Napanood ko ito sa balita, Sobrang naawa ako sa nanay lalo na sa mga bata. Yang nanay nag pa blotter pa sa brgy bago nangyari ang pagsunog, kasi may away silang mag asawa at nakikisali daw ang byenan. Hindi na ata kinaya ang nangyari dahil sa matinding depression kaya nagawa niya ang ganyang bagay.
Pero dapat hindi ginagawang reason o excuse na makaharm or pumatay because of depression. Pag ganito ang topic, pansin ko nagiging excuse sya, na depress kasi kaya nagawa iyon No. Sana hindi inormalize kasi baka may magtake advantage nyan, gawin yan ang reason para pumatay. Tandaan, marami din naman ang depressed pero hindi naman humahantong sa ganyan.
Bakit dinamay pa yun mga anak?! Dapat inuna na lang niya un sarili niya. Wala naman kasalanan ang mga anak niya. Nagkataon lang na mahina siyang nilalang. Binigyan niya sana ng chance na mabuhay pa yun tatlong bata.
Daming kuda. Tatay mo number one senator bakit di mo sabihin lahat ng hanash mo sa kanya. Ayy sabagay busy yun sa poon niya na nakaincarcerate abroad. Nagpunta pa nga ng the Hague
9:39 It's not an excuse to end her children's and her life pero hindi mo alam ang depression-- hindi na nya alam ang giangawa nya. She spiraled into deep depression. Hindi na kinaya ang pagiisip nya sa problema.
Hindi po excuse ang depression. Pag sinabi kasi na depression dapat clinically diagnosed yan. Iba yan sa sobrang lungkot lang. Yung sobrang lungkot pwede mo yan gawing excuse. Pero pag depressed ang tao, hindi nila kontrolado ang emosyon at mga naiisip nila. Therefore, hindi nila gagawin excuse yan kasi di na nila maiisip pa yang mga bagay na yan.
9:39 9:43 mdlng sbhn yan pr s mga gaya niong nde dindanas yan.wl ngang kwrnta un tatay at byenan kea ndel sia nkapagisip n tama gets ni0? sana nde mathmk un tatay at byenan dhl sla root of evil at triggering point s sitwasyon n to
Exactly matagal ng may paid maternity leave sa pinas😂, do your research. Sa USA walang paid maternity, we have to get ours from combined sick leave + annual leave at kung may short term illness insurance ka , it won’t kick in after a few months at 75% lang ng paid salary. Meron kaming mental health day that you can call out as long as you follow your company call out rule, at si Daddy Senator bakit hindi ka sa kanya humingi ng budget, staff at support and draft a laws para may patunguhan advocacy mo. Pag sa IG, X, thread lang hanash mo puro parinig lang yan. Go to daddy Senator may direct line ka sa kanya.
Off sa topic pero si Kylie habang nilalabanan ang postpartum depressiin si Aljhur naman naghanao sa iba ng kalinga..madalang na lang sa mga husbands na katulad ni Drew..yong aalayan ang wife after managank
Only those who experience depression and survived can attest to what they went through, pls don't say na wag gawing dahilan Ang depression to push someone to do na Hindi magandang coz u won't understand not unless u r in the situation. Let's just pray for their souls.
Nakalimutan niya yata o hindi niya alam na LAW MAKER ANG TATAY NIYA. Kylie lahat ng hanash mo dun mo sabihin sa No. 1 senator nung 2022. Kung gusto mong gawing 365 days ang maternity leave sabihin mo sa Tatay mo! Yan ay kung maipasa. Pansin ko dami mo hanash lagi sa gobyerno eh parte ng gobyerno tatay mo. DUHHH
Mahirap talaga pag nakikialam ang biyenan. Sobrang stress ko rin sa mga biyenan ko dahil mga pakialamero pakialamera pero thankful ako dahil generous sila and my husband sa food/material things. Kung hindi pa, baka na mental breakdown na rin ako. Lalo na may issue rin ng infidelity gaya nung asawa nung babae na nagsunog.
You were both unhappy and were probably mean to each other coz it takes two to tango hindi lang ikaw ang santo, you could have opted for couple’s counseling and also deal with your ppd. If you did those and still didn’t work out, you let go and move on, you are both public people that good public perception is needed to earn a living , tama ng paulit ulit I brought up past and bad mouth ang nag move on na dahil hindi yan signs ng maturity, taking accountability , didn’t learn from your failed relationship coz you keep bringing up the past kaya hindi ka masaya, it is a never ending cycle.
Ano daw sinasabi ni 7:20PM? Cno tinutukoy nya c K at A ba? True nmn na dapat aware tayo sa PPD kawawa ka kung wla kang support sa asawa mo, tpos wla k pang Pera pampagamot.
Kya nga nka move on n c K sa napag daanan nya, mayaman mahirap mkakaranas ng PPD. Sad reality ang mayaman nkakapag counseling at nkakapag therapy ang mahihirap, imbis n pang therapy e pang bibili nlng ng pagkain.
7:50:huh. “ my support system then was also lacking.” She gave another opening for people to target her ex again na nanahimik at nag move on na. She can bring attention to her mental health advocacy without bringing out the past or citing specifics. They are both at fault so move on. Just because you have an illness ikaw lang ang iintindihin, intindihin mo rin ang feelings ng nakapaligid sayo. You are broken but not totally destroyed or demolished. Ika nga if you were ansking for empathy, you empathize with people around you too coz they have feelings too.
Ha haha naglabasan mga walang reading compre, lol at 9:47. Nagpaawa na naman si girl kinagat nyo naman Pareho lang silang they both suffered at each other’s pettiness kaya mas maganda na they both moved on. Hindi sila match to live harmoniously in one house, bakit ibalik pa past with specifics.
You sure walang support si ex kay girl and didn’t try to understand what is her body and mind were going through? When you feel disrespected and feel demeaned did you disrespected and demean him too ? Did you hear his versions? Dahil palagi nyong naririnig yung may patama sa ig akala nyo yun na ng truth. Hats off sa mga in laws on both sides na hindi nagkalat sa socmed.
9:54 if you don’t have the moolah for couples counseling you need a ninang/ nong , pastor, any significant other na pumagitna, dahil sometimes hindi lang si partner, may mali, may mali ka rin that you need to work on that you have not realize before you decide to give up. Or are you too proud to accept it dahil you think you are an alpha ?
11:41 yun nga , dapat mag heal muna sya before she heals the world. Pero talagang babalikan sya ng mga tao na Senator ang tatay mo sa kanya ka humanash, at mag research sya muna bago humanash , or at least think before you click.
Just curious with her "urging to push" #PAIDMATERNITYLEAVE, aren't Maternity Leave paid thru GSIS (if government employee) and SSS (if employee works for a private company)?
Yes and it is 105 days. As an employer ang hirap then mawalan ng trabahante for 3 mos at paid yun. After manganak, maraming absents pa kasi sa check up at sakit ng baby.
Dear KP, how about create your own company, hire all women, and give them all the benefits that they deserve :D :D :D I am pretty sure someone already did that and the company went belly up ;) ;) ;)
Tingin ko capable naman yung lalaki since he is a police. Kulang lang talaga binigay. Maybe to punish the wife. Nakakanginig ng laman sa galit yung lalaki. Kawawa yung mag iina. Inabandon nya basically.
I hope Kylie, you will find a better and a good guy this time around, not only for yourself, isipin mo rin ang anak mo ang magiging mga anak niyo sa new partner.
For awareness: maternity leave benefit is not granted to all employees. There are still people na no work, no pay. Marami na akong nakausap. Lalo na yung contractual employees, agency hired personnel, daily wage, and yung mga tindera or negoayong pag walang tinda=walang kita. Meron din na hindi natutupad yung 105 days. Meron doctor after 1 week pinapasok na. Nakwento sakin dun sa aesthetic clinic.
Natural if you are contractual you don’t have the benefits, then contractual or temp employees SHOULD have a higher salary ( company doesn’t give you benefits, it will pass it on to you by giving you slightly higher pay) so temps can afford to buy their own health insurance. About tindera, that is a different socio economic. Our government should have better health benefits for indigents. Acquiring a health insurance either through govt or private is a must for everyone. Kaso nga wala pa rin changes. At yung family planning should be implemented. It doesn’t mean you can gagawa kayo ng maraming bata that you can’t even provide the basic necessities. Napag iwananan na tayo ng mga karatig Asian countries pero ang iniyabang lang natin we are fluent in English, tambay sa socmed, corrupt pa rin govt.
Napanood ko ito sa balita, Sobrang naawa ako sa nanay lalo na sa mga bata. Yang nanay nag pa blotter pa sa brgy bago nangyari ang pagsunog, kasi may away silang mag asawa at nakikisali daw ang byenan. Hindi na ata kinaya ang nangyari dahil sa matinding depression kaya nagawa niya ang ganyang bagay.
ReplyDeleteYes. Yung byanan daw lagi nagti-trigger oara mag-away silang mag-asawa. May they rest in peace .🥹
DeletePero dapat hindi ginagawang reason o excuse na makaharm or pumatay because of depression. Pag ganito ang topic, pansin ko nagiging excuse sya, na depress kasi kaya nagawa iyon
DeleteNo. Sana hindi inormalize kasi baka may magtake advantage nyan, gawin yan ang reason para pumatay. Tandaan, marami din naman ang depressed pero hindi naman humahantong sa ganyan.
Bakit dinamay pa yun mga anak?! Dapat inuna na lang niya un sarili niya. Wala naman kasalanan ang mga anak niya. Nagkataon lang na mahina siyang nilalang. Binigyan niya sana ng chance na mabuhay pa yun tatlong bata.
DeleteDaming kuda. Tatay mo number one senator bakit di mo sabihin lahat ng hanash mo sa kanya. Ayy sabagay busy yun sa poon niya na nakaincarcerate abroad. Nagpunta pa nga ng the Hague
DeleteKuda kuda kuda TATAY MO SENADOR dun mo sabihin lahat
DeleteMay paid maternity leave na ah. Nasa batas yun. 3 months o 105 days. Sus
Delete9:39 It's not an excuse to end her children's and her life pero hindi mo alam ang depression-- hindi na nya alam ang giangawa nya. She spiraled into deep depression. Hindi na kinaya ang pagiisip nya sa problema.
DeleteHindi po excuse ang depression. Pag sinabi kasi na depression dapat clinically diagnosed yan. Iba yan sa sobrang lungkot lang. Yung sobrang lungkot pwede mo yan gawing excuse. Pero pag depressed ang tao, hindi nila kontrolado ang emosyon at mga naiisip nila. Therefore, hindi nila gagawin excuse yan kasi di na nila maiisip pa yang mga bagay na yan.
Delete939 Tama. Minsan ginagawang palusot. Di naman lahat ng depressed pumapatay.
Delete9:39 9:43 mdlng sbhn yan pr s mga gaya niong nde dindanas yan.wl ngang kwrnta un tatay at byenan kea ndel sia nkapagisip n tama gets ni0? sana nde mathmk un tatay at byenan dhl sla root of evil at triggering point s sitwasyon n to
DeleteExactly matagal ng may paid maternity leave sa pinas😂, do your research. Sa USA walang paid maternity, we have to get ours from combined sick leave + annual leave at kung may short term illness insurance ka , it won’t kick in after a few months at 75% lang ng paid salary. Meron kaming mental health day that you can call out as long as you follow your company call out rule, at si Daddy Senator bakit hindi ka sa kanya humingi ng budget, staff at support and draft a laws para may patunguhan advocacy mo. Pag sa IG, X, thread lang hanash mo puro parinig lang yan. Go to daddy Senator may direct line ka sa kanya.
DeleteOff sa topic pero si Kylie habang nilalabanan ang postpartum depressiin si Aljhur naman naghanao sa iba ng kalinga..madalang na lang sa mga husbands na katulad ni Drew..yong aalayan ang wife after managank
DeleteOnly those who experience depression and survived can attest to what they went through, pls don't say na wag gawing dahilan Ang depression to push someone to do na Hindi magandang coz u won't understand not unless u r in the situation. Let's just pray for their souls.
DeleteNakalimutan niya yata o hindi niya alam na LAW MAKER ANG TATAY NIYA. Kylie lahat ng hanash mo dun mo sabihin sa No. 1 senator nung 2022. Kung gusto mong gawing 365 days ang maternity leave sabihin mo sa Tatay mo! Yan ay kung maipasa. Pansin ko dami mo hanash lagi sa gobyerno eh parte ng gobyerno tatay mo. DUHHH
DeleteMahirap talaga pag nakikialam ang biyenan. Sobrang stress ko rin sa mga biyenan ko dahil mga pakialamero pakialamera pero thankful ako dahil generous sila and my husband sa food/material things. Kung hindi pa, baka na mental breakdown na rin ako. Lalo na may issue rin ng infidelity gaya nung asawa nung babae na nagsunog.
DeleteYou were both unhappy and were probably mean to each other coz it takes two to tango hindi lang ikaw ang santo, you could have opted for couple’s counseling and also deal with your ppd. If you did those and still didn’t work out, you let go and move on, you are both public people that good public perception is needed to earn a living , tama ng paulit ulit I brought up past and bad mouth ang nag move on na dahil hindi yan signs ng maturity, taking accountability , didn’t learn from your failed relationship coz you keep bringing up the past kaya hindi ka masaya, it is a never ending cycle.
ReplyDeleteha?
DeleteHey! who hurt you?
DeleteNabasa mo ng buo @720pm?
Deletepinagsasabi mo te
DeleteAnyare sa reading comprehension, 7:53?
DeleteAno daw sinasabi ni 7:20PM?
DeleteCno tinutukoy nya c K at A ba?
True nmn na dapat aware tayo sa PPD kawawa ka kung wla kang support sa asawa mo, tpos wla k pang Pera pampagamot.
Kya nga nka move on n c K sa napag daanan nya, mayaman mahirap mkakaranas ng PPD. Sad reality ang mayaman nkakapag counseling at nkakapag therapy ang mahihirap, imbis n pang therapy e pang bibili nlng ng pagkain.
7:50:huh. “ my support system then was also lacking.” She gave another opening for people to target her ex again na nanahimik at nag move on na. She can bring attention to her mental health advocacy without bringing out the past or citing specifics. They are both at fault so move on. Just because you have an illness ikaw lang ang iintindihin, intindihin mo rin ang feelings ng nakapaligid sayo. You are broken but not totally destroyed or demolished. Ika nga if you were ansking for empathy, you empathize with people around you too coz they have feelings too.
DeleteRight. Blame the abused wife instead of the abusive and neglectful husband.
DeleteDok, gising na po si 7:20.
DeleteHahaha Yan din reaction ko. Ha. Lol. Lashing ang nag comment sabog ang train of thought
DeleteAy wow! As if norm ang couples counseling dito
DeleteHa haha naglabasan mga walang reading compre, lol at 9:47. Nagpaawa na naman si girl kinagat nyo naman Pareho lang silang they both suffered at each other’s pettiness kaya mas maganda na they both moved on. Hindi sila match to live harmoniously in one house, bakit ibalik pa past with specifics.
DeleteYou sure walang support si ex kay girl and didn’t try to understand what is her body and mind were going through? When you feel disrespected and feel demeaned did you disrespected and demean him too ? Did you hear his versions? Dahil palagi nyong naririnig yung may patama sa ig akala nyo yun na ng truth. Hats off sa mga in laws on both sides na hindi nagkalat sa socmed.
Delete9:54 if you don’t have the moolah for couples counseling you need a ninang/ nong , pastor, any significant other na pumagitna, dahil sometimes hindi lang si partner, may mali, may mali ka rin that you need to work on that you have not realize before you decide to give up. Or are you too proud to accept it dahil you think you are an alpha ?
DeleteYour father is a senator!
ReplyDeleteI dont think she has that kind of relationship with her dad.
Delete11:41 yun nga , dapat mag heal muna sya before she heals the world. Pero talagang babalikan sya ng mga tao na Senator ang tatay mo sa kanya ka humanash, at mag research sya muna bago humanash , or at least think before you click.
DeleteJust curious with her "urging to push" #PAIDMATERNITYLEAVE, aren't Maternity Leave paid thru GSIS (if government employee) and SSS (if employee works for a private company)?
ReplyDeleteYes and it is 105 days. As an employer ang hirap then mawalan ng trabahante for 3 mos at paid yun. After manganak, maraming absents pa kasi sa check up at sakit ng baby.
DeleteDear KP, how about create your own company, hire all women, and give them all the benefits that they deserve :D :D :D I am pretty sure someone already did that and the company went belly up ;) ;) ;)
ReplyDeleteBakit kasi di makuntento sa isang anak if wala namang livelihood means….
ReplyDeleteTingin ko capable naman yung lalaki since he is a police. Kulang lang talaga binigay. Maybe to punish the wife. Nakakanginig ng laman sa galit yung lalaki. Kawawa yung mag iina. Inabandon nya basically.
Deletelaging may gusto patunayan si kylie
ReplyDeleteLove is not enough talaga.
ReplyDeleteI hope Kylie, you will find a better and a good guy this time around, not only for yourself, isipin mo rin ang anak mo ang magiging mga anak niyo sa new partner.
Kylie, there is paid maternity leave already.Matagal na ito,my dear.Research muna bago mag suggest
ReplyDeleteSinasabi nya kaya toh sa ama nyang walang ginawa kundi mag bantay sa Netherlands? Ask your dad to do his job
ReplyDeleteFor awareness: maternity leave benefit is not granted to all employees. There are still people na no work, no pay. Marami na akong nakausap. Lalo na yung contractual employees, agency hired personnel, daily wage, and yung mga tindera or negoayong pag walang tinda=walang kita.
ReplyDeleteMeron din na hindi natutupad yung 105 days. Meron doctor after 1 week pinapasok na. Nakwento sakin dun sa aesthetic clinic.
Natural if you are contractual you don’t have the benefits, then contractual or temp employees SHOULD have a higher salary ( company doesn’t give you benefits, it will pass it on to you by giving you slightly higher pay) so temps can afford to buy their own health insurance. About tindera, that is a different socio economic. Our government should have better health benefits for indigents. Acquiring a health insurance either through govt or private is a must for everyone. Kaso nga wala pa rin changes. At yung family planning should be implemented. It doesn’t mean you can gagawa kayo ng maraming bata that you can’t even provide the basic necessities. Napag iwananan na tayo ng mga karatig Asian countries pero ang iniyabang lang natin we are fluent in English, tambay sa socmed, corrupt pa rin govt.
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