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Friday, December 6, 2013

Getting Burned

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After so many months of not seeing His Daughter HD, Troubled Dad TD excitedly went to Her School HS early this week looking a lot better, fresher and peaceful. TD was with someone who looked like a lawyer or someone from the fiscal's office.

TD's Estranged Wife EW had actually made arrangements with HS regarding the circumstances between HD and TD. And TD's going there to meet up with HD and some HS officials would definitely spell big trouble.

HD's Yaya HY reportedly confided to a fellow yaya in school that she was scared because she was very sure that EW would blow her top the minute she learned that TD went to see HD. Knowing how EW is known for her outbursts who allegedly curses like there's no tomorrow, HY feared that EW would again take it out on her and the other help at home and confiscate their cellphones once more. Allegedly, her reported paranoia is consuming her.

HY was supposedly under specific instruction from EW to be very strict and never ever to allow TD to go near their kids, anytime, anywhere.

But HY was helpless that day when TD went to HS. Back home with EW, HY and her fellow help are aware of what's going on. Deep in their hearts they know the truth - who is at fault in the family squabble. Needless to say, it is TD who they sympathize with. For them, it is he who is more credible, and that even if they stay with EW, they are on the side of TD.

HD used to be close to TD when they were still living together as family. Thus it was presumed that their meeting together with the HS officials went without glitch. Supposedly, HS is totally concerned with the welfare of HD. It is imperative that it would be on the side of what is right and just.

However, HY knew that EW got mad at HS for that meeting, because EW thought that HS would honor their commitments, considering that there were already previous arrangements agreed on.

In light of the above, HD didn't go to school the day after the encounter with HD. Supposedly, EW didn't allow her to. Friends think this is just sad, to be dragging the children on the issues of the parents. Hopefully, things will get better soon.

“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.” ~ Buddha

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49 comments:

  1. The yayas will be fired na by tomorrow.

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    1. Baka nga binubugbog na ngayon after basahin ni wife itong BI.

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    2. Hindi ba grounds yan para makuha ni td ang mga bata. Kawawa sila psychological ang impact nito sa mga bata

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    3. malamang.. kawawang yaya.. tsk tsk tsk..

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    4. kung ganun e confirmed na nga na sya tlaga

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  2. ahh yun pala nangyari sa ulap...

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  3. Praning at her best. ;)

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  4. EW - one of the notorious sisters TD - fave hangout nya dati ang a kaso natrauma na ata sya lol

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  5. Magsasampa na naman yan ng kaso for sure....

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  6. Wow! tlga palang something is wrong na sa EW na yan. Kwawa nmn mga bata. I'm sure hirap na si TD sa mga nangyayari sa buhay nila. Soooo sad for them. :'(

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  7. Kaawa-awang bata. Nadamay sa kaguluhan. Mas ok pa siguro buhay nya kung iba na lng. Kahit simple family lng.

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  8. Lahat ng bagay naapektuhan lalo na mga bata. Paranoia. I think she needs help. Fast.

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  9. Well, i believe that c has a cause of action against the school. The school is supposed to respect the order of the court disallowing r to see their children bec of the case filed against him.

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    1. r has legal right to be with his kids.hindi naman sya tinanggalan ng custody at visitation rights e

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    2. C c lng ang d pwd lapitan ni r d kasama mga bata..

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    3. I think it isn't the court who has arrangements with the school, si EW lang ang gumawa ng sarili nyang arrangement regarding TD..

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  10. ipasok na sa B uli yan

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  11. Gets ko ito.. So sad.. Idol ko pa naman si EW dati.. What's wrong if the father wanted to be with her child. Sobra naman si EW..tsk.

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  12. Nako lagot ang yaya! im sure binabasa ni C ang BI na to!

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  13. Kung ako kay TD ipatumba na nya si EW.

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  14. ew - c
    td - r
    hd- s
    #firsthonorako

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  15. if c and r have issues, they should not drag the kids on this....i hate it when parents are selfish and use the kids as a bargaining chip....

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  16. Ang di makagets ng BI na to bigyan ng isang timbang iodized salt na may konting mani

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  17. Dapat ang school na mag complain sa DSW kung may hinala silang di safe ang mga bata sa malditang mader nila. Marami nang inabuso si EW diba ang bata pa kaya.

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  18. bakit kasi isinasali yung mga bata sa away nila ano yan chess piece na pawn?

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  19. kaya pala... un pala nangyari

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  20. EASY. yung magasawang away ng away.

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  21. Nsa bingit nang alanganin ang mga bata sa Nanay nila,dapat binigay na sa Ama na nila..kc kitangkita nmn ang ebidencya Nanay nila me problema,ang bagal talaga usad ng mga kaso sa atin,sa ibang bansa di pede gnyn..wagna antayin na me mnyari sa kanila..

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  22. Ito na ba yung naging d sa t

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  23. Grabe yung comments sa account ni EW-C , sobrang bastos, mukhang EW is behind the accounts. How can her parents tolerate her

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  24. To ba yung nag t?

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  25. nakakalungkot lang ang eksena nila sa buhay. kawawa ang mga bata. kitang kita naman kasi kung sino talaga ang may problema. sa galing umarte ng nanay nilang may sapak sa ulo e marami talagang maniniwalang masa sa babaeng ito. tsk tsk.

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  26. Sana naman magkaroon na ng peace of mind and babaeng itey..lkung lahat nalang ay ikasasabog niya, matetegi siya ng maaga.. Kumars, peace, love and joy to you. Not a fan, nagmamagandang loob lang.

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  27. My heart really goes out to the children. Their confusion and trauma are unimaginable. What a mother, indeed. :-(

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  28. kawawa ang kids who need to be dragged in their mess. this experience is so traumatic, and the kids are so young.

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  29. I pray that God would heal her emotional and psychological state, that He would bring wisdom and maturity to her...for her kids's sake. A woman who is not stable won't raise stable kids.

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  30. Here's my view - TD, no one doubts you love your children, but care enough not to do something to disrupt their routine. As a parent, you should know now the meaning of SACRIFICE. It is not your NEEDS and WANTS anymore, it would be the kids before anything else. Yes, you miss and want to see them, but if this will cause more issues to your children, better keep your distance. There are means when you get to know and even see them without EW perceiving you're sneaking behind her back. Once and for all, both of you finish the problems and settle the arrangements for your children the soonest time possible. Children nowadays are very smart and mature, they will know and understand why you're not there with them for now.

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  31. TD knows which buttons to press for EW to lose her cool. She needs to play it smarter...without sacrificing her kids' welfare. She's been a good mom. What she's doing right now doesn't exactly reflect that. This story is just so heartbreaking. May stigma para sa mga nanay na nagkaroon ng psychiatric problem. It's always easy to play up a story na sila ang at fault. Sana maayos pa nila ni TD no matter how ugly it seems at the moment.

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    1. TD should not do anything that would make EW think he's sneaking behind her back. As a parent, it should be his children now above his wants and needs, including his wishing to see his kids if that would mean issues later on. He should SACRIFICE for the meantime that things are sorted out. Why would he do something that would become a problem involving his children, even if he meant well? Either he wants to make EW go over the edge, or he's not really thinking.

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    2. TAO din naman si TD at isang AMA hindi naman porque babae at tinatawag na isang INA sa kanya na dapat ang pabor kahit puro kabaliwan na pinaggagagawa sa sarili nyang pamilya.

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    3. Anon 9:46 AM Are you a mom?

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  32. dapat i-report na sa dswd yan si EW

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  33. Dapat pag ganyan tigil ang sustento. I don't understand why he can't see his kids if he is paying child support. Papansin talaga si Clown.

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  34. Gamitin ba ang mga bata sa pansariling interes napakasama naman ata nyan. Ang OA ng reaction akala mo namang bubugbugin o rereypin ni TD ang sarili nyang anak kung makabintang sobra.

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  35. #SabiNaNgaBa... Kawawa naman yung bata.. Dapat ibalik na sa m si EW...

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  36. Wala nang pag asa itong si EW-C. Kahit isaksak sya sa b, hindi na ata sya gagaling pa. Hay buhay.

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  37. obvious na obvious ito. si EW . i feel sorry for the kid, pati sila sinasali sa gulo.

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