Di ba pwede mag file ng restraining order magkakapatid? Kung eto magulang ko nakuuuu… patawad po Lord pero mas mahalaga ang buhay Na regalo mo sa akin kaya aalagaan at iingatan ko.
Honor your father and mother doesn’t mean blind obedience, lalo na kung absent parents sila or nag-cause ng trauma from childhood hanggang adulthood. Respect is still important, pero hindi ibig sabihin na you ignore the pain or tolerate harmful behavior. Honor can mean boundaries, healing, and choosing what is healthy for for the children/child too.
The emotional trauma( distress, manipulation and abuse) is different from physical abuse. Both carry the same weight and depth but the effect on the kids are all different. Napapalo man ako o nakukurot nung bata pa ko, pero ang sakit ng pinapahiya ka sa ibang tao at ramdam mo na hindi ikaw ang paborito or a parent sees you as a competition. Thats's me. Sa case ko, masakit ang mga salita kasi di mo na mababawi lalo na pag bata ka pa lang naririnig mo na. Kaya lumaki din ako na insecure at hindi confident sa sarili. Eto siguro ang nararamdaman ng mga anak nya. Resigned and too exhausted. The difference is, mahal ko pa din ang magulang ko. Maybe one day, magkakaayos din sila when Dennis is ready to admit his mistakes and forgive himself and his kids are all willing to open their hearts again to their father. Naniniwala pa din ako na God heals all wounds in His time.
Wawa naman si astig Dennis wala nang ma post na latest pictures man lang nila mag ama, puro luma na lang alam nya ipost. Ganyan talaga pag dika huwarafng ama
Dahil hindi mo na kailangan magbayad ng child support kaya super clingy ka na ngayon sa kanilang tatlo, since may may mga sariling income na sila, naghope yata si Dennis na mabiyayaan mula sa tatlo. Hindi niya inisip na love, protection and respedct ang needed ng mga anak nya kay Marjorie mula noon pa. Tapos ngayon si Dennis pa ang talak ng talak para maging kawawa. Not only nakakahiya sa mga anak but mentally and emotionally drained na talaga sila si Julia.
May movie kasi si Dennis with Robin kaya need mag ingay
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ReplyDeleteKawawa talaga din sila Julia, Claudia & Leon for having a manipulative father.. acknowledge sila when it’s convenient, laging pavictim si Dennis.
ReplyDeleteJusko eto talaga yung winiwish mo sana ibang tatay nalang ang tatay mo! Ugh! I feel for his children!
ReplyDeleteNakakapagod na yung never-ending drama ni Dennis.. sabi nya ang kapal ng mga anak nya and ituring na patay, tapos ayan nanaman 😓😓
ReplyDeleteGsto tlga sa knya spotlight well gets q nman masakit pero you could've settle this back door. Mghahabol kpa e sperm nga lng ambag mo tsk
ReplyDeleteNakakabaliw yung ganitong tatay taon2 ka sasaktan mentally
ReplyDeleteDi ba pwede mag file ng restraining order magkakapatid? Kung eto magulang ko nakuuuu… patawad po Lord pero mas mahalaga ang buhay Na regalo mo sa akin kaya aalagaan at iingatan ko.
DeleteIt is in the commandment, obey and honor your parentsl
ReplyDeleteColossians 3:21
Delete“Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.”
Ephesians 6:4
“Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger…
Never forget!! hindi lang pro-parents ang bible!!
Honor your father and mother doesn’t mean blind obedience,
Deletelalo na kung absent parents sila or nag-cause ng trauma from childhood hanggang adulthood. Respect is still important, pero hindi ibig sabihin na you ignore the pain or tolerate harmful behavior. Honor can mean boundaries, healing, and choosing what is healthy for for the children/child too.
Lol… buuin mo buong utos. Wag mo i shortcut
DeleteGood riddance! Just cut him out entirely. Clearly, he never had the best intentions for you. Blood does not equate to family, the relationship does.
ReplyDeleteThe emotional trauma( distress, manipulation and abuse) is different from physical abuse. Both carry the same weight and depth but the effect on the kids are all different. Napapalo man ako o nakukurot nung bata pa ko, pero ang sakit ng pinapahiya ka sa ibang tao at ramdam mo na hindi ikaw ang paborito or a parent sees you as a competition. Thats's me. Sa case ko, masakit ang mga salita kasi di mo na mababawi lalo na pag bata ka pa lang naririnig mo na. Kaya lumaki din ako na insecure at hindi confident sa sarili. Eto siguro ang nararamdaman ng mga anak nya. Resigned and too exhausted. The difference is, mahal ko pa din ang magulang ko. Maybe one day, magkakaayos din sila when Dennis is ready to admit his mistakes and forgive himself and his kids are all willing to open their hearts again to their father. Naniniwala pa din ako na God heals all wounds in His time.
ReplyDeleteIt is without a doubt you are a sperm donor.that’s it.
ReplyDeleteWawa naman si astig Dennis wala nang ma post na latest pictures man lang nila mag ama, puro luma na lang alam nya ipost. Ganyan talaga pag dika huwarafng ama
ReplyDeleteDahil hindi mo na kailangan magbayad ng child support kaya super clingy ka na ngayon sa kanilang tatlo, since may may mga sariling income na sila, naghope yata si Dennis na mabiyayaan mula sa tatlo. Hindi niya inisip na love, protection and respedct ang needed ng mga anak nya kay Marjorie mula noon pa. Tapos ngayon si Dennis pa ang talak ng talak para maging kawawa. Not only nakakahiya sa mga anak but mentally and emotionally drained na talaga sila si Julia.
ReplyDeleteAwat na.. hindi pa ba kayo nag sasawa or nahihiya sa mga family issues niyo…
ReplyDeleteBuhay na naman ang dugo ng astiging tatay. May pang-content na naman siya
ReplyDeleteMarjorie’s kids are adults and they can cutoff toxic people for their peace of mind
Deadbeat dad, gaslighter and narc pa
narcissistic parents will never reflect but blame others for their own failures
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