Did you even watch the vlog?? Ganyan tayo eh…pala-comment ng nega without even hearing the full context. I feel sad for you. On the contrary, this interview actually changed my perception of Sofia. She’s a good person pala. You can tell that right away just by seeing how she treats her family. Especially her parents.
Ang gagaling nyo magcomment e kung kayo slnasa posisyon nya, baka grabe p gawin nyo. Meron pang wag ibuhos love s isang guy.. parang di kayo na inlove. Sus
11:45 halatang fan ka ni Sofia kaya todo tanggol ka. Ikaw lang yung tanggol nang tanggol na may 3 dots like … sa comment kaya halatang isang tao ka lang. At sunud-sunod din reply mo based sa time stamp.
Not 11:45 pero grabe exclusive ba ang use ng … ? Kaloka ka! Point lang nya manood muna bago mema. Not a fan here but I like Karen so that’s why I watched but the interview is so good. She answered truthfully in my opinion. Eh ano nman ngayon kung di kasal? As in please stop na natin ang stereotyping on what a good family should be!!!
4:00 use your logic. I didn’t say exclusive lang yung gamit ng 3 dots … isa lang yan sa pinagbasehan ko at kung iisa-isahin ko dito, tatamarin ako type haha. Makikita mo naman sa construction and tone ng sentences na iisang tao lang yung nagcocomment.
actually i think sofia is just being smart. The guy is young, they both are. And the child was not even planned. Gets ko yung mentality niya, thats a smart way to keep a man actually. If her partner chooses to marry her then good, if not then no hurt feelings. The more mo pinepressure ang mga sarili nyo, the more na mgkakaroon ng turbulence sa relationship. Ok na yang ganyan.
If gusto kang pakasalan, papakasalan ka. Hindi naman excuse na porket you come from a broken family eh. Dami ko din kilala na galing sa broken family pero nung bumuo na ng sariling pamilya, napaka ayos. Sometimes lesson yun para wag kayong matulad doon.
Bat ba marunong pa kayo sa kanila?? Every person’s struggle is different from another. Kahit na sabihin mo pang pare-parehong galing sa broken family. No two people are alike. I think…them taking their time and being cautious is a very mature and responsible. Pwede ba tigilan ang pagmamarunong?
This is just a common Toxic Filipino trait @11:40 Do not rush people about their life plans. “Eh kasi wala pang anak, eh kasi ayaw kang pakasalan etc… “
My Goodness! You Never Know What Someone is Going Through, So Be Kind and just shut up..
And besides, They are still young! Let them be do what they want.
My Gosh naman yung iba dito. Kung hindi milyonaryo yung guy siguro hindi kayo magrereact ng ganyan about sa kasal. Nakita ko sa video na mabait na anak si Sofia and masipag. If magpapakasal sila then good, if hindi ok lang din. Di porket may anak kailangan ng kasal.
Excuses lang yang ayaw magpakasal because he came from a broken family. It's not a toxic Filipino trait, it's common sense. Any guy would know if they want to marry a girl kahit 6 months pa lang sila into a relationship. If hindi, you're just a "Forever Girlfriend". Stop wasting your youth on a guy na wala pang nahahanap na "right one" for now kaya nandyan ka sa buhay niya, and kapag nakahanap na yan, ang bahay na you helped to renovate eh mapupunta sa ibang girl.
11:40 Yun nga ang point, nabuntis siya ng maaga kaya she wants to slow down now by choosing not to get married yet! Puro kasal ang nasa isip ng tao! Not everyone’s life revolves around getting married (kahit may anak).
Truth hurts lang mga mare. Si guy ang ayaw pa magpakasal pero si Sofia atat na atat na. Ano ba kayo mga nagka amnesia? Eh panay panay nga pagpaparinig niyan sa IGs niya eh. Lol. Not 11:40 though. Just being sensible only.
Saka ano pinagsasabi ni renovate na bahay, hello Sofia built that house herself its her own house yun guy ang walang na build na house from his own keep ok! Si Sofia nag ta trabaho if you watched the vdeo she sent her sibs to college hay nako eye roll!!
I am not 9:18 pero 7:21, ano naman ang nega sa pagsasabi ng katotohanan naman? Masyado naman nasobrahan ng pagkawoke mga tao, ayaw makarinig ng totoo kasi super soft na mga tao ngayon.
ante, hindi lahat ng babae tulad mong ang tanging purpose lang sa mundo ay maikasal. hindi po lahat ng babae ganyan ang perspective sa buhay. ang hirap ng annulment process dito ante kaya hindi yan ticket para masabeng mahal ka ng lalake. ang daming couple ang naghihiwalay because of infidelity and differences kahit married pa. may law din tayong kahit hindi kasal may legal process para sa mga lalakeng hindi nag poprovide financially sa mga anak kaya anong purpose bakit namimilit sa kasal? hindi ko gets. dahil sa singsing? lol
11:41pm agree. Bilib ako that she works hard for her family and was able to build a beautiful house for them. I dont believe kelangan pakasal pag nabuntis. But if she didnt want a broken family, then why was she not careful? Did she think her bf was such a good catch kaya ok to get pregnant? Obvious sa mga sagot nya that she is ready to get married but the guy is not..………
So inspite of she works hard for her family and all yet she commited a mistake and got preganant so di pwede na namali sya? Sometimes you trip and thaTs what happened to her the good thing is napanindigan nya and for me she is an independent woman so its ok if she gets married or not.
Errhhmm bakit porket ba magkapatid eh magkapareho na ng personality pati ng mga priorities sa buhay?? And did you really watch vlog??? She never said naman na wala silang plans magpakasal. In fact, one of the last few things that she said is that they’re working on it.
kse nga ka level kahit papano yun family ni ella sa lalaki. di naman sa yaman kse mayaman talaga yun guy pero siguro may class, may education… pero ako mas bilib kay sofia and family! hardworking, mabait and respectful. There are things money can’t buy! Nasa family ni Sofia yun! Peace of mind and real happiness! Go Sofia!
Nung napanood ko yung interview naawa ako kay sofia kase obvious naman na wala talagang plano yung guy sa kanya, but she still believes/hopes na meron. Then nabasa ko yung comment ni 11:56, naawa din ako sa kanya, kase naniniwala din siya. Sad.
11:42 Mas matanda ng di hamak brother ni Daniel sa kanya ready na mag asawa yun. Si Daniel may pagka immature pa hindi pa ready mag pamilya. Wait for the right time lalagay din sa tahimik yan pag feel na mya.
12:05 Si Sofia self made sya. Si Ella mayaman ang mga magulang. Wag nyong maliitin si Sofia at nag sisikap sya sa mga kapatid nya pinag tapos nya pag aaral tapos nagpatayo ng bahay para sa pamilya nya at ngayon pa lang pag aaralin ang sarili nya kaya tumigil nga kayo napaka selfless nya tapos ginaganyan nyo!
Agree with 1.30 and she earns her own keep. Yun Ella although ok fine they are rich but i dont think makes enough to build a house or support a family like Sofia. Sofia has more to be proud of and yet in this interview shes so humble. Shes a girlboss!
Feeling nya ba ang ganda ganda nya sa ganyang hairstyle/make up/tanning/ etc??? Sana may magsabi sa kanya na nagmukha lang siya matrona at hindi siya gumanda
I bet mas maganda pa hairstyle nya sa mukha mo. Ganyan mag comment mga taong walang face value, lagi nakalait. Kahit gano maganda tao, may masasabi pa din.
Tan talaga sya un person haha. Saw her at CCF ortigas before, naglalakad kasabay namin with a friend. Hindi tlg sya maputi. Wala syang make up that time. Pumuputi lang siguryo sa pictures coz of the lighting and di ba may mga pa effecr ang cameras ngayon.
3:50 true yan. In my experience, yung mga chaka sila yung wagas maka-lait sa itsura at pananamit. Yung mga magagandang tunay, tahimik lang and at times supportive pa nga.
12:28 Akala mo din ba maganda yang ugali mo? At least sya balat lang nya ang tan eh ikaw ang itim ng budhi mo at napaka babaw mong tao for making pansin ang itsura ng isang tao.
Sobra naman mag judge yung mga comments. Diba maigi na nagpa buntis man, pero matagal na silang magkasama padin. And bat kayo nag judge sa rason not to get married? Diba maigi na they’re not rushing into another thing that’s permanent? Whatever the reason, if it makes for a wiser decision, we shouldn’t berate them for it.
You're right Sofia, take your time. You and your partner are young, focused on your indiviual goals at the present time, and know your wants and needs. As long as both of you are on the same page, then what you have right now is perfect for you and your child. Some may judge (like 11:20, 11:40, 11:41, 11:42-one & same person, it's obvious), some may be inspired (like me) but you do you. I'm impressed.
ahem, yung iba dito, hinay2x kayo sa pagko comment. intindihin nyo din status ng buhay nyo. May bagong bahay na ba? sa pakasalan cya o hindi, buhay nila yan. at sana, tigilan na mga tanong like this.
D maka plano ang lalake na pakasalan sya kasi paano nya bubuhayin pamilya nya. Mukhang wala din naman trabaho si guy. Oo mayaman pero unlike sa kapatid mukhang may minamanage. Nakilala at nakakuha sya ng endorsements dhil din kay sofia. Other than that racing lang ata alam.
I am happy for her house and for being a breadwinner. Pero you can feel na she is sad, she is longing for security w/ Daniel. Tingin ko hindi naman pera habol niya, talagang mahal niya si guy kaya nasasaktan siya.
Hinde porket nabuntis at nagka anak agad eh kelangan magpakasal na. Pinoy pakelamera sa buhay ng may buhay. Let them enjoy life and fulfill their dreams if sila talaga eh magpakasal din sila in time.
You can feel she wanted to get married but the guy ayaw pa Nasa 20s pa lang sila e lalo na yung guy real talk tayo sa ganyan edad tapos mayaman pa e explore explore lang gusto nyan, the baby is unplanned
Ito talaga yun. Dami dito dalang dala sa kwento. Haha. Sabi nila eh kasi yung kuya may trabaho etc. Eh diba galing naman sila sa iisang pamilya? Bakit siya hindi bigyan ng trabahong imamanage? Sofia's BF, although kind, is immature. Yun lang yun.
Daniel’s brother enrique is 34 already. So mas na din siguro yun mag isip and also mas matagal na din sila dating ni ella. Baka mas magtaka ang family why is sofia getting married first just because May baby eh mas matagal ng dating si ella and enrique.
When couples are engaged I think ok lang to ask when is the wedding. But if the couple is not engaged questions like “when are you getting married” or “bakit di pa kayo kınakasal” is not appropriate. Lalo na to ask the girl that question kasi di naman kaila na a big part of getting married is actually being asked by the man to get married.
Just because may anak sila required na sila to get married. Marriage is hard specially if one is not yet ready, magkakaroon lang ng resentments and issues along the way if you decided to get married because you have a child. Let's not stick with traditions, every relationship is different.
Just because may anak sila required na sila to get married. Marriage is hard specially if one is not yet ready, magkakaroon lang ng resentments and issues along the way kasi if you decided to get married because you have a child. Let's not stick with traditions, every relationship is different.
Yan yung mentality karamihan sa pinoy, pag nabuntis dapat pakasalan if hindi pa kinasal ayaw pakasalan. Di natin alam saan lulugar kasi bawat galaw may masasabi.
They are still together and they have money, not so young narin kaya why not? Yes, unplanned pregnancy pero they have a relationship so ano pa inaantay nila. Yun hindi pa ready na statement is just an excuse na ayaw pa, ayaw sa kanya, or talagang hanggang jan lang.
Mukhang di sila nagsasama sa iisang bubong ksi bahay ni Sofia yan at anjan nakatira buong pamilya ni Sofia, sa tingin mo mag stay ang guy sa gnayng house na punong puno ng kamag anak lalo at alta ang guy
@6:36 Ikaw yung tipo ng tita sa mga family gatherings na kinaiinisan at iniiwasan ng mga pamangkin kasi pakialamera at pintasera. Bakit hindi buhay mo ang pakialaman mo at wag ka mag dictate o impose sa tao ng gusto mo!
Sanay kasi siya na curated lahat. face nya, pics nya, posts nya, pati comments sa kanya kelangan edited din. Kita mo itong interview sa kanya ni Karen edited na edited. Pinalalabas ang gusto nyang palabasin for people to like her. Also dami pang excuses bat di sila kasal. It's as simple as hindi naman sya inoffer ng kasal, pinahahaba pa.
i think, she's taking care of her mental health, some people naman kasi thinks na they are giving positive criticisms achuchu, pero mas maganda nanggagaling yun sa mga tao na you trust and look up to, not just to any strangers online
You go girl! Establish yourself and magpakayaman ka. Bonus na lang na mayaman ang family ng baby daddy. End game or not, importante yung kayang kaya mo buhayin ang sarili mo and ng anak niyo :)
You can see the deep trauma that her parents' marriage had caused her. Her partner, Daniel, probably has his own trauma as well. I see them as two people who still hasn't healed from their wounds but has been thrusted into parenthood. They are trying to be the best parents that they can be for their daughter while being cautious of making another huge life decision that they know can affect their daughter's childhood.
Sofia, you have a good heart. I don't understand bakit ang daming ayaw sa kanya - she has taken care of her family and sent all her siblings to school and built a home for her family. An example of someone na tinaguyod ang sarili.
I think what turns people off is yung pagka pretentious ng mga post nya tas idagdag mo pa na associated sya sa alta na pamilya. Pagkahaba haba na maraming sinabi pero souless at mukhang AI generated naman. I think people would have a better perception of her if it seemed more real na galimg sa kanya.
I think it’s because her reputation precedes her. She has a history of bad behavior and unfortunately, the only time she makes the news is when she has done something wrong.
Sa panahon ngaun, di na uso kasal. Lalo na sa hirap ng annulment satin. May kilala nga ako, 2 or 3 na anak after 10 years lang nag pakasal. I think hindi parin ready si Sofia, base sa interview nya since sya ang breadwinner ng family nya. If ever na mag pakasal sya, ma tatali ang finances nya sa family nya pag nagasawa na, imbis na makatulong pa sya sa family nya. Eh lalo na yung brother nya, kailangan ng tulong. Kaya naman pala todo kayod sya. Tapos nag iipon pa sya kasi gusto pa nya mag college kasi sya lahat ang nag patapos ng mga kapatid nya. Mas gusto ko na sya ngaun after watching the interview. Sobrang mahal nya yung family nya and lalong lalo na kapatid nya. Talagang misunderstood lang sya.
Trying hard to be a socialite. Dati sa interview sa kanya sabi nya naghirap din daw sila, umabot daw sa point na walang makain? Luh. May kaya naman silang pamilya dati pa. Pero ngayon sobrang trying hard na talaga maging socialite. She’s got lavish lifestyle.
Her mental health issue is bec of bashers not helping in anyway about her life. Its just right that she deletes al negativity. Live and let live mga peeps. At the end of the day what she has in her life is from pure hard work. No judgement.
Tried and tested, if after 5 years of being together, he still hasn’t proposed or married you - wala siyang plano and does not see you a future with you.
Not sure ilang years na sila. Not saying walang plano si guy. But the number 5 ia thw magic number
I may not a fan but after watching the vid,I admire her now! She's misinterpreted because she's really pretty so parang thinking ng lahat social climber sya but no she worked so hard for her family! The siblings are very lucky to have her!
8:19, yan din iniisip ko. What were her parents doing while she was growing up and what are they doing now? Bakit kailangan siya ang maging breadwinner?
I was expecting her to be eloquent kasi maboka sya sa IG sa mga caption nya at very deep din kaso hindi pala. Mukhang totoo nga yung chatgpt hahahaha 😂
Hahahaha mga bitter ni hindi nyo pinansin her very calm demeanor anawering all the tough life questions. Sofia is too young and you could easily tell wala pa sya sa stage na mature and can confidently answer all questions. Sana mas mapansin nyo what she accomplished at a young age na di nyo pa nagagawa.
6:48 breadwinner is just a term she came up with to have a good reputation & to be relatable. Her parents worked and are still working. Sofia is now able to give them luxurious gifts, but she was not and is not the breadwinner. Sana irespeto naman nya parents nya kung gusto nya magpabango ng pangalan.
When I watched her interview with Ms. Karen, nagiba ang pagtingin ko sa kanya...mabait at makikita mo yung malasakit sa pamilya nya. I can see her now as strong woman & having a good heart. Keep it up Ms. Sofia!!!
Bakit ba big deal sa iba ang marriage para sa kanya? Maraming tao na may anak pero hindi pa nakakasal. They're still young pa naman, dahil ba rich yung guy? Parang nappressure si Sofia sa marriage eh ayaw pa nga ni Daniel. Magugulat nalang kayo kinabukasan engaged na yan kaka pressure niyo kung bakit hindi pa kasal. Lol
If I were Sofia I won't marry him yet even if he asks for it unless he is stable enough on his own without the help of his parents. She deserves someone who can stand his ground just like how she's done it through the years. She is very hardworking also a breadwinner, she has a beautiful house, and she has her own money. She deserves someone who has the same passion as her whether he comes from a rich family or not. Maybe that person is not Daniel?
Agree! Kung dati ang tingin ko mas angat si D kasi from de buena familia, now, si S pala kasi she can support herself and their daughter at that young age. Eh si D, parang kailangan pa mas magbanat ng buto…after car racing, what’s next? Kaya I’d say prove himself first, not only on earning his own money but also his love for S. Di pa ata na-enjoy ang pagkabinata baka kung kelan kasal saka magloko, huwag na nga muna ang kasal…now I understand.
Let’s be real. Eventho Sofia can provide for herself and her baby, ibang level parin ang family nung guy and that’s what she’s after. The stature of being part of that alta family. Obvious naman na she wants to be accepted in the clan . She can say so otherwise pero yung social media posts niya screams insecurity talaga. Bata pa siya, maybe her mind will change and she will have profound realizations na the guy is not all that. Kase kamo walang work diba?
As a mom, I have a different perspective. I personally wouldn’t want my son to marry a breadwinner. While it may be true that she is hardworking and is currently earning more, until how long will that sustain her? Influencers come and go. Let’s be realistic, her career as a social media influencer only took off after her name was attached to the baby daddy. Long before that, all she had was a handful of endorsement from local brands. When the income stops coming in, whose responsibility is it to provide for her parent and siblings? It is a Filipino culture that when you marry someone, you marry the family as well; it is inevitable that the problem of the wife will be the problem of the hubby and vice versa.
I agree with you. Hindi tama ang ganitong trait. Dapat teach them how to fish and hindi yung basta aasa na lang. Bilib ako sa kanya and mabait siyang anak and kapatid pero hindi fair sa partner na karguhin ang whole family niya. Hindi naman katandaan ang parents and ang siblings naman pwd magwork para magtulong tulong to take care of the family’s needs. She can help only of she wants to pero out of her good heart, kinargo niya buong pamilya niya. Sana mabago yung ganitong kalakara sa Pinoy family.
Go Sofia, like you my baby din kami ng partner ko at di rin kami kasal. Weird lang when people ask when are you getting married and usually sa mga Filipinos ko naririnig yun, like babae ba ang nag propopose? Mga foreigners naman wala sila pakialam sa buhay namin haha
Di naman sa nagmamadali din ako ikasal pero want ko din. Kaso ang partner ko ang sabi want muna niya stable kami to give me the wedding I deserve, and I respect that. So sana hinay hinay ang mga tao sa pag comment about sa buhay ng may buhay.
If you both dont want to be married, i get it. But parang ikaw gusto mo pero reason ng partner mo is stable??? hmmmm assess mo yung stable na yun… kung maganda work nya, maybe??!pero kung regular job lang, antagal mo maghihintay girl. Sa true lang, reason lang ng partner mo yun…ayaw pa nya pakasalan ka, di sya sure. When a man is sure, no ifs, no buts., he will put a ring on it.
Pag ganyan may reason na kesyo ganito it means di pa siya ready magpatali. Eh pano yan nakuha niya na kasi sayo yung wife duties kaya kontento na siya dun
obvious naman na wala pang alok na kasal. pero ano bang gus2 nyo, maging proud si Sofia na ayaw siya pakasalan? hindi rin naman siya nagpretend na siya ang tumanggi. malay nyo naman hindi kasal ang priority niya sa sitwasyon nya
8:54 truth, kasal kasal daw at walang divorce pero talamak ang kabitan anakan sa labas at abuse. I'd rather be loved properly by a real man. Too many man child out there.
Sinabi naman ni sofia sa inteeview na may inaasikaso si daniel sa lugar nila na negosyo. Baka ito na ang paraan para magkaroon din sya ng sariling pagkakakitaan para kay sofia and zoe and eventually pakakasal na sila pag stable na sila pareho without depending sa pamilya ng lalake.
If you can read between the lines, here are the things you will notice:
1) history repeats itself, yung father nya is from the family na may ari ng sta lucia mall pero parang walang direksyon. Kaya lumaki sila na isang kwarto lang nakatira.
2) may takot si sofia na iwanan ni guy.
3) yung story nung dilema ng mommy niya before hiwalayan ung tatay niya. Nagtitiis para kumpleto ang family, Parang yun ang ganap niya ngayon.
4) sofia is waiting, pero walang assurance. Yung positivity niya false positive. Pinipilit niya na lang magka positive just because yun na lang ang kaya niyang panghawakan.
Ilang beses ko na to naobserve that daughters will tend to pick men who are just like their father. Yung sister ko is just like my mother, nagtiis sa masamang ugali ng asawa just to keep the family intact.
@10:27 Jusko ang braincells mo hindi gumana lahat! She was the breadwinner of the family, she paid for her siblings education, she built a house for them as well. She took the role of her mother and father and provided for her family. What more can a parent ask for from a daughter who sacrificed her ypunger years continously working till this very day just to give them a comfortable life! Kahit mabuntis pa sya ng paulit ulit, the fact remains that she is a good daughter. She even gave her mother a beautiful apo! Kaya mag tigil kang bruha ka! Kanina ka pa nega dyan!
Yung talaga mentality ng pinoy ang mga pinupuna is yung mga mali. Instead na tignan yung mga nagawa sa buhay nya na pinapahalagahan ang kapakanan ng pamilya nya.
Usong uso ang “breadwinner” sa pinas kaya matagal ang asenso. Umaasa nalang sila. So embarrassing na yung bumuhay sa magulang ay yung anak and pati sa mga kapatid. Saludo ako sa mga gumagawa nito. Pero sa mga umaasa lang sa ate or kuya, magbanat kayo ng buto. Adults na pero asa pa din. Ang toxic ng ganyan. Di ka pede magpahinga kase nga nga yung buong pamilya kung tumigil ka mag trabaho
sa baryo namin kairita nung wala ka pang bf bakit daw wala nung nagka bf kelan daw kakasal pag kinasal na bakit wala pa daw anak nung nag kaanak na kelan daw susundan ewan dami marites dami paki alamera
After watching this video, nag-iba ang tingin ko kay Sofia. Her mom said nag-iba talaga ang ugali niya nung naging mom na siya. I believe she is also more hardworking than Daniel. She was been working since her younger years pa. She was able to save money to buy herself a house. Laking yaman lang si Daniel pero ano ba napatunayan niya? Does he have a job? LOL. This girl knows what to do with her money. I hope people stop judging her just because “hindi pa siya pinapakasalan”. Mostly pa pinoy ang usisera/o. Hindi lahat ng marriage successful, tandaan niyo yan. Hindi yan solusyon sa mga problema kakaloka kayo. These are the same people na magsasabing “Dapat kasi di mo pinakasalan” once hindi nagworkout ang relationship nila Sofia and Daniel. They’re young and they can do whatever they want.
Actually kaya lang ganyan mga tao kasi she seems atat and trying hard to be alta dahil lang nagka baby daddy from an alta family. Plus usap usapan na maldita. Ayaw ng mga tao na pretentious. Now if she seemed more true to herself and her roots perhaps mas positive perception sa kanya.
Wag ka na umasa jan sa babydaddy mo. Work hard and magpayaman. Kung gusto ka nian pakasalan, sna dati pa.
ReplyDeleteDid you even watch the vlog?? Ganyan tayo eh…pala-comment ng nega without even hearing the full context. I feel sad for you. On the contrary, this interview actually changed my perception of Sofia. She’s a good person pala. You can tell that right away just by seeing how she treats her family. Especially her parents.
DeleteTrue..I think her baby daddy doesn't see her in his future.
Delete11:20 - True.
DeleteI can feel her pain. Keep the faith, Sofia. By the way, congrats sa new house.
DeleteI think yan nmn gnagawa nya..
Deletetama. love yourself first at wag ibuhos lahat sa guy
DeleteBelieve it or not Hindi lahat naniniwala Sa kasal.
DeleteMukhang wlang plano si guy pakasalan sya kaya lagi sya naiiyak sa interview, halatang yung guy ang hindi ready
DeleteAng gagaling nyo magcomment e kung kayo slnasa posisyon nya, baka grabe p gawin nyo. Meron pang wag ibuhos love s isang guy.. parang di kayo na inlove. Sus
Delete11:45 halatang fan ka ni Sofia kaya todo tanggol ka. Ikaw lang yung tanggol nang tanggol na may 3 dots like … sa comment kaya halatang isang tao ka lang. At sunud-sunod din reply mo based sa time stamp.
DeleteNot 11:45 pero what is wrong with being sophia's fan?
Delete@1145 hahaha oo nga no yung … tapos may kasunod na wors without space! Grabe! Napansin mo pa yun hahahaha
DeleteNot 11:45 pero grabe exclusive ba ang use ng … ? Kaloka ka! Point lang nya manood muna bago mema. Not a fan here but I like Karen so that’s why I watched but the interview is so good. She answered truthfully in my opinion.
DeleteEh ano nman ngayon kung di kasal? As in please stop na natin ang stereotyping on what a good family should be!!!
Pag gusto, may paraan.
DeletePag ayaw, may dahilan.
Bow!
Di ba kahit d ka pakasalan at live in kayo more than 5 years common law wife ka na? I admire her determination at ang pagmamahal nya sa Mama nya.
Delete4:00 use your logic. I didn’t say exclusive lang yung gamit ng 3 dots … isa lang yan sa pinagbasehan ko at kung iisa-isahin ko dito, tatamarin ako type haha. Makikita mo naman sa construction and tone ng sentences na iisang tao lang yung nagcocomment.
Deleteactually i think sofia is just being smart. The guy is young, they both are. And the child was not even planned. Gets ko yung mentality niya, thats a smart way to keep a man actually. If her partner chooses to marry her then good, if not then no hurt feelings. The more mo pinepressure ang mga sarili nyo, the more na mgkakaroon ng turbulence sa relationship. Ok na yang ganyan.
DeleteI think halata na hindi lang isa ang taga pag tanggol nya. If you watched d video malalaman mo na mabait talaga.
DeleteRegarding sa kung pakakasalan sya sinabi nya dba na naghahanda na c babay daddy.
Dami inggit kay sofia may mayaman na jowa at marami work kainggit inggit talaga
DeleteGanda naman. Congratulations 🎊
ReplyDeleteIf gusto kang pakasalan, papakasalan ka. Hindi naman excuse na porket you come from a broken family eh. Dami ko din kilala na galing sa broken family pero nung bumuo na ng sariling pamilya, napaka ayos. Sometimes lesson yun para wag kayong matulad doon.
ReplyDeleteBat ba marunong pa kayo sa kanila?? Every person’s struggle is different from another. Kahit na sabihin mo pang pare-parehong galing sa broken family. No two people are alike. I think…them taking their time and being cautious is a very mature and responsible. Pwede ba tigilan ang pagmamarunong?
DeleteGrabe ka naman. Maybe yung kakilala mo do’n niya nakita yung way. Di mo ba naisip na iba pa rin yung experience ni Sofia?
DeleteThis is just a common Toxic Filipino trait @11:40 Do not rush people about their life plans. “Eh kasi wala pang anak, eh kasi ayaw kang pakasalan etc… “
DeleteMy Goodness! You Never Know What Someone is Going Through, So Be Kind and just shut up..
And besides, They are still young! Let them be do what they want.
My Gosh naman yung iba dito. Kung hindi milyonaryo yung guy siguro hindi kayo magrereact ng ganyan about sa kasal. Nakita ko sa video na mabait na anak si Sofia and masipag. If magpapakasal sila then good, if hindi ok lang din. Di porket may anak kailangan ng kasal.
DeleteExcuses lang yang ayaw magpakasal because he came from a broken family. It's not a toxic Filipino trait, it's common sense. Any guy would know if they want to marry a girl kahit 6 months pa lang sila into a relationship. If hindi, you're just a "Forever Girlfriend". Stop wasting your youth on a guy na wala pang nahahanap na "right one" for now kaya nandyan ka sa buhay niya, and kapag nakahanap na yan, ang bahay na you helped to renovate eh mapupunta sa ibang girl.
Delete11:40 Yun nga ang point, nabuntis siya ng maaga kaya she wants to slow down now by choosing not to get married yet! Puro kasal ang nasa isip ng tao! Not everyone’s life revolves around getting married (kahit may anak).
DeleteTruth hurts lang mga mare. Si guy ang ayaw pa magpakasal pero si Sofia atat na atat na. Ano ba kayo mga nagka amnesia? Eh panay panay nga pagpaparinig niyan sa IGs niya eh. Lol. Not 11:40 though. Just being sensible only.
DeleteParang contradicting nga statements nya. Gusto takasan ang toxic family environment at gumawa ng sariling family pero hindi rin stable ang pinuntahan.
Delete12:56 True. Ang babata pa ng mga yan, let them live their lives. Halatang walang mga nagmamahal dito sa mga commenters kaya naghahasik ng kanegahan eh
Delete9:18 Panget mo ka bonding for sure. Ikaw yung kasabihan na bad company corrupts good character. Dapat syo iwasan coz' contagious ang pagiging nega.
DeleteSaka ano pinagsasabi ni renovate na bahay, hello Sofia built that house herself its her own house yun guy ang walang na build na house from his own keep ok! Si Sofia nag ta trabaho if you watched the vdeo she sent her sibs to college hay nako eye roll!!
DeleteI am not 9:18 pero 7:21, ano naman ang nega sa pagsasabi ng katotohanan naman? Masyado naman nasobrahan ng pagkawoke mga tao, ayaw makarinig ng totoo kasi super soft na mga tao ngayon.
Delete8:07 There are things na dapat hindi na sinasabi para hindi nakakasakit. Masyado kayong pakialamera at insensitive.
DeleteI don't get it. Hindi nagmamadali pero nagpabuntis.
ReplyDeleteTeh, watch the vlog again. Baka sa second time magets mo na.
DeleteAgree 100000%
DeleteTrueee
Deleteobviously not planned
DeleteTe d nya masabi na yung lalaki ang d pa ready nanood ka ba
DeleteUnplanned pregnancy obviously
DeleteNagpabuntis? It takes two dear. Ngayon ka lang ba nakakita ng unplanned pregnancy or are you insinuationf something else?
Deleteante, hindi lahat ng babae tulad mong ang tanging purpose lang sa mundo ay maikasal. hindi po lahat ng babae ganyan ang perspective sa buhay. ang hirap ng annulment process dito ante kaya hindi yan ticket para masabeng mahal ka ng lalake. ang daming couple ang naghihiwalay because of infidelity and differences kahit married pa. may law din tayong kahit hindi kasal may legal process para sa mga lalakeng hindi nag poprovide financially sa mga anak kaya anong purpose bakit namimilit sa kasal? hindi ko gets. dahil sa singsing? lol
Delete11:41pm agree. Bilib ako that she works hard for her family and was able to build a beautiful house for them. I dont believe kelangan pakasal pag nabuntis. But if she didnt want a broken family, then why was she not careful? Did she think her bf was such a good catch kaya ok to get pregnant? Obvious sa mga sagot nya that she is ready to get married but the guy is not..………
Delete11:41 it's unplanned obviously. Wag na i pressure magpakasal ang babata pa nila. let them live their loves the way they want it
DeleteSo inspite of she works hard for her family and all yet she commited a mistake and got preganant so di pwede na namali sya? Sometimes you trip and thaTs what happened to her the good thing is napanindigan nya and for me she is an independent woman so its ok if she gets married or not.
DeleteEh bakit naman yung brother naikasal kay Ella?
ReplyDeleteErrhhmm bakit porket ba magkapatid eh magkapareho na ng personality pati ng mga priorities sa buhay?? And did you really watch vlog??? She never said naman na wala silang plans magpakasal. In fact, one of the last few things that she said is that they’re working on it.
DeleteReasons nalang siguro nila yang magjowa
Deletekse nga ka level kahit papano yun family ni ella sa lalaki. di naman sa yaman kse mayaman talaga yun guy pero siguro may class, may education… pero ako mas bilib kay sofia and family! hardworking, mabait and respectful. There are things money can’t buy! Nasa family ni Sofia yun! Peace of mind and real happiness! Go Sofia!
DeleteNung napanood ko yung interview naawa ako kay sofia kase obvious naman na wala talagang plano yung guy sa kanya, but she still believes/hopes na meron. Then nabasa ko yung comment ni 11:56, naawa din ako sa kanya, kase naniniwala din siya. Sad.
Deletethe brother has stable job,her guy has none.di kaya & family ayaw talaga
Delete11:42 Mas matanda ng di hamak brother ni Daniel sa kanya ready na mag asawa yun. Si Daniel may pagka immature pa hindi pa ready mag pamilya. Wait for the right time lalagay din sa tahimik yan pag feel na mya.
Delete12:05 Si Sofia self made sya. Si Ella mayaman ang mga magulang. Wag nyong maliitin si Sofia at nag sisikap sya sa mga kapatid nya pinag tapos nya pag aaral tapos nagpatayo ng bahay para sa pamilya nya at ngayon pa lang pag aaralin ang sarili nya kaya tumigil nga kayo napaka selfless nya tapos ginaganyan nyo!
DeleteAgree with 1.30 and she earns her own keep. Yun Ella although ok fine they are rich but i dont think makes enough to build a house or support a family like Sofia. Sofia has more to be proud of and yet in this interview shes so humble. Shes a girlboss!
Delete5:55 💯
DeleteSuper like ko na si Sofia!
ReplyDeleteMe too !
DeleteNatouch lang ako and I hope the best for her regardless if she is married or not.
DeleteI like her after this interview ❤️
DeleteTrying hard
ReplyDeleteGrabe sya. Ang bait at vulnerable na ng bata trying hard pa nakita mo.
Delete10:20 Dont waste your time dyan kay 11:59 walang lovelife yan kaya ganyan malungkot or baka di sya mahal ng jowa nya kaya nega
Delete7:25 hahahaha nagpahalatang single siya eh
DeleteThe fact that she's so emotional and she cries so quickly means may pinag dadaanan siya sa buhay.
DeleteIn God's perfect time
ReplyDeleteBibili ako nyang body wash at alcohol nya!
ReplyDeleteFeeling nya ba ang ganda ganda nya sa ganyang hairstyle/make up/tanning/ etc??? Sana may magsabi sa kanya na nagmukha lang siya matrona at hindi siya gumanda
ReplyDelete12:28 umaapaw ang inggit mo dzai.
DeleteI bet mas maganda pa hairstyle nya sa mukha mo. Ganyan mag comment mga taong walang face value, lagi nakalait. Kahit gano maganda tao, may masasabi pa din.
DeleteTan talaga sya un person haha. Saw her at CCF ortigas before, naglalakad kasabay namin with a friend. Hindi tlg sya maputi. Wala syang make up that time. Pumuputi lang siguryo sa pictures coz of the lighting and di ba may mga pa effecr ang cameras ngayon.
Delete3:50 true yan. In my experience, yung mga chaka sila yung wagas maka-lait sa itsura at pananamit. Yung mga magagandang tunay, tahimik lang and at times supportive pa nga.
Delete12:28 Akala mo din ba maganda yang ugali mo? At least sya balat lang nya ang tan eh ikaw ang itim ng budhi mo at napaka babaw mong tao for making pansin ang itsura ng isang tao.
DeleteWrong. Finofollow ko na si Sofia since Princess and I days nila. Circa 2012. maputi syang bata. Nagpa-tan lang sya after manganak
DeleteU can feel d sadness na wala pang plan s guy magpakasal d lang nya masabi
ReplyDeleteYup kaya sya lagi naiiyak tuwing yung guy ang topic
DeleteOk lang yan bata pa nman sila. Pag 30 na wala pa rin, yun.. dun ka na magisip isip! Sa ngayon magpayaman kna muna girl at asikasuhin ang anak
ReplyDeleteSobra naman mag judge yung mga comments. Diba maigi na nagpa buntis man, pero matagal na silang magkasama padin. And bat kayo nag judge sa rason not to get married? Diba maigi na they’re not rushing into another thing that’s permanent? Whatever the reason, if it makes for a wiser decision, we shouldn’t berate them for it.
ReplyDeleteYou're right Sofia, take your time. You and your partner are young, focused on your indiviual goals at the present time, and know your wants and needs. As long as both of you are on the same page, then what you have right now is perfect for you and your child. Some may judge (like 11:20, 11:40, 11:41, 11:42-one & same person, it's obvious), some may be inspired (like me) but you do you. I'm impressed.
ReplyDeleteHaha e isang tao ka lang din naman na kanina pa todo tanggol, dinamihan mo lang comments mo
DeleteLahat nman tayo anonymous jusko maka judge lang! O sya para masaya ka ako na lahat yan ok na? Hahaha
DeleteGanda ng house.
ReplyDeleteahem, yung iba dito, hinay2x kayo sa pagko comment. intindihin nyo din status ng buhay nyo. May bagong bahay na ba? sa pakasalan cya o hindi, buhay nila yan. at sana, tigilan na mga tanong like this.
ReplyDeleteShes 25 lng pala
ReplyDeletemukang mid 30s na sya
Delete25 lng pala sya. Like ko sya dto sa interview
ReplyDeleteD maka plano ang lalake na pakasalan sya kasi paano nya bubuhayin pamilya nya. Mukhang wala din naman trabaho si guy. Oo mayaman pero unlike sa kapatid mukhang may minamanage. Nakilala at nakakuha sya ng endorsements dhil din kay sofia. Other than that racing lang ata alam.
ReplyDeleteI am happy for her house and for being a breadwinner. Pero you can feel na she is sad, she is longing for security w/ Daniel. Tingin ko hindi naman pera habol niya, talagang mahal niya si guy kaya nasasaktan siya.
ReplyDeleteTroooooo, sana matauhan na si guy although ksi bata pa e, baka intay sya another 10yrs, so 15 na si Zoe nun
DeleteHinde porket nabuntis at nagka anak agad eh kelangan magpakasal na. Pinoy pakelamera sa buhay ng may buhay. Let them enjoy life and fulfill their dreams if sila talaga eh magpakasal din sila in time.
ReplyDeleteTrue! Napakapaladesisyon ng mga pinoy. Such a toxic trait!
DeleteYou can feel she wanted to get married but the guy ayaw pa
ReplyDeleteNasa 20s pa lang sila e lalo na yung guy real talk tayo sa ganyan edad tapos mayaman pa e explore explore lang gusto nyan, the baby is unplanned
Ito talaga yun. Dami dito dalang dala sa kwento. Haha. Sabi nila eh kasi yung kuya may trabaho etc. Eh diba galing naman sila sa iisang pamilya? Bakit siya hindi bigyan ng trabahong imamanage? Sofia's BF, although kind, is immature. Yun lang yun.
DeleteThis time, mukha syang matured na. She really looks older.
ReplyDeleteTrue!! Sumabay pa ung kulay ng buhok
DeleteKahawig niya si Krista Ranillo sa photo
ReplyDeleteIn fairness to Krista natural ang beauty nya.
Deletemay pnagawa si sofia? kasi ang naalala ko sa kanya nung loveteam pa sila ni diego ay ganyan na, iba lang ang hair color ngaun ..
DeleteDaniel’s brother enrique is 34 already. So mas na din siguro yun mag isip and also mas matagal na din sila dating ni ella. Baka mas magtaka ang family why is sofia getting married first just because May baby eh mas matagal ng dating si ella and enrique.
ReplyDeleteLet them take their time. Sofia is only 25
Get your facts straight hindi pa 34 yung kuya. Kaloka ka. Pinatanda mo nang husto
DeleteWhen couples are engaged I think ok lang to ask when is the wedding. But if the couple is not engaged questions like “when are you getting married” or “bakit di pa kayo kınakasal” is not appropriate. Lalo na to ask the girl that question kasi di naman kaila na a big part of getting married is actually being asked by the man to get married.
ReplyDeleteBut they have a child duh! they can skip the engagement part and go straight to the wedding. Buti sana kung wla pang anak
DeleteJust because may anak sila required na sila to get married. Marriage is hard specially if one is not yet ready, magkakaroon lang ng resentments and issues along the way if you decided to get married because you have a child. Let's not stick with traditions, every relationship is different.
ReplyDeleteExactly the point of Sofia, shes ready to get married and yet the guy is not. Kaya sya nalulungkot pero di nya maamin
DeleteJust because may anak sila required na sila to get married. Marriage is hard specially if one is not yet ready, magkakaroon lang ng resentments and issues along the way kasi if you decided to get married because you have a child. Let's not stick with traditions, every relationship is different.
ReplyDeleteYan yung mentality karamihan sa pinoy, pag nabuntis dapat pakasalan if hindi pa kinasal ayaw pakasalan. Di natin alam saan lulugar kasi bawat galaw may masasabi.
DeleteThey are still together and they have money, not so young narin kaya why not? Yes, unplanned pregnancy pero they have a relationship so ano pa inaantay nila. Yun hindi pa ready na statement is just an excuse na ayaw pa, ayaw sa kanya, or talagang hanggang jan lang.
DeleteDepende rin kung ang lalaki may marriage offer. Eh sa case ni SA mukhang wala din naman.
DeletePero nagsasama sila sa isang bubong? And they love each other? So why nga hindi pa magpakasal? Or bakit nagsasama?
Delete12:39 ay nako lola wag mo na igaya sa panahon nyo
DeleteMukhang di sila nagsasama sa iisang bubong ksi bahay ni Sofia yan at anjan nakatira buong pamilya ni Sofia, sa tingin mo mag stay ang guy sa gnayng house na punong puno ng kamag anak lalo at alta ang guy
Delete@6:36 Ikaw yung tipo ng tita sa mga family gatherings na kinaiinisan at iniiwasan ng mga pamangkin kasi pakialamera at pintasera. Bakit hindi buhay mo ang pakialaman mo at wag ka mag dictate o impose sa tao ng gusto mo!
DeleteHirap niyo karelasyon. Masyadong atat sa kasal hahaha.
DeleteExactly! Super cancer sa lipunan takaga yang ganyang comments! Big yikes sa mga pinoy na ganyan magisip!
DeleteYang si sofia aya nakakrinig ng positive criticisms nang bloblock
ReplyDeleteSanay kasi siya na curated lahat. face nya, pics nya, posts nya, pati comments sa kanya kelangan edited din. Kita mo itong interview sa kanya ni Karen edited na edited. Pinalalabas ang gusto nyang palabasin for people to like her. Also dami pang excuses bat di sila kasal. It's as simple as hindi naman sya inoffer ng kasal, pinahahaba pa.
DeleteKung hindi healthy for her mental health, ok lang mang block.
Deletei think, she's taking care of her mental health, some people naman kasi thinks na they are giving positive criticisms achuchu, pero mas maganda nanggagaling yun sa mga tao na you trust and look up to, not just to any strangers online
Deletekala ko nasa late 20s na siya. napa google nga ako.
ReplyDeleteanyway, di ko siya nakita nung housewarming tsaka bday ni kathryn b
andun sya with Daniel
DeleteTodo kayod kasi c girl priority nya work
DeleteStill young and yet has accomplished so much. Her daughter is lucky to have such a responsible, hardworking mom.
ReplyDeleteYou go girl! Establish yourself and magpakayaman ka. Bonus na lang na mayaman ang family ng baby daddy. End game or not, importante yung kayang kaya mo buhayin ang sarili mo and ng anak niyo :)
ReplyDeleteYou can see the deep trauma that her parents' marriage had caused her. Her partner, Daniel, probably has his own trauma as well. I see them as two people who still hasn't healed from their wounds but has been thrusted into parenthood. They are trying to be the best parents that they can be for their daughter while being cautious of making another huge life decision that they know can affect their daughter's childhood.
ReplyDeleteCouldn't have said it any better!
DeleteSofia, you have a good heart. I don't understand bakit ang daming ayaw sa kanya - she has taken care of her family and sent all her siblings to school and built a home for her family. An example of someone na tinaguyod ang sarili.
ReplyDeletePansin ko kasi pag commoner na nagkajowa ng rich kinaiinggitan. Ako like ko din c sofia. Hayaan na lang nating mga inggetera at bitter
DeleteI think what turns people off is yung pagka pretentious ng mga post nya tas idagdag mo pa na associated sya sa alta na pamilya. Pagkahaba haba na maraming sinabi pero souless at mukhang AI generated naman. I think people would have a better perception of her if it seemed more real na galimg sa kanya.
DeleteAkala ko din very articulate sya pero parang nahirapan si Karen sa pag interview sa kanya. Hindi nya ma express sarili nya..
DeletePano naman pwera sa linis image ngayon ni Sofia, e talaga namang attitude si girl
DeleteI think it’s because her reputation precedes her. She has a history of bad behavior and unfortunately, the only time she makes the news is when she has done something wrong.
DeleteSa panahon ngaun, di na uso kasal. Lalo na sa hirap ng annulment satin. May kilala nga ako, 2 or 3 na anak after 10 years lang nag pakasal. I think hindi parin ready si Sofia, base sa interview nya since sya ang breadwinner ng family nya. If ever na mag pakasal sya, ma tatali ang finances nya sa family nya pag nagasawa na, imbis na makatulong pa sya sa family nya. Eh lalo na yung brother nya, kailangan ng tulong. Kaya naman pala todo kayod sya. Tapos nag iipon pa sya kasi gusto pa nya mag college kasi sya lahat ang nag patapos ng mga kapatid nya. Mas gusto ko na sya ngaun after watching the interview. Sobrang mahal nya yung family nya and lalong lalo na kapatid nya. Talagang misunderstood lang sya.
ReplyDeleteSana pinapatong na lang nya ang bag ni karen sa ibabaw ng table.
ReplyDeleteUnnecessary advice
ReplyDeleteShe seems doing well may own house pa sya
Mag pa yaman ka ng todo Sofia
Show them you don't need them
I am sad sa mga comments dito na parang hindi naman naintindihan maigi ang interview.
ReplyDeleteTrying hard to be a socialite. Dati sa interview sa kanya sabi nya naghirap din daw sila, umabot daw sa point na walang makain? Luh. May kaya naman silang pamilya dati pa. Pero ngayon sobrang trying hard na talaga maging socialite. She’s got lavish lifestyle.
ReplyDeleteHer mental health issue is bec of bashers not helping in anyway about her life. Its just right that she deletes al negativity. Live and let live mga peeps. At the end of the day what she has in her life is from pure hard work. No judgement.
ReplyDeleteTried and tested, if after 5 years of being together, he still hasn’t proposed or married you - wala siyang plano and does not see you a future with you.
ReplyDeleteNot sure ilang years na sila. Not saying walang plano si guy. But the number 5 ia thw magic number
ang ganda ng damit ni Sofia😍😍....anu po kaya tawag dun?😊😊
ReplyDeleteSa panahon ngayon di naman sagot marriage, ang dami2 nag hihiwalay and unhappy. What works for them dba wala na tayo doon.
ReplyDeleteMaldita naman yan sa totoong buhay ano bang sinasabi nyong good heart hahahahahahah
ReplyDeletenaalala ko ang post dati dito sa fp na nagmaldita c sofia sa mall sa baguio.
DeleteSyempre ganyan talaga sa camera pero in real life no comment
Delete8:40 It takes one to know one. Kabisado mo kasi ikaw din ganyan lol
DeleteI may not a fan but after watching the vid,I admire her now! She's misinterpreted because she's really pretty so parang thinking ng lahat social climber sya but no she worked so hard for her family! The siblings are very lucky to have her!
ReplyDeleteBaldado ba parents ni Sofia? Anong drama kaya tong pauso ni Sofia na working so hard for her family. Ano ang parents nya, mga di kumikilos?
Delete8:19, yan din iniisip ko. What were her parents doing while she was growing up and what are they doing now? Bakit kailangan siya ang maging breadwinner?
DeleteKilala ko to in person haha mabait naman kaso mahilig mag make face sya lagi kaya nakakairita 😂
ReplyDeleteMatapobre pa din ba or nagbago na?
DeleteI was expecting her to be eloquent kasi maboka sya sa IG sa mga caption nya at very deep din kaso hindi pala. Mukhang totoo nga yung chatgpt hahahaha 😂
ReplyDeleteTrue hahaha! Napansin ko rin, kala ko sosyal magsalita at may sense, kala ko intelligent magsalita like kung pano sya mag post sa socmed
DeleteAko din akala ko very fluent cya pero I admired her sa pagka family oriented nya akala ko rampa2x lang sya breadwinner pala cya..
DeleteSome people mas fluent in writing than talking. Kayo nga ang galing niyo mang bash dito, in person Kaya?
DeleteHahahaha mga bitter ni hindi nyo pinansin her very calm demeanor anawering all the tough life questions. Sofia is too young and you could easily tell wala pa sya sa stage na mature and can confidently answer all
Deletequestions. Sana mas mapansin nyo what she accomplished at a young age na di nyo pa nagagawa.
6:48 breadwinner is just a term she came up with to have a good reputation & to be relatable. Her parents worked and are still working. Sofia is now able to give them luxurious gifts, but she was not and is not the breadwinner. Sana irespeto naman nya parents nya kung gusto nya magpabango ng pangalan.
DeleteI admire Sofia's values, mindset and character. I find her very responsible and gracious. Bless you and your family more.
ReplyDeleteWhen I watched her interview with Ms. Karen, nagiba ang pagtingin ko sa kanya...mabait at makikita mo yung malasakit sa pamilya nya. I can see her now as strong woman & having a good heart. Keep it up Ms. Sofia!!!
ReplyDeleteIsa ka sa mga nauto
DeleteMay mga imptd self-cleaning glasses, mahal nga lang.
ReplyDeleteWala naman kasi nag ppropose hahaha
ReplyDeleteWow Sof congrats! I admire you more now. Ang galing hard working and values her family. Bonus nalang Yung baby daddy nya kc she can stand on her own!
ReplyDeleteBakit ba big deal sa iba ang marriage para sa kanya? Maraming tao na may anak pero hindi pa nakakasal. They're still young pa naman, dahil ba rich yung guy? Parang nappressure si Sofia sa marriage eh ayaw pa nga ni Daniel. Magugulat nalang kayo kinabukasan engaged na yan kaka pressure niyo kung bakit hindi pa kasal. Lol
ReplyDeleteIf I were Sofia I won't marry him yet even if he asks for it unless he is stable enough on his own without the help of his parents. She deserves someone who can stand his ground just like how she's done it through the years. She is very hardworking also a breadwinner, she has a beautiful house, and she has her own money. She deserves someone who has the same passion as her whether he comes from a rich family or not. Maybe that person is not Daniel?
ReplyDeleteTrue!!!!
DeleteAgree! Kung dati ang tingin ko mas angat si D kasi from de buena familia, now, si S pala kasi she can support herself and their daughter at that young age. Eh si D, parang kailangan pa mas magbanat ng buto…after car racing, what’s next? Kaya I’d say prove himself first, not only on earning his own money but also his love for S. Di pa ata na-enjoy ang pagkabinata baka kung kelan kasal saka magloko, huwag na nga muna ang kasal…now I understand.
DeleteLet’s be real. Eventho Sofia can provide for herself and her baby, ibang level parin ang family nung guy and that’s what she’s after. The stature of being part of that alta family. Obvious naman na she wants to be accepted in the clan . She can say so otherwise pero yung social media posts niya screams insecurity talaga. Bata pa siya, maybe her mind will change and she will have profound realizations na the guy is not all that. Kase kamo walang work diba?
DeleteAs a mom, I have a different perspective. I personally wouldn’t want my son to marry a breadwinner. While it may be true that she is hardworking and is currently earning more, until how long will that sustain her? Influencers come and go. Let’s be realistic, her career as a social media influencer only took off after her name was attached to the baby daddy. Long before that, all she had was a handful of endorsement from local brands. When the income stops coming in, whose responsibility is it to provide for her parent and siblings? It is a Filipino culture that when you marry someone, you marry the family as well; it is inevitable that the problem of the wife will be the problem of the hubby and vice versa.
DeleteI agree with you. Hindi tama ang ganitong trait. Dapat teach them how to fish and hindi yung basta aasa na lang. Bilib ako sa kanya and mabait siyang anak and kapatid pero hindi fair sa partner na karguhin ang whole family niya. Hindi naman katandaan ang parents and ang siblings naman pwd magwork para magtulong tulong to take care of the family’s needs. She can help only of she wants to pero out of her good heart, kinargo niya buong pamilya niya. Sana mabago yung ganitong kalakara sa Pinoy family.
DeleteShe looks like 44. What a hair color!!
ReplyDeleteShe doesn't. And what's wrong with 44? I hope you look good when you get to that age.
DeleteYan ang take away mo? Babaw mo.
DeleteEto yung klaseng kelangan may masabi talagang negative para makatulog.
DeleteGo Sofia, like you my baby din kami ng partner ko at di rin kami kasal. Weird lang when people ask when are you getting married and usually sa mga Filipinos ko naririnig yun, like babae ba ang nag propopose? Mga foreigners naman wala sila pakialam sa buhay namin haha
ReplyDeleteDi naman sa nagmamadali din ako ikasal pero want ko din. Kaso ang partner ko ang sabi want muna niya stable kami to give me the wedding I deserve, and I respect that. So sana hinay hinay ang mga tao sa pag comment about sa buhay ng may buhay.
Stable then when ?
DeleteIf you both dont want to be married, i get it. But parang ikaw gusto mo pero reason ng partner mo is stable??? hmmmm assess mo yung stable na yun… kung maganda work nya, maybe??!pero kung regular job lang, antagal mo maghihintay girl. Sa true lang, reason lang ng partner mo yun…ayaw pa nya pakasalan ka, di sya sure. When a man is sure, no ifs, no buts., he will put a ring on it.
DeletePag ganyan may reason na kesyo ganito it means di pa siya ready magpatali. Eh pano yan nakuha niya na kasi sayo yung wife duties kaya kontento na siya dun
Deleteobvious naman na wala pang alok na kasal. pero ano bang gus2 nyo, maging proud si Sofia na ayaw siya pakasalan? hindi rin naman siya nagpretend na siya ang tumanggi. malay nyo naman hindi kasal ang priority niya sa sitwasyon nya
ReplyDeleteWhy bash her because the guy is not marrying her yet? Kasalanan nya ba yun? Kinasaya nyo yun?
ReplyDelete8:54 truth, kasal kasal daw at walang divorce pero talamak ang kabitan anakan sa labas at abuse. I'd rather be loved properly by a real man. Too many man child out there.
DeleteGanun ang society natin kung Wala pang asawa o anak yun ang ipapangalandakan. Kung me anak at di pa kasal yun din kelan kayo ikakasal. Hayyyy
ReplyDeleteI followed her after this interview. God bless you, Sofia
ReplyDeleteSinabi naman ni sofia sa inteeview na may inaasikaso si daniel sa lugar nila na negosyo. Baka ito na ang paraan para magkaroon din sya ng sariling pagkakakitaan para kay sofia and zoe and eventually pakakasal na sila pag stable na sila pareho without depending sa pamilya ng lalake.
ReplyDeleteDarling ur not the same level, a million miles apart. Better move on.
ReplyDeleteIf you can read between the lines, here are the things you will notice:
ReplyDelete1) history repeats itself, yung father nya is from the family na may ari ng sta lucia mall pero parang walang direksyon. Kaya lumaki sila na isang kwarto lang nakatira.
2) may takot si sofia na iwanan ni guy.
3) yung story nung dilema ng mommy niya before hiwalayan ung tatay niya. Nagtitiis para kumpleto ang family, Parang yun ang ganap niya ngayon.
4) sofia is waiting, pero walang assurance. Yung positivity niya false positive. Pinipilit niya na lang magka positive just because yun na lang ang kaya niyang panghawakan.
Ilang beses ko na to naobserve that daughters will tend to pick men who are just like their father. Yung sister ko is just like my mother, nagtiis sa masamang ugali ng asawa just to keep the family intact.
DeleteOn point
DeleteTrue.. I hope things turn out the best for her, she seems like a really good person.
DeleteGusto na nya magpakasal “iba pa rin yung sa mata ng Diyos”… pero yung guy ang di nagpopropose “masyado pang busy”…..
DeleteGrabe mambola si Karen. You are the daughter that a mom wants to have, eh nabuntis nga ng maaga. Kakaloka! Hahahah!
ReplyDelete@10:27 Jusko ang braincells mo hindi gumana lahat! She was the breadwinner of the family, she paid for her siblings education, she built a house for them as well. She took the role of her mother and father and provided for her family. What more can a parent ask for from a daughter who sacrificed her ypunger years continously working till this very day just to give them a comfortable life! Kahit mabuntis pa sya ng paulit ulit, the fact remains that she is a good daughter. She even gave her mother a beautiful apo! Kaya mag tigil kang bruha ka! Kanina ka pa nega dyan!
Delete1.45 i commend you how you proved your point, well said, you said all the right words to describe why every mother would want a daughter like Sofia.
Delete1:45 haha sorry natawa ako sa bruha pero totoo naman
DeleteYung talaga mentality ng pinoy ang mga pinupuna is yung mga mali. Instead na tignan yung mga nagawa sa buhay nya na pinapahalagahan ang kapakanan ng pamilya nya.
ReplyDeleteKaya nga. Ang init lagi ng ulo ng mga tao sa kanya.
DeleteUsong uso ang “breadwinner” sa pinas kaya matagal ang asenso. Umaasa nalang sila. So embarrassing na yung bumuhay sa magulang ay yung anak and pati sa mga kapatid. Saludo ako sa mga gumagawa nito. Pero sa mga umaasa lang sa ate or kuya, magbanat kayo ng buto. Adults na pero asa pa din. Ang toxic ng ganyan. Di ka pede magpahinga kase nga nga yung buong pamilya kung tumigil ka mag trabaho
ReplyDeleteHate na hate ko yung term na breadwinner. Parang ang dating andaming nakasabit na pabigat.
Deletesa baryo namin kairita nung wala ka pang bf bakit daw wala nung nagka bf kelan daw kakasal pag kinasal na bakit wala pa daw anak nung nag kaanak na kelan daw susundan ewan dami marites dami paki alamera
ReplyDeleteAfter watching this video, nag-iba ang tingin ko kay Sofia. Her mom said nag-iba talaga ang ugali niya nung naging mom na siya. I believe she is also more hardworking than Daniel. She was been working since her younger years pa. She was able to save money to buy herself a house. Laking yaman lang si Daniel pero ano ba napatunayan niya? Does he have a job? LOL. This girl knows what to do with her money. I hope people stop judging her just because “hindi pa siya pinapakasalan”. Mostly pa pinoy ang usisera/o. Hindi lahat ng marriage successful, tandaan niyo yan. Hindi yan solusyon sa mga problema kakaloka kayo. These are the same people na magsasabing “Dapat kasi di mo pinakasalan” once hindi nagworkout ang relationship nila Sofia and Daniel. They’re young and they can do whatever they want.
ReplyDeleteActually kaya lang ganyan mga tao kasi she seems atat and trying hard to be alta dahil lang nagka baby daddy from an alta family. Plus usap usapan na maldita. Ayaw ng mga tao na pretentious. Now if she seemed more true to herself and her roots perhaps mas positive perception sa kanya.
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