I have been this way just a couple of years ago, all of the above. I dont give a flying F anymore to those people who caused me pain and offered me nothing but negativity. In the past they were always sarcastic and throwing insults not just to me but to my kids. I realized tbat no matter what I say or do, they will always have negative comments about me. I also think that they were either jealous of me or they simply dont like me and pretemding to be nice in front of me. If they ever try to be rude again to me I swear I am ready to fight back this time.I will no longer let them walk all over me.
As it should. Walk away especially when they make you feel like your feelings don’t exist, like you weren’t hurt, or like the negative things they said about you were harmless. When people dismiss your emotions and refuse to take accountability, that’s already your sign. You don’t have to keep explaining yourself to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.At the end of the day, what truly matters is the welfare of the family you’ve created. Your peace, your marriage, and the emotional safety of your home should always come first. You’re not obligated to keep showing up for people who disrupt that just to keep the peace on their side. Protect what you’ve built, choose boundaries over guilt, and rememberwalking away doesn’t mean you don’t care. It just means you care enough about yourself and your family to stop tolerating disrespect.
Go Queen Jen! 💅
ReplyDeletePeace beke peke
ReplyDeleteI should learn from this too! 2026 i will do this na rin hahaha
ReplyDeleteGaano pa kalayo kulang pa ba ilang yrs mo na silang d nakikita
ReplyDeleteE bat pa nagpost? Distance pla. Bagay sila magasawa parehas corny
ReplyDeleteHari ng angas ang asawa nyan.
DeleteI have been this way just a couple of years ago, all of the above. I dont give a flying F anymore to those people who caused me pain and offered me nothing but negativity. In the past they were always sarcastic and throwing insults not just to me but to my kids. I realized tbat no matter what I say or do, they will always have negative comments about me. I also think that they were either jealous of me or they simply dont like me and pretemding to be nice in front of me. If they ever try to be rude again to me I swear I am ready to fight back this time.I will no longer let them walk all over me.
ReplyDeleteThis! I did the same, cut off my toxic families and my life has never been this peaceful. Gaan ng buhay!
DeleteE pake naman ni jen sa kanila ang focus nya si dennis at kids that's all what matters
ReplyDeleteAs it should. Walk away especially when they make you feel like your feelings don’t exist, like you weren’t hurt, or like the negative things they said about you were harmless. When people dismiss your emotions and refuse to take accountability, that’s already your sign. You don’t have to keep explaining yourself to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.At the end of the day, what truly matters is the welfare of the family you’ve created. Your peace, your marriage, and the emotional safety of your home should always come first. You’re not obligated to keep showing up for people who disrupt that just to keep the peace on their side. Protect what you’ve built, choose boundaries over guilt, and rememberwalking away doesn’t mean you don’t care. It just means you care enough about yourself and your family to stop tolerating disrespect.
ReplyDeleteSo it means totoo na di sila magkasundo ng pamilya ni D
ReplyDeleteLuh slow ka ba? Para sa mga gaya mo yang post nya at sa mga hanashi nyong mga mosang
DeleteMinsan choosing distance is healthier than keeping company with people who only take, pretend and betray.
ReplyDeleteWe all know women loves chaos :D :D :D That's why they chose bad boys over boring guys ;) ;) ;)
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