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Friday, July 11, 2014

Dale Azcueta's Alleged Messages to Boyfriend Before Commiting Suicide












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109 comments:

  1. Ohh. I thought Love can kill?

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    1. ito yung digital marketing manager ng isang telecoms company na nagpakamatay sa isang five-star hotel.

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    2. makapag - nagpamatay ka talaga teh.. iba ang nagpakamatay sa namatay due to stress.

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    3. nagpakamatay sya talaga tumalon sa hotel

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  3. I think legit suicide naman to. His social media posts are his suicide notes.

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    1. sayang naman. dahil lang ata sa stress sa work eh tinapos niya ang buhay niya.

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    2. stressful talaga yun work nya. RIP boss :(

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  4. June 24 pa yung ibang messages so mahirap sabihin if his suicide ay hindi dahil sa love problem.

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  5. Non sense d na sana nila inilalabas pa d nman mkkatulong sa kahit sino skanila

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  6. I feel bad for Dale and his family. He was feeling so alone. I kinda feel like if your loved one would text stressful messages, sana andun sya kasama palagi. he displayed depression, there were rumors that it was a love issue why Dale took his own life. The messages, I dunno why it was published was probably in defense of the BF.

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  7. "Love can kill" i think nililihis lang ni J* yung totoong issue sakanila. Hmmmmm..

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    1. You are very much correct! I know the wholr story from a verry reliable source.

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  8. Is it just me or the convo looks bitin?

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    1. Parts could've been deleted. Screenshot were taken from boyfie's phone BTW.

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    2. Bitin and edited to cover up something!

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  9. "Love kills" pa rin. KULANG yan. Why not show text messages exchanged on the WEEK of the suicide. Most probably a WEEK EARLIER yan mga messages na yan, eh. Kaya abot pa ng Saturday. Dale died July 4th, Friday.

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  10. Who does that? Committing suicide due to WORK STRESS?

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    1. People with depression. That's who.

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    2. Some cases in other countries, may mga ganyan..

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  11. I just find it weird that when i google news regarding dale's death, links sho an error message or that article has been removed. Im wondering. Just puzzling considering that links are from legit news sites

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  12. So sad. MInsan hindi mo rin masabi kung ano ba talaga ang nakakapagpasaya at nagbibigay will power sa isang tao para magpatuloy ng buhay.

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  13. dapat ipakita ang message between jun 30 to july 4. probably may nangyaring matindi kaya nagawa ni Dale yon.

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  14. Working in a TELCO is so stressful pala. Tipid sa employees and then mahal ang charges sa cellphone usages.

    RIP.

    Naku baka may sumunod pa na telco employees.

    - Alvinmiguel

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  15. Bakit di consistent yung time tags? Diba, dapat may date pag medyo malayo na, tapos day of the week lang pag recent. Ano yun, nag screencap siya nung week din na yon? Fishy-fishy lang.

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    1. Onga. Ibig sbhn before friday nag screen cap na siya kaya sat lang nakalagay nung sat a week before? Diba? RIP Dale

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  16. I wonder if that 'Saturday' is the same Saturday when that unfortunate event happened

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  17. He is evidenty depressed, but no one was able to recognize it. Mahirap naman talaga. I knew him from highschool. Cousin din ng friend ko. All around nice guy. Such a waste.

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  18. Jowa ni Jake Galvez of Beckynights

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  19. Tingin ko may foul play. One, he had all the good reasons to want to live such as: his promotion which he was so excited about; he had a good relationship with his partner and they loved each other. Two, there was no suicide note. For somebody who is intelligent, very organized, reliable, patient and rational he would not opt to just leave this world without leaving a note of goodbye and explaining why he had to do what he did. Tingin nyo ba out of the blue maisip nya tumalon na lang ng ganun-ganun? If he had planned this before then there should be a suicide note. kawawa naman sya. sino man ang gumawa ito sa kanya makarma din sya balang araw.

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    1. Ang taong kulang sa tulog at di na kumakain eh iba tumatakbo na sa utak. I don't think plinano nya to. Nag snap sya kaya nya nagawa yun. Basta may nangyari at napuno na sya..

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    2. Eh anong tawag dun sa IG at Twitter posts niya? Hindi ba yun suicide/goodbye note?

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    3. I agree with 9:11pm. Iba na yung dating ng last tweets nya talagang nagbabadya na balak na nya mag s :( RIP Dale

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    4. ewan ko syo... hahaha

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    5. teh anon 7:51 may signs and symptoms po ang mga taong suicidal. Basa ka po psyche books wag puro haka haka.

      Anon 9:11 it could be na may ibang taong nakakaalam ng password niya sa IG or FB or twitter and can posts those things. Think out of the box wag tumingin sa kung ano lang ang nakikita ng mata mo.

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    6. I think may letter siya for Jake. Jake posted sa IG and Tumblr:

      "I was able to finally get your final message last night, and yes I forgive you.. We all make mistakes... It must have been a really really tough ride for you, and it breaks breaks breaks my heart thinking about the stress and pain you were feeling... But, I will fight for you 'til the end of my life and I know you know that..."

      Fight for you? Interesting...

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    7. Because Jake is cheating on him! #FACT

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  20. bakit in-offline ang mga news links? spot and newsbytes in particular? andon kaya ang mga detalye?

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    1. Kinda suspicious ano? News blackout kaya ito dahil nega news sa former workplace nya?

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    2. oo nga. Walang news links

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  21. wawa naman sana di sya ng give up agad

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  22. Aside from complaining of being stressed from work wala namang ibang indication na suicidal siya in fact he was looking forward sa promotion niya..

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  23. Why so guilty and defensive? Someone in sorrow wouldn't go this far to protect himself. Where were you when dale was alone?

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  24. panu sya namatay? nasa news ba ito?

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  25. sino nga kaya 'to? di ko sya mahanap sa google.

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  26. nahanap ko na... mali lang pala pag type ko. kawawa naman

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  27. akala ko ba under investigation yung mga messages sabi ni DIVINE LEE? bakit ito naka public viewing.

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  28. we are not even sure if this is real.. baka photoshop lang

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  29. He can resign naman pero ang strong nung words nya na love can kill pointing his partner.

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  30. the only thing is yung LOVE CAN KILL na message. kawawa naman yung BF na naiwan, aside form an emotional turmoil beacuse of losing someone you love eh he has to deal pa with allegations that he cheated .haist , grabe minsan di mo rin talaga ma distinguish ang mga suicidal na tao

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    1. you can love a person a thing even a work. :(

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  31. malaki factor din stress sa work dito. marami ka nga role, bilib sayo company pero pinapagod ka naman ng husto e wala rin, nasan ang work life balance. the man needed a break; given na may personal issues pa siguro sya na contribute sa suicide nya. sa case na ito company G e need ireview well being ng mga top employees. sayang siya!

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  32. looking at the date in the sms, the messages seem to have happened a week before he passed away so a lot can happen in a week. akala ko love can kill sa IG yung last message nya

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  33. Got curious, I peeked on his ig.. He has so many friends, some big wigs pa in the industry. He goes and travel, has a ten year relationship. If you only based it from there youd say na he is living the life!! Its just so sad na despite all of it, he is lonely. I dont even have half of what he got, and I get lonely too (all of us do) but never have i thought of saying goodbye like that.. Hayyyy sayang

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  34. This is a 3rd party issue that Jake Galvez doesn'r even know about.
    -Anoymous

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    1. You're right. Ang daming naghahaka-haka dito samantalang eto na yung sagot sa mga tanong nyo.

      Whoever posted this.. You know something. At first i was blaming jake also kasi nga #lovecankill pero from what i heard at medyo reliable ang source.. Something happened nga. Kawawa si jake sa totoo lang.

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  35. Baka d lang love sa lovelife baka love sa work. Eh overstress na eh. Pro d makaresign kc mahal na nya work nya.

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  36. Pwede naman siya magresign ah. He obviously loves the company since ayaw niya iwan inspite of his so-called-stress. Pero ang sabi niya ay "love kills"...hindi naman 'work kills" or "passion kills".

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    1. He loves his work too much to a point that the stress is killing him thats why maybe he used "love kills"...

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    2. It would be too straight-forward and it might make some issues with the company kung sinabi nya na "work kills" and knowing that he's a well respected personality in social media, pwedeng magbacklash yun hindi lang sa kanya pati sa friends and family nya.

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  37. Ang totoong tanong, kung "Love kills" at okay kuno sila ni boyfie, may iba kayang "love"?

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    1. feeling ko din kasi if the last test which is saturday is dated july 5 which is the date of his death. bakit d nya sinabing nsa hotel sofitel sya. he said natulog sya sa bahay ng isang tao ( naka hide ung name). baka may ibang lover sya.

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  38. Please enlighten me.. What is the point of releasing this conversation? Di ko magets ang reason? Gusto lang ba nilang ishare for no reason? Or gusto nilang ipakita na di nag-away yung 2 kaya walang love angle ang nangyari? Or sinisisi ba nila ang work ni dale sa nangyari? Hindi ko maintindihan.. Nangyari na ang nangyari.. Kung may exact reason kung bakit ginawa nya yun, yun na lang ang sabihin sana.. Pero kung pati sila confused, sana wala ng ganito kasi wala na din yung tao para sabihin kung ano ang talagang dahilan.. I dont agree with what dale did to himself but that is his choice.. And we need to leave it like that..

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    1. Ang assessment ko dto nilabas to para ipakita na d nag awaya nag mag jowa kasi nga speculation jowa dhilan y sya nagsuicide dhim sabi nya love kills. Isa p reason pra iblame ang company sa stress na bnigy sknya at sbhin un dhilan kya sya nagokmaty.

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    2. I think nilabas to para ilihis ung real reason why commit suicide.

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  39. down ang ibang news article links tungkol sa kanya..hmm

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  40. This just says it all. It WAS the work stress that got to him. I don't know why certain people from G are trying to cover it up as something else. Feeling guilty siguro and trying to protect their personal/ professional image. Well what's done is done. They are not directly to blame for the act of suicide but they also have no right to censor people/ information -- media is free for all to consume. And the truth will always, always come out anyway. Where there's smoke, there's fire, diba. It was good of Jake to release this as proof that they didn't fight and that Dale was really giving up because of work stress.

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    1. Come on, he was tired but I think Dale knows better than to take his life because of work. Where was this Jake when Dale was alone???

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    2. He said LOVE CAN KILL. He didn't say WORK CAN KILL. I hate G btw.

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    3. Yes he's stressed but he loves his work and its obvious sa effort na binibigay niya. He's passionate about his career, friends of him can attest to that. I dont buy it for a minute na stress from work caused him to end it. Probably a factor? But something deeper than that definitely.

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  41. Stressful work in G (have friends there) then a love problem (insider info). That got him. RIP+

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  42. Sino kaya yung head na super love niya? Sa tindi ng stress niya based sa messages, bakit niya tinitiis yung stress na yun kung may option naman siya to resign? Dahil sa promotion na prinomise ng head? Di kaya yung "love" na ito yung sinasabi niya na love can kill?

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    1. Dude, give the person some respect. Patay na nga e. Wag mo na siyang gawan ng issue.

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    2. Defensive!!! Hmmmm

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  43. According to J in an interview (search online, guys.), he tried to resign (daw) but G didn't let him. They pleaded him to stay and offered him another position.

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    1. Yeah I read that. IMHO, if Im truly stressed out from work, to the point of killing myself, I would not accept the job offer and be firm with my resignation. nothing can stop me if i want OUT, even money or a new designation.

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  44. Fyi he did try to resign but his boss persuadedhim to shift roles lang. But wala pang kapalit so nagdouble hat sya. Lalo lang lumala. He felt trapped after that.

    To those who say nah he wouldnt take his life.. well guess what he did. Cant read a person fully you know. Rich man famous man,living the life doesnt mean youre happy.

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  45. Super stress sa G and the pay aint too good either.. sa S nalang kayo mas ok daw.

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    1. HAHAHAHA! Sobrang obvious naman nito nag G at S ka pa.

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  46. we all have a CHOICE! its just so unfair to blame it to someone or to the company he's working. if he's stressed or feeling nya overworked sya he has the option to resign. and sino ba naman sa atin ang hindi stressed? sa paghandle lg talaga yan. siguro he really has a big reason why he did that..but whatever his reason we still don't have the right to judge him! May he rest in peace now! ✌

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    1. You can't say that. Lahat tayo may limits. And it seems na di na sya kumakain at super stressed na sya, you'll never know. Kahit gaano sya ka-happy in the outside, walang makakapagsabi what he's really feeling.

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  47. This may sound harsh but it is irrelevant whether it was love problems or work stress which pushed him over the edge. At the end of the day, every suicide is a decision made by the person himself. There is no room for censure or finger-pointing here.

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    1. True! Let's just pray that he finds the peace he's looking for. And to the people he left behind.

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  48. I remember during college, one time I ate lunch with Dale and I observed that he cannot even finish the half rice that was served to him. akala ko nag diet sya pero di pala. later he admitted having some eating disorder. this is not private naman since he mentioned this na in his livejournal account.

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  49. Now, if open to sharing proof, why skip parts of the conversation? Why make social media accounts private all of a sudden? Got something to hide?

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  51. Hindi Ganon kadali mag resign especially if madami kang binabayaran like ur house car condo and stuff.

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    1. So you'd rather kill yourself than face your monthly dues?
      I still don't buy the work related suicide.
      I'm sure he can replace his job easily with his credentials. And judging from friend testimonials, may ipon naman siguro sya enough to pay whatever bills he have "in case di sya magwork agad ulit".

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  52. Guys, try backreading his tweets!! Ang daming fishy fishy!!! Halos 1 week nya pinlano!

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  53. Pinapalabas nla ung work yung reason why nagcommit ng suicide pro I heard the bf found new love na daw.

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    1. Could it be the other way around?

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  54. LOVE KILLS babalik at babalik tayo. This is related sa relationship niya with Jake nd not because of work. pang cover up lang ito I guess sa kung ano ba totoong nangyari.

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  55. Akala ko din nung love ang reason kasi based sa last Instagram post nya na may "Love Can Kill". His colleagues from G na I follow also used the hashtag #TheBoyWhoLoved on their IG post..

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    1. Gumawa talaga ng hashtag! Grabe! Hindi naman Ito simply mainstay because of illness. Insensitive masyado!

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  56. nagsuicide because of eating disorder? pwede din c karen carpenter died because of anorexia (most common eating disorder un di ba?

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  57. mysterious lang ng pagpapakamatay nya

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  58. Eventually the whole truth will come out. I hope and I pray someone will speak out what trully happened the night before the incident.

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  59. G is blocking all news. Wala na ang media freedom sa Pinas. Pero di naman kasalanan ng G ang suicide kasi happily employed si Dale. Lahat naman ng companies may kanya kanyang issues. Pinaka-kawawa si Jake he is the most innocent of all and yet people are pointing their fingers on him. Let's respect the living na lang. No one saw it coming. RIP Dale all around nice guy.

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  60. why there's a news blackout? simple, he is working in a telcom company affliated sa rela estate company that have 2 bombing incidents (makati mall & taguig condo) which have the same news blackout treatment na hinde napagusapan masyado regardless of the casualties and until now walang malinaw na dahilan or doubtful ang findings.

    hinde rin natin dapat minamaliit ang work related reason kung bakit siya nagsuicide kaagad kasi in the first place we have our own battles in life, besides to what was indicated on the screenshots and the hearsays there are other angles na hinde natin alam which is also one of the reasons. You'll never understand what the person is going through unless andun ka din sa same situation na he/she is experiencing.

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  61. Ang reason nito ay jowa at hindi work dahil love can kill ang last words nya sa IG,

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  62. Maybe he found out that hes too sick and decided to end everything.

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