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Thursday, May 22, 2025

FB Scoop: Kylie Padilla Resonates with Fire Victim, Calls for Paid Maternity Leave and Postpartum Depression Awareness



Images courtesy of Facebook: Kylie Padilla


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  1. Napanood ko ito sa balita, Sobrang naawa ako sa nanay lalo na sa mga bata. Yang nanay nag pa blotter pa sa brgy bago nangyari ang pagsunog, kasi may away silang mag asawa at nakikisali daw ang byenan. Hindi na ata kinaya ang nangyari dahil sa matinding depression kaya nagawa niya ang ganyang bagay.

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    1. Yes. Yung byanan daw lagi nagti-trigger oara mag-away silang mag-asawa. May they rest in peace .🥹

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    2. Pero dapat hindi ginagawang reason o excuse na makaharm or pumatay because of depression. Pag ganito ang topic, pansin ko nagiging excuse sya, na depress kasi kaya nagawa iyon
      No. Sana hindi inormalize kasi baka may magtake advantage nyan, gawin yan ang reason para pumatay. Tandaan, marami din naman ang depressed pero hindi naman humahantong sa ganyan.

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    3. Bakit dinamay pa yun mga anak?! Dapat inuna na lang niya un sarili niya. Wala naman kasalanan ang mga anak niya. Nagkataon lang na mahina siyang nilalang. Binigyan niya sana ng chance na mabuhay pa yun tatlong bata.

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    4. Daming kuda. Tatay mo number one senator bakit di mo sabihin lahat ng hanash mo sa kanya. Ayy sabagay busy yun sa poon niya na nakaincarcerate abroad. Nagpunta pa nga ng the Hague

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    5. Kuda kuda kuda TATAY MO SENADOR dun mo sabihin lahat

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    6. May paid maternity leave na ah. Nasa batas yun. 3 months o 105 days. Sus

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    7. 9:39 It's not an excuse to end her children's and her life pero hindi mo alam ang depression-- hindi na nya alam ang giangawa nya. She spiraled into deep depression. Hindi na kinaya ang pagiisip nya sa problema.

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    8. Hindi po excuse ang depression. Pag sinabi kasi na depression dapat clinically diagnosed yan. Iba yan sa sobrang lungkot lang. Yung sobrang lungkot pwede mo yan gawing excuse. Pero pag depressed ang tao, hindi nila kontrolado ang emosyon at mga naiisip nila. Therefore, hindi nila gagawin excuse yan kasi di na nila maiisip pa yang mga bagay na yan.

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    9. 939 Tama. Minsan ginagawang palusot. Di naman lahat ng depressed pumapatay.

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    10. 9:39 9:43 mdlng sbhn yan pr s mga gaya niong nde dindanas yan.wl ngang kwrnta un tatay at byenan kea ndel sia nkapagisip n tama gets ni0? sana nde mathmk un tatay at byenan dhl sla root of evil at triggering point s sitwasyon n to

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    11. Exactly matagal ng may paid maternity leave sa pinas😂, do your research. Sa USA walang paid maternity, we have to get ours from combined sick leave + annual leave at kung may short term illness insurance ka , it won’t kick in after a few months at 75% lang ng paid salary. Meron kaming mental health day that you can call out as long as you follow your company call out rule, at si Daddy Senator bakit hindi ka sa kanya humingi ng budget, staff at support and draft a laws para may patunguhan advocacy mo. Pag sa IG, X, thread lang hanash mo puro parinig lang yan. Go to daddy Senator may direct line ka sa kanya.

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    12. Off sa topic pero si Kylie habang nilalabanan ang postpartum depressiin si Aljhur naman naghanao sa iba ng kalinga..madalang na lang sa mga husbands na katulad ni Drew..yong aalayan ang wife after managank

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    13. Only those who experience depression and survived can attest to what they went through, pls don't say na wag gawing dahilan Ang depression to push someone to do na Hindi magandang coz u won't understand not unless u r in the situation. Let's just pray for their souls.

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    14. Nakalimutan niya yata o hindi niya alam na LAW MAKER ANG TATAY NIYA. Kylie lahat ng hanash mo dun mo sabihin sa No. 1 senator nung 2022. Kung gusto mong gawing 365 days ang maternity leave sabihin mo sa Tatay mo! Yan ay kung maipasa. Pansin ko dami mo hanash lagi sa gobyerno eh parte ng gobyerno tatay mo. DUHHH

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    15. Mahirap talaga pag nakikialam ang biyenan. Sobrang stress ko rin sa mga biyenan ko dahil mga pakialamero pakialamera pero thankful ako dahil generous sila and my husband sa food/material things. Kung hindi pa, baka na mental breakdown na rin ako. Lalo na may issue rin ng infidelity gaya nung asawa nung babae na nagsunog.

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    16. NEED TO BRING AWARENESS. Ang depression needs to be medically diagnosed bago magka kaso, di ung chika chika lang. Yes, di sya excuse pero it is a reason and it is real. Just because di nyo naiintindihan or pinag daanan doesn't mean na di sya malaking bagay or dahilan lang

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    17. 9:39 you dont know a thing about depression. Pag depressed ka madaming tumatakbo sa isip mo and her doing that that means that’s the only solution she could think of. Alam nyang mali pero if u are depressed you just want tje pain and suffering to end. Its like they are in a deep tunnel and no other way out so they just do whatever they think is right that time even though it’s the wrong call.

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    18. 12:10 Ayyy naku inday I have been depressed for years and been through different psychiatrist and doctors pero hindi ko ginawang palusot ang depression ko sa mga mali at sablay ko sa buhay. My depression is my own battle to fight. Walang pakialam ang ibang tao sa depression ko. Hindi siya palusot sa mga sablay o maling desisyon o nagawa ko sa buhay. And no amount of depression can qualify or mitigate killing another person or annihilating your very own family.

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    19. 11:40 saang state ka?

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    20. @3:35, nagpadoctor ka naman kasi, sya walang pang doctor, walang support system, tapos ang daming problems na pakiramdam nya wala ng katapusan. Be kind na lang and don’t judge.

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    21. 3:35 isa ka pang out of this world. Antih, not everyone is as lucky as you na may pang diagnose ng depression just like this mother. 🙄 Wala ngang makain ang mga yan, nakakaloka! You cannot also judge a person kasi nga wla ka ring alam! Fyi, not every Depression looks like yours! Bumaba ka sa Earth! 😂

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    22. 2:34 ikaw ang bumaba sa earth at gumamit ng sentido kumon. Depression gagawin mong palusot kaya nilikida mo lahat ng anak mo? Tantanan mo na ako sa ganyang palusot. Ano ka batotoy? As an adult person you cannot take accountability and responsibility for your own action

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  2. You were both unhappy and were probably mean to each other coz it takes two to tango hindi lang ikaw ang santo, you could have opted for couple’s counseling and also deal with your ppd. If you did those and still didn’t work out, you let go and move on, you are both public people that good public perception is needed to earn a living , tama ng paulit ulit I brought up past and bad mouth ang nag move on na dahil hindi yan signs ng maturity, taking accountability , didn’t learn from your failed relationship coz you keep bringing up the past kaya hindi ka masaya, it is a never ending cycle.

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    1. Hey! who hurt you?

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    2. Nabasa mo ng buo @720pm?

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    3. pinagsasabi mo te

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    4. Anyare sa reading comprehension, 7:53?

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    5. Ano daw sinasabi ni 7:20PM?
      Cno tinutukoy nya c K at A ba?
      True nmn na dapat aware tayo sa PPD kawawa ka kung wla kang support sa asawa mo, tpos wla k pang Pera pampagamot.

      Kya nga nka move on n c K sa napag daanan nya, mayaman mahirap mkakaranas ng PPD. Sad reality ang mayaman nkakapag counseling at nkakapag therapy ang mahihirap, imbis n pang therapy e pang bibili nlng ng pagkain.

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    6. 7:50:huh. “ my support system then was also lacking.” She gave another opening for people to target her ex again na nanahimik at nag move on na. She can bring attention to her mental health advocacy without bringing out the past or citing specifics. They are both at fault so move on. Just because you have an illness ikaw lang ang iintindihin, intindihin mo rin ang feelings ng nakapaligid sayo. You are broken but not totally destroyed or demolished. Ika nga if you were ansking for empathy, you empathize with people around you too coz they have feelings too.

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    7. Right. Blame the abused wife instead of the abusive and neglectful husband.

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    8. Dok, gising na po si 7:20.

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    9. Hahaha Yan din reaction ko. Ha. Lol. Lashing ang nag comment sabog ang train of thought

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    10. Ay wow! As if norm ang couples counseling dito

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    11. Ha haha naglabasan mga walang reading compre, lol at 9:47. Nagpaawa na naman si girl kinagat nyo naman Pareho lang silang they both suffered at each other’s pettiness kaya mas maganda na they both moved on. Hindi sila match to live harmoniously in one house, bakit ibalik pa past with specifics.

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    12. You sure walang support si ex kay girl and didn’t try to understand what is her body and mind were going through? When you feel disrespected and feel demeaned did you disrespected and demean him too ? Did you hear his versions? Dahil palagi nyong naririnig yung may patama sa ig akala nyo yun na ng truth. Hats off sa mga in laws on both sides na hindi nagkalat sa socmed.

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    13. 9:54 if you don’t have the moolah for couples counseling you need a ninang/ nong , pastor, any significant other na pumagitna, dahil sometimes hindi lang si partner, may mali, may mali ka rin that you need to work on that you have not realize before you decide to give up. Or are you too proud to accept it dahil you think you are an alpha ?

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  3. Your father is a senator!

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    1. I dont think she has that kind of relationship with her dad.

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    2. 11:41 yun nga , dapat mag heal muna sya before she heals the world. Pero talagang babalikan sya ng mga tao na Senator ang tatay mo sa kanya ka humanash, at mag research sya muna bago humanash , or at least think before you click.

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    3. Misogynistic i think

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    4. Magkaiba naman sila ng pananaw kahit mag ama sila. And I think mas matalino mga anak ni Robin kesa sakanya, yung isa maganda din yung work sa US and then yung isa nyang anak director.

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  4. Just curious with her "urging to push" #PAIDMATERNITYLEAVE, aren't Maternity Leave paid thru GSIS (if government employee) and SSS (if employee works for a private company)?

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    1. Yes and it is 105 days. As an employer ang hirap then mawalan ng trabahante for 3 mos at paid yun. After manganak, maraming absents pa kasi sa check up at sakit ng baby.

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    2. 2x na ako nakapag-claim ng paid maternity leave. Jun 2020 & Dec 2023. Monthly salary x 3.5 months, iyun ang matatanggap ng mother na ilalabas ng company. Less iyun government remittances lang for sss, phic and hdmf.

      Ang company ay makakareimburse naman kay sss ng up to 70k (max ito). Depende yun sa contribution ng mother, may table iyun na sinusunod

      So hal ang sweldo ni mother ay 100k. 100k x 3.5 = 350k

      Babayaran ni SSS 70k. 350k less 70k or yung 280k ay sinagot ng company. Ito yung salary differential.

      May exempt sa mga private companies na magbayad, nakalagay naman yun sa law lime distressed companies etc

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  5. Dear KP, how about create your own company, hire all women, and give them all the benefits that they deserve :D :D :D I am pretty sure someone already did that and the company went belly up ;) ;) ;)

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  6. Bakit kasi di makuntento sa isang anak if wala namang livelihood means….

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    1. Tingin ko capable naman yung lalaki since he is a police. Kulang lang talaga binigay. Maybe to punish the wife. Nakakanginig ng laman sa galit yung lalaki. Kawawa yung mag iina. Inabandon nya basically.

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    2. Paano di magkukulang, siguro yon nanay din non guy may allowance instead na para sa family lang nya may kahati pa.

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  7. laging may gusto patunayan si kylie

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  8. Love is not enough talaga.

    I hope Kylie, you will find a better and a good guy this time around, not only for yourself, isipin mo rin ang anak mo ang magiging mga anak niyo sa new partner.

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  9. Kylie, there is paid maternity leave already.Matagal na ito,my dear.Research muna bago mag suggest

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    1. Wala siguro syang SSS at iba pang government ID kaya di nya alam.

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  10. Sinasabi nya kaya toh sa ama nyang walang ginawa kundi mag bantay sa Netherlands? Ask your dad to do his job

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  11. For awareness: maternity leave benefit is not granted to all employees. There are still people na no work, no pay. Marami na akong nakausap. Lalo na yung contractual employees, agency hired personnel, daily wage, and yung mga tindera or negoayong pag walang tinda=walang kita.
    Meron din na hindi natutupad yung 105 days. Meron doctor after 1 week pinapasok na. Nakwento sakin dun sa aesthetic clinic.

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    1. Natural if you are contractual you don’t have the benefits, then contractual or temp employees SHOULD have a higher salary ( company doesn’t give you benefits, it will pass it on to you by giving you slightly higher pay) so temps can afford to buy their own health insurance. About tindera, that is a different socio economic. Our government should have better health benefits for indigents. Acquiring a health insurance either through govt or private is a must for everyone. Kaso nga wala pa rin changes. At yung family planning should be implemented. It doesn’t mean you can gagawa kayo ng maraming bata that you can’t even provide the basic necessities. Napag iwananan na tayo ng mga karatig Asian countries pero ang iniyabang lang natin we are fluent in English, tambay sa socmed, corrupt pa rin govt.

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  12. Napakaselfish ng nanay. Sana sya nalang mag isa. Wala akong simpatiya na nararamdaman sa kanya kundi galit dahil dinamay nya pa yung mga anak nya. I can sense na problematic si girl. Kawawa yung tatay.

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  13. Kylie, sabihin mo sa dad mo para gumawa ng batas ng paid maternity leave. Solve na problema mo

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  14. Kylie should register to vote. #1 Senador tatay nya pero di man ata sya botante.

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  15. Tbh mas may sense pa magsalita si Bb kesa kay R. Fyi cum laude pa yan si Bb

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  16. Paid Naman talaga maternity leaves.3 months na nga e

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  17. Haha if not for duterts daw di sya magiging sen

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  18. Ganito yon Kylie, sabihan mo yung tatay mo na mag-isip ng batas na talagang poprotekta sa mga ina at sa lahat ng kababaihan.

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  19. Hindi magagawang sabihin ni K si R. Sa house kasi ni R nakatira si K.

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  20. Nakakalungkot 'yung nangyari sa mag-iina. Nobody cared sa pinagdadaanan ng Nanay, no one checked on how she was holding it up para makabawas man lang ng bigat sa loob niya. Mas marami siguro ang chismosa/judgemental sa environment niya when all she needed was emotional support sa kapwa babae sa paligid niya. Sabi nga nila, it takes a village to raise a child, sana this same village helped the mother as well.

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  21. Ngayon ko lang nalaman na meron palang company na unpaid ang maternity leave? I worked in government, and yes, maternity leave is paid pag permanent position ka.

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    1. Paid nga pero pahirapan naman sa pagkuha.

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    2. As far as I know yung perang yun eh galing din sa sariling sweldo ng Nanay. Nakakaltas kasi yun sa sahod at napupunta sa mga Government like SSS PHILHEALTH PAG IBIG ATBP.

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  22. K, may maternity leave na daw. 3 months. Lol. Kala mo naman sapat yan. Oo akigaya sa ibang country sa Europe, 1 year may monthly money ang mother. Aside from that meron child support from government. Ang problema lang talaga sa Pinas pag meron ganyan, kadamihan di na magtatrabaho at aasa na lang. Tapos ang iba imbes ibibhay sa panganganilnagan ng mga bat, eh isusugal pa. Pweh!

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