAnd you are also full of yourself. You don't even know what she has gone through.
DeleteMaybe she feels a little guilty of not spending more time with her brother/family instead of wasting her time with her friends. Kaya dyan nya nilalabas galit nya.
DeleteDo you? 4:24?
Delete4:24 ikaw may alam?
Deleteoy kayo 7:18 and 7:49 stop fighting, hayaan nyo na si Nadine to grieve in peace. pati kayo affected na. Nagsipag away pa kayo.
DeleteLumalabas talaga tunay nyang ugali eh...
ReplyDeletetrue that!
Deletemay time pa talagang mag post sa social media c ateng! d man lang nagluksa! hoy nadine, no one is judging you, ikaw lang ang nag-iisip nyan. ba't di ka muna manahimik at manalangin para sa kapatid mo. kaloeka ka baks!!!!
ReplyDeletemas kalola ka. may time rin mang bash sa namatayan. Hope di yan mangyayari sa yo
DeleteSo ... I assume this comment is not your way of judging her, 1:08?
DeleteHer posting messages is showing how DOWN she is. If she was strong she would just keep quiet.
ReplyDeleteLess talk less mistake.
ReplyDeleteBakit pag nagpopost si Nadine parang laging angsty? Parang laging may kaaway? :(
ReplyDeletelumalabas true colors
Deleteisang simpleng post lang ng paghingi ng privacy at panalangin, nadine. yun lang. di mo kailangan mang-threaten. maiintindihan ng mga tao kung magkakabreakdown ka. trahedya yan. kapatid mo.
ReplyDeleteSorry I don't see anything threatening about her post
Deletestrange way of coping, but respect na lang.
ReplyDeleteI feel sorry for this girl. I don’t see a strong woman I see a broken girl full of regrets and pain.
ReplyDeleteAnd i feel sorry for you. You don't even know her.
Delete4:26 and i feel sorry for you too, walang masamang sinabi si 1:16 and yet ganyan ka makareact.
Delete1:16 if that's what you see, please offer a prayer or two for her and her family
Delete8:47 tama ka! I don't see anything wrong kay 1:16, masyadong defensive itong si 4:26 kaloka!
Deletekasi naman nag luluksa na nga yung tao kung maka judge pa ng iba kala nila alam sa nasa dibdib ni Nadine. Kung kayo nasa kalagayan nya anong pakiramdam? Tigilan nyo na kasi ang nega comments nakakasakit kayo ng kapwa. Hindi naman sya naghihingi ng sympathy sa inyo. Wala ng lulugaran yung tao sa inyo. Kung hindi nyo sya gusto dont spit it out keep it to your self para tahimik mundo. She is what she is.
ReplyDeletemaraming nakiramay sa kanya. i read some of the comments na awang awa sa kanya mga tao. maraming nagdasal for her and for her brother pero siya na din mismo ang nagbibigay ng reasons to bash her. maangas ang dating niya lagi.
DeleteNaku nadya sa showbiz no one is indispensable. Wag kang papakasigurado nasa tuktok ka lagi. Ngaun pa nga lang you are going down already. Be humble dear.
ReplyDeletebasa ulit teh, baka di mo naintindihan ang ibig sabihin niya ng UP and DOWN
Deleteay ang taray..
ReplyDeletein fair the post that i have seen so far is so sympathetic kahit alam naman natin dat mga fan made lang..so why d hate?
ReplyDeleteKung niyo magets message ni Nadine, simple lang ang sabi niya paki respect ang privacy nila at huwag sila pgfiestahan. PERIOD
ReplyDeleteThen she should tell her friends and relatives not to share photos of her. Sila ang sisihin nya hindi ang mga tao. Walang pagpyepyestahan kung walang pinopost ang mga friends/relative nya.
Deletepero nga naman, sa unang post, auntie ni Nadine ang nagpost ng mga photos.Wala namang miron na nag post
DeleteMaybe posting the first message is her way of asking everybody - including her aunt and other relatives. Let's all choose to be kinder towards everyone. Peace!
DeleteAng pangit ng statement... Would be better if she just thanked those who are concerned. She can ask for privacy naman but wag magsalita in such a rude tone.
ReplyDeleteImbes na makuha ni nadine sympathy tao mas lalo tumindi inis sa kanya, ang taas taas ng tingin sa sarili
ReplyDeleteI appreciate her trying to read the messages people send to her. At least she's doing her part in listening to people who are suffering or going through depression. Wala syang obligasyon magbasa ng problema ng iba but for her to say "I GOT U" means she wants to do something for others who are going through what her brother did.
ReplyDeleteSad na wala na silang nagawa for her brother (and it really is no one's fault anyway; depression really kills) but pay it forward na lang siguro sa mga ibang may pinagdadaanan pa. Hay. RIP to her brother.
I AM HERE TO LISTEN would have been better. I GOT U sounds like she is trying to be a hero. Depressed people don’t need a hero, they don’t need to be saved. They just want to know they are not alone while they are trying to save themselves.
DeleteAgree 6:57. Ang kailangan nila ay taong makikinig at iintindihin sila.
DeleteHer underlying message is its not good na makitang nagluluksa ang namatayan. Mali naman. It's perfectly natural na down ang tao when they lost a loved one. It's perfectly natural na magluksa. She's using her influence wrong. Her way will cause more depression. If that's what she wants fine but don't influence others to do the same.
DeleteSuicide is a terrible thing. The guilt alone can tear apart even the closest families. Her coping mechanisms might be questionable to some people but if it helps her manage her grief and keep her sanity intact I say let's just give it to her. It's a small thing compared to the magnitude of her loss.
ReplyDeleteVery sensible comment among others. Thank you
DeleteTHANK YOU
DeleteThat's the problem Nadine... IT'S OKAY NOT TO BE OKAY. That's what makes you human. It doesn't make you weak if you display at least little bit of pain. You can mourn in private if you want to but I find it disrespectful to your brother's memory for you to display publicly that you're okay.
ReplyDeleteTHIS!
DeleteThats why she tends to lash out on socmed a lot. Madaming repressed negative emotions.
Deletetrue,not judging how she copes or
Deleteyung way of grieving nya,Sa amin kasi nung namatay tatay ko di muna kami lumabas or nag saya agad2x ok lang maging malungkot at down natural namatayan baka nasa denial at anger stage sya
This! Also mas matapang ang taong hindi nahihiyang ipakita yung totoong feelings! Pag sad, sad! Pag happy, happy! Kebs sa mga sasabihin ng ibang tao! Yang pastrong ni nadine obviously it's just a mask! Di nakakatulong para maaccept nya yung nangyare at maka move on.
DeleteThis girl is on fire...literally!
ReplyDeleteSana she could just use this time for quiet reflection and be with her family. This is a very painful and poignant time best spent in the solace of her loved ones rather than social media. Like it or not, mapa-ordinaryong tao man o hindi, meron talagang lilitaw na paghuhusga sa mga ganitong pangyayari. She should use her strength on shutting away these unnecessary noises silently.
ReplyDeleteSana nga if Nadine is you... but she is what she is ...we have to give it to her
DeleteAgree!
DeleteSino ba nagpasimuno mag post ng pics kundi Tita Nona nya....
ReplyDeletewala namang strangers ang nag post ng mga pictures aunt nya lang.
DeletePara ky aunt ba to
ReplyDeleteKaloka beh. Walang nagdadown sayo. Ngayun lang kasi dami mong kuda. Dami mong haters at bashers na di kumikibo dahil sa nangyari sayo tas may paganitong ganap ka. Tsssss.
ReplyDeleteRight.
Delete1:32, how do you know walang nagdadown sa kanya? na filter mo ba lahat?
DeleteSo lahat ng nega pinapansin nya? She does have lots of time.
DeleteGuys, be kind to her and to everyone. It’s her socmed account, let her be. She may have posted coz of people like you always lurking. Respect her and her family.
ReplyDeletegalit si ate gurl.
ReplyDeleteShe has become an angry person. Ang nasasalo lang yata nya ay ang mga negative na binabato sankanya.
ReplyDeleteate, namatayan po . Intindihin na lang.
Deletedi naman nya kailangan simpatya mo 12.:46 maybe she just want you to simply shut up!
ReplyDeleteWag hanapin ang alin Anu ibig niyang sabihin? Hinde ko gets.
ReplyDeleteYung iba gusto makitang nag iiyak kesa makitang matatag sya. Kelan nyang tumatag dahil sya lang inaasahan ng family. Maraming nambabash sa pag work out nya pero hindi naisip kung ano ang lagay nya for the rest of d day.
DeleteWow may time parin mag pa cool😑 "get lost" at "I got u" daw...
ReplyDeletepag trending sya kesyo get lost. pag di pinapansin magpapapansin. hay naku mga artistang toh!
ReplyDeleteI don't think Nadine will ever get back her "sweet girl" image. The girl has truly changed into someone who's constantly attracting negativity thru her careless actions. Kaya negadine ang tawag sa kanya eh.
ReplyDeletecouldn't agree more
DeleteMagpakumbaba ate nadz parang nkakatakot ka e hehe
ReplyDeleteHay nadine. I'm sorry for your loss, really. But... you annoy me way too much. Ang dami mong gusto patunayan girl.
ReplyDeleteAng daming gusto patunayan ng babaeng yan.
ReplyDeletenamatayan ang tao.Hayaan mong magbuhos ng sama ng loob sa sarili nyang wall.
DeleteAyaw niya makita ng tao na umiiyak siya sa funeral ng kapatid niya. Gusto niya nakikita Lang siyang palaban.
ReplyDeleteKasi iba itsura niya pag walang make up.
Delete3:59, it’s because of people like you that people lose confidence in themselves. yung ginagawa nyong yan pwedeng maging cause ng depression. magiging happy ba kayo to be the cause of misery of other people?
DeleteWeh. Yung tita nga niya nanguna pa magpost ng pic niya sa funeral. Ibig sabihin walang respeto yung tita niya sa "warning" ni Queen Nadeng?
ReplyDeleteBat ganyan si Nadine? I Dont like her- but since the new broke out ang puso at panalangin ko nasa kanya at sa pamilya nya. Until that IG story. Why full of hate gurl
ReplyDeleteShe is still coping, in denial that she is feeling down talaga kaya easily affected, just respect her different way of coping
DeleteTeh ang pagsabihan mo yang mga kamag-anak mo. Sila naman ang naglalabas sa mga social media accounts nila eh. Kaloka ka.
ReplyDeletePeople who are open and not afraid to show their vulnerability are the strong ones. They can easily shake-off ANY criticism, and focus on what they are dealing with without fear.
ReplyDeleteExactly! People who brag about being strong are actually the weakest.
Deletebetter na to mourn in private after the official statement. I suggest na pahinga muna sa socmed kung pwede. also prayers for Isaiah
ReplyDeleteit was her tita posted and mga fans mo nag repost. Sana kinausap mo auntie mo about it Hinde mo pariringan. Dito mo makikita may galit siya sa mga Tao nakapaligid Sa kanya yun yun ang family niya. Kaya siguro she choose to be with her friends during these trying time ng family niya. Instead of asking prayers for her brother galit message pa wag Ganun Nadine Hinde maganda ugali yan. Hinde Lang Ikaw masasaktan Pati mom and dad mo.
ReplyDeletekeber naman ni nadine sa opinyon mo na!
DeleteNagrerequest lang sya ng privacy. Asan ang galit dyan? Yung mga bashers andun sa fb gumagawa ng kwento. Anong gusto manahimik sya? Hayaang i judge ang mga magulang nya. Kung kayo ang na sa kalagayan. Im sure di nyo kayang manahimik
DeleteI condole with you and your family, Nadine. But this sad incident does not warrant your pretentious and abrasive behavior.
ReplyDeleteI so agree!
DeleteI can't be sad for her. Maybe for her brother's other family members lang. When will she learn to behave appropriately? This isn't the time to act cool, high, and mighty. Humble yourself for once in respect to your poor sibling.
ReplyDeleteYeah, bago pa mangyari ito sa kanila , she's been acting proud already at laging parang may tinatago.
DeleteAko sad pa rin for her no matter what. Nawalan pa din sya ng mahal sa buhay. And I know how that feels.
DeleteNadine, you need to chill and be positive so that you don't attract those negativities in your life.
ReplyDeletebeing a bread winner, she probably is used to being strong. yung tipong hindi sya ever pwede maging weak. dont judge her because of this. everyone is different from one another. there are people na hindi comfortable na ipakita sa mga tao na umiiyak sila or weak sila.
ReplyDeleteExactly. Thank you
DeleteNamatayan yung tao, For God’s sake. Kahit namatayan wala kayong patawad no? Mega bash pa din. Kaya hindi umuunlad Pilipinas e.
ReplyDeleteKaya nga, walang pahinga yon tao, namatayan na nga, lahat pa rin krini criticized. Kaya tumataas rate ng depression and suicide dahil na din judgmental na society.
DeleteHindi ba sya pwedeng magkaroon ng private space dahil namatayan sya ng kapatid? Wala kayong right na i-judge sya. Mga bashers talaga walang patawad eh.
ReplyDeleteYuh nakakagulat.
DeleteGrabe kayo pwede ba kahit ilang araw lang break kayo sa pagbabash sa taong ito. Minsan iniisip ko kung ano bang kaluluwa meron ang ibang tao eh.
ReplyDeleteTrue this!
DeleteThis!
DeleteNag bago na talaga si Nadine. Hinde siya ganyan before I mean Kung sumagot.haaay!
ReplyDeleteLakang pakealam! Hindi ikaw ang namatayan ng kapatid dahil sa suicide!
DeleteNadine, Meron ibang Tao Mas grabe pinag dadaanan yung Iba nga diyan namatayan pero Wala support nakukuha from friends and family yung Iba nga hinde makauwi para makita parents or kamag anak nila mailibing Lang. You are so blessed that you are surrounded of people na mahal ka and supporting you. Just be thankful of what you have and deadma na Lang sa negativity
ReplyDeleteGuys, just let her grieve sa paraang gusto niya. Kung ano man nasasabi niya, intindihin na lang natin.
ReplyDeleteAnubeh?! Kelangan talaga i-bash si Ate Nadine sa mga panahong ito? Be compassionate naman.
Nadine isnt the problem anymore but bashers. They will find any reason to bash her because theyre not being objective anymore
DeleteHay nadine, turn away from social media kahit ngayon lang. Para di ka na makabasa ng negative comments. Lalo silang ginaganahan sa ginagawa monf pag rereact. Dont enable them. Just shut up for your brothers sake.
ReplyDeleteA sign of weakness is actually not admitting you are weak. You appear strong and smiling but crying in the inside. Then, boom! One day it will all just explode. That’s even more dangerous.
ReplyDeleteShe has been showing signs that she's imploding. Ang news about her all the time eh naglalash out sa strangers/fans sa social media. Seems like wala talaga siyag tunay na friends na pwede siyang magpakita ng weakness at mahing authentic.
DeleteI agree @743
DeleteThis 7:43! It seems that she only have shallow friends that she can never be real about her feelings. I hope she can find someone to be herself and open up.
DeleteShe needs her space.Let's all respect that and pray for her family
ReplyDeleteDapat ung tita ang hindi post ng post. Sa tita naman niya galing ung mga pics. Dapat nung pagkapost pa lang may nakalagay na na "do not repost" chu chu. Saka bakit ba nakabantay si Nadine sa social media? Asikasuhin na muna niya family niya hindi bashers niya.
ReplyDeleteDami niyong alam. Stop acting like righteous fools
ReplyDeleteNobody wants to see you "down" at this moment, they were just merely curious - curious as to what you might be feeling at this moment BUT NOT because they like the idea of you feeling down.
ReplyDeleteCondolence
ReplyDeleteDyan mo malalaman ang totoong ugali ng isang tao kng pano sya mag react sa mga ganyang situation. It shows na kng pano nten sya nakilala in tje beginning of her career hindi talaga sya ganon. Pretending to be a goody goody lang.
ReplyDeleteNope you're wrong. She is just trying to be stronger. Have some respect naman sa mga taong nagdadalamhati.
DeleteBeing the family breadwinner, the rock, the person everyone relies on, that's a lot of pressure for a young woman to handle. On top of that she lost her sibling and her dad is under investigation. Now she has to deal with people judging her choices too. I don't blame her for lashing out, there's only so much a person can take. A little understanding can go a long way folks.
ReplyDeleteI most definitely agree 10:55
DeleteMay I request that she should contemplate and take a break from social media.
ReplyDeleteSimple solution for her: refrain from using social media for a period. If she was able to disable them for a while in the past, she may willingly do so at this much needed time.
ReplyDeleteas what her tita Nona said, Nadine is the rock that the family is leaning on right now, what else can she do but be strong for her family? This is her way of shielding her family from prying eyes of people who has been judging them from this tragedy. I am with her on this, she's acting like a lioness protecting her kin which given the situation any person will do.
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