This woman is a very unhappy woman. Kahit ano ano nalang ang reklamo nya sa buhay - tubig, internet, ex. Ano kaya ang next??? Siya lang talaga ang perfect sa mundo.
Hoy mare ha pati ako sa internet at tubig, major rants ko mga yan kasi nagbabayad ako ng tama tapos ang panget ng serbisyo. Kung syo e okay ka lang sa shitty services at wala ka reklamo e pabayaan mo kame na may karapatang mag reklamo. Cat lover din ako at di ko kailanman matolerate ang pet abusers, AAWAYIN KO SILA kasi these pets e walang kalaban laban, wala silang boses, ako na ang boses nila. Andaming bagay na pwede iChill lang, pero basic necessities at abusers e mga non nego, kailangan icall out mga yan
Girl TAN*A lang or me sayad yong taong natutuwa sa poor service especially if you are paying right.Sino ang di mapapa mura kung walang tubig kuryente at Internet.Di ka ba magrereklamo 😡
Maybe lonely yung appropriate term, not unhappy. Kahit naman siguro sino nakakaexperience ng shitty services the diff is they have someone to spend their time with kaya di lang sila mareklamo
As someone na ang work e nasa bahay and rely on the internet at tubig of course wag mo maliitin ang mga ganitong bagay. It's frustrating when you're paying right and on time, then bawal magreklamo? She has the voice. Ang mga ordinaryong taong tulad ko hindi pinapakinggan kahit magreklamo
Alam kasi nya na may platform sya at voice para magsalita. Compare sa mga taong hindi kilala. Wais lang na ginagamit nya mga yun. And about sa animals naman. Ganun sya kadedicated sa animal rights. Nakikita ko sya nagcocomment talaga sa mga groups para magtanung.
1:26 She has all the right to complain! Nag babayad sya ng maayos but was not given the proper service. She has all the right to tell the world how her narcissist ex treated her pets. Kahit ako mawawalan ng gana sa partner ko kung salbahe sya sa mga alaga ko, baka sya pa ang ikadena ko at ikulong sa cage!
Totoo naman palpak yang converge at prime water no! Tama lang i call out yang mga yan.mabagal service ng converge at tong prime water di nga makapag bigay ng maayos na tubig tas lakas maningil
I’m glad she’s speaking out. Most abused partners stay because they tend to think they can change the other person. The abusive partner guilt trips them too. I’m glad she’s out.
4:34 Almost 8 years with a degree in psychology, and latin honors to boot? Uhhh...I find that a bit sus 🤔 Especially given the timing of her saying these things. Dahil ba masaya na yung ex nya, ngayon sisiraan na nya?🤔
7:05 i know someone na sobrang talino always accelerated, pero pinakasalan at ayaw hiwalayan ang abuser nya. May itsura din siya ha, kaya di mo masasabi na walang ibang papatol sa kanga kung iiwan nya si abuser.
7:05 i know a doctor na abused by her husband. Until now. Ayaw nya iwan kse may 2 silang anak. Verbal physical you name it. Wla pang trabaho asawa nya na matino pa side line sideline lang. Kayang kaya nya tumayo sa sariling paa. Wala sa pinag aralan yan. Its what you tolerate. God knows when sya magigising.
girl, ako nga may law degree pero natolerate ko. minsan, ung mga bagay na sa tingin mo dapat o madaling gawin, yun ung mga hindi mo maiapply apply sa sarili mo. i am still stuck. lalo at andito kami ngayon sa germany, and i do not know the ins and outs. slowly, nagogets ko na ang sistema and hopefully, makawala na sa pasakit this year.
11:35 Tapos na po ako sa Psych 101, matagal na. Kaya nga nagtataka ako kasi di lang 101 tinapos ni Carla, buong Psych degree meron sya pero pinagtiisan nya isang narc diumano🤷
Hala, so my MIL is narc? Super bait at iba pinapakita nya sa relatives nya kesa sa mga kasama sa bahay. Ganun din sa pets pag may ibang tao mabait sya kinakausap nya pero ayaw nya pala talaga ng pets sa bahay sinisiraan sa ibang tao yung alagang hayop pinapagalitan nya pag wala yung anak nya hahaha
masaya na kasi si ex kaya gusto nya magingay. obviously she isnt happy and shes using the story of her dogs to talk about her ex.. The dogs might have been traumatized not only because of her ex but because of whatever fights they had that the dogs heard, theyre very sensitive to noise
2.40 Howd you know that he is the ex she is referring to? And if he is, why would she be bitter about a partner who is abusive to dogs? Because if he is that way, hindi malayong abusive din yan sa kanya in due time. They were in their honeymoon stage when they separated so hindi pa nasasagad yun tao, but sa kinatagalan sigurado lalabas ang tunay na ugali namakakatikim din si carla. These people moves in a cycle Pag masama ka sa mga littlest things, malaking percentage na masama talaga ugali mo
That guy is really a weirdo. If dogs don’t like you something is off. Although I think Carla should stop talking about him and move on, that guy really has a manipulative aura.
I was in Bora 2 months ago in a resto and beside me was a group of lawyers..bilang isang maritess im under obligation to just eat and listen HAHAHA and one of the chikas i heard from the group is pinagtalunan pa nila ung custody ng dogs. Lumaban pa tlga ng custody just to stress the girl. Then this comment of carla. Textbook narc nga ex nya.
Lahat naman tayo my reklamo, sa kanya nga lang Sinasabi nya talaga at artista sya kaya mapapansin ng buong mundo..kahit nga mainit ang panahon nag rereklamo tayo, pag malamig naman nagrereklamo padin tayo, pag umuulan nag rereklamo na muulan, pag mainit ang araw, aay ang init init naman...d na alam ng Diyos kung san sya lulugar pero sya padin mag dedisisyon ...
Sa comments that says why is she still posting, ang tagal na nun. She's probably just really started to heal now. It takes a very long time to recover from that kind of relationship.
7 years na ginagayan si Carla and fur babies niya, mahirap kalimutan ang trauma and hindi niya rin maiiwasan magalit pag naaalala ang ginawa sa kanila. Ang pinakaworse part is yung guilt na bakit ba siya naniwala na magbabago ang ex niya, nadamay pa ang fur babies niya.
My ex abused our family dog - hitting his face when he barked, kicking him down the stairs, taping his snout shut. He never changed. He went as far as hitting my son's dog with a pipe and killing the poor dog with 5 bullets. He lives scot-free but still miserable even with all his wealth.
Victims although have been quiet for a long time, may sometimes speak out even in their death beds. I have so many confessions about my elderly patients how they were abused when they were young.. by gangs, friends, partners.. and sometimes.. their own family. We should not dismiss them. Minsan, all we need to do is listen. Again, healing takes forever. The trauma doesn’t really leave you easily.
May friend ako namamasyal lang kami tapos may stray dog bigla nya sinipa! After that diko na sya friend to these innocent animals tapos stray na nga hirap na nga sasaktan no way I don't like people na ganun
Nagkataon lang na artista sya and just like any of us, may mga rants din sa socmed. Yung iba nga ginawa ng diary ang socmed. Let her speak or complain para na din sa iba na nakakaranas ng poot services. Hello, ak9 nga panay reklamo sa maynilad at meralco sa taas ng charges na di mo alam king san kung pano nangyari yun.
To each his own but personally people who say animals over humans blindly..may something wrong din sa kanila. Kung ako i will assess muna kung ano yung issue.
Yes. Pansin ko sa kanya. Puro na lang reklamı. Tapos puro post sa IG about relationships blah blah. Almost 4 years na. Naka moved on na lahat nang naging ex niya. Pero siya ayan stuck parin sa mga ex niya. Kaya wala siyang naging matinong relasyon meron siyang but it na baggage. Hindi na lang siya mag focus sa bago niya daw na dine date. Kung meron nga. 😂
One of my biggest regret yung pinafoster ko sa ex ko mga dogs ko nung nagkaproblem kami sa inuupahan namin from healthy dogs naging emaciated, daming garapata at galisin within a month, binawi ko sobrang gutom na gutom sila awang awa ako. Basta kasama ko sila tiisin na lang ang hirap.
Different strokes for different folks. Some people might find it easy to move on from a traumatic situation, some don’t. Carla’s Carla’s probably still in the middle of moving on but is already in the process of healing.
I'm sorry Carla but if I see someone abuse my dog on first occasion, it's a no straightaway. I wouldn't wait 7 years and have my dogs traumatized from repetitive abuse.
At 5:29 good for you. You seem logical. Easier said than done. When the abused stayed with their abuser, they relied on fear due to threats. Carla is an animal lover. She is also a nice person. She’s one of those who tries to see the goodness in you first. She was madly in love obviously.. and threatened. Ever been with a narcissist? Nicer people always seemed to be their targets because they are easier to manipulate.
She was my client during the pandemic maalaga siya sa pets niya except sa ex niya. Wala masydo care yung Guy lahat inaasaha niya kay Carla ang mga aso nila pati gastos din sa pets niya. I know kasi siya nag babayad sa akin through gcash. Hahah SKL lang now kasi wala na siya sa QC hinde na niya sa QC nakatira now SKL hahahaa
Sus. Evet heard of joint account? Ang mga lalaki natural na hindi nila responsibledad ang mga ganyan sa mga babae bila inaasa ang mga baharın, mag pa groom nang mga alaga nila. From what I heard si Carla ang nag ha handle nang mga ganyan, eh di natural siya ang magbabayad, siya ang Maliki pag deal diba. 😂 marami karing kaek ekan.
Talaga ba, Carla? Sure ka na hindi kayo pareho ng EX mo? Kahit hindi mo pa sya nagiging BF e self righteous ka na, you complain and make a fuss about everything. Remember that condo you were selling and how condescending you were to that person who asked for the price? Tinarayan mo LOL. And on the contrary, narcs can be pet lovers too. Narcissists may seek pets for unconditional love, fulfilling their need for constant validation.
Hirap maniwala sa isang babaeng palaging tama ang tingin sa sarili nya, never nag apologize ever at never nakinig sa payo ng iba. E di ikaw na perfect! Naalala ko na naman tuloy yung pag iwan nya kay Geoff noong dahil nagkakagusto na sya kay Tom. Sya pa rin ang bida sa storya nya. tsk!
Korek. Not that im victim blaming pero naalala ko to. Meron pa nga interview c Gina Alajar about Carla, her dislike to her how Carla treater her son Geoff.
Oh my :D :D :D Let me guess CA, he is abusive, controlling, dead beat, misogynist, etc... and you lived with him for 7 long years :) :) :) That's called a martyr ;) ;) ;)
Di mo makikita sa itchura talaga ng tao ang totoong na katauhan nya. Ang bait ng itchura ng X. Pero sa totoong buhay monster pala. Madami ang ganyan. Witnessed one myself!
Baka hindi nya naisip if she keep on pointing her finger to her ex she didn’t realise ; she’s pointing the rest of her fingers towards her. She might try self reflection bakit lahat ex nya gumanda lovelife and family life ng napahiwalay sa kanya. Isn’t it time for denominator checking? And get rid of the sulsuleras.
Sa laban nya sa primewater and converge, pabor ako pero dito masyado lang maraming oras at naghahanap ng away. Pets mo sila and you cannot expect na he will treat them the same way as you. Since animal lover sya and una palang napansin nya na hindi swak si guy, you need to cut ties na e you enabled the situation din dahil you stayed. Ayaw ko manisi pero she has a part din in all of that.
Victim blaming. Kung ayaw ni ex ng pets bakit hindi siya ang umalis instead of traumatizing her dogs? May ginawa si ex kaya natatakot ang dogs ni Carla sa kanya
1:14 victim blaming bs..yan lang kasi alam mong pang reply. Yun nga yun, hindi sila match e bakit pa sila nag stay together? Since si Carla yung may pet and kung nakita nyang na maltreat yung pets nya o di bet ni ex ang pets, dapat pumalag sya. 7 years and hindi nya na realize? Wala naman power imbalance sa kanila. She can freely cut the relationship. Kaya unfair din na iblame nya lahat yun kay ex.
Pero may dogs din ung ex eh nakay carla un and always naman nla ksama un dogs nla lalo ung rescued dogs ni Carla. Hmmmm di ko naisip na ayaw pala ni ex sa pets kc super alaga naman sya sa dogs nla sa mga vlogs ni carla
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Im a dog lover and I agree with her decision.
ReplyDeleteAgreeing with you 100% Miss Carla
DeleteThis woman is a very unhappy woman. Kahit ano ano nalang ang reklamo nya sa buhay - tubig, internet, ex. Ano kaya ang next???
ReplyDeleteSiya lang talaga ang perfect sa mundo.
Hoy mare ha pati ako sa internet at tubig, major rants ko mga yan kasi nagbabayad ako ng tama tapos ang panget ng serbisyo. Kung syo e okay ka lang sa shitty services at wala ka reklamo e pabayaan mo kame na may karapatang mag reklamo. Cat lover din ako at di ko kailanman matolerate ang pet abusers, AAWAYIN KO SILA kasi these pets e walang kalaban laban, wala silang boses, ako na ang boses nila. Andaming bagay na pwede iChill lang, pero basic necessities at abusers e mga non nego, kailangan icall out mga yan
DeleteMasama ba at bawal maging vocal sa iba't ibang bagay, lalo kung mali talaga ang nirereklamo at kapupulutan ng aral ng mga nakaalam ng pangyayari?
DeleteWho are you to judge her unhappy? Porket nagreklamo? That’s her right teh! Ikaw nag feeling perfect.
DeleteWow ah! Unhappy. I think she’s very happy now. Tapos 6 pa dogs niya na mahal na mahal siya. She’s so lucky to be living her life with her babies
DeleteGirl TAN*A lang or me sayad yong taong natutuwa sa poor service especially if you are paying right.Sino ang di mapapa mura kung walang tubig kuryente at Internet.Di ka ba magrereklamo 😡
DeleteMaybe lonely yung appropriate term, not unhappy. Kahit naman siguro sino nakakaexperience ng shitty services the diff is they have someone to spend their time with kaya di lang sila mareklamo
DeleteTakes one to know one Sis. If sure ka, dahil yon ikaw rin Unhappy.
DeleteWhy not hindi ka naman nagbabayad ng bills niya.
DeleteAs someone na ang work e nasa bahay and rely on the internet at tubig of course wag mo maliitin ang mga ganitong bagay. It's frustrating when you're paying right and on time, then bawal magreklamo? She has the voice. Ang mga ordinaryong taong tulad ko hindi pinapakinggan kahit magreklamo
DeleteSi Carla unhappy? Baka ikaw yan, what you say is a reflection of yourself dba? Mahiya ka wala ka ngang kapera pera
DeleteI wish her well.
DeleteIkaw nga nagrereklamo sa problema ng ibang tao. Sino mas malungkot sa inyo? 1:26
DeleteAba dapat lang mag reklamo. Nagbabayad siya. Kung ikaw gusto mo magtapon ng pera mo kasi takot ka mag reklamo bahala ka. Pera niya yan tama lang yan
DeleteCarla unhappy? Muntik na buti na lang naka alis siya doon sa ex. She looks happy
DeleteAlam kasi nya na may platform sya at voice para magsalita. Compare sa mga taong hindi kilala. Wais lang na ginagamit nya mga yun. And about sa animals naman. Ganun sya kadedicated sa animal rights. Nakikita ko sya nagcocomment talaga sa mga groups para magtanung.
Deleteperfect ba buhay mo? bawal mag reklamo?
Delete1:26 She has all the right to complain! Nag babayad sya ng maayos but was not given the proper service. She has all the right to tell the world how her narcissist ex treated her pets. Kahit ako mawawalan ng gana sa partner ko kung salbahe sya sa mga alaga ko, baka sya pa ang ikadena ko at ikulong sa cage!
DeleteTotoo naman palpak yang converge at prime water no! Tama lang i call out yang mga yan.mabagal service ng converge at tong prime water di nga makapag bigay ng maayos na tubig tas lakas maningil
DeleteAng hilig nyo kasi sa narrative na dapat tahimik, submissive at suffering in silence dapat ang babae.
DeleteNagbabago ba ang tao ganyan na pati pets takot sa ex niya. May sira na sa ulo ang nananakit sa hayop.
ReplyDeleteI’m glad she’s speaking out. Most abused partners stay because they tend to think they can change the other person. The abusive partner guilt trips them too. I’m glad she’s out.
ReplyDeleteThough it took her almost 8 yrs, yeahh.. I'm glad she's finally fre
Delete4:34 Almost 8 years with a degree in psychology, and latin honors to boot? Uhhh...I find that a bit sus 🤔 Especially given the timing of her saying these things. Dahil ba masaya na yung ex nya, ngayon sisiraan na nya?🤔
Delete7:05 count yourself lucky na hindi mo maintindihan ang trauma at experiences nung mga abused.
DeleteYes she has a degree in psychology probably why she tolerated it. Trying to understand and improve the relationship.
DeleteBook smart does not mean di na pwede maging tanga sa pag ibig.
Delete7:05 i know someone na sobrang talino always accelerated, pero pinakasalan at ayaw hiwalayan ang abuser nya. May itsura din siya ha, kaya di mo masasabi na walang ibang papatol sa kanga kung iiwan nya si abuser.
Delete7:05 i know a doctor na abused by her husband. Until now. Ayaw nya iwan kse may 2 silang anak. Verbal physical you name it. Wla pang trabaho asawa nya na matino pa side line sideline lang. Kayang kaya nya tumayo sa sariling paa. Wala sa pinag aralan yan. Its what you tolerate. God knows when sya magigising.
Deletegirl, ako nga may law degree pero natolerate ko. minsan, ung mga bagay na sa tingin mo dapat o madaling gawin, yun ung mga hindi mo maiapply apply sa sarili mo. i am still stuck. lalo at andito kami ngayon sa germany, and i do not know the ins and outs. slowly, nagogets ko na ang sistema and hopefully, makawala na sa pasakit this year.
Delete7:05 Try to watch Dr. Ramani's videos about narcissism. And you will get your answer.
Delete705 huh how shallow one gets! Take ka ng psychology 101 gurl at ng maintindihan mo where Carla is coming from!
DeleteYubg 2 ex nya from showbiz happy family life na sya ganyan pa rin. So sino kaya ang may problem?
Delete11:35 Tapos na po ako sa Psych 101, matagal na. Kaya nga nagtataka ako kasi di lang 101 tinapos ni Carla, buong Psych degree meron sya pero pinagtiisan nya isang narc diumano🤷
DeleteCarla is healing! Go, girl! Your life, your story to tell.
ReplyDeleteThat is so true about narcissists. They can appear to be good to people/animals for show and then abuse them in their own homes.
ReplyDeleteAll I know narc people never like pets! Di nila gusto sa bahay. Un un.
DeleteHala, so my MIL is narc? Super bait at iba pinapakita nya sa relatives nya kesa sa mga kasama sa bahay. Ganun din sa pets pag may ibang tao mabait sya kinakausap nya pero ayaw nya pala talaga ng pets sa bahay sinisiraan sa ibang tao yung alagang hayop pinapagalitan nya pag wala yung anak nya hahaha
DeleteAgree on this. My father cultivated an image of a good man na madaling lapitan ng tulong. Pero sa own family salbahe.
DeleteWhy post now? Kala ko ba naka move on na? Bat hindi mo pa tinodo nuon ang pasabog after the breakup?
ReplyDeletePakialam mo sa timeline nya! Gawa ka din sariling timeline mo.
DeleteLet her be, maybe it's her way of healing.
DeleteAt 1:34 healing is forever. Ask a ptsd survivor. They get triggers here and there.
Deletemasaya na kasi si ex kaya gusto nya magingay. obviously she isnt happy and shes using the story of her dogs to talk about her ex.. The dogs might have been traumatized not only because of her ex but because of whatever fights they had that the dogs heard, theyre very sensitive to noise
DeleteBakit ba affected buhay mo?
Delete2.40 Howd you know that he is the ex she is referring to? And if he is, why would she be bitter about a partner who is abusive to dogs? Because if he is that way, hindi malayong abusive din yan sa kanya in due time. They were in their honeymoon stage when they separated so hindi pa nasasagad yun tao, but sa kinatagalan sigurado lalabas ang tunay na ugali namakakatikim din si carla. These people moves in a cycle
DeletePag masama ka sa mga littlest things, malaking percentage na masama talaga ugali mo
2:40 ngayon lang nagsalita c Carla kasi may mga taong katulad mo. Her ex will be exposed anyway. 🤷🏾♀️
DeleteBakit isa lang ba ex ni Carla at isa lang matic ang naiisip nyo?? lol
DeleteIneeducate nya mga tao by experience coz she's an animal activist.
Delete2:40 tama kah. Pnay salita na nya puro patama na noon pa hanggang ngayon.
DeleteThat guy is really a weirdo. If dogs don’t like you something is off. Although I think Carla should stop talking about him and move on, that guy really has a manipulative aura.
ReplyDeleteMajor red flag pag ang human and abusive sa pets. Para sa akin, grounds na agad yan for divorce.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness! 😩
ReplyDeleteIt’s ok now Carla. Ex na sya. And to all bashers let her reveal the truth. Yaan niyo na.
ReplyDeleteHirap syang maka-move up to now. Kasi panay post pa rin nya ng mga heartaches nya tungkol kay EX. Sad…😢😢😢
ReplyDeleteInterpretation mo yan eh. Walang pakialaman. Just don't read news about her. Easy peasy
DeleteMedyo agree
Delete2:15 Nag agree ka sa sarili mong comment.
DeleteWe cope differently. Just leave her alone. All she needs is listening ears
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DeleteMay narinig siguro si Carla kaya nag-react sya.
DeleteAGREEE!!!
DeletePansin ko rin. Agree!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteOo nga ‘no! Tama ka!! AGREE!👍
DeleteAbusive pala si ex sa mga aso? Nku red flag at no no talaga kapag ang isang tao walang puso sa mga hayop.
ReplyDeleteI was in Bora 2 months ago in a resto and beside me was a group of lawyers..bilang isang maritess im under obligation to just eat and listen HAHAHA and one of the chikas i heard from the group is pinagtalunan pa nila ung custody ng dogs. Lumaban pa tlga ng custody just to stress the girl. Then this comment of carla. Textbook narc nga ex nya.
ReplyDeleteLahat naman tayo my reklamo, sa kanya nga lang Sinasabi nya talaga at artista sya kaya mapapansin ng buong mundo..kahit nga mainit ang panahon nag rereklamo tayo, pag malamig naman nagrereklamo padin tayo, pag umuulan nag rereklamo na muulan, pag mainit ang araw, aay ang init init naman...d na alam ng Diyos kung san sya lulugar pero sya padin mag dedisisyon ...
ReplyDeleteSa comments that says why is she still posting, ang tagal na nun. She's probably just really started to heal now. It takes a very long time to recover from that kind of relationship.
ReplyDeleteAgree
DeleteI hope she will heal after this… the more she talk about the ex, the more she’ll never forget her horrible past… thats the start of depression…
ReplyDelete7 years na ginagayan si Carla and fur babies niya, mahirap kalimutan ang trauma and hindi niya rin maiiwasan magalit pag naaalala ang ginawa sa kanila. Ang pinakaworse part is yung guilt na bakit ba siya naniwala na magbabago ang ex niya, nadamay pa ang fur babies niya.
DeleteMy ex abused our family dog - hitting his face when he barked, kicking him down the stairs, taping his snout shut. He never changed. He went as far as hitting my son's dog with a pipe and killing the poor dog with 5 bullets. He lives scot-free but still miserable even with all his wealth.
ReplyDeleteVictims although have been quiet for a long time, may sometimes speak out even in their death beds. I have so many confessions about my elderly patients how they were abused when they were young.. by gangs, friends, partners.. and sometimes.. their own family. We should not dismiss them. Minsan, all we need to do is listen. Again, healing takes forever. The trauma doesn’t really leave you easily.
ReplyDeleteMay friend ako namamasyal lang kami tapos may stray dog bigla nya sinipa! After that diko na sya friend to these innocent animals tapos stray na nga hirap na nga sasaktan no way I don't like people na ganun
ReplyDeleteNagkataon lang na artista sya and just like any of us, may mga rants din sa socmed. Yung iba nga ginawa ng diary ang socmed. Let her speak or complain para na din sa iba na nakakaranas ng poot services. Hello, ak9 nga panay reklamo sa maynilad at meralco sa taas ng charges na di mo alam king san kung pano nangyari yun.
ReplyDeleteI can't believe some people can be abusive to pets.I hope Carla move on soon and find herself a good partner.
ReplyDeleteGood hiwalay na kayo ni ex. I would do the same thing hiwalayn ko din. Dogs over human
ReplyDeleteTo each his own but personally people who say animals over humans blindly..may something wrong din sa kanila. Kung ako i will assess muna kung ano yung issue.
DeleteBakit ang bitter pa rin nya? Ateng may bagong pamilya na ex mo. For their peace of mind and for you, please lang, manahimik ka na.
ReplyDeleteDe ikaw wag magbasa about her. O kaya ikaw manahimik.
DeleteShe did not mention any name though, that makes you an assumera.
DeleteYes. Pansin ko sa kanya. Puro na lang reklamı. Tapos puro post sa IG about relationships blah blah. Almost 4 years na. Naka moved on na lahat nang naging ex niya. Pero siya ayan stuck parin sa mga ex niya. Kaya wala siyang naging matinong relasyon meron siyang but it na baggage. Hindi na lang siya mag focus sa bago niya daw na dine date. Kung meron nga. 😂
DeleteBitter magsabi nang totoo? Wala naman masama mag share nang story. Ang dapat manahimik ay yung mga abuser at mga nang totolerate like you.
DeleteBitter ba yang kumportable na nga sya talking about these things, to the public pa?? Ikaw nga magshare ng trauma mo sa public.
DeleteI can easily dispose a guy who is mean to animals without any regret. That's a deal breaker for me.
ReplyDeletethats her side of the story.
DeleteYes and dont listen or participate if you choose to side with the ex. It is her story. Not yours not mine. Let her be
DeleteOne of my biggest regret yung pinafoster ko sa ex ko mga dogs ko nung nagkaproblem kami sa inuupahan namin from healthy dogs naging emaciated, daming garapata at galisin within a month, binawi ko sobrang gutom na gutom sila awang awa ako. Basta kasama ko sila tiisin na lang ang hirap.
ReplyDeleteAyan na namn si carla after mgrant ng mga utilities provider. Aso at ex naman. Toxic!
ReplyDeleteIkaw din, bash ka ng bash for nothing, At least si Crala may pakinabang ang pang rereklamo. Eh ikaw??
DeleteHahaha. Akala ko nga sa electricity provider na next, sa ex pala.
Deleteidol mo hindi makamoveon hirap niyan ahhaha 6:13
DeleteDifferent strokes for different folks. Some people might find it easy to move on from a traumatic situation, some don’t. Carla’s Carla’s probably still in the middle of moving on but is already in the process of healing.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry Carla but if I see someone abuse my dog on first occasion, it's a no straightaway. I wouldn't wait 7 years and have my dogs traumatized from repetitive abuse.
ReplyDeleteAt 5:29 good for you. You seem logical. Easier said than done. When the abused stayed with their abuser, they relied on fear due to threats. Carla is an animal lover. She is also a nice person. She’s one of those who tries to see the goodness in you first. She was madly in love obviously.. and threatened. Ever been with a narcissist? Nicer people always seemed to be their targets because they are easier to manipulate.
DeleteThank you Carla. You gave me a reason to leave.
ReplyDeleteShe was my client during the pandemic maalaga siya sa pets niya except sa ex niya. Wala masydo care yung Guy lahat inaasaha niya kay Carla ang mga aso nila pati gastos din sa pets niya. I know kasi siya nag babayad sa akin through gcash. Hahah SKL lang now kasi wala na siya sa QC hinde na niya sa QC nakatira now SKL hahahaa
ReplyDeleteSus. Evet heard of joint account? Ang mga lalaki natural na hindi nila responsibledad ang mga ganyan sa mga babae bila inaasa ang mga baharın, mag pa groom nang mga alaga nila. From what I heard si Carla ang nag ha handle nang mga ganyan, eh di natural siya ang magbabayad, siya ang Maliki pag deal diba. 😂 marami karing kaek ekan.
DeleteTalaga ba, Carla? Sure ka na hindi kayo pareho ng EX mo? Kahit hindi mo pa sya nagiging BF e self righteous ka na, you complain and make a fuss about everything. Remember that condo you were selling and how condescending you were to that person who asked for the price? Tinarayan mo LOL. And on the contrary, narcs can be pet lovers too. Narcissists may seek pets for unconditional love, fulfilling their need for constant validation.
ReplyDeleteTalaga ba gurl! Inaano ka ba ni C? Bat G na G ka sa kanya? Feeling perfect huh!
DeleteShe's Stu&id for staying that long in an abusive relationship. Never magmamahal ng tao ang abusive na tao sa mga hayop.
ReplyDeleteLol e di ikaw na matalino and was never stupid in your life
DeleteHirap maniwala sa isang babaeng palaging tama ang tingin sa sarili nya, never nag apologize ever at never nakinig sa payo ng iba. E di ikaw na perfect! Naalala ko na naman tuloy yung pag iwan nya kay Geoff noong dahil nagkakagusto na sya kay Tom. Sya pa rin ang bida sa storya nya. tsk!
ReplyDeleteKorek. Not that im victim blaming pero naalala ko to. Meron pa nga interview c Gina Alajar about Carla, her dislike to her how Carla treater her son Geoff.
DeleteHirap maging hater, lakas maka judge wala naman alam sa buhay ng ibang tao.
DeleteAt 6:52 what if she’s alright right? She doesn’t have to apologize for being herself.
DeleteMadali magsalita kapag tapos na pero mas mahirap ba ung harap harapan inaabuso ka? at pinaabot pa talaga ng 7 years Ms. Carla.
ReplyDeletedi alam ang gas lighting?
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DeleteOh my :D :D :D Let me guess CA, he is abusive, controlling, dead beat, misogynist, etc... and you lived with him for 7 long years :) :) :) That's called a martyr ;) ;) ;)
ReplyDeleteSino kaya to? parang tatlo ang kilala nating exes nya.
ReplyDeleteButi nlang nkahanap ng mas better at masaya na ex nito
ReplyDeleteChoice mo maging toxic anteh
ReplyDeleteAno kaya next irrant ni bakla
ReplyDeleteSyempre victim blaming nnmn mga tao d2
ReplyDeleteTotoo naman na love is blind. Sa mga hindi na in love ng todo hindi makakarelate pero nakaka bobo talaga ang pag ibig.
ReplyDeleteDi mo makikita sa itchura talaga ng tao ang totoong na katauhan nya. Ang bait ng itchura ng X. Pero sa totoong buhay monster pala. Madami ang ganyan. Witnessed one myself!
ReplyDeletejusko carla dami mong ebas tahimik na nga ex mo at never kang siniraan. For what ang pag rrant?
ReplyDeleteDapat tumigil na lang sya sa kakareklamo at pagpapahapyaw o pagpapasaring. Nagmumuka na kasi syang bitter at kawawa.
ReplyDeleteBaka hindi nya naisip if she keep on pointing her finger to her ex she didn’t realise ; she’s pointing the rest of her fingers towards her. She might try self reflection bakit lahat ex nya gumanda lovelife and family life ng napahiwalay sa kanya. Isn’t it time for denominator checking? And get rid of the sulsuleras.
ReplyDeleteSa laban nya sa primewater and converge, pabor ako pero dito masyado lang maraming oras at naghahanap ng away. Pets mo sila and you cannot expect na he will treat them the same way as you. Since animal lover sya and una palang napansin nya na hindi swak si guy, you need to cut ties na e you enabled the situation din dahil you stayed. Ayaw ko manisi pero she has a part din in all of that.
ReplyDeleteVictim blaming. Kung ayaw ni ex ng pets bakit hindi siya ang umalis instead of traumatizing her dogs? May ginawa si ex kaya natatakot ang dogs ni Carla sa kanya
Delete1:14 victim blaming bs..yan lang kasi alam mong pang reply. Yun nga yun, hindi sila match e bakit pa sila nag stay together? Since si Carla yung may pet and kung nakita nyang na maltreat yung pets nya o di bet ni ex ang pets, dapat pumalag sya. 7 years and hindi nya na realize? Wala naman power imbalance sa kanila. She can freely cut the relationship. Kaya unfair din na iblame nya lahat yun kay ex.
DeletePero may dogs din ung ex eh nakay carla un and always naman nla ksama un dogs nla lalo ung rescued dogs ni Carla. Hmmmm di ko naisip na ayaw pala ni ex sa pets kc super alaga naman sya sa dogs nla sa mga vlogs ni carla
DeletePrimewater, Converge, Ex. Sino naman kaya bukas? Hahaha
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