Thursday, August 28, 2014

Leaving an Audacious Impression

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Boorish Actor (BA) is at it again! Since he started his career, BA has always been the subject of rumors of his rudeness. While BA never addressed these rumors earlier, his actions in several occasions with fans and even towards a showbiz insider that were caught on camera had to be dealt with asap. Thus, there was no more denying that BA has some character problems, which might eventually cost him his career.

However, fans are still fond of BA, and disregard whatever people are telling about him until they meet him in person and get a dose of his disregard for fans. While senior stars stress that they are not where they are now if not for their fans, BA, has his own attitude towards fans.

A few days ago, BA was seen dining in a restaurant with some company that included his screen partner (SP). A fan, who was also dining with her family in the same place, politely approached and asked BA if she could have a photo with him. In a loud voice and sarcastic tone, BA replied, “Hindi puwede! Kumakain kami!” Shocked, the fan walked away and felt so bad as she did not deserve such rude treatment.

Now, people who saw what happened could not understand why BA could not even spend a few seconds to post for a photo with a fan, who was wearing a traditional Muslim outfit. What they could not understand is if BA has something against posing with Muslims or if he were in a bad mood at that time. At that point, BA should have at least shown good manners as someone had the guts to approach him. The restaurant is a bit pricey for the regular fans, and thus, people who dine are the ones who can afford to pay its high prices. Hence, the fan who approached him might not have been just anyone else. Regardless of the fan’s identity, BA was still rude. While BA might have wanted his privacy, a polite refusal would have been appreciated, instead of his crassness.  

It’s just too bad that the network is not doing enough to address this bad attitude of BA towards his fans. Is BA too confident because his last movie with SP was a box office, and one of their films was actually praised by critics? In such a short time, BA is already drowning in a little glass of water, and still does not know how to deal with fans without a camera in front of him.

 You can be strong and true to yourself without being rude or loud. – Paula Radcliffe

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108 comments:

  1. BA - Xtra SP - K akin na ulit ang gold medal! -straight na valedictorian :)

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    1. yung dialogue nya, according to FP, na "Hindi puwede, kumakain kami" is plain RUDE...Tapos muslim pa pala yung fan at diner din sa pricey resto na ito...Ibig sabihin, hindi rin basta-basta customer lang itong fan na 'to...maybe, galing sya sa well-off muslim family tapos binara ng isang artista?...And to think na maraming naka-witness sa rudeness na 'to, huh...Gee, tapos, ang daming FANTARDS na nagtatanggol sa kanya?...Ano sila, UTO-UTO???

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    2. True! Baka princess of the south pala yon... nakakakiya si borish actor...

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    3. I get it. Di mo kelangan itagalog

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    4. wala na bang follow-up dun sa sinabi nyang "hindi puede, kumakain kami"?...halimbawa, "sige, pero kung puede, mamya na lang pagkatapos ng pagkain namin"...o di ba, mas magandang sagot ang ganyan, hindi nakaka-offend sa na-starstruck na fan???

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    5. si X nga!...kalat na kalat na ang BI na yan sa social media, ngiiiiiiiiii!

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    6. walang duda, si X nga yan!...hindi pa rin nagbabago ang masamang ugali...mahirap nang baguhin pag yun na ang naturalesa nya.

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    7. dati, yung ka LT nya, hindi masama ang ugali sa mga fans...ngayon nagkahawahan na silang dalawa...pareho na silang may problema sa pakikitungo sa mga fans...at sa media people din.

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  3. Eh kumakain naman kasi eh. Minsan itong mga fans ang kukulit din eh. Pero i don't like him pa din kahit anong gawin nya. so go ahead you can bash him all u want! hahaha

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    1. The point is.. pwede naman nyang tanggihan si fan in a NICE way po.

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    2. Tama rin naman kumakain. Sana yung fan hinayaang matapos kumain at dun nag approach. Kung minsan wala ring utak mga fans na ipipilit yung gusto nila kahit maalangan ang star. Pero ang pintas ko ke X as identified by most is dapat naging magalang siya. Sabihin in a nice way maghintay pagkatapos nilang kumain hindi yung pasigaw and akala mo level up na siya eh kungdi sa screen partner niya baka laos na siya ng di tumatanyag as in da who sa dami ng artista sa network. Besides careful siya ang daming fans na niluluto yung screen partner niya sa equally tanyag sa status ng popularity ng kanyang partner. Guwapo, marunong umarte and makarinyo sa mga fans and kapanalig sa industriya. Baka he will later find himself alone and struggling to be identified.

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    3. Yes. Manners sa harap ng pagkain. Tao din mga yan, gusto din nila naenjoy ang food. Grabe naman kasi ung magpapapic ka alam mong kumakain pa, di ba mahintay na patapusin? Di naman rude sinabi nyang di pwede, malay nyo gutom talaga.

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    4. Matulog ka na X, uutusan mo pa ang fans mo na magpa-trend ng nonsense sa twitter para bigyan ka ulit ng teleserye.

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    5. It is not about why the fan approached him whilst he was eating. It was about his rude rejection! Yes, I might say the fan went overboard in asking him to have a picture with him whilst he was still eating, but he could have told the fan to wait as he was still enjoying his food. His eating did not give him license to reply negatively to the fan. This shows how poorly her mother raised him!

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  4. Again, di porket artista wala nang karapatang mapuno. Especially pag gumastos ka nang malaki for the food and the ambiance tapos iistorbohin ka lang sa pagkain mo. Respect begets respect. Binastos siya sa pagkain nya, binastos nya rin. But he could have just said no dahil kumakain siya. Or things might be blown out of proportion. Since tahimik ang place, medyo mapapalakas ang normal mong boses.

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    1. AGREE!!! -straight na valedictorian :)

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    2. ay mali parin ang rudeness.... dapat maayos ang sagot dahil maayos din ang pag approach gets mo!???

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    3. At saka baka may period si ateng nung araw na yun! Isang malaking X pa din pagiging rude nya.

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    4. Anon 12:20 aka PA/manager ni aktor aktoran X - matulog ka na.

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    5. Ganun? Bastusan na? Halerrrr... Pwede naman sumagot ng maayos dahil maayos ang pagtanong. Minsan minsan lang makita ng mga fans ang isang artista kaya dapat maintindihan rin ang excitement dba.

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    6. "Binastos siya sa pagkain nya, binastos nya rin" anon 12:20 ano daw?? So kung binastos ka, babastusin mo rin, ganun? Bastusan galore? How many seconds does it take to snap a picture?

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    7. @12:30 Some kulit fans deserve rudeness para magtanda. gets mo rin??!

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    8. @12:30 hindi ba rude yung kumakain tapos eestorbohin mo? Yes, they might be artistas but they deserve some privacy din. they're not our property. gets mo yun?

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    9. Fantard ka lang kasi. Hindi mo magets yung punto.

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    10. ANON 12.40AM - Ambience and ambiance are different spellings of the same word, referring to the special atmosphere or mood of a particular environment.
      The two are interchangeable in general use.

      Please research bago magcorrect

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    11. Typical retort ng mga nagbubulag-bulagang fans ni X. Maraming excuses and rationalizations even though maraming witness ang nakakita. Siguro nga until ma-experience nyo for yourselves ang rudeness niya, patuloy pa rin kayo magbubulag-bulagan.

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    12. Ang binastos sa pagkain hug ibinuho sa mukha nya yung food, di pa din tama maging rude, Hindi comparable yun sinasabi mo

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    13. we were not there as witnesses.. we really didnt know how x delivered the words.. so it is hard to judge..

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    14. But considerin his background, his reputation and all the other news associated sa kanya, ganyan talaga ang personality nya, it's not just THAT specific instance haller

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  5. X? kaw naman ba yan..

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  6. Dali naman. Walang mas mahirap? Lol.. Makakain na nga Lang ng extra f lol

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  7. May movie pala siyang kumita....buti na lang di ko pinanood.

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    1. Hello! Dalawa na po ata with his screen partner.

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    2. Korek. Hindi sya kawalan sa buhay mo dahil wala namang sustansya.

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  8. Kiting kumakain istorbohin bh naman...ngbabayad ng Mahalo Para sa privacy

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    1. Typical fantard defense. Artista eh, masanay sya. Kung gusto nyang walang umiistorbo sa kanya, mag-quit sya sa showbiz.

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    2. Matulog ka na X, baka may truth or dare session pa kayo ni E at nung dalawang male friends nyo, baka gusto mo ulit maka-score ng kiss from them.

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  9. Lol . Ntawa ako. Cguro na shock yun fan!

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  10. Lesson learned: tigilan nyo pag papa picture sa kanya!

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    1. Tama..wag nang pansinin pag nakita..ordinary lang face niyan..di naman big star.. kung magpa picture naman ako dun nasa mga kilala at malaking pangalan sa showbiz..mas accomodating pa. kaysa mga starlet

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    2. Korek! Piliin nyo kasi ang idolize nyo!

      Para naman super hunk yun.


      Malapet na syang malaos

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  11. hay naku x! ikw na tlga!!! sabit kanalang nga kay k kung maakaarte wagas... kung ayaw m ok lng naman bsta maayos ang sagot... arte m... kakaimbyerna k!.

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  12. Dapat kasi patapusin munang kumain yung artista bago magpapicture. Proper etiquette lang naman yon. Kung pumayag siyang magpapicture tapos may iba pang fans na sumunod, hindi na makakatapos kumain si artista. Sayang naman ang mahal ng bayad sa resto.

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  13. Wag na bigysn ng teleserye nang magtanda. Lol

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    1. bakit may teleserye ba sya now????? lol

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  14. Kumakain kasi. Huwag kalimutan ang manners. Maano ba maghintay lang. Kain ka muna or kilig kilig habang sinusulyapan siya.

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    1. Eh paano naman yung manners nya?

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    2. Buti sana kung rude yung fan. Polite naman nag-approach ah. Kailan naging rude ang paglapit sa isang tao, even if kumakain. Buti sana kung nasa kubeta, yun ang rude. Saang kultura mo narinig na bawal kausapin ang kumakain??

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    3. Paulit-ulit ang sagot ng fantard! Hilig nyo i-rationalize ang behavior ng idol nyong baluktot ang ugali. Bakit ang ibang artista hindi naman ganyan?

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  15. Bute nga .,excited kasi ,yan nga nga

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    1. Aha, ikaw siguro yung kanina pa paulit-ulit ng depensa dyan sa mayabang na X na yan, naga-anonymous ka pa para kunwari marami?

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  16. Aw! Si X again? Tsk tsk. Kung artista ka dapat tanggapin mo na any where you go pwedeng may magapproach sayo. Pasalamat nga sya may fans sya, eh makakain ba sya sa mahal na resto kung di sila sinuportahan ng fans? Walang utang na loob. Just saying.

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  17. Would you like to be disturbed while eating in a restaurant? Come on! These actors are also normal human beings. Just because they are public figures, it does not mean that we can disturb them anytime. Give these people a break.

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    1. So papano pag lumapit yung waiter, sisigawan nya rin kasi kumakain sya? And again, papanong naging istorbo ang saglit lang na picture? Paulit-ulit ang spiel mo at paulit-ulit ng post para kunwari maraming kakampi.

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    2. Tama na X. Dont defend yourself. Haha.

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    3. @1:50 wala ka din sa rason. Malamang waiter un. Natural lalapit.

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  18. Hmmm....para sa akin, simple lang yan. if he's really that boorish/rude...stop patronizing him...so he can suffer the consequences.
    What I like about this scenario is, he is consistent...walang mayaman, walang mahirap ;-)
    Kung tutoong may "breeding" yong "fan" na yon, he/she wouldn't have asked for a photo-op especially if BA was eating...VERY INCONSIDERATE!

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    1. Dinagdagan mo pa ng prologue pero same old fantard defense. You deserve to be treated how the fan was treated, para mapahiya ka rin at para ma-gets mo ang pagiging walang hiya ng idol mong hambog.

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  19. well, the fan should have also shown some respect to the actor specially so since he's eating...simply one is an actor does not mean that he has no right to enjoy his meal in peace without 'istorbo'. if at all, the insensitive one is the fan.

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    1. Basahin mo nga ulit. How was she even rude? Dahil lang lumapit? May exclusive no-approach zone si actor pag kumakain? Hinila ba ang damit nya, ginulo ba yung pagkain nya, nagwala ba yung fan for you to call the fan "rude"? Hindi diba?

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  20. Ang hambog na X.pwede naman sabihin ng konteng manners pwd mamaya kasi kumakain pa kami.hay naku kahit kailan kaya nganga ka ngayon eh.yabang mo kasi kung di kanaman nadikit Kay K San kaba ngayon.hambog!

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  21. Notorious talaga yang Si X sa pagiging bastos. Masyado ng feeling eto, if not for K wala naman sya. Remember kung pano din Nya trineat yung ka look alike ni K sa isang affair sa Lugar ng mga chinito?

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  22. X ito.

    Eh ano naman reaction ni K nung ganun sinabi niya?

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  23. It was not just casual dining. It was a business proposition done in a high end resto.

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    1. Woshooo, eh ang sabi nga sa BI eh dinner with the family of his screen partner. Sino niloloko nyo??

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  24. In this case, mejo understandable nmn ksi nga kumakain dba. Kpag ksi nsa resto ang mga artista wag n guluhin since private time yun. Mgnakaw nlng kau ng pics s knila hbang tsumichibog. Hahaha. And for benefit of the doubt, bka nmn hndi nmn nya tlga sinigawan pero npalakas lng ang boses since if pricey resto yun thimik nga ang lugar n yun and mririnig tlga ng bystanders and take it as if sinigawan. Hehe. Btw, I have a friend n naging make up artist dti ni X wen he was just starting. Around 2008 or 2009 dw yun and it was for a magazine shoot and according to him suplado n cya and snobbish. If ganun tlga cya khit hndi p sikat den hndi nkakapagtaka kung suplado cya hanggang ngaun. Dpat pinagsasabihan cya ng network or kung sino mn responsible s knya like handler pra malessen ang pgkasutil. Ksi mukhang nature nya na ang pagsusuplado eh. Kailangan cya maturuan ng PR and mkipagplastican dhil artista cya. Kailangan nya makisalamuha s ayaw at s gusto nya.

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    1. Asus, inulit mo nanaman ang script nyong fantards. Walang sustansya, at hindi adequate ang substantiation.

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    2. Ang dami mong dskdak, 1:15, kahit wrong timing pa yun fan unacceptable pa rin ang pambabastos nya, pwede namang sabihing later na lang.

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  25. Kasalanan ng fan!

    Dapat mawala na ang mga shunga na fans para mawala na din siya!

    Yun ang sinpleng sagot

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    1. "Dapat mawala na ang mga shunga na fans." Like you, fantard. wahaha!

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    2. Agree. Ang dami kasing mga fantards na sobra makaidolo ng artista. Yan ang napapala nyo!

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    3. I understand na it is supposed to be eating time, private time or whatever you call it. Pero, isa yan sa mga expected sa kanila bilang "artista". Marami namang artista that despite having private time wont bother to give in to a fan's request. Well, sana di na lang sya nagartista kung di sya handa sa mga ganyang bagay.

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  26. Sa mga artista, they should respect their fans. I know kailangan din ni X ng privacy pero hindi ito ang first time na rude sya sa fans nya. Sa mga fans, mag set din ng boundaries kung kailan pwede lapitan and magpa-picture sa artista. Also, wag nalang magpa-picture kay X. Di pa kayo natuto. Lol

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  27. Fans should respect the "privacy" of actors in public places, in this case, he was having his meal. The fan could have waited after he finished eating and approached the actor afterwards. But it's still rude on the part of the actor... he could have politely said no or told the fan to wait until he finish eating.

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  28. kelangan talaga pasigaw? di ba pdeng mahinahon at sabihing kumakain pa po kami "mamya ill get back to you once we're done for our dinner".... GANUN DAPAT!!! mayaman at gwapo nga, wala namang manners at poor attitude, wala ding kwenta lahat yun. remember "your attitude shows how your parents raised you". simpleng GMRC hindi naaral nung elementary? very teribble...

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  29. Kasi naman mga fans alam ng kumakain konteng konsederasyon naman.pero etong X kahit kailan mayabang talaga.pwede naman pagsabihan ang fan ng mahinahon.kalalaking tao maldito

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    1. eh rude naman kasi si fan. walang manners.

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  30. Sana si BA, sinabihan ng maayos si fan. Pwede naman niyang sabihin na "Ok lang ba mamaya na? Kumakain kasi ako" Mahirap bang sabihin un? Since polite naman ang pag approach ni fan, so dapat polite din ang pagkakasabi ni BA. Anyway, problema na niya yan. Ubusin niya ang mga fans niya. AHAHA.

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  31. Di siguro siya good investment kaya iba ka love team ng "on screen partner" niya sa teleserye.

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  32. Obviously, JEJE FANTARD yung fan!! Bakit ka kasi magpapapicture kung kumakain yung tao? And bakit kasi ang hilig hilig nila magpapicture sa mga artista? May mga fans day naman yang mga yan, or pumunta sila sa mga Shows nung mga artista at udn magpapicture, irespeto din naman nila yung private/social life nung mga artista.

    Pero yung Artista sa BI din naman, sana pinagsabihan nalang ng maayos yung fantard.

    -iamRP

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  33. how ironic boorish ang attitude pero malamya magsalita pati kumilos.. even sa movie nila ni SP yung sigaw nya parang may lamya factor pa rin.. i don't like him, he exudes this mayabang na aura.. hindi naman bagay sa kanya kasi hindi straight ang jacket nya.. lol

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  34. literal na malaki ang ulo.. lol

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  35. Tayo lang nman ang lumalapit at walang paki kung kumakain o nagpaprivate moment ang mga celebs. Sa Hollywood, normal na ang masungit na celeb kaya most fans keep a distance but continue to patronize the projects . May attitude prob man o wala, wag na kasi magexpect na babait sila sa atin. Tao lang. Yung mga fans nitong guy, rabid din ang suporta. Di ako kaaway pero may diperensiya rin kayo. Kahit sino namang artista, bigyan natin ng espasyo. Tao lang ang mga yan.

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  36. BA= D
    SP=K

    Kaya i really hope mas sumikat pa talaga si J&N. Buti pa yung si J, ang humble.

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    1. teh pakibaligtad mga sinusuot mo naliligaw ka powh.naengkanto ka ata.

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    2. Ui may naligaw!!! Ang layo ng sagot ni ate

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    3. ate naliligaw ka. di lang 4th row, sa gate ka pumwesto!

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  37. In fairness minsan talaga wrong timing ang mga faney! Pagbigyan naman sana kasi munang lumafang bago lumapit. Im sure pag kayo kumakain tapos nilapitan kunwari ng namamalimos diba may times na itataboy nyo? Hindi lahat ng oras pagbibigyan nyo.

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  38. Yes maraming makulit na fans, it can be irritating if someone asks you for your picture while eating. BUT, it's different when you're a celebrity. This is what you signed up for. I'm not for boorish, rude fans but at least sana humindi nalang siya ng maayos. If anything, this will have a negative effect on his career and that's it. I'm sure the fan will get over it.

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  39. Pasalamat ka hindi ako yun sinigawan mo. You better be careful, you might meet your match next time and that will be the end of you. I used to be your fan.

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    1. What will you do? Mas hambog kapa. Tse! As if you can do something! Ngeekk!

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    2. @3:20 So mas mag-eeskandalo ka ganun?! Ano ipinaglalaban mo?! Susme!

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  40. Naku yang si X pareho lang ni A (si wood actor) na feeling magagaling umarte e pareho lang sila naming HAM actors. Nalulunod sa popularity.

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  41. naku wag n nga kayo makipicture sa bastos na yay feeling almighty ke yabang as if big star!!

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  42. isa sa dahilan kung bakit pumupunta sa mamahaling resto ang mga artista dito ay for privacy. madalas kasi wa pakels ang mga rich sa mga artista. nabigla si X na may fantard sya sa lugar na ganyan. madalas talaga tahimik ang mga pricey na resto kaya kahit ordinary level lang voice mo maririnig talaga ng iba.

    parehong mali si artista at si fantard. pareho silang bastos. yun lang.

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    1. Nope. Sabi sa blind item yun fan ay politely asked X for a pic or something pero ang response Nya ay isang sigaw,....napahiya tuloy yun fan na naka Muslim attire, how rude of X, kalalaki nyang Tao.....infairness Kay X Baka May PMS sya kaya nagmaldita si ateng X.

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  43. si panga. o never liked him. sumikat dahil sa partner nya na nega rin..pero lovable parin.. sana sumikat ng husto itong bagong kaf loveteam ng matauhan tong x na to

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  44. aba at nalulunod na pala sa isang basong tubig ha? lets see let us see... mark my words until you come to your senses. MALALAOS KA SA ISANG PANGYAYARING DI MO INAASAHAN hijo kaya ingat sa salita at gawa..

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  45. kung ano ang puno siya ang bunga diba? alangan naman na mamunga ng mangga ang kamias tree? gets nyo. research research pag may time

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  46. Ang mga fans din naman kasi kala mo pag-aari ang mga artista. Di naman kasi yun fans day o public event.

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  47. Umiinit ulo k sa pamintang yan every time nkkbasa ako ng BI nya.wag na sana magkaproject ang mayabng na ysn.kung hnd dhil ke K d nmn sya mkikilala.

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  48. I've been hearing rumors that he's one rude guy and to think wala pa talaga siyang napatunayan. Buti pa yung ex ni K. I saw G with his buddy sa the Fort sa isang resto. I approached him and asked for a picture with him he gladly said yes. And also thanked me after.

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  49. may ibang artista rin naman na pumapayag mag pa picture kahit ano pa ginagawa nila.anong kaibahan noon? bastos lang ang lalaking ito at nalunod sa isang basong tubig!

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  50. Eto yung diumano naglalagay ng gamot na pula sa nips nya

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  51. What some celebs don't understand is that being an "artista", you agree to the underlying terms na isa kang public figure, thus, para ka nang public property talaga. And yes, alam nila dapat na talagang mako-compromise ang private life mo no matter how private you want it to be. That's why you are paid that much because of the FANS na sumusuporta sa inyo at bumubuhay sa industry nyo. And if you don't want the money and the attention from being an "artista" then you shouldn't have become one in the first place.. As most guys have commented here, a little KINDNESS wouldn't hurt.

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