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Tuesday, May 23, 2017

Repost: Friendship of Jed Madela and Darren Espanto Affected by Rumors

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Source: www.news.abs-cbn.com

Jed Madela admitted that his friendship with Darren Espanto has been affected after some people put malice into their closeness.

In an interview on Sunday, Madela said things are no longer the same between them and he is saddened that it had to be this way.

“I’ve always been a kuya to Darren ever since he started. Ngayon na he is already finding his spot in the industry, I can’t help but be very proud of him. And for these people to come to the limelight and bash and give meaning, nakakasakit ng damdamin,” he said.

“In all honesty, ngayon, hindi kami masyadong okay. We just say ‘hi, hello,’ unlike before. I try to protect the kid. Kung iba-bash ninyo ako, okay lang. Pero kapag siya na or 'yung ibang kaibigan ko, mas lalo akong nasasaktan. Ako, naha-handle ko,” he added.

Although they still communicate with each other through text, Madela said things could have been better if only people weren’t malicious.

“Kapag maraming tao, we are kind of awkward. Hindi lang sa kanya. It’s more of kung sino ang mga na-intriga sa akin. It kind of become awkward na ‘hi, hello,’ alis. Ganun na lang. Wala ng harutan, wala ng lokohan. It’s pretty sad but that’s how the industry works,” he said.

Despite this, Madela is hoping things will go back to normal.

“Hopefully. Kanina nga we were talking, we were goofing around sa backstage sa dressing room. Pero nandoon pa rin 'yung pagka-awkward na baka may makakita na naman, may mag-picture tapos 'yung picture, bibigyan na naman ng kulay. It’s very disappointing and frustrating,” he said.

For Madela, he would rather be hurt than any of his friends because he is certain that he can handle all the bashing.

“I’m a very private person and I try to protect and value my privacy, especially my friends. For them to get bashed just because I’m their friend is very painful for me. Minsan, ako na lang, I try to keep it to myself and tell them, ‘Sige lang, go lang, okay lang ako,’” he said.

14 comments:

  1. Iwas na lang koya jed.

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  2. Dami kasing homophobic na tao ngayon na wala sa lugar. Jusko. Ano naman kung he's being like a kuya sa mga hindi nya kadugo. Kapag babae naman ang ganyan okay lang. magkaka holding hands pa nga madalas pag babae sa babae eh. May tawagan pa!

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    1. Oo nga, korek.. grabbeee mga tao, lagi advance mag isip. Lahat binibigyan ng kulay.. masydo padin baga si darren para sa ganyang issue.. tsk tsk tsk..

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  3. Grabe na kasi mga tao ngayon lalo na sa social media.

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  4. "Wala ng harutan, wala ng lokohan."

    Well, sa edad mong iyan, using the word "harutan" sa dati ninyong interactions/relationship ni Darren, maski ako ang magulang ng bata baka ilayo ko sa iyo e, not because of gender preference or ano mang rumor, pero namimiss mo talaga yung dating "harutan" ha, Jed? tsk, wala ka ba ibang ka-edad mo na pwede ang "harutan"?

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    1. true. nabother talaga ako dun sa term na "kaharutan". Kahit babae pa yang kaharutan nya, its the age gap that makes it sound inapproriate

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    2. ako din, I didn't like the word he used, considering Darren's age, his still a child e

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    3. I think what he means by "harutan" is goofing around; at least that's how I define the word. I hail from the same province as Jed and to be honest, most of us are not fluent in Tagalog so we tend to use the wrong words. I also use the word "harutan" loosely; never thought it has a negative connotation.

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  5. Kalerks the word he used ha. Harutan. Hahaha!

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  6. DedMadela nalang jed!

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  7. Wala na bang ibang relevant topic na pwedeng pausapan kay Jed? Paulit-ulit nalang. Yes! you can handle all the bashing, eh inisip mo man lang ba yung bagets? He's just 15 at kung anu-anong malicious comments na natatanggap nya. Kung totoo kang kuya ikaw na iiwas, hindi yung magpapainterview ka pa at idadamay mo na naman pangalan nung bata. At please lang maghanap ka ng kaedad mo na "kaharutan"

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    1. ayan na nga sinabi niya diba maigi pang siya na lang ibash wag na mga kaibigan niya.

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  8. Dami kasing madudumi ang isip at judgmental

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