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Thursday, January 28, 2016

Professionalism Over Reactionary Attitude

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One of the rarest experiences is having a smooth aftermath of a breakup. When a relationship is over, the stereotype or expected reaction is for either party to behave negatively. Hardly is there a breakup in which both parties immediately recover from their hurt and treat each other as though nothing happened. In the entertainment industry, the beginning and ending of a relationship are often denied until such a time that the involved parties or close friends confirm such events.

As there is really no smooth breakup, Effective Performer (EP) was allegedly affected by the developments in her relationship such that her peers had to understand her attitude towards her daily routine. No one really saw that EP and Seasoned Actor (SA) would not have a fairytale ending to their relationship. Although their start was controversial, time allowed the public to respect their relationship and many followers assumed that EP was good for SA.

Fans eventually came to love the relationship of EP and SA, even though they had yet to make a movie together. The projected character of EP matched the character of SA. One them was quiet, while the other was spontaneous, witty, and funny. However, both EP and SA are very competent in their craft and the passion they have for their work is seen in the reception of the people of their individual projects. Throughout their relationship, EP and SA had to hurdle issues, such as those pertaining to the alleged habit of SA. EP and SA stuck with each other, which indicated that they might really have been met for each other.

When the unhappy ending with SA was forthcoming, the effect on EP was hard. Allegedly, she even hinted for the production to kill off her character. With fewer projects, EP could have more time to reflect and heal her heart. Professionalism prevailed and EP continued her projects, even though she was breaking inside.

While EP is trying to make sense of the event, another rumor was making its rounds in her workplace. Allegedly, a Pretty Actress (PA) was smitten with SA, and this predicament was an open secret that people were talking about behind her back. The feelings could have developed given that they have been working with each other in several projects. When the name of PA started to be dragged in the controversy of EP and SA, her camp denied any link to the said breakup.

Given that her relationship was doomed, EP is expected to rise above her hurt and continue working despite all that she is undergoing at the moment. As for SA, he has always remained silent when it comes to such matters. Nonetheless, both are only human, and capable of experiencing pain.

‘If you truly want to be respected by people you love, you must prove to them that you can survive without them.’― Michael Bassey Johnson

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    1. Ang layo mo 1.06, basahin mo ulit ang clues.

      EP - A
      SA - J
      PA - B

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    2. Wrong!!! SA- J and PA- B

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    3. Tama rin si 1:06. Huwag know it all 1:38 and 2:12

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    4. Mga teh, nickname kasi ata ni J yung L. Hahaha! Feeling close si 1:06.

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  2. Wow this one's easy
    EP- A
    SA- J
    PA- B

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  3. SA - J
    EP - A
    PA - B

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  4. EP - A
    SA - J
    PA - B

    Kaya pala natagalan pagbalik nya sa P serye. Be strong EP

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    1. Kaya pala kamo biglang tsutsugihin na ang s dahil siguro wala nang ganang magtrabaho si A! Kawawa rin naman!

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  5. EP-A
    SA-J
    PA-B
    Woohoo! Got another one right

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  6. Oh giveaway ang BI ngayon. Sina A at J itey.

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  7. EP - A
    SA - J
    PA - B

    Kahit mataray, may kayabangan kung minsan si A, I still feel sorry for her. Hope her brokenheart heals soon.

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    1. pak na pak, napaso tuloy

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    2. Thanks to you, I finally got the clues. Akala ko hanggang dullo, nganga na naman ako.

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  9. EP - A
    SA - Ingat
    PA - B

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  10. Ang yabang kasi ni A kaya ayan napahiya sya dahil hindi naging totoo yung earlier claims nya.

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    1. Kahit na napahiya sya u will admire her strength.. Kng sayo mangyari yan na may nang ahas sa bf mo wasak ka rin cguro..sya napakaprofessional pa rin..

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    2. Nang-ahas din naman si A ahhh, baka nakalimutan mo na @2:00am. Di mo pa nga alam buong story, baka matagal na sila di nagkakasundo ni J, di nga lang nababalita.

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    3. A has been very good to brandy sweetie. With his alcohol issues and from previous issues- destruction of property, etc... I wish A will get a better man . To whoever imbibes brandy or alcoholic anonymous dropout , I wish them well... A in all honesty , it was a manna from heaven. Good riddance.

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    4. Grabe d maka get over si 4:04. The fight was between S and another ex of J. Sila yung overlapping. Lol.
      What makes you think you know the whole story? Are you one of their employees? Have some empathy naman for A.

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    5. anon 2:00, kasi wala siyang choice kundi maging strong, sa asta niya ba naman kay S, rub on her face lang yan

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    6. @5:22 dapat wish goodluck si b!tignan natin kng hanggang kelan sya tatagal at magtitiis sa mga issues ni j...

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    7. nobody deserves to be heartbroken.

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  11. The writing was on the wall for the longest time yet Apoy still chose to ignore it and live in denial. J is a commitment phobe, he'll never marry as long as he gets what he wants from you for free. Either that or you'll have to wait until he is very old, bald and laos.

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    1. Well, I hope J gets what's coming to him. The karma can't all be A's.

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    2. I think he is those things already. Old bald and a commitment phobe. No one decent will date someone like him. Kadiri

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  12. Wawang EP pero oks lang yan at least natapos na rin ang relasyon nyong walang patutunguhan. Knowing SA na mahilig lang sa good time, well goodluck for PA sana di sya magaya sa ibang babae sa listahan

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  13. EP- A
    SA- L
    PA-???

    Pa help... sino si PA

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    1. EP - A
      SA - J
      PA - B

      Wala daw po third party sa hiwalayang A and L

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  14. Si J and J ba? Not quite sure. Hmmm...

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  15. Siguro flirtation lang yung naganap kina B at J kaya wag ninyo nang sisihin si B. Matagal ng naghahanap ng exit door si J pero si A lang ang slow at kapit tuko.

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    1. As usual pinipinta niyo na naman as victim si B. Puwede ba hindi siya santa, nakakaloka.

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  16. Cnu pa ba ed anh toxic couple
    A
    J
    B

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  17. This is so sad. Heartbreaks are never easy. Kahit ba sabihing rough ang ugali nya or what, masakit ang masawi sa pag-ibig lalo na kung ang maganda ang pinag-samahan. A can be a lot of things but she really loves/loved J with all her heart. Aminin, ang saya ng mga pictures nila during those times na happy sila. I wonder kung ano ang root cause ng hiwalayan nila, sana makasagap ng chismis si FP at share sa ating mga chismoso/chismosa.

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    1. Usual cause sawa at bored na si J sa kanya nag move on na daw with C, the d.

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    2. and si girl naman mga longterm ang relationship niya...I don't know kung bakit ang harsh ng mga tao hindi naman natin alam kung ano talaga ung nangyari sa relasyon nila...

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  18. Big respect for A in this situation. Usually very out of control siya mag react pero dito she chose the high road. Kung tutuusin siya yung agabryado sa nangyari, pwede siya gunawa nang ingay at makukuha niya ang public sympathy. Pero she chose to keep quiet. Salute to her.

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    1. Parehong PADER ang babanggain nya, baka pati Career nya mawala. Hence, she is quietly dealing with her heartbreak.

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    2. Bigger star/s kasi ang babanggain nya if ever, baks. Harakiri sa career ang mag-react sya ng out of control. Baka ma-freeze ang projects.

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    3. 4:21 am tandaan mo kahit pader nagigiba..di lahat ng panahon sikat sila..malalaos din mga ayan ano..nithibg lasts forever kahit na king anf queen eh nadedethroned...hahaha

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  19. J A B

    I admire her professionalism and work ethics. Others would give in to vices and break down under pressure, but this gal chose to stick to her commitments. And, she's very good with her craft.

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  20. A,j and b! Yan ang napaka admirable na character ni A kahit na prangka at maldita napakaprofessional..more projects for her..sayang ang talent nya di sinusupport ng network nya ng magagandang stories at directors dahil di fave ng network.

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  21. Eto ang isa sa mga positive traits ni A..pagdating sa work eh tutok sya kaya kahit na taklesa eh pagadting sa trabaho walang reklamo.. Professional talaga..

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    1. anong walang reklamo,kamakailan lng e reklamo sya sya sa writer ng serye

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  22. A, J and B...Grabe no prang si A ang definition ng the show must go on..kahit na broken inside work pa rin...hanga ako sa strength nya..sana malagpasan nya..

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  23. I really feel bad for A. Even if her attitude is harsh sometimes and people might not get it, she seem to be a decent girl when in relationship. All her relationship lasted for years and men do stay with her for that long period of time. I'd like to think that there's way better man for her somewhere. Hope she'll find him soon. She deserves to be with a great guy.

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    1. Agree....years lahat so napakaharsh nung kapit tuko...she's hurting people...

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  24. This is a good example of 'Karma is a b!' I remembered the days when she was interviewed, she mocked and made fun of S. Now look who's laughing at the end!

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    1. Korek! Ang yabang yabang nung una tapos ngayong hiniwalayan, sya pa ang biktima? asan yung sinasabi nya lagi maski abt sa ex nya dati na "ang ganda ganda ko kasi te"

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    2. You are mean. Do you even know that the girl you all pity is even worse than Ep? She just has a facade of being meek and quiet.

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    3. Eh maganda nmn talaga sya eh..kahit noong bata pa sya hanggat nagdalaga..walang salamat dok pa yan ha!!

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    4. Thanks for this most sensible comment.pak na pak

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  25. I'm on the girl EP side. Though taklesa. She's known for being real. SA has a quite bad reputation with his relationship though, i pity him more than EP, pity in a way na kakapaikot at kakagamit sa babae, he will end up lonely. I like PA's movie and acting, pero dati pa napaplastikan na ko sakanya.

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    1. idol mo lng si a,nagpaikot ikot kapa

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    2. same here...sa trabaho gusto ko sila pareho...sa attitude taklesa man si A but I like her than B...there's something in B na plastic talaga ang dating sa akin....

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  26. Wow if this really is true, good for EP. It seems like her break-up with SA will lead into better path for her professionally. I just hope even personally she change her attitude na rin. Maybe one of her costars can also invite EP to join her to become more religious now as this is right time for reflection. I hope she becomes a better and mature person after this. Nevermind the bashers and fans of PA and SA.

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  27. EP - Apoy SA- Ingat PA- partner ni Ingat.

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  28. MAHIRAP KAYANG MAGTRABAHO KUNG BROKEN HEARTED KA. I SALUTE YOU A.

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    1. Sus kala mo naman nagiisang dakila si A na nagtrabaho miski broken hearted. Yung ex ni J na si S nga tahimik lang miski pinahiya, kinutya, nilait, pinagtawanan ni A, R at mga fans nila. Todo trabaho lang walang paawa effect, walang in denial stage basta sige go move on. Ganun naman talaga ang dapat.

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    2. Oo cge teh dakila na rin ang idol mo! Eh ano pa ba ginagawa nya?life goes on dba kahit na wasak true pa rin sa commitment nya sa trabaho..di mo lng matanggap ata na kahit maldita yang si A eh mahal pa rin ng mga tao kasi pinapakita nya kng ano sya ke masama o mabuti man yan..at na aapreciate yan ng iba kasi kokonti nlng sa showbiz ang ganyan na halos lahat eh may imagr na pinoproject

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    3. Tama!hindi lang siya ang nag iisang nag trabaho ng broken hearted,halos lahat ng artista.

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  29. EP - Ex ni D
    SA - Ex ni S
    PA - Ex ni Z

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  30. Quiet si EP kasi may memo na sa kanya na bawal sya magwala at manira. Kaya nga pang aasar na lang ng mga faneys ang ginagawa nya sa isang social media acct.. and its the other way around.. Si SA ang smitten kay PA matagal na

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    1. Bwahaha..kaya pala sunggab agad si b kay j noong nakakita ng chance..hahaha..yan bang the oher way around?hahahaha..sino niloko mo ang alcoholic body ni j?

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  31. I salute EP. The show must go on and she is good with her craft. Don't worry EP. Time heals wounds and broken hearts and you're a survivor. Just recall the fond times you had with him and forget the bad memories. You fall then stand up and move on.

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  32. Ilang beses na ba silang napabalitang nag-break, then deny? Sabi nyo nga, kung may usok may sunog. So by then, alam na dapat ng lahat na ang relasyon na ito is sooner or later going to end. And it ended months ago. AGES ago. Hindi lang na-publicize. Kasi nga hindi maamin ni A na hindi sya nagwagi. And knowing J, he's not the one who goes public whenever his relationship with a girl ends, but you will just see him with another girl. AGES ago pa na ang relasyon nila A and J is not good. Definitely, you will see in A's IG the good photos of them together. Yun lang naman ang gusto nyang ipakita sa madla, pero behind the scene... nah. Move on, A. Tama na ang pagiging "brokenhearted". Don't wallow on self-pity. Remember mo na lang yung masasayang time nyo ni J. Mahalin mo na lang muna ang sarili mo.

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  33. Poor apoy. Apoy and ingat

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  34. Sabi wala pang movie sina EP at SA. Paano un naging sina A at J eh may movie na sila nun. Kasama pa sina B at Z.

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  35. Though she's really rough on some sides, she has always been a loyal girlfriend. Too bad, it's not reciprocated. In time, she'll find someone who she truly deserves.

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  36. While people may find A loudmouthed and impulsive, I still pity her. Before you comment, I'm not A nor a fan.

    What I really find very hurtful is her network chooses to protect the careers and images of J and B just because they are closer to the execs than her. To think she's been with them since childhood.

    To all of you who think that this is A's karma, don't you think that J deserves more of it as well? Plain and simple the guy you all idolize is a jerk. Marami na siyang sinaktan pero tinotolerate dahil paborito. Kawawa sinumang babae makakarelasyon nito.

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  37. The perfect idiom for this is " why buy a cow when u can get milk for free"...

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  38. I don't think this is A J & B.
    FP said EP and SA "... had yet to make a movie together"
    Eh di ba sa isang movie nga sila ngkadevelopan?

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  39. A,J,B.
    So totoo nga. There was an overlapping.

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