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Thursday, February 11, 2016

Kris Aquino Breaks Her Silence

Image courtesy of www.withlovekrisaquino.com


What SILENCE Taught Me

I purposely stayed away from social media (and yes, Kris Tv went on Best Of for 8 episodes) because there were professional issues we needed to resolve, and Thank You, Lord- natuto na ko that by being outspoken and sharing details with all of you, mas hahaba ang proseso at mas malabong maayos sa mahinahon at mature na paraan.

That doesn’t mean that you are unimportant to me.  The truth is I would never have become me had you not given me consistent support.  BUT life has taught me that I should share with you my work, the process that goes hand in hand with my work, the “paying it forward” aspect of sharing my blessings, and certain snippets of our family life that will hopefully inspire you. The rest of my life, I owe to my siblings and sons to keep among us.  Alam nyo na pinaka sensitive ako when it comes to my family, somehow pag silang tinira, no matter how much I want to ignore the bashers and haters, the part of me that needs to stand up and defend my loved ones is unleashed, and bahala na si Batman, lalaban ako.

This time was different, I knew that by containing the situation- there was a very big chance that I would have a much stronger opportunity of fixing everything where everybody would feel blessed, and there won’t be anything that I would need to later on clean up.  My cue came from one of Boy Abunda’s favorite sayings, “Pag emosyonal at hindi muna magsasalita, mas kaunti ang kakailanging walisin at bawiin kapag bumalik na sa normal ang sitwasyon.”

Guess what, the girl who relished living 30 years of her life in the public eye actually felt peaceful keeping to herself.  I mostly stayed home, except for going to Church to pray in total surrender and to give my thanksgiving.  I was sick for 3 days with fever and then I had a bout of hypertension (158/105) from all my stress.  This compelled me to stay in bed, eat very healthy, decompress, and sleep.

Staying away from my phone gave me time to read (James Patterson’s NYPD Red 4, Marie Kondo’s The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up and her follow up book, Spark Joy), I got hooked on FPJ’s Ang Probinsyano and Pangako Sa ‘Yo (OTWOLISTAS please don’t get mad at me, but I followed the bedtime of Kuya Josh and Bimb so the latest lights out for us was 9:30 PM), and I started watching season 1 of Telenovela and Seasons 1 and 2 of Younger on iTunes.  I also became obsessed with the presidential primaries in the United States, glued to the CNN coverage of Iowa and now New Hampshire anchored by Anderson Cooper, and I became an admirer of the work of Megyn Kelly on Fox News.

I read all sections of the New York Times, as well as Time, Newsweek, The Week, The Economist, Bloomberg Businessweek, and Forbes.  I devoured the blogs about food, fashion, life hacks, makeup, home decor, and travel on Bloglovin’.  And I became an avid fan of Huff Post (actually creating a Pinoy version of this is my new life goal).

Keeping to myself gave me time to listen to a lot of inspirational music, LAUDS by Arnel Aquino SJ, Hillsong United, Selah, Point of Grace, and Keith & Kristyn Getty are now part of my playlists.  Listening to songs of worship, or sometimes just the instrumental version of songs of praise gave my heart a lot of serenity and I felt the loving embrace of my Creator.

Looking back, there were many moments in my life that would probably have taken a different direction had I done what I did now- kept things to myself…

A relationship is hard enough to maintain, there are enough conflicts between the partners and those closest to them, how much more difficult it is to sustain the love and the desire to hold on when everybody who can see my IG feed will feel free to comment, because I wasn’t cautious enough and laid bare my heart? YES, kasalanan ko yun…

Co-parenting is exceptionally difficult, but in this case I believe Bimb’s father and I are equally to blame because we have been influenced by the opinion of our followers, and we have used social media to be our mediator. We recently had a misunderstanding, but neither of us shared the details, and we managed to reach a certain level of pacification that we both realize is for Bimb’s benefit.  Fingers crossed that we can maintain this level of maturity.

I also learned that an attempt at humor won’t work when you have an audience of millions.  Admit it, we have inside jokes with our family, coworkers, and close friends, and shared memories will make it easier to giggle about certain life events because of what we’ve personally witnessed up close.  But joking with people who don’t know you intimately can backfire and make you appear selfish and spoiled.

Viewers see the finished product, but you aren’t privy to the negotiations that go on behind the scenes for our contracts, most especially the minutest details in those agreements and the back and forth that is needed for all parties to feel they are benefiting from the union.  It is a job, it is a profession, it is a business- but it is unique in that all of you our viewers are stakeholders.

Allow me this moment to apologize to you, the Kris Tv regular viewers, the TFC subscribers, the consumers who patronize my endorsements, and my IG followers for taking a leave with no explanation… Sana maintindihan ninyo na kung nagpaliwanag ako, nabigyan ko na naman ng bala yung haters na batuhin ako dahil sa tingin nila papansin, pa-awa, o pa-importante ako.

I am back, but I am just a bit different, slightly altered, and hopefully improved.  At my core I will always be the Kris Aquino you’ve gotten to know over 30 years; when I think of the length of time we’ve engaged in a relationship, I am shocked that more than half of the Philippine population wasn’t even around when you started getting to know me.  It does make me confront my mortality, but it also makes me feel exceptionally grateful that you gifted me with longevity and relevance.

I was always of the belief that everything was all or nothing, it was either black or white, and there should be no grey areas… Now I realize it is within my capability to filter, and to control myself with what I choose to reveal. A lot of what made you love me and hate me has really come from what I shared with you.  I was given a healthy dose of reality, my unique talent has been my ability to converse, to articulate thoughts and feelings, and to engage my audience.  I know I am interesting because I wasn’t afraid to open up (okay at times overshare)- I have had such an eventful life that was compelling to take part in vicariously, analyze, discuss, laugh at or cry about, and I know how to tell a story- but those same qualities have also been part of the many times I have fallen and needed my family and my supporters to defend me and lift me up.

Yes, I will continue to have missteps, but I am praying that they will be fewer and will occur as rarely as possible.  On February 14, I shall turn 45 years old.  You have known me, watched me, listened to me, and judged me for 30 years, that is exactly 2/3 of my entire life.  Yes, I wanted to be an actress, a host, an endorser- a celebrity.  And I felt that opening up your life, getting the million peso contracts meant that you are surrendering your right to a private life.  Yet the past few weeks educated me that the ability to have a private life comes from the calibrated mix of keeping quiet, lying low, not calling attention to myself, and trusting very few people who have proven time and again that they will keep my confidences because they unequivocally care for me.

The challenge now is to stay fascinating while keeping a little of myself for me… I used to not believe the sayings “Magtira ka para sa sarili mo” as well as “Don’t give too much, don’t love too much, don’t trust too much, don’t hope too much- because the too much can hurt you so much”.  Now, I see the wisdom of those words.

Taping from Batangas to Mindoro showed me that I owe you my 100% when it comes to the episodes we air (wag lang buwis buhay ang segments because Kuya Josh and Bimb need me healthy and alive) because you gave me the precious gift of your time, and our advertisers and TFC subscribers gave good money for us to produce an excellent product. The time I took for myself illuminated in me that peace is priceless.  And that it is possible.

Thank you for taking time to read this, for those who are experiencing life’s crossroads, I hope that what you read will give you insight and strength.  For those of you who wanted to hear from me (in this case read my thoughts) THANK YOU, just thank you for all we have shared and experienced, for the encouragement you give me for today, and the motivation you give me to keep striving for tomorrow.

243 comments:

  1. ang haba di ko magets kung ano pinaglalaban nya?ahaha

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    1. Nagcomment tapos di tinapos yung basa. Basa basa din para di ignorante.

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    2. wa kami care after first sentence kasi sinabi nya na lahat before. . paulet ulet lang naiba lang sa age 45 na hahahha

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    3. Ako din after the first paragraph ayoko na. So anong ineemote nya?

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    4. Natawa ako dun sa hindi daw siya nagshare ng details about Bimb's father eh tinira nga niya yun dahil sa first communion nung bata tapos siya pala ang mali.

      Tetay, sa wakas ngayon mo lang narealize ung words of wisdom. After 45 years! Ang tagal ah. Pero please DO WHAT YOU SAY AND NOT JUST POST IT ON SOCIAL MEDIA OR BLOG.

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    5. emote mode na naman si Tetay
      naghahanap na naman ng bf ?

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    6. dear Kris,
      you shouldn't have broken your silence
      it was good for everyone

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    7. Anong issue ba? Anyway ganun din. Ilang beses na ba niya sinabi yang less words less mistakes motto na yan. Ending daldakuta apdin siya pati private life niya. Oa na sa sharing. Reading this post, it's so redundant. Eh shinare niya nadin halos lahat hayayay

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    8. Whatever Kris! Public Stunt!

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    9. menopausal moments

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    10. In short... she is having (pre) mid-life crisis... nakapag-nilay nilay sya na there is more to life than social media...

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    11. She forgot to mention about her taxes..luh luh ! Midlife crisis- stay away from lechon to lower your bp..me concern sa dulo haha

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    12. Naku. Eto na naman ? Ilang beses na ba nya to nasabi dati?.? Sabi ko na nga ba eh. It is always about her. ! Sabi ko nga eto, natahimik si kris sa IG at tv show Im sure may pasabog na naman to pag balik nya! And I am so freakin' right!

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    13. Hahaha nakakaloka tong si kris sinulit din yung pananahimik nya sa sobrang haba ng pagdaldal nya dito

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    14. dear Kris,
      you shouldn't have broken your silence
      it was good for everyone--actually oo

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    15. “Pag emosyonal at hindi muna magsasalita, mas kaunti ang kakailanging walisin at bawiin kapag bumalik na sa normal ang sitwasyon.” - pero ang dami mong sinabi!!!

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    16. Na-depress lang yan dahil flop ang aynip!

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  2. ang hoboooo...ndi ko na tinapossss

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    1. i think nagka midlife crisis na si kris.. cguro dahil di kumita ang mmff movie nya.

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    2. The gist of it is, she LEARNED. Nagkamali, yes. Given na yan pero ang mahirap ay ngkamali ka na nga di kpa natuto. So, I salute Kris for publicly telling na ngkamali sya. I mean, ang hirap nun... aminin kasalanan mo sa lahat ng mdaming tao-- opening doors for the bashers? It'd take a lot of courage to do it.

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  3. Breaks her silence??! Was she EVER silent???

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    1. She probly got a gag order to stfu. Her narrative is worth 1 episode of her kristv or TV Patrol.But I guess after her mmff movie tanked, viewers dgaf like they used to.

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    2. She always breaks her silence. Ang redundant ni Madam Kris.

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    3. Do people actually have the patience to read this novel ? I didn't pass the first paragraph

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  4. Hangang kelan kaya niya kakayanin?

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    1. Hanggang 1wk. Hahauaha

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    2. 3 days for sure

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    3. 3 days.. o baka bukas sabihin na din niya yan

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    4. Tapos ba ang Chinese New Year , she is good to go!

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  5. I really like her triviality...

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    1. one thing is sure
      Kris is a very shallow person

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  6. Good for you, Kris. I read your entire message and am rooting for you to continue to stay on this path you are now on. Lessons learned. There needs to be a demarcation line between what you can share and what you need to keep private for your own well-being, including those of your sons and other members of your family.God bless you and keep you in His care.

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    1. Same sentimemts here. I wish her well. Props to her for being able to practice silence. It's a start and i will be rooting for her since her intentions are good. Work in progress ikanga

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    2. Just a suggestion, now that you have expressed yourself thoroughly, maybe in the future you can make use of short but concise messages, it will allow more readers to catch what you are trying to say. Not all will have the desire or ability to read through every word and it will defeat your purpose of getting your message across accurately. You have to decide between catharsis and effectivity when you write - which is more important to you?

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    3. on that note, she should not be posting too much personal stuff sometimes it's a total turnoff

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    4. agree. she's finally realized na it isn't always about what she does in her life that people should know about. and it's good na she finally appreciates being alone rather than being emotional about it.

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    5. Bat kasi me mga tao na lahat kelangan sabihin na feeling lahat nakaabang sa buhay nila. Kris should just put a camera everywhere in her house at ng di na sya mapagot magsulat

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    6. She should realize that she's the one making all this drama, trying to trivialize little thing.

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  7. Di ko get. Sa haba ng sinabi nya.

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    1. Wala kang reading comprehension teh. Poor you.

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    2. 12:09 sige nga i-summarize mo!

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    3. 12:09 She never mentioned, in her post, what the issue was. The only thing she said, in her post, is that she learned to stay quiet. To keep some issues/situations/thoughts to herself. Etc. I still don't know what the issue wis or what prompted her to stay quiet to begin with.

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    4. Haha, winner comment mo 3:40! :-)

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  8. Buti na lang she kept her family life private na, di na siya nagdedetalye, magtitira na siya para sa sarili mananahimik na siya.. tama naman di ba? Di na sya nagsasalita, sinulat na lang niya. Hehe!

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    1. 9:44 natawa ako dun sa sinabi mong, "tama
      naman, di na sya nagsasalita, sinulat na lang nya! Lol!

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    2. Ang creepy ko, I heard kris talking to me while readin this post.hahahaha,. Misleading yata yung "silence" or I guess, habang sinusulat nya to may sakit pa sya.. di ko kasi ma gets!

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  9. Kept quiet for awhile but updated everybody what went on with her life during her absence in social media. So there.

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    1. Anon 9:49 ganun din yun di ba? hahaha! kaloka si kris!

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    2. Haha, kept quiet daw Hindi pa tinuloy. In short she had with issues with James regarding co parenting and the she had work issues and it was specifically ironing out a contract. End of the story.

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    3. And the update was so long, di kinaya sa twitter nor IG.

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    4. True! Na forfeit rin yung silence at privacy kuno niya eh Lahat dinetalye Nya rin.

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    5. Waley nga nakapansin ng silence mode nya kaya apila uli ang Lola natin with detailed explanation na katumbas ng ilang araw na pananahimik na di man Lang natin namalayan. We need at least a year.

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    6. Feeling talaga ni Kris na-miss natin sya lahat hahaha! In your face!

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  10. Kris, di bale ng madami ka issue, madami ka naman pera! Kaming mga h pag may problema sa jowa, pamilya o trabaho e nganga na lang kasi ala naman kami pang shopping o travel katulad mo.

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  11. Kaloka..Automatic na boses at tono ni Kris nung binasa ko. Pero hindi ko tinapos..Ang habaaaaaa

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    1. me toooooooo. sino kaya nakatapos basahin to. paki summarize. please.

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    2. 2/3 lang pero tinamad na ako...ano ba pinaglalaban nya? Hahahah

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    3. 1/8 lang natapos ko

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    4. Same here. Unang paragraph pa lang bumigay na ako. Kasi when I skimmed through, mukhang puro self-absorbed drivel lang. Sana nilubos-lubos na lang niya yung supposed silence niya.

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    5. Ako nabasa ko lahat baks. Sabi ni kris, blah blab blah, BS, BS...same old same old....

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  12. the bigger picture is that her brother will be ending his term and thus, she will not have the same clout. we are not sure if abs is supporting her bro's candidate

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  13. pakialam q syo, basta ang alam q, attention whore ka! yuck! i never liked this woman, laging ngmamagaling!

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  14. Pwede ba Kris give chance to others nlang.. You have enough moment in showbiz, better retire nlang rural paretire na din brother no. Saka you have enough money for your family.

    ~ateng SickNTired

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  15. grabe naman. every so often na yang linya yan. na mananahimik na siya para sa ganito ganyan. tapos after a few weeks, ilalabas din niya. haha. kakasawa na si kristetay. sana nalang tumulong ka sa kapwa mo pa. oo tumutulong ka na ng sobra sobra pero kaya pa more krissy. bawas luho lang. di rin naman maganda binibigay mo sa mga anak mo lahat ng luho nila. di rin magandang nakikita ka nilang maluho. magregalo ka grabe rin. ano, di ba sila masasayahan sa heartfelt greeting card or cake? kailangan talaga daang libo ang regalo? ay grabe lang. such excessiveness must be sinful. at sa mga magsasabing naiinggit ako, siguro. but more than that nakakapanghinayang lang talaga. sobra ako nanghihinayang sa lifestyle mo.

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  16. Is there issue about her? Nothing I guess. Nag papa ramdam kasi bka missed out n sya.

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  17. Ang daming Dada. Di kinaya ang silence. Hahahaha.

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  18. Silence? What silence?

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  19. I will always have a soft spot for the cariton-pushing, armalite firing, and goon boxing Kris Aquino in Pido Dida.

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  20. Too long didnt read lol

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  21. Sibasabi lang nya na hindi na sya magiging katulad ng dati sa muling pagbabalik nya. Mas magiingat na cya sa mga irereveal nya kasi daw kung bakit mahal sya at hate sya ng tao ay may malaking role ang mga pinagsasabi nya... Lahat ng tao may kanya kanyang crossroads some may think na ang babaw ng crossroads nya... Pero iba iba kasi ang emotion natin... To her coming to realize that she has to make that drastic change of what she knew she was for 30 years and changing that is a big step for her... And she had to be out of limelight for that... She had to stay away to think... Parang tayo... Kung may kailangan isipin... Gusto natin ng oras sa sarili... Ng oras magisip... Ng oras na malayo sa gumagambala sa atin... I think she made a very reasonable and clear point... You just need to read.

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    1. Thank you kris for summarizing your point. Pero mahaba pa rin. Try harder.

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  22. can someone please summarize her litany in one sentence? sobrang haba naman yan nakakahilo. kris, less is more. learn how to compose a blog by getting straight to the point, ok?

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    1. She took a break, she was sick, it's diffucult to be a solo parent and she wants to keep silent na on private matters. Ganern.

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    2. Baks! In short may pinagdadaanan sya and she'll try to keep quiet for now! Lol

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    3. Yun lang yun?? 12:41? Jusme.

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  23. As usual me ...me and me naman c Kris a spoiled brat self centered child...I don't see her as a woman...if that's maturity for you eh what do call us elders?

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  24. Nauntog, di kasi kumita all you need is pag ibig. Sorry pero nega na siya. Waley na siya dating. Her kaartehan is no longer fascinating but annoying already.

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  25. Kung tatahimik ka Kris, lubus lubosin mo na! Ka-imbey na ang luk*ret na itey!

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  26. Pansamantalang nanahimik nung nilangaw ang AYNIP! Akala kasi makakatulong ang kaartehan sa promo ng basurang pelikula! Ayun, pull out agad sa mga sinehan! lol

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  27. Ay nanahimik ba sya? Kelan?

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    1. same ang reaction ko baks! hehe. i never even noticed. di ko nA natapos, ang haba. kala ko ba silent xa, eh sinabi nya rin lahat sa post nato. kaloka this girl

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  28. Ah bakit nga daw ba? Haha!

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  29. Mananahimik n sya sa IG pero s blog nya lahat ibubuhos ang lahat ng ganap sa buhay nya. Ah okay parang weekly exam lang ganon. Hayss
    I think its bcs her mmff movie ranked no.4 kaya nawalan n sya ng gana magupdate sa fans nya.

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  30. stay silent please. you were doing so well.

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  31. May nagta-type ba for her or sya rin? In fairness ang tyaga Nya ha?

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  32. Akala ko kung ano na! Akala ko may sasabihing gigimbal sa smagkatauhan! I read and read, pero parang walang patutunguhan sinasabi niya, nag skip ako mg mag skip, wala pa rin yung dapat niyang sabihin. Literal na "breaks her silence" pala! Haha! Ngayon siya kumuda after ng ilang days niyang pananahimik. Mahirap pa lang hindi to magpost at magkweto sa IF niya, makakagawa to ng isang nobela.

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  33. Okay lang yan Kris at least meron ka nale-learn sa adventures mo at kumikita ka pa. Less or oversharing ang gawin mo hindi naman mawawala haters eh. Eto na lang sumulat ka ng mahaba eh ayaw basahin ng kumpleto ng haters mo pero hindi maiwasan mag-comment kahit di nila naintindihan. One thing is for sure after 30 years in the business relevant ka pa rin. May naaffect pa rin sa ginagawa mo.

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  34. May kinalaman ba to sa performance ng AYNIP sa box office?

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    1. Malaking posibilidad. Na back to back siya sa etiquette for mistresses at dito sa all you need is pag ibig. Nagbabakasakali na hindi na mapangatluhan ng kung anumang susunod na project niya.

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    2. E sino ba kasi ang magkaka-interes na manood ng mivie nila ni Kim Chui ba yun at yun din ang mapapanood mo? Pa-cute at tili, na focused pa kay payat na isa pang nega! Teasers pa lang basura na!

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  35. nobela as always... in short dhil mlpit na ang knyng bday kea naicp nya isulat to.. prng akala mo ambgat ng pinagddaanan nya kng tutuusin she is blessed and all.. kumpra sa mga tulad nmeng dukha..

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    1. hahaha! tama ka pano naman tayong mga dukha, masyado lang talaga self-centered itong si Kris kala mo pasan nya ang daidig

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  36. Next week balik na naman to her old self yan, I don't think kakayanin nyang magbago at huway i-share lahat ng detalye sa buhay nya.

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  37. Asa pa kung makakatiis manahimik yan! hahaa

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  38. Bumaba ba ang talent fee ni Kris kaya nageemote siya ngayon? Wala naman nakakaalam sa katahimikan issus nya until she brought it up.

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  39. Binasa ko naman. Pero hindi ko pa rin ma gets kung anong gusto nyang mangyari. Yung ilang araw 'kuno' na nanahimik cya, binawi naman nya sa haba nang post na ito. Parang hindi rin cya naging silent. Nag.summarize rin cya sa mga ginawa nya, eh. Nakakaloka. It is not always about you Kris. 45 ka na. Yung pagiging OA medyo bawasan, hindi na nababagay sa edad.

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  40. Di nalang aminin na nag stay away sya sa social media kasi di nya kinaya na nag flop ang movie nya ayaw nya makabasa ng mga makatotohanang comments...hehehe

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  41. IT'S THAT TIME OF YEAR AGAIN
    ANOTHER BIRTHDAY ANOTHER LITANY

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  42. Ano daw sabi? Ang haba eh, paki-summarize nga po. ๐Ÿ˜‚

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  43. I don't think she was true to her words. Inispluk din nya the things that she kept things for awhile.

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  44. di ko na natapos teh. honghaba. unang mag sentences pa lang parang wala lang din - di ko na tuloy tinapos basahin. nag-keep silent nga, nagsulat naman ng nobela. ok na lang din. life goes on.

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  45. ha ha, eto pa pala ang being silent. OXYMORON!

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  46. Ano ba ang drama nya sa buhay ngayon?

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    1. Muni muni mode kuno. Dagdagan mo pa ng reality check and rude awakening na hindi sa kanya umiikot ang mundo.

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  47. Feeling "the world revolves around me". O di Ikaw na well read.

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  48. Hindi nga sya nag-social media ng 2weeks at nagkulong. Jusmiyo shinare nya din naman lahat. Hindi mo kinaya ateng?? Laos na laos ka na.

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  49. Palagi naman ganoon, pag may dinadaan siya, keep quiet daw muna pero di rin makatiis, babalik at babalik din sa pag-post. I hope na mapapangatawanan niya ang sinabi niya this time. But I doubt. ;)

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  50. Never too late to learn things. She is still one of the most articulate personalities i've known. Matalino si kris and she should really must have learned to keep things to herself.

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    1. Most articulate, yes. Pero puro self-serving din lagi sinasabi niya. Its all about her. Never about anything substantial.

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  51. got curious about what could be the "break her silence" is about. So i read up to the 3rd part when suddenly i just had to stop. I told myself this is just the same bs as the many litanies she's done in the past about her realization of life, events, herself and the need to change and all that crap in the life of kris aquino...really kris!!! You are reaching your mid life in the next few days but you still act like a teenager hungers herself from attention and fame of the world you live in. If people were curious about you and put you on a pedestal before, the case now is not the same obviously. You have to come to your senses that you have had a great life after all compared to many people and should appreciate them. Stop this litany and just enjoy life. if you are waiting for love, it will come if its meant to be.

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    1. 12:49 well- said!

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    2. Now we know that wealth doesn't equate to happiness. Amg yaman nga nya pero walang fulfillment sa buhay

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  52. she's never true to her words.

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  53. Haaaaay naku! Anyway, since nanood ka sa CNN atbp sana naman ma emulate mo how these top newscasters and hosts conduct themselves in their show. I've watched Kris TV and it is annoying each time Kris asks her guest a question and in the middle of the guest's reply Kris just butts in and expresses her own opinion. Idol mo si Barbara Walters di ba? Tingnan mo kung paano sya mag interview. I really do not understand how she became a broadcaster. Were it not for her family name she wouldn't pass the requirements for a broadcaster. So, I would make it a point to the watch the "new" Kris in her show and see if there is a difference.

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    1. Very annoying talaga na. Dati KrisTV kumukumpleto sa umaga ko, pero d ko nalang namalayan ganun na talaga sya. Si Queen Mother lang talaga nakakabara sakanya.

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  54. Natuto na ba talaga? Parang ilang beses na na may ganyan syang drama. Growing up, learning from mistakes, etc.. kelan kaya magiging kapani paniwala yan

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  55. Kris, I'm glad that you began to appreciate silence and the wisdom of being silent. You are an open book to the public since you were very young. It doesn't hurt to share only your innermost thoughts and struggles to your most trustworthy members of your family and closest friends. It would be better that way because the public can not always understand no matter how much you explain. I wish you well.

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  56. Nakakaumay na ang kadramahan at papansin nito. As if me nagtyaga pa magbasa ng letter niya.

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  57. menopause na te? or perimenopause?

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  58. grabe as usual mention talaga niya yung million peso contracts. Puede naman sabihin contracts lang but need talaga nya to say mullion peso as if to remind us that they are not just any contracts

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  59. Na depress Lang kasi flop Ang MMFF entry nya ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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  60. Na depress Lang kasi flop Ang MMFF entry Nya ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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  61. It means that Kris' SILENCE FOR WEEKS taught all the Filipinos that it is more fun in the Philippines when Kris is not around, not talking or speaking, and making papansin. Haha!

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  62. Para sa mga followers nya cguro ung letter (although im not a fan, i tried reading it).. she only gave the reasons why Kris TV was airing BEST OF episodes (replays).. naghibernate din daw sya sa kanyang social media accts.. kc cguro pansin nya na lahat ng ishare nya, puro pambabash nangyayari hehe.. she owes her fans and tfc subscribers daw an explanation thus a long letter...

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  63. di ko tinapos, ang haba. oo nga nanahimik sya ng ilang araw, kaso nung binasag nya katahimikan nya eh isang nobela naman ang naging kapalit, ganun din, sa dami ng kinimkim nya katahimikan, umariba naman ng litanya nung nagsulat.

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  64. Kris is always rooting for the so-called maturity when she is past due that already. She's turning 45 and still acting like a spoiled 15 year old teenager.


    Kris should realize that her crossroads pale in comparison to all those senior citizens wishing for a 2,000-peso increase in their monthly pension, those victims of road rage, crimes, accidents, etc.


    Not to mention the grieving families of the SAF 44. Good for her to conjure silence as a means for her to realize a lot of things. SOS! Haha!

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    1. Let's not forget all those who braved and were inconvenienced by the horrible apec traffic nightmare just to earn their day wages.

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    2. Clap clap. Betchiwa ang komentsung mo teh.

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    3. THIS. basahin mo to Kris.

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  65. Dear Kris, we appreciated your absence. Please keep it longer. No need to explain.

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  66. Di nagpapampam ng 2 weeks pero mega ispluk ngayon ng mga ganap. Waley din.

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  67. ang habaaaa potek naman.. hanggang 2 sentences lang kinaya ko

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  68. We the public never liked you but because of your clout in the media, you get to have a show, endorsements, etc. You're annoying and your language is too showbiz unbecoming of a person who claims to have been raised well by a good mother. Sorry Kris, we really don't buy all the crap you're saying..you project an image who 'knows it all'! Too self righteous, tactless (it means you're bastos or mal educada) and hambog, flaunting your wealth and you talk nonstop! And now this litany of words, words and more words..shut up will you?

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    1. 1:54 ang ganda rin ng comment mo! parang nakikini-kinita ko ang reactons/expressions ni kris habang binabasa ang mga ganitong comment! tatablan sya kung may natitira pang hiya sa kanya!

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  69. Yun ilang linggo na wala siya, ayan kinuwento nman ng pagkahabahaba! Alam pa din ng public ano pinaggagawa nya. Di pa din niya nagawang private. Hays.

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  70. Di ko rin tinapos pero na catch yung attention ko doon sa book ni Marie Kondo na binasa niya. I read that book many months ago and it did change my life. One of the few books that really made an impact on my life. O Kris, i declutter mo na din yung thoughts mo once and for all para lalo kang sumaya.

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    1. Buti nabanggit mo ang librong ito. Pero parang hindi tumalab kay kris e.

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  71. Me!Me!Me!Me!Me!Me!

    NEXT!!!

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  72. Yeah right! In one week she will be back to her old antics again old habits die hard..

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  73. laughing while reading. redundant na si ate, paulit ulit lang. nasabi mo na yan noon

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  74. Malapit NA mag singkwenta feeling katorse pa din. Growing up nang growing up, buti pa Ang humba Di nakakaumay Pero tong style ni Kristina sobrang nakakaumay at nakakauta na

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  75. Nakatulog ako sa first 2 paragraphs hahaha. Ano na naman ba ang paandar ni ateng?

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  76. Ang haba ng litanya ni Kris. Pero eto ang alam ko Kris, marami siyang pangako na gagawin ko ito or hindi ko gagawin yan PERO NAPAPAKO PARATI. Kaya kung anong sabihin niya, ipasok sa isang tenga at ilabas sa kabila. lol.

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  77. Akala ko ako lng ang di tumapos mgbasa, halos pala ayaw ng basahin whahahah!!! Hayz nku kris wlang nkakamizzz sau mga followers mo nakiki zhizmiz lng nde lahat gusto ka, lyk me he he

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  78. Napagod ako, seriously, sa pagbabasa. Nagscan and read na alang ako. Hangang tinapos ko na lang. I don't get the point? Where's the silence part?

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  79. Up for renewal na ba contract niya sa ABS? Kasi baka nagda-drama lang sa dos management to get better terms. Remember before nung pa-end contract niya, nag-drama na kesyo considering the prospect of transferring to TV5 kasi may kasamang management position, pero sa abs din pumirma. Kesyo fans clamor daw, pero obvious na nagpataas lang ng presyo. For sure, now that she just came off from a major flop, and nega pa, tapos pa-end na term ni brother which means no more influence for her, goodluck na lang kristeta, baka diminished stature ka na sa dos! And you might not get the terms that you want. Buti na lang may mga investments ka na...

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    1. Kris loves the attention with her super dramatic mode .

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    2. Kaya nga sinamantala ang six years e!

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  80. Hahabaan ko din comment ko at sana mabasa mo Kris.

    Alam mo Kris mas maganda sana kung tinuloy tuloy mo na lang pagtahimik tapos pasulpot sulpot lang ng post sa IG, parang mas Ok yun.

    Pasensiya ka na ha pero sa tingin ko wala naman bago. Inuulit ulit mo lang. Hindi ka ba napapagod sa kalilitanya mo?

    Sana sagad na silence on private matters. Wala ka naman kasi dapat ipaliwanag sa milyon mong followers.

    And pakinggan mo din mga suggestions ng mga tagasubaybay mo sa KrisTv. Ilang beses ko na nabasa at kahit ako rin napansin ko hindi ka marunong mag give way kadalasan sa mga guests pag sila nagsasalita.

    Sinasapawan mo agad or kadalasan kinacut mo.

    Tutal mahilig ka naman magtama kaya itama mo din sarili mo.

    Saka enough na minsan sa mga co host na pampagulo lang.
    Mas ok kung ikaw na lang.
    At please pakiusap sana huwag palagi sinisingit ang sarili.




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    1. Me, myself and Kris kasi sya.

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    2. nakuha mo tsong!!! wahhhahahahah

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    3. True ayaw pasapaw ang loka

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  81. Ang hilig niya magpaliwanag ng ke haba haba!

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  82. Sa lahat ng gustong "tumahimik", sya yung madaming sinabi. We didn't notice your "absence" until you told us about it.

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  83. Diretso ako agad sa comment.

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  84. Mas natapos ko pang nabasa lahat ng comments kasi nakakatuwa kaysa sinulat ni Kris..that woman needs a psychiatrist long time ago!

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  85. Kris should befriend Sharon- pareho silang ma-emote mga drama queen.

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  86. Mas maganda kung nag remain silent. Dami pang explain. Sa daming suliranin ng ibang tao keber kung may pinagdadaanan siya. Daming may ganyan Krissy its called life happens.

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  87. ang haba....nakakaumay tapusin. Malamang sa ex hubby niya ang topic.

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  88. naumay ako. hindi ko na tinapos. next!

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  89. ewan ko sayo kriseey!!

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  90. ANO NA NAMAN TOH KRISTETA?! Nanahimik ka nga saglit pero kinwento mo din naman lahat ng ginawa mo so wala din! Forever kang KSP I swear!

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  91. I think the 2 week sabbatical she took on Instagram & Kris TV didn't air new episodes are somewhat connected to the renewal of her contract with ABS-CBN. Was she renewed for another 2 years? Or, is she now going to work with them on a per project basis?

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  92. one thing is for sure.relevant pa rin c kris coz we still care to comment hsha

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  93. Kawawang Kris..loveless kasi at malapit na birthday nya! Poor little rich girl!

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  94. ilang days or weeks ba itong nawala? bawing-bawi sa habaaaaaaa ng sinulat niya :P

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  95. paki summarize mga klasmeyt lol

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  96. Give it a few more days magsasalita na din yan. Lagi naman sya ganyan.

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  97. Ilang buwan na lang ang ipagtitiis ng mga tao sa inyo. Konti na lang.

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  98. A lot of haters here saying Laos na rw so Kris.. Heller dami pa nyang endorsements at commitments yan ba and Laos?? Flop ang mistress at pagibig? kumita to ng 100m and it was just a mild hit.. I'm sure page horror movie nya kikita to sa takilya.. Kung so kabayo kaya mg mega drama kikita run kaya? Logic LNG yan!! True! Marami na syang napatunayan from award winning host.. Ilang years ng top endorser that's why she is the queen of all media!!

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  99. ano to? script ba to ng bago nyang movie? LOL. haba ha..can someone please post a summary? heheheheheh

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  100. Ang haba , na bore ako,l Ay, silent pala sia ? Di ko napa sin!

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  101. Mas naaliw ako sa mga comments dito..ang haba!

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  102. The words silence and privacy will never be in her vocabulary. Period!

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  103. I noticed that parang tumanda itsura niya dun sa film niya especially (na sadly di rin masyadong pinanood dito sa US compared to other films)

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  104. Unfortunately, she will always be back...

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  105. kept silence daw inipon lng pala ! haba masyado!

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