Rest in peace Emman and condolences Kuya Kim. Death is the most painful experience. Those who says otherwise should experience it. Lalo na un mga bashers at haters na salot sa lipunan
Ako nga di ko ka ano ano si Emman never met her in person pero nasasaktan ako. Namimiss ko siya makita sa soc med, family pa kaya? Lets be kind. Wag na tayo mag judge. Lets just learn from this and lets give our best to be kind.
Up to now, a lot of Filipinos, especially the older generation, deny the reality and existence of mental health. Lalo na ang depression. Na kesyo lungkot lang yan and that we should just “get over it”. Sana talaga mas magkaron ng mental health education ang mga Pinoy. Madaming mas mag raise ng awareness. And wag sanang i-diminish ang mga nararamdaman ng tao, just because we deal with things differently.
Kasi nga this is a third world country Philippines. Bago maisip ang mental health, yung kumakalam na sikmura muna ang iisipin. The price of overpopulation. Anak pa more. Mental Hospital na lang sa sahig na nakahiga mga pasyente. Pero sa mga asensadong bansa nabibigyang pansin ang mental health
They were there. YOU THINK pinabayaan sya? She’s clinically depressed. Huwag lang mag comment blaming people na hindi mo naintindihan ang situation ng anak nila. Ive been there. its a feeling you cant control and no matter how people showup and be present to you, blinded ka dahil nangingibabaw ang darkness sa isip mo. Ang hirap intindihin eto sa mga tao na hindi nakaranas. PEOPLE SHOULD BE EDUCATED.
Strong on the outside but breaking on the inside even with family support & therapies you can't win once that suicidal ideation hits you. Buti nakasurvive yung girl sa SM sangandaan vid. Condolence to the Atienza's family
Ang sakit nito and for those blaming the parents bakit hinayaan...they did not expect it! Maybe they wanna believe in their daughter on what their daughter want them to believe...na matapang sya. Ang hirap sa iba puro sisi sa parents. It may be maling akala but please be kind naman.. Maybe they are blaming themselves already. Ang harsh naman kasi ng iba na parang bang they know or sure what would happen, na dapat hindi sila humiwalay or so.. maybe Emman wanted that freedom. Wala tau sa position talaga. pray for all affected.
We, parents should have “ parents instinct “ a deep-seated, intuitive sense of how to care for a child, which includes empathy, a protective drive, and the ability to sense a child's needs, even without explicit communication. Maybe parents were too busy, they neglectively overlooked their child, they thought their child was strong willed but sadly with her outrageously gestures were something to be concerned of.
Huwag sisihin ang parents at huwag mo rin sisihin yung ibang tao. Kahit ikaw hindi ka rin parte ng pamilya kung maka-comment ka akala mo alam mo rin lahat-lahat.
No words. kakaiyak. May God give you peace, Atienza family. Watching Eman’s videos nakita ko yong gusto nya i share, ang authentic side nya but social media is a cruel world and viewed it differently. Be kind people.
Yeah. Wala namang sariling bait yung mga bashers dito. Wishy washy. May isang mag comment lang ng hate kay Kuya Kim o sa isang nag comment dito, sunod sunod na un trail of hate. Walang sariling bait. Sinusundan lang nila un hate trail because they don't have a mind of their own. Maka input lang kahit certified basher naman ang comment, achievement na sa kanila yun
Kuya Kim is so strong because for someone who just lost a daughter, he is active on social media and pretty much functioning in spite of the immense pain
Baka it is one of his outlet na din to go through the pain. As he said, when he looks at social media, he gets inspired. So baka lang nakakatulong kahit paano mabawasan yong pain na nararamdaman nya.
Wala namang manual paano mag grieve eh. Kanya kanyang paraan lang po. Ang mahalagang isipin na kung kayo yoon, paano kung may nagpakita ng kasaaman sa inyo? May masasakit pang salita? May panunumbat? Kaya tama na po muna't ipagdasal na lang ang mga naulila. Anak at kapatid nila yan. Natural masakit.
We all grieve differently. Kung sa kaniya ito ang pag process niya ng loss. Huwag naman po kayo ganyan. Namatayan ang tao. Baka pwedeng ipahinga muna ang pananakit sa kapwa.
Dasal po para sa lahat ng nawalan ng minamahal sa buhay, sa pamilya ni Kuya Kim. With the power that comes with social media, may we all show compassion to one another.
from someone who lost a loved one for the same reason, the pain is indescribable..it's a mixed of intense sorrow, grief, guilt and what if's. It's been 4 years but I still do not have the courage to talk about it. Prayers for Kuya Kim and his family.
Teaser pa lang pala yon. Napaiyak na ko ng sobra😭 I remember my mom.. her pain when we lost my brother Kung pwede ko lng ishoulder ung pain and let me have it. No parent na gusto maglibing sa anak it should be the other way around. May the atienza family find comfort from family and friends. Rip emman 🙏
I really don’t want to judge but… the moment I receive that same message from my daughter who has been clinically diagnosed with depression. Even if it would cost me my job or what, I’d come running to her to check. Especially if she’s not responding and she has a history of self-harm. Btw, they did say if she was living alone?
We don't know what measures the family have taken so let's be careful.not to speak out of turn; and to instead wait and allow the family to mourn for a period.
Many who question why Emman lived away from people who may better monitor her miss out that the focus should be on addressing the underlying mental health issues through professional treatment, rather than solely relying on monitoring. Therapy, medication, and other interventions are essential for long-term recovery.
I have mental health issues and during times when I am vulnerable, it is not professional help who can help me but by people who love and supports me. People who are willing tk listen and just be there
May kaibigan ako who lost his daughter to mental illness, kasama nila sa bahay. Katabing kwarto. Araw araw nila kasama. Ganoon rin. They lost her to suicide rin po. Sakit yan. Kahit ano pang gusto ng mismong may sakit at ng mga mahal niya sa buhay, minsan, natatalo ng sakit.
Ang heavy. Wala talagang nakakaalam sa bawat pinagdadaanan ng bawat isa. Even the parents, the whole family at this situation. Sana lang talaga matuto tayo minsan magdahan dahan sa mga salita natin. Praying for the family and everyone fighting their silent battles.
Tama. Mag ingat sa bitaw ng salita. Hindi niyo alam anong buhay nila. Kung ang mga anak ninyo walang ganitong uri ng sakit, magpasalamat at wala kayong ganyang pinag dadaanan.
I just watched the interview of toni to emman. That was heartbreaking. Clearly no guidance from parents. Im not blaming the parents maybe they're just consumed with their work. Pero my gosh yung pinagdaanan ni eman from the yaya to her classmates. I think its an eye opener for parents not to take their children for granted.
Ako din nung bata ako nabully ako sa lahat from my classmates, relatives, etc and i came from a toxic environment, sobrang bait ko ng bata ako until binully nila ako then pag gising ko nalang naging super strong na yung personality ko
Same tayo 5:34 stay at home nanay ko pero di sya maalaga and no effort to bond with me. Kaya nung na bully ako sa school ng classmates ko and teacher, i learn to stand up for my self. Hindi madali pero i had no choice
Watched toni talks grabe pinagdaanan nya ning high school… Sino kaya yung mga lalakeng nambully sa kanya noh? Ibang level ang sama, ang babata pa that time… sa ISM pala sya nag aral based sa ibang interview….
Awwww...no words talaga
ReplyDeleteRest in peace Emman and condolences Kuya Kim. Death is the most painful experience. Those who says otherwise should experience it. Lalo na un mga bashers at haters na salot sa lipunan
DeleteI cried simula pa lang. :( so hard to lose someone this way
DeleteStay strong kuya Kim
DeleteAko nga di ko ka ano ano si Emman never met her in person pero nasasaktan ako. Namimiss ko siya makita sa soc med, family pa kaya? Lets be kind. Wag na tayo mag judge. Lets just learn from this and lets give our best to be kind.
DeleteSad talaga. She's just 19. Very young and full of potential. Her life was cut short
DeleteThis has nothing to do with religion and everything with clinical depression - something that's never addressed in this country.
ReplyDeleteLouder!
DeleteSadly some idiots would even blame the parents as if they knew anything in their household and how the children were raised
DeleteUp to now, a lot of Filipinos, especially the older generation, deny the reality and existence of mental health. Lalo na ang depression. Na kesyo lungkot lang yan and that we should just “get over it”. Sana talaga mas magkaron ng mental health education ang mga Pinoy. Madaming mas mag raise ng awareness. And wag sanang i-diminish ang mga nararamdaman ng tao, just because we deal with things differently.
DeleteKasi nga this is a third world country Philippines. Bago maisip ang mental health, yung kumakalam na sikmura muna ang iisipin. The price of overpopulation. Anak pa more. Mental Hospital na lang sa sahig na nakahiga mga pasyente. Pero sa mga asensadong bansa nabibigyang pansin ang mental health
DeleteSalamat po sa ganitong mga comment thread.
Delete1:54 akala ko ba “a little kindness”? Kung maka-idiot ka naman 😹
Deletesnippet pa lang bumuhos na luha ko yoko panuorin ng buo hayz
ReplyDeleteSame. Cant imagine what Kuya Kim and Ms Fely are going through.
DeleteNaiyak ako. Haaay. Imagine reading those comments tapos nagluluksa pa sya. My sincere condolences, Kuya Kim. I used to watch Emman’s Tiktoks.
Delete1233 naluha ako. Kuya kim is trying to be strong pero you can hear the crack in his voice. I hope they have the strength they need at this time
DeleteLet's pray for Emman's soul , her family and her loved ones.
ReplyDeleteEmman needed her family the most
ReplyDeleteA big lesson learned for everyone
DeleteShut up, you speak like she was neglected
DeleteThey were there. YOU THINK pinabayaan sya? She’s clinically depressed. Huwag lang mag comment blaming people na hindi mo naintindihan ang situation ng anak nila. Ive been there. its a feeling you cant control and no matter how people showup and be present to you, blinded ka dahil nangingibabaw ang darkness sa isip mo. Ang hirap intindihin eto sa mga tao na hindi nakaranas. PEOPLE SHOULD BE EDUCATED.
Deleteabsolutely
DeleteNapaka sakit 😭😭😭
ReplyDeleteStrong on the outside but breaking on the inside even with family support & therapies you can't win once that suicidal ideation hits you. Buti nakasurvive yung girl sa SM sangandaan vid. Condolence to the Atienza's family
ReplyDeleteYung dulo ang pinakanakakaiyak.
ReplyDeleteLet's just pray for the repose of the soul of emman and let her family grieve.
ReplyDeleteAng sakit nito and for those blaming the parents bakit hinayaan...they did not expect it! Maybe they wanna believe in their daughter on what their daughter want them to believe...na matapang sya. Ang hirap sa iba puro sisi sa parents.
ReplyDeleteIt may be maling akala but please be kind naman..
Maybe they are blaming themselves already. Ang harsh naman kasi ng iba na parang bang they know or sure what would happen, na dapat hindi sila humiwalay or so.. maybe Emman wanted that freedom. Wala tau sa position talaga. pray for all affected.
This...Yung ganitong mindset sana, napakasakit nyan sa magulang tapos nakuha pang sisihin sila ..
DeleteWe, parents should have “ parents instinct “ a deep-seated, intuitive sense of how to care for a child, which includes empathy, a protective drive, and the ability to sense a child's needs, even without explicit communication. Maybe parents were too busy, they neglectively overlooked their child, they thought their child was strong willed but sadly with her outrageously gestures were something to be concerned of.
DeleteHuwag sisihin ang parents at huwag mo rin sisihin yung ibang tao. Kahit ikaw hindi ka rin parte ng pamilya kung maka-comment ka akala mo alam mo rin lahat-lahat.
DeleteThis! Sa lahat ng comment ito yong pinaka may sense 12:59.
DeleteMay pagkukulang pa din ang parents no matter how you sugarcoat eh. Kaya mahirpa maging magulang.
DeleteEven young adults have the right to make their own decisions, even if those decisions carry risks.
DeleteForcing someone to live with their family against their will can also be counterproductive and harmful to their mental health.
1259 i agree. Kaya mahirap maging paren. Depression is hard
DeleteAng sakit mawalan talaga, iba at hindi mo maikumpara sa physical pain.
ReplyDeleteNo words. kakaiyak. May God give you peace, Atienza family. Watching Eman’s videos nakita ko yong gusto nya i share, ang authentic side nya but social media is a cruel world and viewed it differently. Be kind people.
ReplyDeleteI cried watching this 😭. Aabangan ko ang whole video sa KMJS.
ReplyDelete😭😭😭
ReplyDeleteI agree with Kuya Kim if you can talk about your pain, it means you’re okay & healed that’s what they think about Emman, hindi pala.
ReplyDeleteHirap maging magulang. Ayaw mo higpitan o bantayan ng maiigi kasi feeling nila wala kang tiwala. Lalo lang sila nalulungkot at nag iisip.
DeleteTama. Akala nila noon she was okay. Wala naman siguro silang hinangad na masama sa anak nila.
DeleteAs a parent, I can feel Kuya Kim’s pain. As once diagnosed with depression, I knew Emman’s pain.
ReplyDeleteI hope you're well po.
DeleteAng sakit. Hugs to you Kuya Kim and family.
ReplyDeleteSana napanood ito nung mga nag unsolicited advice sa ibang posts ni FP.
ReplyDeleteEmpathy please. And kindness.
Yeah. Wala namang sariling bait yung mga bashers dito. Wishy washy. May isang mag comment lang ng hate kay Kuya Kim o sa isang nag comment dito, sunod sunod na un trail of hate. Walang sariling bait. Sinusundan lang nila un hate trail because they don't have a mind of their own. Maka input lang kahit certified basher naman ang comment, achievement na sa kanila yun
DeleteKuya Kim is so strong because for someone who just lost a daughter, he is active on social media and pretty much functioning in spite of the immense pain
ReplyDeleteYou’re also strong if you decide to wallow in grief and isolate yourself for a little bit
DeleteBaka it is one of his outlet na din to go through the pain. As he said, when he looks at social media, he gets inspired. So baka lang nakakatulong kahit paano mabawasan yong pain na nararamdaman nya.
DeleteCoping mechanism din to be active.
DeleteYan ang isang worst side of being a celebrity. You always need to be strong and resilient kasi maraming humahanga sayo.
DeleteMaybe bec it's where he gets a bit of comfort or distraction.
DeleteWala namang manual paano mag grieve eh. Kanya kanyang paraan lang po. Ang mahalagang isipin na kung kayo yoon, paano kung may nagpakita ng kasaaman sa inyo? May masasakit pang salita? May panunumbat? Kaya tama na po muna't ipagdasal na lang ang mga naulila. Anak at kapatid nila yan. Natural masakit.
DeleteGod bless and condolences Atienza family. 🙏
ReplyDeleteGrabe. Nakakaiyak. Ang sakit.
ReplyDeleteWow nag interview agad
ReplyDeleteMaybe it’s one of his ways to cope, especially sanay siya sa limelight. Wala naman masama.?
DeleteWe all grieve differently. Kung sa kaniya ito ang pag process niya ng loss. Huwag naman po kayo ganyan. Namatayan ang tao. Baka pwedeng ipahinga muna ang pananakit sa kapwa.
DeleteGrabe ang strong ng family nila. Eto talaga yung ayaw mangyari ng lahat ng parents. Ang sakit 💔❤️🩹 Grabe talaga pag depressed 😔
ReplyDeleteTotoo. Kaya nga sana mag timpi muna ang mga commenters at mas mainam namang makiramay at mag offer na lang muna ng dasal.
DeleteDasal po para sa lahat ng nawalan ng minamahal sa buhay, sa pamilya ni Kuya Kim. With the power that comes with social media, may we all show compassion to one another.
ReplyDeletefrom someone who lost a loved one for the same reason, the pain is indescribable..it's a mixed of intense sorrow, grief, guilt and what if's. It's been 4 years but I still do not have the courage to talk about it. Prayers for Kuya Kim and his family.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry for your loss.
DeleteNakakabilib ang faith ni Kuya Kim!
ReplyDeleteWala rin talaga pag ganyan. Kapit ka talaga kasi I can't imagine what he and his family went through...
DeletePraying for Emman's soul and praying for comfort of the parents in this time of grief.
ReplyDeleteTeaser pa lang pala yon. Napaiyak na ko ng sobra😭 I remember my mom.. her pain when we lost my brother Kung pwede ko lng ishoulder ung pain and let me have it. No parent na gusto maglibing sa anak it should be the other way around. May the atienza family find comfort from family and friends. Rip emman 🙏
ReplyDeleteI really don’t want to judge but… the moment I receive that same message from my daughter who has been clinically diagnosed with depression. Even if it would cost me my job or what, I’d come running to her to check. Especially if she’s not responding and she has a history of self-harm. Btw, they did say if she was living alone?
ReplyDeleteDi mo pinanood vaklah?
DeleteMay pickleball tournament ang mother sa Florida habang nasa California si Emman, si Kuya Kim nasa Pilipinas.
DeleteTumigil nga muna kayo.
Deletegone too soon...nakakaiyak
ReplyDeleteYes, pls be kind to the parents. Di nila ginusto yan.
ReplyDeleteWe don't know what measures the family have taken so let's be careful.not to speak out of turn; and to instead wait and allow the family to mourn for a period.
ReplyDeleteMany who question why Emman lived away from people who may better monitor her miss out that the focus should be on addressing the underlying mental health issues through professional treatment, rather than solely relying on monitoring. Therapy, medication, and other interventions are essential for long-term recovery.
I have mental health issues and during times when I am vulnerable, it is not professional help who can help me but by people who love and supports me. People who are willing tk listen and just be there
DeleteMay kaibigan ako who lost his daughter to mental illness, kasama nila sa bahay. Katabing kwarto. Araw araw nila kasama. Ganoon rin. They lost her to suicide rin po. Sakit yan. Kahit ano pang gusto ng mismong may sakit at ng mga mahal niya sa buhay, minsan, natatalo ng sakit.
DeleteAng heavy. Wala talagang nakakaalam sa bawat pinagdadaanan ng bawat isa. Even the parents, the whole family at this situation. Sana lang talaga matuto tayo minsan magdahan dahan sa mga salita natin. Praying for the family and everyone fighting their silent battles.
ReplyDeleteTama. Mag ingat sa bitaw ng salita. Hindi niyo alam anong buhay nila. Kung ang mga anak ninyo walang ganitong uri ng sakit, magpasalamat at wala kayong ganyang pinag dadaanan.
DeleteI just watched the interview of toni to emman. That was heartbreaking. Clearly no guidance from parents. Im not blaming the parents maybe they're just consumed with their work. Pero my gosh yung pinagdaanan ni eman from the yaya to her classmates. I think its an eye opener for parents not to take their children for granted.
ReplyDeleteAko din nung bata ako nabully ako sa lahat from my classmates, relatives, etc and i came from a toxic environment, sobrang bait ko ng bata ako until binully nila ako then pag gising ko nalang naging super strong na yung personality ko
DeleteSame tayo 5:34 stay at home nanay ko pero di sya maalaga and no effort to bond with me. Kaya nung na bully ako sa school ng classmates ko and teacher, i learn to stand up for my self. Hindi madali pero i had no choice
DeleteAfter nyo to panuorin please watch toni talks with eman. My sympathy is with eman
ReplyDeleteEWAN KO PERO WALA AKO NARARAMDAMAN LAHAT NAMAN TAYO MAMAMATAY.
ReplyDeleteMakasarili ka kasi.
Delete4:28, you are not an empathetic person. May ganun talagang tao. You are wired differently.
DeleteAt ang una ninyong action pagka panood niyo ay ipost talaga 'tong thought ninyong ito ng naka all caps pa???
DeletePeople don’t realise that kahit siguro nasa Pinas si Emman that time, she would have done it regardless.
ReplyDeleteSabi ni kuya kim many times na daw nag attempt accdng sa interview nya kay jessica soho
DeleteExactly. So I don’t know why people are blaming the parents.
DeleteI can feel Kuya Kim’s heartbreak. It will be difficult but life goes on. Prayers.
ReplyDeleteWatched toni talks grabe pinagdaanan nya ning high school… Sino kaya yung mga lalakeng nambully sa kanya noh? Ibang level ang sama, ang babata pa that time… sa ISM pala sya nag aral based sa ibang interview….
ReplyDeleteDi ko kinaya panoorin, sakit sa puso :(
ReplyDeleteMay your hearts be healed. Condolences to you and your family.
ReplyDelete