Ate, pano naman yung ibang movies na hindi tungkol sa kabit pero hindi rin morally/socially acceptable, hindi na rin pede ipalabas? Halimbawa movies about drugs, sex or other themes na medyo dark? Alam mo teh, kahit ganyan ung theme ng movie, hindi naman ibig sabihin pinopromote na nila ung pagiging kabit or drug addict, kaya nga manuod ka para maintindihan mo. Para hindi sarado ang utak mo sa kung ano lang ang maganda at acceptable sa lipunan.
I feel this movie is moving on dangerous grounds as it will just justify the existence and roles of mistresses in society. I'm sure there will be plenty of paawa effect to make us feel sorry for them too. The trailer already has a scene where the real wife is portrayed as someone with negative presence so this movie is totally unbalanced and biased from that stand point. Neither does it include the havoc and hurt it causes the children, family and friends of the married couple so matter how you look at it this movie is a just one big promotion for mistresses everywhere.
nilalagay kc sa consciousness ng mga tao ang mga mistresses so whether may moral values or wala, these kinds of movies, especially, sa dami nila, is like celebrating the mistresses and making it seem like this is normal so we should accept it...dapat malaman naten na mistresses ruin families.
Totoo naman, akala tuloy ng mga bata na its like normal nalang to have a mistresa. Na hindi siya big deal or anything. Kaya ako never watch anytging na ganyan kasi the more u watch it parang nagkaka idea ka pa lalo/tips to do when ur a mistress
Korek ka te... Kasi kami muntikan ng maghiwalay ang parents ko dahil sa kabitchina ng tatay ko. Natrauma ako dun.. Kc dumating sa point na wala ng ibinibigay na pera ang tatay ko sa nanay ko kc halos maubos sa luho ng kabit nya. Dumating kami sa point na gigising ka sa umga na wala kaung pagkaing tapos 2pm pa kayo makakakain kc nagdelihensya pa nanay namin. Mabuti matatag nanay ko.. At natauhan tatay namin. Kc nahuli nya kabit nya na may ibang lalake. Sana ang gawin naman nilang movie yung may matutunang aral. Galit ako sa mga KABIT!!!
Teh ang movie and constant bombardment of promotions malaki effect. Hindi OA to take cate of your kids' minds also. Also it's good to take a stand sa mga morally wrong na suggestions. But it's a no no na tawaging OA ang mga taong nag veverbalize ng concern para sa anak, family, society and out country. Bow.
agree ako ke 1:27..hindi oa ito. don't tell kung me anak kang babae gusto mo rin itong maging mistress basta masunod lang niya ang "etiquette" na mapapanood sa pelikula!
Tama naman mga sinabi niya. Pero wag mo ring kalimutan sana na mas maraming matatalinong viewers ngayon kumpara noon. Hindi naman siguro porket nag-portray na ng pagiging mistress ang isang celebrity eh tutularan na sila ng fans nila.
Yun na nga eh, pelikula lang na mapapanood ng karamihan, she has a point maraming factors na pwedeng pagdaanan ng isang mag-asawa o pamilya, di yung puro kabit, nakaka-badvibes kasi yang ganyan.
Excuse me teh! May point sya. Pag bata ang nakapanood at idol pa nila ang artista baka akalin ok lang maging kabit! Mag isip muna ng mabuti bago kumuda or baka ikaw ay isa rin K kaya di mo gets point nyan teh
May point sya yes pero moot yang sinasabi nya. First, saang parte ginoglorify ang pagiging kabit sa mga movies na binanggit nya? eh lahat naman un hindi naman nanalo ang kabit sa legal wife.
Alam nyo kung bakit? Kase yan ang kumikita.. Naglabas sila ng oh my g.. Nathaniel.. Ning ning. Pinapanood nyo b? Ung mga may sense na pelikula watch nyo b? Otj.. The trial.. Daming ipokrito sa mundo..
Ako din nagsasawa na sa puro kabit issue pero may iba pa nman silang ginagawa . Di lang ninyo pinapanood.
KaF do films that will hit the block buster and they dont care if the plot is not making any sense as long as it will earn. Kaya kahit papano nakakabilib yung isang show na kahit sobrang sikat nilalagyan parin nila ng katuturan kahit pakwela at pakilig.
excuse me 1:45? Ni isa sa mga movie or seryeng nabanggit wala ako pinanood... why would i waste my time and money over an overhyped crap? okay na ako sa mga indi films at underrated films/series
But the book (now a movie) isn’t just a guideline for mistresses, it is also a sarcastic checklist of how mistresses are supposed to act, and also includes how wives can learn from these.---CTO
Brava! Atleast alam ko na di lang ako fed up sa same plot at title na laging included "mistress, other woman, wife" si kris niloko na nga at nag ka mistress ang hubby , todo patronize pa sa ganyan values
I commend you for your honest convictions..the movie industry should stop glorifying mistresses or love affairs..it destroys families and leaves a deep pain for those who 're wronged..if a woman knows that the guy is married she should never succumbed to temptation and vice versa..things like these happened because the parties involved has no moral values.
I commend you for your honest convictions..the movie industry should stop glorifying mistresses or love affairs..it destroys families and leaves a deep pain for those who 're wronged..if a woman knows that the guy is married she should never succumbed to temptation and vice versa..things like these happened because the parties involved has no moral values.
Napanuod ko lahat ng kabit movies and in fairness naman sa The Mistress, and No other woman, hindi naman nito ginoglorify ang pagiging kabit, instead, pinakita sa movie yung mga kabit stories don't really win.
I support this post. Sa totoo lang mahirap iexplain sa mga bata ang issue na ganito. Di man kita agad they are subliminally affecting children's behavior. I saw sometime nag roroleplay ang kids sa isang kid's birthday party and they were acting some confrontation scene between a mistress and a wife. I stopped them immediately.
Who were minding the kids, how come they were able to watch those adult movies or series??? Yes, they imitate, but the deeper question is why were they able to imitate those acts?
Hindi yung tema ng mistresses ang problema sa example mo. Ang problema sa example mo Ay yung mga klase ng programang pinapahintulot na panoorin ng mga batang nabanggit mo. Bata panonoorin ng drama?
I read the book sweetie. It was well written. But the movie glamorizes it. There are poor men as well as rich men that have concubines in the Philippines. Glamorizing it does not make it right even if is deemed acceptable in Filipino society.
I like the part where she wrote about Phil history. Maybe like the movies on Rizal before? or Baler, the movie of Juday , Raymart and Dennis Trillo was good and different...
I totally agree, push mo yan teh! Kaya di na ako nanonood ng Star Cinema movies kasi paulit ulit Lang tema same banana ang storya. Kahit sa mga teleserye Hindi na nawala ng third party at may forth party pa. Lol!
Para sakin ok lang naman maglabas ng movie na ganyan its to entertain people. Hindi porke may tema ng kabit kabit means they support mistresses. Theyre just portraying the real issues sa buhay. Kung mapapanood nyo each movie na nabanggit, nakatuluyan ba ng kabit ang married guy? Diba ending nun nagkabalikan sila ng wifey? Yan ang laging ending. Nagsisilbi din yan aral sa mga mistresses na wife parin ang nanalo sa huli. So please maging open minded tayo. Yes nkakaoffend sa mga wife pero come to think of it may aral na mapupulot padin jan. buksan ang isip at puso intindihin ang storya hindi puro daldal may maipost lang sa fb nila
Open minded naman ang.mga tao they supported no other woman, the love affair, the legal wife, the mistress et al.ang point ni ate sana ibang theme naman. Imagine thats at least 4 of the same theme within months of each other. Umay na umay na din ako.
Kung umay ka edi dont watch diba. Kaya nga paulit ulit sila naglalabas ng ganyan theme kasi mabenta, means madami nagsusupport padin. Yung iba arte lang na ayaw pero curious padin watch. Try nyo kaya iboycott tignan natin kung uulit pa mga yan. Minsan kasi tayo panay reklamo at ask for a change pero sa sarili mismo natin hndi magawa ang pagbabago. Jusy sayin
Obviously galit sa kapamilya ang netizen na to. Puro kapamilya projects lang binanggit. Nabasa ba nya libro? Im sure di pa nya napanood ang movie. Id prefer this movie or the other movies mentioned over any wenn deramas or enteng kabisote film.
Wow c Ate maka dos at Star Cinema ha!!!! Pareho kau ng cousin ko na ganito ang sentiments! Isa lang talaga ang ibig sabihin nitong mga palabas ngaun maliban sa financial problem na kinahaharap ng isang pamilya o magasawa ang isa pang suliranin na kailangan nilang pagbgyang pansin ay ang pagiging marupok nila sa bawat temptasyon na nakikita nila sa mundo na puedeng ikasira nilang mag asawa!.
..wag panuorin kng ayaw, me moraL obligations ang abs kya puro quality movie ang npproduce nla, they see 2 it n the movie is worth every cents u pay.. at me mga moraL Lessons me moraL value, d nLa gno glorify ang mistresses, napanuod mna b teh kng mka react k, part of society yan d mu maittanggi ngaun pnta k mars kung ayaw mu mkpanuod ng mistresses movies,
Ate, negosyo yan. Kung ano mabenta yun ang ibebenta. Wala kang magagawa. Kubg naiinis ka, edi bantayan mo anak mo at gabayan mo ng tama. Kahit anong sulsol na gawin ng media, kung tama ang paggabay sa anak, hinding hindi malalason ang isip niyan. You sound too self righteou
yung kalabang network nagpapalabas ng matitinong story... pati nga history. ang kaso according to the network fantards, baduy ka pag nanonood ka dito sa kalabang network.
ang mga zombie fantards na ito kasi kahit hindi walang kwenta ang palabras sinusuportahan pa rin nila para lang masabi na classy sila for supporting classy shows from a world class network.
Kaya walang asenso pilipinas eh inuuna pagkuda. Panuorin mo muna bago mo husgahan baka maging eye opener pa nga ung movie para sa mga kabit at balak kumabit.
Wow may special private viewing siguro para sa poster and alam nya agad ending ng story for her to judge. Ate saludo ako sa kakitiran ng utak mo! It is just a story and its your choice kung tatangkilikin mo. I'd like to have the right to watch movies with substance when it comes to acting and story. Choice ko yun just as you have the choice to rant over something you probably haven't seen yet!
I understand her point, but she's not being forced to watch the movie. NO ONE is forcing anyone to watch this movie. Kung ayaw mo, wag kang manood! OA neto.
haha i mean Ka-F pala pero pareho din naman dalawang network puro ganyan tema ng storya nila! Uso na kasi maging "K" kaya yan na in ngayon pati sa pelikula.
oh well as a wife and mother yan din ang gusto kong sabihin minsan kaya lang paano?! at least now may nag-voice out. kudos to you teh! bravo .. at least for me.. or someone like me who really loves and cares for her family..
may point naman siya. but dahil d ko naman alam kung anu ba talaga story nito so medyo mahirap sa ngayon humusga. isa lang naiisip ko na inspiration ng movie na to ung the other woman(movie ni cameron diaz) pero kasi sa movie na yun pinagtulungan nila ung guy parang makaganti sila.
may point naman siya. but dahil d ko naman alam kung anu ba talaga story nito so medyo mahirap sa ngayon humusga. isa lang naiisip ko na inspiration ng movie na to ung the other woman(movie ni cameron diaz) pero kasi sa movie na yun pinagtulungan nila ung guy parang makaganti sila.
it's not naman tolerating the "kabits" may moral story din nmn ang mga yan..pinapakita nga dyan un mga consequences ng isang pagiging kabit..nsa sa tao na un kung pipiliin parin nilang maging kabit..ikabit nyo yan sa kukote nyo ha?
Dahil sa mga taong tulad mo kaya walang asenso sa pinas! Panay ka kuda. Panay ka husga. Hindi mo pa nga napapanuod ung movie. Baka nga may mga matutunan ung mga kabit at mga balak kumabit sa movie eh..
Nope. It's the othwr way around. It's people like you ang dahilan kung bakit super downgrade ang philippine cinema... kasi mas tinatangkilik ang ma to kaysa sa mga movie na may laman... tard
My dear, don't shoot the messenger. The medium is the message, and the message is that such things are not right things to do. That's the point. Our social judgments vary, and what we should do is to agree to disagree. You have a point, but your point is only as valid as that of those who don't agree with you. At the end of the day, shows or movies with 'themes' like this teach us not the theme, but the consequences that comes with it. Go ahead and watch some series or movies is the US - open your mind a little - so that you see how fun it is to have some variety in entertainment and literature. - Bruce Gender
variety of entertainment over the overused kabit theme? and please wag makipagcompare sa US dahil di hamak mas malawak ang genre nila at totoong may variety
Anon 1:32, come on, I'm not saying that their variety is as dynamic as what we have here. My point is, if we will be stuck with just the conventional self-righteous themes, we are limiting our universe. Yes, networks here might overuse the kabit theme, but at one point, something needs to start. And right there is the start of more open and thought-provoking themes of entertainment. Although it's a long way to go because of our culture and sad to say, the hypocrisy of some audiences. - Bruce Gender
dami nyang oras. dami nyang hugot. pero bago sana nag rant, binasa muna yung libro kasi ang original title nya ay "etiquette for mistresses and what wives can learn from them". maganda ang pagkakasulat nya. hindi nya gino glorify ang paging mistress. kinukwento lang nya yung realidad ng pagiging mistress. yun lang. sa totohanan, gusto ko syang panoorin kung paano nila isinalin ito mula sa libro, at kung mabibigyan ba ng hustisya yung libro. hindi ako fan ninuman sa cast nila, at hindi rin ako mistress. kay ateng moralista, siguro basahin mo muna.
Good job! It's one affair after another. I don't understand what kind of mentality these Filipinos have. It might be a part of society but glamorizing it sends the wrong message. I was in a party yesterday and this old Filipina was talking about a recent movie and I could not understand her rationale at 70 years old that it was understandable that the wife had an affair as she was feeling neglected and so goes for the husband. There are a lot of neglected wives in this world but not all of them have affairs and there are a lot of husbands that had unfaithful wives but they never had an affair either. The ones that I know either tried to do something better with their lives, had marriage counseling and if they were not able to work things out , opted for divorce and have live better lives. There is no justification for such behaviour. So it's good that somebody stood up for something.
I don't think it's glorifying mistresses. Yung mga nabanggit naman nyang movies, may moral lesson naman at hindi naman nagiging masaya ang kabit sa ending. Pero totoo na gasgas na ang storyline, katulad rin ng mga pabebe na romcoms natin, gasgas na rin ang plot.
I agree! totoo naman eh! basahin nyo na lang ang comments dito, jinujustify pa yung point ni ate, legit naman! Convince nyo sarili nyo na "MOVIE" lang ito. Aminin, big influence naman talaga yan sa mga bata at jejes of the philippines. Kaya dumadami kabit eh, akala cool sila.
Tsk. Kaya nga may ratings ang movies or tv shows. There are age brackets for who can watch which. E kung pinaubaya mo sa TV ang pag-aalaga sa anak mo, more likely than not he or she sees inappropriate content. Tapos ang sisi.sa palabas na movie or series kasi the child began deviating from social norm. E ikaw na magulang, bakit di mo tignan sarili mo, before you point fingers???
I agree to the letter sender. We need movies which should inspire the younger generation to be better people by empowering themselves and not to be financially dependent on others.
I agree to the letter sender. We need movies which should inspire the younger generation to be better people by empowering themselves and not to be financially dependent on others.
Okay lang sana ang movie, wag lang sana ipromote at icommercial ng time na nanunuod ang mga bata. Sana lang like pag tanghali or hapon or early at night. Like sa hollywood films may mga ganyan din namang tema pero sa right audience nila pnpromote
Question to the person who wrote this.. how many of the mistress movies has she actually watched? Because I've seen all the movies she mentioned and to be honest, none of those made me want to be a mistress after watching it. I have to disagree that the movies glorifies mistresses amd/or the act of cheating.
It's very irresponsible to blame movies on how people become or turn our to be. Shouldnt this be an issue of proper and responsible parenting??
When we see movies about history, say "Schindlers List" or "Joan of Arc" for example... are they glorified or is it just a medium to tell the story of this part of history?
My point is, we are all accountable to the choices we make and need to take responsibility for it. We cant blame movies for how society becomes because it all comes down to personal choice. I dont believe anyone is forced to watch these types of movies, especially now that seeing it is not necessarily cheap. We always have a choice and these choices reflects what we value.
I agree with her. Mukhang favorite ng mga writers ng dos ang mga istorya ng mistress/kabit o pinaglalayong magkakapatid. Most of their teleseryes ganyan ang themes. Sa mga nagcocomment na kesyo wag manood si ateng nagpost ng opinion nia, I guess you believe cheating is a normal thing.
My dear you do not need a book to know. Just watch and observe honey. There is no such malodorous smell that can be hidden and remain undiscovered. There is no such thing as secrets. Even politicians who have the power and Money could not hide it , how much more for an ordinary joe? People talk sweetie. Most women nowadays are empowered.Why would one suffer and take such humiliation. Considering how mistresses nowadays are so shameless , is it still relevant? Her point is that does anybody respect the sanctity of marriage and family nowadays? Is that what a family amounts to these days?
Puro kayo "e di wag kang manood". Kahit sya alam nyang wala namang mangyayari kahit di sya manood. Kaya sya nafu-frustrate. Knows na nya na mas maraming katulad nyong manonood, at ang effect non e yun nga... yung idinakdak nya. May troots naman.. basta bebenta, nekneknyang moral obligation na yan. Susundutin na lang nila ng mga teleserye daw tungkol sa mga anghel-anghel.. aguy.
Huh? Sex is almost always glorified in many films, and even in tv series, so what's the fuss with this one about mistresses? How about you look at it this way...how do mistresses behave and what do they have that men see them as necessity? Who knows, the wife might learn something or two. And as for kids nowadays being promiscuous, don't blame the things they see online, in movies, or series. The answer would be the conduct of the members of the family first and foremost, and whether the parents make sure they have time to explain things with the children.
1.22 typical 'open minded' bs. the glorification of sex everywhere is why there's more rape, sexual abusers and exhibitionist losers with no boundaries, dragging humanity into further depths of depravity. you must be so proud.
Someone seriously needs to read the book! Isa siyang malaking shunga, walang asenso ang Pinas sa ganyang thinking at ganun na rin yung mga naki-agree sa opinyon niyang walang basehan!
we don't need to read the book to justify that this movie is gasgas and pointless. we don't need to watch a movie to be able to double check our morals.
Teh, hindi panunuod ng movies ang magiging dahilan ng pagiging mistress ng tao...kung solid ang foundation ng values mo as a person, solid yun...that foundation starts within the family...it's not the entertainment industry's obligation to raise your children...you pay to watch these movies, it's not forced down your throats...kung ayaw mo, wag mo...it's a freakin movie...it's art...it shouldn't be limited because you think it's insulting to portray real life..that's what movie ratings are for...movies/shows weren't created to spread good morals...they were created to put writers' ideas into life...ayan, napahaba tuloy comment ko...good day. -Brainiac
I agree with her post. Mga babae ngayon ke babata pa ang landi landi na (not all) at napaka materialistic pa kahit wala namang kaya sa buhay yung magulang nila kaya ayun payag nalang maging kabit. Very sad.
Hindi lang naman media ang may kasalanan kung bakit sinasabi mong malandi at materialistic ang mga bata ngayon. Maraming ibang impluwensya, minsan nasa mga nagpapalaki din. O kaya nasa pagkatao ng bata. Kaya hinay lang sa pag tukoy sa relasyon ng media sa kabataan.
Ang mga kabit at asawang nagkakabit ang bagong druglord/gangster/tiwaling politiko o pulis ng mga pelikula o shows. Nakikita sa news ang mga ito, uumayin pa ba sa shows. Ang akin lang, nabasa kaya niya yung libro? Or nagka special screening kaya siya? Madaling sabihin na immoral ang premise pero in a way ito yung shock value na. Alam naman natin lahat ang ending. Matatapos ang affair. Magsisisi ang kabit. Minsan nag ssorry pa dun sa legal na asawa. Ang palaging lesson? Walang masamang sekretong di nabubunyag. The end.
Wala pa rin kasing divorce sa Pinas kaya madami pang kabit. Oh well, movie lang ito. Pero sa panahon ng social media bilib din ako sa mga nakakapagtago pa ng kabit!
I understand your sentiments dear..mukhang malalim talaga ang hugot mo..hehehe...but u know what, simple lang naman ang reason kung bakit paulit ulit ang theme ng pelikula na ginagawa natin eh.... kse po iyong mga ganitong story ang click sa mga manonood. Ito iyong pinipilahan at kumikita... kahit sabihin pa natin na another mistress movie ito at the end of the day pag showing nyan box office pa rin yan! Gustuhin man ng star cinema na gumawa ng mga family oriented na movie or iyong sinasabi mo na about our Philippine history eh kung wala namang manonood d ba?..I'm sure naman kahit ikaw d ka rin naman manonood nun noh..Come on lets not be hypocrites...d naman talaga hit sa mga tao ang sobrang drama na pelikula. .naka ilang try dn naman ang star cinema or other film outlets ng ganyan na waley dn....Anak lang ata iyong nag hit pero the rest d naman kumita..lalo na iyong may theme about history..kung d pa gagawing requirements sa school wala rin namang nanonood nun. So syempre iyong gagawin nla iyong alam nilang click sa audience. It's all about money honey! Gets nyo na po ba?!
A lot of people have been this sa comments dito sa FP noon pa, na parang mistress movie na naman?? So im not surprised may nag speak.up nga. May tama naman si ate eh.
minsan kasi ang mga tao hindi tignan ang lesson sa ending nang pelikula... and kung ayaw nang movie wag manuod isa pa.. hindi allowed mga bata manuod nyan sa sinehan
and if kids see posters of this they would ask, what is a mistress mommy? the fact is, we choose to market these topics because yes they earn money (pinoys have come to love infidelity as a subject because we like making money off it, like making movies of the subject, it's hilarious how cheap our country's entertainment industry is) and anyone who says these movies don't have a negative effect is in denial. you would say, kaya nga may movie ratings, may parental guidance, etc, but why can't we just avoid glorifying such issues in the first place? say, nip it in the bud?
bottomline: we don't need to watch a movie to learn that being a mistress is not right.
Kelangan ko pa ba manood ng movie para malaman ko na mali ang pagiging kabit? Duh! Title pa lang e. Bakit, may plan ka bang gamitin yang tips in the future? Sana hindi, at sana hindi ka maparanoid kakanood ng gantong klaseng film.
Eh di wag mong panoorin. May nagtututok ba ng baril sayo para manood? Pag coloring book mo nalang anak mo. Hindi naman mamamatay yan kung hindi makakanood ng TV mas mabuti pa.
Bakit kamo kabit movie na naman?? Ang dami kasing KABIT sa pilipinas.. mayaman, mahirap, gwapo.. may kabit.. kung mahirap at pangit ka, meron ka pa ding kabit, ikaw na!! Ang masaklap pa dyan, yung ibang misis tino tolerate nila ang asawa nilang may kabit.. at ang pinanghahawakan nila ay sila ang LEGAL WIFE...
I understand her sentiments, and also those who opposed.
1. MTRCB has guidelines, regardless if bata ka or nasa wastong pag iisip kung alam mong Hindi angkop sa kulturang kinagisnan mo i guess you're not supposed to watch it or try to be entertained. 2. We value our family. It hurts us whenever we have friends or someone na kilala natin or very close to our hearts na nasa situation na may "mistress" na character na involved. We are actually praying for them na malampasan situation na yun, what more if it's happening to us. 3. Majority of our country's population are Catholics or Christians who doesn't allow any of their members to be a mistress, regardless if you're a good mistress na biktima lang ng love or a mistress who lacks of everything; attention, affection, love, support, communication etc. and trying to get it from a family man who can give all of it plus the financial support. 4. No such means of entertainment should portray immorality in a sense that you're giving people tips on how to compose oneself once andun ka na sa situation na yun: pwedeng lumakas loob ni mistress or pwedeng panghinaan ng loob si misis. kahit at the end of the movie or such story that it shows mistress never wins, it portrays naman a competition between the legal and mistress which hindi dapat nangyayari. there should be no competition. period! 5. kahit sinong tao na nasa wastong edad, pwedeng mangamba para sa kabataan. and share his or her sentiments in a sense na pwedeng nyang example sarili niyang buhay or generalize. I am sure, ayaw lang niyang malagay sa situation na she needs to deal with a mistress. It can be a nightmare to any legal wife who from the start, nangarap lang ng isang masayang pamilya.
Madami pa actually, pero antok na ko. Haha! We may all have our own bad habits (gossiping, bashing, etc.) but let us avoid as much as possible na mag commit ng ka imoralan. I am not a mistress nor a wife yet, i dont have experience sa ganyang situation pa. Nakaka lungkot lang na ang judgement ng iba tao is someone should experience it first before kang mag opposed sa pinapakitang ka imoralan ng mga pelikula at palabas sa tv. but viewers lang naman tayo, all we got is to share our piece and thats it. then exchange smart thought with each other.
i came from a broken family and i agree with her statement. hindi dahil bias ako at manhid para sa ibang tao but..MORALITY. asan ang moralidad at aral sa ganittong klase ng mga pelikula. i have a heavy heart reading all the comments of the people who instead of agreeing with the above statement e nagba-bash pa. srsly people, be open minded but font forget your morals. panay kayong "open minded" that u forgot that we were all taught morals bata pa lang. you know why people keep on throwing back 90's? kasi nagagawang maging masaya ng tao noon ng may moralidad. ngayon if you have morals you are bashed, kasi "open minded" is the new term for immoral. these kind of movies shouldnt be supported. wala namang babaeng pinangarap na maging kabit so what's the point of this trash?
take note: people watch movies pag naandoon ang idol nila. take note: masama ang pangangalunya kahit ano pang dahilan, hindi naitatama ng isa pang mali ang nauna ng pagkakamali. take note: hindi totoong matalino na ang mga viewers, kasi if we are then this kind of tash wont be shown over and over AGAIN.
*nothing against the actors and actresses, just the theme itself*
Diba itong movie na ito is leksyon sa mga babaeng gustong magpakabit at kung ano ang buhay nila kapag pinili nilang maging kabit? Hindi sa kabit mapupunta ang lalake... asawa ang panalo dito...so bakit glorification ng mga kabit ang tingin nyo? Hina nyong umintindi.. Wag nyo panoorin kung ayaw nyo
About time too
ReplyDeleteTotoo naman eh. Walang moral values na pino promote. Ang pakikiapid sa may asawa ay pagnanakaw na din. Dahil kumukuha ka ng hindi iyo
DeleteCoz #TheEndIsNear
DeleteAte, pano naman yung ibang movies na hindi tungkol sa kabit pero hindi rin morally/socially acceptable, hindi na rin pede ipalabas? Halimbawa movies about drugs, sex or other themes na medyo dark? Alam mo teh, kahit ganyan ung theme ng movie, hindi naman ibig sabihin pinopromote na nila ung pagiging kabit or drug addict, kaya nga manuod ka para maintindihan mo. Para hindi sarado ang utak mo sa kung ano lang ang maganda at acceptable sa lipunan.
DeleteI feel this movie is moving on dangerous grounds as it will just justify the existence and roles of mistresses in society. I'm sure there will be plenty of paawa effect to make us feel sorry for them too. The trailer already has a scene where the real wife is portrayed as someone with negative presence so this movie is totally unbalanced and biased from that stand point. Neither does it include the havoc and hurt it causes the children, family and friends of the married couple so matter how you look at it this movie is a just one big promotion for mistresses everywhere.
DeleteSa totoo lang, di mo pa napapanood pero wala na agad moral values?
Deletenilalagay kc sa consciousness ng mga tao ang mga mistresses so whether may moral values or wala, these kinds of movies, especially, sa dami nila, is like celebrating the mistresses and making it seem like this is normal so we should accept it...dapat malaman naten na mistresses ruin families.
DeleteSa totoo lang, pare pareho ang mga kabet movies.
Delete1.13 wala nagsasabing hindi dapat ipalabas. ang point ay dapat bang tangkilikin ang movie dahil mali ang pinipromote nila.
DeleteMay point si ateng. This is so immoral.
ReplyDeleteEh db base naman sa book yan? Bakit hndi xa nagreklamo ng nilabas sa market ung libro. Cguro asawa nito may kabit. Hehe. Affected much!
ReplyDeleteBat di niya sinama yun my neighbors wife, unfaithful chenelin ng gma??? Hindi Lang naman abc ang mahilig sa Kabit. Lol
ReplyDeleteTotoo naman, akala tuloy ng mga bata na its like normal nalang to have a mistresa. Na hindi siya big deal or anything. Kaya ako never watch anytging na ganyan kasi the more u watch it parang nagkaka idea ka pa lalo/tips to do when ur a mistress
ReplyDeleteMay point siAteng, it's like glorifying the wrong deeds
ReplyDeleteYes tama
DeleteKaso yan ang nga bumebenta sa takilya
Pag goody goody, Baka langawin
Korek ka te... Kasi kami muntikan ng maghiwalay ang parents ko dahil sa kabitchina ng tatay ko. Natrauma ako dun.. Kc dumating sa point na wala ng ibinibigay na pera ang tatay ko sa nanay ko kc halos maubos sa luho ng kabit nya. Dumating kami sa point na gigising ka sa umga na wala kaung pagkaing tapos 2pm pa kayo makakakain kc nagdelihensya pa nanay namin. Mabuti matatag nanay ko.. At natauhan tatay namin. Kc nahuli nya kabit nya na may ibang lalake. Sana ang gawin naman nilang movie yung may matutunang aral. Galit ako sa mga KABIT!!!
Deletebusiness teh..
DeleteAng ooa ng mga to.. Para movie lang eh. D wag manood tapos
ReplyDeleteyou are what's wrong with this country
DeleteTeh ang movie and constant bombardment of promotions malaki effect. Hindi OA to take cate of your kids' minds also. Also it's good to take a stand sa mga morally wrong na suggestions. But it's a no no na tawaging OA ang mga taong nag veverbalize ng concern para sa anak, family, society and out country. Bow.
Deleteagree ako ke 1:27..hindi oa ito. don't tell kung me anak kang babae gusto mo rin itong maging mistress basta masunod lang niya ang "etiquette" na mapapanood sa pelikula!
Deleteits the reality..may kabit maraming kabit na naglipana ngayon..
DeleteClap! Clap!
ReplyDeleteTama naman mga sinabi niya. Pero wag mo ring kalimutan sana na mas maraming matatalinong viewers ngayon kumpara noon. Hindi naman siguro porket nag-portray na ng pagiging mistress ang isang celebrity eh tutularan na sila ng fans nila.
ReplyDeleteang mga fans ngayon ginagawang modela ang kanilang mga idol kahit mali ang ginagawa!
DeleteMatalinong viewers? Where? Where? Look at the crap that's being shown? Degradation at its finest? Kawawang pilipinas.
DeleteWag nyo kasi isabuhay ang pelikula. Pelikula lang yan. Masyo kayo nagpapakastress sa walang ka kwenta kwentang bagay
ReplyDeleteYun na nga eh, pelikula lang na mapapanood ng karamihan, she has a point maraming factors na pwedeng pagdaanan ng isang mag-asawa o pamilya, di yung puro kabit, nakaka-badvibes kasi yang ganyan.
DeleteExcuse me teh! May point sya. Pag bata ang nakapanood at idol pa nila ang artista baka akalin ok lang maging kabit! Mag isip muna ng mabuti bago kumuda or baka ikaw ay isa rin K kaya di mo gets point nyan teh
DeleteOo movie lang yan... Ang pointni ate bakit hindi gumawa ng movie na may aral at hindi puro kabit kabit or about infidelity..
Deletemedia has power and influence
DeleteBaka may pinagdadaanan.
DeleteSapul!!!!
ReplyDeleteWag nyo kasi isabuhay ang pelikula. Pelikula lang yan. Masyado kayo nagpapakastress sa walang ka kwenta kwentang bagay
ReplyDeleteThere are impressionable kids watching and that can be influenced
DeleteMay point naman si netizen. Kaya lang, imbes na magkaroon ng nega effect sa movie parang mas makaka trigger pa ng interest. Promo effect sya ngayon.
ReplyDeleteTeh wag ka manood!dami mong kuda
ReplyDeleteUi.. Affected... Kulididang ka cguro noh?! LOL
Deletetypical pinoy movie fantard
DeleteMay point naman si Ate Grabe na ang pag glamorize sa pagiging mistress nowadays..
ReplyDeleteTRUE!!
DeleteAGREE
DeleteMay point sya yes pero moot yang sinasabi nya. First, saang parte ginoglorify ang pagiging kabit sa mga movies na binanggit nya? eh lahat naman un hindi naman nanalo ang kabit sa legal wife.
Deleteteh sa the end ng movie or teleserye laging talo ang kabit.. so anong sinasabi ninyo na na glorify ang mistress..
Delete1:27 am really? In your world but not in reality.
DeleteTotoo naman kasi parang nilegitimise na ganitong movie ang role ng mga mistresses.
ReplyDeleteEh di wag kang manood!
ReplyDelete^^^ see ang taray ng mga k ngayon sobrang entitled lol
DeleteFantard level!
DeleteAlam nyo kung bakit? Kase yan ang kumikita.. Naglabas sila ng oh my g.. Nathaniel.. Ning ning. Pinapanood nyo b? Ung mga may sense na pelikula watch nyo b? Otj.. The trial.. Daming ipokrito sa mundo..
ReplyDeleteAko din nagsasawa na sa puro kabit issue pero may iba pa nman silang ginagawa
. Di lang ninyo pinapanood.
you included?
DeleteGanyan kami sa ABS
ReplyDeleteHiyang hiya naman kami sa GMA. - The faithful husband
Deletepak na pak! hahaha
Deletefor sure si ate may kabit ang husband.. better watch the movie first, the book is awesome. wag ka mahigh blood te.
ReplyDeleteSure na sure ka te ha?
DeleteKaF do films that will hit the block buster and they dont care if the plot is not making any sense as long as it will earn. Kaya kahit papano nakakabilib yung isang show na kahit sobrang sikat nilalagyan parin nila ng katuturan kahit pakwela at pakilig.
ReplyDeleteSo ano yung may sense? As I know yung mga movies na binanggit may sense lahat at di kinokonsinte yung pagiging mistress
DeleteWhat do you expect from a channel na naka focus sa hype than a quality teleserye or movie? Typical Ignacia theme.
ReplyDeleteEh aminin mo nanonood ka rin!
Deletenanonood ka din.. isa pa thats business paki alam ba nila sa opinion ng kunti lang..gets mo
Deleteexcuse me 1:45? Ni isa sa mga movie or seryeng nabanggit wala ako pinanood... why would i waste my time and money over an overhyped crap? okay na ako sa mga indi films at underrated films/series
DeleteOA naman si area, judging the movie based on trailer.... Wait muna mag showing teh, go watch then give your sat2x.
ReplyDeleteSpot on! This is one of the reasons why marami mistresses na malalakas loob at makakapal mukha!
ReplyDeleteMay point si ate.
ReplyDeleteBut is it me or talagang may hugot yung posts nya? I get it, pero sjguradong naisahan ito ng isang "mistress".
Ang lalim ng hugot!
But the book (now a movie) isn’t just a guideline for mistresses, it is also a sarcastic checklist of how mistresses are supposed to act, and also includes how wives can learn from these.---CTO
ReplyDeleteang ingay nito.
ReplyDeleteMay point naman siya. Kabit ka ba?
DeleteOo. May issue ka?
DeleteBrava! Atleast alam ko na di lang ako fed up sa same plot at title na laging included "mistress, other woman, wife" si kris niloko na nga at nag ka mistress ang hubby , todo patronize pa sa ganyan values
ReplyDeleteI commend you for your honest convictions..the movie industry should stop glorifying mistresses or love affairs..it destroys families and leaves a deep pain for those who 're wronged..if a woman knows that the guy is married she should never succumbed to temptation and vice versa..things like these happened because the parties involved has no moral values.
ReplyDeletepara lang mapag usapan ang movie.. sows!'
ReplyDeletewell said! in this generation, kung ano ang mali nagiging tama!
ReplyDeleteHuh? Sobra ka, so wala bang ginawang tama ang henerasyon na ito para sa iyo? paki explain mo nga! Masyadong self righteous ka ateng.
Deletebat teh ano ba ang generation ngayon at noon..
DeleteDi ko na tinapos, ni walang nabanggit na kabit serye from kamuning puros kapamilya lang, halatang kamuning netizen itey. Haha
ReplyDeleteI commend you for your honest convictions..the movie industry should stop glorifying mistresses or love affairs..it destroys families and leaves a deep pain for those who 're wronged..if a woman knows that the guy is married she should never succumbed to temptation and vice versa..things like these happened because the parties involved has no moral values.
ReplyDeleteNapanuod ko lahat ng kabit movies and in fairness naman sa The Mistress, and No other woman, hindi naman nito ginoglorify ang pagiging kabit, instead, pinakita sa movie yung mga kabit stories don't really win.
ReplyDeletetrue..
DeleteI support this post. Sa totoo lang mahirap iexplain sa mga bata ang issue na ganito. Di man kita agad they are subliminally affecting children's behavior. I saw sometime nag roroleplay ang kids sa isang kid's birthday party and they were acting some confrontation scene between a mistress and a wife. I stopped them immediately.
ReplyDeleteWho were minding the kids, how come they were able to watch those adult movies or series??? Yes, they imitate, but the deeper question is why were they able to imitate those acts?
DeleteHindi yung tema ng mistresses ang problema sa example mo. Ang problema sa example mo Ay yung mga klase ng programang pinapahintulot na panoorin ng mga batang nabanggit mo. Bata panonoorin ng drama?
DeleteUmmmm napanuod mo Na ba baks? Nabasa mo ba yung book? Nakabasa Lang ng mistress, react agad
ReplyDeleteYung daming kuda based sa trailer ay mga ignoramus!
DeleteI read the book sweetie. It was well written. But the movie glamorizes it. There are poor men as well as rich men that have concubines in the Philippines. Glamorizing it does not make it right even if is deemed acceptable in Filipino society.
DeleteI like the part where she wrote about Phil history. Maybe like the movies on Rizal before? or Baler, the movie of Juday , Raymart and Dennis Trillo was good and different...
ReplyDeleteIlustrado, Katipunan, at yung kay Rocco Nacino to which he played as a really honest mayor. Made by the GMA news team.
Deletefinally! someone said it!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree, push mo yan teh! Kaya di na ako nanonood ng Star Cinema movies kasi paulit ulit Lang tema same banana ang storya. Kahit sa mga teleserye Hindi na nawala ng third party at may forth party pa. Lol!
ReplyDeleteteh sine oh.. kng may pambayad ka at gusto mo edi go kng wala edi wow..
ReplyDeleteE pano yung commercials and promos that you have no choice kahit ilipat mo channel mo minsan di mo naman mahahabol lagi na magpalit
DeleteEh di wag ka manood kng hate mo that kind of movie gnun lng ka simple malaya kang gawin kng ano gsto mo
ReplyDeletekabit spotted
DeleteExcuse me pow kalayaan din na mag comment and critique against movies
DeletePara sakin ok lang naman maglabas ng movie na ganyan its to entertain people. Hindi porke may tema ng kabit kabit means they support mistresses. Theyre just portraying the real issues sa buhay. Kung mapapanood nyo each movie na nabanggit, nakatuluyan ba ng kabit ang married guy? Diba ending nun nagkabalikan sila ng wifey? Yan ang laging ending. Nagsisilbi din yan aral sa mga mistresses na wife parin ang nanalo sa huli. So please maging open minded tayo. Yes nkakaoffend sa mga wife pero come to think of it may aral na mapupulot padin jan. buksan ang isip at puso intindihin ang storya hindi puro daldal may maipost lang sa fb nila
ReplyDeleteOpen minded naman ang.mga tao they supported no other woman, the love affair, the legal wife, the mistress et al.ang point ni ate sana ibang theme naman. Imagine thats at least 4 of the same theme within months of each other. Umay na umay na din ako.
DeleteKung umay ka edi dont watch diba. Kaya nga paulit ulit sila naglalabas ng ganyan theme kasi mabenta, means madami nagsusupport padin. Yung iba arte lang na ayaw pero curious padin watch.
DeleteTry nyo kaya iboycott tignan natin kung uulit pa mga yan.
Minsan kasi tayo panay reklamo at ask for a change pero sa sarili mismo natin hndi magawa ang pagbabago. Jusy sayin
Obviously galit sa kapamilya ang netizen na to. Puro kapamilya projects lang binanggit. Nabasa ba nya libro? Im sure di pa nya napanood ang movie. Id prefer this movie or the other movies mentioned over any wenn deramas or enteng kabisote film.
ReplyDeleteMeron bang mistress movie sa kah aside from MHL na baklush ang kabet?
DeleteThe faithful husband teh. Di mo siguro alam kasi di naman matunog.
Deletemay point si Netizen
ReplyDeletetama may point!
ReplyDeleteWow c Ate maka dos at Star Cinema ha!!!!
ReplyDeletePareho kau ng cousin ko na ganito ang sentiments! Isa lang talaga ang ibig sabihin nitong mga palabas ngaun maliban sa financial problem na kinahaharap ng isang pamilya o magasawa ang isa pang suliranin na kailangan nilang pagbgyang pansin ay ang pagiging marupok nila sa bawat temptasyon na nakikita nila sa mundo na puedeng ikasira nilang mag asawa!.
Bongga! On point si ateng!!
ReplyDeleteBoycott!!
ReplyDelete..wag panuorin kng ayaw, me moraL obligations ang abs kya puro quality movie ang npproduce nla, they see 2 it n the movie is worth every cents u pay.. at me mga moraL Lessons me moraL value, d nLa gno glorify ang mistresses, napanuod mna b teh kng mka react k, part of society yan d mu maittanggi ngaun pnta k mars kung ayaw mu mkpanuod ng mistresses movies,
ReplyDeleteQuality? Haha ? Who set the standards for that quality? Jejetards like you with a level of comprehension below subterranean levels? Harhar!
DeleteYes!! Pak na pak!
ReplyDeleteAte, negosyo yan. Kung ano mabenta yun ang ibebenta. Wala kang magagawa. Kubg naiinis ka, edi bantayan mo anak mo at gabayan mo ng tama. Kahit anong sulsol na gawin ng media, kung tama ang paggabay sa anak, hinding hindi malalason ang isip niyan. You sound too self righteou
ReplyDeleteyung kalabang network nagpapalabas ng matitinong story... pati nga history. ang kaso according to the network fantards, baduy ka pag nanonood ka dito sa kalabang network.
ReplyDeleteang mga zombie fantards na ito kasi kahit hindi walang kwenta ang palabras sinusuportahan pa rin nila para lang masabi na classy sila for supporting classy shows from a world class network.
Aba ate di ka pinipilit manood. Seriously!!! Bakit kse nakadepende ang buhay mo sa tv at movies eh. Yan tuloy!
ReplyDeleteMay point si ate. Lagi na lang mistress ang theme ng movies at teleserye nila.
ReplyDeleteAng daming mga babae sa pilipinas na querida..mostly, after sa pera mga
ReplyDeleteKaya walang asenso pilipinas eh inuuna pagkuda. Panuorin mo muna bago mo husgahan baka maging eye opener pa nga ung movie para sa mga kabit at balak kumabit.
ReplyDeleteDaming kuda. Manood ka ng indie films teh doon ang dami mong choices
ReplyDeleteEither they get their story from Wattpad or they recycle stories...the writers need to do their job and write something original.
ReplyDeleteAgree
ReplyDeleteWow may special private viewing siguro para sa poster and alam nya agad ending ng story for her to judge. Ate saludo ako sa kakitiran ng utak mo! It is just a story and its your choice kung tatangkilikin mo.
ReplyDeleteI'd like to have the right to watch movies with substance when it comes to acting and story. Choice ko yun just as you have the choice to rant over something you probably haven't seen yet!
Don't watch it then,kalokah.
ReplyDeleteKahit sabihin mo di manonood..pero yung mga kabataan ma eengganyong manood kasi mga idol nila andun... Gets
ReplyDeleteI understand her point, but she's not being forced to watch the movie. NO ONE is forcing anyone to watch this movie. Kung ayaw mo, wag kang manood! OA neto.
ReplyDeleteAt mabenta sya ha.
ReplyDeletehaha i mean Ka-F pala pero pareho din naman dalawang network puro ganyan tema ng storya nila! Uso na kasi maging "K" kaya yan na in ngayon pati sa pelikula.
ReplyDeleteE kasi tinatangkilik kaya ang lalakas ng loob ng mga producer. I boycott nyo yan ewan ko lang kung saang kangkungan yan pupulutin.
ReplyDeleteRanting without watching the whole film?ang nega naman nyan. Perhaps,may hugot yan kaya nega sa movie.
ReplyDeleteSus wag monood. Ganun lang un. May mistress ba asawa mo ateng?
ReplyDeleteTama naman si poster kasi parang pini promote nila ang pagiging kabit. Gusto ata nilang ipakita na mga martyr ang mga mistresses.
ReplyDeleteoh well as a wife and mother yan din ang gusto kong sabihin minsan kaya lang paano?! at least now may nag-voice out. kudos to you teh! bravo .. at least for me.. or someone like me who really loves and cares for her family..
ReplyDeleteMatagal na yang book na yan. Basahin nyo kasi maganda sya
ReplyDeleteHello teh kahit lumuha ka pa ng dugo, keber namin sayo dahil manunuod pa din kami. Excited na kami. Wag ka na lang manuod noh. Choice mo yan.
ReplyDeleteManunuod pa din ako. Maganda at magagaling mga bida. Cant wait for September 30.
ReplyDeleteMay point si ateng. Kaya nga kumapal lalo mukha nang mga kabet now eh. Garapalan na.
ReplyDeleteOA. Ateng, panoorin mo muna or kung kaya mo basahin mo yung book.
ReplyDeletemay point naman siya. but dahil d ko naman alam kung anu ba talaga story nito so medyo mahirap sa ngayon humusga. isa lang naiisip ko na inspiration ng movie na to ung the other woman(movie ni cameron diaz) pero kasi sa movie na yun pinagtulungan nila ung guy parang makaganti sila.
ReplyDeletemay point naman siya. but dahil d ko naman alam kung anu ba talaga story nito so medyo mahirap sa ngayon humusga. isa lang naiisip ko na inspiration ng movie na to ung the other woman(movie ni cameron diaz) pero kasi sa movie na yun pinagtulungan nila ung guy parang makaganti sila.
ReplyDeleteit's not naman tolerating the "kabits" may moral story din nmn ang mga yan..pinapakita nga dyan un mga consequences ng isang pagiging kabit..nsa sa tao na un kung pipiliin parin nilang maging kabit..ikabit nyo yan sa kukote nyo ha?
ReplyDeleteUso kasi sa kanila yan. Pasa-pasahan.
ReplyDeleteDahil sa mga taong tulad mo kaya walang asenso sa pinas! Panay ka kuda. Panay ka husga. Hindi mo pa nga napapanuod ung movie. Baka nga may mga matutunan ung mga kabit at mga balak kumabit sa movie eh..
ReplyDeleteKorek. Malay mo through this movie, marealize nila na ang pagkakamali nila. Bawas bawasan naman ang pagiging self absorbed.
DeleteUy, guilty. Kabit ka siguro tey!
DeleteNope. It's the othwr way around. It's people like you ang dahilan kung bakit super downgrade ang philippine cinema... kasi mas tinatangkilik ang ma to kaysa sa mga movie na may laman... tard
DeleteNabasa mo na ba ang book ateng??? Kase baka ikaw ang di nakakaintindi ng pinagsasabi mo. If di mo nabasa.
Deletehindi mo kailangan mapanuod, basahin mo na lang ang mga spoilers ni Kris para makatipid ka ha ha
DeleteMAY POINT SYA
ReplyDeleteMy dear, don't shoot the messenger. The medium is the message, and the message is that such things are not right things to do. That's the point. Our social judgments vary, and what we should do is to agree to disagree. You have a point, but your point is only as valid as that of those who don't agree with you. At the end of the day, shows or movies with 'themes' like this teach us not the theme, but the consequences that comes with it. Go ahead and watch some series or movies is the US - open your mind a little - so that you see how fun it is to have some variety in entertainment and literature. - Bruce Gender
ReplyDeleteAgreed!!
Deletevariety of entertainment over the overused kabit theme? and please wag makipagcompare sa US dahil di hamak mas malawak ang genre nila at totoong may variety
DeleteAnon 1:32, come on, I'm not saying that their variety is as dynamic as what we have here. My point is, if we will be stuck with just the conventional self-righteous themes, we are limiting our universe. Yes, networks here might overuse the kabit theme, but at one point, something needs to start. And right there is the start of more open and thought-provoking themes of entertainment. Although it's a long way to go because of our culture and sad to say, the hypocrisy of some audiences. - Bruce Gender
Deletedami nyang oras. dami nyang hugot. pero bago sana nag rant, binasa muna yung libro kasi ang original title nya ay "etiquette for mistresses and what wives can learn from them". maganda ang pagkakasulat nya. hindi nya gino glorify ang paging mistress. kinukwento lang nya yung realidad ng pagiging mistress. yun lang. sa totohanan, gusto ko syang panoorin kung paano nila isinalin ito mula sa libro, at kung mabibigyan ba ng hustisya yung libro. hindi ako fan ninuman sa cast nila, at hindi rin ako mistress. kay ateng moralista, siguro basahin mo muna.
ReplyDeleteIf you're a loving wife why in the first place would you want to learn from them? My goodness. You can learn from educated and decent human beings.
DeleteIka nga ni sun tzu, know your enemy. Know their weaknesses and strengths. My goodness, do I have to do the thinking for you 1:33?
DeleteYay, fellow reader of the Art of War! 1:59
DeleteWhy single out ang abs tumingin ka sa kah ang ganun din ang uso. Uso uso din yan. Mawawala din sa tamang panahon. Wag ks manuod kng ayaw mo
ReplyDeleteMovie Lang yah, Kung di mo feel eh di deadmabelles. Ikaw din, nakakastress oreña drilon mag-isip ng Kung and-anu.
ReplyDeleteGood job! It's one affair after another. I don't understand what kind of mentality these Filipinos have. It might be a part of society but glamorizing it sends the wrong message. I was in a party yesterday and this old Filipina was talking about a recent movie and I could not understand her rationale at 70 years old that it was understandable that the wife had an affair as she was feeling neglected and so goes for the husband. There are a lot of neglected wives in this world but not all of them have affairs and there are a lot of husbands that had unfaithful wives but they never had an affair either. The ones that I know either tried to do something better with their lives, had marriage counseling and if they were not able to work things out , opted for divorce and have live better lives. There is no justification for such behaviour. So it's good that somebody stood up for something.
ReplyDeleteI don't think it's glorifying mistresses. Yung mga nabanggit naman nyang movies, may moral lesson naman at hindi naman nagiging masaya ang kabit sa ending. Pero totoo na gasgas na ang storyline, katulad rin ng mga pabebe na romcoms natin, gasgas na rin ang plot.
ReplyDeleteUh pinakita nga sa trailer kung gano kahirap maging mistress eh. Though I agree sa part na puro na lang mistress movies lately
ReplyDeleteMay pinaghuhugutan si Ateng! Lol
ReplyDeleteI agree! totoo naman eh! basahin nyo na lang ang comments dito, jinujustify pa yung point ni ate, legit naman! Convince nyo sarili nyo na "MOVIE" lang ito. Aminin, big influence naman talaga yan sa mga bata at jejes of the philippines. Kaya dumadami kabit eh, akala cool sila.
ReplyDeleteTsk. Kaya nga may ratings ang movies or tv shows. There are age brackets for who can watch which. E kung pinaubaya mo sa TV ang pag-aalaga sa anak mo, more likely than not he or she sees inappropriate content. Tapos ang sisi.sa palabas na movie or series kasi the child began deviating from social norm. E ikaw na magulang, bakit di mo tignan sarili mo, before you point fingers???
DeleteI agree to the letter sender. We need movies which should inspire the younger generation to be better people by empowering themselves and not to be financially dependent on others.
ReplyDeleteI agree to the letter sender. We need movies which should inspire the younger generation to be better people by empowering themselves and not to be financially dependent on others.
ReplyDeleteOkay lang sana ang movie, wag lang sana ipromote at icommercial ng time na nanunuod ang mga bata. Sana lang like pag tanghali or hapon or early at night. Like sa hollywood films may mga ganyan din namang tema pero sa right audience nila pnpromote
ReplyDeleteThe Mistress was a very good movie. Being a mistress wasnt tolerated in the film.
ReplyDeleteQuestion to the person who wrote this.. how many of the mistress movies has she actually watched? Because I've seen all the movies she mentioned and to be honest, none of those made me want to be a mistress after watching it. I have to disagree that the movies glorifies mistresses amd/or the act of cheating.
ReplyDeleteIt's very irresponsible to blame movies on how people become or turn our to be. Shouldnt this be an issue of proper and responsible parenting??
When we see movies about history, say "Schindlers List" or "Joan of Arc" for example... are they glorified or is it just a medium to tell the story of this part of history?
My point is, we are all accountable to the choices we make and need to take responsibility for it. We cant blame movies for how society becomes because it all comes down to personal choice. I dont believe anyone is forced to watch these types of movies, especially now that seeing it is not necessarily cheap. We always have a choice and these choices reflects what we value.
- JH
I hope the poster reads this. Because it seems like she's here defending her rant too. Hahaha.
DeleteI agree with her. Mukhang favorite ng mga writers ng dos ang mga istorya ng mistress/kabit o pinaglalayong magkakapatid. Most of their teleseryes ganyan ang themes. Sa mga nagcocomment na kesyo wag manood si ateng nagpost ng opinion nia, I guess you believe cheating is a normal thing.
ReplyDeletewow halatang fantard ka i single out mo ang dos... kamusta ang dalwang misis real at iba pa nang syete???
DeleteIf you are a wife you should watch this. Yung book kasi ang dami Kong technique ng pagtatago ng mistress na nakuha. Mabuti nang aware ka di ba?
ReplyDeleteMy dear you do not need a book to know. Just watch and observe honey. There is no such malodorous smell that can be hidden and remain undiscovered. There is no such thing as secrets. Even politicians who have the power and
DeleteMoney could not hide it , how much more for an ordinary joe? People talk sweetie. Most women nowadays are empowered.Why would one suffer and take such humiliation. Considering how mistresses nowadays are so shameless , is it still relevant? Her point is that does anybody respect the sanctity of marriage and family nowadays? Is that what a family amounts to these days?
Puro kayo "e di wag kang manood". Kahit sya alam nyang wala namang mangyayari kahit di sya manood. Kaya sya nafu-frustrate. Knows na nya na mas maraming katulad nyong manonood, at ang effect non e yun nga... yung idinakdak nya. May troots naman.. basta bebenta, nekneknyang moral obligation na yan. Susundutin na lang nila ng mga teleserye daw tungkol sa mga anghel-anghel.. aguy.
ReplyDeleteHuh? Sex is almost always glorified in many films, and even in tv series, so what's the fuss with this one about mistresses? How about you look at it this way...how do mistresses behave and what do they have that men see them as necessity? Who knows, the wife might learn something or two. And as for kids nowadays being promiscuous, don't blame the things they see online, in movies, or series. The answer would be the conduct of the members of the family first and foremost, and whether the parents make sure they have time to explain things with the children.
ReplyDelete1.22 typical 'open minded' bs. the glorification of sex everywhere is why there's more rape, sexual abusers and exhibitionist losers with no boundaries, dragging humanity into further depths of depravity. you must be so proud.
DeleteSomeone seriously needs to read the book! Isa siyang malaking shunga, walang asenso ang Pinas sa ganyang thinking at ganun na rin yung mga naki-agree sa opinyon niyang walang basehan!
ReplyDeletewe don't need to read the book to justify that this movie is gasgas and pointless. we don't need to watch a movie to be able to double check our morals.
Deleteexpert kasi ang abscbn sa kabet. lol
ReplyDeleteTeh, hindi panunuod ng movies ang magiging dahilan ng pagiging mistress ng tao...kung solid ang foundation ng values mo as a person, solid yun...that foundation starts within the family...it's not the entertainment industry's obligation to raise your children...you pay to watch these movies, it's not forced down your throats...kung ayaw mo, wag mo...it's a freakin movie...it's art...it shouldn't be limited because you think it's insulting to portray real life..that's what movie ratings are for...movies/shows weren't created to spread good morals...they were created to put writers' ideas into life...ayan, napahaba tuloy comment ko...good day.
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we don't need to watch a movie to learn that being a mistress is not right. movies such as these don't even have to be made in the first place.
DeleteI agree with her post. Mga babae ngayon ke babata pa ang landi landi na (not all) at napaka materialistic pa kahit wala namang kaya sa buhay yung magulang nila kaya ayun payag nalang maging kabit. Very sad.
ReplyDeleteHindi lang naman media ang may kasalanan kung bakit sinasabi mong malandi at materialistic ang mga bata ngayon. Maraming ibang impluwensya, minsan nasa mga nagpapalaki din. O kaya nasa pagkatao ng bata. Kaya hinay lang sa pag tukoy sa relasyon ng media sa kabataan.
DeleteAng mga kabit at asawang nagkakabit ang bagong druglord/gangster/tiwaling politiko o pulis ng mga pelikula o shows. Nakikita sa news ang mga ito, uumayin pa ba sa shows. Ang akin lang, nabasa kaya niya yung libro? Or nagka special screening kaya siya? Madaling sabihin na immoral ang premise pero in a way ito yung shock value na. Alam naman natin lahat ang ending. Matatapos ang affair. Magsisisi ang kabit. Minsan nag ssorry pa dun sa legal na asawa. Ang palaging lesson? Walang masamang sekretong di nabubunyag. The end.
ReplyDeleteWala pa rin kasing divorce sa Pinas kaya madami pang kabit. Oh well, movie lang ito. Pero sa panahon ng social media bilib din ako sa mga nakakapagtago pa ng kabit!
ReplyDeleteI understand your sentiments dear..mukhang malalim talaga ang hugot mo..hehehe...but u know what, simple lang naman ang reason kung bakit paulit ulit ang theme ng pelikula na ginagawa natin eh.... kse po iyong mga ganitong story ang click sa mga manonood. Ito iyong pinipilahan at kumikita... kahit sabihin pa natin na another mistress movie ito at the end of the day pag showing nyan box office pa rin yan! Gustuhin man ng star cinema na gumawa ng mga family oriented na movie or iyong sinasabi mo na about our Philippine history eh kung wala namang manonood d ba?..I'm sure naman kahit ikaw d ka rin naman manonood nun noh..Come on lets not be hypocrites...d naman talaga hit sa mga tao ang sobrang drama na pelikula. .naka ilang try dn naman ang star cinema or other film outlets ng ganyan na waley dn....Anak lang ata iyong nag hit pero the rest d naman kumita..lalo na iyong may theme about history..kung d pa gagawing requirements sa school wala rin namang nanonood nun. So syempre iyong gagawin nla iyong alam nilang click sa audience. It's all about money honey! Gets nyo na po ba?!
ReplyDeleteA lot of people have been this sa comments dito sa FP noon pa, na parang mistress movie na naman?? So im not surprised may nag speak.up nga. May tama naman si ate eh.
ReplyDeleteLumelevelling to sa marimar paulit ulit huh!
Ito kasi ang tutoong UMAYSERYE.
ReplyDeleteKabit, kabit, kabit....mga pinay ang daming kabit.
ReplyDeleteminsan kasi ang mga tao hindi tignan ang lesson sa ending nang pelikula... and kung ayaw nang movie wag manuod isa pa.. hindi allowed mga bata manuod nyan sa sinehan
ReplyDeleteand if kids see posters of this they would ask, what is a mistress mommy? the fact is, we choose to market these topics because yes they earn money (pinoys have come to love infidelity as a subject because we like making money off it, like making movies of the subject, it's hilarious how cheap our country's entertainment industry is) and anyone who says these movies don't have a negative effect is in denial. you would say, kaya nga may movie ratings, may parental guidance, etc, but why can't we just avoid glorifying such issues in the first place? say, nip it in the bud?
Deletebottomline: we don't need to watch a movie to learn that being a mistress is not right.
Gas gas abelgas lahat ng movies nila dina daan nalang sa mga casting.!
ReplyDeleteKelangan ko pa ba manood ng movie para malaman ko na mali ang pagiging kabit? Duh! Title pa lang e. Bakit, may plan ka bang gamitin yang tips in the future? Sana hindi, at sana hindi ka maparanoid kakanood ng gantong klaseng film.
ReplyDeletewish ko lang asawa ni ate matino at walang kabit.. haha
ReplyDeleteEh di wag mong panoorin. May nagtututok ba ng baril sayo para manood? Pag coloring book mo nalang anak mo. Hindi naman mamamatay yan kung hindi makakanood ng TV mas mabuti pa.
ReplyDeleteMga sumasang ayon sa ganitong klaseng palabas eh mga kabit kaya react ng react dito. Tinatamaan at nasasaktan kasi!
ReplyDeleteand CBCP allowed this? Baka bigyan pa ng A or B ratings???? Glamorizing such act.
ReplyDeletebalang araw baka mga may bata na ang sagot pagtinanong ng "ano gusto mo maging paglaki mo?" ay maging magaling na kabit po.
ReplyDeleteWhat the purpose of parental guidance. Ako i treat this movie as an art. Not your typical movie. Gonna watch this.
ReplyDeleteBakit kamo kabit movie na naman?? Ang dami kasing KABIT sa pilipinas.. mayaman, mahirap, gwapo.. may kabit.. kung mahirap at pangit ka, meron ka pa ding kabit, ikaw na!! Ang masaklap pa dyan, yung ibang misis tino tolerate nila ang asawa nilang may kabit.. at ang pinanghahawakan nila ay sila ang LEGAL WIFE...
ReplyDeleteI understand her sentiments, and also those who opposed.
ReplyDelete1. MTRCB has guidelines, regardless if bata ka or nasa wastong pag iisip kung alam mong Hindi angkop sa kulturang kinagisnan mo i guess you're not supposed to watch it or try to be entertained.
2. We value our family. It hurts us whenever we have friends or someone na kilala natin or very close to our hearts na nasa situation na may "mistress" na character na involved. We are actually praying for them na malampasan situation na yun, what more if it's happening to us.
3. Majority of our country's population are Catholics or Christians who doesn't allow any of their members to be a mistress, regardless if you're a good mistress na biktima lang ng love or a mistress who lacks of everything; attention, affection, love, support, communication etc. and trying to get it from a family man who can give all of it plus the financial support.
4. No such means of entertainment should portray immorality in a sense that you're giving people tips on how to compose oneself once andun ka na sa situation na yun: pwedeng lumakas loob ni mistress or pwedeng panghinaan ng loob si misis. kahit at the end of the movie or such story that it shows mistress never wins, it portrays naman a competition between the legal and mistress which hindi dapat nangyayari. there should be no competition. period!
5. kahit sinong tao na nasa wastong edad, pwedeng mangamba para sa kabataan. and share his or her sentiments in a sense na pwedeng nyang example sarili niyang buhay or generalize. I am sure, ayaw lang niyang malagay sa situation na she needs to deal with a mistress. It can be a nightmare to any legal wife who from the start, nangarap lang ng isang masayang pamilya.
Madami pa actually, pero antok na ko. Haha! We may all have our own bad habits (gossiping, bashing, etc.) but let us avoid as much as possible na mag commit ng ka imoralan. I am not a mistress nor a wife yet, i dont have experience sa ganyang situation pa. Nakaka lungkot lang na ang judgement ng iba tao is someone should experience it first before kang mag opposed sa pinapakitang ka imoralan ng mga pelikula at palabas sa tv. but viewers lang naman tayo, all we got is to share our piece and thats it. then exchange smart thought with each other.
btw, aldub fan ako haha!
i came from a broken family and i agree with her statement. hindi dahil bias ako at manhid para sa ibang tao but..MORALITY. asan ang moralidad at aral sa ganittong klase ng mga pelikula. i have a heavy heart reading all the comments of the people who instead of agreeing with the above statement e nagba-bash pa. srsly people, be open minded but font forget your morals. panay kayong "open minded" that u forgot that we were all taught morals bata pa lang.
ReplyDeleteyou know why people keep on throwing back 90's? kasi nagagawang maging masaya ng tao noon ng may moralidad. ngayon if you have morals you are bashed, kasi "open minded" is the new term for immoral.
these kind of movies shouldnt be supported. wala namang babaeng pinangarap na maging kabit so what's the point of this trash?
take note: people watch movies pag naandoon ang idol nila.
take note: masama ang pangangalunya kahit ano pang dahilan, hindi naitatama ng isa pang mali ang nauna ng pagkakamali.
take note: hindi totoong matalino na ang mga viewers, kasi if we are then this kind of tash wont be shown over and over AGAIN.
*nothing against the actors and actresses, just the theme itself*
Diba itong movie na ito is leksyon sa mga babaeng gustong magpakabit at kung ano ang buhay nila kapag pinili nilang maging kabit? Hindi sa kabit mapupunta ang lalake... asawa ang panalo dito...so bakit glorification ng mga kabit ang tingin nyo? Hina nyong umintindi.. Wag nyo panoorin kung ayaw nyo
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