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Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Faded and Blemished

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Actor and father AF’s family life had never been as talked about than when the rumors about his former relationship FR’s alleged days of ingloriousness resurfaced.

AF and FR separated at a time when their kids TK were very young but matured enough to discern and understand issues. Such that when AF remarried, the new wife NW was the one who filled the void admiringly well. And if it were TK to rate NW, they would even say - with flying colors. TK’s not-so-good memories with FR haunted them so bad that they wished everything could just be buried in oblivion. For TK, there is no love lost for FR – from the very beginning.

Years after, the talented TK are shining brightly under the loving and competent guidance of AF and NW. The weary FR for her part, can only watch from afar at such loss. At the very least, TK have spoken and pointedly sent FR their sentiments.

To those privy, the alleged “sins” of FR were incalculable and far too sticky for AF and TK to handle. There were alleged reports of substance abuse, prurient s** details, dealing and misdealing of sorts, etc. The horrid details of TK’s experiences with FR left a big dent in their young minds. Once a supposed vacation with FR turned hell when TK were left alone to starve for hours in their cottage while FR partied with friends till the wee hours. FR resurfaced only the morning after - so wasted and drunk and physically hit the poor, hapless TK like mad. For AF, who to his friends had the patience of Job - it proved to be the last straw.

Prior to that, AF endured FR for anything and everything – even at the risk of being called ugly names for his alleged “tolerance” of FR. But after giving FR countless chances to redeem herself amid all the negativity that she brought him, AF finally gave way in resignation – and there was no turning back since.

”A man is relieved and happy when he has put his heart into his work and done his best.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

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148 comments:

  1. I'm back from my super sosyal vacay in Aruba! Sure na sure aketch that this is KaH! Sila lang naman ang faded and blemished eh! Buti pa mga KaF, always shining and shimmering. Like diamonds! Bongga! Apir!

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  2. I hope someday the kids will be able to forgive the mom. I always believe in second chances. Hoping for a happy ending. Life is too short to carry grudges.

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    1. everybody believes in second chances...eh tapos na diba? pang ilang chance nba to?!

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    2. Time heals all wounds.

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    3. nilalapastangan xa?oh well that's the bitter consequences of her previous actions.

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    4. Lahat ng ina mahal ang mga anak nila. Some just didn't know how to deal with the kids. Specially kung bata pa sila naging ina. But I truly believe that maternal instincts will come out pa din.

      Unfortunately, mukhang napuno na ang mga bagets. There's always a limit to everything, you know. I just hope that someday, the pain the kids felt would subside and the wounds heal.

      Kayang tiisin ng mga anak ang mga magulang, pero hinding hindi matitiis ng magulang ang mga anak.

      I thank you. Bow!

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    5. Sino ang mga to? Sensya na, not updated to showbiz news lately. CLUES PLEASE!

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    6. Ay hindi rin totoo na hindi kayang tiisin ang magulang ang anak. Ako nga galit na galit ang Daddy ko sa akin kasi nakikipag communicate ako sa mom ko. Pati ang anak ko na first apo nya na 1st time nyang makita eh dinamay nya. Kahit pa humingi kami ng sorry sa kanya so hindi totoo yan

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  3. twin towers ang peg ng mga anak! i admire the dad for being an ideal parent. respect begets respect and it's obvious FR doesn't deserve it in the children's eyes.

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    1. Oh yeah.... and if you knew what they saw, you will even put in bold letters what you said. High-five!

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  4. Alam na why ayaw... J is that you?..

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  5. Heto yung nagsisisi na raw sya at huwag daw siyang husgahan Kaya lang mukhang huli na ang lahat...tsk..tsk..tsk.....!

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    1. Nagsisisi? Pwede ba? Nang-aaway pa din!! Tama ka, huli na at pinapalala pa niya!

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  6. S**LL never get her kids trust back coz she traumatized them.

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  7. now i know the reason behind TK's harsh words. cant blame them. even i will bear the same kind of hatred

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    1. indeed. indeed. there's more, actually, worse.

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  8. AF - B FR - J TK - A and K NW - L

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  9. AC - b FR - ex-wife

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  10. B and ex wife?

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  11. Kawawa naman yung kids, kaya naman pala ganun sila ka galit sa mudra nila. Tapos yung mudra naman kung makaasta parang walang nagawang mali. Hay!

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    1. Korek! Kung hindi na lang nagmamalinis ang mudrakels tapos umamin siya sa kanyang pagkakamali, mapapatawad pa siguro siya ng kanyang mga anak kaso yun nga, minanipulate pa niya ang kwento para sa kanya mapunta ang sympathy ng tao.

      Sana magkaayos pa rin sila sa huli.

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  12. si NW daw masama ugali

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    1. Di siguro kasi mukhang gusto naman siya ng mga step kids niya.

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    2. I heard about this also.
      She is feisty as well. I wonder who is more feisty between the two.
      But to be fair with her, I don't think the two boys would love her dearly if she didn't treat her well.

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    3. kung kasali ka sa libo-libong followers ni FR sa mga sns niya, mapapapaniwala ka ngang masama ugali ni NW dahil sa posts niya, siya ang malinis at salbahe ang madrasta. Pero sino ba ang mahal ng mga bata?

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  13. This is sad... sana give time and space na lang muna sa mga kids. In time they will learn to accept and welcome their mom back into their lives.

    It doesn't help na imbes na iadmit ng ina ang kanyang mga kasalanan, sya pa itong nagmamalaki at lumalabas na biktima. she is forcing things which is not good.

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    1. Time and space warp....ngayon din.....

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  14. Eto yung nagngangawa sa social media. Kesyo she wants to be loved and respected, blah... blah...

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    1. and what she wants, she gets when she wants it? tingnan mo nga naman. some things never change. still all about her, right?

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  15. Hula ko lang....Initials of AC's first name and FR's last name in the title. AC - a and c while FR is a baby-faced mestiza?

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    1. mali. AC- B (mahilig sa larong lalake) TK- junakis nyang same ng hilig nya FR- first wifey

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  16. AC- b na may series na ipplabas FR- ung ex wife na nagddrama

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  17. Siguro naman malinaw na sa atin kung bakit ganun na lang katindi ang galit ng mga anak ni FR. You really can't blame the kids (who are now grown-ups) for holding grudges against their mother.

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    1. I don't agree with you, yes ,blame the kids when they trash talk, if they have nothing positive to say then keep quiet

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    2. 8:32,the kids werent exactly trash talking.they were asking for their space to be respected and for them to be allowed to move on.there isnt anything wrong with that. What's wrong here is that afterwards,the mom came out and made a threatening statement.she's crazy,obviously.

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    3. @832am

      dapat tumigil na din tumalak ang nanay. hindi yung kung anno ano revelations kuno pa nalalaman niya.

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    4. they trash talked where? on T? because FR was attacking the parents who raised them! wouldn't you defend your family if anyone called them names? they didn't even say anything foul on TV. Are 'traumatized & space' bad words?

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  18. sobrang na traumatize siguro ang mga bata kaya ayaw ng makipag communicate sa ina. Oh well sana lang maayos pa kasi kahit anong sama ng ina, nanay, mo pa rin yon.

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    1. Tama! Mother, ina, nanay...kung wala sila, wala din ang mga anak.

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    2. Tama!! Kung walang ina, wala ang mga anak.

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    3. hindi ka nanay kung di ka magpapaka-nanay, there is more to motherhood than just giving birth ...egg donor ka lang pag nagkataon..

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    4. tama 4:28!

      Dahil ba sa malaki n mga bata tingin nya mapapatawad nya na? Dahil lang ba sa ina sya automatic mapapatawad sya, ineng pag puno na ang salop wala ka ng magagawa kundi hayaan ito

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    5. tama si 4:28, nanay na rin ako at nagpapalaki ng anak, yung nine months at paglabas sa anak ko ang pinakamadaling nagawa ko as a mother. Matagal ng tsismis to pero napakabait na nga ni B kung tutuusin kc hindi nya ginawang issue kahit matagal ng usap usapan.

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    6. Agree with 4:28

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    7. Lahat ng babae (pwera na lang ang infertile), kayang mag anak, pero hindi lahat, kayang maging INA. Motherhood is much more than just being a living incubator for 9 months.

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    8. sna dumating din yun ime na mg ka ayos cla, bka kung kelan wla na yung ina ska pa nila ito mptwad. wla ng chance....life is short ika nga!

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    9. 100AM hindi hiniling ng mga anak na isilang sila sa mundo kaya nasa mga magulang ang responsibilidad para itaguyod sila ng may dangal at ng maipagmalaki sila. kung sa sariling ina hindi nakakitaan ng maayos na halimbawa, anong aasahan mong mararamdaman ng anak?

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  19. FR - nag-quit sa show hosted by anak ni mm

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  20. J ba to ung may issue with her husband B?

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  21. AC legend sa pag-d, unang r & m

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  22. M na may mga junakis na gusto rin magshowbiz. Y mother ang peg ng mudra ng mga junakis.

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  23. is this B and J?

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  24. kids never lie...much more they had painful experiences from tier parent/s...

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  25. af- mahilig sa b fr - mahilig sa l

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  26. Bf yata eto ni M

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  27. kaya pala...i was clueless why they separated. the kids, especially the younger one, they are so adorable. I happen to meet the younger kid. He's so nice. very reticent. and is a great player.

    just my two cents. the kids should learn to forgive her. even just to forgive her. no one is righteous enough not to be able to forgive.

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    1. but everyone should also be smart enough to dissociate themselves from negative or destructive forces in their lives.kudos to the kids!

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    2. forgiveness is not the issue. they have long forgiven but the scars will forever be there. they never talk about her. this only surfaced bec she keeps trashing the parents who raised them.

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  28. Love for their mom has faded. How sad. Maybe someday, forgiveness & acceptance will happen. In due time.

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    1. Don't force them. Mga bata pa syempre fresh ang memories and they need to heal. Just give them time. Yung pagiing bata magasawa hindi na excuse yun. May napanood ako sa M, forget her name, 14 yrs old nagkaanak she leatned to be a mother on her own. E sya she cana fford a yaya, she can easily cal the yaya to check the kids?

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  29. FR - J AF - The T TK - A and K NW - L Kaya pala galit na galit ang mga TK

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  30. Ang mga b teens na ngayon na ayaw makita ang nanay.. I sympathize with them.. At naiintindihan ko din sila why.. Pero sana mapatawad nila ang ina balang araw.. Just forgiveness kahit after noon wala ng cheesy bonding or kadramahan.. For their own sake..

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  31. nag-aartista na rin ba anak ng m? if yes, sure na! sya ang hula ko

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  32. Like what she played in a r TV, this she might not Survive. Trust is a key to every relationship, whatever form.

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  33. AC - title nun isang movie ni b, FR - J

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  34. The T and The Force

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  35. Kawawa nmn. Kasi nmn she's so young noong nag asawa siya. Kaya nmn talagang mahahabol siya sa mga na walang time sa youth niya. Blame the husband, dapat naisip niya yon siya Ang older.

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    1. Ang kawawa dito yung mga kids na na-traumatize sa ginawa nya sa kanila. Youth isn't always a valid excuse to be immature, especially when you should be responsible for children.

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    2. oo nga....dapat yung father inintindi yun at xa dapat ang bridge pra mapatawad kahit papano ng mga anak nila ang mother nila...pro mukhang sulsol pa..lalo na ang m..di galit ang mother sa kids niya....dun sa mga matatanda xa galit...

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    3. huh? Ako nga may kakilala 13 buntis na pero hindi sya naging pabayang ina. Wag dapat isisi sa ibang tao ang mga decision mo.

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    4. the problem with our society is that we're still stuck sa idea that women are always kawawa.wake up!porke't mas malaki yung lalake,ibig sabihin ang nakawawa dito is yung girl?women can be just as destructive than men,if not more.which speaks true on this case.the mom should see the sad truth that what she's getting is merely the direct consequences of her actions.responsibilidad ng mga magulang na protektahan ang mga anak nila,which the Dad did,sadly,from their own mother.taas-kamay ako sa tatay na 'to in this case.

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  36. @ Anon 1:20 Am

    Anong kawawa? Ang dami ko kilala na nag-asawa ng ganyang edad pero di naman naging ganyan samga anak nila. Sisishin pa ba yung ama? Haller!

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    1. Oo, dapat talagang siyang sisihin dahil hinyaan niyang lumaking may galit ang mga anak niya sa ina nila. Oo, nasaktan sila ng ina nila pero hindi ba pwedeng intindihin na lang dahil hindi siya perpektong ina? 'Yong about sa s**, problemang mag-asawa na 'yon labas na sila dun. Pero hindi eh kasi parang pinalaki yata silang may galit sa ina nila kaya hindi sila naghesitate na idisrespect ito, eh? For me, sapat na na lumalapit na 'yong ina nila sa kanila. That is enough sign of repentance.

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    2. Sorry, but tama lang yung nangyayari sa ina. She should be responsible for her actions. Like in the saying, you do a crime, you do your time. Yung time na iyon eh nag-expire na. The bagets may forgive her but they will never forget. Lalo na kung me basis of comparison. Yung step mom being a lot better than the real mom. They will always say bakit nagkaganun? Di ka makakapamili ng blood relationship never kaya kung minamalas, sorry. Ngayon she has all the time to repent but will the kids give it to her? Nope, she is responsible for her actions.

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    3. well the repentance you were saying should have done way before lumaki ng sobra ang galit sa kanya ng mga bata. why would you blame the father when all this time he was the persistent one who raised and worked hard for the kids. don't you think natrauma din sya for what happened? what these kids need is compete counselling if the trauma stiil haunts them. and for the mother, better distant herself from them first they'll be ready to face her anyway pagdating ng araw.

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    4. Hindi hawal ng tatay ang isip ng anak. Nakakagay naman sa BI na tinotolerate ng tatay ung pinagagagawa ng nanay but the vacation incident was the last straw. Na witness ng mga kids ang nangyari at napagbuntungan pa sila ng kalasingan ng nanay. Khet sabihin ng tatay na patawarin ang nanay, Mismo mga bata ang ayaw, Hindi dahil sa pagsulsol ng tatay at stepmom kundi dahil mga bata Mismo ang nakaexperience

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    5. ANON july 10, 2013 4:02AM

      sisihin ang ama? ilagay mo nga ang sarili mo sa mga anak nila? kung ikAW yung ginawan ng hindi maganda ng nanay mo, kahit anong paliwanag ng tatay mo, bale wala pa din yun. mali magalit sa iyong ina, pero yung mga bata mismo nakakita ng ginawa ng nanay nila, na-trauma talaga sila. mababago ba non an isip mo? siguro matagal na panahon pa bago maging ok sila lahat

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    6. Mahirap mabura ang trauma sa isip at puso ng mga bata. Kahit ipagpilitan pa ni father na bigyang respeto ng mga bata si ex wife, wala sya (PATI TAYO) magagawa para baguhin ang nararamdaman ng mga batang 'to.

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    7. Pag lumapit na yung ina tingin nyo mabubura na lang bigla ang sakit na ginawa nya da mga anak nya??? Pag naabuso ka nung bata ka pa mas madalas sa hindi, dala-dala mo yun hanggang pagtanda mo.

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    8. Ok lang magalit sa magulang pero huwag naman 'yong babastusin mo sila ng walang pakundangan. Pwede naman 'yong nagagalit ka na hindi mo sila binabastos, eh? Not unless kung itinakwil ka ng ina dahil for me, that's a deal breaker at 'yon ang pinakamasakit sa lahat.

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  37. kaya pla ganun ung post nung bata. I think being a mother at an early age is not a reason to leave your son starving, then hit him after while your drunk. That says something about a person's personality. maaring me mga pgkukulang kang mgawa sa anak mo, but not to that extent. Teenage moms may be reckless, but violent?

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    1. Correct!!! There's no excuse for violence! I'm a mom of two kids, patience is really a test of character. Just because you married young doesn't justify your violent actions - plus to your own children pa?! Siguro kung towards the husband masasabi mo pa, ah, ok, grabeh siguro away nila mag-asawa but towards helpless kids??? Hay...

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  38. faded and blemish f and b

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  39. For the mom you reap what you sow sana lang if she wants to gain love and respect from her sons she should do it privately di naman kasalanan ng tatay kung nag salita ang mga anak ng ganoon they're all grown up na kasi.

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  40. Napakaselfish, childish, at irresponsible na nanay tsk tsk! Naiimagine ko yung ginawa nya sa mga bata nakakaawa yung mga anak nya. Nasa huli talaga ang pagsisisi. Matigas ang ulo nitong si ex wife kahit noon pa. Takaw gulo. She deserves it. Dapat magtanda sya ngayong hindi na sya bata. maglumuhod ka sa mga anak mo at ipakita mong nagsisisi ka sa nagawa mo. Good luck!

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  41. Everything had gone wrong in the first place. FR was a child bride, Where were her guardians that time that she got herself in that kind of situation? As for AF, he shouldn't have had a relationship with FR when she was immature and a minor. Kudos for the kids, they are well-raised, though unfortunately, their childhood trauma still haunts them. If they had witnessed and experienced really horrid things with FR and are now cold to her, don't blame them - childhood memories can never be really forgotten.

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    1. correct, and a lot of adilt issues stem from a bad childhood

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  42. The b and s.a noon. Para hindi na siya kilalanin ng mga anak. Malakai nga ang kasalanan. Kesyo may pasabog din daw sya. As if naman reliable pa sya.

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    1. Ah, may pasabog pa talaga syang nalalaman. Good luck na lang sa kanya kung ganun dahil lalo syang isusumpa ng mga anak nya. Nakita ko rin sa w entry ni AF na no mention din si FR dun. Sa totoo lang, duda rin ako sa mga intention ni FR eh. Kung sincere talaga sya eh bakit ngayong sumisikat ang mga anak eh bigla syang sumulpot. Kapi Kat

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  43. No need to guess.. It may take time for the kids to heal up all wounds and J may need to wait a lot longer but it's the price she has to pay for all things she had done. Nothing can be more hurtful than your own flesh and blood betraying you.

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  44. this is a family and private matter. sana lang ay tumahimik na lang ang Nanay. pasasaan ba at maghihilom ang lahat ng hurt ng mga bata. I wish them all well.

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  45. hay, hindi ko alam. balik sa row 4. yan ang hirap pag matagal ng nasa US. more clues, please.

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  46. The mom should redeem her self first. Not only she will gain self respect but other's as well including her kids. Forgiveness will come next. Goodluck!

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  47. Gaano man kasama ang nanay, dapat niririspeto ng mga bata. Baligtarin mo man ang mundo, siya pa rin ang nanay nila na nagbigay buhay sa kanila. Dapat magpakita ang mga bata ng respeto sa magulang, lalo na kung ang mga bata ay galing sa Catholic schools. Kaso hindi rin tama ang kanilang kilos at salita. They also lack decency, good manners and right conduct. Kahit na sabihin mong malalaki na sila, maturuan din sana ng tama ang mga bata ng kanilang mga magulang.

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    1. Sir, your values cannot erase a trauma. Ikaw ba, papairalin mo ba ang values mo kapag ninanakawan ka na? Eto tayo sa usapang religion e. Learn child development and psychology first before you talk about these kinds of things.

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    2. sometimes it takes more than bringing a child into this world to be rightfully called a "mother", hindi porket nagluwal ka, nanay ka na, may iba nga dyan, di sila ang naglabas sa bata pero mas karapat dapat pang tawaging ina

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  48. Sino to? Hindi ko pa rin sila kilala. More clues please! :)

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  49. kung may maganda man na naiambag ang mother sa kanyang kids, iyon ay ang magandang mukha ng mga kids. Ang guguwapo!

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  50. I've always believed that children adore their parents; boys think that the most beautiful woman in the world are their mothers while girls want a husband like their fathers. So if the kids hate their parents so much, there is a good reason for it. Maybe they (parents) have disappointed them (kids) or shown a very bad example. I cannot blame their sons on this. Di naman pwede sabihin kung wala ang Nanay wala ring mga anak. Kase di naman utang na loob ng mga anak na ipinanganak sila sa mundo. It's the parents' choice noh. Mahirap ang pinagdaanan ng mga kids na ito kaya ganun na lamang katindi ang galit at hatred nila sa Nanay kaya intindihin na lang natin.

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    1. Very well said! You think they'd choose her to be their mother if they had a choice? And don't say they won't be that handsome if not for her bec no beauty can cover for the trauma she caused them.

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    2. you took the words out of my mouth, so true, sons usually adore their mothers very much so i'm wondering where the hatred of the kids is coming from to disown their own mother and i don't think it's due to the father brainwashing them, if i remember correctly, this ex-wife was involved in different controversies in the past, so, yeah, she was no stellar mom, can't blame the kids

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  51. Oh, my! Ganun pala. Now i know kung saan nanggagaling galit ng mga bata. Can't blame them. But i hope that someday they will find it in their hearts to forgive their mother. Cliche mang sabihin, she is still their mom who bore them for 9 months and gave birth to them. Without her, wala din sila dito. I know forgiveness will take time. Wait na lang si mommy kung kailan yun.

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    1. The older son said, forgiveness is not the issue. He is broken bec of her. He has long forgiven but his bad memories continue to haunt him and her current embarrassing behavior on her sns just add insult to his injuries.

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    2. I think they were brainwashed. The kids were so young then.

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  52. ang gagwapong mga bata....

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  53. So far yung kasamaan lang nung nanay ang nababasa natin, at yung father puro kabutihan.

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  54. Just wanted to share, My dad left me, my mom, who was then only 20, and my 2 other siblings for his mistress when I was only 1 years old.. My lolo and Lola were the ones who raised us. There were a few encounters with him as we were growing up, because he would be in town sometimes. We finally got to talk to him when I was 16 years old before we left for the USA and he didn't even remember my name. Even after all that, I never hated him. My mom doesn't like him until now and she never understood why we don't feel the same. It just depends on the severity I guess.

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    1. You don't hate him because you didn't witness him do bad things despite the stories you were probably told. In the case of TK, they saw a lot with their own eyes.

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    2. you were too young to understand what happened

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  55. It takes maturity to forgive and forget. Just like the kids, cgro bata pa din ung nanay nila when they had them and hindi pa siya tapos ma-enjoy ang life. Mali ung ginawa ng nanay, totoo kc bata pa siya and same sa kids, bata pa din cla para hindi pa nila makalimutan un but I guess, depende din sa mga taong nakapaligid sa mga bata kung pano cla makaka move on at matatanggap lahat. I believe na pag happy ka and contented ka sa life mo, no reason para magtanim ka ng galit sa puso mo. At the end of the day, nagawan ka man ng hindi maganda, mas masarap pa din matulog sa gabi ng walang galit sa puso. I guess eventually, marerealise din ng mga kids na nanay pa din nila un. Sana lang, pag dumating ung time na un ay hindi pa din huli ang lahat, kundi. dadalin nanaman nila un.

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  56. forgiveness will come in time, wag lang muna ipilit ngaun.

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  57. Kaya naman pala ganun na lang ang galit ng mga bata. Sus kung makapagsabi dito ang iba na kahit ganun kasama ang nanay dadapt pa rin nirerespeto. Respeto is earned hindi yan kusang binibigay or hinihingi. Kung sakit ang itinanim mo sakit din ang aanihin mo. Yung iba dito kung makapagsabi akala mo mga ulirang anak. If I know kung kayo ang nasa kalagayan ng mga batang yun baka isinumpa nyo pa nanay nyo.They are asking for space. Hindi naman nila binabastos nanay nila. So let them be.

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    1. Respeto is earned hindi yan kusang binibigay or hinihingi - "Hindi yan applicable sa magulang, magulang 'yan, eh? Kahit anong mangyari magulang pa din 'yan sa ayaw mo man o hindi! Pwede kang magalit pero huwag 'yong babastusin mo sila sa harap ng tao. Once din akong nagalit sa magulang ko pero nung dumating 'yong time na may nananakit sa kanila parang nasasaktan din ako dahil magulang ko sila, eh? So, nandoon pa din 'yong lukso ng dugo na tinatawag if you know what I mean".

      Oo naman meron pang mga ulirang anak ngayon, noh? Huwag mong ikumpara na ang lahat ay pawang walang manners.

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  58. May mabilis sumagot para ipagtanngol ang side ni b...one sided ang story...parang puro sa mom ang blame...it is not impossible for the kids to forgive their mom esp if the mom is reaching out for them unless the kids are brainwashed and controlled by significant others..

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    1. pwede ring hindi nagsasalita ang kabilang side dahil ayaw na nilang patulan si j.at walang imposible.hindi magkapareho ang generation noon at ngayon.today's generation of kids know what they want and mature faster

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    2. Ayan nanaman ang word na yan - brainwash. You seriously think kids this old can still be brainwashed? How can they be brainwashed for things that they did not experience firsthand? Don't you think they would go off on their own to find out the truth if they somehow doubted the adults who raised them? They SAW the truth. They know better than any of us readers here. Kaya nga sila traumatized eh!

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  59. I admire the way AF admonished TK and told TK to just say "No comment" when asked about FR.

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  60. well, if i've been in their shoes, those kids, siguro i would react the same....

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  61. NKKLK itong mother na itey, ang sabi nya she will reach out once lang daw sa mga kiddos at if ever patawarin daw sya or hindi eh it is a "reflection" daw! May pagkamaldits talaga. Kung hindi ka pa kayang patawarin aba hintayin mong maging handa sila bata pa rin kasi sila eh hindi yung parang may ultimatum ka pa na kapag hindi pinatawad eh there's somethign wrong on how they've been raised or worse something wrong with the kind of person they are right now! Kung titingnan naman eh yung mga anak nyo eh mukang maayos naman at nakakapag-aral sa magandang school.

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  62. Oh. So she really deserve what's happening now. She did not and still do not deserve respect. She had no right to be a mother at all. I understand the kids. She may be the one who carried them for nine months inside her but that's about it. Blood thicker than water thing is so over-rated.

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  63. Puhleease spare us the "kung wala ang magulang, wala din sila" reasoning. Hindi pinili ng mga anak na ipanganak sila dito, lalo na kung ganyan ang magulang.

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    1. true. maswerte na lang din talaga that their dad loves them so much.. he made up for all the mom's shortcomings

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  64. i dont know if AF and NW failed as a parent... TK grew with hate in their heart wala man lang bang happy memories na pwedeng mag alis ng galit sa puso nila? di ba nila naturuan kung paano magpatawad ang mga bata? dapat ginawa nila un, una palang..

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    1. Kasama natun sila buong araw teh?! Napapanuod natin buong buhay nila 24/7?? Pwde naman happy & contented sila til the "mother" comes back along db?! Naisip ba natin un?

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    2. I think happy memories between them and the mother and tinutukoy niya, 12:03.

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    3. sa tingin ko mas tumatak sa mga bata yung trauma na naranasan nila..kaya nga 'trauma' ang tawag nila kasi mahirap makalimutan at masakit. siguro mas nangingibabaw yung sakit na naramdaman nila nun kaysa yung 'happy memories'. remember, wala tayo nung nangyari sa kanila ang mga nangyari sa kanila so we really can't blame them kung may pinaghuhugutan sila..

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  65. Madaling magpatawad,mahirap makalimot. Mahirap kalimutan na yung ina mo na dapat aalagaan at proprotektahan ka ang syang nagpabaya sa yo. Puede naman patawarin, puede rin naman na wag na lang sya maging parte ng buhay ng mga bata. Kung mahal ni J mga anak nya, hayaan na muna nya mga anak nya. Manahimik na lang sya.

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  66. Everyone has had issues and have done things they wish they hadn't. At the end of the day, she's a person and a mother like a billion other women out there.

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  67. I'm really curious as to what FR has to say about AF. Kasi parang one-sided lang ang naririnig kong story. Nagmamalinis itong si AF eh baka may alam itong si FR na hindi natin alam. Let's hear what she has to say before we take sides.

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    1. Oo nga eh.. Sana magsalita na siya.

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  68. Enough for the brainwash excuse.. sa telenobela lang ang brainwash brainwash na yan. In real life there's no such thing!

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    1. karek!bakit nga ganun umarte ang mga celebrities?feeling nila life is one big teleserye?wake up and face reality,hello!

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  69. Bottomline, the victims here are TK. Yung nga nagsasabing dapat respetuhin dahil nanay siya, ang pagiging nanay ay more than giving birth. Hindi natin alam kung ano ang nawitness nina TK. Wala tayo sa pamilya nila, we can only give an opinion about what they are going through. Basta ang TK mahal na mahal nila ang tatay at stepmom, and that's already a manifestation of what kind of parents they are.

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  70. I think we're predisposed to love and adore our mothers from the minute we were born.after all, we totally depended on them since birth.. un ung special bond ng mother and child na di basta basta nabubuwag.. it must have been terrible things then what the mother did to her children.. for the love to be replaced by anger and resentment... and compared with other wounds, i believe this one is even harder to get over.. especially, if wla naman happy and good memories with the mother na pwde makareplace sa mga traumatic ones.. kahit na me other people around who were willing to give them new memories.. kids will always associate pain and trauma with the mother..

    and di ba sabi nga, when u wound a child, it becomes a burden that stays with him forever.. the pain may lessen in time, but the scar stays..

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    1. Galing mo. Ang Ganda ng mga sinabi mo. Kudos! Sana kasing talino mo yung nanay na walang ginawa, kahit malayo na siya, kundi saktan at bigyan ng kahihiyan ang mga anak niya.

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  71. Both parties are at fault here. The Bio Mother, should just keep it down. If she really wants to reach out, keep it private and sincere. Don't go on social media frenzy.. As for the Ex hubby and new wife, I wonder what kind of upbringing these Children had? They have foul mouths and temper.. And they are proud to show it in public (SM). Regardless of how traumatic they've gone through, it should never be an excuse to be rude. Unless they have their "parents" blessing. The Father has a point, in saying he cannot control his kids anymore but if good values were instilled unto them; I don't think they will behave like this, especially if they are aspiring to be public figures. If Both parties are these arrogant, I don't this will be resolved any time soon. God bless.

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  72. Saludo ako kay AF. Not only did he protect his kids pero pati na rin ang dignidad ni FR. To think na ngayon lang natin nalaman ang "totoong" dahilan ng hiwalayan nila noon, proves na desente siyang tao at ayaw mang-apak ng ibang tao. He did not say a thing about what happened because he knows that TK will be the ones who will be in pain in the process of doing so. He kept quiet all this years, kung totoo man yung kwento sa taas, hindi lang ang mga anak niya ang pinrotektahan niya kundi pati si FR (sa kahihiyan.)

    Mahirap makalimutan ang isang traumatic experience especially kung bata ka pa, at dun nagkakaroon ng mga phobia sa mga trauma na ito. Sana isipin na lang ni FR na in God's time mapapatawad din siya ng mga anak niya..

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