Pwede bang sort out your personal problems away from social media? Kesa ganyang nagkakalat kayo?
Mas masaya ang walang hinanakit sa buhay, lalo na sa anak o magulang. No amount of views or followers can top that feeling. Try nyo lang, di naman kayo nangangailangan ng views para sa anda ...
Yet she didn't acknowledge KC's Mother's day post . Dineadma ng nega Mega. Parang her intention was to shame her daughter and not really to patch things up.
Hindi alam ni Mega ang unconditional love, that a mother is supposed to protect her kids no matter what. Siya tong lagi nag spluk everytime may hidwaan sila ni KC. How embarrassing.
Sorry for piggybacking and not related to Mega and KC's chararat. Just a gentle reminder that Mother's Day is not for all moms. It's for good moms. Abusive and neglectful moms do not deserve to be celebrated. So to anyone reading this who grew up in an abusive household, you shouldn't feel guilty or pressured to feel guilty for not celebrating or ignoring the day. Stay strong mga ate at kuya <3
Salamat Baks. I grew up regularly beaten sa kamay ng parents ko. Ang nagpaaral at nagalaga sa akin ay ang lola at tiyahin ko. Yung nanay ko, ginagatungan ang tatay ko at pag nagagalit yun, o tinotopak, ang ending eh bugbog sarado ako. Wala naman akong muwang at walang kakayahan maintinfohan ang nangyayari at ipaglaban ang sarili. Sa weekdays nasa lola at tita ako, sa weekends sa parents ko. Walang steady work nun silang parehobat nung magcocollege na ako na permanent sa work tatay ko. Mga araw na may black eye, pasa at bali ako sa katawan pag pasok ko sa school, sinusunod ko mama ko na sabihin na nahulog ako o ako ang may kasalanan. Later on na sa college narealize ko battered pala akong bata. Hanggang ngayon may PTSD ako, fight or flight ako palagi. So yes, hindi deserving ang nanay ko. Ilang beses na akong naospital bilang bata. Walang magawa ang tita at lola ko dahil siga ang tatay ko. I can honestly say that hanggang ngayon, do ko sila mapapatawad, sorry na kay Lord. Naaalala ko pa na muntik na akong mabaril ni Papa dahil galit siya at lasing at tinutukan niya ako. Di ko alam bakit siya galit. Yun pala sabi ni mama bastos akong bata.
1:54 I'm sorry you went through that. No one talks about the trama because our culture is so focused on honoring parents just because nag anak sila. Children are fragile this kind of treatment results in lifelong damage. We should normalize shaming parents who do this to their children.
Maraming reason bakit may mga taong alang paki sa mothers day . For example, ang nanay mo lagi ka hinihiya sa mga tao nung bata ka pa, lagi kang pinapalayas, at sobrang may favoritism. Yung mga nanay di maturing makipagusap sa anak nya like kumusta ka, anak? Yung nichichimis ka kahit sa mga kapatid mo. Pag sobra masakit mga ginawa at ginagawa sayo, maging numb ka talaga. Mahirap mahalin ang magulang na di ka naman pinakitaan nang pagmamahal.
@1.54 omg halos parehas tayo ng story. Lumaki sa lola... kaya dati i celebrate mothers day with my lola. But not anymore, she passed away a year ago. But same as you ngkatrauma at anxiety ako. Dinedma ko, pero yung husband ko nakakakita at ramdam ng effect sa akin ng childhood trauma ko. Always advice nya magpacheck at counselling. Tagal din ako na dedma til di ko na, kaya buti nakinig ako. Very helpful ang counselling.
1:11 minor pa lang, pero I pray a lot at kami ng pinsan ko, we talk a lot. Parang naging talk therapy na rin. Kaso, ang hirap talaga magtrust. At pag may nakakatrigger na pangyayari, nagfafight or flight ako hindi ko kaya ang may sumisigaw at galit na galit. Ayaw ko ng confrontational na tao. Hanap ko lang, peace. Di ko na kinausap ang nanay ko, matagal na. Pero sobrang klaro sa akin ang childhood ko, ang pag bubogbog, pangungutya, pagaabuso. Prayer helps me a lot and also understanding friends and family.
How about the many times you broke your daughter’s heart? Maybe the main reason why she broke yours? There is obviously a cause and you are now going through the effect of that action.
Buhat bangko and bragging. Mega responsibilities mo yan as parent, your children didn't ask to be borne. Hopefully good parenting will translate to your children doing same good deed for your grandchildren. Also hopefully KC doesn't adapt your toxicity as a mother in raising her kids when the time comes.
Well aminin din siguro ni Shawie na ginusto nya rin namang mag work hard for fame....kasi she doesn't need it for money naman. Dream nya rin talaga maging artista, so it was not a total sacrifice. And even if you do....almost if not all mom sacrifice something to carry and birth a child.
mabuti pa noong walang socmed, di mo gaano nakikita mga ugali ng celebrities at least may respeto ka pa sa kanila. Etong si Sharon ang ingay, parang di mayaman kung maglabas ng baho ng pamilya nya, di na binigyan ng kahihiyan ang anak.
Pag nanay ka, choice mo yon. Di mo kailangan isumbat. No wonder why di sila same page ni KC. Western mindset si KC, si Mega naman typical na pinoy nanay na puro self pity para maguilty mga anak, (mapera lang)
Happy mother's day 💐 Mega Mommy! Sana magkaayos na kayo ni KC!
ReplyDeleteMother’s Day post na may halong parinig, LOL!
ReplyDeleteActually, parinig na may konting mother’s day post
Deletehahahha kaloka dba!
DeletePwede bang sort out your personal problems away from social media? Kesa ganyang nagkakalat kayo?
DeleteMas masaya ang walang hinanakit sa buhay, lalo na sa anak o magulang. No amount of views or followers can top that feeling. Try nyo lang, di naman kayo nangangailangan ng views para sa anda ...
Magpaka mother ka sa socmed. Shut your trap and don't throw shade at your kids.
ReplyDeleteYet she didn't acknowledge KC's Mother's day post . Dineadma ng nega Mega. Parang her intention was to shame her daughter and not really to patch things up.
ReplyDeleteHere she goes again🤦🏻♀️
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts exactly
DeleteHindi alam ni Mega ang unconditional love, that a mother is supposed to protect her kids no matter what. Siya tong lagi nag spluk everytime may hidwaan sila ni KC. How embarrassing.
ReplyDeleteSana ginaya niya si gretchen. May flaws siya pero bilang nanay hindi niya inilagay sa limelight ang anak niya. Protektado ang anak.
DeleteWill always be a mom to her 3 or 4 kids? Sana kinlaro nya.
ReplyDeleteJusko. Gusto mo naman lagyan ng issue
DeleteSorry for piggybacking and not related to Mega and KC's chararat. Just a gentle reminder that Mother's Day is not for all moms. It's for good moms. Abusive and neglectful moms do not deserve to be celebrated. So to anyone reading this who grew up in an abusive household, you shouldn't feel guilty or pressured to feel guilty for not celebrating or ignoring the day. Stay strong mga ate at kuya <3
ReplyDeleteSalamat Baks. I grew up regularly beaten sa kamay ng parents ko. Ang nagpaaral at nagalaga sa akin ay ang lola at tiyahin ko. Yung nanay ko, ginagatungan ang tatay ko at pag nagagalit yun, o tinotopak, ang ending eh bugbog sarado ako. Wala naman akong muwang at walang kakayahan maintinfohan ang nangyayari at ipaglaban ang sarili. Sa weekdays nasa lola at tita ako, sa weekends sa parents ko. Walang steady work nun silang parehobat nung magcocollege na ako na permanent sa work tatay ko. Mga araw na may black eye, pasa at bali ako sa katawan pag pasok ko sa school, sinusunod ko mama ko na sabihin na nahulog ako o ako ang may kasalanan. Later on na sa college narealize ko battered pala akong bata. Hanggang ngayon may PTSD ako, fight or flight ako palagi. So yes, hindi deserving ang nanay ko. Ilang beses na akong naospital bilang bata. Walang magawa ang tita at lola ko dahil siga ang tatay ko. I can honestly say that hanggang ngayon, do ko sila mapapatawad, sorry na kay Lord. Naaalala ko pa na muntik na akong mabaril ni Papa dahil galit siya at lasing at tinutukan niya ako. Di ko alam bakit siya galit. Yun pala sabi ni mama bastos akong bata.
DeleteSad but true
DeleteThank you for saying that.♥️
Delete12:50 thank you. My mom is great but I appreciate the open mindedness.
Delete1:54 I'm sorry you went through that. No one talks about the trama because our culture is so focused on honoring parents just because nag anak sila. Children are fragile this kind of treatment results in lifelong damage. We should normalize shaming parents who do this to their children.
Delete1:54 I hope your adult life is kinder to you. It’s not gonna be easy but I hope you’ve found spaces where you feel safe and loved. 🥺
DeleteSooo sad. May God heal your pain. ❤️
Delete@12:50 Apir baks! 🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️
DeleteThis. It’s a normal day for me tapos nanay ko nag eexpect ng pa food panda lol
DeleteHugs for you 1:54, have you sought counselling?
DeleteMaraming reason bakit may mga taong alang paki sa mothers day . For example, ang nanay mo lagi ka hinihiya sa mga tao nung bata ka pa, lagi kang pinapalayas, at sobrang may favoritism. Yung mga nanay di maturing makipagusap sa anak nya like kumusta ka, anak? Yung nichichimis ka kahit sa mga kapatid mo. Pag sobra masakit mga ginawa at ginagawa sayo, maging numb ka talaga. Mahirap mahalin ang magulang na di ka naman pinakitaan nang pagmamahal.
Delete@1.54 omg halos parehas tayo ng story. Lumaki sa lola... kaya dati i celebrate mothers day with my lola. But not anymore, she passed away a year ago. But same as you ngkatrauma at anxiety ako. Dinedma ko, pero yung husband ko nakakakita at ramdam ng effect sa akin ng childhood trauma ko. Always advice nya magpacheck at counselling. Tagal din ako na dedma til di ko na, kaya buti nakinig ako. Very helpful ang counselling.
Delete1:11 minor pa lang, pero I pray a lot at kami ng pinsan ko, we talk a lot. Parang naging talk therapy na rin. Kaso, ang hirap talaga magtrust. At pag may nakakatrigger na pangyayari, nagfafight or flight ako hindi ko kaya ang may sumisigaw at galit na galit. Ayaw ko ng confrontational na tao. Hanap ko lang, peace. Di ko na kinausap ang nanay ko, matagal na. Pero sobrang klaro sa akin ang childhood ko, ang pag bubogbog, pangungutya, pagaabuso. Prayer helps me a lot and also understanding friends and family.
DeleteNagsakripisyo ka? That’s what we do as parents! HayMega
ReplyDeleteAll moms nag sacrifice
DeletePenge raw kasi ng award for that. Hahaha.
DeleteHow about the many times you broke your daughter’s heart? Maybe the main reason why she broke yours?
ReplyDeleteThere is obviously a cause and you are now going through the effect of that action.
Ano ba talaga problema ni Sharon kay KC eh ang bait na anak ni KC
ReplyDeleteThis is the most conceited, most self-centered, and most awkward Mother's day greeting that I have ever come across.
ReplyDeleteBuhat bangko and bragging. Mega responsibilities mo yan as parent, your children didn't ask to be borne. Hopefully good parenting will translate to your children doing same good deed for your grandchildren. Also hopefully KC doesn't adapt your toxicity as a mother in raising her kids when the time comes.
ReplyDeleteWell aminin din siguro ni Shawie na ginusto nya rin namang mag work hard for fame....kasi she doesn't need it for money naman. Dream nya rin talaga maging artista, so it was not a total sacrifice. And even if you do....almost if not all mom sacrifice something to carry and birth a child.
ReplyDeletemabuti pa noong walang socmed, di mo gaano nakikita mga ugali ng celebrities at least may respeto ka pa sa kanila. Etong si Sharon ang ingay, parang di mayaman kung maglabas ng baho ng pamilya nya, di na binigyan ng kahihiyan ang anak.
ReplyDeleteAy kung may social media lang noon ay sureball na hndi sya matatawag na megastar.
DeletePag nanay ka, choice mo yon. Di mo kailangan isumbat. No wonder why di sila same page ni KC. Western mindset si KC, si Mega naman typical na pinoy nanay na puro self pity para maguilty mga anak, (mapera lang)
ReplyDeleteTumpak
DeleteI think she's using this issue over and over again to stay relevant.
ReplyDeleteI feel for you, KC. Gets na gets.
ReplyDelete