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Saturday, July 13, 2013

Jackie Forster Appeals to Sons Andre and Kobe Paras

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  1. i hope her sons find it in their hearts to forgive their mother. kung may nagawa talagang napakalaking kasalanan si jackie, at least she is doin her best now to be a good mother and shes exerting efforts para maging okay sila ng mga anak nya.

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    1. It is so much easier to make a five minute video than be a real loving mother. So much time, effort and sacrifice it takes to love and be love in return - but all too worth it. I say she should stop reaching out dramatically in public, if she wants to see her kids, it should've been done more privately and with more effort than a five minute video.

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    2. agree with anon 1:55. This is more a ploy for public sympathy than anything. Why on Earth will a video like this be made public otherwise? It's so simple to just send and tag it on private. Obviously, the goal is for OTHER people to see it.

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    3. Sweet yung effort nya to make a video..at talaga naming nageeffort sya makabalik sa buhay ng kids nya. Pero para sakin, mas mabuti hayaan muna nya kids nya. Teenager kids nya..maraming pinagdadaanan at dumagdag pa nga issues about her. Lalong magrerebelde kids nya habang nagpupumilit sya. Ok na yung napakita nyang nagsisisi sya sa lahat ng nagawa nya. Pero Jackie should let her kids heal. Later on pag mas mature na kids nya, mapapatawad din sya. Pero sa ngayon, give them time to heal and space to grow mature.

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    4. WTFHappened????!!!! Along the way!??? Mukhang Masaya ung mga memories???? And nagmukhang si Benjie ang bad father!!!!! Anyway Baka parang ung series na SHAMELESS Ito!

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    5. Bago ang lahat ano muna ang nangyare!?? Ang turning point?

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    6. Sana magkapatawaran na sila...para may inner peace na silang lahat...

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    7. Kung hindi sa nanay nila hindi sila ganyan kagagwapo.

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    8. Kung hindi sa tatay hindi sila naging stable.

      Bakit nmn kc nasingit yung physical traits dito. Pangit man o maganda magulang mo, ang issue ay kung naging magulang nga ba sila.

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    9. Haha korek ka dyan!!!

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    10. agree ako kay @2:15AM

      bakit ba atat na atat si Jackie?
      nasabi na nya ang gusto nyang sabihin, fine!
      wag nyang madaliin..
      mapapatawad din sya ng mga anak nya hindi lang siguro ngaun.

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    11. @608

      sure ka? looks come from both parents. and sorry, kung good looks din lang, mas pipiliin ko na ordinary looking ako kung kapalit naman ng mukha ay trauma.

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    12. ordinary looking = no prospective career/ irrelevant in showbiz..
      these boys seem to want their little share of the limelight..let's not be blinded or hypocritical here.. if not for their mother's genes, they will not be THAT good looking.. kay benjie nakuha height but facial features and skin complexion obviously are from jackie..

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    13. @10:24

      Sa basketball din nakilala si Andre. Tigilan na ang pagtingin sa physical aspects. Ang babaw!

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    14. @1024

      so sobrang ganda ni pokwang kaya nagkaroon ng career in showbiz! isip isip bago magcomment. hindi lahat sa ganda nakukuha. talent din. and obviously, may talent ang bagets sa basketball.

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  2. I think its going to be more effective of she doesnt make it too public

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    1. Agree! I think she made the video to stir a bit of controversy.

      What a drama queen!

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    2. kahit bali baligtarin paang mundo nanay pa rin nila yan khit gaano pa kalaki ang kasalanan na nagawa nyan...mahirap magpatawad pero nahingi na naman ng tawad and chance eh... kelan magpapatawad pag may malubhang sakit na ang nanay? pag mamamatay na or pag patay na saka dadalawin sa puntod at patatawarin...just saying

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    3. anon 12:38, yung dalawang bata ang makakapagsabi kung kelan sila magpapatawad. hindi ikaw. may just saying pang nalalaman.

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    4. Hilig mong baligtarin ang mundo!

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    5. Hindi nga nya makontak anak nya kaya ginawa nyang public! Kayo kaya magkaron ng anak at the of 16-18.wag nga kayo mg judge kung di nyo alam ang totoong ngyari! Alam nyo ba ang maging isang ina? My matris ba kayo?

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    6. 2:10, 'Yong sinasabi ni 12:38 ay 'yong mga bagay na pwedeng mangyari, hindi 'yong gaya ng kababawang iniisip mo. Hay! Kulang sa kaisipan talaga. smh

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    7. E kasi nga ayaw sha makausap at makita, malamang niblock pa sha sa mga social media accts, tgnan nyo nlng ung IG nung isang anak nya naka sulat sa bio, kaya cguro sha gumawa ng ganyan kc alam nya ikakalat yan ng tao an somehow baka umabot sa mga anak nya at panuorin nila, IF panuorin nila, isang malaking if, i doubt if they'd bother to watch this video sa laki ng galit nila

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  3. Sorry girl, malalaki na ang mga (yummy) bagets mo. May kanya kanyang isip na yan. OA mo ha, gumawa ka pa talaga ng YT vid. Pauso much? Para magka-public sympathy? Talk to your sons in private.

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    1. di nga niya nakakausap yung mga bata...

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    2. why so much hatred? pag nag try mag reach out oa na? pauso much na? if someone who has hurt you tries to reach out to you, hindi ba pwedeng sincere yon? lahat kailangan nega? ang daming relationships whether parent-child or friends na nabalik sana ang love kung hindi nagmatigas at may nagreach out.

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    3. If there's no way she can talk to her sons, maybe this is her only way. esep esep din. Everybody commits mistakes ksama kana dun 12:11AM. Wag taung pusong bato. Just like you, everybody deserves a second chance!

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    4. O.a? Try mo kaya magkaanak. At sabihin mo yang o.a! Walang o.a sa isang ina na gusto makasama at magkarun ng second chance para mapakita sa kanila ang pagmamahal ng isang ina! O.a teh? Be a mother! Take note din hindi tayo perfect para hindi magkamali. Ang importante we learned sa mali natin! O.a o.a ka pa!

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    5. I don't think this is the only way she can reach out to her sons PRIVATELY. There are so many ways to use social media tools and adjusting those settings in order to connect and still remain private. If she has exhausted all of those methods, what makes anyone think that going public with it will work? What good does that do aside from gaining public sympathy ESPECIALLY if numerous attempts have already proven futile? So, yes. OA.

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    6. ikaw ang OA 12:11. ang importante humihingi siya ng tawad at itinatama na niya ang pagkakamali niya. hindi katulad ng iba nag-sorry nga pero wala namang ginawa para linisin ang dumi.

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    7. Ang babaw ng k*k*t* mo 2:17! Sa palagay mo ba gagawin niya 'yan kung may contact siya sa kanila even on social media? Saka 'yong ginawa niyang 'yon ay isang klaseng pagsusugal na hindi mo alam kung mananalo ka or hindi. Masisisi mo ba eh desperado na 'yong tao? So mag-work man o hindi, hindi mo na problema 'yon. Kainin mo 'yang OA mo.

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  4. Ito ang classic example ng "kung anu ang iyong itinanim ay sya ding aanihin."

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    1. Ito ang classic example ng mas malaking katanungang ANYAREH!!!???? Ano ung silver lining o catalyst that made her children hate her so much? Bata pa sya nung nanganak 16! Malaking bulas kasi! You Benjie you! You should understand!

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    2. Kasabihan: Kung kelan sumikat saka hahabulin! Bakit nung Hindi pa Sikat ung dalawang Ito at wala pang ganong exposure sa media e Hindi naglabas ng mga ganito si jodie foRster sa twitteraka nya? Why only now?! E matagal na ang twitter nya survivor days pa ng siyete! Hmnnnn......

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    3. jodie foRster???? talaga teh? ano kinalaman nya dito.

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  5. awwwww nakakaiyak naman. sana her sons can give her a second chance

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    1. exactly the kind of effect the video is supposed to have.
      PUBLIC SYMPATHY.

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    2. Pigilan mo muna. It's either she's trying air her Side or gumagaling at nahahasa na acting skills nya.

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  6. how touching naman the video.....pag mag mamature na ang mga yan, mapapatawad din nila si jackie

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  7. naku andre at kobe magiging ganon ba kayo kagwapo kung hindi nyo naging ina si jackie? hahaha...but i can't blame these kids on hating their mom with such trauma na naranasan nila, di ganun kadali magpatawad at makalimot

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  8. Very sad situation. A mom who obviously loves her children and miss them terribly, yet also aware of how emotionally distant they are from her.

    Nobody knows the real story. It may not be now. nor soon, but eventually things will work out in the end. Sana hindi lang ginawang public. The boys will naturally resent this all the more. But sa nanay na talagang sabik sa anak, lahat pwedeng gawin.

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    1. I agree with you. 100%

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    2. Yup, nobody knows the real story, so we shouldn't judge the kids for feeling the way they do. Hindi porke't may touching vid, sincere na at heartfelt.

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    3. Gumawa ng vid para kaawaan ng tao!!! Good strategy. Sana kinausap nalang niya in private. Baka maniwala pa mga anak niya.

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    4. Kaya nga "touching" kasi sincere at heartfelt. What is sincere and heartfelt to you 'yong hindi touching??? Gamitin ang utak 1:07.

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  9. Halatang insincere na nanay oh. Hihingi ka ng paumanhin edi sana personal at private talk na lang. Attention seeker din eh. Kung ako sa dalawang gwapo at papable niyang anak, 'di ko papansinin yan kasi ang OA at sini-showbiz ang issue.

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    1. di niya nakakausap mga anak niya...yung mga matatanda na nkapaligid sa mga bata ayaw din ipakausap sakanya...

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    2. ayaw nga cia makita ng mga anak nya pano cla mag uusap privately?

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    3. Nagbabasa ka ba?,. Ayaw ngang ipakiusap mga bata db?,. This is only her way., Tapos sasuggest kang private and pesonal aber., cge nga paano?,.

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    4. Teh basa basa din pag my time ha! Kaya nga yan anh naisip nyang way kasi nga di nya nakakausap eh!

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    5. They have talked in the past, with a psychologist. Yung mga bata tlga ayaw, the trauma was too deep. Tama kayo, mahal ng mga bata mom nila, but what did she do? They have been very disappointed with their mom, not once did it happen.
      If the mom started to act like a real mom, not a stage mom. Perhaps the kids will find her sincere, but things like these will make them more repulsive. Kaya super layo na mga bata sa kanya. Parang mantra nila is that they dont want to be like their mom

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    6. Hello mga teh , Di social media ang paraan.if Di makalapit as she claimed eh Di dalhin mo sa korte. Lalo lang binibigyan kahihiyan mga bata.

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    7. Daming nakikisawsaw na matalino. Sinabi na yan ni Benjie sa interview niya last week. Kung di niyo kilala nang lubusan ang babaeng ito, wag agad agad paniwalaan! As he said, nakausap na niya sila. 5 yrs ago. Sa bahay nina Benjie. 3 times nakapasok at nakipag usap. 3 times niya na narinig ang totoo pero ayaw tanggapin. Korek, nakikisali sa pagsikat dahil siya ay laos na. Hindi siya naka block sa twitter accounts nila so she could have tagged them straight. But no. Pinadaan niya sa publiko dahil para sa atin yan. Naghahanap ng attention, awa, at kakampi. I hope you all see her for the drama queen that she is and stop blaming the adults who dedicated their lives into raising well the children that she damaged.

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  10. Bayaan mong mga anak mo (the other children) magsabi na you're a great mother. Hindi yung ikaw mismo pumupuri sa sarili mo na "I AM A GREAT MOTHER"... sa tingin mo ba maniniwala agad sina andre & kobe sa great mother, great mother drama mo

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    1. buti nlng ngbasa muna aketch ng comments..hihih..,so agree with you...khit anong saya nla sa picts.sa vid.na to,she can't erase the trauma...

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    2. Mga anak mo magsabi if great ka nga as a mother.di ung self proclaimed.

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  11. Darating ang araw papatawarin ka din nila pero wag mong masyadong ipilit at in very public ways pa. Lalong lalayo loob sa yo ng dalawa sa mga pinaggagawa mo sa social media

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  12. If God cam forgive, why can't we? Just let time and maturity take its natural course, we cant force it unto them. One of the most painful things to forget in this life, and this applies to all of us, is the pain/hardship/struggle/trauma we experience during our childhood years. They must have had a valid reason to shut her out. Even if she gives them the world at this point, it wont erase the pain they felt. I just wish them well.

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    1. If God can create the world, why cant we? Tse!

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    2. Bonggang reply! Love it!

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    3. Truelaloooo 6:10!!!!

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  13. Sobra akong naiyak dito.. As a mother, i can feel her pain. She made mistakes and she suffered long enough. I don't know what she and her kids went through para hindi cya patawarin. I can only hope they will at least talk to their mom and reach middle ground.

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    1. Kawawa ka naman at napapaniwala ka niya. The kids know the truth kaya di niya maloko. Pinagtawanan lang ang video niya. Fyi, nakausap na niya sila. Pinapalabas lang niyang hindi para maawa ang madla.

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  14. nakakaiyak naman :'( i hope they patch things up.

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  15. As a Mom I can absolutely understand how she feels. Yung mga bashers dito ano ba kayo? Nag apologize na nga sya at inamin na nya mga pagkukulang nya. She has repeatedly tried to get in touch with her sons thus, this is her final attempt para ipa-abot sa kanila ang mga saloobin nya. Basahin nyo ang mga captions under the video. Kung kayo ay hindi pa isang ina hwag na lang mag bash kasi.

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    1. You were fortunate to have a good family and a good childhood. Unfortunately, these kids have been robbed of their innocence early on thanks to her.
      Forgiveness is not instant just because you made a vid. It is earned very hard, sometimes twice or thrice the mistake you did. It's called consequence.

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    2. Ako nga na hindi mother na moved eh. Hmmm.. huwag mo ng pansinin 'yong mga basher siguro d*m**n** sila kaya sila ganun. Hehehe...

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    3. Ina ako pero di ko magets tong paraan nya.bakit kailangan padaanin sa YOU TUBE?may proper na lugar pr jan.if desperate cia na makausap mga bata eh di daanin sa legal.di ung kinakaladkad pa sa madla.at wag nya ikatwiran na bata siya when she had them.maraming batang ina na di nababayaran.ilalaban ng patayan mga anak nila wag lang malayo sa kanila.dito sa pinas laging pabor ang law sa ina lalo na at wala pang 7 yrs old mga bata.how come sa ama binigay full custody?

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    4. I won't bash her, I am not a mom but I do understand how she feels naman. ang point ko lang is, after this video tumahimik na muna sana sya. let the time heal the wounds. at wag na nyang ipaalam lahat lahat sa public kasi parang lalong gugulo.

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    5. Final attempt. Why is it final? Because her kids are all well-known now? Why just now? Why not create a video that they could have seen in earlier years?

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    6. Right on target, 7:26!

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    7. I'm a mom.We don't know what jackie did for andre & kobe to react the way they did.We must be reminded that we know nothing about their family-like what she did or did not do when the kids were still with her. We all do not have an iota of knowledge of their TRUE situation. We just leave them alone. With all these negative / positive comments, we are not helping any of them.We can pray for them, right? even if they do not know we do...in that way, we can TRULY help them.

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  16. My heart just dropped. Because I'm a mom too. :(

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    1. me too,,sna lng mgkaauz na cla,f ano man nging prob.sna maaus at mptwad xa ng anak nya

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    2. lahat halos tayong mga nanay parehas ng naramdaman...

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    3. Only a mother can understand the feelings of another mother. kahit pa sabihin na hindi naging mabuting ina yung isa, wala naman sigurong ina ang makakatiis na di man lang makita mga anak nila. Maybe the relationship as hubby and wife was hopeless back then, pero iba yung sa anak mo, lalo pa at namuhunan ka ng buhay sa mga anak mo. Instead of bashing the vid, let's just hope that one day eh magkaayos sila magiina, di naman kailangan na maging mushy mushy pero diba mas maganda yung kahit paano someone tried to reach out and patch things. Mas maganda pa rin yung in the end eh may peace sa mga heart nila.

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  17. Nice thought but she shouldn't have done it in public. There's always the snail mail if she wishes that her sons will watch this video. It doesn't seem so sincere to go public.

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  18. time heals all wounds.. Jackie, antayin mo na lang na lumambot mga puso ng mga anak mo. Keep on praying... mahirap rin naman sa part ng mga anak mo ang may dalang grudges.. kahit ano pang pagkakasala natin, deserve pa rin natin ang second chance.. kung hindi ka man nila mapatawad, it's not your bag of bricks Jackie.. dahil spiritually at emotionally, dala dala ng mga anak mo yan... I hope it's not too late para magkaayos kayong lahat... alam ko ung feeling mo kasi mother din ako.. Good luck!

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  19. As a mom, i feel her pain. Masakit. The mistakes that you make will truly haunt you. Jacke give your boys time. In the end, they will forgive you.

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  20. Awwww.,:((( this video moved me to tears!,.:( i feel for the mother,. I feel the sincerity.,

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  21. Ganyan din ang situation namin ng sis ko, pero based sa experience ko, the more na kasing pinipilit the more na mas umaayaw at mapapalayo ang loob. Hayaan na Lang muna at dadating ang panahon na magiging okay rin ang lahat. Kasi malalaki na yan at kaya ng mag desisyon. Mga anak yan, Tao rin, kahit ganyan, naaawa at nasasaktan rin sila kasi kahit bali-baliktarin man ang mundo, ikaw ang nanay nila. Di ka rin nila matitiis pero wag mong ipipilit. Hayaan mo muna ang mga anak... :) isang araw magugulat ka na Lang na okay na kayo at parang walang nangyari. :) mag trabaho ka, Kung may dapat man baguhin sayo (Kung ano man yun) baguhin mo, o maging inspirasyon mo sila. :)

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  22. Be strong na Lang Jackie at least you have your own family now who loves and respect you. Let time heal the wounds...I feel for you because I am a mother too with only one son. Let them be, at least now they know that you love them and will always love them. You may seem to be a very strong woman but I know you are not complete without your two other kids by your first husband. And for sure your kids also feel that way, specially that younger one KoBe...he seems to long for you he must have missed you when you left the house, that's why they are like that. Take care of your family now, focus on them.

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    1. Kobe? Miss her? He doesn't even know her! He was 2 years old when she left their house! He was asked if he saw the video. He said he doesn't care enough to waste time on it!

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    2. Related kba sa kanila kaya you are speaking on behalf of the family? Di naman halata na laki rin ng galit mo dun sa tao. People like you instead of building bridges are the ones that sow resentments and division. Kahit na grabe pa mga ginawa nya nun, kahit ata nawitness pa ng mga anak nya horrid acts nya with other men o nasaktan sila, humihingi ng tawad yung tao. Kung magulang ka malalaman mo siguro longing nya sa mga anak nya. Only time will tell if makakausap at matatanggap na sya ng mga anak nya sa mga trampas na ginawa nya ng kabataan nya, pero as long may mga tao na mas gusto pa magsow ng discord instead of mending what was broken eh suntok sa bwan na talaga yung ginawa nya, but at least she made an effort. Now, since nagawa na nya yung sinasabi ng iba na OA at katatawanan nya, eh siguro mainam na tumahimik na lang sya amd move on with her life. If her sons don't want her eh wag na nya ipilit. Move on na sya. She blamed the people sa side nila Benjie as reason bakit di nya

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    3. Yan si 11:59 sya yung nag iisang nag cocomment sa lahat ng panig kay jackie mukhang malaki ang insecure mo ate ha. Napapaghalataan kana kung sino ka, you know what i mean.

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    4. How can I build bridges and sow resentments on those children when I don't even get to talk them, 3:37? Even the courts know the truth. A lot of other people do too. I air my comments here to straighten out those who can't see things clearly. Jackie has only one thing that I don't - the capacity to give birth. I'll need an operation to be a she. But I'd happily stay gay than fail as a mother the way she did.

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    5. oo nga... wag ka naman magpahalata masyado 11:59, maiintindihan namin sa isang comment mo inis mo dun sa tao, pero yung halos lahat ng comment mo eh parang nakatira ka na under the same roof eh iba na ang pinapakita mo. Either you are related to them o you are someone who is definitely insecure of your position kaya mas gusto mo na wag na magkaayos yung magiina. Diyos ka ba para malaman mo ano nakalaan sa mga anak nya. Everybody here is wishing them healing if not now eh sa future, pero ikaw, para kang demonyita who dwells in the past. alam mo mga taong tulad mo promise, di makikita ang happiness at peace of mind, kasi di mo kaya magwish ng happy ending para sa ibang tao gano pa kasakit o kasama pinagdaanan nila, unless yun ang target mo talaga kaya instead of sowing good deeds eh puro discord and hatred ang mga pinagsasabi mo dito, your personality reeks of hatred, heart of stone and selfishness.

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  23. Sana magampanan nya promises nya sa video nya and hindi lang personal intentions about sa career ng mga bata (sa last part diba sabi nya makakatulong daw sya hehe) , the video is a good way para mkrating sa mga anak nya message nya kasi nga never naman pinakausap or pinalapit sakanya mga anak kahit calls or messages wala rin db.

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    1. She's lying. Naikwento ni Benjie that when she calls, he passes the phone to the kids. She used to call their house too and the kids would pick up.

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    2. how would you know such intimate details?

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  24. as a mother, naiyak din ako sa video niya. at least sa video na to, she asked for their forgiveness and she has admitted na she committed mistakes in the past. ang ayoko lang eh andun pa din na parang sinisisi niya si benjie at wife niya at ung ginawang public ang video.

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    1. Di kasi kaya maging 100% sincere. This video is for the public. Not exactly for the kids she could have contacted straight instead. Yes. She can contact them. Wag maniwalang walang way para makausap niya privately.

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  25. Naintindihan ko naman why she needed to do this, hindi nga nya nakakausap anak nya diba? So knowing na social network active ung mga anak nya, siguro there might be a possibility na makita nila to thru friends o kung san man. Granted na galit nga ung mga bata, pero siguro depende din sa moods ng tao, ung galit magiging tampo at eventually kahit maging in-denial pa sila (andre and kobe) mami-miss din nila nanay nila at knowing na may video na ganito, baka tignan nila secretly then way na yun on reconciliation path.
    I hope everything turns out well between her and the two boys.

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    1. Huh. Yan ang akala mo.... the kids know the truth and this is too shallow.

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  26. nakakatouch naman. sana magkaayos na. ang ina ay ina kahit anong mangyari. bigyan sana ng pagkakataon makabawi tutal ay humihingi naman ng tawad. mababait naman sila kobe at andre, they will eventually forgive her :) sana happy ending :)

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  27. I wish them all well.

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  28. naiyak naman ako dito

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  29. nakakarelate ako. may galit rin ako sa nanay ko malaking naging pagkukulang samin magkakapatid pero if ever, IF lang naman, babalikan nya ko at sasabihing babawi sya, agad agad ko syang bibigyan ng chance kase nasasabik na ako sa yakap ng isang ina. maikli lang ang buhay para ubusin natin sa pagtatanim ng galit. kung handa naman magbago, why not diba?

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  30. I think she did her best to reach privately. pero hindi sya nabibigyan ng chance na pakinggan. so she is doingthis as a last resort to ask for forgiveness and somehow communicate to her kids. Andre and Kobe may not forgive her now but as she should pry hard that when they become adults, they will forgive her.

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  31. Nakakaiyak. Sa mga nagsasabing she should just talk to them in private, ta**a ba kayo? Eh ayaw nga siya makita / ayaw ipakita sa kanya. Lahat tayo nagkakamali, at kung totoo man yung mga malaking pagkakasala niya noon sa mga anak niya, HINDI MABABAGO NUN ANG DUGONG NANANALAYTAY SA KANILA. Mahirap magpatawad, pero mas mahirap kung darating yung panahong binabaon na sa hukay ang nanay nila saka lang sila lalapit... Kahit bali-baligtarin man ang mundo, ina pa rin nila si Jackie. Iisa lang ang nanay natin. Hindi man siya naging ma

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    1. Eh ayaw nga siya makita ng anak niya eh, so she should stop with all of her drama antics. HER SONS DON'T LIKE HER. PERIOD. wag pilitin, kasi lalong lalayo ang mga yan. The bros already said to respect their space. Yun na yun. The ball is in their court. Let time help them realize that. Wag syang super aligaga sa mga anak niya na ayaw naman sa kanya. She's just humiliating herself. Afterall, kasalanan din naman nya kung bakit lumayo sa kanya ang mga yan.

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    2. Its her fault her sons treat her that way. Bakit ngayon lang siya nag rereach out. And dapat gawin niya in private hindi yung sa youtube.. Ano siya nawawalang ina na naghahanap ng nawawalang anak... 5 mins ou YT vid wouldn't make her a good mother. Kung nag effort sana siya dati pa, na ayusin ang mga pagkakamali niya hindi na aabot ng ganyan.

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    3. eto lang masasabi ko sayo 1:22

      ANG INA AY INA. WALANG PAKIELAM KAHIT MAGING ALIGAGA O OA PA. KAHIT PA IPAHIYA NIYA ANG SARILI NIYA. LULUNUKIN ANG PRIDE PARA SA MGA ANAK NIYA. AT SISIKMURAIN LAHAT NG PANGHUHUSGA. LAHAT KAYANG YAKAPIN NG INA.

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    4. AT PARA SA INA, WALANG MALI SA PAGHINGI NG TAWAD KAHIT ANO PANG PARAAN YAN. AT KAHIT PAULIT ULIT PA, HINDI MAGSASAWA. ANG FORGIVENESS NG MGA ANAK ANG MAS MAHALAGA KESA SA SARILI AT OPINYON NG MGA TAO.

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    5. 1:22,kaya nga siya sising-sisi eh at nagpahayag ng kanyang damdamin. Paano nila malalaman kung hindi niya gagawin 'yon? What she did was a good way to express her longevity and repentance and who knows it might be a tool para maalala nila 'yong masayang bonding nilang mag-iina at na sa kanila na 'yon kung ayaw pa din nilang dinggin 'yong inuudyok ng puso nila. Drama? Siguro e**l ka kaya hindi mo naiintindihan ang damdamin niya.

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    6. Madaling sabihin na ina ka pero mahirap ang magpaka-ina.

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    7. anon 1:22 sobra ka naman magsalita. Have some empathy for Jackie. She's just reaching out and trying to fix things. The ball is in Benjie's court. Kung walang mangyayari sa pag-reach out nya at least she tried.

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  32. Ang Ganda lalo ni Jackie ngayon......ang gwapo at ang Ganda ng mga anak Nya sa new husband...awww she's sooo cute and pretty .

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  33. Im on jackie's side. Bug news ito nuon. sobrang bata pa nag asawa. Ito nmn c benjie paras alam nyang 15 lang asawa nya, di man lang nag isip na immature pa. May kasalanan man siya nuon, nagsisi na nga db? Kung masaya at maganda pagpapalaki ng step mom nila kobe, saan nanggagaling ang bitterness?

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    1. uh...sa biological mother nila who could have traumatized them? pwede silang masaya, pwedeng maganda ang pagpapalaki, but the scars are still there.

      Unless you're an expert on child psychology and childhood trauma, I don't think you should even be commenting on how these kids should be reacting.

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    2. bakit hindi nakunlong si benjie noon? nakabuntis sya ng menor de edad. that time nagexpect silang maging matured si jackie agad agad? i pity jackie. she deserves this chance.

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    3. They got married in the US where a 16-year old only needs parental consent to wed. Bakit makukulong si Benjie? Sumasali ang hindi nakakaalam ng accurate details!

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  34. She had the panganay when she was just 16 years old. Ilan taon na ba si benjie nun? 27? 26? Di ata tama un. Kung totoo man na party party dati, masisisi mo ba? Di nya pinag daanan yun eh. Dapat naglalaro pa sya nun , binuntis ni benjie. Hehe

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    1. Minor nga! Me batas dun e! Pwedeng makasign si Benjie! Lumalabas na si Benjie ang masama dapat naging understanding sya dahil bata ang binuntis nya malaking bulas lang!

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    2. At 2:10 Onga! Soooo insensitive. Mahirap maging mabuting ina kung angb ina ay bata pa. Malaki talaga ang chance na mawala sa landas dahil anf katwiran nito ay usually bata pa ako at dapat ineenjoy life. So sana for benjie naghiwalay na lang sila and not brainwashing the kids that their mom left them.

      Eh kung nasa states sila kulong na si k0ya Benjie, kaloka siya ha!

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    3. Kahit 16 siya pwede yun kung may consent ng parents ni jackie. And hindi naman nagkaso si jackie noon dahil pinanagutan naman siya. Age is not an excuse to treat her children badly. At naalala yun ng mga bata, they were deeply traumatized. Dapat hayaan niya mag heal yun. Mahirap para sa mga bata.

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    4. Parang child abuse 'yong ginawa ni Benjie, LOL. Well, I can't blame Jackie kung naging ganun kasi 'yong ngang na sa right age na ay hindi nagiging perfect na ina 'yong pa kayang 16 yrs. old lang?.. Sa kanilang dalawa, si Benjie ang mas nakakaalam ng mabuti.

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    5. Di rason na bata siya ng magkaanak kaya lusot na pagiging irresponsible nya.the moment na maging ina ka ready or not pipilitin mo magpakamature.laro ba kamo?ang pagpaparty ba eh laro?ang pagkalungo sa alak eh laro?

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  35. Naaawa ako kay Jackie Forster..nagkamali sya noon..pero ngayon naman nagbago na sya at nagsisisi. Touching yung video.. Pero mas maganda siguro hayaan muna ni Jackie kids nya. Teenager pa yung mga yun..syempre maraming angst. Saka habang pinipilit nya, baka lalong magrebelde sa kanya. Pag nagmature na ng konti pa, I'm sure marerealize din ng kids nya na sa kabila ng lahat, mahalaga pa rin sya bilang ina. But for the meantime, Jackie should just give the kids time.. Let them heal..

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    1. Ipinapaalam lang naman nya feelings nya. Kung hindi ngayon kelan pa, pag 40 na mga anak nya. Sa ngayon, ke tanggapin ng mga anak nya ang sorry nya, pagdating ng araw na ready na ang mga bata pwede nilang balikan to.

      I hope Jackie and her boys will be given a second chance.

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  36. I really feel her longing and her love sa mga anak nya... from a child coming from a broken home you can tell na nanabik sya at gusto nya ng second chance to love her kids. Sana they will find it in their hearts to give their mother another chance... God Bless you Jackie! She was soo young at that time pa... Benjie shoul've known better!

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  37. grabe naiyak ako d2 ng bonggang bongga...
    sabagay we all make mistakes nman so db unfair nman kung ang isang pagkakamali ay pagdusahan habambuhay especially di nman mamamatay tao si jackie...

    peace and love to everyone!

    -pokerdealer

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  38. Pray for them na lang. Put yourself in their shoes.

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  39. pero nakakaawa din ung mga boys imagine kung gano nila namissed si jackie ..tapos ngaun me sarili na syang pamilya syempre un ang mas priority nya..alam mo un nakakmiss ung lambingin ka ng nanay mo..(grabe umiiyak ako habang ngtatype!)un nandyan nanay mo sa tabi mo..buo pamilya...lam mo un.mga mgaulang nila me kaniya kniyang pamilya..imbes na buo..hay buhay. kya i really felt sad kapag nakakarinig ako ng mag-asawang nghihiwalay. naawa ako sa anak!!

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  40. Nasa huli ang pagsisisi....

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    1. true... jackie nasa huli ang pagsisisi.... if only you have turned things around and stayed earlier on, e di sana you didn't lose your kids love.

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    2. At least MAY PAGSISISI!

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    3. Yup. Sana hindi din magsisi sa huli ang 2 anak nya.

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  41. 16 yrs old naging nanay, hindi kinaya ang pagiging nanay at hindi nagpakananay, nagkaron ng trauma ang mga anak sa kanya. sa pictures posing posing na happy family kunyari. pero sana maging okey na sila, matuto ng pagpatawad ang mga anak nya.

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  42. Refrain from doing this JF. Hindi na sila bata. The more pilitin, the more aayaw. Isipin mo ang kahihiyan nila. Tahimik silang namumuhay. Baka lalo nilang ikaiinis ito imbes na ikaawa. Wag mo na rin siraan ang mga taong gumabay sa kanilang paglaki, they turned out good. Hindi rebellious. Ipagpasalamat mo na yun bilang ina. Hayaan mo lang sila. Kung hahanapin ka nila, hahanap at hahanapin ka.

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  43. kung ang goal niya ay makuha ang loob ng mga anak niya, wag na siya umasa mas lalo pa siyang kaiinisan sa mga pinag gagawa niyang to! pero kung public sympathy lang, sure thing, dami kaya nagpapaniwala sa telenobela hehe

    seriously sana after nito tumigil na siya sa pag iingay

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  44. i feel for jackie..mahirap talaga na mawalay sa mga anak, ive seen her before na hinahabol sa airport ang mga anak pero hindi talaga pinakita ni benjie..may mga nagawa syang pagkakamali pero hindi naman sya nagkulang na itama yun, she kept on trying. i think si benjie din should teach his kids na lumambot ang puso. it's their mother after all. and siguro yung second wife should be a bridge. e makikita mo din sa interviews ni benjie na he is not doing anything na magkaayos ang mga nanay ng anak nya at ang mga anak nya. everyone has moved on, he remarried, she remarried..so i think forgiveness should be next. mahirap mahirap magsisi sa bandang huli..

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    1. Hindi ba it is the father way of respecting what the kids wanted? Why would he meddle with their emotions and acceptance, siya ba iyong nasaktan? O di namilit lang sya kung nakie*al siya. And he was also hurt.

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  45. Naiyak naman ako sa video.. Ramdam na ramdam ko ang longing niya sa mga anak niya pero sana maging maayos na sila para hindi na masayang ang mga panahong naghihintay sa magandang bonding nilang mag-iina.

    Off topic: Ang pogi ng asawa niya at ang ganda/cute nung baby girl niya!

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  46. Para sa akin kahit ano pa ang ginawa ng nanay mo nanay mo yun... dapat patawarin mo. grabe nakakakaawa sya.. kung itong si benjie paras na ito e nasa saktong utak at antagal naman na yung pangyyaaring yun dapat sya mismo ang magencourage sa mga anak nila na kilalanin ang nanay nila. hayyyy

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    1. Sorry, pero I side with Benjie. You cannot hurry these things. And trauma is trauma, it cannot be erased by a simple encouragement. Ang daling sabihin na dapat ginawa ito ni Benjie, pero hindi niyo rin ba iniisip na nirerespeto nya desisyon ng mga anak nya? Sila ang lalapit kung kaya na nila.

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  47. It hits me right here... Here in my heart! Especially the video part. I dont know them personally pero napaiyak ako. At first i was like "si Jackie naman kasi e" and then ngayon parang mother is still a mother no matter what.

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  48. kung puro galit ang nararamdaman ng dalawang bata kay jackie, at least they should be thankful enough to her na kundi sa genes ni jackie, hindi sila ganyan, kaga-guwapo. if only for that.

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    1. paulit ulit sinasabi na dapat thankful ang mga bata kay jackie dahil gwapo sila.eh combination un ng genes ng parents.check nyo ung isang anak ni jackie na boy.eh bakit di kasing tisoy nila andre at kobe?saka puro looks na lang ba?aanhin ang gwapong mukha kung kapalit naman nun eh ung trauma na dinala ng mga bata

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  49. Life is too short to hold grudges esp sa nanay mo.. No matter how grave the sin is, a big and forgiving heart can forgive.. HuwAg na hintayin na magkasakit or mawala bago magsisi.. She's reAching out and asking for forgiveness.. Hardened na ba ang mga puso ng mga anak na di na nila kayang patawarin ang nanay nila? Kung ang ating Diyos nagpapatawad....

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  50. this really made me cry, bato ang puso ng 2 anak niya pag di naantig sa video na ito.

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  51. awww naiyak naman ako. its good na nagshow na sya ng remorse. pero not good na parang sinsisi nya si benjie and stepmom.

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  52. I would say, the kids should forgive their mother. Do not delay forgiveness kasi you do not know what might happen today or tomorrow. The mother is reaching out, kung naging masama man siyang ina noon, i think she already paid for her mistakes for 8 years. I still believe in the saying "to err is human, to forgive divine". Jesus said we should forgive 70 times 7. When you set aside your anger and release forgiveness, it would be one big relief. Do not rely on your feelings. You simply have to make a decision to love and forgive.

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  53. wag nya na kasi ipilit. hayaan na lang nya un mga anak nya. at magdasal na lang sya na in time eh sila na ang mag reach out sa knya. the more na magpupumilit syang ganyan the more na aayawan sya

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  54. Haay nako..jackie, you dont have to go public to show your "sincerity"...sometimes you just have to let go and accept the situation..justice will be given in due time and for sure someday..your kids will realize...like butterflies: the more you chase them,the more they will fly away..pagalingin mo muna yung pain..pahilom mo muna yung sugat.

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  55. I believe that we all deserve a second chance. Mukhang remorseful naman siya kung anuman yung nagawa niya noon...

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  56. sana maayos nila to :( Ayoko ko naman maranasan ng mga anak nila ni benjie yung mawala sa kanila yung nanay nila. They should do it habang maaga pa. Hindi natin alam kung hanggang kelan ang buhay. paano kung nawala bigla si jackie? edi they'll carry that burden in their hearts for the rest of their lives na hindi man lang nila napasalamatan at nasabihan ng mahal nila ang ina nila. Marami ang nangungulila sa ina, sila meron pa sana mapatawad nila.

    Masakit mawalan ng ina. Mas masakit kung hindi natin masasabi lahat sa oras ng pagkawala ng ina.

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  57. We never know how her kids would react when they find this video. Kung malalim ang galit, baka hindi pansinin. If mapansin, baka kahit papano it would serve as a first step na lumambot ang heart nila. Kaya lang, it's just the 1st step. Having a Psych degree, I do know how childhood trauma can severely affect a person til they reach adulthood. In her sons' case, we really don't know how much psychological damage has been done and to undo it won't be instant. Hindi lang sa isang YT message mababago pananaw ng kids niya. Marami pa syang bigas na kakainin. So the best thing Jackie can do is to continually try to reach out (even without positive results) and wait patiently...maybe eventually their emotional walls will start breaking down. Wishin' her luck!

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  58. Sweet. Praying that in time magkaayos na sila ng mga anak nya, pati na rin ni Benjie.

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  59. I believe her sincerity! The only thing she should have never done on that video is post pic of her NEW family! Just because cute ang baby doesn't mean that your kids from previous marriage are ready to cuddle them. Its constant reminder that Jackie apparently can be a good PARENT after all! Sadly its not with them!
    Tip din ito ng mga families w/ broken marriages. If you have a new family don't show it off to your kids from a previous marriage! They are not ecstatic in seeing them! Just because kadugo mo!

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    1. i think the reason for her showing her new husband and children is to show andre and kobe that she has matured and reformed her life not to make them envious that she is a good mother to these new children while with them it was the other way around. she wants them to see this new side of her.

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  60. Desperate move na to ni jackie and i understand her. Im sure eto lang ang easy way para masabi nya lahat ng feelings nya para sa mga anak nya without her ex benjie making pakealam or harang. I hope in time maybe pag naka graduate na yung kids mo from school and may sarili na silang pera at hindi na nakatira or umaasa pa sa papa nila eh baka dun na kayo magka ayos pero sa ngayon i doubt pa.

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  61. Naiyak ako talaga sa video, a lesson here for broken families , for mother-child, I hope this has a happy ending or works out somehow.. Maybe therapists can intervene and in God's time..

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  62. si Benjie may kasalanan din. binuntis nya yung menor de edad. she could have gotten depressed. specially that she had kids too young.

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  63. This made me cry because I am a mom too. :(

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  64. Mistakes make us human, to forgive is truly divine.. As a mother, i am with Jackie Forster on this issue. Everybody deserves a second chance.

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  65. dont side with anyone kung hindi pa alam ang tunay na story. sa ngayon halos nagiging kawawa si jackie dahil sa mga ginagawa nya. Ginagamit niya ang social media para maging way makipag communicate sa mga anak niya kahit one sided lang. pero ang mga tao kay jackie lang nakikisimpatya. Isipin din natin ano ang mararamdaman ng mga anak niya sa pag post ni jackie ng ganto. Binunyag niya mga nangyari, kesyo pinanganak niya anak niya ng menor de edad pa siya, etc. sapalagay ko may konting hiya din mararamdaman din itong mga anak niya, dahil yung private nilang buhay eh nalaman ng tao. So pag ininterview sila hindi maiiwasan yung tanong tungkol dun. so ano mangyayari, maaawkward silang sumagot at lalo sasama loob nila dahil pati private nilang buhay eh alam na ng lahat ng tao. alam ko nirerespeto ni jackie mga anak niya, pero dapat pagisipan niya muna mga ginagawa niya. Sana maisip din niya ano mararamdaman ng mga anak niya.

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  66. Jackie got what she wants....magmukhang api, magmukhang masamang magulang si benjie at wife nya, magmukhang matigas ang puso ng mga bata.Slow clap for you!!! Sa ginawa nya na to, lalo lalayo loob ng mga bata.dinedma nga siya eh.if you'll check twitter nung 2 wala talgang banggit about her. saka mali style ni jackie.alam nya na mahal na mahal nung 2 si benjie at wife nito.as in taas ng tingin tas sisiraan mo.ay gud lak!lalo sila mabubwisit syo.wrong move!

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  67. Para sakin naging mabuting ina parin sya sa time na kasma nya mga ank nya.kahit teenager plang sya pinili parin nya na ituloy ang pinagbubuntis nya.bata pa sya masyado at sinamantala un ni benjie.kya kung nagkasala man sya ke benjie d dpt tinanggalan ang karapantan nya sa mga bata bilang isang ina.

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  68. ayan...hindi tuloy pinakinggan at mas lalong inisnab.kasi mas lalo pang pinalala by a public video,eh.haaaay

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  69. I'm a mom but I'm also a child who for sometime had a grudge on my mother. So I understand both sides. Let's just give it sometime. Maaayos din yan. Wag na lang ipilit at wag din siraan sina Benjie at stepmom. Kasi mas lalo lang magagalit yung mga bata pag sinisiraan sila. Sila kasi ang nag-aruga at nagparamdam ng pagmamahal sa kanila. Hindi nya makukuha ang loob ng mga bata sa ganung paraan.

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  70. For me, di ako convinced na na brainwash ang mga bata, malalaki na mga yan at may mga isip na kaya kung malayo man loob nila kay Jackie e decision nila yun. Di rin dapat gawing dahilan ni Jackie na di sya naging perfect mom sa mga bata dahil bata lang sya nung mabuntis e bakit nasundan pa yung pagbubuntis nya? Saka baka di naman yung pagiging mother nya ang issue dito baka pwede rin silipin yung pagiging wife nya. Baka di sya naging loyal kay Benjie na syempre di naman maitatago sa mga bata kung may nangyari man na ganun kaya ang symphaty ng mga bata talagang kay Benjie mapupunta. New family? para akin di nya dapat isinama sa video yan mas madadagdagan lang ang anger ng mga bata kay jackie dahil jan. For Jackie dadating din ang time na mapapatawad ka ng mga anak mo pero kailangan mong magtyaga sa paghihintay. Pasasaan ba yan at the end of the day e maayos din yan kailangan mo lang talagang maghintay.

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  71. Time lang, more time pa. At bawas din ng kanegahan JF :)

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  72. Napakadaling sabihin kina Andre at Kobe to give their mom a second chance, na kahit anong mangyari, nanay pa rin nila ito (w/c is true) pero hindi naman alam ng publiko kung ano yung pinagdaanan nina andre & kobe nung naghiwalay yung parents nila. Though, naaawa rin ako kay Jackie, siguro kelangan din niyang intindihin na pwedeng nasakatan talaga yung mga anak niya. Most of us kasi never expect someone close to be the source of transcendent pain. Judging from the photos, obvious naman na close na close sila dati at mahal na mahal nina Andre & kobe yung mama nila, so I think dapat bigyan ni Jackie ng time yung mga bata para ma-digest properly yung mga nangyari, kasi pwedeng masakit pa rin para sa mga anak niya yung nangyari before. Kahit na sobrang cliche, naniniwala pa rin akong blood is thicker than water, pasasaan ba't mapapatawad rin si Jackie ng mga anak niya. . Wag niya lang madaliin.

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  73. kahit anu mangyare nanay nyo pa din yan. ndi kayo naging tao kung ndi dahil sa kanya..

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