FB Scoop: Binibining Maragusan 2026, Samantha Aldeano, Admits Staying Professional as Derrick Monasterio Was Too Close for Comfort during the Binibining Davao de Oro Coronation Night
Derrick, this is borderline to Sexual Harrashment. This is unwanted advances. Keep your hands to yourself, please... And RESPECT women and their boundaries. What will Elle, your girlfriend say about watching this?
In America and other countries, there is a #Me Too movement, a global campaign against sexual harassment, abuse and rape culture. Majority of men in the world especially in Hollywood are abusive and sexist towards women especially boss and directors and producers.
In Hollywood and other countries, they will put on you on a blacklist with lawsuits and You will be OUT of work, if your do not respect women. Nowadays, women even the good and kind-hearted women are going to speak up and NOT will tolerate touchy, physical and mind games and sexual advances because those are types of abuse.
Be a good and kind man, Derrick. Ask forgiveness and make amends. Do not disrespect women. Think about the women in your family.
Physical assault - is a result of physical injuries like kicking , choking, burning, punching, throwing objects or using weapons leading to bruises, broken bones, laceration etc
Sexual assault - unwanted sex or forced sex without the person consent e g. Rape.
Sexual harrashment - unwanted touching, unwant groping, unwanted kissing.
1:45am no its not okay. people of all genders should respect bounderies. its just that it happens a lot to women and most of the time we feel helpless about it.
pero kapag yung babae sobrang iduldol mukha niya sa lalake at halikan pa yung guy without his permission ok lang sa inyo. na dapat matuwa pa yung guy. hahaha.
There are narcissistic, abusive, manipulative, inconsistent and controlling people in the world but some of them are not aware of this toxic behavior because they don't see it as a problem (lack of self-awareness nor understand the impact of their toxicity towards others) nor seek treatment. Keep everything professional.
Just treat people like the way you want to be treated. IF you make mistakes, apologize and make amends. Saying "sorry" needs change.
1.28 parehong di ok. mapababae or lalaki. As long walang permission at it makes someone uncomfortable and Sexually violated. It is a form of sexual harassment.
6:34 pm, That's how Julia Barretto and her siblings were develop "trauma" from thier father because he always shouts with loud domineering voice and curses. Nagbubuhay rin ng kamay
YUNG NAGSERENADE KA NG HINDI MO KILALA KAYA HAPIT NA HAPIT YUNG KAMAY MO SA KATAWAN NG VAVAE PARA SA KILIG NG MGA MAHIHINANG UTAK NA MANUNUOD AT PARA SA HYPE NG EVENT
Because when you are a celeb, famous and backed by the movers and shakers of the network industry, you can pretty much do anything you want en penas :D :D :D Penoys are happy using their clout for work and play but when the shoe is on the other foot, you complain ;) ;) ;) May word doon eh... ano nga ba un?? :) :) :)
Napansin ko sa mga Filipino lalaki, kulang ang respeto nila sa mga babae, gusto hawak dito at hawak doon at yakap dito at doon, tingnan kung makakalusot at walang magreklamo.
Backward pa rin mga mentality ng ibang lalaki sa mga babae.
10.53 Filipino men suck really because some Filipino women condone this just like like 1.38pm. she said he's astang hearthrob. That means if a man is a hearthrob he can do this. WTF!
Just be gentle and supportive and understanding. Regardless if women will like you or not. It will speaks your character as a man and as a person on how you treat a woman. And also on how to treat when she rejects you. Be calm and be a gentleman always. Woman are not toys to be played around nor property to be groped, except in marriage. In married life, respect still exists between a husband and his wife
Yong mga bagay na ganito ang unacceptable. Mas grabe ito kaysa sa ginawa ni Vitaly na pinadeport ng Pinas. Oo maganda siya malamang crush niya pero hindi dapat humantong sa ganyan. You can imagine things like nung Suntay pero huwag yong ganito dahil direct assault na ito. Sana magreklamo yong girl para hindi siya pamarisan ng ibang manyak.
Bakit ginawa mong kumpetisyon teh? Lahat sila mali ang nagawa. Walang mas, walang pinaka. And also, let the woman decide what she feels and want to do. If she feels violated and wants to file a case, fine. If not, that’s also fine.
5.51 Sorry to disappoint you but according to the law there are various level of sentences. Hindi parehas ang sentensya sa homicide at iba ang sentensya ng sa murder. Huwag icompile lahat ng bagay sa iisang klase. Also im not demanding the girl to file a case, i said sana. Do you know the meaning of sana? Wow. Calm down girl. Lol.
He thought being a celeb he can do something like this. Kudos to the girl for speaking up. Pero siguro kung ako sya, pageant or no pageant ititulak ko si Derek at May kasabay na hampas.
This is not okay, Derrick. This can be considered as sexual misconduct. You are opening yourself to a possible complaints or lawsuit
The candidate does not know you, and even if you know this woman or any women friends in your life, you CAN NOT simply be touchy and too physical with them. There are boundaries you need to respect.
De, you shove your face, your body and your hands on her. She is not your girlfriend. Have some respect on her boundary. Not all women want sexual advances.
sexual harrasment na yan. nasa position pa ang girl na hindi makapalag dahil nasa beaucon siya. Kakanta ka lang naman Derrick, bakit ganyan ka close?Again, Womens month, madaming babae nababastos, in public pa
Ganyan palagi ang tingin ng mga boys sa babae. Always itching to have a touch on women within their reach. Experienced such on commute. The guy beside me would try to touch my knee with the side of his hand. Planning maybe to eventually put his hand on my knee. Damn their behaviors! When will they gonna stop being creeps?! Its like just a mere sight of a women's shadow would instantly activate their perverted mode.
IF a woman has a crush on a man, it does not give the man the "right" to do whatever he wants onto that woman considering they do not have a romantic relationship yet.
He is like an obsessed creep and it's making her feel awkward and she will runway.
In Japan, kids see taught to be kind human being and develop respect to each other. How to treat the elderly the proper way. So kids, grew up to be responsible, hard-working and respectful
Also teach men how to respect women and vice versa.
I am a Filipina and live in the west. Kapag may parties ang mga previous employers na pinagtatrabahuhan ko noon, some men will take advantage of it by being drunk and by physically touching me, andiyan yung halik sa pisngi na hindi beso, yung yakap na hihigpitan sa bandang chest area ko etc. Years passed, different employers, I can see the pattern. Two years ago ang pinaka malala na one guy colleague was trying to get in to my room (provided ng employer yung hotel rooms samin), he was so drunk that he didn't realize that he was harming me physically which resulted to scratches and bruises the next day. He was apologetic the next day cause I told him what happened.. I decided not to pursue any legal actions dahil part of us women, we always feel guilty and we always think it's our fault. Okay naman ang suot ko, wala naman akong pinakitang malaswa sa galaw ko. I didn't want any fuss, plus the guys has three children, I feel for the kids if he end up getting fired.
Since then, I stopped drinking. Since then, I don't want to be around people who are so drunk dahil I am scared of their actions. As the day goes by after the party bumalik paunti unti lahat ng nangyari and I remember how shocked and frozen I was during the time that he was grabbing my wrist and trying to drag me somewhere dark. I couldn't talk when he was touching my leg and trying to lean his head on my shoulder. (mind you, my friends became alarmed and saw the act, they then hid me from him. I told them not to tell any managers)
I shared my experiences for those who are so judgemental of women whenever we try to fight our battles. Those who victim blame us, you are the reason why I didn't purse a legal case against the colleague who violated me. I never wish this to anyone, but I don't think you will ever understand how it feels to be violated, whether it's physical or verbal.
I have pictures of my bruises and my scratches and if you comprehended my story, my colleagues saw the act and hid me from that culprit. I asked them not to report it. One of our colleagues had to forcely dragged him into his room due to his inappropriate behaviour.
To you 10:57, people like you shouldn’t exist in this world.
Yung mga nagsasabi na pag sa lalaki ito nangyari, ok lang. Sa kanila ok lang. Hindi ok sa mga babae. Bakit mo sila pipilitin na maging ok eh ayaw nila na ginagawa sa kanila yun.
OMG that is physical assault
ReplyDeleteLol. Iba ang physical assault!!!
DeleteWomen empowerment warriors, pasok!!!
DeleteKadiri tong guy na to! Awkward na yung girl di pa rin na gets, di ba may gf yan si boi?
DeleteOMG!!! "Physical assault," 12:49???
DeleteHaha
DeleteDerrick, this is borderline to Sexual Harrashment. This is unwanted advances. Keep your hands to yourself, please... And RESPECT women and their boundaries. What will Elle, your girlfriend say about watching this?
DeleteIn America and other countries, there is a #Me Too movement, a global campaign against sexual harassment, abuse and rape culture. Majority of men in the world especially in Hollywood are abusive and sexist towards women especially boss and directors and producers.
In Hollywood and other countries, they will put on you on a blacklist with lawsuits and You will be OUT of work, if your do not respect women. Nowadays, women even the good and kind-hearted women are going to speak up and NOT will tolerate touchy, physical and mind games and sexual advances because those are types of abuse.
Be a good and kind man, Derrick. Ask forgiveness and make amends. Do not disrespect women. Think about the women in your family.
Parang sexual misconduct, maging sexual assault pa yan if it is against the will of the woman.
DeleteIf sexual assault or sexual misconduct is a sexism. Many women are gonna because of lack of respect of their personal space.
Physical assault - is a result of physical injuries like kicking , choking, burning, punching, throwing objects or using weapons leading to bruises, broken bones, laceration etc
DeleteSexual assault - unwanted sex or forced sex without the person consent e g. Rape.
Sexual harrashment - unwanted touching, unwant groping, unwanted kissing.
act of lasciviousness
DeleteThe woman looks awkward. Her face looks unhappy
Deleteun lalake halatang gusto lang pagusapan at the expense of the lady. kadiri
DeleteWhy do we still have men like this guy who thinks this is okay?
ReplyDeleteQuestion, pag babae gunawa sa lalaki nyan ok lang sayo?
Deletethey just gonna say it's for show, no malice. although obvious na uncomfortable na si ate gurl, walang magawa kasi nasa pageant stage.
Delete128 you’re not getting 1258 point. Iba ang sagot mo sa tanong niya.
Delete1:28 parehong hindi okay. Okay na? Bottomline mali pa din si boy. Mali. Wrong. Unacceptable. Unprofessional. Gets?
Delete1:45am no its not okay. people of all genders should respect bounderies. its just that it happens a lot to women and most of the time we feel helpless about it.
Delete1:28 Syempre di rin yan ok kung babae gagawa sa lalaki at di ok dun sa lalaki!
DeleteSome Filipino men are not aware that they are sexist.
Delete1:28 am, Babae naman ang biktima dito. Kung reverse ang roles, it is a misconduct regardless of gender.
DeleteBut most men would welcome physical touch and closeness from a woman, lalo na kung maganda ang babae
pero kapag yung babae sobrang iduldol mukha niya sa lalake at halikan pa yung guy without his permission ok lang sa inyo. na dapat matuwa pa yung guy. hahaha.
Delete11:44 am, Simple solution. Do not get too close. Mahirap ba yun?
DeleteHere is a beauty pageant, kahit ayaw ng babae, hindi nakapaglag ang babae
11:44 am, Asan dyan na dinikit ng mukha ng babae sa lalaki? Address the topic at hand.
DeleteHindi iyong maghahanap ka ng ibang pag-uusapan. Kung dumating yan, eh di pagusapan mo. Ngayon babae ang biktima
Horrible people goes both ways. No exceptions
DeleteThere are narcissistic, abusive, manipulative, inconsistent and controlling people in the world but some of them are not aware of this toxic behavior because they don't see it as a problem (lack of self-awareness nor understand the impact of their toxicity towards others) nor seek treatment. Keep everything professional.
Just treat people like the way you want to be treated. IF you make mistakes, apologize and make amends. Saying "sorry" needs change.
1.28 parehong di ok. mapababae or lalaki. As long walang permission at it makes someone uncomfortable and Sexually violated. It is a form of sexual harassment.
Delete3:34 am, Some people are also impatient and ill-tempered and gets angry easily.
Delete6:34 pm, That's how Julia Barretto and her siblings were develop "trauma" from thier father because he always shouts with loud domineering voice and curses. Nagbubuhay rin ng kamay
DeleteYUNG NAGSERENADE KA NG HINDI MO KILALA KAYA HAPIT NA HAPIT YUNG KAMAY MO SA KATAWAN NG VAVAE PARA SA KILIG NG MGA MAHIHINANG UTAK NA MANUNUOD AT PARA SA HYPE NG EVENT
ReplyDeleteBecause when you are a celeb, famous and backed by the movers and shakers of the network industry, you can pretty much do anything you want en penas :D :D :D Penoys are happy using their clout for work and play but when the shoe is on the other foot, you complain ;) ;) ;) May word doon eh... ano nga ba un?? :) :) :)
ReplyDeleteWho are you talking about?
DeleteNapansin ko sa mga Filipino lalaki, kulang ang respeto nila sa mga babae, gusto hawak dito at hawak doon at yakap dito at doon, tingnan kung makakalusot at walang magreklamo.
DeleteBackward pa rin mga mentality ng ibang lalaki sa mga babae.
Pwede naman humawak, hands only. He is a guest for a pageant
DeletePero gusto ng mga lalaki ng halik, hawak, yakap and more.. maghana na lang kayo ng girlfriend. Huwag kani-kanino
10.53 Filipino men suck really because some Filipino women condone this just like like 1.38pm. she said he's astang hearthrob. That means if a man is a hearthrob he can do this. WTF!
DeleteKawawa ang girl.
ReplyDeleteGusto mag trend ni Derrick
napush to violating personal space ng beauty contestant.
baka nga hindi pa kilala yan Derrick ng mga Beauty contestants eh tapos astang heartthrob
DeleteWhen the girl becomes uneasy and awkward, he should take a hint and distance himself.
DeleteJust be gentle and supportive and understanding. Regardless if women will like you or not. It will speaks your character as a man and as a person on how you treat a woman. And also on how to treat when she rejects you. Be calm and be a gentleman always. Woman are not toys to be played around nor property to be groped, except in marriage. In married life, respect still exists between a husband and his wife
DeleteLabas na mga woke
ReplyDeleteThat's sexual harrashment
DeleteBat ganyan boses nya. Pati utak naipit
ReplyDeletemasyado nga touchy. halatang uncomfie na si girl.
ReplyDeleteMay bago na namang magiging National Issue
ReplyDeleteMalaking ew. Poging pogi sa sarili yan??
ReplyDeleteHe is handsome, tall with chiseled muscles and educated but this behavior a big, "NO".
DeleteHe maybe good looking but she is not into him. Keep everything professional.
Jusko walang concept ng personal space si kuya. Grabe...
ReplyDeleteYong mga bagay na ganito ang unacceptable. Mas grabe ito kaysa sa ginawa ni Vitaly na pinadeport ng Pinas. Oo maganda siya malamang crush niya pero hindi dapat humantong sa ganyan. You can imagine things like nung Suntay pero huwag yong ganito dahil direct assault na ito. Sana magreklamo yong girl para hindi siya pamarisan ng ibang manyak.
ReplyDeleteBakit ginawa mong kumpetisyon teh? Lahat sila mali ang nagawa. Walang mas, walang pinaka. And also, let the woman decide what she feels and want to do. If she feels violated and wants to file a case, fine. If not, that’s also fine.
Delete5.51 Sorry to disappoint you but according to the law there are various level of sentences. Hindi parehas ang sentensya sa homicide at iba ang sentensya ng sa murder. Huwag icompile lahat ng bagay sa iisang klase. Also im not demanding the girl to file a case, i said sana. Do you know the meaning of sana? Wow. Calm down girl. Lol.
DeleteGanyan po ba ang tamang pag serenade sirrr? Sana nag focus nalang sa singing kesa sa pagpapakilig kasi boses Mickey Mouse na eh.
ReplyDeletegumawa ng kalaswaan na eksena kc wlng boses,yuck
DeleteThat's too much may hawak pa talaga maybe sa ilang gays pwede yan but not for women
ReplyDeleteSo awkward and very inappropriate yun gnawa ni D
ReplyDeletepero pag gusto yung artista walang reklamo
ReplyDeleteewan ko lang hah pero yung kay paulo avelino grabe yung mga candidate kung makaarte
ReplyDeleteAnu kaya comment ng gf nya. Hindi nakakkilig boy
ReplyDeletepag si Daniel Padilla or likes na sikat talaga ay ganyan din ang reaction or otherwise na
ReplyDeletemutual naman ang kay Daniel. He takes care of his look. Maintain pa rin ang slim figure at angas style, mas relax na siya ngayon
DeleteHe thought being a celeb he can do something like this. Kudos to the girl for speaking up. Pero siguro kung ako sya, pageant or no pageant ititulak ko si Derek at May kasabay na hampas.
ReplyDeleteSana hinawakan na lang ang kamay at hinialikan niya. Mas class at disente panuorin. Dito sa video, he invaded her space kasi.
ReplyDeleteThis is not okay, Derrick. This can be considered as sexual misconduct. You are opening yourself to a possible complaints or lawsuit
ReplyDeleteThe candidate does not know you, and even if you know this woman or any women friends in your life, you CAN NOT simply be touchy and too physical with them. There are boundaries you need to respect.
Unwanted sexual touching - an interpersonal Sexism. You will get into trouble if that candidate is going to complained against you
ReplyDeleteDe, you shove your face, your body and your hands on her. She is not your girlfriend. Have some respect on her boundary. Not all women want sexual advances.
ReplyDeleteSome women see just friendly but it doesn't mean, they want to be touch.
DeleteIn foreign country, he will be facing jail time, monetary fine and included his name in community sexual predator list.
ReplyDeleteDude, she feels uncomfortable. Stop it! Don't touch her like your own her.
ReplyDeleteSir wala kang patawad kahit women's month respeto naman sa personal space tsk tsk
ReplyDeleteNaglabasan ang mga cringy men this Women's Month.
ReplyDeleteKung makahawak tong mga lalaking to wagas! Isa pa to!🙄🤨
ReplyDeletesexual harrasment na yan. nasa position pa ang girl na hindi makapalag dahil nasa beaucon siya. Kakanta ka lang naman Derrick, bakit ganyan ka close?Again, Womens month, madaming babae nababastos, in public pa
ReplyDeleteMay jowa si lalaki na Sparkle artist din ah. Pretty din yon. Kapal naman to act like this.
ReplyDeleteDerrick girlfriend is Elle Villanueva, matagal na sila. Maganda rin siya, napanood ko siya sa Voltes V Legacy
DeletePag pangit yan ibang usapan e
ReplyDeleteGanyan palagi ang tingin ng mga boys sa babae. Always itching to have a touch on women within their reach. Experienced such on commute. The guy beside me would try to touch my knee with the side of his hand. Planning maybe to eventually put his hand on my knee. Damn their behaviors! When will they gonna stop being creeps?! Its like just a mere sight of a women's shadow would instantly activate their perverted mode.
ReplyDeleteIF a woman has a crush on a man, it does not give the man the "right" to do whatever he wants onto that woman considering they do not have a romantic relationship yet.
DeleteHe is like an obsessed creep and it's making her feel awkward and she will runway.
Kaya huwag magpapaloko kahit disente o mabait kuno ang dating.
ReplyDeleteIn Japan, kids see taught to be kind human being and develop respect to each other. How to treat the elderly the proper way. So kids, grew up to be responsible, hard-working and respectful
ReplyDeleteAlso teach men how to respect women and vice versa.
Disgusting men!
ReplyDeleteTumawa pa ang mokong na hindi naman marunong kumanta.
ReplyDeleteTapos yong audience nagtitiling makita yong kabastusan na ginagawa. What the hell. Anong klaseng kultura meron ang Pinas?
ReplyDeleteBro, this is now how you win a woman.
ReplyDeleteOy, mgagalit ang girlfriend mo!!!
ReplyDeleteI am a Filipina and live in the west. Kapag may parties ang mga previous employers na pinagtatrabahuhan ko noon, some men will take advantage of it by being drunk and by physically touching me, andiyan yung halik sa pisngi na hindi beso, yung yakap na hihigpitan sa bandang chest area ko etc. Years passed, different employers, I can see the pattern. Two years ago ang pinaka malala na one guy colleague was trying to get in to my room (provided ng employer yung hotel rooms samin), he was so drunk that he didn't realize that he was harming me physically which resulted to scratches and bruises the next day. He was apologetic the next day cause I told him what happened.. I decided not to pursue any legal actions dahil part of us women, we always feel guilty and we always think it's our fault. Okay naman ang suot ko, wala naman akong pinakitang malaswa sa galaw ko. I didn't want any fuss, plus the guys has three children, I feel for the kids if he end up getting fired.
ReplyDeleteSince then, I stopped drinking. Since then, I don't want to be around people who are so drunk dahil I am scared of their actions. As the day goes by after the party bumalik paunti unti lahat ng nangyari and I remember how shocked and frozen I was during the time that he was grabbing my wrist and trying to drag me somewhere dark. I couldn't talk when he was touching my leg and trying to lean his head on my shoulder. (mind you, my friends became alarmed and saw the act, they then hid me from him. I told them not to tell any managers)
I shared my experiences for those who are so judgemental of women whenever we try to fight our battles. Those who victim blame us, you are the reason why I didn't purse a legal case against the colleague who violated me. I never wish this to anyone, but I don't think you will ever understand how it feels to be violated, whether it's physical or verbal.
That’s your side of the story. You probably didn’t pursue a case because there’s no case to pursue or you don’t have evidence to support your claims.
DeleteI have pictures of my bruises and my scratches and if you comprehended my story, my colleagues saw the act and hid me from that culprit. I asked them not to report it. One of our colleagues had to forcely dragged him into his room due to his inappropriate behaviour.
DeleteTo you 10:57, people like you shouldn’t exist in this world.
Kapal mo 10:57!!
DeleteKiss a$$ sa mga puti spotted si 10:57.
DeleteWoman becomes the woman that she is... ( peaceful or fighter or supporter or insecure) depending on how she is being treated.
ReplyDeleteThe energy you give, will be the same energy you will receive.
Yung mga nagsasabi na pag sa lalaki ito nangyari, ok lang. Sa kanila ok lang. Hindi ok sa mga babae. Bakit mo sila pipilitin na maging ok eh ayaw nila na ginagawa sa kanila yun.
ReplyDeletePR stunt lng yan, may new show kc si derrick so nag iingay
ReplyDelete