More like financial insecurity dahil sya no1 breadwinner sa pamilya nya tapos na taken advantage pa sya at baka nalugi rin sa mga investments. Being rich is not for eternity especially if you spend more than the money coming in.
Let her thyroid check. When my sister expreciences depressed mood, isolation and fatigue may thyroid disorder pala sya. Kaya lng she gained weight when she stopped taking medications balik uli ung mga intrusive ego thoughts nya.
@12:22 korek. Naawa ako kay Sharon dahil mukhang iniisa nya yung problema. Usually among Filipino families mga anak ang tumutulong sa parents nila but not in this case. Mukhang busy yung panganay sa jetset lifestyle.
naexperience ko na din yan, na parang pasang mo buong daigdig, tapos wala man lang nagooffer ng support tapos lahat ng taong nasa paligid mo ang alam lang gawin ay husgahan ka. Kaya siguro sa social media sya naglalabas ng sama ng loob kasi hindi sya nabibigyan pansin ng mga taong akala nya dadamayan sya kung ano mang pinagdadaanan nya ngayon.
Parang her heart is full of hatred, Haba ng listahan ng mga fault, pagkukulang, abusiveness and panggagamit ng mga friends and families sa kanya. To top it all cash stripped siya now, akala ko ba nabenta na house sa Calabasas, California?
Cash trapped. Naka invest ang pera. Hindi basta basta i withdraw o ibenta ang stocks o mga investments. Wait muna until the stocks are worthy enough to sell. Yan ang pagkakaintindi ko hindi yung wala syang pera totally na naghihirap.
12:22, I don't think ganun kabilis maubos yun, marunong naman siya mag-invest ng pera niya. I think her issue now is liquidity meaning hindi ganun kalaki ang cash niya. Siguro she maintains a certain threshold of cash & pag bumaba na, medyo namomroblema na siya, but it doesn't mean na wala na talagang mahuhugot.
wag mo ng intindihin. lahat daw ng tao hinuhuthutan sya. ngayong sya me kailangan wala syang mapuntahan.kaya fly na lang sya sa US kagaya ng mga luma nyang pelikula na pag me problema, lilipad sa US ang bida (which is so third world, by the way).
Ganyan talaga when you're rich daming dealings bka she was scammed, nalugi sa business then yong personal life nya malungkot kayang maging ulila plus career na hindi masimulan ang movie e atat n atat na yatang mag promote.
The NO ONE IN THE WORLD TO HELP ME part got me too. In life, families, friends and other people are only good to you when you are there for them. Mostly on financial situations.
However, when it's your turn to experience the downs in life, not a single soul is there to at least pretend to help or reach out to you.
Sharon is correct in saying the GIVE and TAKE part. Other people just love to RECEIVE things, deeds etc from you. But they put no effort in giving back the good things you've done for them.
Wow, 4:37 is that so third world? To fly to the US because she has properties there? After all we don't really know the real reason why she is there. The ordinary third world people will probably jump over the bridge or lie on the railway. Oh wait, marami ring gumagawa nyan elsewhere. I think it is basically human nature to "escape" and go somewhere para mag reflect and no third world about self searching at mag muni muni. Your comment is so third world. My comment? Sabihin nating na nai-intindihan ko si Sharon. Being compassionate is one great trait of humans.
I read the whole article and though she seems to be genuinely at a low point again, there are certain words there that makes me raise an eyelash... humble bragging at its finest.
Hmmmmm....so is Senetor Kiko not doing enough as a husband and father? Kasi alarming yung reklamo ni Sharon na "I should be retired but instead I'm working like a horse".
Iba ang lifestyle nila, at nag-aaral na mga anak nila. Di naman malaki ang sweldo ng senador (pwera na lang sa ibang kurakot dyan). Down lang talaga ung ibang investments ngayon, and typical SC na wala silang fines pag late ang projects nila. Stay strong, Ate Shawie!
Yung lifestyle ni Sharon pang multi-millionaire. Hindi naman yan kaya ni Kiko sa sweldo nya at alam naman yan ni Sharon from the start. Tignan mo kahit na may cash problems sya, she still flew to the US in business class. P300K din ang round trip tickets nyan.
huy! nakaprenup sila, nalimutan mo na ba? hehehe. lifestyle nya kayang kaya na imaintain hindi kelangan si kiko. bilyonarya sya. hindi lang multi-milyonnaire. :p
300k lang yan, lol. cuneta sya to begin with. nakarating ka na ba sa pasay? Dios diosan pamilya nila doon.
She flew Cathay FIRST class SUITE (not business) and it's the most expensive airline. Kung tlgang financially strapped siya she should learn to adjust. She could have flown a cheaper airline like Korean or PAL. But then again she couldve used points. We really dont know. For me kesa mag vent ng ganito ka haba and open yourself up to more speculations why not just keep it short and tlgang say what you really want to say. Name names na agad para tapos.
Madaling magsabi ng ganyan pero we don't know exactly what she's going through kahit i-describe pa nya. Just give her a break and quit giving her / celebrities advise as if we know them well.
Ibat iba ang coping mechanism natin sa stress. Yung iba shopping, yung iba spa, yung iba pagkain, yung iba bisyo. Sya gusto nya muna iwan ang pinas just to relieve herself from the stress. Grow up ka ng grow up you should be the one to grow up wala ka pa yatang karanasan sa buhay.
Dumarating talaga sa point na kahit surrounded ka ng family, money or fame, you still feel alone dahil sa mga pinagdadaanan recently. OA pagdating sa iba pero maybe Sharon's personality is like that eversince. I feel you ate Shawie kaya be strong lang. No one can help you but yourself alone.
I feel Sharon. I worked for the last ten years as BPO Director and made money as hell. But my husband and all other people around me? They are there to spend my money. Thats all. And now I lost work and have no money, my husband cant even buy me new panties. I understand what she's going through
Same thing here except that it's not hubby but the people around me whom I spent my money on. And now that I'm not earning as much as I used to and can't be as generous, those who benefitted from me before are treating me like dirt. Painful but glad that I learned an important lesson - I realized who's family and who's not.
Ouch! Ditto... yung tipong gusto mong magreklamo pero wla rin namang makikinig or makakaintindi sayo. Tas palabasin pa ng husband mo na parang wala siyang kinalaman kung bat nauubos savings mo or nakukulangan ka sa pera pagkatapos ng buwan. Hay ewan! Buhay nga naman!
1:47 I can relate. I used to work but now Im doing business. Yung tipong super pressured ka sa bpo work and people around you is wala lang. Since you are very talented, I suggest you try doing business or get online gigs like back office work.
Ang prob kc kung sino may pera yon ang taya lalo na sa hospital bills hindi mo naman kayang tiisin yong kamag anak mo sa hospital n humihingi ng tulong. Nakaka depress nga after mo tumulong at wala ka ng pera ikaw pang aawayin.
Masama man magbilang pero minsan nakakapagod din di ba? Yung mga natulungan mo nung ikaw ang may pera, mga nagagalit pa kasi pinapakiusapan mong magbigay ng kahit kaunti sa nahiram nila dahil ikaw naman na ang nangangailangan ngayon.
Stop being so nega to someone who is going through a lot. She can say what she wants, if it helps her ventilate her feelings. No one is in the position to judge her.
Lahat tayo may pinagdadaanan. Kaya nga if you dont have anything good to say, it is better to shut up na lang. Minsan nga mas mahirap pa ang problema ng me pera kesa sa ating mga simpleng tao lang e.
9:40 Paano mo po bang nasabi na walang kasinglaki ng problema nya si commenter? For all you know, mas mabigat pinagdadaanan nya.
Sharon may have problems, pero sino ba ang walang pinoproblema? Buti nga po at si Sharon, may means pa to go to US. Ibig sabihin kahit sabihin niyang cash strapped sya, hindi pa rin sya naghihikahos unlike other peopls na kulang na lamang ay hindi makakain kahit isang beses sa isang araw. So yeah, in a way... Sharon is being a brat kasi habang naghihinga sya ng sama ng loob, sinasabi pa rin nyang billionaire sya.
if she's not happy with her life now then perhaps it's time to quit and put a stop to things that make her sad..sell off half of those investments, get them to be liquid and save some for her children's school and future, save some for herself and spend the rest for things that will make her truly happy.. her happiness depends on herself alone, be miserable and no one will be there to share her misery.. people will empathize and sympathize but not for long
Baks, if you're like that to your friends, i would feel bad for them. You don't know what she's going through then you're here giving her advices which could very well be wrong. Masyadong mamaru.
It's not so easy to sell or liquidate your properties especially if they're expensive. Kung ang normal na bahay nga inaabot ng average 2 years mabenta. Lalo na ngayon na hindi maganda ang economy ng bansa, takot ang mga buyers na maglabas ng pera.
I feel for her. I hope she gets all the help and guidance she needs. I hope people will be more considerate and kind for situations like this and stop the hating and bashing.
I agree. We all go through challenges, struggles and trials in our lives. Just because she is the megastar doesn't mean her life is always perfect and a bed of roses. Let's just pray for her and wish her well.
Ibang iba kasi yung support system niya growing up sa current support system niya. Dati sheltered at protected siya ng Mom & Dad niya at may clout talaga pamilya nila, parang untouchable nga sila noon. Pero ngayon, hindi na ganon. Hindi pareho ang political clout ng Tatay ni Sharon at ni Kiko, kaya dapat siya ang mag protekta sa mga anak niya at sarili niya.
I agree. And not to mention all the political enemies they must have tapos wala nang magpprotect sa kanya. She's at the intersection of showbiz and politics pa. Two of the harshest environments.
si sen. kiko nagfa-farm kasi yun ang gusto nya pgka-abalahan at kumikita din nman siya doon. si sharon mahilig sa buy ng properties, minsan nagbebenta din siya pero siguro nanawa ndn siya.
I pity her but isn't that kind of embarrassing to her immediate family for her to say that there is no one else who can help her. Is her problem financial? Pera Lang yan ang importance she has the support of family. But then again, very disturbing ang mga sentiments nya.
I don't think so, Anon 2:51PM. Yung pagpapapayat is beneficial and healthy for her, in the first place. And that's a shallow reason for her to be depressed.
Minsan akala natin may mga taong meron na sila ng lahat pero di pa pala sila happy ano. I will pray for you Sharon, a long time ago di pa uso yang social media you had your website up and I wrote a message to you for my mom who's a fan (di techie si mommy eh). I was surprised and touched that you responded. That act showed what kind of a person you are kaya sa pagsubok mong ito I am praying that you surpass it.
Stay strong, Ate Shawie. Don't mind the evil-good for nothing people in social media who tries to ruin your husband or say negative things about you. I sincerely hope you can get past through your troubles now, financially, emotionally etc. Everyone deserves a break, and so do you who has been working so hard.
I am tired of her personal drama being played out in public too. I was intially happy to see her in The Voice. However, she has been too 'papansin' lately. Please ABS-CBN, take her out of that show. She's too immature.
Because it's Mother's Day and I feel the love soaring from within me during these times, let us remember to
"be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about"
May we spread positivity to the world, even to people we do not know. May Sharon find the peace and the wisdom to go through what she's experiencing. Rich or poor, everyone has a breaking point, a trigger, a weakness, so for the benefit of LOVE, let us send positive vibes, not just to Sharon, but all of us too!
Still cant understand what her problem is. Financial ba? Sino ba ang umaasa sa kanya financially na ikinasasama ng loob niya. You're still blessed Shawie. You could afford to go abroad alone and spend time for yourself to sort out your problems. Some people are stuck and dont even have time for themselves. You Ate Shawie have the most valuable thing--time for yourself.
Kaya pala binenta yung family home nila and they moved to a condo. I hope she can bounce back from those investments. Shawie has a good heart, and at her menopausal age and these trying times, she needs all the support system from family and friends.
they sold their family house in wack wack because she doesn't wanna live in the metro anymore. they have another house in laguna. she bought the condo (entire floor) so she could have privacy when she wants to be alone and for work purposes also so she won't need to travel far to attend tapings.
Mukhang midlife crisis, baka malapit na magmenopause si mega. It happens, my mother underwent the same thing a couple of years ago, they are about the same age.
The post is very enlightening, thanks Sharon for being truthful to yourself and to your public. Happy Mothers Day Fashionpulis readers and to your Mom too FP!
Sa akin lang... go back to basics. Simple lifestyle. You don't need designer stuff and all the trappings of wealth. All the money in the world won't make you happy.
I can relate to mega... nadedepress lang talaga ang mga moms minsan... tao lang. they feel alone, helpless... then after they rest, they bounce back. That's why its important that we always assure them of our love, gratitude etc.....
Dami kumukuda dito na hindi naintindihan si Sharon. A close family had this problem when her business went downhill, her husband already retired, and they had millions of home and business loans to pay. Sa sobrang depression, hindi na sya nakakatulog everyday. In the end, she needed to sell her own house for 50% of the market value dahil desperate na sya and was hopeless. The sale value was just enough to pay off all her loans. She lost everything she worked for 20 years. She had to start from scratch. That is also depressing! It's like she wasted 20 of her life and worked hard for nothing. Same ito ng case ni Sharon kaya sya depressed and bakit hindi ganun kadali na sabihin na itigil nya na ang drama nya.
The only reason why she spoke up is she didnt want ppl to think it's about Kiko and that false story going around about him. Also, her life's been an open book since she was young. She probably feels like she owes it to her real fans.
Hindi ibig sabihin na porke artista siya ay dba pwedeng mag vent sa socmed. It is her right as a human being tulad mo na nagkokomento rin dito. Gets mo?
Mapilit lang vaks? Financial problem nga oh. Kahit naman anong tatag or saya ng marriage pag may malaking problema sa pera, madedepress ka. Pero it doesn't mean hindi ka masaya na sa asawa mo. Kaloka ka!
Maybe it is one factor. We do not see what is happening inside their home. Most of us see Kiko to be a responsible, religious and ideal husband. Kaso baka kulang sa diskarte. Ate Shawie is expecting more of him espcially now that they are having financial problems. Mahirap pag money na ang issue nagkakaron ng sumbatan and the worst part is it can ruin the marriage and lead to separation.
"Cash strapped" pero traveling first class parin. Im sure going away means shopping, eating out in expensive restos etc (meaning she will still be spending). Things aren't so bad. She still has billions in assets. #richpeopleproblems
Kahit naman siguro kung ako naloko or namigay ng money sa ibang tao hindi ako manghihinayang na gumastos ng 1st class for gift for myself after all stress.
She is undergoing depression & needs professional help; at the v least a spiritual adviser. Kinda sad that someone of her stature would publicly rant while majority of the filipino people work their butt out & yet dont get financially rewarded. Dont we all pray for a comfortable life or things that she already had or had at one point in her life . Get out of your shell, look around & count your blessings
Boom! Kahit anong financial problems, the mere fact that she has a family that lives her should be enough. It's not as if she's starving or living in the dumps. A lot of people go through worse.
You are right anon 11:52. Ako nga sa laki ng problema ko ngayon lagi ko na lang iniisip na swerte pa din ako kasi me pamliya ako. Na sa kabila ng ilang years kong pagttrabaho na sumusweldo ng malaki pero wala akong ipon e dapat pa din ako magpasalamat. Di tayo pababayaan ng Diyos..
Mostly ng comments here are very enlightening. Minsan kc feeling ko ang malas malas ko. Pero narerealize ko din na hindi naman ako nagiisa. May mga taong mas mabigat pa ang problema saken and I should be thankful dahil nakakasurvive pa din naman kame ng mga anak ko.
Madaling sabihin. Pero mahirap gawin yan. Especially pag nagkaroon ka na ng depression. It's a chemical imbalance/ illness that needs medical attention & deeper understanding. Maybe she's ranting in social media, because she felt that no one is listening to her and felt hopeless (sign of depression like a grey cloud hanging over your head) And you cannot compare your problems sa kahit kanino dahil kanya kanya tayo ng experiences sa buhay. At kanya kanya din ng personality & coping mechanism . I know because someone close to me had a depression to the point of suicidal. What sharon needs is a support system that will encourage her to be strong on her own terms not an asessment to her problems nor judgement to her character.
Exactly. @iamStar! Agree ako. Ganyan ang mga tao. Madali lang kasi hinde naman sila andun sa situation na yun. Minsan sa ganyang case, need lang talaga ng may makikinig sa kanila.
11:52. Couldn't agree more with you. Its a fact of life that none of us are immune to problems. Overcoming these dilemmas is not often easy. Pero sabi nga lagi, always count your blessings, kahit iilan lang. No matter how dire it may be, there is always, even just a sliver of silver lining lying somewhere there. Kahit yung kakaramput na lang na yon, hang on to it.
I think kiko and sharon need marriage counselling...i think they are growing apart. Si kiko is preoccupied with politics and farming. I remember when sharon was hibernating si kiko 5 am plang daw nsa farm na.
Nagsasawa na siguro si Kiko sa "me,me,me" problems ni Nega. E si Kiko problema ng bayan ang iniintindi kaya sa farm nakakahanap ng relief sa stressful work sa senado. Mababaw rin kasi si Nega, hindi pareho ang wavelength nila ni Kiko.
Mahilig sya sa books. Sabi nya 15,000 books meron sya. Ung iba gift nya daw. I think hindi nmn lahat ng friend and love ones bigyan mo ng gift. Nauuso na kasi sa celebrity pa bonggahan ng gift. Minsan hindi pwede lahat makikiuso ka. Bandang huli manghihinayang ka sa effort mo na hindi kayang tumbasan. Sabi nga kapag nagbigay ka ng bukal sa loob huwag kanang mag antay ng kapalit. Kulang po si sharon ng pagiging kontento sa buhay.
I feel bad for her.It hits when she said shes the poorest billionare.Its stressful if lahat nakakaasa sa yo.Shawi,please learn to say no and put your foot down.Learn to be selfish for yourself .You owe it to yourself .Happy mothers day!
Natapos ba n Sharon yung course she enrolled sa UP Open when she was in her early 40s? If not, better go back to school Ate Shawie, it is great for middle aged women, to stay mentally active esp to those who are suffering depression.
12:29 - ALSO, PARANG KC WAS RAISED THE WESTERN WAY. HINDI USO SA KANILA IYONG ANAK ANG TUTULONG SA MGA MAGULANG ESPECIALLY FINANCIALLY. SA MAHIHIRAP NA BANSA LANG GANUN ANG MENTALITY.
kc, i think, doesn't have the means as well considering the amount of money sharon needs, we're talking big investments. they are just really maluho that's why people think they have overflowing assets. you have to remember, these celebrities spend so much money on expensive stuff but they are tax deductible claiming that they're needed for work so they actually get the money back when they file their taxes. in this family's case, they spend more than what they earn.
I feel her sentiments, maybe taken for granted cya ng family nya. Ako kc ka age nya, i worked nung dalaga pa ako, i finished college but remain a housewife and a mother of three. Madalas naiyak ako sa gabi kc parang lahat ng sakripisyo ko at hirap sa bahay d nakikita ng pamilya ko. It's my responsibility and obligation to take care of them and household daw kc nanay ako. Db dapat cla ganun din bilang member of the family to do their share? D ako narereklamo parang masarap lang na maapreciate nla effort mo at makita nla na napapagod ka din db?
Kasalanan mo kc nakatapos k pala ng college eh di ka nag work at inuna mo pagaasawa at pag aanak and worst di mo pa naturuan husband ang kids mo na maging appreciative sa mga bagay na meron cla at sau bilang ina at asawa. It's your fault.
7.47 AM ignore 12.27 PM You are a good mom and trust me your family knows your worth. As a mom too, naiimagine ko rin na I was ignored sometimes but it's all in our mind, imagination lang. Exert more effort to connect with your family but at the same time connect with yourself. Have a hobby, join the gym, or even just dance to Beyonce or even Ariana Grande when you feel lonely. Always remember, you are a good mom, and you are a good person.
12:27, huwag mo naman agad husgaan si 7:47. Pareho din kami. While she failed to state whether she was forced to make that choice or have done so on her own accord, being a stay-at-home Mom is indeed a thankless job at times. With me, it was my own choosing, though I did held a part-time job from time to time. Both of my kids are a product of infertility treatments kaya mas ginusto kong maging full hands on para namnamin yung experience na feeling naming, mag-asawa, matagal pinagkait. No regrets but it doesn't take away that feeling, especially when you feel very overwhelmed with so many tasks, of being unappreciated. Yung ultimong compensation mo lang sana kahit a simple thank you. Human nature does have a tendency to take things for granted. And my family, as much as I love them so much, are also immune to that. Kaya naman don't be so quick to pass judgment. Any choice, however is it your own or by circumstance, often carries some sort of sacrifice.
Thanks 1:26 and 1:44, i was so touched by your comments and it makes me feel better now, and yes sometimes when we are tired doing same routine everyday we had the tendency na magself pity talaga. 12:27, 22 na ako nagasawa i had no choice na maging nanay na lang at housewife kc walang magaalaga sa mga anak ko. You don't have to be judgemental and avoid giving harsh comments kc d ka nakakatulong. I just relay my own sentiments to get some encouraging words that might help me cope sa mga kadramahan ko sa buhay.
1:44 here, you're welcome dearie. When the going gets tough, lagi mo lang isipin, balang araw, mare-realize din ng family mo yung kahalagaan ng lahat ng ginagawa mo para sa kanila. Hintayin mo lang. In the meantime, sino pa ba ang magbibigay moral support sa isa't isa kungdi tayong mga mothers din. Believe me, maraming katulad natin who goes through the same thing out there.
Not sure if you guys will come back to this thread but totally true, there are many of us who have the same struggles. So Sharon's and other moms' sentiments here are totally normal and relatable. Not because we don't talk, we are not hurting, but not because we are hurting, we are miserable. Struggles of mommy life lang talaga, chores, financial probs, social pressure etc.
Kaartehan parang Kris Aquino lang. Yan napapala kakanuod ng drama at social media. Mga lalaki hindi naman ganyan na maraming drama. Babae lang talaga lalo na pag pampered.
Still, miss Sharon you still lucky. You have good life. To become a billionaire is achievement with us if we have 5t in the bank that's makes us happy because we are contented of our life. Count your blessing and minimize every thing.
To ate shawie .i have been a fan since mr dj pa..ikaw lang makakagamot nian kung ano man pinagdadaanan mo.Just pray to the Lord for divine help let go of all negative thoughts.lahat ng mabibigat basta ipagpray lang lahat yan mawawala kahit gaano pa yan kabigat
Whatever pain and suffering and depression she is going through,never discredit her of her success. She worked hard for it kaya si KC naiiwan sa lolo at lola nya growing up dahil sa trabaho nyang walang tigil. Magbigay ka naman ng respeto. Megastar yan ng ilang dekada dahil may ibinuga at ibubuga aa musika at pelikula at iba pa.
Mid life crisis lang yan
ReplyDeleteMore like financial insecurity dahil sya no1 breadwinner sa pamilya nya tapos na taken advantage pa sya at baka nalugi rin sa mga investments. Being rich is not for eternity especially if you spend more than the money coming in.
DeleteLet her thyroid check. When my sister expreciences depressed mood, isolation and fatigue may thyroid disorder pala sya. Kaya lng she gained weight when she stopped taking medications balik uli ung mga intrusive ego thoughts nya.
DeleteKaya Yung mga fans na nagsasabi na mayaman na sila... Di need ng work... be careful. The well just might end up dry.
Delete@12:22 korek. Naawa ako kay Sharon dahil mukhang iniisa nya yung problema. Usually among Filipino families mga anak ang tumutulong sa parents nila but not in this case. Mukhang busy yung panganay sa jetset lifestyle.
Delete1:20 nyek. She put everything out there pati yung pagkaubos ng pera nya, midlife crisis? Hmm ok.
Deletenaexperience ko na din yan, na parang pasang mo buong daigdig, tapos wala man lang nagooffer ng support tapos lahat ng taong nasa paligid mo ang alam lang gawin ay husgahan ka. Kaya siguro sa social media sya naglalabas ng sama ng loob kasi hindi sya nabibigyan pansin ng mga taong akala nya dadamayan sya kung ano mang pinagdadaanan nya ngayon.
DeleteParang her heart is full of hatred, Haba ng listahan ng mga fault, pagkukulang, abusiveness and panggagamit ng mga friends and families sa kanya. To top it all cash stripped siya now, akala ko ba nabenta na house sa Calabasas, California?
DeleteCash trapped. Naka invest ang pera. Hindi basta basta i withdraw o ibenta ang stocks o mga investments. Wait muna until the stocks are worthy enough to sell. Yan ang pagkakaintindi ko hindi yung wala syang pera totally na naghihirap.
Delete12:22, I don't think ganun kabilis maubos yun, marunong naman siya mag-invest ng pera niya. I think her issue now is liquidity meaning hindi ganun kalaki ang cash niya. Siguro she maintains a certain threshold of cash & pag bumaba na, medyo namomroblema na siya, but it doesn't mean na wala na talagang mahuhugot.
DeleteSorry di ko gets
ReplyDeleteShe has too much inside. I guess she needs professional help
Deletewag mo ng intindihin. lahat daw ng tao hinuhuthutan sya. ngayong sya me kailangan wala syang mapuntahan.kaya fly na lang sya sa US kagaya ng mga luma nyang pelikula na pag me problema, lilipad sa US ang bida (which is so third world, by the way).
DeleteGanyan talaga when you're rich daming dealings bka she was scammed, nalugi sa business then yong personal life nya malungkot kayang maging ulila plus career na hindi masimulan ang movie e atat n atat na yatang mag promote.
DeleteThe NO ONE IN THE WORLD TO HELP ME part got me too. In life, families, friends and other people are only good to you when you are there for them. Mostly on financial situations.
DeleteHowever, when it's your turn to experience the downs in life, not a single soul is there to at least pretend to help or reach out to you.
Sharon is correct in saying the GIVE and TAKE part. Other people just love to RECEIVE things, deeds etc from you. But they put no effort in giving back the good things you've done for them.
Sad but true.
4:37 hahahhahaa! Kurek!
DeleteWow, 4:37 is that so third world? To fly to the US because she has properties there? After all we don't really know the real reason why she is there. The ordinary third world people will probably jump over the bridge or lie on the railway. Oh wait, marami ring gumagawa nyan elsewhere. I think it is basically human nature to "escape" and go somewhere para mag reflect and no third world about self searching at mag muni muni. Your comment is so third world. My comment? Sabihin nating na nai-intindihan ko si Sharon. Being compassionate is one great trait of humans.
DeleteAwwww poor little cash strapped billionaire. At some point, I hope you just sell everything that's making you unhappy and go live a peaceful life.
ReplyDeleteSimpleng yabang lang haha
DeleteFor the sake of using that word mukhang ka-off but it's true nman she has a billion worth of assets.
Deleteoo 7:15 alam na ng lahat ung billion niya, gasgas na gasgas na nga eh. umay na umay na mga tao
DeleteI read the whole article and though she seems to be genuinely at a low point again, there are certain words there that makes me raise an eyelash... humble bragging at its finest.
DeleteAgree 3:12. My opinion is this isn't really a financial problem. It's something else. Opinion lang po ito, walang bashing dito ha?
Delete7:14 when you have depression you worry about everything lahat nlng kahit songs feeling mo para sa yo yong song.
DeleteHmmmmm....so is Senetor Kiko not doing enough as a husband and father? Kasi alarming yung reklamo ni Sharon na "I should be retired but instead I'm working like a horse".
ReplyDeleteIba ang lifestyle nila, at nag-aaral na mga anak nila. Di naman malaki ang sweldo ng senador (pwera na lang sa ibang kurakot dyan). Down lang talaga ung ibang investments ngayon, and typical SC na wala silang fines pag late ang projects nila. Stay strong, Ate Shawie!
DeleteYung lifestyle ni Sharon pang multi-millionaire. Hindi naman yan kaya ni Kiko sa sweldo nya at alam naman yan ni Sharon from the start. Tignan mo kahit na may cash problems sya, she still flew to the US in business class. P300K din ang round trip tickets nyan.
Deletehuy! nakaprenup sila, nalimutan mo na ba? hehehe. lifestyle nya kayang kaya na imaintain hindi kelangan si kiko. bilyonarya sya. hindi lang multi-milyonnaire. :p
Delete300k lang yan, lol. cuneta sya to begin with. nakarating ka na ba sa pasay? Dios diosan pamilya nila doon.
Ang laki ng farm ni Sen Kiko pero parang ung inaani nyang prganic pinamimigay lng din, not income generating.
DeleteShe flew Cathay FIRST class SUITE (not business) and it's the most expensive airline. Kung tlgang financially strapped siya she should learn to adjust. She could have flown a cheaper airline like Korean or PAL. But then again she couldve used points. We really dont know. For me kesa mag vent ng ganito ka haba and open yourself up to more speculations why not just keep it short and tlgang say what you really want to say. Name names na agad para tapos.
DeleteGulo ng utak, iniwan mga anak, dahil sa problem, bakit di pag usapan nilang mag asawa yun. Pwede, grow up na, di ka na teen age nohhh.
ReplyDeleteMadaling magsabi ng ganyan pero we don't know exactly what she's going through kahit i-describe pa nya. Just give her a break and quit giving her / celebrities advise as if we know them well.
DeleteShe's emotionally drained! Poor ate Shawie. 😞
DeleteIbat iba ang coping mechanism natin sa stress. Yung iba shopping, yung iba spa, yung iba pagkain, yung iba bisyo. Sya gusto nya muna iwan ang pinas just to relieve herself from the stress. Grow up ka ng grow up you should be the one to grow up wala ka pa yatang karanasan sa buhay.
Deleteang galing mo mag-advice, hanga ako sayo!
Delete6:10 - WHEN I GET SAD, I TRAVEL (2 WEEKS TO ONE MONTH. MINSAN 3 MONTHS PA). PAGBALIK KO, MAS OKAY NA IYONG PAKIRAMDAM KO.
DeleteDumarating talaga sa point na kahit surrounded ka ng family, money or fame, you still feel alone dahil sa mga pinagdadaanan recently. OA pagdating sa iba pero maybe Sharon's personality is like that eversince. I feel you ate Shawie kaya be strong lang. No one can help you but yourself alone.
ReplyDeleteI feel Sharon. I worked for the last ten years as BPO Director and made money as hell. But my husband and all other people around me? They are there to spend my money. Thats all. And now I lost work and have no money, my husband cant even buy me new panties. I understand what she's going through
ReplyDeleteSame thing here except that it's not hubby but the people around me whom I spent my money on. And now that I'm not earning as much as I used to and can't be as generous, those who benefitted from me before are treating me like dirt. Painful but glad that I learned an important lesson - I realized who's family and who's not.
DeleteWow di pala ako nag-iisa. Nakakalungkot ang ganyang parang nagagamit ka lang... pamilya mo pa.
DeleteStay strong, Sharon.
Ouch! Ditto... yung tipong gusto mong magreklamo pero wla rin namang makikinig or makakaintindi sayo. Tas palabasin pa ng husband mo na parang wala siyang kinalaman kung bat nauubos savings mo or nakukulangan ka sa pera pagkatapos ng buwan. Hay ewan! Buhay nga naman!
Delete1:47 I can relate. I used to work but now Im doing business. Yung tipong super pressured ka sa bpo work and people around you is wala lang. Since you are very talented, I suggest you try doing business or get online gigs like back office work.
DeleteSH*T! SAME! Lahat ng tinulungan mo ning madami ka pang pera, wala nang pakialam sa'yo nung ikaw naman ang may kailangan!!!
DeleteAng prob kc kung sino may pera yon ang taya lalo na sa hospital bills hindi mo naman kayang tiisin yong kamag anak mo sa hospital n humihingi ng tulong. Nakaka depress nga after mo tumulong at wala ka ng pera ikaw pang aawayin.
DeleteMasama man magbilang pero minsan nakakapagod din di ba? Yung mga natulungan mo nung ikaw ang may pera, mga nagagalit pa kasi pinapakiusapan mong magbigay ng kahit kaunti sa nahiram nila dahil ikaw naman na ang nangangailangan ngayon.
Deleteakala ko ako lang nakakaramdam ng ganito :(
DeleteSpoiled brat. Papansin.
ReplyDeleteStop being so nega to someone who is going through a lot. She can say what she wants, if it helps her ventilate her feelings. No one is in the position to judge her.
DeleteLahat tayo may pinagdadaanan. Kaya nga if you dont have anything good to say, it is better to shut up na lang. Minsan nga mas mahirap pa ang problema ng me pera kesa sa ating mga simpleng tao lang e.
DeleteDali sabihin kasi wala ka naman kasing laki ng problema nya.
Delete9:40 Paano mo po bang nasabi na walang kasinglaki ng problema nya si commenter? For all you know, mas mabigat pinagdadaanan nya.
DeleteSharon may have problems, pero sino ba ang walang pinoproblema? Buti nga po at si Sharon, may means pa to go to US. Ibig sabihin kahit sabihin niyang cash strapped sya, hindi pa rin sya naghihikahos unlike other peopls na kulang na lamang ay hindi makakain kahit isang beses sa isang araw. So yeah, in a way... Sharon is being a brat kasi habang naghihinga sya ng sama ng loob, sinasabi pa rin nyang billionaire sya.
Ang haba ng sinabi nya hindi ko naintindihan tinutumbok nya. Pero ang alam ko pwede naman ma depress/malungkot/mapagod na walang particular reason(s).
ReplyDeleteEtong panyo, nosebleed ka ata bes. Hehehehe
DeleteTao lng tayo hindi machine.Ako nga i tsismis lng ng kapit bahay ko hindi nman totoo depressed na ko. E sya p kaya na daming dealings to buhay.
DeleteThis is the most honest and raw post i have read from her so far
ReplyDeleteNot nega but very on point
She's honest and relatable to some people. Stay strong Ms. Sharon!
Delete2:14 felt the same way too.
Deleteso true!
Deleteif she's not happy with her life now then perhaps it's time to quit and put a stop to things that make her sad..sell off half of those investments, get them to be liquid and save some for her children's school and future, save some for herself and spend the rest for things that will make her truly happy.. her happiness depends on herself alone, be miserable and no one will be there to share her misery.. people will empathize and sympathize but not for long
ReplyDeleteBaks, if you're like that to your friends, i would feel bad for them. You don't know what she's going through then you're here giving her advices which could very well be wrong. Masyadong mamaru.
DeleteIt's not so easy to sell or liquidate your properties especially if they're expensive. Kung ang normal na bahay nga inaabot ng average 2 years mabenta. Lalo na ngayon na hindi maganda ang economy ng bansa, takot ang mga buyers na maglabas ng pera.
DeleteI feel for her. I hope she gets all the help and guidance she needs. I hope people will be more considerate and kind for situations like this and stop the hating and bashing.
ReplyDeleteI agree. We all go through challenges, struggles and trials in our lives. Just because she is the megastar doesn't mean her life is always perfect and a bed of roses. Let's just pray for her and wish her well.
DeleteIbang iba kasi yung support system niya growing up sa current support system niya. Dati sheltered at protected siya ng Mom & Dad niya at may clout talaga pamilya nila, parang untouchable nga sila noon. Pero ngayon, hindi na ganon. Hindi pareho ang political clout ng Tatay ni Sharon at ni Kiko, kaya dapat siya ang mag protekta sa mga anak niya at sarili niya.
ReplyDeleteJust realized this. True.
DeleteI agree. I can only imagine her stress. Siguro gusto rin niya na maibalik yung dati.
DeleteThis is the most sensible comment i've read.
DeleteShare the same thoughts. It must be very unnerving for her to find this harsh truth.
DeleteI agree. And not to mention all the political enemies they must have tapos wala nang magpprotect sa kanya. She's at the intersection of showbiz and politics pa. Two of the harshest environments.
Deletesi sen. kiko nagfa-farm kasi yun ang gusto nya pgka-abalahan at kumikita din nman siya doon. si sharon mahilig sa buy ng properties, minsan nagbebenta din siya pero siguro nanawa ndn siya.
ReplyDeleteI pity her but isn't that kind of embarrassing to her immediate family for her to say that there is no one else who can help her. Is her problem financial? Pera Lang yan ang importance she has the support of family. But then again, very disturbing ang mga sentiments nya.
ReplyDeleteMadaling sabihin pera lang yan pero nakasanayan na nila ang lifestyle of the rich and famous tapos biglang cash strap sila. Saklap yun sa ego ni Mega.
DeleteAround 300k air ticket nya to US at syempre gumagastos pa sya dun tapos ang problema nya cash strap?
DeleteOk, it's a rant against Star Cinema. Kasi nagpapayat ba sya't lagat, hindi pa rin batuloy ang movie.
ReplyDeleteI don't think so, Anon 2:51PM. Yung pagpapapayat is beneficial and healthy for her, in the first place. And that's a shallow reason for her to be depressed.
DeleteMinsan akala natin may mga taong meron na sila ng lahat pero di pa pala sila happy ano. I will pray for you Sharon, a long time ago di pa uso yang social media you had your website up and I wrote a message to you for my mom who's a fan (di techie si mommy eh). I was surprised and touched that you responded. That act showed what kind of a person you are kaya sa pagsubok mong ito I am praying that you surpass it.
ReplyDeleteStay strong, Ate Shawie. Don't mind the evil-good for nothing people in social media who tries to ruin your husband or say negative things about you. I sincerely hope you can get past through your troubles now, financially, emotionally etc. Everyone deserves a break, and so do you who has been working so hard.
ReplyDeleteI am tired of her personal drama being played out in public too. I was intially happy to see her in The Voice. However, she has been too 'papansin' lately. Please ABS-CBN, take her out of that show. She's too immature.
ReplyDeleteSo ikina mature mo itong statement na ito? May option ka not to watch her
DeleteKapal mo naman to say na pls tanggalin siya sa show??? Sino ka ba???
DeleteGusto mo cguro ikaw pumalit kay Sharon s The Voice kaya mo sya pinatatangal
DeleteBecause it's Mother's Day and I feel the love soaring from within me during these times, let us remember to
ReplyDelete"be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about"
May we spread positivity to the world, even to people we do not know. May Sharon find the peace and the wisdom to go through what she's experiencing. Rich or poor, everyone has a breaking point, a trigger, a weakness, so for the benefit of LOVE, let us send positive vibes, not just to Sharon, but all of us too!
Choose love, choose life!
:-)
Still cant understand what her problem is. Financial ba? Sino ba ang umaasa sa kanya financially na ikinasasama ng loob niya. You're still blessed Shawie. You could afford to go abroad alone and spend time for yourself to sort out your problems. Some people are stuck and dont even have time for themselves. You Ate Shawie have the most valuable thing--time for yourself.
ReplyDeleteKaya pala binenta yung family home nila and they moved to a condo. I hope she can bounce back from those investments. Shawie has a good heart, and at her menopausal age and these trying times, she needs all the support system from family and friends.
ReplyDeletethey sold their family house in wack wack because she doesn't wanna live in the metro anymore. they have another house in laguna. she bought the condo (entire floor) so she could have privacy when she wants to be alone and for work purposes also so she won't need to travel far to attend tapings.
DeleteEntire floor of a condo? She could've opted for a simpler lifestyle. Rich people problems.
Deleteito ba yung bahay nilang may elevator sa loob?
DeleteAkala ko ba kakabenta lng ng property nya sa states.
ReplyDeleteYes but obviously kulang pa to solve her cash inflow dilemma.
DeleteMukhang midlife crisis, baka malapit na magmenopause si mega. It happens, my mother underwent the same thing a couple of years ago, they are about the same age.
ReplyDeleteIm tired of having to often act in real life too" - just proves that socmed makes life appear perfect. Sad but true.
ReplyDeleteTao lang. Wala namang perpektong buhay.
ReplyDeleteThe post is very enlightening, thanks Sharon for being truthful to yourself and to your public. Happy Mothers Day Fashionpulis readers and to your Mom too FP!
ReplyDeleteSa akin lang... go back to basics. Simple lifestyle. You don't need designer stuff and all the trappings of wealth. All the money in the world won't make you happy.
ReplyDeleteI can relate to mega... nadedepress lang talaga ang mga moms minsan... tao lang. they feel alone, helpless... then after they rest, they bounce back. That's why its important that we always assure them of our love, gratitude etc.....
ReplyDeleteDami kumukuda dito na hindi naintindihan si Sharon. A close family had this problem when her business went downhill, her husband already retired, and they had millions of home and business loans to pay. Sa sobrang depression, hindi na sya nakakatulog everyday. In the end, she needed to sell her own house for 50% of the market value dahil desperate na sya and was hopeless. The sale value was just enough to pay off all her loans. She lost everything she worked for 20 years. She had to start from scratch. That is also depressing! It's like she wasted 20 of her life and worked hard for nothing. Same ito ng case ni Sharon kaya sya depressed and bakit hindi ganun kadali na sabihin na itigil nya na ang drama nya.
ReplyDeleteHindi na dapat idinadaan sa social media yung mga ganyan. Magpagamot siya sa doctor at hindi mag mapa mukang victim of circumstance sa internet.
DeleteThe only reason why she spoke up is she didnt want ppl to think it's about Kiko and that false story going around about him. Also, her life's been an open book since she was young. She probably feels like she owes it to her real fans.
DeleteThe only reason???
DeleteEh palaging humahanash sa socmed yan lola mo. 1000 words minimum. Ha!
Hindi ibig sabihin na porke artista siya ay dba pwedeng mag vent sa socmed. It is her right as a human being tulad mo na nagkokomento rin dito. Gets mo?
DeleteThe girl is distraught.
ReplyDeleteShe just needs to breathe. Let her be. We all need that at some point. So pwede ba don't judge. No one has a right to.
ReplyDeletekaya pala grabe siya mka-tawa sa mga shows nya.
ReplyDeleteto the point na parang di na totoo
i think shes not happy with Kiko anymore
ReplyDeleteTama ka yun na po wala ng iba
DeleteMapilit lang vaks? Financial problem nga oh. Kahit naman anong tatag or saya ng marriage pag may malaking problema sa pera, madedepress ka. Pero it doesn't mean hindi ka masaya na sa asawa mo. Kaloka ka!
DeleteMaybe it is one factor. We do not see what is happening inside their home. Most of us see Kiko to be a responsible, religious and ideal husband. Kaso baka kulang sa diskarte. Ate Shawie is expecting more of him espcially now that they are having financial problems. Mahirap pag money na ang issue nagkakaron ng sumbatan and the worst part is it can ruin the marriage and lead to separation.
DeleteShe has concerts in America next month kaya napa aga ang pag alis nya.
ReplyDelete"Cash strapped" pero traveling first class parin. Im sure going away means shopping, eating out in expensive restos etc (meaning she will still be spending). Things aren't so bad. She still has billions in assets. #richpeopleproblems
ReplyDeleteKahit naman siguro kung ako naloko or namigay ng money sa ibang tao hindi ako manghihinayang na gumastos ng 1st class for gift for myself after all stress.
DeleteShe is undergoing depression & needs professional help; at the v least a spiritual adviser. Kinda sad that someone of her stature would publicly rant while majority of the filipino people work their butt out & yet dont get financially rewarded. Dont we all pray for a comfortable life or things that she already had or had at one point in her life . Get out of your shell, look around & count your blessings
ReplyDeleteThis!👍
DeleteOn point! 💯
DeleteMismo!
DeleteBoom! Kahit anong financial problems, the mere fact that she has a family that lives her should be enough. It's not as if she's starving or living in the dumps. A lot of people go through worse.
DeleteYou are right anon 11:52. Ako nga sa laki ng problema ko ngayon lagi ko na lang iniisip na swerte pa din ako kasi me pamliya ako. Na sa kabila ng ilang years kong pagttrabaho na sumusweldo ng malaki pero wala akong ipon e dapat pa din ako magpasalamat. Di tayo pababayaan ng Diyos..
Deleteyan ang hirap sa ibang tao, ang lakas mag-invalidate ng feelings at struggles ng iba
DeleteTrue ka diyan sis. Dami natin problema sa buhay financially at emotionally pero basta healthy at kasama ko pamilya ko happy lang.
DeleteMostly ng comments here are very enlightening. Minsan kc feeling ko ang malas malas ko. Pero narerealize ko din na hindi naman ako nagiisa. May mga taong mas mabigat pa ang problema saken and I should be thankful dahil nakakasurvive pa din naman kame ng mga anak ko.
DeleteMadaling sabihin. Pero mahirap gawin yan. Especially pag nagkaroon ka na ng depression. It's a chemical imbalance/ illness that needs medical attention & deeper understanding. Maybe she's ranting in social media, because she felt that no one is listening to her and felt hopeless (sign of depression like a grey cloud hanging over your head) And you cannot compare your problems sa kahit kanino dahil kanya kanya tayo ng experiences sa buhay. At kanya kanya din ng personality & coping mechanism . I know because someone close to me had a depression to the point of suicidal. What sharon needs is a support system that will encourage her to be strong on her own terms not an asessment to her problems nor judgement to her character.
DeleteExactly. @iamStar! Agree ako. Ganyan ang mga tao. Madali lang kasi hinde naman sila andun sa situation na yun. Minsan sa ganyang case, need lang talaga ng may makikinig sa kanila.
Delete11:52. Couldn't agree more with you. Its a fact of life that none of us are immune to problems. Overcoming these dilemmas is not often easy. Pero sabi nga lagi, always count your blessings, kahit iilan lang. No matter how dire it may be, there is always, even just a sliver of silver lining lying somewhere there. Kahit yung kakaramput na lang na yon, hang on to it.
DeleteI think kiko and sharon need marriage counselling...i think they are growing apart. Si kiko is preoccupied with politics and farming. I remember when sharon was hibernating si kiko 5 am plang daw nsa farm na.
ReplyDeleteNagsasawa na siguro si Kiko sa "me,me,me" problems ni Nega. E si Kiko problema ng bayan ang iniintindi kaya sa farm nakakahanap ng relief sa stressful work sa senado. Mababaw rin kasi si Nega, hindi pareho ang wavelength nila ni Kiko.
DeleteSi kiko probelema ng bayan iniintindi? As you kidding me?!
DeleteKaya ayaw komah asawa at pamilya.I would rather save my money for early retirement. Realtalk realtalk lang.
ReplyDeleteOMG same tayo!
DeletePlease lang, umay na kami.
ReplyDeleteThen stop airing your dirty laundry through social media.
ReplyDeleteNahilo akong mgbasa. Kaya scroll down nlng ako sa comment section dahil ang dali intindihin
ReplyDeleteMahilig sya sa books. Sabi nya 15,000 books meron sya. Ung iba gift nya daw. I think hindi nmn lahat ng friend and love ones bigyan mo ng gift. Nauuso na kasi sa celebrity pa bonggahan ng gift. Minsan hindi pwede lahat makikiuso ka. Bandang huli manghihinayang ka sa effort mo na hindi kayang tumbasan. Sabi nga kapag nagbigay ka ng bukal sa loob huwag kanang mag antay ng kapalit. Kulang po si sharon ng pagiging kontento sa buhay.
ReplyDeleteBes d ko ma gets ano kinalaman ng books?
DeleteIbenta nya yong books nya sa Recto weeh
DeleteI feel bad for her.It hits when she said shes the poorest billionare.Its stressful if lahat nakakaasa sa yo.Shawi,please learn to say no and put your foot down.Learn to be selfish for yourself .You owe it to yourself .Happy mothers day!
ReplyDeleteSo true... A lot of people will be there when you are capable of giving in to them.. Only a few will be there to help when you need them...
DeleteGalante kc c Sharon during her peak days kung makabigay ng Christmas/bday gifts sa mga media ppl grabe din. Now hindi n sya pansin.
DeleteNatapos ba n Sharon yung course she enrolled sa UP Open when she was in her early 40s? If not, better go back to school Ate Shawie, it is great for middle aged women, to stay mentally active esp to those who are suffering depression.
ReplyDeleteYes, she finished it.
Deletedapat kc should help her mom financially. Jetsetter lifestyle din si kc.
ReplyDeleteNot a fan of KC but why should she help Sharon financially eh may husband cya na dapat gumawa nun sa kanya.
Delete12:29 - ALSO, PARANG KC WAS RAISED THE WESTERN WAY. HINDI USO SA KANILA IYONG ANAK ANG TUTULONG SA MGA MAGULANG ESPECIALLY FINANCIALLY. SA MAHIHIRAP NA BANSA LANG GANUN ANG MENTALITY.
Deletekc, i think, doesn't have the means as well considering the amount of money sharon needs, we're talking big investments. they are just really maluho that's why people think they have overflowing assets. you have to remember, these celebrities spend so much money on expensive stuff but they are tax deductible claiming that they're needed for work so they actually get the money back when they file their taxes. in this family's case, they spend more than what they earn.
Delete4:52 Ano ba work ni Kc? Kc laging sinasabi na kahit hindi sya magwork mayaman naman daw sya e nanay nya naghihirap na.
DeleteKC already paid for her lola Elaine's medical needs (in the millions sa St Luke's pa lang) as Sharon was already cash-strapped then.
DeleteKung naghihirap ako di ako magtratravel more in a business class. Di ba dapat nagtitipid nga sya?
DeletePa mysterious ka pa kasi tas ngayon mag eexplain ka ng pagka haba haba. Dami mo kasing arte. Sarilinin mo na lang kasi yan drama mo na yan!
ReplyDeleteI feel her sentiments, maybe taken for granted cya ng family nya. Ako kc ka age nya, i worked nung dalaga pa ako, i finished college but remain a housewife and a mother of three. Madalas naiyak ako sa gabi kc parang lahat ng sakripisyo ko at hirap sa bahay d nakikita ng pamilya ko. It's my responsibility and obligation to take care of them and household daw kc nanay ako. Db dapat cla ganun din bilang member of the family to do their share? D ako narereklamo parang masarap lang na maapreciate nla effort mo at makita nla na napapagod ka din db?
ReplyDeleteKasalanan mo kc nakatapos k pala ng college eh di ka nag work at inuna mo pagaasawa at pag aanak and worst di mo pa naturuan husband ang kids mo na maging appreciative sa mga bagay na meron cla at sau bilang ina at asawa. It's your fault.
Delete7.47 AM ignore 12.27 PM You are a good mom and trust me your family knows your worth. As a mom too, naiimagine ko rin na I was ignored sometimes but it's all in our mind, imagination lang. Exert more effort to connect with your family but at the same time connect with yourself. Have a hobby, join the gym, or even just dance to Beyonce or even Ariana Grande when you feel lonely. Always remember, you are a good mom, and you are a good person.
Delete12:27, huwag mo naman agad husgaan si 7:47. Pareho din kami. While she failed to state whether she was forced to make that choice or have done so on her own accord, being a stay-at-home Mom is indeed a thankless job at times. With me, it was my own choosing, though I did held a part-time job from time to time. Both of my kids are a product of infertility treatments kaya mas ginusto kong maging full hands on para namnamin yung experience na feeling naming, mag-asawa, matagal pinagkait. No regrets but it doesn't take away that feeling, especially when you feel very overwhelmed with so many tasks, of being unappreciated. Yung ultimong compensation mo lang sana kahit a simple thank you. Human nature does have a tendency to take things for granted. And my family, as much as I love them so much, are also immune to that. Kaya naman don't be so quick to pass judgment. Any choice, however is it your own or by circumstance, often carries some sort of sacrifice.
DeleteWag mong pansinin yan 12:27 PM..sha tlga un hindi naturuan ng magulang kaya ganyan magsalita
DeleteThanks 1:26 and 1:44, i was so touched by your comments and it makes me feel better now, and yes sometimes when we are tired doing same routine everyday we had the tendency na magself pity talaga. 12:27, 22 na ako nagasawa i had no choice na maging nanay na lang at housewife kc walang magaalaga sa mga anak ko. You don't have to be judgemental and avoid giving harsh comments kc d ka nakakatulong. I just relay my own sentiments to get some encouraging words that might help me cope sa mga kadramahan ko sa buhay.
Delete1:44 here, you're welcome dearie. When the going gets tough, lagi mo lang isipin, balang araw, mare-realize din ng family mo yung kahalagaan ng lahat ng ginagawa mo para sa kanila. Hintayin mo lang. In the meantime, sino pa ba ang magbibigay moral support sa isa't isa kungdi tayong mga mothers din. Believe me, maraming katulad natin who goes through the same thing out there.
DeleteNot sure if you guys will come back to this thread but totally true, there are many of us who have the same struggles. So Sharon's and other moms' sentiments here are totally normal and relatable. Not because we don't talk, we are not hurting, but not because we are hurting, we are miserable. Struggles of mommy life lang talaga, chores, financial probs, social pressure etc.
DeleteYou lost me at "tinahimik". Oh please, just shut up.
ReplyDeleteKaartehan parang Kris Aquino lang. Yan napapala kakanuod ng drama at social media. Mga lalaki hindi naman ganyan na maraming drama. Babae lang talaga lalo na pag pampered.
ReplyDeleteStill, miss Sharon you still lucky. You have good life. To become a billionaire is achievement with us if we have 5t in the bank that's makes us happy because we are contented of our life. Count your blessing and minimize every thing.
ReplyDeleteTo ate shawie .i have been a fan since mr dj pa..ikaw lang makakagamot nian kung ano man pinagdadaanan mo.Just pray to the Lord for divine help let go of all negative thoughts.lahat ng mabibigat basta ipagpray lang lahat yan mawawala kahit gaano pa yan kabigat
ReplyDeleteshe is not worthy of her showbiz success. di naman talaga talented.
ReplyDeleteWhatever pain and suffering and depression she is going through,never discredit her of her success. She worked hard for it kaya si KC naiiwan sa lolo at lola nya growing up dahil sa trabaho nyang walang tigil. Magbigay ka naman ng respeto. Megastar yan ng ilang dekada dahil may ibinuga at ibubuga aa musika at pelikula at iba pa.
ReplyDeletePlease someone put a leash on her away from social media.
ReplyDelete