I know Andi isnt exactly the perfect mother -- she parties and drinks a lot. However, I can see that she has raised her daughter well. Despite everything, she still makes sure that gets to bond with her daughter and have a close relationship with her. But the sad thing is, Ellie might chose her mother as an example how to live as a teenager. Wish Andi could just teach her a better way. Just an opinion as an avid reader of FP and as I can see through her IG, not that fan tho.. Just a curious one hahaha
And they still teach gender-specific roles at school! 'Mother cleans the house, Father goes to work' Kaya karamihan ng lalaki lumalaking tamad pagdating sa housechores eh.
ok so pag ang lalaki nanapak ng girl, pwede ba sabihin ko na that's fone because we are in the era of non gender classifying age. pantay pantay dapat, tanggalin na rin ang female car sa mrt - straoght guy
K. But listening to others' best practices to improve how you do yours won't do harm as well. Might as well, re-assess mo ano mga pagkakamali ng mom sa pagpalaki sa'yo para di mo maulit kay Ellie. Don't be self-centric and stubborn, learn from others as well. It takes a village to raise a child, just in case you remember that from child psychology.
I agree. Some people tend to resort back to "to each his own" if they no longer have anything sensible to say. Kung ganyan lagi mindset ng tao, aba huwag ka ng mag-aral kung ayaw mong turuan at layasan mo lahat ng kapamilya kung ayaw mong makinig. Tumira ka sa kasuluk-sulukang kweba mag-isa kung ayaw mong makiisa bilang miyembro pamilya o kumindad. Ka-highblood ang indifference at selfishness.
True ka jan 12:23, i know a lot of moms who had let their boys play with dolls, take note not just any dolls, the likes of bratz & barbies! Most of them turning out to be the nicest guys around, and they're cute too! LOL LOL i know, coz i'm "friends" with a lot of 'em! Haha kidding! <3
Try harder 12:24 girl. I follow Andi in Instagram and she and the Belle are always together, they go on out of town vacation and chill out together, hands on siyang mommy And the grandma will only be with Ellie if Andi got work. Ok? Lol get a life please
We happened to be in a beach resort in Batangas when they did a shoot for Dyesebel there last year. In fairness, kasama ni Andi yung Daughter nya sa location.. Matching pa sila ng outfits.
Totoo. Kasi yan ang mag cause ng confusion pag dimo nalinaw kng ano talaga ang para sa ano. But always keep open communication para kng maramdaman ng bata na iba talaga gusto niya, edi ma suportahan mo at di siya mahirapan
Alam na ng bata kung ano sya bata pa lang, at kahit sabihan mo pa sya hindi na magbabago yun. Sya na yun. Hindi pwede ipilit na baguhin ang isang bagay na hindi na mababago. Ang anak dapat tinatanggap, hindi nagagawa sa sabihan lang para mabago. Dahil kung ang anak mo ay sinabihan mo na mali yun, its like letting him/her know na hindi mo sya tanggap. At hindi mo sya kaya mahalin bilang sya.
Haha. When we were kids, my kuya will play with my kitchen toys and dolls at ako naman will play with his toy cars but we are straight. Kahit iexpose mo pa sa pang-lalakeng mga gamit ang bata hanggang sa paglaki nya, kung bakla sya lalabas at lalabas yun. Same with girls.
Well tama naman siya dun it's her child at walang paki ang iba pano niya palalakihin Ito...but it's just a book sana hindi na niya ginawang bug deal na she's a staunch supporter of SIN!
I understand the need for acceptance--of every human being.
What I don't understand is this agenda to destroy and eliminate gender roles.
Why does there seem to be so much push to destroy the truth about genders? Sure, we can accept that there may be people who may be transgendered; but to completely make a lie of the female and male genders is totally what is unacceptable for me.
When we are born, we are assigned genders based on our biological make-up, which includes, but not limited to, our genitalia, as there is also DNA. If a child feels they are born into the "wrong sex" and the parents want to accept that as the truth, then fine. But to lie to a little child that there are no genders is absolutely wrong and just adds to the confusion of a small child learning the ways of the world. This is how ignorance starts.
As a matter of principle, as adult human beings, we need to know the facts of life so that we can teach and guide our young to move forward and become stronger to accept what the world and the worldly ways of the world brings as we live life.
If you teach a child not to recognize the truth on genders, the child will not fully, intelligently, understand and accept the truth of why and how the world works. Why? Because teaching them "no genders," or to eliminate the scientific truth about genders, will make them have an aversion to the truth that other genders exist--that, that IS human nature.
So please naman, turuan natin ang mga bata ng katotohanan para matuto silang tumanggap at magmahal sa kapwa nila kahit pa ano ang kanilang pagkakaiba sa isa't-isa, maging sa kasarian man o sa estado ng buhay. Huwag tayong makisakay lang sa kung anong bago o sa tingin natin at uso.
Agree 1.56. Dapat turuan ang mga bata how to respect and accept others. Di yung ipopromote ang lgbt pero balewalin ang babae at lalaki. Aba hindi tama yon.
I think the point is to get rid of gender stereotypes, not the knowledge of gender roles (as predetermined by DNA, as you mentioned, like giving birth). She's trying to let her child choose what she wants in terms of interests, and not be limited by what society has assigned to girls/women (like choosing dolls over robots, etc.).
on the other hand, it's about inclusion, not destruction. hindi ngiging tomboy ang batang babae sa paglalaro lang. mag-seminar po kayo sa gender sensivity para maintindihan nyo.
11.09, ang sinasabi mong inclusion eh acceptance rin yan. Kung magabayan ang bata para matuto rumespeto sa kapwa at i-accept ang diversity sa paligid niya, di na kailangan ng gender sensitivity seminar. Dahil yang mga seminar na yan ang tinuturo walang babae, walang lalake, na puro agender dapat. Yun yung sinasabi ni 1.56, wag magsinungaling na may babae at lalake. Right 1.56?
Korek 1:56 am! Yung gender stereotypes laganap yan dahil yan ang old thinking but kung ituturo ang tama at mabuting asal sa bata, they will grow up learning to accept diversity and to respect yung mga ibat ibang tao. Basta empower the children by teaching truth and learn to accept and respect differences.
Ako man di ko gets yung pagsulong sa LGBT pero lambasting male n female existence. Parang dapat sila lang ang tanggapin pero di nila tanggap ang mga straight.
12:57, kaya nga sabi ko inclusion, di ba? dahil sa ngayon yong lgbt ang excluded, given na ang babae at lalaki. at kaya ko sinabing hindi destruction dahil lgbt is not out to exclude "straight" people dahil yan ang majority. sana gets mo na.
wait, sino ba may sabi na walang lalaki at babae? o baka assumption mo lang yan?
It looks cool when a girl plays with toys for boys but when a boy plays with toys for girls, he is humiliated. It looks cool when girls wear polos and sneakers but not when boys wear skirts or hello kitty shirts. Madali sabihin kasi babae ang anak nya.
Real talk. Male and female are not built the same. Fact. Equal rights does not necesarily mean that essential and natural differences are eliminated. Tingnan natin kung pagsuotin niya ng swimming tunks lang ang anak niya.
Lol may mama let me wore boy's clothes when I was so young. At hindi pa no'n gano'n ka aware ang mga tao sa LGBT+. She never got angry or anything. I think, it's a just a phase na pinagdadaan ng tao. Kasi pag laki ng bata, mare-realize niya rin ang tama. Ang dapat lang gawin ay sana magabayan ng maayos ng magulang para hindi maligaw ng landas. :))
May point naman....si Yaya :) Magaling mag alaga si Yaya.Sa bata dapat talaga pinapaliwanag ng tama,then pag adult na saka sumuporta si Andy kung ano choice ng anak nya gender.Pero pag bata pa paliwanag ang diff ng male and female.Pero toys lang naman yan eh,go ahead! wlang gender issue dyan.
Smart? Wala sa pananalita yan, nasa lifestyle, nasa diwa ng actions. Eh panay party at lalaki ang inaatupag niya, pa-kontrobersyal sa paternity ng anak niya. Hindi smart porket nag-iingles. Napaka immature niya, not smart at all.
Honey, lifestyle defines the person. Their lifestyle shows everyone their "style of living", their values, their decisions, things they say, what they eat, the company they keep. Good or bad, your lifestyle defines you.
I love what Andi said. Dapat talaga itigil na yang stereotype na yan. I think tayo din yung may mali eh. Sa pagiging judgmental and bully natin. Like for example pag nakakita tayo ng boy na naglalaro ng dolls sasabihin natin "ay bakla yan". Tapos pag nakakita tayo ng girl na naglalaro ng robot and boys kalaro sasabihin natin "ay tibo yan". Siguro hindi lahat tayo ganito mag-isip pero karamihan sa mga Pilipino ganito ang klase ng pagiisip
Kapag may anak ka ng boy, pagsuotin mo rin ng tutu kapag gusto niya. Or hayaan mong maglaro ng barbie. Lol Paano kung curiousity lang pala yan, pero dahil sa tinolerate mo magenjoy magusot ng heels, bra etc. not necessarily bading pero cross dresser. Good luck sa reaction ng peers. You don't live in a bubble.
As if naman na hands on ka no! - Bruce Gender
ReplyDeleteAs if din kasama ka nila sa bahay
DeleteMay point ka!! But then why the need to explain girl? To each its own..
ReplyDeleteTO EACH HIS OWN
DeleteHis* not its.
Deleteto reach out din to her followers. siguro naman may purpose ang pagpost ni andie at di lang puro rant at okray
DeleteKasi nga may nagdidisagree sa way nya of raising ellie. Wag kang ano ganyan din naman tayo kungmagpost ng status sa fb.
DeleteI know Andi isnt exactly the perfect mother -- she parties and drinks a lot. However, I can see that she has raised her daughter well. Despite everything, she still makes sure that gets to bond with her daughter and have a close relationship with her. But the sad thing is, Ellie might chose her mother as an example how to live as a teenager. Wish Andi could just teach her a better way. Just an opinion as an avid reader of FP and as I can see through her IG, not that fan tho.. Just a curious one hahaha
ReplyDeleteWay to go, Andi! I've always found classifying toys, clothes, colors, and other stuff into "boys" and "girls" terribly backward.
ReplyDeleteAnd they still teach gender-specific roles at school! 'Mother cleans the house, Father goes to work' Kaya karamihan ng lalaki lumalaking tamad pagdating sa housechores eh.
Deleteok so pag ang lalaki nanapak ng girl, pwede ba sabihin ko na that's fone because we are in the era of non gender classifying age. pantay pantay dapat, tanggalin na rin ang female car sa mrt - straoght guy
DeleteK. But listening to others' best practices to improve how you do yours won't do harm as well. Might as well, re-assess mo ano mga pagkakamali ng mom sa pagpalaki sa'yo para di mo maulit kay Ellie. Don't be self-centric and stubborn, learn from others as well. It takes a village to raise a child, just in case you remember that from child psychology.
ReplyDeleteTruee
DeleteI agree. Some people tend to resort back to "to each his own" if they no longer have anything sensible to say. Kung ganyan lagi mindset ng tao, aba huwag ka ng mag-aral kung ayaw mong turuan at layasan mo lahat ng kapamilya kung ayaw mong makinig. Tumira ka sa kasuluk-sulukang kweba mag-isa kung ayaw mong makiisa bilang miyembro pamilya o kumindad. Ka-highblood ang indifference at selfishness.
DeleteGood job, Andi! Gender stereotypes suck! Children should be able to play whatever toy they want. If a little boy wants to play with dolls, let him.
ReplyDeleteagree
DeleteTrue ka jan 12:23, i know a lot of moms who had let their boys play with dolls, take note not just any dolls, the likes of bratz & barbies! Most of them turning out to be the nicest guys around, and they're cute too! LOL LOL i know, coz i'm "friends" with a lot of 'em! Haha kidding! <3
DeleteMy time pala siyang alagaan anak niya? I mean party girl siya plus may work. Andi! Yaya or Mommy lagay mo hwag "I" .
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Try harder 12:24 girl. I follow Andi in Instagram and she and the Belle are always together, they go on out of town vacation and chill out together, hands on siyang mommy
DeleteAnd the grandma will only be with Ellie if Andi got work. Ok? Lol get a life please
We happened to be in a beach resort in Batangas when they did a shoot for Dyesebel there last year. In fairness, kasama ni Andi yung Daughter nya sa location.. Matching pa sila ng outfits.
DeleteSo okay lang kahit tibo... Magandang bata pa naman
ReplyDeleteDo you have a problem with lgbt? Tibo na agad? Hindi ba pwede gusto lang maglaro ng marvel dahil uso ang mga superhero movies ngayon?
DeleteMas better na mag party nlng itong si andi at si yaya nlng muna magbantay sa kid...
ReplyDeleteDamn if you, damn if you dont. Kapag tama, mali pa din. Kapag mali, lalong pinagdidiinan. Mind your own business nga.
DeleteWeh. Sa totoo naman na dapat sabihan ang bata sa umpisa pa lang.
ReplyDeleteWalang alam mangmang ka!
DeleteTotoo. Kasi yan ang mag cause ng confusion pag dimo nalinaw kng ano talaga ang para sa ano. But always keep open communication para kng maramdaman ng bata na iba talaga gusto niya, edi ma suportahan mo at di siya mahirapan
DeleteAlam na ng bata kung ano sya bata pa lang, at kahit sabihan mo pa sya hindi na magbabago yun. Sya na yun. Hindi pwede ipilit na baguhin ang isang bagay na hindi na mababago. Ang anak dapat tinatanggap, hindi nagagawa sa sabihan lang para mabago. Dahil kung ang anak mo ay sinabihan mo na mali yun, its like letting him/her know na hindi mo sya tanggap. At hindi mo sya kaya mahalin bilang sya.
DeleteHaha. When we were kids, my kuya will play with my kitchen toys and dolls at ako naman will play with his toy cars but we are straight. Kahit iexpose mo pa sa pang-lalakeng mga gamit ang bata hanggang sa paglaki nya, kung bakla sya lalabas at lalabas yun. Same with girls.
Deletehahah! mga ignorantes!
DeleteFinally! Sana lahat ng ina ganyan ang mindset. Go Andi!
ReplyDeleteWell tama naman siya dun it's her child at walang paki ang iba pano niya palalakihin Ito...but it's just a book sana hindi na niya ginawang bug deal na she's a staunch supporter of SIN!
ReplyDeletehere we go.bible quote pa dear.
Deleteriding-on the bandwagon, aren't we, andi??? #sawsawpamore
ReplyDeleteiDiM mo nalang sana yan sa yaya mo.
ReplyDeleteakala ko si ms jaclyn ang nag-aalaga ke ellie
ReplyDeletekaplastikan dahil lng may nangyari kaya ganyan ka ngaun..as f namn totoo..weeeh
ReplyDeleteFirst time that I agreed with Andi. Ako naman let my little boy play lutu-lutuan. Wag lang baril-barilan.
ReplyDeleteI understand the need for acceptance--of every human being.
ReplyDeleteWhat I don't understand is this agenda to destroy and eliminate gender roles.
Why does there seem to be so much push to destroy the truth about genders? Sure, we can accept that there may be people who may be transgendered; but to completely make a lie of the female and male genders is totally what is unacceptable for me.
When we are born, we are assigned genders based on our biological make-up, which includes, but not limited to, our genitalia, as there is also DNA. If a child feels they are born into the "wrong sex" and the parents want to accept that as the truth, then fine. But to lie to a little child that there are no genders is absolutely wrong and just adds to the confusion of a small child learning the ways of the world. This is how ignorance starts.
As a matter of principle, as adult human beings, we need to know the facts of life so that we can teach and guide our young to move forward and become stronger to accept what the world and the worldly ways of the world brings as we live life.
If you teach a child not to recognize the truth on genders, the child will not fully, intelligently, understand and accept the truth of why and how the world works. Why? Because teaching them "no genders," or to eliminate the scientific truth about genders, will make them have an aversion to the truth that other genders exist--that, that IS human nature.
So please naman, turuan natin ang mga bata ng katotohanan para matuto silang tumanggap at magmahal sa kapwa nila kahit pa ano ang kanilang pagkakaiba sa isa't-isa, maging sa kasarian man o sa estado ng buhay. Huwag tayong makisakay lang sa kung anong bago o sa tingin natin at uso.
Hay salamat may ganitong comment.
DeleteSlow clap at standing ovation for 1:56!!!! brava!!!
DeleteI agree with you.
DeleteFinally, an intelligent comment. Walang halong religious chuchu at very sincere na sentiment. I'm w/ you sister!
DeleteEh di wow.
DeleteAgree 1.56. Dapat turuan ang mga bata how to respect and accept others. Di yung ipopromote ang lgbt pero balewalin ang babae at lalaki. Aba hindi tama yon.
DeleteI think the point is to get rid of gender stereotypes, not the knowledge of gender roles (as predetermined by DNA, as you mentioned, like giving birth). She's trying to let her child choose what she wants in terms of interests, and not be limited by what society has assigned to girls/women (like choosing dolls over robots, etc.).
DeleteTama
Deletebravo!!!
Deleteon the other hand, it's about inclusion, not destruction. hindi ngiging tomboy ang batang babae sa paglalaro lang. mag-seminar po kayo sa gender sensivity para maintindihan nyo.
DeleteTama. Sana andi would read this and stop experimenting with her child.
DeleteWell said. On another note I would think humanity will eventually face extinction if we were all gender-ambiguous
Delete11.09, ang sinasabi mong inclusion eh acceptance rin yan. Kung magabayan ang bata para matuto rumespeto sa kapwa at i-accept ang diversity sa paligid niya, di na kailangan ng gender sensitivity seminar. Dahil yang mga seminar na yan ang tinuturo walang babae, walang lalake, na puro agender dapat. Yun yung sinasabi ni 1.56, wag magsinungaling na may babae at lalake. Right 1.56?
DeleteIkaw na 1:56 #SayoNaAngKorona LOL LOL pero true ka jan winner na winner ang comment mo! Love et <3
DeleteKorek 1:56 am! Yung gender stereotypes laganap yan dahil yan ang old thinking but kung ituturo ang tama at mabuting asal sa bata, they will grow up learning to accept diversity and to respect yung mga ibat ibang tao. Basta empower the children by teaching truth and learn to accept and respect differences.
DeleteAko man di ko gets yung pagsulong sa LGBT pero lambasting male n female existence. Parang dapat sila lang ang tanggapin pero di nila tanggap ang mga straight.
DeleteBaka naman what andi is saying is that the daughter knows she's a girl but she can play boys toys and dress up like boys. Nothing wrong with that.
Delete12:57, kaya nga sabi ko inclusion, di ba? dahil sa ngayon yong lgbt ang excluded, given na ang babae at lalaki. at kaya ko sinabing hindi destruction dahil lgbt is not out to exclude "straight" people dahil yan ang majority. sana gets mo na.
Deletewait, sino ba may sabi na walang lalaki at babae? o baka assumption mo lang yan?
Tama talaga ang comment na eto
DeleteAng dami mong hanash ngayon sa Social Media.
ReplyDeleteWala na kasing interesado sa drama mo sa buhay.
Galit Bati lang naman ang alam nyo ni Jake .
Haist! nakaka pagod ka na teh,
kaya di kumita ang movie mo!
kaw naman kuda ka lang din sa post ni andi. kung wala siyang post eh di wala kang buhay!
DeleteParang Angelina Jolie Lang and peg lol
ReplyDeleteE di huwag mo ng turuan ang anak mo
ReplyDeleteAndi is a great mom.
ReplyDeleteyaya has a better idea no need to explain.
ReplyDeletethumbs up ako sa news na to, uma-angelina jolie si andeng. push mo yan at mamahalin ka na ng lgbt community.
ReplyDeleteIt looks cool when a girl plays with toys for boys but when a boy plays with toys for girls, he is humiliated. It looks cool when girls wear polos and sneakers but not when boys wear skirts or hello kitty shirts. Madali sabihin kasi babae ang anak nya.
ReplyDeleteReal talk. Male and female are not built the same. Fact. Equal rights does not necesarily mean that essential and natural differences are eliminated. Tingnan natin kung pagsuotin niya ng swimming tunks lang ang anak niya.
DeleteLol may mama let me wore boy's clothes when I was so young. At hindi pa no'n gano'n ka aware ang mga tao sa LGBT+. She never got angry or anything. I think, it's a just a phase na pinagdadaan ng tao. Kasi pag laki ng bata, mare-realize niya rin ang tama. Ang dapat lang gawin ay sana magabayan ng maayos ng magulang para hindi maligaw ng landas. :))
ReplyDeletesana may magregalo sa bata ng robot, action figures at car toys. i don't think her mom will mind.
ReplyDeletePati brief at trunks.tignan natin kung maimplement nya yun prinsipyo nya.
DeleteMay point naman....si Yaya :) Magaling mag alaga si Yaya.Sa bata dapat talaga pinapaliwanag ng tama,then pag adult na saka sumuporta si Andy kung ano choice ng anak nya gender.Pero pag bata pa paliwanag ang diff ng male and female.Pero toys lang naman yan eh,go ahead! wlang gender issue dyan.
ReplyDeleteI'm under the impression that Andi's pretty smart and speaks well. Hindi jeje
ReplyDeleteSmart? Wala sa pananalita yan, nasa lifestyle, nasa diwa ng actions. Eh panay party at lalaki ang inaatupag niya, pa-kontrobersyal sa paternity ng anak niya. Hindi smart porket nag-iingles. Napaka immature niya, not smart at all.
Deleteher lifestyle doesn't define who she is as a person. pwede ba 2:08 wag kang masyadong mag-malinis.
DeleteHoney, lifestyle defines the person. Their lifestyle shows everyone their "style of living", their values, their decisions, things they say, what they eat, the company they keep. Good or bad, your lifestyle defines you.
DeleteGood for you, Andi.
ReplyDeleteI love what Andi said. Dapat talaga itigil na yang stereotype na yan. I think tayo din yung may mali eh. Sa pagiging judgmental and bully natin. Like for example pag nakakita tayo ng boy na naglalaro ng dolls sasabihin natin "ay bakla yan". Tapos pag nakakita tayo ng girl na naglalaro ng robot and boys kalaro sasabihin natin "ay tibo yan". Siguro hindi lahat tayo ganito mag-isip pero karamihan sa mga Pilipino ganito ang klase ng pagiisip
ReplyDeleteApprove!
ReplyDeleteKapag may anak ka ng boy, pagsuotin mo rin ng tutu kapag gusto niya. Or hayaan mong maglaro ng barbie. Lol Paano kung curiousity lang pala yan, pero dahil sa tinolerate mo magenjoy magusot ng heels, bra etc. not necessarily bading pero cross dresser. Good luck sa reaction ng peers. You don't live in a bubble.
ReplyDeleteOh good. Madaling ng bigyan ng regalo. Sa mga friends niya pwede maggift ng firetruck, swimming trunks, sando etc.
ReplyDeleteito pa isang shunga. ano gagawin ni ellie sa swimming trunks, ilalagay niya sa ulo niya?
DeleteI red that men who played with dolls when they were boys grew up to be a good father.
ReplyDeleteKami din, we do not stereotype. We let our son play with cooking toys and pink toys. We also let him play dolls. But his not bading naman ngayon.
Experts says din naman kasi na kids do not have stereotype. And the only way they can understand is if they experience it.
Just my two cents.....peace!
daming child psychologists!
ReplyDeletePuro chismis kasi ang alam mo kata wala ka macontribute sa palitan dito. LOL
Deletedami nyo mga kuda.
ReplyDeletelet people live, kung saan sila masaya. curious ang bata bakit mo ipagdadamot ang knowledge at experience.